My Seduction Journey #46

MrAnderzon · 2017-08-27T02:32:17+00:00

Remember when it comes to sex you have to be selfish. Doesn't matter what she wants they never know what they want anyway.

JaspersChest · 2017-08-27T01:58:58+00:00

Do you watch porn/jack off, often? If so, that leads to ED when with real women in the flesh.

aigamithite · 2017-08-27T10:44:30+00:00

First of all, congratulations for putting in so much hard work. You are now reaping the fruit of your labor, and even though this first experience wasn't as good as you may have wanted, it's still an incredible milestone and there's so much more to come. Doesn't matter if you were lucky, she had many other suitors ready, but you were the one that took the lead so you are still ahead of everyone else. Take a step back and high five yourself.

DISCLAIMER: EVERYTHING BELOW IS SOLELY BASED ON MY EXPERIENCE AND NOTHING ELSE

Now, if you find yourself getting to much into your head, eat that pussy. Lick that shit like it's a popsickle. 5 minutes, 10 minutes, 20 minutes, doesn't matter. That always works for me. But then again I am weird as fuck and eating pussy makes me harder than getting my dick sucked.

Also for the nofap part, 2 weeks ain't much. If you are in this for the long run, you will see that there are many libidinal phases. Some days, you might feel like your dick doesn't work (hint: it does), and some days you will want to fuck anything with a vagina. That's normal and closer to the natural libido. There's a chance that after a few days from this experience, you will start seeing flashbacks from it and getting increasingly horny. Use that horniness to fuel you to get even more pussy.

kidsamurai95 · 2017-08-27T09:08:09+00:00

Hey bro, it doesn't seem like you have much going on in your life if you put so much emotional investment in woman you just meet. They're so many compatible woman out there, they will stick around but don't expect them to. Instead stay focused on your mission. You want to put your energy on bigger problems than woman's constant variation in flow of emotions. Good luck

MusicSports · 2017-08-27T05:34:12+00:00

Great job man. Keep it up. Glad to see things are improving for you.

griezez · 2017-08-27T15:19:25+00:00

I think one of the issues that you're currently dealing with right now in terms of women is that you don't have any genuine confidence in yourself at the moment. Yeah man good on you that you got laid, but bro with some real shit, who cares about that? Getting laid doesn't define you as a man, and i say this because people get laid all the time, from losers to incredibly successful men, they get laid. My point here is that this whole time you sound like you were worried about what a girl thinks about you, where you're basically trying too hard in my opinion. It's ok, we've all been there, lord knows i have when i first started trying to hook up with girls and i had no idea what i was doing. But it's also good that you got that empty feeling inside post sex, because you've finally realized that having meaningless sex is just sad, sure you feel that moment of euphoria but once it's all over and she's gone, you go back to feeling alone and empty on the inside.

Which brings me to my next point. You have to build your own genuine confidence with in yourself. Focus on yourself. Build yourself up as a man, and women will come follow. Something I've learned through time, so go study, train, get in good shape, find 1 or 2 hobbies that help make you a better person that you are incredibly passionate about and don't you care about what others will think. Also be kind and respectful to all, be honest, logical, CALM, and modest. These are all virtuous traits that will help you become a better man and help you gain confidence in yourself. You've definitely shown that you can do this since you've already decided to make a change for yourself in your life by pursuing women and trying to be more fuckable. Now comes the part where you strive to make yourself a better man.

Also I'm from brooklyn my self, where girls play a ridiculous amount of games. So seriously you shouldn't give a fuck what these girls say or want.

idontlikethisbutok · 2017-08-27T15:50:17+00:00

Told you a long time ago bro that you're chasing the wrong things and glad you came to the conclusion yourself.

It's normal to feel empty because you're chasing women validation which is a fleeting and sometimes even random thing instead on focusing on building a career and following your dreams maybe even spiritual growth, in the meantime applying rp knowledge whenever possible on every encounter.

Once you're on this path, girls will come to you anyways. They like money more than any other thing regardless of what anyone else tells you. ( I know from experience been on both sides, now I have playboy level girls flirting with me even though I'm skinny af and I'd rate myself 7)

So, my advice: do you, get money, enjoy luxury life & infinite pussy.

NewTransformer · 2017-08-27T16:33:34+00:00

Congrats! I'm glad that these entries are back. Wanna give a description of the girl haha. Also, nofap works very well the longer you are on it. 2 weeks is alot of time, but if you go the full 90 days, you'll notice more significant changes. Also, How long did you last, and did you go another round with her? You should also research how to use your fingers to pleasure her( Clit play, fingering, etc.)

rdpislove · 2017-08-27T17:37:09+00:00

You need to get goals beside hunting pussy and always remember she's not yours is just your turn so enjoy it if she ghost that fine if she doesn't that fine Keep the good work bruh

KingCanadian1 · 2017-08-28T00:38:58+00:00

How long did it take from the moment you started trying seriously to getting laid?

pherislore · 2017-08-30T01:27:07+00:00

Was talking about you today with my mate at the gym. Hope all is still well dude. Well done for going hard with this shit. Don't worry, just #next this hoe and go balls deep in a few more.

suidazai · 2017-08-27T23:16:39+00:00

How about not having sex on the first date and wait to have sex when an emotional connection is established? I have been with my girlfriend for over 3 years, and we have a great sex life. But this is because we are connected on a deep emotional and intellectual level. Also, don't be selfish in sex, communication works best for sex. I know you guys will call me beta and shit, but im confident in my sexual ability with my parter(since thats all that you guys talk about on here) Edging and maybe even a C-ring could work for your ending early.

Hjalmbere · 2017-08-28T05:03:38+00:00

Sounds like OP is feeling weltschmerz, i.e. feeling like physical reality can never satisfy the needs of the mind.

My take: So you're getting laid. Good. But you feel like there should be more to life. I'd suggest that you set up other goals(if you don't already have them) and work towards them. Don't devote your entire life to pussy.

For e.d. I recommend cold showers in morning and evening as well as red meat, eggs, brazil nuts, vitamin D and fish oil. Avvoid food with SHBG such as walnuts. Works like a charm for me. And I'm 50. The idea comes from Tim Ferris' book The 4-hour body.

Here's a non-conclusive list of foods to avvoid:

https://www.anabolicmen.com/foods-that-decrease-testosterone/

lvreddit1077 · 2017-09-01T07:22:20+00:00

I just happen to browsing RP. FYI I don't subscribe to most of what is said on this reddit. Anyways, I have one night stands about once a month and know other guys that have them often enough. After the first few, it is pretty normal to feel empty afterwards. What is happening is that you are enjoying the emotional closeness with the girl at the same time you are getting your rocks off. So when that is over then you miss that feeling of closeness. As far as getting her back for seconds, you should really evaluate how desperate you feel. You need to be cool with being alone before you get all needy with a girl. If you are cool, and just want a sex partner then you need to make sure the sex is good the first time. You can ensure that by fingering her or giving her oral after you cum. You need to make sure she cums too. If you do, she will be messaging you back when she really needs it but it is too lazy to get dressed up for a club.

slackie911 · 2017-08-27T14:55:54+00:00

Couple of things: -good on you for continuing to update your journey. Sets a good example for everyone else here. -you admit that you were lucky to get laid cuz u were in the right place at the right time (she was horny and you were there) but then u beat yourself up about not getting lucky (being in the wrong place at the wrong time). Sounds like u want a reason to either beat urself up or not congratulate urself on doing something right. -in terms of sex, just keep banging. If I come early I just go right back at it a minute later and do some serious damage cuz I've already gotten my rocks off and now I just wanna beat her shit up, as crude as that sounds.

pumear · 2017-08-28T01:18:26+00:00

you sound pretty twisted pretzel boy

Title	My Seduction Journey #46
Author	Salted_Pretzel
Upvotes	10
Comments	48
Date	August 27, 2017 1:52 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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