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Natural Red pill guy refuses to commit, grrl powa! (tm) explosion in the comments

n0c0ntr0l
April 21, 2013
16 upvotes
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Title Natural Red pill guy refuses to commit, grrl powa! (tm) explosion in the comments
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n0c0ntr0l
Upvotes 16
Comments 22
Date April 21, 2013 7:59 AM UTC
(13 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1cshdo/natural_red_pill_guy_refuses_to_commit_grrl_powa/
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[–]n0c0ntr0l 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like he has narcissistic tendencies. He wants to dazzle, be admired (intellectually, sexually, romantically) but doesn't have anything to give anyone else.

I think this my favourite part, someone in response to the fact that he knows a few languages and plays chess. See how bluepillers respond to self improvement (mind you its totally the case for me haha, narcissism drives me to be better)

[–]soapjackal 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I like how on top of that they all try to make it seem like she's way too good for the guy, instead of pointing out that she knew what she was getting into.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I love how his "value" is measured by how much he's willing to give out to someone else. Never just the fact that he's smart and plays chess, it's what about MEEEEE.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I feel like we are very similar and that he's the "one" for me. I have felt this way since meeting him 5 years ago

So all the bluepillers come in and verify her as a victim. SHE decided he was the one, so obviously he's the asshole! lol

[–]Endorsed ContributorTDCRedPill 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I guess i'll have to ignore him now. Instead of jumping everytime I get a one word text from him

Dude, man after my own heart, second post in. Time to comb the thread for tips.

[–][deleted] 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]RedSunBlue 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I correctly identified and avoided sociopathic behavior

What is your definition of sociopathic behavior?

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

she does a solid job of describing what happens as men get older and continue to refine ourselves to a point where it's hard to keep up intellectually. Fascinating to read a girl go into her own version of self analysis.

God damn internet connection went to crap before the comments were posted, going to have to revisit to give my two cents about the war mongering that's probably rampant.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You're missing out on a lot of hamsters. Beta bluepillers trying to downplay his SMV. Women bitching that he won't commit (as if he should bend to any woman's will, never mind his own goals and life).

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I love this. I almost want to give the guy a hand by going in there and saying "you'll win him over eventually, just keep on fucking him."

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Please do this. Hamsters are the most efficient engines ever produced and will run on any fuel under any conditions.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link

wow that sub is just saturated with betas and white knights.

http://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/1crp9d/im_27_dating_a_guy_34_and_i_want_to_be_his/c9jhwa8

let's see if i get a rational reply or a rationalization reply. i'm down a few posts. bonus: the pretend alpha who hates himself and projects onto other people this links to.

haha, one of her comments in the thread..

"I don't know my strategy now is to ignore the f*** out of him and if he figures out he wants me he's going to have to beg for it"

yup that's totally going to work out for you.

[–][deleted] 13 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

yeah it's great. mostly has to do with the fact that i'm not obsessed with a girl who feels differently than i do, and consequently not posting on reddit rationalizing to myself how shitty and sociopathic of a person she must be because she doesn't love me back and won't just be my damn girlfriend already.

are you doing okay?

[–][deleted] 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

i said you were rationalizing because in your comments you said stuff implying or just stating things like he was a broken human being or a sociopath. from your post he didn't sound like he did anything bad or wrong at all to warrant those labels, so you were justifying him not being able to commit to you because of something being wrong with him. like a "it's not me, it's you." thing.

here's some friendly, practical advice. ignoring the guy is the best thing you can do. so great job. but you shouldn't expect him to get in a committed relationship with you; you shouldn't expect anyone to if they don't want to. how would you feel if some guy you hooked-up with decided he wanted to make you his girlfriend, but since you didn't feel the same way he calls you a cold-hearted bitch and claims you were leading him on?

but if the guy really does like you, ignoring him will make him chase you. if he does, you know you he likes you back, at least a little, which you can work with. at that point you tell him the truth, and say that you're unable to have a purely physical relationship with him without feelings or commitment, and that you can't just be friends with him because you do feel something for him. if he does like you, he'll commit or at least try and make it work.

but if he doesn't, and from what you wrote this is what it seems like, there's nothing you can do. you can't force someone to develop feelings for you, and i know it sucks because you've had this crush for like five years right? thing is, there are so, so many guys out there. if there is such a thing as soul mates and true love, just from pure statistics, you're bound to encounter quite a few guys that fall into those categories. every married person happily in love would very, very likely have found someone else that they'd love just as much if they never met their partner. basically, you're going to get over him, not because you have to, but because you're going to find someone else.

hope this helps you out a bit, you didn't get very good advice in /r/relationships. maybe some of them told you the right choices to make, but not the right reasoning behind them.

[–][deleted] 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

hey, ten years from now, this guy might start losing his hair and his waistline and all of a sudden he's not going to have girls lining up to be his girlfriend. then he might realize that he would've had something stable and great with you all along, and when he calls you one drunk night you're too busy to answer because you're taking care of a beautiful boy and girl you had with a loving husband you're in love with more than anyone else in your entire life which you wouldn't have seen had you still been harboring an unrequited crush.

dammit i wrote such a lovely fairy tale for nothing.

[–][deleted] 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]RedSunBlue 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Would you like to talk about it?

[–]n0c0ntr0l 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Did I miss the OP coming in here, DAMMIT!

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oooh. Popcorn. Who's bringing the popcorn?

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