Things have changed since my last post. I'm writing this to give new people some advice and my 2 cents and the changes that I want to write about here.

I've been doing a lot of thinking and introspection on this whole "seduction journey". To be honest, it's NOT a priority in my life. I get PM from people asking why I stopped posting. Here is the real answer, my life is fucking shit right now.

What I mean by this is that my life isn't where I wanted it to be. At my age it's sad where I'm at. For the past few months when I first started this I thought to myself that If I can master seduction with women that my life will take a turn for the better. I thought that by getting laid I will take care of that need that I desire.

I now realized that, that need, that desire was actually neediness. Spending hours and hours on approaching was a escape from my failed life. I don't want to go in detail of my life but let say that my career, finance, body, mind and Independence is close to non existence.

It was all a dopamine rush. Approaching hour after hour, day by day all for what? Pussy that will always be there. For the new guys or existing guys that are struggling right now read this:

HOT WOMEN WILL ALWAYS BE THERE.

What this means is work on yourself and create an absolute amazing life for yourself. Don't be like me and let your career, finances, body, friends everything crumble. Women should be either last or not existent in your list of goals.

Now I'm working on my life. I'm working more hours and rebuilding myself. I realized my mistake now and I'm paying for it. It's going to be hard but I'm glad that I know that now instead a decade later.

TRP is about sexual strategy. I know that getting and seducing is important. Pussy is great and it's needed. Doing all this left a sort of bad habit of wanting to approach.

Approaching isn't bad in fact I believe it builds frame, confidence, NGAF attitude and most importantly, a strong masculinity. What I have been doing is approaching less and really focusing on the basics. Either I set a number of approaches to do or set a time for an hour, that's it. If the hour passes and I get three approaches then I get three approaches for the day.

Time is what is important. You can't get time back. Women steal precious time away from you either from approaching or going on dates. Just imagine the amount of things that you could do if you had that extra 3-4 hours instead of chasing pussy.

At the end of the day your mind is what determins your success. Mindset and emotional control is everything. Your thoughts dictate your emotions which dictates your actions. Having shitty thoughts and a negative mindset will effect you emotional which in turn will make you do things that will not make you successful.

So you want to get rid of approach anxiety? Easy. Go and approach and say hi, shocking, right?. Don't think, just do it. It's not going to be easy, you have to remind yourself that. A lot of people don't realize that talking to women and getting them to go out with you is hard.

Realize that and treat every interaction as a stepping stone. Always be positive not matter the outcome. If she blows you off you better have a huge grin on your face and walk away with your chest up. She doesn't give you her number? Smile and say "Have a nice day".

If you try to convince her for the number then you're doing it wrong. It'll show your neediness and you will already lost frame. ABUNDANCE. That is what you must adopt in order to be successful with women and in life as well.

The three most important things that I realized that everyone should ingrain in there life is; ABUNDANCE, FRAME, NGAF(Not Giving A fuck).