I spent the whole day approaching. The day was a lot better than yesterday. Right after the gym I went out and approached. I saw this asian girl on the subway platform and I immediately opened her. I used her as a warm up and I moved on.
I went to the first area and I did some approaches in that area. It was kinda tough as there wasn't much women to work in. A lot were in pairs and with their families. Still, I didn't give up I used this opportunity to use AREA 1 as a warm up.
I got one number in that area and did some more until I reached around 6 approaches. I moved on to the second area. I went to the second area but approached in another sub area. Got two numbers and I immediately hit my goal.
A part me wanted to give up and chill at a coffee shop but I wanted more and so I went out and approached and approached. I skip lunch, got a coffee androamed the area and explored others.
Got some good approaches got some bad ones. Eye contact was good with some and bad with others. It was hot and humid today in NYC. I was approaching so much that every approach became a blur afterwards. I tried to analyze my approaches after each set but my body went after the next girl and the next girl.There were times where the conversation felt flat. I'm not sure if It was the lack of water and food, the heat, or that I was on auto pilot.
In total I got around 10 numbers, about 3-4 I set up a date. I knew that the three numbers I got in the beginning wasn't going to lead to anything. I now know that in order to get dates and get better at dating I need to get at least 5+ more numbers. One of those 5+ will guarantee a date.
I was satisfied today as I got this thick asian girls number. Her face was okay but her body was what got my attention. She walked passed me and I saw her thick thighs in yoga shorts. I turned around and approached her. At the end of the interaction I told her she was attractive and I wanted to take her out for drinks.
She was flattered and said yes and we planned something for the weekend. Great day today. I really approached a ton and got a lot of leads. I used to do sales, today reminded me of that, getting leads and trying to get the customer to buy. The bad thing was that I didn't read or study at all. I didn't make an effort to improve in other areas of my life. I got so addicted to approaching that I neglected my self improvement. Also I didn't check in with myself and focus on my goals. What's the point in mass approaching if I'm still not good at holding eye contact or still speak like a pussy?
GOALS FOR TOMORROW
1).NO NUMBERS. TRY TO BUILD A SOLID CONNECTION AND BUILD RAPPORT
2).HOLD EYE CONTACT AT ALL TIMES, BREAK WHEN NECESSARY
3).SPEAK SLOWLY AND LOUDER.
4).STRONG APPROACH FROM THE SIDE AND THE FRONT.
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