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You're missing an important detail if you think it is societal. It's not. It's behavioral in all mammals. It's in all of our DNA at the very core, even before we were walking upright.
/r/MensRights05/04/22 05:38 AM
1

I think the exact words are more likely "August wouldn't let someone disrespect me like that." You want to jab a beaten man into stupidity, that's the kind of thing that will do it.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/22 05:10 AM
1

She didn't reconsider because you had time, she reconsidered because you didnt keep talking to her or giving any kind of feeling. Send her a pic, talk with her, tell a story. You're acting like youre making an appointment. Woo the woman. Tell her what you're thinking you want to do with her and why. Tell her things you think she should know. Ask her about herself. Your wooing is lazy, noncommital, and shows no passions.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:46 AM
2

That inherent sexual bias is real, and it's the same for both sexes. Men are to be judged and may easily be judged worthless/undesirable. Women, far less so. It's cross species, too.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 03:14 AM
2

You've still got more to digest then. You don't remove heart, you bust ass to be a person that love comes to, knowing you have no other control in the matter.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 01:06 PM
-5

Of course. That's the point. The culture war is stepping up because Trump can actually win against the establishment. Disenfranchising those that would defend against the lies is a crucial part of the plan. Stay strong. You're to push back against the gas lighting.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 05:07 AM
1

Jesus Christ, you're in you're own head, afraid of being manipulated so much you completely overlook the fact you fucked up and are shirking the responsibility. 'This behavior' from her you're describing is her being hurt from the stupid shit you said in anger and didnt mean. You keep saying it like it absolves you of the fact you said stupid shit, and act like you did nothing wrong because you didnt mean it. Man the fuck up when you fuck up, and pay the stupid tax when you're the one who pulled…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 04:06 PM
1

Oh shit, you're a woman?
/r/askTRP01/02/20 03:32 AM
35

Isn't it great? :) We get to see the stars. We lucked into being. Incessant pain and suffering, sure, but we get to exist. How fucking lucky are we, compared to the rest of creation yet to be? I have no choice but awe.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 07:36 PM
3

So wrap up a small box of 9mm rounds to give her for a last Xmas gift.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 05:33 PM
7

You can show desire without being needy. 'I want to see you' and 'I cant be without you' are very different things.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 04:37 PM
3

| foreskin is kinda gross Ok, you immature troll, buckle up. I hate to break it to you, but you're kinda right; cut dicks look prettier. But what your sad ass doesn't realize is that it does NOT work better. It doesn't work better for you, it doesn't work better for her. You're not fucking her like a human being. You can't. You no longer have a human dick, it was taken from you. The sad fact is, you'll never know. Don't believe me? It's an easy test: it's easy to find testimonials of adult circu…
/r/MensRights19/12/19 12:08 AM
0

What is worthwhile to do that isn't work?
/r/askTRP17/12/19 04:02 AM
7

I agree with your point but not the scope: it's not just attracting women. Weak men cause anxiety and distress in both men and women.
/r/MensRights17/12/19 03:58 AM
8

Well, we kinda have to. You feel it's counterproductive, doesn't treat it as an equal thing, and you're right. Achievement of equality IS the goal, but we will never be able to make headway until the internal bias against men present in all mammals gets accepted. Everyone will 'feel' the situations involving men are worse and require more correction, and they'll never see the difference between what they feel is fair and what is fair. If you have a method to point it out clearer than a simple ge…
/r/MensRights10/12/19 07:46 PM
2

Is there any reason you can't do more things with her? She's feeling disconnected, uninspired, bored, routine. You need something you can work as a team together, since the rest of your lives seems to be working as a team apart. Best if the activity involves heavy cooperation between the two of you, healthy physical exertion, and sense of goal. ​ You're slipping. You're getting soft in your routine, and slack your responsibility to make her happy. She's feeling the exact same thing you're feelin…
/r/askTRP05/12/19 04:09 PM
1

For the sake of my pride and sanity, I really really really would like to know for sure, if you'd be kind enough to check. And if I'm right, *fingerguns*
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/19 03:40 PM
1

(Lots) {blahblahcryptic====D (Lots) He went 'I can't tell you, so I'll draw a picture without saying it, so I can be clever and considerate.' She didn't get it, so he had to use words.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/19 02:39 AM
1

Sorry to intrude, but I just have to ask if literally no one caught his dick joke? Tell your man that the internet says he funny and clever.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/19 02:19 AM
2

Smooth sailing, there's nothing to comment or critique. She likes you, keep doing what you're doing.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 01:40 AM
1

Are you the kind of pussy who listens to people who tell you what you can't do?
/r/askTRP05/12/19 01:24 AM
1

Why do you think those things would keep you from being rejected?
/r/askTRP03/12/19 01:49 AM
1

Sure.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 01:46 AM
6

You've done well, and more than enough consider yourself exemplary. The bad news is, you can't stop. You can't ever stop. Keep going. Do what is meaningful.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 01:45 AM
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Isn't that mostly in T2, from a scene meant to show her as a traumatized woman, to be overshadowed and corrected by the cooler headed John? Haven't seen the new one, but it seems weird to throw shade on the new Terminator movie for having a line a dearly loved previous film had. Maybe the new Terminator movie *IS* bad. But the 'woke, dont go see' push feel for this movie feels weird and manufactured compared to previous woke bombshells.
/r/MensRights09/11/19 02:29 AM
1

We should be here to collectively state what is right, not try to collectively state who is wrong.
/r/MensRights29/10/19 07:05 PM
5

You're a god damned moron. Ask yourself what the perfect person would say. What would someone who loves you with all her heart say to that dumbass question and comparison? You asked her a question that had no upset, she nails it perfectly in even your own second hand description, and you're shook. Of course you're shook, dumbass, you put words you didnt want to hear in her mouth. You put her in a position to lie or be honest and risk your feelings, and you're being a bitch about it; THIS is what…
/r/askTRP28/10/19 09:38 PM
15

I thought she shared two?
/r/MensRights09/07/19 01:36 AM
4

You need to keep in mind the things THEY are wanting, and show them you can bring it. What they want is a grunt that shows up, does the shit work, is nice to be around, reliable. Everything that isn't that makes the manager's life harder and is exactly what they want to avoid. They don't want the headache of having to cover an unreliable late or missing team member. They don't want to have to deal with complaints of your body odor or mean disposition from customers or coworkers. Keep in mind wha…
/r/askTRP25/06/19 10:00 PM
5

There is zero upside to vaping, unless it's to replace smoking or chewing. Not being an addict > vaping > smoking > chewing.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 02:04 AM
3

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d-7o9xYp7eE
/r/askTRP21/02/19 05:43 PM
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Weird, I always thought sex-based legislation was a form of institutional sexism that should be rooted out.
/r/MensRights05/02/19 05:49 PM
3

Just want to add, you're right. OP is a cunt.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 06:17 PM
3

Concede the match. It's shit for everyone involved, but it's the only way.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 11:57 PM
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Original quote: https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/hillary-clinton-victims-of-war/ Title quote is someone being creative to show how stupid it sounds.
/r/MensRights07/09/18 02:56 PM
1

It's always felt worse than that; the LESS you have the kids, the MORE you have to pay. That's why divorces get dirty; losing means you lose the kids AND pay more to the other.
/r/MensRights13/08/18 04:42 PM
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How'd that work out for the Duke Lacrosse boys?
/r/askTRP12/08/18 12:47 PM
18

She's not acting, and he does have more value to her.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 06:34 PM
3

Complete control over the baby's life and a leash to yank you around with.
/r/MensRights27/06/18 06:44 AM
5

First off, ditch any idea of being an active part of the red pill community. Any time you could be putting towards improving the community is time you could be improving yourself and those around you. Especially at your age, that's more valuable. Read what you can, take only what is useful. Second, every dude in your grade has been reading this stuff and PUA/seduction stuff since they figured out how to use a web browser. There's no shame, but still, keep it to yourself. Use it to learn how to g…
/r/askTRP14/06/18 04:07 AM
1

It's so scary all alone, I need mommy to come suck me safe and happy again. Bring condoms.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 04:01 AM
1

Stop asking or expecting them to help. They're not stopping you, they're just not going to do anything. Figure out how to get there. Figure out how to drive (friends, classes). Get the license. You're on your own. Stop expecting shit from them.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 02:17 AM
1

Can we just try to work to keep sexism out of the system as much as possible, without stopping to point fingers at who is to blame or what unsavory individuals might benefit from a less sexist society?
/r/MensRights18/05/18 04:35 PM
1

Yo, you're young I'm guessing. Early-mid teens? The foreskin feels tight because the foreskin hasnt adjusted to the size of your fully engorged dick head. This should be happening during puberty as a side effect of frequent erections. I believe that you could train to make that adjustment happen sooner, mostly by masturbating a bunch and working to stretch the foreskin where it's tight. It'll be uncomfortable, but the training can stretch the skin, similar to a stretching plug in an ear, but eve…
/r/askTRP14/05/18 10:29 PM
3

"By the first round and we'll talk about amending that list"
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:49 AM
62

'Her dick is WAY bigger'
/r/askTRP30/04/18 02:59 PM
1

He absolutely does. That's the point. She was being very nice, both before and after your rather rude reaction to her. You kept your mind focused on whatever you were doing when the girl was (nicely) trying to connect with you using the pretext of the show. Your response was negative; it was report-breaking, not report-building. You smacked her away for trying to build report.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 03:36 AM
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So, she was showing interest in something you like and asked you about it. Your response shut her down as if it was stupid of her to ask you about this thing you're into, because you weren't in the mood. She answers back "If you want to talk about something else, or dont want to continue talking, I understand." Part of me wants to be snarky and mean about this. Your shutting her down harshly because you werent in the mood was a bit of a slap in the face. She accepts it and asks if you'd like to …
/r/askTRP17/04/18 05:38 AM
0

Your bro is trying to help you. You're getting bashful, and submissive when the topic comes up; that's a very unattractive thing. Your anxiety comes out in your body language and your brother is trying to help you correct it. Pay attention.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 01:49 AM
5

Yeah, fuck that broad for making things easy on you and seeming interested. Your self destructive nature is showing. Go have fun and make a new friend or at least a good story out of it.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 02:20 PM
2

How about surrogacy? You'll have a monetary goal to save up and have your child all to you with no strings for anyone else to pull. Custody with any woman in your life will never be a question, and the child wont be used for money leverage.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 08:58 PM
18

You're letting yourself fall for 'we need to talk' way more than any self respecting man should.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 04:29 PM
9

So, she's been lying to you, cheating on you. Why the fuck would you want to spend one further second anywhere near her? She's not your friend. She's not your lover. She's not your girlfriend. Ditch the bitch. For fuck's sake dude, how can you expect her or anyone else to like you if you're happy being a pissboy she uses. She doesn't love you; she CAN'T love you. She's already shown that. Your relationship is over and you both will heal better apart. You'll never have whatever you wanted with he…
/r/askTRP11/02/18 03:39 PM
59

Yes, yes, all the motherfucking yes. Get off your ass and do it.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 09:49 PM
12

Sidebar. You're a chode dipshit and they can smell it on you.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 04:01 PM
6

If you've struggled and won through anything from sickness to poverty to a rough childhood, is it better to hide that from women or to play the badass that made it through unphased? The amount of effort used to win indicates the capability (power) of the person, so: Effortless winning > winning with effort It sucks, but it's truth. Someone who has always been awesome is more attractive than someone who became awesome from not.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 08:39 PM
3

Yes, you can. It's a matter of training. Don't fall into the 'that's just how I am' trap. If social skills are a weak point you want to be stronger (I assume it is because you're here), then practicing and studying empathy will do wonders, especially in learning and processing nonverbal cues. My way involved a lot of pot, but it's been invaluable.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 06:38 PM
5

For a woman, it is the belief that the man is better then she could possibly get. and yet if a man with more perceived value gives her attention... she forgets her oneitis ever existed. Beta's don't really get over their oneitis, even if a better girl comes along. They have to first get over their betadom. You're assigning way to much higher level logic and examination without seeing or understanding the feelings in them during this time. It is every bit as bad as the worst of pathetic one-itus …
/r/askTRP01/02/18 06:03 PM
1

If you don't see, understand, and feel that your current way is wrong, don't dick with it. You do you. Trying to implement things when you haven't felt the error in what you're doing is just asking for trouble because you dont know what needs fixed, which will come across weak and disingenuous and be worse than being you now. Don't be listening because someone else said you're doing wrong when you did in fact get the date (hoping she doesnt flake). When you say 'this shit isn't working out the w…
/r/askTRP01/02/18 05:44 PM
6

Damn, you've turned into a disappointment.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 03:49 PM
1

Psst. Cut n pasting reposts from the same day is the exact opposite of contributing.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 08:02 PM
2

Then contribute better.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 06:58 PM
5

how do I get her back or is it too late? She's gone dude.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 04:20 PM
15

You need to get child support and custody defined ASAFP. Right now, you're a piggy bank collected interest for her. Eventually, when she feels you have money, you'll find yourself on the giving end of a lifetime of child support back payments 'you never made'. You MUST get custody and support defined by a judge to keep from getting screwed.
/r/MensRights17/01/18 04:18 PM
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Sounds like a perfect reason to fight for more custody, since she's asking you to take him more. Do it. Take every single hour, making daily logs of everything, to establish how you both feel spending more time with you is the best thing for the child. By now, especially with this, you should have plenty to show a judge your ability to care for the kid, increase custody, and start getting child support from her. She isn't your woman. She's already shown you're an enemy that has no value except w…
/r/MensRights17/01/18 04:16 PM
3

Two guesses Congruency with frame Your body and voice and everything about you sends off 'vibes' or microactions that raise anxiety levels and distrust from those who view it. It's a sort of lie detection, and one of the weirder parts of 'frame'. Being directly congruent to your frame keeps those tells from showing, because your actions and motives are consistent with your intent. If you believe Clinton deserved to lose the election for shafting the American democrat, when you think others won't…
/r/askTRP10/01/18 11:38 PM
2

And you didn't have a list you could start spewing of times when you have been a contributing bro? Then he may have a point.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 04:36 PM
9

Likeliest: 5 begged your sister to have you call her. Sister's trapped having to deliver the news, and probably knew the outcome. The diss is that she should know you're with your girl, unless she thought your LTR was doomed and wanted to layup a plan b. Most likely, 5 asked, sister getting shafted on both ends by having to deliver in the first place and having to return a sad answer. You could help the sister by calling 5, texting a picture of your ltr, and explaining you're flattered and taken…
/r/askTRP09/01/18 04:04 AM
9

You didnt list or missed any of the other traits of her behavior to have any clue about the tears. Those other details about how she felt or acted are the difference between 'I really dont like this' and 'OMG I love him so much and Im soooooo happy', and your story gives no indication of which.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 07:02 PM
6

You're pushing away her attempt to connect with you. Her statement is that she has been thinking about and wanting to kiss you, and wishes it happened at the end of that date. You've got your armor on too tight; your defensiveness and uncertainty is letting you drop and ignore the good things you want coming from someone who wants those same good things. If she's going this hard to plainly say whats on her mind, then she's spent forever trying to hint at the exact same things first, and is frust…
/r/askTRP23/12/17 12:57 PM
3

Worse, you look boring and intentionally nondescript. No fire or passion in your eyes, posture, smile, or dress.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 03:11 PM
1

Because you're both animals whose bodies respond in nice ways to positive rewarding sex. These include signs of the other person's desire, attractiveness, capability, and health. By being a directed cold tool and cuddle child, you are not showing her your desire for her, your attractiveness, your capability, or your health. You're as arrousing as a vibrator with a dead battery but awkward.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 03:38 PM
5

Why is the gratification of telling him he's a shitty lover more important than making him a better lover? If you spend the entire time listing off the things he shouldnt ever do again, you're training with anxiety and negativity. If you spend the entire time trying things and happily proclaiming 'Oh god YES, THIS, we need more of THIS!' you're training with sex and positivity. If you just harp on the unchangable past, you're punishing something he can't fix and didn't know, disconnecting both o…
/r/askTRP09/12/17 06:50 PM
13

You don't. It serves no purpose but to hurt him. It's truth, but if you're ending the sexual relationship, it's nothing but cutting him out of spite. That's if you want it to end. If you want it to change, you still don't bring it up. Instead you spend time practicing and getting better at pleasing each other. Telling him will remove that option. You telling him is about the same as him leaving you with 'The only time I was hard around you, I was thinking of your sister, and would go soft whenev…
/r/askTRP09/12/17 05:52 PM
10

New girl, first time? Quite normal, you're still learning how to be comfortable with each other. The anxiety in your head is fucking with you, spending more time worrying about cumming than enjoying yourself. But yes, stop touching yourself will help.
/r/askTRP09/12/17 04:52 PM
3

They're comfort tests of sorts, that she feels you're failing. From her point of view, she's asking for your help to get the dynamic better for both of you. She needs a way to show you her need for whatever punishment she needs, and a way to do that that won't hurt the relationship. She both wants the punishment and doesn't want to upset you, which is a good thing. List a couple of things she can do that doesn't really bug you but you can make a big deal out of: Licking your cheek. Farting. Call…
/r/askTRP09/12/17 02:10 PM
3

If you fucked in the previous 3 months and didn't notice her boobs gettings bigger, firmer, and sorer, she wasn't pregnant. If you also saw no sign of morning sickness, that's another clue. You know what's up. Ditch the bitch.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 12:50 PM
1

I think it was slick. Sets the frame of unbashed and doesn't allow a frame of doing something underhanded or negative. Remain that way so it forces her to explain why she sent it to you (hopefully finding out why she sent it to plate) and you're done. You haven't crossed any lines, have good intentions, so nothing to feel guilty about.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 11:09 AM
1

Outside of the narrative in your head, how is that series of reactions any different from a temper tantrum that burns bridges hard? In seeing it as a grave disrespect and reacting in a way to make sure she can't disrespect you like that again, you're immediately removing all possible futures that might constitute a 'win'. All of the time and effort put in, completely flushed. She owes him an apology WAY more than he owes her one; hers for standing him up, his for overreacting. You think she need…
/r/askTRP28/11/17 12:40 AM
-2

I think you veered a bit close to butt hurt territory. Your cynicism and fear of being walked over are showing in how you're describing it to us, but may not have shown through to her if you're lucky. Yes, strictly speaking, meeting you took the back seat to something. There's no way around it and is what's bugging you. You need to get over it because you should have gotten over it the instant the happened; it's cynicism fearing and reacting to the worse possible explanation for the events you s…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 01:10 AM
41

LTR of 2 years? Dude, she's trying to behave well, and looking for other ways to behave well around you/for you. Give her a way to win by giving her something to do that you can reward positively. Pay your bills. Suck your dick. Cook a meal. Whatever you need/want that could help you that you'd smile big and reward her for, that's what you tell her. If it's a trap and she berates you for the things you requested, your frame and relationship is weak, but this is exactly the kind of thing you shou…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 04:02 PM
0

"You've been fantasizing about punishing me? Not my thing, but I do want to hear. Just how sadistic are you, kitten?"
/r/askTRP29/10/17 08:59 PM
3

"How much would you like for me to pitch in for the tickets?" I know you're defensive and not wanting to be taken advantage of, and don't want to set a precedent of her dictating activities for you to finance after she's decided. On the other hand, you're just starting out, she's been good to you so far, be good to her by not letting your insecurity make this a 'thing'. You want to make the time you share have positive vibes. You wanting to make very clear that you won't be taken advantage of is…
/r/askTRP17/10/17 02:04 AM
1

murdering those people or the crippling loneliness and insecurities Hate to break it to you, but your loneliness and insecurities will skyrocket if you take option 1. And what do you propose I do to 'man up'? Everything this sub has been saying from the beginning. You'll notice none of them list feeling sorry for yourself, murder, or self-harm. Lift. Approach. Build cool shit. Do cool things. Go out of your way to help increase the happy of the people around you. Be the kind of person you wish t…
/r/askTRP16/10/17 02:45 PM
2

He is wanting to add to your happy. Can you give an example of how he could compliment or show appreciation in a way you like? Give him a way to win, and I bet he'll take it. If your reaction is negative when he's trying to be positive, it'll kill all communication because he won't know how to act in a way you like.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 01:01 AM
6

Parents put pressure to get you one way you don't want to go. Your solution is to do something they won't like that will paint you as low class to anyone who knows. You're an underdeveloped emotional wreck,and this flair for the dramatic will continue to backfire and burn you, just like it has every other time you've done similar stupid shit. You're hurting yourself in order to hurt them, and doing no growing of any kind. Direct your life towards the goals you want to achieve. Stop setting every…
/r/askTRP15/10/17 01:34 PM
5

You need to get a grasp on your own frame. "started blaming her failures on the fact that I'm doing tons of OT while she has a social life" is a silly rewording that you're doing what's needed and she isn't. That isn't you pulling her down, that's her saying she isn't willing to sacrifice and produce as much as you. "So you're saying that if this company hired three of me, they'd be accomplishing more than if they hired three of you? I'm happy to say that I agree. We should work together to let …
/r/askTRP14/10/17 01:51 PM
23

Rock an eye patch. Figure out if speech therapy will help. Learn to sing. Never tell the same over the top amazing story about how it happened twice.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 03:59 AM
1

Best net carb:protein ratios and low cost. Edit: But still a plant. You'll need some animal source proteins to get all your aminos
/r/askTRP02/10/17 09:03 PM
1

Too demanding this early. It's five bucks, and he wants her to have a good time, not give her an obligation. Write the five bucks off, and don't expect anyone to buy anything for the other. The ticket was his invite and offered; she can't be viewed as manipulating him for shit.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 02:56 PM
7

Binary fallacy. It's not all or nothing. You decide what you want, and you spend what it takes to make happen. If you want to live longer, be happier, fuck stronger, then you're going to half to put some effort in. Some want to go 100%; they're crazy, and driven. They want to win much bigger than personal enjoyment. If that ain't you, it ain't you.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 03:51 AM
14

Uh, hate to break it to you, but you won't. Lemme 'splain. She bailed for a different dick. She got it, maybe lots of it. She's unsure if she did the right thing, so she double checked you were still a bitch on a leash she could call upon. Now there's no need to actually chase you or do anything you want to do, because she just verified you'll be her bitch and at her beck and call. She's gone. Live your life like you're freed from the shackles of a stupid whore.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 12:56 PM
1

If you think it's misandry is societal, you've got more red pill swallowing to do. It's not a social trait or even a human trait, it's a mammal trait.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 12:51 PM
2

Push it back on her. Do you feel I treat you like an idiot? she blah blahs To me, it looks like I was being supportive of your good news and suggested an idea to help you succeed. Your reaction was to feel I don't give you credit or I doubt your competency. There's something going on in this new way you're treating me, and I don't care for it. If every nice thing I say or do is an insult to you, it doesn't really encourage me to keep trying.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 06:12 PM
3

Motorcycle ride. Shooting. Dance classes. Skydiving. Sports (playing or watching). Get her heart pumping.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 10:07 PM
30

Ever give someone a gift? Did they stoically nod, and then put the present away unwrapped? How would it feel if they did? Maybe something hand made, you put time and care into, specifically for this person? If you're human, you'd feel deflated by that reception. By doing that, you're deflating them, and showing yourself as completely disinterested in what they have to say or how they feel. It's a social kick in the nuts, and you're doing it repeatedly, and proudly. You're hurting people for dari…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 10:49 AM
4

Oxytocin addiction. It's a bitch. When you feel the interest catch sincerely, thats when the oxytocin and connection builds. Kept milking the sensation in your mind, viola, addict, and the picture of your ex has been trained into your mind as the place to go to when you need oxytocin. Get cuddles, headpets, massages, whatever you need. It can be a non serious FWB, but you need a cuddle fix, from different sources that you let yourself like and care for.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 05:43 AM
1

Somebody give this girl a medal: That's a man. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gGpZSefYvwM
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 05:29 PM
1

You're missing the point of what I said. Whether it's accurate or not, people will have a hard time believing. You're a guy. No one cares, and you won't ever be seen as a victim. The more you act the victim, like this post and how you likely behaved around the officer, the worse things will be for you. No one is going to be on your side. You'll get some sympathy here, sure, but it won't do you any good. You need to get out of the victim mentality and figure out how to win; if you stop to get sym…
/r/MensRights30/06/17 04:05 PM
1

People are going to have a hard time listening to you if you claim these steps were to get you executed.
/r/MensRights30/06/17 03:38 PM
9

The feminist response isn't to explain why, it's to project offense at 'How dare you tell a woman how to feel about rape.'
/r/MensRights27/06/17 12:28 AM
1

Give her a way to punish you so you two can get past it. Like, execution by paintball gun firing squad. Wear protective gear, let her hurt you, take it, and move on. Let her give you a full wax to torture you some. Otherwise, the only thing is time and how you connect and treat her. If ya fucked up, ya fucked up. Dont take it like a bitch or you'll make your time together anxious and she'll push away. You fucked up and you're happy to show her what life with you should be like. Don't let her tak…
/r/askTRP27/06/17 12:10 AM
1

I assure you, this was from a very male perspective. You have given no perspective, female or otherwise, so I don't know what 'This' is you speak of.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 07:28 AM
5

Responsibility is something to complain about when you fail. It's not a complaint when you do well. Take the responsibility, and show her an amazing and loving time. Their first carries a lot of heart with it. You can give them a brilliant start into a loving and fun sex life, or give them issues they'll deal with for the rest of their life. I like being able to give them a lifetime of warm fuzzies by taking good care on their first. Because there's nothing in it for me execpt knowledge of a job…
/r/askTRP25/06/17 08:45 PM
6

Responsibility.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 05:12 PM
8

You're being played with. Ditch the bitch.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 09:29 PM
1

What's the alternative? Take responsibility for herself and not view herself as a victim? Bitch please.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 09:39 PM
9

? You didn't learn anything the rest of times you came whining? Christ, no wonder you keep coming back thinking it's because you're black. People don't dislike you because you're black, it's because you're a whining bitch who turns her pain into anger and carries it like a cloud.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 05:06 PM
1

Depends on your goals and how you'd like things to go. Best thing would be to not have to be digging yourself out from the hole this deep but that's life. He's not gaming any of 'em sexually, so it's a just social and work dominance hierarchy. And, frankly, half manlet losers are below the least of women on both. So, he has to be a valued member of both hierachies (nothing large or confrontational) without being over them. He has to be one of them, and one of the good ones. 'Quintin! Would you m…
/r/askTRP19/06/17 04:30 AM
1

If every time someone gives you shit is your fault, then good luck with your life. Nothing with spark a fire of revulsion in the human animal more than a weak man. If he doesn't change, that behavior that he's seen his entire life will continue. If he does change, it might. This situation wasn't a random happening; they should already know who he is. He lost before any of the events in the story. Go ahead, give 'em a pep talk. Give 'em the platitudes. Tell him they're just jealous of him. It's b…
/r/askTRP18/06/17 03:38 PM
4

why the fuck do they feel entitled to you making them coffee It's not an 'entitlement'. She wanted coffee. She didn't want to make it. She didn't want the women she was talking to to make it because they're filling up her attention tank. In walks Quintin in his short sleeve dress shirt, uncaring hair, and the skin on the back of your neck rising, because people feel on eggshells around him. He might want to talk. Ugh. He may want be friends and noone's got time for having to train the loser. But…
/r/askTRP18/06/17 12:13 AM
0

And I read, too. https://xkcd.com/603/
/r/askTRP17/06/17 04:11 PM
4

If your first step to a problem is 'change yourself', you have a chance and might have a clue. If your first step is 'change other people', you have no chance and definitely don't have a clue about whatever the problem might be. You're being snarky because it's unfair. Deal with it. It is unfair. The only solution is Git Gud.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 04:04 PM
5

You're obviously low SMV. They aren't the problem, you walking through life with a 'Kick Me' sign on your back is.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 03:32 PM
6

What the fuck is 'perfect'? OP, I dont think you understand evolution. At all. We dont get 'perfect' we become more fit and more adaptable to be fit. Humanity has done exactly that. Bigger, stronger, faster, healthier, smarter. We're not perfect, we're the best.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 03:19 PM
0

The girl isn't perfect. Your current, limited model of the girl in your head is perfect. Don't confuse the two. You're filling in blanks with gut feels, intuition, and hope.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 12:18 PM
0

He hasn't dealt with that class of woman before. We're never prepared.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 05:47 AM
26

Because you underestimated her. She was bitchy and gave a command. You pushed back because you know to shut that down. She didnt all of a sudden find you attractive because you called her a bitch; she shifted gears to butter you up so you'll be useful in the future; win you over. If I'm right, she's crazy smart and very good at leading men on. It's kinda her job. And she's not hitting any buttons on you that she doesn't on them.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 01:57 AM
52

Dude, you're boned. You're already outclassed and put in your place by this girl and you don't see it. She didn't all of a sudden start liking you; she changed her angle to get you compliant. Do not fuck. In fact, if she ever makes any escalation, touching, whatever, shut it down and tell her to knock it off and keep it professional. You keep her safe, she tips you, end of relationship. You show that interest, it'll never happen. But keep your guard up around this girl and hope you dont catch he…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 12:13 AM
3

Skip the glasses, get contacts. They're cheap, and you have tons of cheap options for costume contacts that are always fun. Do. Not. Sleep. In. Them. Take them out every night.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 06:14 PM
2

Are you asking for a list of the benefits of exercise? Because for some damn reason, you know it's good, but you're worried if it's good enough to bother actually doing. Don't bother with TRP. You don't have the willpower, you don't have the discipline, you don't have the god damned common sense. You're thrashing down the tube of a mediocre life, looking for a way out, asking for a way out, and everyone, EVERYONE, is saying 'Here's where you start.', and you don't take it. You're not sure. You w…
/r/askTRP02/06/17 03:38 PM
3

She'd give you a chance when you make her hot and stop making her feel pressured. No contact, lead a cool and loud life, forget about her until she reappears.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 02:47 PM
10

Possibilities: 1. You're too nice/boring and they're not sexually attracted. 2. You're too good looking and they think you'd fuck n chuck 'em. 3. You're not good looking enough. If your views of the women and your friend's jealousy are on point, #3 seems out. To figure out between 1 and 2, need a hair more from the girls. You could probably find out if you ask them if they think you look like a blast in the sack. If not fun in sack or 'meh' or 'eww' or 'like a brother', #1 and you know to up you…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 02:27 PM
14

You were hot in text, which got you the meet. You were boring in person and that dried her right up. Your looks are fine, but always keep improving them. You had an off day and didnt manage to excite and connect.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 02:17 PM
3

uBy reassurances, I just mean positive statements (interest, attraction, desire, comfort, whatever) meant to reassure emotional bond and build rapport. You dont want her to think you want to only kiss her feet, but you can still get across your attraction to her. She sends you a personalized nude (something that isn't just in her stash of 'good nudes to send dudes', something for you), there's nothing wrong with rewarding it with a dirty text story about you want you want to rush home, bust thro…
/r/askTRP30/05/17 03:36 PM
1

He wants you to leave. What's the problem? You're 23. You're not wanted there. Let the family know in a non dramatic way that without the transportation access, you're trapped and you think dad wants you to leave so you will so you can go to school and be a man they'll be proud of. Sorry dude, he wants you of his tit to go be a man of the world. Clue in, quitcherbitchin, and get off your ass.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 02:23 PM
14

The girl was obviously fawning for me so what the fuck happened You saying you couldn't felt like a rejection and she lashed out like you were rejecting her. You weren't able to clear it up so her hamster is hurt. When she reacts the way you want to (pics, reassurances, restablishing contact), you reward her. She's rewarding the shit out of you. You can give the reassurances you want, just avoid letting it go through a pedestal lens.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 01:29 PM
2

She's into kink and wants aggressive fucking. It's easy to check, just lay it out. "Oh, I get it now. You want me fiesty because seeing that in a man gets you off hardest, eh? Alright, challenge accepted. I'll see you at 8 and show you the hate fuck you'll never forget. What's your safeword?" But mostly, she's goading you because you're boring and not present. Get out of your head and have fun with her.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 03:55 PM
26

That's the bitch of it. HE DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING. He left the relationship without dropping any of his responsibilities to her or saying anything unkind. Her opinion on his leaving is just as useless as his opinion on her getting an abortion. Dude was trying to build a life and a family, and she made it perfectly clear she wasn't ready to do that with him, end of discussion. She should learn to take with as much grace and style as he did instead of resentful shrew. At least have have the sack to r…
/r/MensRights18/05/17 02:04 PM
1

Im not trying to knock what you're doing, I'm saying all of this because the difference will blow your mind. Like, a solid point difference based on what I'm seeing. You ARE capable of making it better and super improving your aesthetics by working on the smile.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 11:53 PM
1

It's the only one with a little cheek lift and smile in the eye, while the lips remained the same.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 11:48 PM
1

You need to practice smiling and train yourself to smile differently. It's not a good look for you in those. Meant with love.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 11:42 PM
17

Someone willing to come fuck her answered faster when she was still horny.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 11:37 PM
3

"Damn, I'm only a rich bachelor. I know tons of rich wives, never met their husbands. Good luck!"
/r/askTRP01/05/17 04:39 AM
6

someone missed you. Bad way to express it? Sure. But what a weird state of mind where your thoughts are 'fuck that third person loser who isn't even the person Im talking to' instead of 'dude misses me'.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 06:07 PM
3

Dear Visitors: Please read through the sidebar in the 'New Here?' section for as short or as long of an intro into /r/TheRedPill as you might like. Posts you see in this thread will be all sorts of crap. Want to know what we say? Read it yourself, from the sidebar. The posts are gonna be a bit a nutso for a while and no one should be trusted; go for the published works linked to see TRP for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 02:05 AM
7

This is just one example for why women should not be in charge of anything. Clearly, female readers aren't much of a concern.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 06:43 PM
1

Do it, there is no downside. Bust ass to be good at it. How not to be a dick, I think you can figure out.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 06:49 PM
1

For taste: Bromelain (the enzyme in pineapple that does it's thing) For volume: Saw Palmetto (For prostate health) Both are cheap supplements, and well worth it. There's a lot of talk about sexual dominance and SMV which ARE crazy important in how much she enjoys everything.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 03:02 PM
2

She's fucking with you. Why isn't that all you need to know? If you can't trust her to have your back, why the fuck is she being left where she can stab you there?
/r/askTRP17/03/17 07:39 PM
12

"Wanna break a hip, grandma?"
/r/askTRP19/02/17 12:03 PM
22

It's a compliment. You stood out and they were interested enough to remember. They can't say all of that because plausible deniability. It's a big IOI.
/r/askTRP18/02/17 05:22 PM
6

My unconscious change from boob man to ass man was pretty striking to me, too.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 02:42 PM
2

"Bitch, I'm adorable." Always go full Vegeta.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 12:59 PM
1

Raped, any god damned day of the week.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:12 AM
0

Good friends are valuable. Plates, far less so. Your way isn't bad. In your place, I would consider wrapping her up to give him as a gift. Abundance.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 01:09 PM
9

Stop being average and go find out.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 02:56 PM
2

I am so sorry man. PM me if you need a stranger to dump on.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 04:53 PM
2

You're trying to build and expand on an uncertain base. Your brain is asking why you're spending all of this exhaustion while still carrying the anxiety of your debt and not seeing change in the debt. You're expending energy on the what you think you need the most improvement on (socially) but burying yourself in the anxiety of the debt that isn't changing. The nice thing is money is even more measureable and quantifiable than anything else you're working on. You have to get that base security. …
/r/askTRP09/01/17 08:30 PM
3

The mods of Ask TRP are banning people in red pill subs, for making the bitter women over at "Red pill women" , well, bitter. Good for them. As we all know, over at RPW, they are rather pathetic, and have the whole "act like a baby" mentality, women are known for. Not good for you. I would like to call for an inquisition, and if found more likely then not to be guilty, the removal of GaiusScaevolus, or the mod responsible. (99% its GaiusScaevolus) And when I dream, I have a pony. Get bent.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 07:02 PM
2

Good. Very good. Fucking perfect. Screenshot her text, print it out on the wall. Print one out to put in your wallet. Have on copy on you at all times, and read it. Feel it. Get. Fucking. Pissed. This is why you lift. This is why you build. This is why you wont be spending mad money on silly girls compared to buying things for you. The instant you stop, she's absolutely right. You should send her a thank you; she saved you a lunch break by showing who she is. She gave you fuel to push past your …
/r/askTRP09/01/17 04:17 PM
1

"Thanks, that is kind of you to say." She did good and you reward it quickly.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 05:18 PM
10

People suck. Nope. They're better at rationalization. More. Poor and ugly people in school have something in common with the rich and attractive in school; school. After that commonality is gone, the differences are even more striking. Oh fuck yes.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 04:37 PM
1

Wrong. It helps. If you're a nihilist. Of course it does. Nihilist again. Not true. Ain't it glorious? 'Lose' it? How can you lose it? And what the fuck else you got to do? Cure ghonnasyphillaids. See the way people who aren't sad like you see the world. Enjoy the ride. Prove yourself wrong.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 12:10 AM
4

C'mon killjoy, let him enjoy the honeymoon period.
/r/MensRights02/01/17 10:12 PM
1

It's shit like this that makes me rage inside. Fuck knows if posts will be deleted or edited, or even if this is one dude trolling. Frankly, I hope so. I hope the self righteous lulz will be epic and renowned, and this post highlights me at the most stupid and gullible point in my life. I hope this is me being a lulcow and getting milked. I want it to be a troll all that I am, because the alternative is taking is seriously. If it's serious, dude, the writing is on the wall. You and your wife don…
/r/askTRP02/01/17 04:54 AM
2

https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5l4qua/my_wife_lied_to_me_about_something_and_we_fought/dbsxuao/ yawn Good luck with your fantasies.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 03:31 AM
1

He posted last night from an account made hours ago? A new throwaway account? Also, it's a one-way open marriage. Fuck this couple. The troll and stupid have surpassed acceptable levels.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 03:26 AM
6

She is not supposed to have any guy unless we both agree. Dumbass, she did cheat on you.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 02:45 AM
2

You're full of shit if you're even going to pretend it wasn't consentual. But then you'd have to deal with the fact she DID consent, and not tell you. Fact is, dude who videoed it knows this shit has been happening for some time now. He's your friend trying to be a friend and watch your back. He just doesn't have proof of the other times.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 02:38 AM
1

You're confusing fighting with winning. Stop looking to fight, focus on learning to win, especially without fighting. You're about to play a stupid game and win stupid prizes.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 12:22 AM
6

Oh sweetheart, it ain't your height or hair keeping you from being laid.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 05:15 PM
2

igotthatrefference.jpg
/r/askTRP31/12/16 02:48 PM
5

Make sure you're not paying for it. It's a red flag for sure about wanting to branch swing. Get your shit in order so you don't have to fret when she leaves so you can be chill until she does.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 06:00 PM
1

You mean without men. Men are disposable to men, too.
/r/MensRights17/12/16 02:05 PM
6

I just want a dance lol. You should get a girlfriend then. You don't have one now.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 03:35 PM
2

Turn the heat and neediness down until finals are over. Instead of doing what you both need to be doing (studying), you're letting yourself NOT study, and jeopardizing his mindset in the process keeping HIM from studying.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 03:02 PM
5

Add more mental to your fucking. You're probably doing well on the physical parts, but you may need to add to the mental parts. More dirty talk. More physical domination (pinning of hands, proper hair pulling, ass smacking). Stronger eye contact. You're not there to get her off. You're there to pull her soul out with your dick and fuck her so hard it'll make her blush as granny about the cock she never forgot.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 03:08 PM
2

I'm available for PM.
/r/MensRights07/12/16 02:16 PM
1

Ignore the flaking, make a date at your place. Give her a way to win. Since she flaked, you have good reason to not want to meet anywhere but your place, but if you just punish her with no way to win, you lose her.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 09:55 PM
1

Nah.
/r/MensRights28/11/16 04:03 PM
1

Same, but I go for 'Pollyanna Prissypants'
/r/askTRP26/11/16 04:53 PM
1

Which is more important to you: Changing her mind, or getting the best for you out of the class? The two are mutually exclusive. The personal risks of being in an irrational professor's sights as a misogynist-most-foul do NOT outweigh whatever good you think could come out of presenting a counter-argument. Resist the urge to fight. Choose to win.
/r/MensRights23/11/16 03:38 PM
0

Class. I like you. IMHO, wait a few years before getting into lifting. Do the bodyweight routines linked by others, and wait until at least 16, preferably 17, before hitting the weights for big gains. Focus on the bodyweight routines, stretching (if you ever want to do splits, stretch hard now are write it off in your lifetime. Girl knows you can Timecop kitchen counters and she'll be soaked, 100%), and martial arts and running for speed and endurance. Now, HOW to get access to those. To get the…
/r/askTRP17/11/16 08:45 PM
1

Petroleum Engineer- Hands down, highest pay and most in demand of the four listed. Oil companies have mad money and pay big to make more money, and you have the least competition.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 04:04 PM
1

No matter how much your mind changes, you'll know. You'll know you've Darwin'ed yourself out of the gene pool. You're shouting "I am the weakest link, goodbye." You're taking a knee and rolling over in the game of life, admitting defeat. I get the urge. I understand. It'd be nice to be treated like a person. To feel welcome around others. There's no one to justify your life to. Do what you want, because it's your life to live. But I don't think it's in your best interests. I worry that the hormo…
/r/askTRP11/11/16 11:49 PM
2

Because you fuck bitches.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 01:22 PM
1

The kissing should have been happening when she was kicking up the kino*, in well lit public areas when she was clearly showing playful moods. In the dark around the cemetery, I wonder if the conversation and mood had quieted down before you went for the kiss. My guess, you were indecisive about kino from earlier, so waiting to kiss her until after the playful mood had died because you didn't kick up the kino with her. Congrats, you didnt kiss her when in the mood, did kiss her when she was less…
/r/askTRP07/11/16 03:02 PM
1

You're worried about what she sees from a standpoint of how to change that perception. Knock it off. Attempting to change the perception actively on your part will make things infinitely worse for you by changing her limited opinion of 'meh' to 'eww'. She's gone and not interested and any other conclusion on your part won't help. Realize, and go make yourself better. Make money, make friends, make gains.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 06:24 PM
4

How is he a beta orbiter if she would date him? If my aunt had balls, she'd be my uncle. You think 'would' and 'does not' are two different things. I would think he is a beta orbiter if she is not dating him. Her druthers are meaningless. How is he beta if she would date him? See above. Also, add to the above that she also has a boyfriend, what would your answer be? The same. She isn't interested.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 04:21 PM
2

I swear I've written half a dozen huge paragraphs, all deleted because they were too pompous even for me. We're all trying to dance, and we all make missteps with a new partner. Often with old partners, too. Chuckle happily over the misstep and KEEP DANCING. That's how you get over the self sabotage; they're all fixable by just reaching out an embarrassed hand to the person you went dipshit on because of reasons. Ask for reassurances and freely give them as well. Most people want to oblige. Plea…
/r/askTRP01/11/16 01:16 AM
2

It's hard to think of any answers to that question that aren't just your usual 'be attractive' style of traits. Show everything that you think makes you better than a basic bitch, but do so in the comfort phase. You need attraction first. When you have mutual attraction, help with kino escalation and keep showing interest about him. Flatter him about things you sincerely like and show sincere appreciation when flatters you. If you see him stumble out of doubt, correct it with flattery. Most of a…
/r/askTRP31/10/16 11:22 PM
2

Sorry for droning on, but there is an important piece you can help improve. You're critical and rational, so I'm assuming very well armored defenses and cynicism stemming from being easily hurt by others. Common stuff. You must force yourself to remain more optimistic; when trying to assign motive to actions, you may find the less pleasing possibilities more comfortable or likely than the pleasant motives. The biggest factor in whether you like what you see is you. Your own cynicism is likely ma…
/r/askTRP31/10/16 08:41 PM
1

You can't cheat, you have to go through the dance just like guys. A guy who just starts off with how good of a job he has may be convenient and helpful for you, but won't soak the panties. You can talk about how loyal you are and your dreams of whatever life you think he wants from you, but that won't help him fall in love anymore than the reverse does for you. There's no option other than walking the walk, and there's no shortcut.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 08:28 PM
2

Maybe I need others backing me up, but you sound off your rocker. 'wolf in sheeps clothing/Gone Girl': Nothing to back up why either of those might be the case. By your description, she's sociable, positive, friendly, hot, and liked. I can't help but feel these views are a reaction to your gut because she snogged a basketball player instead of the person who couldn't make up his mind to show interest. "Surrendered" is not the look on the face of someone who enjoys being eye-fucked by you. You sa…
/r/askTRP31/10/16 08:16 AM
10

You don't lift, and you both know she can do better. You aren't just single, you're worse than single; you're taken and alone at the same time. You don't need one thing to uncuck yourself, you need the whole 12" strap on of red pill awareness. You've let your life slip out of your control at every level to where even your brain and girl think humanity would be better off with more of her, more of someone else, and none of you. Why aren't you pissed?
/r/askTRP28/10/16 02:11 PM
3

They want to vote, but don't want to serve. Might want to edit that to 'want to be required to serve'. Plenty want to serve, but tunes change real quick when it comes to citizenship requiring conscription consent like males.
/r/MensRights25/10/16 02:28 PM
2

What cruel monstrous beings would refuse to show sympathy for a fellow human being? Mammals. Not just humans, but all mammals. Since we ride along on autopilot most times, reactions to events are mostly based on inherent basic instinct. Our basic instincts are sexist; all of us, and they value the wellbeing, life, and happiness of women and children first, and that goes for the women and children as well. To paraphrase Mel Brooks. Tragedy is when a woman stubs her toe. Comedy is when a man falls…
/r/MensRights25/10/16 01:31 PM
3

I think the end of Silent Hill qualifies. (barb wire rape)
/r/MensRights25/10/16 01:17 PM
5

Thank you for your sacrifice.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 08:10 PM
1

You suck it up and suffer. If the relationship is over, cut it cleanly and keep your trap shut. All you'd be doing is dumping off your anxieties you earned onto her shoulders, reopening an old wound just to cut hers deeper. You feel like shit because of it. You should feel like shit because of it. But you're wanting to hurt her so you can sleep better? Nah, get fucked, and keep that shit inside.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 10:52 AM
1

Female version of "plate-zone" would be "Friends with benefits"; If they have fucked but aren't exclusive. So, same thing. The 'friendzone' we shiver about, where useful guys are kept around solely for their utility when shown false hope, those have a different male analog. The female version of that is a girl who you'd let suck your dick, but you wouldn't fuck.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 02:01 PM
1

One is sex, one is a sex substitute.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 02:45 AM
2

Was 36 when I discovered, and it's been invaluable.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 03:54 PM
2

I'm going to make a couple of guesses you should correct before taking the rest to heart. You feel you are doing most of the work during sex. Im not accusing her of being a starfish, but I am saying she's on the spectrum between corpse and she is always on bottom. So afterwards you feel she's getting a way better deal out of this. The connection between you is weak. I say the connection between you is weak because you seeing the actions and not understanding her motivations. I'm not saying you s…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 03:08 PM
3

by getting out of the house and joining roving bands of late teens and early twenty's who love being themselves? Showing them an alpha who can lead a team to properly split up and locate a nearby pokemon in minutes? Fuck no, do it. It's the best reason to open a group thats come out in forever. SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO damn many people are playing, way more than you might expect.
/r/askTRP10/07/16 09:39 PM
2

Parents divorced when I was little, and they've been polite ever since. This isn't about Dad tho. I went back and forth between dad and mom frequently growing up. There was even a good period of time when we lived in a tent, or in a truck campershell that I don't think was actually on a truck, just there on stilts in a campground. Didn't bother me any, Ive always been easy going and accepting. My half brother was conceived in that tent, possibly with me sleeping under the stars just outside. The…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 08:29 PM
2

By fucking and ghosting you, she gets to tell everyone including herself that she dumped you, and all of that previous cheating stuff gets conveniently forgotten and she gets to sleep better. Hell, she even gets to know you can't do better than her, since you took her back and didnt find anyone better in the interim.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 04:12 PM
14

None the less, it's memorable. You think it's stupid. I think it's brilliant because you're thinking about it and talking about it. His goals are being met, and you're helping. For free. Who is stupid now?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 08:38 PM
17

Male victims of rape happen, they'll concede. Female perpetrators, that's the one they can't handle.
/r/MensRights03/07/16 06:05 PM
1

I just want to understand how to go about it without pissing him off in the meanwhile, while I catch up. This may sound meaner than what I wrote above, but why would you listen to a random internet asshole like me when you haven't been listening to what he has been saying? He wants you to win, and has been trying to tell you how to do that. Why is me saying things like 'stop calling when asked not to' more readily listened to than him saying 'stop calling'? Chew on that a while. Go to RPW, and p…
/r/askTRP03/07/16 04:16 AM
2

If you can't abide by his wishes, end the relationship. You're too needy for him to be able to handle. As vague as you've been about what he does, I'm pretty certain that there is legitimate, serious risk of life, limb, and money involved. You're neediness and need to dump your anxiety on him makes him less effective at his job. Fucking listen to him, or leave. You require more than he can give, and he requires more than you are capable of giving. You're not just missing him, you're dumping on h…
/r/askTRP02/07/16 06:29 PM
33

Let's not forget raising money in memorial. Crazy evil bitch actually profited of it in sympathy and money. Fuck that broad.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/07/16 11:17 PM
3

That's the mark of someone that learned personal responsibility. He's winning now, and he was the reason he was failing before, so there's no need to be mad. The problem is fixed.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 03:00 PM
3

Maybe you aught to ask why you only care when it happens to you directly. Feeling empathy for the hardships of women more than men is how all mammals are wired; you probably even now would much rather be that victim than have a woman experience the same in your place. That empathy is being manipulated, so you judge situations on that gut feel rather than rational thought. Since you'll always care more for women, ta da, less care for men and you're easily lead. Look through the things we're const…
/r/MensRights04/06/16 08:36 AM
1

Savage. I like you.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 05:40 AM
2

Went to a couple of the Sci-Fi Speed Dating at a couple of cons. Overall, it was actually really fun, if you've got a personality and aren't fat/ugly. Soooo, soo much of it was girls looking for hot nookie. Buff dude in a good cosplay and you're golden. Know your question, since you'll really only need one to ask everyone to start and convo after that. Make sure to have a few answers for your own question, because of course they'll ask the same back at you. Knowing your question lets you confide…
/r/askTRP04/06/16 05:31 AM
8

Yes. Now 15-20 younger, that's a sweeter spot.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 12:00 AM
1

No, no, hell nah, ARE YOU FUCKING stupid, and fuck that, respectively.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 08:03 PM
-10

Definition of 'entering', sure, but not breaking. If they kicked the door down and left, that'd be breaking without entering. Kinda like 'assault and battery'. Assault is taking a swing. Battery is the swing connecting. Breaking is forcing the lock, entering is stepping through.
/r/MensRights19/04/16 04:42 PM
1

Be genuinely happy and excited by their victory. Ask them questions to help you improve, study the game in your mind and whatever the appropriate training methods are, and use the defeat to fuel your fire to be better. Git Gud, scrub. That's the only answer, ever.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 07:06 PM
1

That's entirely up to how she sees you. You can't 'turn' her, you can only be worthy of her sub'ing for you. You can talk about your respective hard limits, and you have to be sure yours are respected and pushback any challenge to them. If you're not worthy, she wont budge from her dom setting.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 06:20 PM
1

Smart lawyers exist. Lawyers saying you don't need an attorney don't exist. Therefore, you're a fucking idiot. QED.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 06:46 PM
2

Who the hell is MARIA Hoff Summers?
/r/MensRights16/04/16 07:54 AM
3

To whom? The heroin?
/r/askTRP15/04/16 09:58 AM
6

Hey guys, you know that heroin addiction I've been trying to quit and having a hard time with? Well I just got a text about where to get some. What should I do? What the fuck do you think? You text her back 'thanks but no thanks.' Jesus Christ man, you're being fucked with and even you know that. You already knew the answer to this. You're letting your mind fuck with you because you're addicted.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 09:46 AM
2

Kesha testified previously that such things never took place between them. Kesha is gunning for trying to dissolve the Sony contract, and NOT bring a rapist to justice through the police and criminal court system. Kesha has always been free to complete her contract without his involvement. This has been considered unacceptable to her. I agree with the judge's ruling. I believe she's trying to get out of her contract and is using the allegation to get out of the commitments she has agreed to beca…
/r/askTRP14/04/16 11:05 PM
1

"Fuck no, I'm a tall, loud, and proud shitty person. You're surrounded all day every day with lowkey good people, and you're here, because you can relax, and not have to wear your mask around me. Don't hate me because you feel the need to be someone else around other people. " The more history you have with the girl, the further in the script you get. Random girl, just the first sentence.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 05:18 PM
1

Did you push her away/drop her in the original breakup? If so, it was to make her feel better, that the split was entirely her control and decision. One last fling to say goodbye and walk away convinced it was always her power. If not, and I expect it's not, it's to show herself she still has power over you and has power over men. He new boyfriend is hitting all the right buttons but doesn't take her shit like you do; she gets shaken, and gains some power back by manipulating you. I have no fuck…
/r/askTRP13/04/16 07:52 AM
1

He?
/r/MensRights13/04/16 03:07 AM
5

It's hamstering her actions of testing a new branch before swinging, maybe with a lil' bit of 'no expectations' sprinkled on. Ignore it, agree, and don't let it affect how you behave on the date.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 08:46 PM
2

You threw a non-sequitor rhetoric tantrum because she dared say being a woman is hard, where you painted men as working and dying while the women just fuck when they should working in order to get promotions. Because she said being a woman is hard. Not even 'harder', just hard.That's derailing, and with your rambling, completely indistiguishable from flaming and trolling. But somehow it's hypocritical for mods to ban because men are dying and this is an affront against people that actually care …
/r/MensRights11/04/16 09:02 AM
22

You're being manipulated for the giggles of little girls. Stop caring.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 08:49 AM
2

Since none of those things had anything to do with the discussion, derailing. You heard 'women have it hard' and went full pearl-clutching, fainting couch indignation and antagonism, and decided to holler for troops on at least two subs so far about it? You're seeing the picture. You're mad. I get it. Justifiable mad, at shit that had nothing to do with the comments you posted. We're not your personal army. You want support, be better. At the moment I can tell if you're just one hell of twit, de…
/r/MensRights11/04/16 08:36 AM
6

You spread your whining over at least two different subs because your feels got hurt? Best case scenario, your red pill awakening was very recent, and you're neck deep in anger phase and coursing with righteous indignation. And you're using it as a valid reason to be stupid, and it's not one. Sit. Chill. Stew. Read. Soak. Wait. Put your damn head on and think your actions through.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 08:29 AM
1

Huh, years upon years of crap accusation about us 'derailing', and there it is. If I was a mod there, I'd call you a troll and probably ban as well.
/r/MensRights11/04/16 08:19 AM
10

Listen to this guy. Don't you dare put up personal pics attached to a RedPill account, you WILL regret it, and gain nothing for the risk exposure. I get it, you're worried that you won't get an honest answer. Another option would be ask for RP volunteers to look over, but that only limits your risk, doesn't eliminate it if it gets in untrustworthy hands.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 01:33 AM
8

Alright, aside from the whole fucking 'hell yes it'll improve SMV, way more than it could ever possibly hurt it', the obvious question is why you're letting the opinion of someone else decide how you live your life. Man the fuck up and be who YOU want to be. If it's oiled in knee high converse and He-Man underwear, showing the world your skills as gladiator, showman, bodybuilder, and gymnast, mother fucker you DO it and you do it BIG, and realize this is a projection of insecurity.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 04:34 PM
1

I like the idea, but I've no end of troubles with Google Voice and MMS (pics usually) together. Normal MMS is peachy, but sending/receiving pics/files of any kind get broken immediately but I havent figured out how to resolve it. Do you receive MMS pics sent to your voice number? If so, how?
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 06:00 AM
2

Thirded for Backup+. Does the job beautifully.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 05:55 AM
1

That quick visceral satisfaction of trying to argue on the internet is currently winning over your patience and reading comprehension. Read more, correct less.
/r/MensRights08/04/16 03:00 PM
6

Dickerdoodles
/r/MensRights07/04/16 06:01 PM
2

She's bored and kinda wants to start a fight. So, when you have the time, playfight with her, go for angsty grunge sex and fuck her into obedience. Her needs will be sated, you'll be on top, everyone's relationship is much happier.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 03:31 PM
7

What part of 'grossed out by scat' ISN'T an instinctual off switch?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 03:13 PM
2

No, she just wanted to cuddle.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 12:25 AM
6

Poker bots have been a thing for quite a while especially on poker websites. As for Go, using brute force is pretty 'computationally difficult' on the level of encryption. It's simple rules on a large board, not complex rules on a small board like chess. It has a mathematical and organic quality to it that is hard to describe to people who haven't experienced it. It's been a serious milestone in AI research for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 08:19 PM
1

Im not saying to lie back and take it. I'm saying winning the group back over will be a long fought ordeal that would require way more skill than most people have, and since you've fallen into this situation, I expect you may not have that skill. And fucking up in the process, which feels likely IMHO, will be disastrous. Start a new group, taking the loyal and valuable with you as much as possible, work your ass off to provide value to them, and make sure everyone sees the fun youre having with …
/r/askTRP08/03/16 08:22 PM
0

what's a good response.? 'You will when you lose me to someone with better hair. I'm not attracted to boys.' Establish a safe word before hand over text. 'Im glad you like dominate men like me. Your safe word will be 'bubbles'. I'm going to seduce you, kiss you, and just overall take you in a very manly fashion. If you ever want me to stop, say 'bubbles' and I'll stop, grab my things, and spend the night in someone else's more appreciative arms. Do you understand?' Boom, you've got intent, seduc…
/r/askTRP08/03/16 08:10 PM
3

It's all conjecture from limited and biased view, certainly I could be wrong. But this is what I see. The shit is focused on you. The pushback to not confront him is coming from the group, and it seems reasonable that HE isn't getting the same pushback to stow it from the group. The pushback you got was someone coming to his defense, not to yours saying that you could have handled things better. My only conclusion can be that they have his back and don't have yours. He's playing the game better …
/r/askTRP08/03/16 07:50 PM
8

Because they care about him, and don't care about you. They feel the same thing he feels, that you're a weak link and unlikable. You defending yourself will be seen as overcompensating childishness, while him being an ass to you will be viewed as charming wit. Him describing you as a child will be seen as just joking, while you making fun of his shoes will be you crossing a line. You didnt AMOG him, because the group doesn't see you as an alpha. You're pushing back against someone seen as bringi…
/r/askTRP08/03/16 06:58 PM
1

She realized what she was getting into going to yours and wanted to call an audible and slow the game down, making sure you're at least safe to be around. Agree to the Whole Foods date at an evening time (not before 4pm), chat her up at the bar for an hour, and suggest you both shop for things to cook at your place, and you'll know where you stand.
/r/askTRP28/02/16 02:11 AM
2

It's a legit question, but do we have anything peer reviewed and double blind to show on the matter?
/r/askTRP23/02/16 02:10 AM
5

I understand why you're feeling insecure and a bit shaken up by this; I also know there is no need to be and Im going to try and do my best to explain why. First and foremost, he really does love and trust you. I mean this sincerely, this isn't some bro-code bullshit. The fact he even peeped any of that is a big sign of his love. Those fantasies and desires are normal, and do NOT reflect ANYTHING about his relationship with you. Re-read that over and over. This is NOT a sign of any issues in you…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 05:04 AM
1

And you see nothing wrong with equating interested/attracted to 'guilty'? You're definitely not alone, but it is one seriously fucked up worldview.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 05:05 AM
3

http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/quotes/k/karendecro686951.html If a woman makes a unilateral decision to bring pregnancy to term, and the biological father does not, and cannot, share in this decision, he should not be liable for 21 years of support... autonomous women making independent decisions about their lives should not expect men to finance their choice. Karen DeCrow
/r/askTRP18/02/16 06:41 AM
1

We would definitely call him stupid for missing the flags. Then we'd show him every tool in his toolbox to come out as ahead as possible.
/r/MensRights08/02/16 05:15 PM
1

I was quoting an appropriate song, and not passing judgement. I definitely won't pass judgement on her, because in her own way, she's being honest about it. The ones that deceive, that profess commitment they have no intention of honoring and fail to honor when tested, those deserve our scorn. Those that are honest about it, don't. Since you've clearly read about plates, dread game, and social proof, you know damn good and well that we support being honest if we're not committed.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 05:07 PM
46

She's not in love, but she's gonna fuck you 'till somebody better comes along.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 07:09 AM
9

Someone please delete this shit. This isn't a field report, there's nothing with any semblance of red pill principles or outlook, and nothing of value here. I can't tell if this some sort of false flag or if this guy really is this stupid. OP, check yourself. You acted like a worthless creep and her behavior has been beyond polite for the shit you've pulled. Sit down, shut up, stop posting, read, and understand. And for the love of all that is holy, leave this girl alone. Dont stalk, dont check …
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 05:55 PM
1

Baby wipes. Trust me.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 07:49 PM
1

Easy little thought experiment: have the other person define rape culture in a way that some anthropologist could use when examining some previously unknown civilization. One that isn't predicated on men victimizing women, but is openly defined enough that a rape culture of women victimizing men is possible based on the things they're looking for. Ask them what they would need to see to determine if a rape culture existed, which (if only one and not both) sex is the victim, and which (if only on…
/r/MensRights03/02/16 08:35 AM
1

Warren Farrell, at least for me.
/r/MensRights02/02/16 04:09 PM
2

No, not at all. I'm more confident of his gayness than my own straightness.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 05:30 PM
3

In my experience, it's more 'Isn't timid and fucks me like an animal'. Since that's superior sex than an awkward newbie, its does overlap with 'good in bed' some, but mostly it's that she wants him to lead.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 08:33 AM
148

Suggestion that I've used to great impact; instead of 'lets me fuck', change it to 'wants to fuck me'. Doesn't say shit about your desire, ups your value by alluding to social proof, and changes the dynamic in their head from 'me good woman she cockslut' to 'me not want sex she does'. If she wants sex, go for it, if she doesn't, of course she's going to lose you to one who does.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 04:46 AM
3

Read the last line with insincerity and I bet itll make more sense.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 12:32 AM
1

So, it's not that because they displayed higher value, it's because they had higher value? The magic was in us this whole time? This is some serious missing the trees for the forest thinking here. "She didn't fuck you because you dropped all of that fat, she fucked you because you look healthy." People are attracted to value. People are less attracted to those who display less value. All of your targets here, like dread game, frame control, and assertiveness, are displays of value. But maybe you…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 10:13 AM
2

Since we don't know anything about what's happened in the 8 weeks since the date, no way anyone is gonna know for sure. Why weren't there more dates? Was there any sex? What other contact since then? All of the things you mentioned are a possibility, as is wanting to latch onto someone in time for V-Day cash and prizes, or actually wanting you. With no other information to work with, I'd say 'Don't remember. Send me pics and I'll tell you what I like.'
/r/askTRP28/01/16 09:54 AM
41

You misunderstand. They're not telling you what they're attracted to, they're telling you what they would wish the guys they are attracted to would do more of. Once you realize that, shit becomes a WHOLE ton clearer. 'Be open with your feelings' == 'The guys I like don't show their feelings.' 'Treat her nice' == 'The guys I like don't treat me nice enough for my liking' 'Be her friend' == 'The guys I like don't treat me like a friend' There ya go, the entire and super simple reasoning why what t…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 06:35 PM
6

I just wanted to be accepted somewhere. You'll find it easier when you're accepting of others. We're not clones, not an amorphous hive mind. Our singular thread here is the belief that there are rights men should have. In other aspects we will disagree, but should be able to discuss. Some believe in separate but equal, some believe separate at all is to be avoided. Some are PUA, some MGTOW, some RedPill, and most are just men running the same rat race we all are. You can be welcome and accepted,…
/r/MensRights17/01/16 03:49 AM
1

Kinda. The way you're going about it makes it sound like you're advertising yourself as a vending machine ready to dispense validation and just a quiet machine in the corner until then. That won't work well, it limits you to an occasional utility. You should be beaming, standing tall, proud, and happy. She's your little ass kicker and you're proud to have her on your side because she watched your back in the most unambiguous cut and dry situation anyone could ask for. There's no worries about th…
/r/askTRP13/01/16 06:45 PM
5

She shot a dude, of course she's going to need some time to process things. Deal with it and be supportive. As for your own insecurities, stow that shit immediately. She's processing what happened and if you're not completely a solid, stoic rock, you won't be of any use to her. She properly handled a bad situation. She sounds like exactly the kind of person you want on your team watching your back. If you're crumbling, you're not worthy to be watching hers. Step the fuck up.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 05:50 PM
5

Don't, its a trap. If she wanted you, she wouldn't risk friends around to see her rejection, and they'd get in the way if things got well. It's her wanting an audience for humiliating you and making sure people she cares about are there to see her rejecting you. "She's a sweet girl and all, but we're clearly not compatible; I just dont feel any spark. But tell her I said Thanks, and I hope she can find someone who will make her happy."
/r/askTRP13/01/16 04:14 PM
4

http://www.justice.gov/criminal-ceos/citizens-guide-us-federal-law-child-support-enforcement
/r/askTRP11/01/16 03:39 PM
72

I will marry, but I am not going to be walked all over. You're being walked over already. Implement Dread You misunderstand the situation you're in. There won't be dread from you not being around or dropping her. It'll be a relief to her. You do you, boo. We'll be here with the "told ya" locked and loaded for your inevitable tempest of misfortune.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 12:25 AM
9

"Oh, you know, I believe in personal liberty, smaller government, and the sanctity of marriage." 'So you're a Republican?' 'Fuck no. I know it's their tagline, but they're destroying personal liberty, increasing the size and scope of the government, and keeping loving people from being married. I am what they CLAIM to be but consistently don't do.'
/r/MensRights06/01/16 04:08 AM
2

Your choices: 1. Move out. 2. Suck it up.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 12:28 AM
1

So, slightly better odds than Russian Roulette?
/r/askTRP05/01/16 11:52 PM
2

While you're trying to be semantic, that's a dangerous thing to muddy the waters about, and opens anyone who takes it to heart to disaster. Easy example would be having an un-official marriage somewhere random. Spend time (3 years) in Texas where you introduce your spouse to a friend, and you're done; you're married and all of the problems associated with it are in your lap. That's just one I know off hand (Texas code 2.401.a.2 http://www.statutes.legis.state.tx.us/Docs/FA/htm/FA.2.htm#2.401 ) P…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 10:16 PM
6

If we agree that it's a shit deal for men to get into, and we agree that the long term economic results are disastrous for a nation, then good. But you're not going to see any change by asking men to fall on their swords in the name of saving a system that asks them to fall on their swords for no other reason than to keep the stabbings going. Must of us want commitment. Most of us want a solid, long term loving relationship. But you can't ask us to participate in a system INCENTIVIZES the ending…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 04:13 PM
3

My only thought is that you're a woman. Accurate?
/r/askTRP05/01/16 03:58 PM
15

Frankly, nah, not a joke. Given the choice between raped, and being publicly and falsely accused of rape, I'll take raped every time. I could have a life after raped. The few who might know might see me with pity in their eyes, but they'll also be concerned for my well being. After being accused of rape, whispers would be everywhere; they aren't spreading gossip of a rape victim, they're spreading warnings of a predator, that you're a rabid dog who would hurt anyone who got in your way. That the…
/r/MensRights03/01/16 08:50 PM
5

In the context of Men's Rights, whether we would act upon those rights are irrelevant, but we would not want that right taken away. You can be pro-abortion even if you would never choose to abort. We can be for those rights being available even if we would not act upon them.
/r/MensRights02/01/16 03:24 PM
2

I'm so drawing a blank on the name (someone help me out!) 'Miracle Noodles' or shirataki noodles.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/16 12:00 PM
1

She doesn't. She knows what HER experience perceiving others people's experience is like. Her lack of empathy for men compared to her empathy for women (and arguably, the similar lack of empathy the entire human race has) leads her to this conclusion. The idea of a woman being victimized affects our 'gut' more than the same happening to a man. It's also affected by age; a child being victimized hits us harder than someone older. Strap people into some EEG machines and show images of violence, an…
/r/MensRights28/12/15 07:30 PM
3

Could be they thought she was drunk and you were loser. Most likely, the girl signaled her friends for a 'rescue'. She don't like you.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 05:17 AM
6

By her? Oh hell no. You're a damn idiot who sees what she is offering (shit by the shovelfull) and you keep knocking on her door asking for more. She doesn't respect you, doesn't like you, and is intentionally unpleasant towards you. And you keep asking for more. This isn't about her being a bitch, it's you being too damn stupid to realise that the polite 'No's she's already given didn't sink in. So she turns the heat up a bit, and still you persist. So she finally got to the point where she sim…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 06:24 PM
-1

Not at all what I expected you cumsucking poz fag.
/r/MensRights20/12/15 11:35 PM
2

Since women have always been the primary victims of war...... /s But let's be honest. They did it because painting something as sexist against women is the only way people will actually care.
/r/MensRights20/12/15 03:09 AM
6

Isn't that exactly what he did?
/r/askTRP19/12/15 08:05 PM
2

Any thoughts on this? Well, first would be that you're not a lawyer. Or hold any elected position. You want to logic morality and expect the legal system and associated bureaucracies to follow suit. The part you're most interested in is somehow wanting your name attached to the results you think could come about and care more about glory than results. But hey, good luck I guess.
/r/MensRights19/12/15 07:02 AM
2

They're quite familiar with us.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 06:34 AM
14

Please take a moment to re-examine and possibly reframe your views of your father. Since you likely didn't have much contact with him, your views on WHY you dont have much contact probably stem from your mom. This world is filled to the brim with people called deadbeats that were tricked into conception with no recourse, been forced out of their children's lives by unilateral decision, estranged by lies and forced into servitude. Hell, I'd even bet that your father wouldn't speak ill of your mot…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 07:56 PM
4

Please do research; this shit is a quick google away. HSV-1 is the one known for cold sores, but can be contracted or spread anywhere and show sores in whatever location it is, be it genitals, lips, or even hands. HSV-2, what is usually meant by 'herpes' is far more dangerous to the reproductive system though.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 06:15 AM
2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y4EjtummO04 For those who want to get the tone right :)
/r/askTRP08/12/15 02:24 AM
48

Man, that girl REALLY knew how to stick to her story.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 08:11 AM
3

Then you haven't been paying attention. If you aren't attracting enough, you aren't attractive enough. Rather an inescapable tautology. You're wanting more people, who don't know you, to approach you without ever having spoken to you before, but when they don't, you refuse to believe that it could have anything to do with the limited information and perception of you they have to work from? Sure, you can listen to all of those who want to tell you it's a problem with other people. Victim complex…
/r/askTRP01/12/15 10:34 PM
5

There is no baby, you're being played and she's trying to bait the hook. Don't answer, don't reply, she simply doesn't exist. Every time you feel a knee jerk twinge about what you should be doing, you need to realize quick she's plucking your strings. Don't let her. She's persona non grata.
/r/MensRights30/10/15 06:59 PM
11

UH...No. That's X-23. She's been popular for years, even appearing in multiple video games including Marvel vs Capcom. This isn't a knee-jerk publicity reaction like fem Thor, she's an established character and has been for a long time.
/r/MensRights16/10/15 12:31 AM
1

Could you clarify which of those is a crime?
/r/MensRights15/10/15 02:17 PM
2

It's basically equal Dig into Argentinian father's rights issues, especially 'Erasing Dad'. They have less in the way of rights than we have in America. 'Equal' is not the word that comes to mind.
/r/MensRights15/10/15 01:57 PM
1

How about we just agree to continue believing each other idiots and go about our merry way?
/r/askTRP14/10/15 09:19 PM
1

red pill woman
/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:32 PM
1

You're asking him to put politics over his daughter's well-being. What the teachers think, what the administration thinks, what her classmates think, can all take a flying fucking leap. I can't think of much more despicable than using a child in a manner to push politics onto others. Is education and other viewpoints necessary? Absolutely. But to use a child as a mouthpiece in such a way makes me physically ill.
/r/MensRights01/10/15 12:26 AM
14

"It's the poor musician who blames his instrument."
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 06:17 PM
12

No, fuck her peers. The quality of his daughter's life is paramount, and that requires teaching her to adult. Edit: Apparently I'm too stupid to know my tantamount from my paramount.
/r/MensRights30/09/15 03:49 AM
2

My desire for 'Dark Lord of the Lifts' as a flair is overwhelming.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 01:48 AM
5

Russel Brand, Patrice O'Neal Patrice will help you interpret and see the unspoken words from women. Russel will show you frame control.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 06:35 PM
1

My take, with all of brutality I'd want someone to have towards me. Picture 1. No man, get rid of it, get better. That pic makes you looks stoned, overweight, and boring. The facial hair is in exactly the wrong length; doesn't do anything to shape your face, just looks like you're someone who can't grow a beard and can't be arsed to keep it clean. Frames look cheap and not stylish; get contacts, and make sure to pick up a few pair of correction lenses with colors, especially strong bright colors…
/r/askTRP29/09/15 05:55 PM
1

Sure. PM link, and make sure profile is set to public.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 04:55 PM
1

Verbal judo takes time, practice, memory, and composure that is way easier to talk about than have when you need it. Every single question should have been pretty quick for you to spot as aggressive, especially since this isn't the first time it's happened from them, and from their body language/tone. Every single one should have been flipped quickly to direct the pressure on them instead of answered factually like your reflexes did, all in a shit eating grin that let's everyone know they're chi…
/r/askTRP29/09/15 03:40 AM
1

http://www.eonline.com/eol_images/Entire_Site/2012925/reg_634.Goldfinger2.mh.102512.jpg
/r/askTRP23/09/15 03:30 PM
2

Don't make it political. Powerlifting over aerobics is a perfect topic. Worst anyone can take from it is you're a meathead, and that's only if you make a bad presentation, while it can definitely make a positive impression done right.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 03:05 PM
1

It's for those who think Jezebel is a tad too far radical. Jez Light, same shitty attitude, half the conviction.
/r/MensRights22/09/15 11:29 PM
1

How can I help? (with addendum of making sure your email is text only to avoid those trying to bait for your IP)
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 10:46 PM
1

Kid finds out there's a payday for taking care of business, he'll be quite regular in checking if you have any work that needs done.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 09:08 PM
3

Find a bigger kid who wants an easy $100.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 08:52 PM
1

Leave it, drop it, forget it ever happened, and if for some reason you recognize her out of the corner of your eye, don't even look and pretend you don't. my immediate reaction is to e-mail her and ask for clarification on why the door has to be open (or at least why she thinks she has the authority to tell me otherwise), NO. For the love of all that is holy do NOT do this. Put it out of your mind. Random crazy random encounter, that's all. All of the best possible outcomes are a push with doing…
/r/MensRights22/09/15 09:54 AM
1

Assuming that you keep improving yourself, does it really get better as you get older? Yes, yes, oh my fucking god a thousand times yes.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 09:06 AM
19

Needs a South Park [Feminists Actually Believe This] episode.
/r/MensRights22/09/15 06:10 AM
15

Great husband, terrible lover. But since she can have the state for a husband and any of the thirsty horde for lovers, the state will be content fucking the men only.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 02:16 AM
11

Every person there has something of value to you. Paul's been a mechanic for 10 years, and loves Audi's; give respect for it and ask him sincerely for his expert advice in a way that relates to your life and is usefull. Tammy qualified with the highest markmanship rating before she left the Army for college. Ask her about her favorite rifle and why, and point out that you think it's neat that her choices are for accuracy instead of overall power and how bad you feel trying to pick up a 1911 for …
/r/askTRP19/09/15 11:38 PM
1

Why is height a negative for you? Don't get me wrong, teeny girls are fun, but a tall girl leads to taller kids. It just seems that at best it should be a push, with a bunch of reasons to think it's an asset.
/r/askTRP19/09/15 07:22 PM
1

Yes, semantics. You're using the word intending a definition different from the one I used, the ones in the dictionary. Ergo, disagreement over the definition of a word...there's a word for that. I think it's 'semantics'. From: http://lmgtfy.com/?q=define+hearsay hear·say ˈhirˌsā/ noun noun: hearsay information received from other people that one cannot adequately substantiate; rumor. "according to hearsay, Bob had managed to break his arm" synonyms: rumor, gossip, tittle-tattle, idle talk; More…
/r/MensRights18/09/15 09:13 PM
11

TRP is that powerful that it might turn bisexual men gay TRP also says 'You cannot negotiate desire', which leads pretty quickly to 'who you are attracted and why is largely out of anyone's hands outside of traumatic events. Evo psych, the psychology, ALL of it lands pretty damn straight into 'homo/hetero/bi-sexuality is not a choice' because 'attraction is not a choice' You can choose to suck a dick. You can't choose to enjoy it. But man, if the Republicans were right and gay was a choice, I CL…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 03:56 PM
2

This isn't a bar. Im not gaming your chick. And you're not getting this dick. So these half ass AMOG attempts from you are sad. Someone tells you you're giving bad advice and why, and you head straight for insults. See, in speech, in flow, in frame, yeah, you can pull that off. But you can't bullshit us, especially over text. 'Why are you trying to shame people?' followed by 'Oh, you're a weak ass boy who feels shame?' Get the fuck out of here with that bullshit. Fact is, you aren't that dumb. A…
/r/askTRP18/09/15 02:04 PM
0

Aw, how cute, condescension. You'd like to SHAME people to your way of thinking? Jesus christ man, grab both ears and yank.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 11:57 AM
1

This is now a pointless semantic argument I've lost any interest in.
/r/MensRights18/09/15 11:33 AM
1

Gave an uptick because I dont know why this was at 0. Id hate to live in a country where waking up to lips on your dick was illegal. Man, I had no idea I had been raped so many times. More than a few times waking up to grinding and being ridden and not even being sure in the morning if that happened. That was a great rape for me, or a 'Hot Cosby' as the kids today call it. I seriously don't understand how they managed to take mens rea entirely out of the question of rape.
/r/MensRights18/09/15 11:30 AM
1

I agree completely. Its not the reporting Im viewing as hearsay, it's the testimony. Now, being a higher up Mountie, I will totally concede that the courts will probably not consider it on the level of the same hearsay reported by a civilian, but it's still hearsay.
/r/MensRights18/09/15 11:00 AM
8

Step 1. Call the fucking cops. NO. DO NOT DO THIS. Jesus fucking Christ. I'd hate to be broke and homeless in Mississippi, but it's way better than being broke in jail in Mississippi while she is cleaning out all of your possessions a pawnstore would give a dime for. I appreciate that you think he's safe since he was hit and didn't do any hitting. That's how it should be but, motherfucker, that ain't how it IS. Even if he had a video of the slap, I'd still say keep the video and avoid the police…
/r/askTRP18/09/15 10:38 AM
26

This smells to high heaven. Please don't try and take this one up; this is poop. Don't touch the poop. Dude's lawyer put him up as an alcohol, herion and cocaine addict right out of the gate. Second in comman [sic] is giving hearsay to the press with: "When asked why he didn’t just delete the photos and videos he responded: “I don’t know. I think I wanted her to find it.” So either we've got some serious corruption with Mr. #2, or he was part of the downloading, even if it was browser cache she …
/r/MensRights18/09/15 10:23 AM
15

That decision was pure brilliance. Here' the take from the article linked in the top: Amusingly, PC Principal and his gang of accomplices are portrayed as a hybrid of social justice warrior and college frat jock. At one point, the parents of South Park’s kids go to a college bar where they are accosted by “PC bros” who threaten to “throw down” at the slightest suggestion that Jenner isn’t a “stunning beautiful woman.” But I think there are a few more good reasons. -Based on the mindset of the po…
/r/MensRights18/09/15 09:26 AM
24

Get out asap. Get the hotel paid to date and off your card asap. Find another hotel. No, there aint shit anywhere; you're the dangerous one, she probably felt threatened, etc etc. Get the fuck out and learn to get your phone recording.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 06:57 AM
2

That's the great part about fighting what doesn't exist. The party NEVER ends.
/r/MensRights17/09/15 11:06 AM
7

They're the financial hook of it, and backed heavily by privatized prisons.
/r/MensRights26/08/15 04:35 PM
1

So take it like a compliment that she wants more. I'd even reinforce/reframe it as such. "I do like you wanting more time with me." and then follow with your actual and honest schedule. If you literally have only that hour, be clear about it, and direct about what you'll be doing for the hour so she can decide if she's wants to. When she complains about it, that's when you're cheeky. Now's not the time. You're adults with schedules so deal and be up front.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 05:48 AM
1

My bad, I thought you were arguing for the status quo.
/r/MensRights25/08/15 10:12 PM
6

Then why is the only one being burdened in your situation the only party that actually DID consider the wellbeing of the potential child when he decided not to? You're asking us to accept a fucked up situation that accepts, promotes, and incentivizes this exact fucked up situation. If it is not, it should be criminal. The 'financial abortion' card is the only humane one that makes sense.
/r/MensRights25/08/15 09:18 PM
16

You're being played for more money. "I respect your hustle, but I need a trainer, not a girl friend. If you want me to keep coming back, more pain, less smoke up the ass."
/r/askTRP24/08/15 05:56 AM
6

is a lack of empathy for men and their issues, and women not being encouraged to try and see things from their perspective. Welcome to the entire reason for 'feelz over realz'. The lack of empathy towards men as a whole is biological. Yes, Im a TRPer, yes it's evo psych. But the point is, it's a FEEL. It's an instinctual reaction, not a logical one. Since people are on autopilot most of the time, the thinking doesn't happen, just the gut check, and in the gut check, women win. Always. FEEL the s…
/r/MensRights22/08/15 09:17 PM
5

It's not that you didn't escalate quickly enough, it's that her attraction wasn't at the level matching your sexual escalation; you didn't get the fires hot enough for the big logs you throw on the campfire. Those slightly off 'wtf ya doin?' moments are her clues she wasn't sure if she was liking the experience. When you see those is when you pull back the physical contact and work on talking with her and building the sexual tension up with strong eye contact. From her point of view, you're a ba…
/r/askTRP18/08/15 04:17 AM
9

Her clock is running out, pressure from family for marriage: She has too little time to make too big of a decision are the sources of her anxiety, which just makes it harder to like someone. So she's in a scramble and process repeats. If you're trying to help her by showing her her situation, Im not sure that would help. You'd have to teach her whatever tricks you can pull to actually fall for a guy. Help the guy if needed, and otherwise wing for the guy and help hit her attraction triggers with…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 07:04 PM
14

The National Domestic Violence Hotline mentions the risk of false allegations in its guide for abused men, and warns explicitly: “If you do retaliate, you’ll almost certainly be the one who is arrested and/or removed from your home.” Ditto. Good thing it's a man, otherwise this would be considered victim blaming.
/r/MensRights09/08/15 07:30 PM
2

http://lesswrong.com/lw/h4e/differential_reproduction_for_men_and_women/ Comment from 'gwern' seems to cover sources best.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 04:10 PM
1

For C, The Kernigham and Ritchie book.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 06:33 PM
2

First off, lawyer. But I expect the most important thing you must do but will be tempting to skip is the use of a fertility clinic specifically specializing in such surrogacy. The few laws in place have a tendency to ignore any surrogacy situations that don't use a proper and spendy clinic. Second, lawyer.
/r/MensRights30/07/15 07:46 PM
5

We're gonna need a bigger Voat. (Stolen, not mine)
/r/MensRights29/07/15 10:50 PM
246

We all need a friend like Derek.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 09:35 PM
8

Dave Foley might have a differing opinion of the Canadian family courts.
/r/MensRights29/07/15 04:45 PM
36

Senpai noticed me!
/r/MensRights28/07/15 07:03 PM
2

Fuck. Ouch.
/r/MensRights28/07/15 05:15 PM
6

This is one of the LAST places where anyone should be colored by anonymity. We all know the dangers of doxxing. You've been here a bunch, and I'm dissappointed your only response to the post is casting doubts on their sincerity, accuracy, or motives because he's using a throwaway.
/r/MensRights28/07/15 05:04 PM
7

Yeup, druecifer is right, you're simple, and begging to be a statistic or example. You confront her, you lose, and this woman who doesn't value you, your life, or your livelihood would be FLOODED with all of the good dopamines and seratonins for tearing into your life with the explicit purpose of hurting or destroying you. You're only a guy, it's not like you're a human being or anything. She's your housemate. When you cross paths, say 'Hi', but be busy and gone asap. Look for a new place to liv…
/r/MensRights28/07/15 02:44 AM
10

Do you want to win and make your life better, or change her views? Because the two are pretty mutually exclusive.
/r/MensRights28/07/15 02:08 AM
4

Encouraging him to be be more successful in his relationships? Helping him see his own value rather that an undeserved self confidence? It's like he's trying to be a friend or something. That fucker.
/r/askTRP26/07/15 04:17 AM
10

When you make laziness better rewarding than production, don't be surprised when people make the choice that is in the best interests of them and theirs. It's a bad idea to rely on a peoples to go against their best interests because of your concept of honor. Most would kill if it was required to feed their kids. All would sit on their ass and play CoD if it meant better food for the kids.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 03:22 AM
2

Employment history and seniority for one, as shown here TL:DR, they change or temporarily leaves job more often; men are more consistent and it looks like that's something business reward. Who knew?: http://www.census.gov/people/laborforce/files/Earnings_and_Experience_Associations.pdf Second would be hours worked per week. Turns out, if you work more hours, you get paid more, both immediately, and in negotiations. Turns out, that sort of thing businesses like and reward. Who knew? http://www.ce…
/r/MensRights25/07/15 02:27 AM
2

That's one possibility; she wants to pull back the relationship to platonic. Another is dread game to lock him down. Doesn't matter, my answer is the right answer for ALL possibilities. She wants more commitment using dread game? Bam, dread game busted and flipped. She wants less intimacy because reasons? Bam, you got it, she doesn't have to tiptoe worried about his hurt feelings because he clearly is okay with it. Hell, he was selling her to the best looking dude in the bar (so he'd be out of t…
/r/askTRP23/07/15 06:49 PM
3

Do I soft next and move on? Or is it all in my head. Fuck no. You take her up on it, and be a friend with benefits. Make a deal of it, ask her to invite her cutest friends, especially Karen, and you're gonna invite some of your best looking friends. Talk to her about winging for you and how you'll wing for her. And flirt like a madman with everyone, bolster up your boys, and her girls to everyone you meet.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 06:08 PM
1

I appreciate the clarification. I think I see what you're saying; the action was kind and giving, but you wanted a physical momento of the celebration, a keepsake, physical token. Could I make a suggestion? Get a small, blank, card and envelope (Dollar stores or craft stores), two cheap picture frames, and the services of a friend with a great camera setup/amateur photographer. Tell him you know what you'd like, to get a great picture of you two here and now, and some words from him on the card.…
/r/askTRP23/07/15 05:40 PM
1

Valid point. If he was absent, didn't spend time with her, or otherwise did nothing, yeah, that's a little disappointing and reasonable. Cook a meal, record a video or audio message, stash random love notes around her house, ask her fav celebs if they'd be willing to wish her a happy birthday, whatever. Tons of cheap or free ways to make her feel special. OP, if he did in fact do NOTHING at all, yes, it's perfectly fine to be disappointed. I just want to make sure you're aware and take into acco…
/r/askTRP23/07/15 05:19 PM
1

Is it unreasonable for you to be disappointed that he did exactly what you told him to? Yeah. But attraction can't be negotiated. If you've lost your attraction because he's having a rough spell, well, that's actually pretty natural. But don't try to convince yourself you're being supportive when he accepts your support and you start looking for exits. He trusted you to tell him the truth. Admit you were wrong, that you aren't capable of being supportive in hardships, or decide to be the support…
/r/askTRP23/07/15 05:00 PM
2

Welcome to the wonderful world they're trying to implement, where sex is a social construct (Caitlyn Jenner), and race is not a social construct (Rachel Dolezal). How anyone can hold those two premises in their head as true at the same time makes me weep for humanity.
/r/MensRights23/07/15 04:09 PM
8

these new misandry-laden rape laws will still see only a very small percentage of rapists ever being charged Way to miss the point, princess. We're worried about the percentage of NON-rapists being charged. You know, innocent victims who are not given any rights of due process and protection under the law.
/r/MensRights23/07/15 03:43 AM
2

Considering the ubiquity of Plan B and the 'remote abortion' procedure of a doctor watching a patient taken a prescription strength Plan B style abortion drug, I have a difficult time concluding that less surgical abortions means less access to aborting procedures. They are dropping just as fast from the lack of necessity as they are from political and religious pushback.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 08:10 PM
3

Those who see the benefits of others having a high opinion of you. If you're a hobo with no interest in sexual or social value, then aiming to increase your SMV is pointless, since it is a SOCIAL/SEXUAL market value. That's true. Some of us see the inherent value in our lives of increasing our SMV, and the facts in the OP are accurate to do so. If you don't, you're definitely in the wrong sub.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 07:49 PM
5

You don't. Just, don't.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 07:50 AM
8

You're so scared of a golddigger that you're intentionally sending all of the signals that you aren't a catch, and they're probably reading those signals and deciding you don't want to be a catch, regardless of money. Don't be surprised, bitter, or angry when they do exactly that. But let's be honest, that's not the problem. Your fear of golddiggers is boosted by your certainty that you don't have anything else that they might be interested in. You don't have faith in yourself, and you're living…
/r/askTRP13/07/15 11:07 PM
2

Still accurate in Idaho.
/r/MensRights13/07/15 08:22 PM
2

Asian guys can be niggas if they want to. Hear, hear! Down with the trans-nigga-phobia! It's not just for Spokane girls anymore.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 02:02 AM
4

Nerdy asshole #2: I think he meant DarkStalkers if he was keeping with the fighting arcade games.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 04:14 PM
1

Isn't it state level, as long as it remains state? If so, Idaho's rape laws are NOT gender neutral. Rape requires either a penis or employment with the department of corrections. http://www.legislature.idaho.gov/idstat/Title18/T18CH61.htm
/r/MensRights08/07/15 03:04 AM
2

Your in a restaurant. I brought up diet, literally your choice of food, in a restaurant. Would you tear into someone for striking up a conversation about football in a sports bar? But, the important part is your instinctual reaction to meeting new people is superiority and condescension, so this is when I 'NOPE' the fuck out and regret the 30 seconds wasted on such a hateful creature like you. Let's be honest, the 'looks like you're on a diet is a pretty heavy handed neg, and not one I do. But i…
/r/askTRP07/07/15 06:42 PM
1

You got lost at 'logarithmic', didn't you?
/r/MensRights06/07/15 04:53 AM
7

One of my better stoned realizations. The hard part is remembering it. So much I've missed out on erring on the side of flawless defense.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 06:13 PM
5

I realize I'm having the equivalent of a one-night stand. I realize this can't go anywhere. I realize that she's already adjusted to the dynamic change and is ready to just be a fuck toy. Even if I consider all of that to be accurate, that doesn't mean that this is: I realize this person I've had such an amazing time with has no true love for me. Someone making the best out of the situation she has no control over should be expected. A starving person who settles for your PB&J because its the on…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 05:57 PM
13

You know, you're right. Last of the physical details had in making out in the bed, and then sort of mentally checking out. Physically up and leaving was read in on my part.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 04:03 PM
353

You're assigning the worst possible motives to what you saw without any possible consideration for alternative ones. Your conclusion that she doesn't have love for you is almost certainly incorrect, and her actions are in line with her actually having it. Picture things from her point of view. You're leaving, and the panic of losing access to you makes her uncomfortable and wants to make the best of the time left, so goes straight to getting some loving. You may think it's because she doesnt wan…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 02:59 PM
2

Believe it or not, it's a test for consent. If you accept it, we know you want to be there. With someone else to see, it means more because you're willing to let other people know our relationship, and is a little bit of a 'marking territory' mate-guarding move. Ever see a girl check out your guy and want to clutch onto his arm? Same thing. I dont get what doing it in front of the driver would be for, unless that it was ASAP and he wanted to get a feel for your reluctance, or wanted to see his r…
/r/askTRP04/07/15 03:01 PM
1

You had a goal, 'pay for legal in a way that wouldn't bring her attention it' and you were seeking advice on ways to accomplish it. Suggestion that would give you an income source other than the bank accounts she's monitoring, AND the ability to pay for council from an account she wasnt aware of. If strategy is amoral, then suggestions of tactics cannot be considered degrading on a personal level. Chill man, he was trying help, and I thought it was a great idea I had never heard of or considered…
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:45 PM
1

Find another way to pay, preferably a reliable friend or family member, especially one that knows the shitshow you're going to be in for. Document fucking everything, especially child care situations like doctor or dentist visits, parent-teacher conferences, fucking everything. You're going to be painted as a slacker in every sense of the word, especially in regards to the kids. You're going to need video and audio recording available at all times to help guard against domestic violence and chil…
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:09 PM
0

Limited information on your part left it open to considering it a valid suggestion. Please don't bite the few hands that are trying to assist for failure to be omnipotent.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:03 PM
2

I know that I'm good looking but I'm lacking an alpha mentality. Do I still need to lift? I'm not against lifting and do have a gym-card, but is it necessary if you're good looking? YES. Regardless of where you are, you will be better. It sucks, it's painful, requires discipline, and it sets you apart. Do it. Just fucking DO IT. How does RP's feel about LTRs? Is it even a thing or is it all about fuck and chuck? Do as you like. You are the sole arbiter of what you will and wont accept in your li…
/r/askTRP23/06/15 04:43 AM
4

Translation: Zero sexual or attraction feels. You're great for the things she wants, but none of those things include a desire for physical intimacy or commitment. You're oneitus never even considered you fun to kiss.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 01:52 PM
1

Surely that puts abortion in the same bracket? The exact same way body piercings should be in the same bracket at stabbings. GTFO. Knowing and understanding the views of a crazy person doesn't mean they weren't crazy.
/r/MensRights19/06/15 01:41 AM
2

Cool, thank you.
/r/MensRights15/06/15 06:49 PM
1

Statistically, MtF outnumber FtM over 3:1 (I havent dug deep, Im getting that number from http://www.gendercentre.org.au/resources/polare-archive/archived-articles/how-many-of-us-are-there.htm) I always wondered about that difference. Do you have any input, insight, or opinion? I promise to not consider the answer as anything more than a faceless random internet stranger ramblings, but I'd love to hear it. If you'd rather not, that's cool too.
/r/MensRights15/06/15 06:21 PM
2

Check cheek color, smile, and pupils if you can see them. blush, smile that shows teeth, and bigger pupils, chances are it's a positive reaction. No color, no teeth, no pupil dilation, it's an negative reaction; they are in fact avoiding or being curt with you. Lighten up Francis, they don't find being around you enjoyable.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 03:50 PM
1

How about the entire state of Idaho? One of the few states with specifically gendered wording that completely requires a penis to be prosecuted for rape of any kind, including statutory. Does that help? http://www.legislature.idaho.gov/idstat/Title18/T18CH61.htm
/r/MensRights15/06/15 01:37 PM
2

Dude pulled a 100 year repost of a troll. It's kinda hard to stay mad, and makes me wonder if there was a different name for Poe's Law back then. But Im damn glad to see every here being smart and not flipping out like Im sure the poster wanted. gr8 b8 m8
/r/MensRights15/06/15 11:40 AM
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Im sure the view from behind is nice :) lolol Aside from scratching my head at 'Why the hell would you laugh when paying a compliment?' it wasn't a bad sentiment on your part from where Im sitting. Since there isn't really anything before it I can see that would paint more about your conversation from before, this is just being judged stand alone. you know.... She realizes you're attracted, and puts the kibosh on it. It was polite and clear. This is actually the kind of rejection you want when i…
/r/askTRP14/06/15 07:10 PM
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I think these sexual strategies are more often than not beta traits. Is this correct? As they're usually performed, yeah. Supplicating behavior like that usually is, but it can be done with care by alphas, but only after attraction has been built, maybe even consumated. That kind of giving action fosters comfort, NOT attraction. Building a comfort connection before attraction defines the relationship with that comfort, and NOT attraction. Ergo, the sex barely or awkwardly comes into play, while …
/r/askTRP14/06/15 05:33 AM
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Their motive is profit, not justice. Party fun time for the group, and eject those who take away fun or money. The money they make is proportional to the women in attendance more than thirsty dudes. The benevolent sexism in everyone directly translates to it being in their best interests to eject a dude without a care, regardless of the facts of the situation. Doing so leads to a better party and more money.
/r/MensRights06/06/15 06:43 PM
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You have a dictionary, and remain disingenuous. If you don't know the definition of a word, you shouldn't be using it as part of your question. Thanks for the wank, but you'd be better served in a circlejerk sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 01:58 AM
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I agree that women appear to be incompetant at the task of killing themselves, and attempts for show and attention are more common with them. But paying a little care towards which group would results in less bodies? If you don't think the evidence I put shows more selfless and idealistic stoicism and emotional investment, then I dont know what will. I've asked for ideas that would be compelling, and again you don't mention any. Each of the points I brought up paint traits of stoic idealized lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 12:48 AM
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Don't forget that the divorce courts in America favor women . We don't know what would happen if the laws were different. So they're taking advantage of the legal situation they convinced a schmuck into. Sounds like opportunism to me. But, it's still easy to take out of the equation. Divorce rates for homosexual relations are more frequent for women couples than men. Or check the instigating divorce rates in countries that have more reasonable family laws. Wouldn't this mostly have to do with "d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 12:20 AM
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Im saying there is a price I'd do gay porn at. There is a much lower price that I'd dance for men for. If I thought I could inspire the sort of lucrative thirst an attractive woman can inspire in men, yes, I'd do it if I decided it was in my best interests. If women are as equally capable in decision making, dilemma avoidance, strategy, planning, and self interest, what most of us call 'agency', then why would it be to taboo to admit some do, and they shouldn't be reviled for what feels like und…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 08:02 PM
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What sort would you like to see that you think might be available? Divorce initiation rates perhaps? Suicide and depression statistics for divorced men and women? What kind do you think would exist that would be compelling for you? Yes. No and no. Women feel idealistic love, strongly, but it's more fleeting and susceptible to change in women than in men. Men are definitely capable of opportunistic behavior. Why I think that? Aside from my own experiences, it sounds like a solid sexual strategy, …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 07:48 PM
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The open marriage situation is easy to google. Well, half-open. Brian can't date, Megan can. And for some reason they don't have sex anymore either; that's easy to google too. Maybe Megan is low libido and just doesn't want sex. Or this healthy beautiful in the prime of her life with her choice of dying billionaires or college athletes is getting some from the best available.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 06:57 PM
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Their desires are the natural product of evolution, giving her the desire both for the physical act of mating but also to bond with a strong and providing partner. In a perfect world, the perfect man could be both. Stories are told of such men. But they're hard to find, and often times they start out looking like both, before you finally scratch away at the surface and see the guy as posturing. Now, some folks trigger my 'Hey I wanna F him' tingles, and some trigger my 'He's a good dude and I sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 05:21 PM
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She's cuckolded the 90210 beta dude to raise her kids, publicly announced she was in an open marriage, and is presumably riding an alpha cock carousel that'd make Zeus envious of all the action.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 05:08 PM
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In their shoes, growing up an attractive girl, now pretend it's not a self defeated victim complex but a sharp as hell getting shit done mind with purpose. In their spot, I'd do the exact same thing. I'd get the redonkulous amounts of money that comes to an even average stripper, much less what I'd make because serious bills are on the line. Porn even more so. Rich married men with potential for blackmail/baby money. Pulling a Megan Fox open relationship on a bluest of blue pills. You feel the w…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 04:54 PM
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If most of the women you know want polyamory, you are just in a slutty culture. I think that's exactly what he's saying. He's right. The push for poly and cucking is everywhere. Single mothers are revered for, with societal and monetary incentives. If you agree in the 80/20 problem existing, then you have to see how it's being pushed for way more in the mainstream, and is beneficial in both the long and short terms benefits for women. It's inevitable, even if you disagree that it's happening imm…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 07:16 PM
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Innate, in all sexes. Unless that fact can be brought to light in the public consciousness so they;ll have reason to review their decisions, people simply and easily be more comfortable with situations favoring feminine.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 05:58 PM
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Karen, you're adored for all you do. We need you. Would you mind talking about the Penny Arcade PAX 'no boothbabe' policy for a bit? I feel that it has been misconstrued, that it's a recent development caused by and in line with sex negative SJW pushes. I think that would make perfect sense to assume based on our current culture, but it is inaccurate because the culture and reasons for the ban made, what, 6 years ago? Gamers have had to always fight against the same stereotypes we're urrently fi…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 04:54 PM
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You're listening to the wrong head. You take her, and you fuck her until she sees God. You find out the fantasies she still has for info for your play sessions and stories. You lead her over text so she's thinking about fucking you all day, be seductive and get her mind dirty and flirty for a while, pull hair, choke, throw around, dominate, slap, whatever kink this girl has, you do it with gusto. You want her to cum so hard she has an anuerism. Whenever possible, do the fantasies she hasnt done …
/r/askTRP27/05/15 04:05 PM
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That didn't protect the fraternity at UVA, now did it?
/r/MensRights23/05/15 04:25 AM
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She wants to keep you on the DL, for the tingles and toys. The good news is, that probably includes sex as long as you wont endanger her other gigs. She ain't giving the dude up most likely, and doesnt know you well enough to risk it yet. In one way, she wants more time to see how worth it you are before risking her current BB. From her point of view, she's keeping her options open and loving life. How you react is based on what you want out of the relationship. What do you want?
/r/askTRP23/05/15 04:13 AM
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No idea why you're being downvoted, that was exactly what I wondered as well. THis article has nothing and leaves me believing there was nothing again'st this women except the testify of the son who WANTS people to know who he is. There has to be more than this, there is definitely some undesireable crap in the air, but I'm not going to dogpile on the woman OR believe this is a men's right issue. I'm glad the allegation isn't being dismissed out of hand because the alleged offender is a woman, b…
/r/MensRights18/05/15 06:22 PM
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She's not pregnant. She's worried about being pregnant and using you to take the anxiety so she feels better. Don't take the anxiety. Realize the cold truth that she's not pregnant and you know pregnancy and lack of birth control are on her mind. That's it. Be stoic and certain that she's not pregnant, and she'll be relieved as well.
/r/askTRP29/04/15 09:59 PM
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Implying we're sexist against women in our efforts for equal rights, despite some of our biggest and brightest defenders being women, like C.H. Sommers and the Honey Badgers. GTFO, troll. Look in a mirror. This is what happens when you realize logic, morality, equality, and reason are on our side.
/r/MensRights22/04/15 05:15 PM
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This doesn't match my experience of dating feminists. The less you toe the feminist line in your behaviors, the more interesting and attractive you become. The more they proclaim themselves feminist and SJW, the quicker it will be until the hardest, roughest, most degrading sex possible, and they will love you for it. They're surrounded by weak men in their chosen social circle, and they go into overdrive when someone who isn't shaken up and walking on eggshells is around them.
/r/MensRights18/04/15 05:55 PM
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I'd expect you'll find him not afraid of marriage, but afraid of divorce. The fact is, that there is just no upside to do so anymore since no fault divorces came about. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ut8PyuXh7eQ But if you like the idea of marriage, then have a ceremony, change your name, and forego the marriage license. Legally getting married does nothing to protect or secure the union, just make sure things can very easily go bad if one person unilaterally decides to end it.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 03:53 PM
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So, what are the pros and cons to getting legally married? That's a very good question that you should have her try to answer. Make sure to point out how all of her answers will be nebulous and subjective ("We'll be husband and wife") or very much a plus for her and negative for you. Hopefully you can get her to realize the situation from that. Pro's: None. At best, there may be a small dollar amount difference in taxes, but it's not worth the risk. Insurance, hospital visitation, medical decisi…
/r/MensRights15/04/15 09:01 PM
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Men sent other men and boys into war. You can't blame feminism. Point was, always been much better to be a woman than a man, if you care about things like living, forced labor, and conscripture. But since you brought it up, look up the white feather campaign. Since feminism is fairly new and war has been around forever, sure, we can't blame war on feminism. But feminism has been sending men to war for as long as it's been around. The problem with the argument about men dominating is that men wer…
/r/MensRights14/04/15 05:09 PM
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Just remember, the other two aren't labelled as 'Smart' for a reason. Every action you take before talking to a lawyer after birth for paternity denial opens you up slightly to risk. Time spent with her opens up situations of accusations of violence that are harder to defend against. Protect ya' neck, because she's clearly willing to throw you under the bus for any reason or none at all.
/r/MensRights09/04/15 06:34 PM
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She's intentionally trying to fish for someone bleed for money for 18 years with court backed violence and imprisonment. It's barely a step away from slavery. Don't start nuthin', won't be nuthin'. If you try to manipulate a person like this, the path I laid out is nowhere near as bad as what she's attempting, and less than she deserves.
/r/MensRights09/04/15 05:33 PM
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First off, calm down. Everything you wrote paints a picture that you're naive as hell, and she can smell it on you. Read everything here and realize the truth: she's playing you. If there is a baby, it ain't yours. Either way, you've got nothing to worry about as long as you don't pull a stupid. The instant the baby is out, you go through any denial of paternity, which just about any state in the union will immediately ask for a paternity test. The paperwork to deny paternity should be done with…
/r/MensRights09/04/15 05:06 PM
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It's a loophole people want to define so that their weapons of words won't be used against them, accepting it as 'prejudice' but not 'sexist' as if that makes it better somehow. "Germans felt the Jews had world power via banking, so they weren't being racist?" Small minded bigotry and hatred and doesn't cease being small minded bigotry and hatred just because you pick a new demographic. Trying to convince yourself that it's acceptable prejudice because that demographic "Deserves it" is exactly t…
/r/MensRights02/04/15 11:03 PM
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First off, relax. If you're not bullshitting about the condom, and you know it didn't break/slip off inside her, you're just fine. Your plan of action: 1. Cut all contact. Period. Don't respond to anything. 2. Make certain your vehicle registration and driver's license are updated to your correct address, same with tax forms when you're filing, and place of work. If anything gets mailed to you from the gubment, you want to receive it. That's it. IF a baby appears (it won't) and she declares you …
/r/MensRights10/03/15 04:02 AM
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I've also noticed that TRP people or possibly trolls JUMP on these discussion I don't think that's fair; I can't speak for others, but I've posted a couple times about how TRP stuff doesn't belong here. I'll fully admit it doesn't belong. The only overlap is in seeing reality through the feminist narrative we're all taught. After that, there's a strong divergence, and I believe people shoving TRP stuff here is attempting to discredit men's right by association to an unpopular and hated group of …
/r/MensRights08/03/15 08:52 PM
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Agreed on all points, except that it relates to men's rights. You completely have the right to tell anyone who tries to dictate your attraction to go fuck themselves. The why's of it, and pointing out the pressures to conform feels way more at home on TRP. We have honest to god legal issues to address, with conscription, Duluth model, genital mutilation, federal funding for education and medical research, and law enforcement in both criminal and family matters. The whining of ho's and landwhales…
/r/MensRights07/03/15 11:58 AM
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Why is it ok to hold women to different standards than yourself? I'm not planning on marrying myself, and I know exactly how safe fucking myself is. I don't have to hold myself to the same standards I hold the women I date. However, it would be hypocritical for me to get offended if a woman decides my history was too much for her. That does not mean I have to be chaste in order to prefer a chaste woman. Easy counter-example is height; lots of women like men taller than them; that doesn't mean th…
/r/MensRights07/03/15 11:06 AM
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Since it deals way more with sexual strategy instead of men's rights, no, OP is right. It belongs in TRP, not here. Attraction is not a right.
/r/MensRights07/03/15 11:00 AM
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Whatever point your attempting to make is too unclear to be usable as anything other than FUD. Both sentences are clear, and accurate. The sentiments I spoke of are exactly the reason that 'If you want to engage...' article was written in the first place. Either you replied to the wrong post, or are intentionally trying to derail with babble. Edit your post to coherency and I'll be happy to address.
/r/MensRights04/03/15 10:17 PM
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Only by the feminists who can't tell the difference. To a good number of them, the terms are synonymous.
/r/MensRights04/03/15 09:20 PM
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Empathy of hardships != Acknowledgement of injustice You're somewhere between trolling and ignorant. "Everybody has problems" serves only to reduce empathy; it does nothing to acknowledge injustice. "Women have problems, too" serves only to misdirect. I could care less about whoever wants to say "That sucks." It's time to say "That is wrong." We don't want empathy, we want it fixed, and it will never be fixed if it isn't acknowledged, and as long as people like you continue to try and paint us a…
/r/MensRights27/02/15 06:58 AM
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He got $15k. She got $825k. http://www.dailycamera.com/cu-news/ci_26857562/david-barnett-professor-at-center-termination-battle-seeks It's bad enough the non-rapist got shafted for three semesters based solely on lies. It's bad enough that he got jack shit for having to go through it with this pittance settlement. It's bad enough that the faux-victim isn't being charged for serious crimes. It's uncertain if it has affected her education. But for fucks sake, 7/8s of a million dollars. This isn't …
/r/MensRights26/02/15 08:33 AM
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Downvotes for an accurate statement are bad, mmkay? As a race, white folk make up the clear majority of inmates. Thanks to /u/dungone : http://www.bop.gov/about/statistics/statistics_inmate_race.jsp
/r/MensRights25/02/15 11:02 AM
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D'oh, good catch. Still predicated on conviction, but you're right. http://www.sss.gov/FSinternet.htm
/r/MensRights23/02/15 05:56 PM
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Retracted. Failing to register is a felony which does affect voting rights, on top of all of loss of government benefits (which is NOT predicated on conviction) http://www.sss.gov/FSinternet.htm
/r/MensRights23/02/15 04:41 PM
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I don't even have a clue what your point is supposed to be, but the little hint smells of absolute bullshit that a girl in such a position is inherently more vulnerable. Remember that whole spiel about how no one will be there to help such a victim? It's because of that exact same gynocentrism that you are currently suffering from. In a position where tying is discussed, the man is in a far more precarious position than a woman, completely, both in regards to physical danger during and support/r…
/r/askTRP22/02/15 05:35 PM
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The whole point of TRP is that a harsh truth is better than a feel-good lie, right? I definitely see what you're saying, and I don't disagree, but it's one hell of a dilemma. If this were something changeable without a scalpel being involved, then I'd be way more inclined to encourage everyone to be completely blunt and honest about it. In your own experience, do you find rejected women to be cool and collected? In any social circle, I'd much rather have the story be 'It just didn't work out.' o…
/r/askTRP22/02/15 01:57 AM
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You need to think about this some dude. You see her as a hypocrit, for saying one thing and doing another. You could also see her as someone compromising and putting in effort to lock you down in a monogamy; you know, exactly what she said her intentions were in the beginning. You expect she will start withholding sex, citing religious religions, as a cover for her wanting to give you a taste so make sure she can lock you down. It's completely unfair to treat her as if she's doing that BEFORE sh…
/r/askTRP21/02/15 10:36 PM
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Funny thing, mid-life crisis phenom is due to the women, especially from either breakup or menopause. It's a natural reaction and behavior for the male to show he is a fit mate to attract a new mate for procreation. Those that didn't were outbred by the ones who did, so consider it another present care of evo psych.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 10:27 PM
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If it gets your rocks off safely, go nuts. But you need to REALLY look hard about the safety. If she has ANY, and I mean ANY indicators of anger issues, mental issues, self harm issues, now or ever in her life, you need to say No. You need to make sure the safeword is understood and respected, and seriously consider recording it, even just audio, for your own protection. If she loses it and takes advantage of you and/or harms you and breaks the safeword, you're beyond out in the cold in a world …
/r/askTRP21/02/15 10:23 PM
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You're a dipshit on every conceivable level. You aren't asking /asktrp Did I mention dipshit?
/r/askTRP21/02/15 10:09 PM
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Nothing wrong with you. Attraction isn't a choice. You have to end it with her. As much as I hate to say, I don't think you can or should be honest about why. There's nothing she can do to change it, and no one needs more insecurity. Im sorry man, that's a crappy situation. But you have to be a man about it for both of you. You and her will both suffer longer and harder if you put it off.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 09:32 PM
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I believe it's my job as a man to bend over backwards and fight for the children I will have and provide the best for them in all things. Forcing my children to live life ugly is the most monstrous and lazy thing I could possibly do. The deserve the best, and anything else is simply abuse. You found your best; congratulations. I haven't found my best yet. Let him chew on that for a bit.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 06:21 PM
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Wrap it up, and yes. She won't try to rope you into commitment for a bit; you should just be comfortable with smashing with a baby in the room because she's fighting feelings of loneliness and undesirability. Stress free smashing she doesn't have to schedule with a babysitter can easily be all she wants.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 04:59 PM
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'You know what I've noticed about them? They can't suck a cock to save their life. Physical affection is just very important to me, while everyone else they've ever dealt with didn't care because they were pretty; they never bothered to learn since all they had to do was show up."
/r/askTRP19/02/15 04:56 PM
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Then the question would be like "Let's play lottery dreams. You won the Powerball for infinite money, what's the car you buy first and why?" (Which, come to think of it, is a pretty good comfort phase question. I could answer that one with half a dozen good DHV stories, and Im not a car guy.) She didn't care about his passion about cars, she cared about the kind of car he owns and drives. If you can think of a way to spin that that ISN'T getting a feel for disposable income and general net worth…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 07:06 PM
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Third'ed. You're being fucked with, OP.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 04:21 PM
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Excellent. You should look into the matter. Please, bring anything but your indignation, and we'll be happy to look into the matter. Maybe studies showing how women leave committed relationships more than men? Damn, we already have those. Maybe census data showing how the overwhelming majority of marriages result in an increase of net worth of the woman and decrease for the man? Damn, we already have those. Maybe the surveys showing an overwhelming increase in net worth and subjective happiness …
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 12:11 AM
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Equality: You've severely misinterpreted things. Women are more valuable than men, because vagina. The facts to support that are all around you, and are an extension of benevolent sexism present present in all mammals. Emotional: AlphaAccountant answered this very succinctly. Parasites: If I'm understand your logic so far, you're thinking there is a disconnect between wanting a more domestic mate while repulsed by opportunists? Not even close. The less domestic, non 'Eastern culture' as you put …
/r/askTRP08/02/15 07:41 PM
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"They want a woman who is dumb enough to make them a priority and, unfortunately, for all those sane, rational and intelligent women out there, there’s a hefty number of these women out there". Women everywhere are dipping far below their standards just to find men who appreciate them. For fuck's sake. If I'm not a priority to you, don't expect to be a priority to me. If I'm not a priority to you, that's cool. Go do your thing. But name calling those who succeed in landing a man you cant makes y…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 06:21 AM
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You already listed everything we could point out. Lift. Approach. and cut all contact, period, end of story. Next text or email you get, 'Not interested. Please stop contacting me.' and do NOT respond to anything else. And there sure as hell will be more, but if you ever want to have any self respect, follow through. Pictures and momentos go in a box and then into storage, if not outright burned. You fucked up, dozens of ways and dozens of times. You didn't respect your own values and gave her n…
/r/askTRP07/02/15 02:56 AM
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It's a risk. In your place, I wouldn't, but you make your own decisions now.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 04:59 AM
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Holy shit, you listened? I'd normally tell a guy talking about a pussy buffet to die in a fire, but there's hope for you yet. The only thing you start NOW is fitness and reading/contemplation while you deal with everyday life. DO NOT TALK ABOUT IT WITH ANYONE. DO NOT DISCUSS IT. AT ALL. Read, understand your situation, get fit, and lay out your goals for the life that is your hands and your hands only.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 03:21 AM
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That was immediately what I thought as well. Fuck it. It's an unfunny joke by an unfunny woman whose entire career is based on trying to incite. I'd be jealous too if the 8 lbs of boy had more funny in him.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 02:20 PM
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I prefer to think of it as 'Women contribute 30% less to the GDP. Step it up, ladies.'
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 08:13 PM
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That you negotiate for raises based on the value you bring, instead of whining that someone with more experience makes more? That three months is NOT long enough to show consistency in that value? That's still in the honeymoon period. What other people make has ZERO bearing on what you should make, both when you're making less and when you're making more. If you're trying to negotiate with anything else than the value you bring, you're going to have a bad time. Until then, your only card, 'I qui…
/r/askTRP04/02/15 08:10 PM
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You've been there three months. You haven't proven YOUR value to the company, which is the ONLY thing that matters. The fact people who have a proven history of THEIR value makes you uncomfortable, suck it up princess. Since you're shaking things up and showing your employer how fickle an employee you are as soon as you get the job, after AGREEING to work for the amount you're currently being paid, don't expect it to go your way. THEY have shown their worth and value. You haven't. When you've co…
/r/askTRP04/02/15 06:00 PM
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The law protects you when drunk as far as other agreements are concerned but doesn't penalise the other party you were dealing with as long as there was no intended malice which has to be proven. And what color is the sky on your world? You're against what IS because it doesn't match what you think it SHOULD be. You're right, it shouldn't be that way. That doesn't change the fact that it is.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 05:55 PM
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What are the requirements for being 'sealed in the temple'? How does sex outside of marriage (for either party, with each other or different partners) affect it?
/r/askTRP04/02/15 02:41 PM
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Terms and conditions apply. Not valid in California or college campuses.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 02:35 PM
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It's actually very easy to take core redpill ideas and present them as feminism by stating the facts with just a lil' interpretation. 'The failure of "Nice Guys" and the points they miss.' (Bluepill traits and the failure of them working) 'Prostitution and the women it hurts' (Namely the women who find less men tolerating bullshit for sex) 'The Duluth Model: The answer to domestic violence' 'Slut shaming and the judgement of women' Not hard at all. The girl will all nod there head and a few of t…
/r/askTRP03/02/15 09:27 PM
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Welcome to how the other half lives. The abruptness of those can put you into a fight/fight mode, especially in dark, crowded, loud areas. You're focusing too much on their words, and your insecurity keeping you from realizing that the answer to 'What do they want?' is 'they're attracted and opening you'. You're not assuming attraction on their part. You're attractive enough to get opened, which is a really really good sign. You aren't in a 'hey lets meet cool people!' mode in your head. If you …
/r/askTRP01/02/15 06:50 AM
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That should be decided by the person in the relationship. Half the point of redpill is realizing that what you 'should' do is up to you, not other people.
/r/askTRP01/02/15 01:18 AM
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What age were those children? Im suspecting from such a mature attitude that they are >10 years, which would put the women at late twenties at best. Most of the time, Im running into the early twenties single mothers, with the kids <6 years old with minimal to no father contact. That's when it's the worst, because the kid is still developing and what development has taken place has been a around a stressed and depressed single mother only. I fully admit and agree that the situation is slightly d…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 05:37 PM
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You reacted in a defensive manner. She called you a geek, not a pedo. 'Fuck yes I'm a geek. Oh crap, you arent? Damn that sucks, you're pretty cute.'
/r/askTRP31/01/15 05:17 PM
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I'd just have to recommend against trying to use a hike date as your go-to first meet. Part of their anxiety with a new guy is the crazy 'Is he going to hurt me or kill me?', and that starts to sound less unreasonable when you're wanting her out in the wilderness where joggers discover bodies on every TV show ever.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 05:12 PM
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Listen, it's great information to have that I didnt have previously, I sincerely thank you for that. But please tell me you can see where the data doesn't say who abandoned whom. You very well may be right, that men ditch cancerous women at higher rates than visa versa, and the articles I've read certainly come to that conclusion, but does so ONLY on the fact divorce happens with higher frequency. This article is one of the few that explicitly points out that the 'Who initiated?' question isn't …
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 10:26 PM
2

Was this the ideal time to approach a girl? When she's awake is really the only hard rule I can think of. In terms of the thoughts below, am I a normal (red pilled) male with normal thoughts? Or have I gone wrong? I can't say they're uncommon thoughts, but it's definitely the wrong thoughts. It's some serious sour grapes bullshit with undertones of immature anger caused by insecurity.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 10:07 PM
5

Sunk cost fallacy. They fucked up in the past, but that's never a reason to keep fucking up.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 09:26 PM
2

Neat! Is there anything in the detail that gives any information on the initiation of the divorce? It says they divorce, not who initiated the divorce. Please help explain how I should take from this "Men ditch sick wives faster than visa versa" rather than "Women's trauma from life threatening diagnoses increases their likelyhood of divorcing" http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/03/02/sick-divorced-mom_n_4861799.html
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 09:13 PM
3

You command it with an Alpha Frame. Agreed on all points.. Do we agree that it's impossible to maintain an alpha frame when you think you have a unicorn? I do, which is why AWALT needs to be maintained.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 09:03 PM
4

I a woman is in an accident or terminally ill her husband leaves at 20x the rate; this is just how the inverse situation works as well. I couldn't disagree more, but I'd welcome any example to show it's ANYWHERE near the same rates, especially given the ubiquitous weight gain, mental/hormonal issues, and health issues that go along with birth. As long women are divorcing at a rate greater than 2:1 of men, it doesn't pass the sniff test. Loyalty and honesty are sexually dimorphic traits. AWALT. T…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 08:55 PM
4

There's a very interesting form of solipsism with women that allows them to rewrite their memories and memories of feelings. You feel dedicated to him NOW. Congrats. And that will remain true as long as you don't have a better option. He trips up, gets in an accident or medical condition, whatever, and it fails. You get a new studly boss at work. You join a kickball league that's 75% sporty dudes. Then it happens. Sure, its never BECAUSE of the accident. It's never BECAUSE he gained some weight.…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 08:23 PM
1

Cheating If you don't care and still want to be here, then it's pointless to bring it up. It has no bearing on your question, and sounds like a sympathy grab that is COMPLETELY destroyed when you paint a picture of him reaching out for companionship you can't be arsed to provide. What do I do.....this work stuff is sooo boring. So you find the man you've been with boring, and when you tell him that, he finds someone else who gives a damn about him. What did you expect? You're getting to focused …
/r/askTRP30/01/15 04:36 AM
25

Calm down, hold your frame. If the current situation isn't to her liking, she's free to leave. If she's worried about money and financial security, she's free to get a job, and you two can discuss how you will start splitting the bills, including rent, daycare, medical insurance, etc. with her. That aught to kill that idea right quick. worried about her long term financial security if we were to separate. Lastly, why in the HELL would she expect you to take measures that make her leaving more re…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 10:49 PM
1

Yes, we're wired that the ability to sow seed far and wide is a good thing and should be done. That doesn't make us any less accountable for the repercussions of acting on that behavior. If boys shouldn't be considered responsible because they're wired that way, then girls shouldn't be considered responsible because they're wired for hypergamy.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/15 12:25 PM
1

She looks slightly conflicted and says "maybe" and goes to the bathroom. A comes back and politely declines. Period check, or just a brilliant way for her to check logistics under the cover of a period check. Legit or not, that's a pretty smart way to decline.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 10:52 AM
5

So someone pissed and your leg, you backed down because you have faith and trust in the loyalty of the girl you were with, and decided to share it as note worthy. Listen man, how can I draw inspiration on this? Someone decides to show that much disrespect to you that doesnt know any of your group, and you turn tail and run with a smartass smile. Just how the fuck are you the master of anything? You left her on her own against this dude. Of course your friends were confused you'd play so aloof; t…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 02:41 AM
3

Problem is, most chicks are not healthy enough, nor in touch with the moon enough, to be synced with the moon. This would imply to me that the moon was brought up because of some link between the physical moon and a woman's cycle, or am I reading that wrong? Period of moon orbit is close to the period of a full monthly cycle, making it a indicator that keeps you from having to keep track manually. Women who don't get much artificial light, and who see the moon regularly, and who eat real food, w…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 02:22 AM
6

Dafuq is this shit? She was a childish twat to him, and he was rightfully upset at her behavior and lack of any remorse or acknowledgement of being stupidly rude to him. Up until the fat thumb comment, he was playing it professional because she may literally to be stupid to realize how the 'Freeman' thing was a lil' rude. Or maybe it was just a silly trip of the tongue she shouldn't be too beaten up about. But then the thumb comment? Fuck that. That's just a deliberate bitch comment, and he cont…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 02:02 PM
3

"Make me." "I'd love to." It's a sexual thumbs up, and you're over text for crying out loud so tell a damned hot as fuck story about how exactly you're gonna make her. If she's not interested, congratulations, now you know she's yanking your chain. You can actually get a feel for, well, what's she's into. Paint a great damn fantasy in her head that she cant help but masturbate to frequently? She'll be crawling the walls. She initiated sexy talk. TALK SEXY.
/r/askTRP04/01/15 02:58 AM
1

Yes, but what is the frame that makes them want to either convince themselves it's the hubbys, or want to keep the deception? I dont know what frame to paint.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 05:18 AM
17

You acted like a douche when a girl wanted you to slow down. No, that's not right. I know attraction is a quick thing, but trust aint.
/r/askTRP01/01/15 05:13 AM
0

Make sure you 'give her a way to win'. Make it clear how she could have addressed it. Ask her if she'll try it that way in the future, and when she does, reward her. "Well, we're def not doing THIS color run shit because now all I can think of is tension. But we should get out and do something. Let's plan for something more fun than running while hobo. Any ideas?" If you don't it's easy for them to lock up defensively, with just crazy tension keeping them from doing anything.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 05:09 AM
1

Listen, the condom is safer, period. Sex feels better without one, period. If your worry is babies, and you're confident there's no health/infection concerns, go full porno on her and don't finish inside the babymaker.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 12:25 AM
3

Incorrect. It helps you clearly know the limitations of what you want and will tolerate/are willing to give in a friendship. You allow only those you want to be close friends. If you dismiss them because you find them alpha, or beta, well, you're pretty shit at choosing people. If you don't want close friends, or can't find any you want, that's on you. And, we can't really be friends with other Alphas because they are fewer and farther between and because we will be in competition with them That…
/r/askTRP26/12/14 04:51 PM
-2

6'0" here. Just like the PUA stereotype, I love my New Rock boots. 2-3 inches and it does make a difference. I get compliments on the badass boots all of the time, and the extra height is great, and clearly is a bonus. It does help tickle their tingly bits.
/r/askTRP26/12/14 03:45 PM
1

Yes, you should talk to him. She's reaching out for help, knowing its a problem that is detrimental to the relationship. Get the Married Sex Life Primer to him, start spelling out the lay of the land so he can understand how he needs to act different for a better, more loving relationship. Even better, there is a good chance she would be willing to be there with you for some of the talking, especially in the beginning, to help convince him and back you up that it is what everyone wants; if he's …
/r/askTRP26/12/14 02:55 PM
13

"Thank you." And it's not a shit test. Frame is usually from the viewpoint of 'That was very nice of you to say'. It's also an opener; let them open you and get to know them.
/r/askTRP26/12/14 03:58 AM
1

He was already hiding it. That's not a fair assessment. He hasn't been throwing it in her face, but there's no reason to assume he has lied or been deceptive about it. I don't bring it up with my FWBs, out of courtesy, simply because it hurts, even when you know it's part of the relationship. Rubbing others in her face is just impolite and rude. Why waste more time on this guy? To know for sure. To give him a chance to decide, rather than dropping a guy that likes her that has been following the…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/14 05:12 AM
11

.....I really want to do this now.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 06:00 PM
1

Frame control 101. Since your instinct is to yes or no a yes/no question, it gives the asker control of the language. Take it back. 'I don't have expectations. I have desires.'
/r/askTRP23/12/14 04:22 AM
-1

That's womanese for she really liked it and man, it is on now. If the dude had game, maybe. But he doesn't. She's solipsistic; she said it to make herself feel better. She's doing it so she can wash her hands and blame him if anyone finds out she let him. Sure, we can come up with the witty things we would say in that spot, but he didn't. An awkward dude who just wanted to squeeze a tushy isn't someone a hot flirtatious girl would want to run indirect game on. I disagree with your assessment. Im…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 04:15 AM
2

I have to say I'm a little worried about getting "rough" with her, Hard to say without being able to gauge her reaction, but in my opinion, nah. I would be BEYOND surprised if a smack on the ass was over the top for her; the uncertainty and being outcome concerned about how she reacted to it would be far more likely. The combination of talking big, only giving a smack on the ass (which IMHO isnt enough to convince her you can tickle her deeper sexual needs), and being concerned about how she too…
/r/askTRP22/11/14 04:57 PM
6

She's attracted to you. She's flaky because she doesn't want to be. After the cool-off, she finds herself thinking about a future with you (standard stuff, not clinger level stuff) and realizes that other people won't find you as attractive as she does. She expects looks of sympathy for being with you and believes she can do better. Your game is solid, except for allowing yourself to turn negative at the park, but you already know that. This is nothing more than physical appearance of health. Sh…
/r/askTRP22/11/14 04:14 AM
1

HPV != herpes. HSV is herpes, and there are two related types (HSV-1 and HSV-2). HPV, well, way more people have it than not, has like 160 different strains, 4 of which are linked to cancer, and it's not like there's even a test one could take to find out. I had to push for an HSV test, and the HPV test wasn't even an option for some stupid reason. So, since it relates to your life, do some reading and know this shit. Don't put shit off on her. YOU make the decisions in your life. If you want to…
/r/askTRP21/11/14 05:19 PM
4

Aki "I guess it's better this way then being in a relationship halfheartedly" I dig the cut of your jib, son.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 12:04 AM
12

It's a solid, nuclear, shit test. Damn near anything other than a direct answer will be seen as a sign of insecurity so handle with extreme care and a solid frame. Answering directly is also going to fail the shit test if it isn't an obviously respectable number. Option one, lie, obviously. "225cm, and everything's to scale. Do you do yoga? I've had...unpleasant experiences with little girls who thought they could hang." Option 2, redirected disqualification. "Oh my, you're a size queen??? Hang …
/r/askTRP20/11/14 08:23 PM
3

Yet the reality is women on a whole are actually less hypergamous. [citation needed] I don't buy that. Their inherent hypergamy is the same, if not increasing because the more hypergamous they are, the more those traits will be reproduced over time. But by any measurable amount? Maybe. But I don't see the behavior decreasing. What IS increasing is their ability to have their hypergamy tingled. Social media gives them access to an incomprehensible number of branches. I don't think the inherent be…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 07:33 PM
9

/r/asktrp She doesn't want your dick. Either be the guy whose dick she wants, or find someone else.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 07:05 PM
1

She's trying to connect in one of the few ways your combined schedules allow. You're breaking rapport, for reasons unknown. She needed connection and you denied it because you thought it'd be weak, but you can cultivate her attachment by providing it, and there were many ways you could have done so without looking weak or beta.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 04:58 PM
10

Sit down. Shut up. Read. Lift. Approach. Picking fights on the internet isn't on that list.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 03:42 AM
1

I landed a pinnacle of human technology on a bulleye 3.8 billion miles away. Try not to get hung up on the superficial, shall we? Dude should be holding a whiteboard with his bad ass shirt that says 'This is what a rockstar scientist looks like.'
/r/askTRP16/11/14 02:36 AM
2

In my opinion, no. Every one of those people has the potential to be useful in some way, just figure out how. If you upstage someone higher in position but inferior overall, without following the 'destroy completely' law, you make an enemy that still has power and influence over you. You're making your own goals more difficult to achieve.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 11:55 PM
5

For more than just the abstract: http://www.epjournal.net/wp-content/uploads/EP12958978.pdf
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 03:08 PM
2

However, I suspect she sometimes uses it to start arguments to bring excitement when the LTR is having quiet phases at times. Yup. You can curb that by making sure she gets drama under your control. BDSM would be one. Push her boundaries a bit. my female friends told her what I’d got up to with other girls at university, not realising it would hurt her to the extent it did. Wrong. Girls are playing girls game. today I was thinking about other guys eating me out, just wondering what the hype is a…
/r/askTRP10/11/14 10:35 PM
1

Is she a little timid when she says it, like she may not be sure how you'll take it, or she's surprised that she feels that way? She's falling for you pretty hard, and it may be hitting her insecurity. Comforting her for it will help her insecurity, and help her continue to fall. Just be very aware that serious feels are getting involved.
/r/askTRP10/11/14 08:33 PM
5

'Get that cute ass over and I'll show you myself. Don't wear anything complicated.'
/r/askTRP10/11/14 05:09 AM
12

So what if I choose to live like a lady with my captain? To them, it's voice of a house slave telling the farm slaves that life is good if you submit. I don't know how they can be reached as long as they hold onto the victim card they hold so dear.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/14 03:57 AM
1

It doesn't take much more to look good doing it.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 03:44 PM
1

God DAMN that's awesome, Lumberjack1234. ♂
/r/askTRP08/11/14 05:08 PM
14

J(h)im Jeffries made me realize the little voice in the back of my head has an Oz accent.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 04:31 AM
1

Sounds like we're all saying the same thing. I think tombreck2's certainty of being in the friendzone is perfectly reasonable; the OP just posted a question what to say to a girl that wanted to share her V is tiptop, and, well, that kinda gives some information about the OP. Someone that has to ask that question has a better than otherwise chance of being friendzoned. Sexual and social ineptitude (sorry to sound mean, OP) is what puts men there. But there is a VERY big chance, especially if thei…
/r/askTRP07/11/14 08:08 PM
2

This is the only answer. From where I'm sitting, the message was meant to provoke sexual interest. Maybe she's an insecure girl who is fishing, and wants to make sure OP is a dick-on-a-shelf if she needs validation without work. Or maybe she's trying to hit the dude over the head with a clue bat because she's dtf.
/r/askTRP07/11/14 06:49 PM
3

she says I was teasing her without a condom and she felt precum, but I don't remember it at all. Paternity test.
/r/askTRP07/11/14 06:43 PM
1

The volume under a bell curve is going to be the same regardless of its distribution on the topic of gender extremes but that's beside the issue I was raising. Uh, the area of the bell curve in it's entirety should represent the entire set measured, sure, but that completely obliterates having the point of having the graph in the first place. But if the two curves have different deviations, any subsection will have different areas. Slice it above or below any arbitrary point, and the areas will …
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 08:05 AM
3

You sure about that? More specifically, are you absolutely certain that gene expression equally pronounced in males v females? Take a trait, any trait. Height. Weight. Strength. Speed. Social skills. Flossing. Pick one, and lay out a distribution graph, one for men, one for women, that shows the ability in that field or other measurement of that trait. Average, the 50th percentile point? REALLY close in most cases that arent specifically sexually dimorphic; our weight averages and breast size ar…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:41 AM
2

You're getting too internally focused. Go approach. Stop planning around your imaginary arguments you expect and deal with the real and actual. The only time objectification from women has ever come up conversation with women I've been interested in has been specifically requesting it. I've been asked to do some weird stuff. shiver
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:15 AM
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that they should be granted to him, rather than earned by him through persistent, dispassionate self-critique and personal development. I don't think that's entirely accurate, and rather the whole point of RedPilll. He was trying to earn it, through persistent, dispassionate self-critique to fit the mold he was aiming for; the mold he was told to fit into by people unknowningly reinforcing his failing behavior. Dude lost his shit because it wasn't working, NOT because he wasn't trying with all o…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:06 AM
4

she's everything I'm looking for in a LTR, she's sweet, intellectually stimulating, ambitious and with a very low partner count (1 ex LTR) I decided to practice dread game WHY?!?!?!? No, seriously, why? It doesn't sound like you were trying to correct any problems in the relationship. You took her out and kicked her in the jimmies for, as far as I can tell, no damn reason, except 'practice'. Fuck that. You got dread. Congrats. You made it very clear that you will be a strong, flirty man who coul…
/r/askTRP07/11/14 12:25 AM
2

I ask her if she had any STD's, I didn't even skirt around the issue but flat out asked her to her face. She pulls out a recent exam clearing her of AIDS/HIV, and a myriad of other STI's however the exam DID NOT CHECK FOR HERPES (a lot don't unless it's a comprehensive exam, wtf world.. is this why this shit is out there?). My local clinic actually tried talking me out of getting an HSV battery when I went in. Actually asked me why I wanted to know, how the test results would impact me. In the d…
/r/askTRP07/11/14 12:12 AM
17

'I've got goosebumps' 'Where?' Fucking GOLD.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 10:31 PM
2

Kinda gives the hint of a vulnerability (in a bad way), sure; he's admitting he wouldn't have kept his cool......if he hadn't of kept his cool. The 'Nope.' sounds like holding frame well to me.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 06:41 PM
5

the RP Community have with gay men is how often they shit on straight men and undermine us with women. I'm not even sure where to begin with that. 1. My time here has shown NO negative slant toward homosexuals, but I have a hard time swallowing that about the men here. We get some wackjobs, certainly. But every single time we've gotten gay men asking about how TRP could benefit them, our answer has always been 'We don't know, but we'd love to hear your thoughts and experiences putting it to prac…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 06:03 PM
10

They are just another catty bitch with a dick Wouldnt that make them easier for women to empathize with? Most gays are sissy type dudes. They are not alpha. I disagree. Many are, sure, twinks are a big thing. But I think you're missing the other side of the coin: the men twinks are atttracted to and are attracted to twinks. And you can bet your ass they're alpha as fuck. It's an understandable view from someone with limited exposure. It could be argued that the average homosexual feminity is mor…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 05:30 PM
8

I have to disagree. They're as closely, if not moreso, focused on gay men as alpha men, for most of the exact same reasons. They naturally handle shit tests because they're not interested in them. They are considered more social and valuable than the all of the other men who don't have value. From a standard straight white girl point of view, the world would benefit greatly if she could exchange as much of the standard issue ciswhitemale with gay men and alpha, and doubly with alpha gay men. I f…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 04:37 PM
3

I agree on every point; it definitely should be at your pace with your comfort; Im not advocating anything else. Im not entirely certain what is unsettling to me. I seem to keep thinking of the Chris Rock bit on Bring the Pain: 00:46:53 "Ok, I'm gonna fuck him now, but I won't suck his dick for two weeks." 00:46:56 "All right, I'm gonna suck his dick now, but I won't lick his balls till next month." 00:47:00 "All right, I'm gonna lick his balls now, but I won't lick his ass till next year!" I'd …
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/14 02:26 AM
3

It's a common strategy, but please be prepared for the possibility of backfiring, and realize that the LTRs are the only ones it can/will backfire on. The problem I see is that it's too easy to see it as negotiated desire, not actual desire. If you won't S the D without a nice dinner, it certainly makes me believe that you don't actually want to S the D. If no buttsex without a ring, how am I supposed to believe you want buttsex? And if I didn't think you wanted it, why the hell would I ever do …
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/14 05:56 PM
2

Do you think this is a product of me normally leading our interactions or an attempt at seeing what she can get away with. If you hit the brakes and handle it like a confrontation shit test, you're dead in the water; you blew up because you didn't want to call and make reservations? Not a good sign. If it were me, and I wanted to go to this place, not just going because she wanted to be pampered, make the call. Setup the reservations and keep in captain mode telling her where, when, and what to …
/r/askTRP04/11/14 07:48 PM
2

Not trying to speak for the dude, but I think the two claims you think he's making and are in conflict are: 1. Some people can only afford unhealthy processed food. 2. American meats are heavily subsidized, reducing their end cost to the consumer. First off, these two aren't in conflict. If the situation resulted in cheaper prices for meats, but didn't make them cheap enough to compete with the cost of unhealthy processed food, then both of those premises could be valid, and its a legitimate dis…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 05:31 PM
5

Your insecurities caused you to misread her second line (about the better pickup lines) as a legitimate dig at you. She was trying to be playful. To be honest, you were in at that point. She sent the first because of an understandable "Who is this and why are they going all SAW 'I want to play a game'" right out of the gate?" reaction to your opening. Then she remembered or realized it was meant to be playful and she was playful back. Then you hit the brakes, chagrined, unbold, unplayful. I'd al…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 10:24 PM
1

If you are getting tattooed because of fashion you are just retarded and shouldn't get a single one. If it's stupid and it works, it ain't stupid.
/r/askTRP18/10/14 04:59 PM
1

At this point I come to my senses about the fact that she rejected my advance earlier and she doesn't deserve me. She didn't reject you; she hesitated. She was caught by surprise by how you acted, and didn't reject you. She was unsure. She thought about it a bit, and decided you'd be fun to fuck, with no pressure or strings since you seem to be that kind of guy. She wanted it bad enough to follow you and throw herself at you (guarantee thats how she sees and feels about that offer to walk you ho…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 05:04 AM
5

That was awesome, thanks! I wish Hitchens had the chance to talk more about how he saw it was a 10 year cycle.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 01:53 PM
1

Yeah. We might call those reasons, like good excuses why there isn't any PnV. This is one. She wasn't given one. She's not being denied the cock because of a piercing. She's not being denied cock because of health reasons. She's not being denied cock for religious reasons. She's being denied cock for no reason, except that it's a self control challenge for the husband. She knows her man's sex drive. If he's every other day married, he's a two time a day cheater. What if he succumbs when she isn'…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 02:08 AM
3

her: i dont like it. her: how dare you.... These are the two parts I'm not seeing in that post. Based on her post and subsequent comments, she seems overjoyed by the changes he's made. I do not get the impression that she wanted ANY of that path to change; she spent a LOT of effort to highlight how awesome she thought it was, especially how it benefits her. That stuff, she wants more of. As for the "how dare you", that doesn't quite fit. She's stunned more than anything. She got an unexplained d…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 10:06 PM
5

I'm with you; I see nothing unreasonable in her reactions or motives. The responses from others show a lot more questionable behavior, but it's background noise compared to the info from the girl, and she seems pretty awesome IMHO. I only see a girl wondering why she's about to go through a month of sub-par sex.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 09:50 PM
5

She's freaked out because she realizes that she is losing power over him. Really? Sounds like she's beyond supportive, but is worried about her sex life kicking in the nuts for the next month. If a long term spouse with a history of every-other-day sex all of a sudden declared a month of no vaginal? I'd be upset, even if blowjobs were still on the table. He's not helping her be a first mate; this IS a big thing that needs big talk between them, not a therapist. The first mate is weirded out by a…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 09:47 PM
6

She's asking the question in exasperation, not with sincerity. She knows and agrees that he would feel his newfound selfworth has been immensely valuable. Jump on her for being solipsistic (all of the benefits are benefits to her, not benefits to him), but she sees it as a good thing she doesn't want to stop. She's just worried about the part where sex is less fun and going to feel weird and awkward for a month. Can't really blame her. I'd be more at a ease with a girl who wore a horsehead mask …
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 09:41 PM
2

What am I missing here? Girl told me she was excited that she'd do anything I wanted but absolutely didn't want to cum for a month, and didn't want me to try to make her cum? I'd be a bit taken back and weird-ed out, too. He's experimenting with NoFap. She sounds pretty smart. If he spelled out it properly so she actually had a clue WTF was going on, rather than having one of the better parts of sex removed from the table for a month without warning, provocation, or explanation. She's clueless a…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 09:36 PM
5

Just because some repair takes place doesn't change the fact that some damage DOES take place. Maybe the difference is insignificant in your opinion, but there is a negative difference. If you're serious about kids as an option, it could be a few hundred dollars very worth the peace of mind. OP, I'd do it if I were you. You completely minimize telomere damage, and also protect your ability to reproduce in case of traumatic injury, STD, and death. Even if you're only 'meh' on the kids question, i…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 09:20 PM
9

To me, it sounds beautiful. You didn't overreact, you addressed the behavior, and gave her a way to win to handle it better in the future. Your playfulness took the edge off the correction and helped reconnect after the random fubar. I approve.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 06:46 PM
24

It sounds like you're doing everything right to me. She really digs the way you make her feel, so I think your frame control is paying off in spades. 1. Don't freak out. This isn't a thing if you dont make it a thing. Just tell her you appreciate it when she does and don't make a big deal of things. Yeah, its a natural show because she is twitterpated. Enjoy it. You start getting antsy, your frame will waver, and you ruined something awesome with your insecurity. 2. Don't change. Keep doing exac…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 06:09 PM
5

Can you head straight for law? Do that, and your polisci wont be as useless, politics become an option, and law is power for a hungry man.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 06:50 AM
5

I am uncut, and oh yeah, bigtime sensitivity in the glans. Ya know, that's a good point I should consider more. For some reason, I was picturing more from the occasional interaction between foreskin and teeth when I mentioned blowjobs. But we do have some serious sensitive heads. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 06:44 AM
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Everyone would agree these are insane though. Because the overall impact would be catastrophic. Both of those analogies represent major surgeries in unequivocal trauma, risk, and direct shortening of life. This is to disingenuine to address. But somehow, you have drawn an arbitrary (probably backed by social conditioning) line at what is and isn't 'necessary' and about what is and isn't 'mutilation'. No, I continued a topic I don't have a set opinion on and supported a contrary view. It's also c…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 06:36 AM
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Gets downvoted into oblivion. I'd say for stupidity, NOT for topic. His pro-circumcision argument was 'female circumsion (which is a fucking stupid name for the horrific and barbarian mutilation) is infinitely worse, therefore quiterbitchin because you're not victim enough' You want a pro-circumcision argument worth upvoting? I'm uncircumcised, FWIW. It's simply cleaner, less maintenance, less health risks for him and sexual partners. I'm not saying it's an unmanagable amount of focus to clean d…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 03:58 AM
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That seems a damn sight harder than good girls.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 06:02 AM
3

Requires Google to login. No thank you.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 07:02 AM
4

In essence, a guy uses the typical TRP tactics: His GF becomes distant, he goes distant and flirts with other girls. And so forth. Well it's definitely what most of us would recommend, I'm not so sure it's a 'TRP tactic'. You spend time with those whom you enjoy spending time, and less so the rest. Adjust as needed. I don't think 'avoid people who actively wear you down' should be a consider a TRP thing, as much as a 'don't take shit you don't have to'. Thing is, his GF has realized what the guy…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 03:16 PM
5

I'm with you. Hope she enjoys herself. She's not doing it on some schmuck's dime, but rather her own money and work. I don't think she's being dishonest about anything at any point, and I'd betcha she's being safe about it to. Yeah, thumbs up from me. If she wants to spend her sunset years on her back, good on 'er. Hope there are plenty of ya when I get there.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 03:07 PM
1

Depends on what he bestowed on her. Did he raise her to be a kind and caring wife, or did he raise her to take no shit from anyone and direct her towards career only tomboy? Was this tempered with mom's erratic emotions and hatred towards men, or a caring mother who never left dad's side? The only thing I'd probably count on with just the info that she grew up with an alpha father, is that she will be more attracted to, and more accepting of a proper frame alpha. Anything else needs more data.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 04:20 PM
0

The body language is beta as fuck. I gotta disagree. His viewpoint, the visceral reaction that criticism of Islam is a racial persecution, maybe. But not his body language. He showed courage, conviction, and patience in addressing the idea. I disagree with his view, and I think it'd be easy to address in a way he would comprehend, but I don't think criticism of how he was attempting to deliver that view is accurate. He's not as glib or savvy as Russel Brand might be in expressing those views, bu…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 04:48 PM
2

Gay men don't really need men's rights. Men needs men's rights. Men's rights are not exclusively straight men's rights. You're welcome to believe that 'Straight men don't need gay men rights', but to say 'Gay men don't really need men's rights.' is a crock. Maybe you dont care enough to fight for it, but I can see no reason to possibly oppose it. RedPill and men's rights need the support of the gay community. It's the only foolproof way to show the lie of the 'he-man woman haters club' they like…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 05:53 PM
2

It was definitely the last I heard of it directed at him, but I always felt that since then, he was always went full comedy and no critical consideration on gender politic issues. I fully admit I may be assigning a motive that isn't there, but I cant help but wonder if he's towing the line party line and avoiding appearing soft. There are times when he's interviewed conservatives who truly had a well thought out viewpoint that he would sincerely be interested in exploring and fleshing out. The o…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 05:30 PM
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Jon Stewart was at the receiving end of a LOT of sexist claims at a personal level a couple of years ago. Since then, ANY such issue does NOT get even a chance at coherent broadcast. What the clip about the Princeton Mom letter. The concepts written about in the letter and the overall message was completely misconstrued with tumblr level rhetoric. Rob Blagojevich was given more benefit of the doubt and consideration than any view that might upset a woman.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 04:36 PM
1

Penetration can only make the orifice larger. Simple sentiment expressed clearly. Absolutely nothing you have written in any way disagrees with that thesis. You think kegels can make up for it; fine. I gave my reason why I come to a different conclusion, in detail. One of us needs more research and we both think it's the other. That's fine. But nothing you have said addresses the thesis. Penetration can only make the orifice larger. You're telling me it's irrelevant. Inconsequential. Unappetizin…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 03:45 PM
1

I don't disagree on any point. The whole idea of red pill is to accept the fact if it's fact, even if it's against what other people believe or how sad accepting it can make us.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 11:44 PM
3

Would this be congruent with my goal to establish multiple plates? If not, what would you recommend? Maintain a relationship with her, even or especially just a sexual one. Sex is fun, hopefully for both of you, you dig each other, go nuts and learn and play. Familiarity will make you a better lover, and if you just had sex once and havent again since, you need to work otherwise she won't be a plate; she'll call it a ONS and curb her attraction. You worked to this part to get a girl. You should …
/r/askTRP02/10/14 09:51 PM
1

You definitely need to stick to the things that you are comfortable with; if it feels unnatural to you, it will feel unnatural to people around you. Smirking is natural to me from a lifetime of smartass. It's rather the same thing as frame control. If you can act the frame where a behavior is natural, it'll feel natural to those around you. The subtle uncertainties and hesitations that go along with 'trying but not actually natural' are quickly picked up on, and take practice. It's frame control…
/r/askTRP02/10/14 09:45 PM
4

One instance, is that it says to smile as you enter a room. I don't think you'll find them contradictory, just nuanced. Smiling in an approach environment is meant to be disarming; if you aren't focused on the expression your face is giving out, and most guys aren't, a neutral or expressionless face is far more likely to be met with resistance. So the 'smile' that gets hammered in PUA is because its easy to focus on and is a severe improvement over no attention paid to your facial features at al…
/r/askTRP02/10/14 08:24 PM
1

...this thread has a silliness about it. It does, and I'm embarrassed to put it on the table for discussion. In a just world, there'd be one reply saying 'duh, dumbass' and it'd die away. I just dont understand why such a simple and obvious concept is met with such vitriol when it should be met with disinterest like any other plain-as-day but sad fact of life.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 07:54 PM
2

Is this endemic in guys with low SMV btw? While I have no idea if it's the problem you're experiencing, but to answer the direct question, yes. Low SMV naturally invokes repulsed behavior from people. The difference in how you're treated by random individuals is real, significant, and mind blowingly different to experience.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 06:33 PM
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Vaginal dilators are used when there's extreme discomfort for the woman during intercourse/childbirth. I said the vagina is a muscle, -> it can stretch. Good, we agree muscles can stretch, that's a great place to start. use and exercise are not the same. You're gonna have to clarify that one. One bicep curl won't make you buff, lots of them will. Now either something magical happens when you decide to do twelve reps that doesn't happen when you do eleven, or each each individual one has it's imp…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 06:23 PM
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We're agreed that kegels help and that kegel training has a positive impact on feel, regardless of whatever else happens or doesn't happen to it. All else being equal, kegel training is better than none. But to say that it is sufficient and complete to counteract all of the wear and tear a vagina goes through is simply laughable. It affects the opening passage only, not the size of the container. It's as disconnected from reality for the sake of not hurting people's feelings as 'size doesn't mat…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 06:06 PM
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I'm sorry, but there is no part of that grounded in reality. the fact the vagina is actually wrapped in muscle - for all intents and purposes, it is a muscle, while the ear isn't. So, the vaginal dilators available from your ob/gyn are....homeopathic? If use of large shapes insertions for the purpose of stretching things out didn't work, hey, I'd be way willing to listen. As it is, the professional opinion of the experts agrees with my own person experiences and simply fits with how the rest of …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 04:40 PM
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How do I fight this? Attract her. If she wants your cock, she won't want her friend around, and will make excuses to get it.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 06:48 AM
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Why was this necessary? Feelings of refret having promoted the opposite idea earlier. I was wrong to do so and would feel remiss to not correct myself, even if no one cared. I do, call me sentimental. Weed.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 06:21 AM
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No one should. But the scorn that people would use, telling others that this is somehow a big part of red pill, just leaves me to wonder how many are buying into this propaganda. I did, others may have too. No one should care, big it bugs me how much they seemed to care spreading the idea that they never ended up worse for wear.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 06:20 AM
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What about loyal girls who fuck the same cock every day? Thumbs up all around. The sex will wear and tear on the appropriate nibbly bits as usual. Are they also of low value? They sound pretty high value to me. You really should learn to judge women by more than just how an orifice feels. Loyalty's a big one that should play more heavily in your judgement. But years of proper pounding will result in a vagina that has taken years of proper pounding, especially if you're packing, and especially if…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 06:11 AM
1

The wall shift isn't because of redpill, it's because of the ease of modern communication making the village smaller. It's the exact same thing as the modern 80/20 rule getting harsher and harsher to a 90/10 rule, both because the number of fish in arm's reach is growing in modern tech. And it's serious enough that US government is running psyops to try to change things. [citation needed]
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 01:52 AM
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So why would anyone NOT want the "Marriage 1.0"? I'll play angel's advocate in hell, no problem. The common sentiment would probably be along the lines of 'both the direct social influence to remain in said marriage along with a systematic reduction of ANY other possible choice in life that was feasible through systematic lack of education and employment opportunities created a situation where many women remained in those marriages to their own detriment and against their will. Saying marriage h…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 01:34 AM
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I'm guessing she's gauging my ability to stay in control. So, next time I see her (Sunday night), I'm just going to fucking play it cool, relax, and stay steady. Yeah, she brought out the "sexy beast", which isn't bad, but what she probably needs is to see me stay in control of the situation. She wants to know that, if she goes for me, I'm not going to lose my shit about it. That I can hang with her blow-for-blow without shit getting messy and uncomfortable. That just...doesn't feel right. You'r…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 05:46 AM
1

That was exactly where my head was at and what I was going for. Consider her attractiveness, it seems pretty possible that she'd read a break in strong eye contact for a kiss as failing, being unable to hold her eyes, many would look away, and if she reads it as 'makes you uncontrollably horny' as a result, that's not a good sign either. Hold it, play 'forcefield' like in Stripes without talking about the rules or breaking eye contact. Give it a try once, make her be the one to break the silence…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 07:28 PM
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Whoa, Im a dumbass. It's the stares. The availability didn't affect the kiss response, it was the shit test right before you went in for each kiss. :) You're failing her shit test. She is flat out eye fucking you for dominance and you're flinching first. That's why she feels 'wtf?' cold; when you're being playful and strong and someone goes in with an easy soft kiss, it's jarring. Hold that eye contact with you're best Bruce Willis/Sean Connery amused mastery grin, and get that inner game on loc…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 12:56 AM
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You went from less available to just bam right there like everyone else. She may have been stunned from the sudden shift in gears. Yes, that's dumb since she was doing the shifting, but she wasn't certain of your reaction. She has or had a lil' fire burning, and it sounds like you were driving towards a close when she needed more stoking, more push/pull. I'm worried she may conclude 'Oh, ok, he's got stability and apparently carte blanche availability. He just said I can have him whenever.'
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 05:04 PM
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You got a polite, and definitive answer. Leave it and go on to the next.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 01:05 AM
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The same goes for shrugging her off when she talks to me about her day. She simply stops talking and gets pissed and I get no sex. No shit, Sherlock. You disconnected from her, and course she's not going to be feeling sexy. For example just the other day I went out with some friends for drinks and came home late and drunk. 2 days ago she decides to do the same thing to me without telling me. You have no concept of anything, do you? She has no reason to dread the situation because you're lowering…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 11:53 PM
3

Also, what's the difference between beta bucks and spending money for a woman Whether you're getting what you want out of the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 11:08 PM
9

hope that things will become better down the road. Hell no son. You make that ish happen. You're one month when EVERYONE in your clique is new. Hit the streets and make a social circle with purpose. Every ounce now will pay off big time. Go go go. This is NOT the time to be complacent!
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 10:59 PM
2

This wouldn't be too far from actual rape. No, this would be exactly actual rape. Not feminist -rape to the end of anything that doesn't give them warm fuzzies kind of thing, but the actual should-be-a-trigger violent rape that we should be offended to even be considered a part of. This 'almost' bit there needs to be dropped. It doesn't stop being rape because she liked it after saying 'stop', anymore that it becomes rape because she didn't like it after not saying 'stop'.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 05:54 PM
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Whether she is waiting for a reaction.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 05:12 AM
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You're very insistent against pretty clearly written posts. I don't believe I've mistaken the OP or you. Just because you're trying to make a different point, doesn't mean mine or the OP's are in error. Equal rights does not mean equal outcome. Agreed. Whether or not female brains work the same way as male brains is irrelevant. There's an implied 'to the fact that equal rights does not mean equal outcome.' at the end of there to me, so I'm reading it as: Whether or not female brains work the sam…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 04:27 AM
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Thank you for the recommendation.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 05:07 PM
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If women are everything men are down the line, completely interchangable with identical squishy brains, then they'd expect equal outcome; 1:1 ratios in all professions. As long as that belief, the complete irrelevance of sex on a persons' capabilities and interests, is accepted, the inequality of outcome will always be considered prima facie evidence of inequality of opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 12:55 PM
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Wiki calorie. Strictly speaking, calories are only a measurement a heat. The body kicks in more calorie breakdowns to keep the body temperature regulated to those temperatures that are less deathy.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 12:45 PM
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Stop feeling and start thinking. Or not, your call. We try to help people succeed; you're succeeding and not happy about it, and that's on you. Hmm. Anyone else see a hypergamous woman viewpoint with a cock attached like an afterthought? Of course we'd feel far more comfortable and accepting of that scenario painted. The biggest problem we have with female hypergamy is the deception and hypocrisy about its existence. This male character is honest about it, and we're as equally ok with women who …
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 12:36 PM
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Your question is stupid, your mindset childish, and your sincerity missing. HTH.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 01:29 PM
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I can't believe people are answering this troll.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 05:06 AM
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The downside is that unless you're paying for a nanny, you're going to age yourself into the ground so damned fast. If you're loaded and can afford the care and know what you want, hey, go for it. If you're trying to do this all on your own with a shoestring budget, you're going to be so screwed. And if you do go surrogate, spend the money for a quality donor. Be picky and willing to pay the premium. Or, you can do it the old fashioned way and seduce and deal with custody/child support. If you w…
/r/askTRP18/09/14 05:59 PM
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You put the kibosh on sexy time because you failed to be prepared? She may be a shittest machine, but c'mon, how is this a shit test? Being bummed and accepting because you don't want to fuck it sounds like a human being, not a shit test. You're worried about looking bad, but you dropped the ball, and for some reason, instead of living life and either gone without protection or satisfying other ways, decided to just leave her to stew in her rejection. This isn't a shit test, just a shitty situat…
/r/askTRP18/09/14 03:53 AM
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Half full or half empty? You see a girl planning a tactic. I see a girl accepting my frame that physical escalation will happen at the tempo I set because I'm very willing to walk away and we both know she doesn't want that.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 01:49 AM
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You reward her when she does well. There's no shame or weakness in that unless you let it in your frame. You tell her you're proud when she does good, let her know you're attracted to her. You don't tell her you'd crumble to pieces if she left.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 10:27 PM
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I wonder if junkies who say 'but I clean every needle!' feel the same way she does?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 09:58 PM
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You'll find the most important thing to the vocal is the right to declare victimhood on behalf of those who won't, and most importantly, those who do not feel they are victims because the vocal know better.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 09:52 PM
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Record everything, 24x7. Manufacture a patsy for when the need comes, someone to be a go between between you and the crew; a corporal that they need to go through before you. Your contact with the group as a whole should be very limited, and everything handed down through the patsy and back up from them. The people above you dont see down past you, people below you don't see up past the patsy. Craft the intermediary properly so everyone's perceptions are how you want it; the patsy thinks he's yo…
/r/askTRP09/09/14 04:15 PM
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|"She is trying to separate the boys, isn't she cute?" |"Can you get me those baskets now pweeeze." She's adapting and changing tactics because her old ones don't work. She doubled down on taking control over the house in front of your son and you melted. She wanted you away from the son because she felt you weren't resolving the situation (where resolving == she feels less anxiety) and she turned on the charm to get her way. Maybe you'll feel it was her showing submission in front of your son. …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 07:23 AM
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HAHAHAHAHA! We're glad to have you as a fellow RedPiller! That's the whole point. There is no respect from her. She saw someone who got her tingly, and any concept of loyalty pr dedication simply weren't an issue in her mind at all. She was willing to take this guys money without consideration for his wellbeing because he was willing to give it. She took advantage of this. She paid attention to the more attractive alpha instead of the kind and considerate man, because the alpha was more attracti…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 05:13 AM
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I appreciate what you're doing, but please don't take offense when I ask: For those of us that don't mind the expense to talk a real certified person with actual degrees and practices and references and stuff like that (I know, Im picky about whom I let influence my brain. I'm a neuroprimadonna.) to discuss this sort of plan personalized to the individual? I don't what a hack hawking his wares for profit. I would want an artist in the field whose results would move mountains. Help me find them.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 12:13 AM
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|how do I deal with shit tests from a relative? With unwavering frankness. "That's a childish guilt trip because you're feeling unloved, and I'm disappointed you think I'm so stupid as to not see through it. You don't get love by whining, mother, you get it by being lovable, and I have no problem hanging up on you if you sound unpleasant. Now, tell me how you've been so we can have a nice time catching up." Fact is, she'll be proud when she realizes you're your own man.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 11:24 PM
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Other way around. Women are more easily accepted as victims in the same situation because a woman's hardship is less acceptable in everyone's eyes than a man's hardship. Comedy is when a man falls down a well; tragedy is when a woman experiences unpleasantness.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 10:42 PM
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You're building excuses on the backs on hopes and dreams. You're taking the view that there must be some sort of super zoomed out view where a man's impact on life the universe and everything can be weighed versus the achievements of women and therefore one is 'better' than the other by this omnipotent and arbitrary judgement. It's a crock viewpoint that is little more than you scrambling to believe God likes you. I don't care how much God loved the dinosaurs, they're still dead. You are what yo…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 08:24 PM
2

You should be doing other things to meet new people on campus, including dudes, to bring to these parties. Pick groups of people you've never met before and invite a few extra you think the girls might like. You help the guys get laid and show them a good time which makes you the man on campus people will know. You want to feed hotties to the girls while they do the same for you. You have the perfect storm for an EPIC college career. Do not be complacent. If you bust your ass in the right mindse…
/r/askTRP04/09/14 01:25 AM
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|Past contribution has no value for women at least at a emotional level. That sounds like hyperbole. I posit they have whole worlds less. Any suggestions on how we could verify, preferably with existing experimental results? Because I don't think it's difficult to find examples of loyal wives, and just one would contradict yours.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 08:55 PM
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Big time atheist here, with some seriously changed views on religion since TRP. Strong atheist since 2001 thanks to James Randi. No shit, Million Dollar Challenge turned me into an atheist once I started questioning things. My changed views on religions happened with TRP because of religion's impact in the creation of monogamous society. Before, so much of the male population was repressed, desperate, violent, and easily led to violence. Monogamy turned that section of violent disposable people …
/r/askTRP03/09/14 07:33 PM
2

Ambiguity in the concept of hypergamy. Biggest pet peeve so far of mine. It seems to be used to represent multiple conflicting ideas so far. The first definition seems to be along the lines of "the behavior of wanting the highest value mate possible" which makes me scratch my head, because that's just 'Duh' for every living creation on the planet capable of mate selection. That's the whole point, and that desire is in all of us. "She left her beta husband for an alpha because hypergamy doesn't c…
/r/askTRP03/09/14 07:16 PM
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|I don't blame her for what she did, it was my lack of frame that let it happen. God DAMN does seeing that put a smile on my face. Respect, brother.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 08:03 AM
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If that's the biggest complaint you have, and you continue to handle it as described, there's no problem. She's gonna test you. Your job is not to fail until you don't care about how she reacts. 'She' will be any woman in your life. Lather, Rinse, Repeat.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 04:07 AM
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Yo, do NOT beat yourself up because your progress doesn't match your hopes. You dropped the ball. Big deal, there'll be plenty of opportunities. You SEE what happened, and are using that to improve. THAT is nothing to sneeze at.
/r/trpGAME03/09/14 03:01 AM
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You have no reason to care about my opinion, but that was beautiful, clean, clear, refreshing, and awesome. Thank you on behalf of those that wont.
/r/trpGAME03/09/14 02:59 AM
1

|Family not so much. You need more. Your friend is a walking suicide with patience.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 02:10 AM
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Bleh, weak. How about smokers? Do they posses free-will with the agency and capability to quit? Are they inclined to not? Your time would be better spent trying to answer your own stupid questions.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 10:58 PM
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|Shouldn't the most logical strategy be the one that makes the most sense evolutionarily? HELL NO. Not even close, and probably wrong way more often than accurate. There's some weird shit living on this rock. Why is disliking nice guys evolutionarily beneficial, but not "logically" beneficial? Because they produce weak children, and buy you stuff, respectively.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 10:53 PM
1

|This girl went from looking like a young Sarah Michelle Gellar to the possessed chick from Army of Darkness. "You found me beautiful once." "Honey, you got REEEEEAL ugly."
/r/askTRP02/09/14 10:40 PM
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| First, feminism itself has internal conflicts and diverges in opinion (mostly because of the sheer contradictions between its core tenets), and when those differences are strictly mutually exclusive, you know that one must be "right" and the other "wrong". And that's assuming these areas do have a correct stance, there is a whole realm of propositions where it is impossible to determine what is true and what isn't. If the core tenant has contradictions, yea, that's exactly what it means. Logic…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 10:13 PM
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|Thoughts? My thought is that you're in the perfect mindset. You're taken back, but you can see the problem. Start getting excited to talk to her. Spar the shit out of her. You should be WANTING a capable women who is just over your self perceived value to get comfortable with. The better she is at getting you to that supplicating spot, the more you need to keep exposing yourself to it until handling that is second nature. You should be having a blast with this, and if you have the opportunity, …
/r/askTRP02/09/14 10:04 PM
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Wow, you managed to dry up MY vagina with that one. You're a sap, pure and simple. You know what we'll say, you know what you should say. But you're not going to. Nope. Not you. You see, you've been properly trained. You do what mommy tells you, even when mommy needs to send you to your room so the adults can be alone. That's where you'll be, btw. Spending your life in your room like a good little boy. Because you want to show your love. You want to be strong for her, and she is so happy when yo…
/r/askTRP02/09/14 08:11 AM
1

Nope, it's nothing more but frame control on both sides at that point.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 02:18 AM
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/r/asktrp/ You failed, and as long as you keep blaming them, you will continue to fail. Your conduct made them uncomfortable with the idea of being physical with you. Maybe it's the years of beta and they're using you to try to bag your friend. Maybe they were interested in your but your behavior there turned them off. I have no way of knowing. But the final result is that they didn't feel comfortable or attracted to the idea, and the responsibility for that is on you. The longer you blame them,…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 02:12 AM
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/R/K_selection_theory All R-Type, all day. In other words, exactly what is happening now. Due to communication tech, there is no mate scarcity so LTRs go down and CC goes up.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 01:54 AM
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We are culturally conditioned to view as moral (especially in the area of sexuality) that which represents the female POV and female sensibility. I disagree with this, although it is sure as shit reinforced, but it's an innate behavior we all have as mammals. Hell, hunters have always tried to stick to taking down adult males when hunting for food or trophy as long as history as existed. I just posit that mammals and especially humans have an innate sexism that values female well-being over male…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 10:44 PM
1

Gosh, is THAT what being a beta meant? Whew, damn, I've been so off base. You speak words without knowing their meaning. Do as you will.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 11:55 PM
1

uhhhhh....Unless I'm really off base, wasn't Mifune's character in 7 Samurai the huge bafoon, the most immature of the entire group. Mifune in Rashoman, alpha thug. Mifune in Musashi, amazingly complex alpha with a dyed in the wool 'disregard bitches, acquire skill and perfection' from start to finish. But 7 Samurai??
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 04:00 AM
1

Is, is this a red pill honey trap? "21 y/o submissive virgin prefers cooking and video games to sexual attention from guys. Seeks long term commitment. Super tiny 4'10", hope that's not a problem, teehee." Definitely sounds way too good. :)
/r/askTRP26/08/14 05:10 PM
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Make sure the alphas you roll with respect and will back you up. If they do, they want to help you get laid, so tell them how they can help. You got one or two glowing golden boys coming up after you introduced yourself to a woman, and they have their eyes down around you? Or hand you a drink with a reverent 'Here ya go, boss.' Or he comes up 'Hey, I think that model followed you here.', you whisper in his ear, looks at her, "Ya boss" and walks away. It's a game to your boy, and and you will hav…
/r/askTRP26/08/14 03:04 PM
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Turn up the sexual intrigue. You should be using kino and dialogue to turn the heat up, and Im left with the impression that hasn't what's been happening. To be honest, she's probably aching for you to get on it already.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 05:47 AM
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She's not hot for you. Whatever attraction you had on Friday has bled out in the meantime with that conversation. You're offering food with someone who wants to see her naked, which can be 'ugh'. You're trying to date her, and she's not interested in "dating" or eager to have you as a "boyfriend". She needs to be led and seduced, not courted.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 02:45 AM
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The ones who treat men like imminent dangers are the ones who don't believe it protecting or defending themselves like this. That's victim blaming, remember? This science and engineering, always a good thing. This material could be marketed in a way that continues to disproportionately instill fear towards men, I grant you that. But if it's somewhat useful, why the hell not? Put it in all of the nail polishes from here on out like flouride in the tap water. From just an applied sciences and engi…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 09:08 PM
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I think it's freaking brilliant. This is science put to good use and I hope it becomes a staple in all nail polishes in the immediate future. I don't see the relevance in knocking down the creation's existence or mocking the creators. I'm glad this exists and want the women I know and don't know to have easy access to it.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 08:24 PM
2

Women dropped the ball on the invention of the damn tampon, and you're surprised they dropped it on this? :)
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 08:22 PM
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If she's shitfaced, he could be the playing the good friend so he can go get some ass of his own he actually wants. Don't get me wrong, it's suspicious as fuck, but not a slam dunk certainty yet.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 08:07 PM
2

If ever I react any different, please slap me.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 07:54 PM
2

Could someone explain this? Yeah. You don't buy a motorcycle if you're planning on using it for carrying tools to a work site every day. You don't by a truck when you want to save gas and love going on bike rides. The more partners a girl has had, the more of a risk she is for investing in a long term relationship; she is more likely to instigate abuse and divorce. If you want a long term relationship, it is considered smarter to fish from the end of the pool with the least amount of failed rela…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 07:27 PM
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Respect. If she's yelling across a room and putting attention on you, maybe you could use it to your advantage to display SMV to your new audience. But if you're confident that there was no way to turn the situation to your advantage, that's good enough for me.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 07:09 PM
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The other night some bitch at a bar shit tested me and I fell for it. She asked me how my red bull was (I was obviously drinking a whiskey). That bitch was a girl trying to open you up. Had you reacted the way you describe, she'd be right in getting scared/offended and staying away. As it is, she just thought you weren't interested or were boring with that answer. But if you seriously immediately took it as a shit test and your face reacted as if you want to call her a bitch, she also may have s…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 06:34 PM
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No idea why the downvotes, I agree. Seduction is a dance and we're all excited when we find a capable dance partner.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 06:09 PM
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One that completed blindsided me and turned into a LTR before I knew what was happening: Not leaving. She would want to go out Friday, and would stay longer and longer until she effectively had my weekends. It was like my time got invaded by kudzu grass before I realized what was happening. She wasn't going to convince me into an LTR, she was goinna camp out and claim territory (time) until it was fait acompli. Lesson: Always be less available, not just in attraction. Kick a bitch out every now …
/r/askTRP24/08/14 05:50 PM
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Weed makes her appreciate the music and the musician more, increasing his SMV: agreed. But it seems somewhat implied that the bump in SMV made the difference in whether to bump uglies or not. While I'm sure it made the experience more pleasurable for her, she most likely would have still wanted to without the weed. Travelling performers get so much free SMV for being centers of attention, artists, exotic looks, costumes, and talent. It's more than enough without the weed, and I didn't want anyon…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 05:24 PM
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Yup. That's some brilliant evil right there. "And why do you believe you have what it takes to a VP with us here at Halliburton?" "Well, I ruled my entire college with an iron fist that would give Machiavelli's corpse a boner next to the corpses of those who tried to oppose me." That's just the little we know from that story, but you know there's some serious evil going on there. Maybe knocked up the entire board of all celibacy/pro-life student clubs? What kind of evil could the wanton despot o…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 05:16 PM
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And I'm gonna go against the grain. Yes, it's rather rude and none of her business. You had every right to say enough and leave for displaying what you thought were poor manners that reflect poorly on her. What good is taking it any further than that? You're focused on how such behavior isn't surprising despite the audacity. Shouldn't you be focused on what you could do better? Because I don't think you handled it. Regardless of how indelicately she handled it, it's a clear IOI. So you didn't wa…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 08:44 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aHV7aLvnKQk Watch this to the 1 minute mark. Poor kid got pissed on three ways from Sunday by Russell and humiliated, and everyone's laughing? God damn that is frame control. That man is brilliant, and possibly evil. I wonder what the poor dude to piss Russell off. That's how you AMOG.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 08:06 PM
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Your partner was dissatisfied from your lack of experience and her lacking experience with you. Jelqing doesn't work. Traction and surgery are it, but exercise and practicing sex with the purpose of getting better at it will help tons more.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 04:49 PM
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difficult to get out off down the road. God damn son, even I'm not quite jaded enough to read 'admiration, love, and loyalty' as a 'RUN, BITCH, RUN!'
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 04:11 PM
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She specifically said non-sexual, so she's toying with him. If she's 100% certain and dead set on no sex, when you escalate in person she'll be glowing when she gets stern and self righteous displays of power and violence, all overkill shutting you down with such satisfying anger. Not only are you out of line, she even made it clear in perfect text you can read again if you're too stupid to understand the first time. Hell, she could reluctantly accept your advances, and have more than enough to …
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 03:31 PM
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Are they cute? Oh, and bring one with a hubby's card, I think we'll be thirsty. (Preemptive defense against her thinking you're gonna pay for them.)
/r/askTRP17/08/14 04:12 AM
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Because orbiters are fucking useful. So much in this world is HEAVY and EXPENSIVE and that's what men are for. She already told you no dates, so any dinners or vacations you want to take with her are totally guilt free. The two answers that are always TRP answers are "Lift. Approach." to any and every question that comes up, including this one. If you want to know for sure with this chick what's she's up to, then the only way to know for sure would be physical escalation to see where she gets un…
/r/askTRP17/08/14 04:09 AM
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Then she gets a better life than she would have had with you; which hopefully you're all for. You then get to go out and upgrade to a newer model because you're twice as awesome as when you met the last. You're outcome dependent. If you don't think you're gonna be super happy and just fine without her, you've got to get to that point. Sure, you like her, you'll keep her around, and frankly, the other guy actually would have to be WAY higher than you if you play your game right, like movie stars …
/r/askTRP14/08/14 09:36 PM
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Nice actions can be alpha or beta. The main distinction is how they affect people's view of you. You can be alpha and plenty nice; the world needs more of them. Nice just shows niceness, which is good for everyone. But if those nice acts display supplication, low confidence, or any other negative traits, don't do it. If they should positive traits, like command, passion, purpose, or any other positive traits, it's pretty alpha and recommended. We're telling you to not cut YOUR European trip shor…
/r/askTRP14/08/14 09:24 PM
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You can totally spin it and make yourself look good though. You try to spin it at all and you look like a tool. "She's wasted" or "oh yeah baby" or just some totally sarcastic stuff that makes me seem totally comfortable with having girls be super forward with me Those reactions are the opposite of being comfortable with a woman touching you. If she's wasted, I would have said out loud so others could hear, "let's find someone to walk you home," or "how much tequila did you have?" etc. If I was …
/r/askTRP14/08/14 12:39 AM
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Should I go no contact? Only if you want to. The mindset from you should be that she's not solo LTR material; you ain't ever going to be exclusive with her. After that, do you want to go no contact? You may not have much choice after throwing a temper tantrum like you let her see, but it should have been (and may still be) very possible to keep her spinning somewhat for future bumpins, especially during the holidays, but the best way to do that is to be unphased or even excited for her when she …
/r/askTRP14/08/14 12:26 AM
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IMHO, no, not from cuckolding angle. Cuckolding where she sexually prefers other men and you accept it, it's just going to naturally reflect in the rest of the relationship, and you'll go from being in her heart to being in her toolbelt for as long as you're convienent. Sure, there's a 1 in 7 billion chance you could find just the perfect sort of skewed woman, but they look and act identical to the ones who won't be able to help turning against you in unprovoked disgust. Could you get the feels …
/r/askTRP13/08/14 10:45 PM
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Does this mean most women are in fact cheating or have already cheated on their current partner? Frankly, no. The likelihood of cheating is a direct result of the public access she allows for attention. Less pretty or less internet or less public exposure all lesson the chance. Saying 'Most women' is crap, but the more and more you zoom your focus to the the ones you want to be involved in your life because of her awesome traits, the more obvious it is to others as well, and the risks of cheatin…
/r/askTRP13/08/14 10:33 PM
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I can't get mad at the dudes; consentual adult gang bang, good for them. They even handled it with integrity, and are trying to warn the dude about what kind of girl she is, and laughing because they know he won't see the truth they're dishing out to him straight. I'm serious, the DUDES are showing him more respect, consideration, and effort towards helping him out, how's that for a pisser? God damn, there's only so much sympathy one can give before you decide the onus is entirely on them. I'm s…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 08:27 PM
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This goes all the way back to the caves and there is nothing wrong with a cohabiting adult enforcing rules and disciplining kids- especially boys who need strong male leadership. Those instincts have been trained to consider men as an extra step away from their tribe than a woman in the same relation would be. Im against the idea of encouraging men to step forward into such roles unasked for the same reasons I'd discourage marriage; there's no upside, and some very real downsides that can get so…
/r/askTRP13/08/14 07:19 AM
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The chances of your father being able to pull it off are crazy slim, and pretty much nil if she's a catch, but it doesn't matter. He needs to get his ass in gear, whether they stick together or not, otherwise he'll either turn into a shell of a married man or a crushed divorcee. It's the same answer for keeping them together as well as if they split. Is it guaranteed to keep them together? Nope, they're in a bad spot. But it's the best shot they have, and the best choice for him if they fail. Po…
/r/askTRP13/08/14 07:12 AM
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TRP, is it true that less attractive women have a monopoly over friendzoning; could it be cause they're reasonably more approachable and 'friendable'? No. And next time, just tell her the whole truth. Men who find themselves in the friendzone put themselves there (by listening to the advice of women, but you can leave that part out), they don't understand sexual attraction (they dont), some people just don't click, blah blah. All legit, all honest, and you'll be one of the cool kids who understa…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 08:34 PM
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Honestly, it's in their head. The ones that are sickeningly attracted to you are pretty much the only ones you'll get to come from nipple play or them deep throating. You have to get them HOT HOT HOT before it'll happen. Tease the shit out of them. But any sort of plan to make it a reliable thing with anyone you choose? Not gonna bloody happen mate.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 08:27 PM
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On the flip-side the rapport break could very well be what motivates her in a way such as, "I'll show him how much fucking weight I can lose, then I won't fuck him next time." I agree that's a posibility, but it sounds like rationalization because of how poorly executed a dread game it would be. You want the dread game when she's AWAY, not when she's THERE, so saving it for after or the end of the trip sounds most effective. If it was dread game, he failed by not giving her a way to win; she can…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 08:22 PM
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Hard to say because because I dont trust weight gain is the actual problem. But let's say it was. They have a marriage with like 6 months apart and one week together. So the week together should be entirely start to finish the rapid, squishy, pig sex she can't help but think about and compare any other man to, so help her be as sexual and dirty as she dreams about the rest of the year. That's the general plan. Let's say he sees her in person and the weight IS actually a problem; not some cranky …
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 06:58 PM
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No, no it shouldn't be. She's on a week and then wont see him for months. She can't lose any demonstrable weight in 3 days, and the entire manner that he said it is report breaking. Think about that week for a second: one hump, ER visit, dude cant look you in the eyes and calls you fat. And all the chick wants is a happy ball slapping good time with the dude, and appears to be actively working to salvage as much of that as possible. I dont think she even disagree's with the premise that she shou…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 02:36 PM
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Welp, if you're ever looking for a perfect illustration of the differences between male and female thinking, there it is: her reaction isn't about what is, it's about how what he said makes her feel right now. We should start a collection of RP real-world parables like this and add them to the sidebar. I gotta go with her on this one. The message is sound, and I couldn't care less whether she was offended, but she's right that the timing was poor and inconsiderate on his part. What's she going t…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 02:14 PM
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Am I the only one seeing that he prolly fucked her in the car ride to the studio?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 08:08 AM
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I need you to expand on that a bunch; proof of morality not being universal should be sufficient proof that morality isn't universal. The unfortunate bigger underlying problem is that morality is a human construct. It doesn't have the same factual aspects that waffles have. There has to be a set of premises that it's built on and then explored, just like math and logic. Until those premises are codified, I'm stuck having to try and get each person's moral framework, which as you can see isn't ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/13 10:52 PM
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Why use facts if lies are more effective? If integrity is a liability, might as well discard it. Better yet..... use it to your own personal advantage. Oh shit, that's fucking brilliant..... BBL, I got work to do. it'll take forever but it'd be EPIC.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/13 10:22 PM
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So then do we agree that the morality of an action is dependent on the details of the specific instance of the action, and not the action in general outside of those specifics? If killing is immoral in general, but there exist situations where it is moral, then killing as a concept is amoral outside of the specific instances. As long as there exists a conceivable scenario where an action is moral, and there also exists a conceivable scenario where the action is immoral, regardless of how implaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/13 10:13 PM
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That would mean killing any depressed people without ties would be moral; scooping them up for medical research for the benefit of others, even moreso. So the addition of human lives doesn't increase the morality of the situation unless they are happier than the previous average. You can't be serious. You're saying a moral action is one that increases the average happiness, however the hell that could be measured, of the entirety of the human race? Immediate happiness? Future happiness at some p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/13 07:20 PM
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So cheating on my wife to knock up the neighborhood would be the morally correct choice; deception through ommission for one person being the only unhappy, 100 hundred women happy to carry my baby and 100 babies to experience a lifetime of happiness. Most human happiness compared to not taking that action. By that definition, taking any sexual strategy that didn't involve death would be a moral action since it leads to a life. We find that viewpoint abhorrent. Morality is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/13 06:49 PM
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The irony is feeling personal pain at false accusations; I'd quite literally be happier from the accusations if they were true than how I do feel with them being false, yet they continue more because it does in fact hurt. And somehow we're the bastards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/13 06:18 PM
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No one has ever claimed "Red Pill explicitly condones rape." Some examples of TRP explicitly or implicitly condoning rape: We're done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/13 05:38 PM
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Then perhaps I didn't understand what you meant by 'universal'. Let me see if I'm understanding you right; morality exists only in the actions of capable, cognizant humans. The rules of what actions are considered moral or immoral apply to all of those actions equally. Is that accurate? One other aspect of it I want to know; are the rules of what is moral or immoral universal? For example, what is viewed as immoral by one person must necessarily be viewed as immoral by all others? If not, then y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/13 05:22 PM
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And right back to the 'am not, are too' script. This is why I didn't want to touch the subject. Because you're creepily focused on painting us as rapists. The 'mountain of evidence' has been addressed, repeatedly; at no point did it condone or support rape. We had one kook get in who likely was pro-rape. If we weren't against it, why would we have banned him? It's not like we have a problem being politically incorrect. If you won't listen and continue to badger because you don't like the fact th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/13 05:03 PM
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I'm glad I can continue to alleviate some of your ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/13 04:34 PM
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Eh? How so? Then asteroids bumping into each other in ways that do not affect any life anywhere would have to have moral aspects. Are asteroid collisions moral or immoral?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/13 04:30 PM
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Fuck fedoras. Bullshit, tacky as shit, no imagination, can't fucking stand them. They immediately scream 'no imagination, no class, no style'. And yet, past four women I've been with have all adored them and wanted to see me wear them. I even buckled and bought a $15 one at Burlington recently just to shut one of them up about it. I have not yet, and will never, wear it outside of the house. Give me my gambler hat, or something with a brim for fucks sake. This generic fedora crap is a useless, u…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/13 09:17 AM
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No one has ever claimed "Red Pill explicitly condones rape." The question is whether your actions match your words. How can you expect a conversation in good faith if your response to someone denouncing rape is 'We're not saying you're pro-rape, we're just wondering if you're rapists?' We can either discuss the topic, or you can continue to show the world your refusal to actually listen a red pill stance when it's as plain as can be. I'm here trying trying to help explain the red pill view of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/13 08:29 AM
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That doesn't change what the definition of feminism is however. Sure. Make the definition 'people fighting for free access to cotton candy', and I'd oppose them for their actions just as well, even if it doesn't change the definition. As long as they continue their anti-male and anti-family actions, hiding under the defense of a feminism label without the loud and outspoken criticism from other feminists, then it's a tacit agreement condoning the actions. It is easier to find outspoken disagreem…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/13 04:37 AM
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I don't consider it worth downvoting for simply because he didn't write up a novella about how the 'polygamous portions of Mormonism' doesn't represent all or even a significant portion of LDS followers. There exist those that practice polygamy and consider themselves Mormon, and he was referring only to those, and I believe did so clearly. I would completely understand being upset if he had mentions 'within, say, Mormons' without specifying the polygamous portion; it would be an unstated assump…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/13 04:07 AM
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This doesn't follow from what I said. There can be a group that is trying to gain equality for women in areas where men have it easier, while men still have a harder time in other areas. I gave examples of active feminist activity specifically against men fighting for equality, and that's not in your definition either. You got any examples of that? Fighting against the glass ceiling to get more women onto the board of directors is common. Fighting against the glass basement to get more women int…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/13 03:54 AM
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feminism is an ideology whose aim is to establish equal political, economic and social rights for women (because that's the definition of it) Ok, we'll start with that definition. In order for it to even be possible, the inequalities that exist have to 100% be anti-female, which is a position I disagree with. If all inequalities for women are immediately wiped away, equality would not be reached, since the only inequalities would be left are anti-male. Secondly, while that may be the definition,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/13 03:11 AM
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Great. Please clarify your converse points and we can dig through this together.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/13 02:31 AM
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Why won't you say exactly what you mean? I did, repeatedly, and directly. And we agree on it. So what's the problem? Why are you unhappy with the simple fact that we are against rape? Anyone who tells you otherwise has been lying for the sake of an agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/13 02:30 AM
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Im still waiting on the TBP converses.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/13 02:26 AM
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Rape is always bad? Do you disagree? If not, then I'm glad we've got that covered.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/13 02:18 AM
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Can you explain how we're disagreeing, when we both said that acting on these impulses can be immoral? Ah, misunderstanding on my part. Yes, acting on these impulses can be, but is not necessarily, immoral. Even worse, the finding of immoral or moral varies by person. That's the price of objective reality + subjective morality. (Althought the Sam Harris TED talk about measuring morality was a pretty neat concept) If you ever categorize a murder as immoral, then clearly morality is not something …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/13 02:16 AM
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I've answered your question already. Rape is bad. If you're not happy with that, the failure is on your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/13 02:06 AM
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Now that thats done, please be so kind as to write up the converse of those things so we can actually discuss them. Certainly, it should be easy, yes? Make a counter claim and let's actually hash through this if you're serious about making headway rather than focusing so intently on trying to misrepresent us like always. The 'we dont believe any of that' is a weak line. If you don't believe 'women say no when they mean yes', maybe you mean 'women who say no always mean no'? Or do you mean 'women…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/13 02:00 AM
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What part of 'categorically opposed to' is fuzzy? EDIT: opposed, not apposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/13 01:48 AM
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Blue pillers make it a point to intentionally misrepresent our views for their own agenda. Read through any of the 'OMG TRP IS PRORAPE' threads and see for yourself. We've tried everything to get across that we are category opposed to rape, but they continue anyways. As long as they shout it, they think they can use the painting to convince people to not take a look. That they're intentionally deceiving people is a fair price to pay in their mind. Besides, if they chant it enough, maybe someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/13 01:40 AM
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there is a conspiracy with feminism at the centre with the purpose of fucking men over Incorrect. Conspiracy implies it is directed and focused, rather than a collection of self serving interests. It'd be more accurate to replace it with 'The results of actions under the umbrella of feminism are taken without regard to, and commonly directly against the well being of men, and indirectly against the well being of families and society'. women want to be dominated by men, and prefer for men to make…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/13 11:23 PM
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, but sexual strategies that act on them are not. I don't see how there's anything else to discuss, really. Make-up, exercise, and fashion are immoral? Then we'll have to agree to disagree. So you would never describe rape or murder as immoral? Not even gonna touch the rape one. Murder? No, I would not categorically define all murder as immoral. I'd put the bullet between Osama Bin Laden's eyes myself, even though he felt 9/11 was a moral action against a global evil. The world isn't that cut an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/13 08:26 PM
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An often cited and sidebar-showcased claim is that sexual strategy is amoral. Is this true? Yup. Is it moral for a male lion who just took down the pack alpha to kill all of the pack's baby lions sired by the previous alpha? Is animal cuckoldry from cuckoo birds moral? Is is moral for hornets to capture and enslave a bee queen for jelly production after decimating the bee hive? Yet they are natural instincts for those creatures. Those are amoral strategies. How big of a role does this claim play…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/13 07:55 PM
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No idea why that was downvoted, that sounds like a great question.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/13 06:24 PM
5

Have you ever seen a bunch of guys sitting around bitching about their wives? Actually, nah, I don't think I have. Complaints about marriage in general, sure, but I don't recall ever hearing 'Jessica did this, what a bitch.'
/r/askTRP20/09/13 05:38 PM
1

This behavior from bonjoe is exactly why you're experiencing some hostility here; it's the usual style of crap TBP tries to dump on us.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/13 01:12 AM
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.....man, the internet is weirder than normal today. You want to help bring about the downfall of society and make a profit in the process? ...oooookay. Want to do so behind a computer? Good luck I guess. You expect that somehow TRP mods might be able to help you with that? You've got some screwed up ideas about TRP. Go see if Halliburton is hiring.
/r/askTRP20/09/13 12:40 AM
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What. The. Fuck. ? Hella citation needed.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/13 11:38 PM
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Nope. Babies will fuck that right up though. Kegel training helps, but it's still very different. There is no downside to a chick having consensual sex with lots of dudes. But investing heavily in a long term relationship, especially marriage, with someone who has a history of short term relationships? That's just a dumb, unnecessary risk. If a woman has wrecked multiple cars in her lifetime, why the hell would I loan her mine? If she has a horrible credit rating, why would I loan her money? If …
/r/TheRedPill19/09/13 11:36 PM
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By expecting more of a fellow man, I am sabotaging and handicapping males But if we agree with the red pill ideal that such men are better, more attractive leaders to both sexes? You'd be handicapping males by not pointing it out. We're in this position because of the lack of masculine role models, and the general feminization of society. This method of encouraging further feminization will make things worse, not better. Is it unfair? Yup. But the burden is on us, and always has been. Men don't …
/r/TheRedPill19/09/13 09:41 PM
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and then her friends pulled her away. This was the point for you to stop and mostly write the girl off. Her friends pulled her away because she signaled for them to do so. Write her off, be awesome in her vacinity, and aside from a big shit eating grin every time she tries to make eye contact with you while you're flirting with someone else, stay away. I said NO and laughed. Perfect, but you should have kept walking instead of keep on knocking at the door, or encouraged the guy as if you were he…
/r/askTRP19/09/13 09:29 PM
2

I am not arguing that arguing with women and overpowering them is beneficial or productive for him, by itself. I am merely stating that the anger phase is something many of us pass through; many of us also overcome it, and it ends up being a useful learning period. This isn't about his feels. I'm the last person to criticize how he feels when I've been in the exact same boat. I support, recognize, empathize, sympathize, and acknowledge his feels. This is entirely about his actions and how they w…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/13 08:15 PM
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I agree, however, do you have any material for further readings? Of what sort? As for the Amish, I'm actually quite respectful of Amish and Mennonite folk; between the work ethic and strong capitalist streak, there's quite a lot about them I like. it was just the first idea that popped into my head for an example that wouldn't paint me as xenophobic.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/13 06:10 PM
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He is the bullied kid who learned he's actually stronger than the bully. He's the bullied kid that is picking fights with anyone after a few weeks of karate classes. That course of action is ineffective is making change, self damaging by alienating people who are trying to do good (because the message sent in that kind of packaging will not be received), and damaging to all of us on a large scale by giving people an easy out with the 'you hate women' bullshit rhetoric. I don't question his pain …
/r/TheRedPill19/09/13 03:28 PM
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Please, try not giving a fuck. You're failing at it now. You're instigating interpersonal conflict for the express purpose of distressing and alienating people in your nearby society. If you truly didn't give a fuck, if you truly understood red pill outside of your own self, you might understand why that's 'bad'. I don't give a fuck about the Amish, which is exactly why 'annoying Amish people' ain't exactly on my to-do list for jollies. You're a moron who thinks it's 'alpha' to insult, threat, a…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/13 07:02 AM
1

They can steer with science, but where else are they going to steer them towards if facing reality led them to psychiatry and depression in the first place?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/13 08:09 PM
3

Didn't know about that, good shit.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 05:31 PM
1

so far Then keep looking and come back when you don't need that tag. I explain that one, you hunt around, maybe find something else that can be misread that way, and 'of course that was all I saw then, it was one of the first links in the sidebar!' shrug Give me a reason to care enough to put in the effort, to hold you above the swarm of SRS wanna-bes. Tell me if I can explain that your satisfaction that you'll agree red pill has no ties to racism. Right now, I completely expect you to be a long…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 04:39 PM
2

You're being ignorant and quite intentional in both directly stating and stongly implying that I, he, or we are racist. But, maybe you need it explained like your five. Maybe you're sincere in trying to wrap your head around it. So I tell you what. You make a nice clear statement that that was the closest thing to racism you came across here, and I'll spell it out for you entirely.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 04:33 PM
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It didn’t even matter if the guy was black. College athletes did not even TRY to get laid. Funny, the 'it didn't even matter' line works whether the writer considers their race a plus or a minus. Please reconsider which one you read it has, then also consider that he specifically said it didn't matter. So...apparently we're supposed to be sympathetic to poor unfortunate Michael, but athletes, people who don't go to college, people who work at carnivals, people with tattoos, DJs, people in bands,…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 04:19 PM
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He is on camera, for a show, about to be interviewed by a 'King of Hosts', trying to work his way in as a gaijin host in a high end host bar, looking like any other gaijin tourist. Hair, posture, clothes, facial expressions, body language, all of it screaming average chump; calling him beta has all of the factual quality and lack of malice as saying he is male. At best, he might be considered 'cute' and act 'sweet', but I do NOT see women paying for the pleasure of his company.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 07:48 AM
2

Great Happiness Space is Osaka. Clip was Shinjuku, Tokyo.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 07:47 AM
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If that's the case, it would be better to speak to him in his own language. It's always better to speak in their own language. It's a rather important part of communication. Any thoughts? T levels. I don't know what you're trying to accomplish by 'unplugging' him or whatever, but I'd recommend against it.
/r/askTRP17/09/13 07:31 AM
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GTA V has little room for women except to portray them as strippers, prostitutes, long-suffering wives, humorless girlfriends and goofy, new-age feminists we’re meant to laugh at. You might rescue a woman from a burning car wreck who then becomes a potential getaway driver for you on future heists. Uh...... Yes, these are exaggerations of misogynistic undercurrents in our own society, but not satirical ones. With nothing in the narrative to underscore how insane and wrong this is, all the game d…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 07:12 AM
2

Are consultants the best kind of employee? You'll know their price ahead of time, get reasonable estimates for work completion, won't have to worry about benefits packages, you have the freedom for the easiest possible way to terminate the business, no sick time or maternity leave, and there's no expectation of a gold watch for X years of service. Use what's in your best interests. What is in your best interest, may not be what is in someone else's best interest. They, ho's and housewives alike,…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 07:01 AM
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Don't pick sides. We're wanting to talk about an aspect of life that isn't discussed, well, anywhere. If something rubs you the wrong way, or doesn't come across logically sound, say so. Just make damn clear which category it falls into; if you don't like sound logic that rubs you the wrong way, or rubs you the right way based on bad logic, we wont care.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 06:29 AM
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It's not a matter of feeling. Someone asks me to defend two positions I never made, one of which is actually directly contradicted in what I actually wrote? Nah, no need to repeat myself. If they werent paying attention the first time, no reason to believe they will a second, and lots of reasons to think they're trying to play me.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 04:00 AM
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Screwing contracepted sluts is as much an evolutionary dead-end as spilling seed in the fake holes bolted on trannies. True. Doesn't mean we don't have the drive to, though. So wouldn't the real measure of a red-pill beast not be the count of notches on the bedpost, but rather the number of bastards he leaves behind? Only if that's what he wants to accomplish. If you want to judge amorally, evolutionarily, err, mostly. Genghis Khan is personally responsible for, what, 5% of the human population.…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 01:44 AM
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? I think you've gone right off the bend. This conversation is over.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 11:28 PM
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He doesn't want that life. He chose that life, and he chose the bring children into the mix. You expect me to not condemn a man who doesn't put the life of his children before his own self-centered, solipsistic version of happiness that is exactly the same as everything is now but with the other person doing more and him doing less? It is not a default that because she makes the money she gets to make the rules and he loses out on his own happiness. Where men are able to be self-determined and n…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 11:15 PM
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I still remember the way from the intersection to the closest Ichiran Ramen. There's also one in Ouji-eki. Dots down the middle, extra meat, and extra noodles if hungry. Please go have some for me, that stuff is magical.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 10:56 PM
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The 'Surely, you can't be serious' look when the guy learns the schlub wants to be a host was pretty epic. Trying so hard not to laugh. I'm 15 seconds in and can already tell how painful the clip will be. My Japanese is ass, but I seriously think I could pull that kind of work off, especially with my size compared to Japanese men. Any folks in .jp have any feedback on if the traditional masculinity would be worth it there versus the feminized glam masculinity that looks to dominate the host scen…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 09:57 PM
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So, what's the problem? She's bringing home the bacon while you take care of the house. I'm assuming you aren't making crap compared to what she's making, so her making the money for the team is the best use of the team's resources. If you make comparable money, and don't even try to pretend you do, then you should hire someone to help with housework, since your time, the team's resources, are better spent that way for everyone's sake. If the best use of your time for your team's sake is to the …
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 07:56 PM
1

This is the only correct answer. OP, disengage. They don't want to understand, they want to be right at all costs for the sake of how they feel and view things. You're expecting them to listen to a sensible, rational argument, or at least try to view things from a different angle. It won't work, and at best you lose a friend, at worst your views will be misrepresented to as many people as they can get to listen. There is no upside. You're expending time and effort while they're using copy pasta;…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 05:34 AM
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Don't worry about the drinks, you'll probably never know where they came from. Best case scenario, she went to get her purse or bag from coatcheck to grab the beers her broke ass snuck in? At any rate, the text. 1 She doesn't want to lose connection with you. Not sure if for a friend/orbiter or sexy time or just found herself bored one day. 2 She's worried you're mad at her because of the lack of contact and disappearing at at the time. This is her way of non-apologizing with the 'i was way too …
/r/askTRP16/09/13 01:26 AM
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We need to be the solution to the problems, Do we? I rather prefer the idea of just spilling it how it is and letting the reader decide their own course of action. If there's a collective label we fall under other than 'realists', it's a weakness. If it's just facts, do with it as you will, then the mindset becomes commonplace on both sides of any divisive line. Or the truth doesn't get out and remain in a unique position to direct our lives and our loved ones lives better. Assigning a 'cause' t…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/13 09:52 PM
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Good. Stick around, speak up, and don't be a dick. If you see something that doesn't click, point it out. Certainly seems to be the only way we can make progress from here.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/13 09:45 PM
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I think the term you're looking for is 'qualifying'. You're wanting to learn about the girl and check for crazy; perfectly normal.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/13 09:42 PM
1

Damn, knew I forgot something. NOW I've downvoted the 'discussion' that is in it's entirety a misrepresentation you'd like for us to defend against as if it would lend it any credence, all while claiming you're adding to the noise. Any questions? Good, take it to /r/asktrp
/r/TheRedPill13/09/13 08:05 PM
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Yay, more concern trolling for 'the men on this board' with flagrant ignorance of any of those men. We like awesome women. We don't think women are awesome just because they're women. With that out of the way, please read to your hearts content, and limit your posting to /r/asktrp. You aren't contributing and adding to the noise.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/13 05:53 PM
3

My mother and I have never gotten along better since adopting it. I do get along better with my sister, but if you want TRP juiciness, her engagement has me torn. He's a long term investment of a partner, and she will run things completely. I'm torn knowing he's a great choice of partner in long term potential and material juicyness in case she decides to divorce out. Good either way I guess, but I hope he can keep her happy with the marriage together.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/13 06:20 AM
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Agreed, but without any information about them, men are assumed to the be low value.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/13 12:18 AM
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"You know, I still love you even when you behave like an asshole". "Bah, you love me MORE when I behave like an asshole, you silly little masochist." If she does something worth rewarding, and it's a close time rather than a sexual time (so post coital is okay, but while trying to get her in the sack is bad), you can total explain and reframe it for her for a bit of vulnerability, but then bring it back. "It seemed pretty obvious your feelings for me were changing, and I didn't like it. So I rea…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/13 09:15 PM
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Men, in general, and especially unknown men, are disposable, to both men and women. Get used to it and don't take personal offense at it. You have to make yourself the best you can be so that those to whom you are not unknown, you are not disposable. That's really the best any of us can do.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/13 07:49 PM
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Boyfriends response seems pretty level headed. They're rallying behind her because her revulsion to the idea of someone pooping isn't something she can control, and it's unfair to expect her to change her ways as if something she can't control is something she should hide for the sake of someone else's needs. She shouldn't change because hasn't done anything wrong, he should change since he's the one causing the discomfort. Yeah, it makes the brain hurt.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/13 07:27 PM
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The exact way like you already would; like he's not a threat, acknowledging them as little as possible because you're interested in the girl.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/13 07:31 AM
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It certainly sounds plausible. How can we prove it? Is there any sort of resource available to give statistics on marriage stability vs partner count in men?
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/13 11:07 PM
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Uncle request a budget overview from the daughter. Best idea yet. If he's going to support her family, it's only fair that he know where the money is going. Suggest each time it happens, he gets to see their back account statement, and writes a check for it. Anything that looks superfluous, like manicures, and unaccounted for cash withdrawal gets the amount given lowered. If I were her dad, and knew the money was being used for the family, sky's the limit. If not, problems. Next would be to have…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/13 05:17 PM
1

Cosign. I'd to know Im not the only one.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/13 04:40 PM
2

I think I understand then. Thanks for your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/13 04:37 PM
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Let me see if I can rephrase that to make sure I understand; Im not trying to put words into your mouth, just understand your view. You believe in cognitive differences, but don't want to want make statements about larger skillsets or activities, like reading, because they use many different sections of the brain. You'd rather be concerned about the more discrete, fundamental cognitive differences, like, say, character recognition speed, even if the result of this difference is a measurable diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/13 04:18 PM
2

The impression I get from your post is that you consider it likely "there are cognitive differences (in the aggregate) between boys and girls", but disagree with "girls tend to have a greater innate ability in this area (but that some cultures increase or decrease that innate difference)." Could you expand on that? I'm having a difficult time following that how one can agree that there are likely cognitive differences, as shown by a study that shows a greater skill by one group than the other, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/13 03:52 PM
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That's not really an objective analysis. She's behaving this way because she doesn't want the debate or an accurate portrayal of red pill. Because of her beliefs, she thinks any attempt to come to consensus or allow accurate portrayal is a sign of defeat, of giving territory to the enemy. If a good point gets brought up that she can't disagree with, she has to hide the effect with semantics and childish non-sequitors. What was really curious for a whole three minutes before I had her pegged was …
/r/TheRedPill05/09/13 04:09 PM
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Who cares whose fault it is? Dump the bitch and move on. I agree with the idea, but introspection about the person has done to allow it or encourage it to happen is important. If it wasn't for the intense introspection that showed me how I was complacent and created the situations where women have fucked me over, I wouldn't be here right now. By reducing the options and scenarios where it is in someone else's best interests to screw you over, it will happen less. 'If you break the rules, you'll …
/r/askTRP05/09/13 03:34 PM
2

I see exactly where you're coming from. If there is any doubt on the leader's part, and you're getting closer to that door, lay it all out. The reason I can't be all 'WOOHOO Yes, do that, all the time, every time, in the beginning, middle, end, ALL of the time' is for the exact reason of this thread's existence. Token resistance is because of her concern for other people's opinions of her, specifically that she isn't easy. Done at the wrong time, especially from someone not savvy enough to build…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/13 03:13 PM
3

No I'm not. I'm explaining that the only people complaining about the people who complain about the friendzone, are only those who have dick reasons Damn, why didnt you say that in the beginning? I'd be behind you completely. Althought I do feel a little guilty; I think they're misguided, not malicious. Or you didn't think that sentence through completely. There's nothing loaded, the "orbiter" conspiracy theory is ridiculous. Then make a new post about it. It detracts from this subject. People c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/13 02:50 PM
3

I also agree that there can be a natural progression to that point, but what's even more useful is actual communication. Agreed. How about this: I would completely support the idea that the person shooting for the sexing has failed in their job if the other person doesn't have a reasonable expectation of sex taking place before getting in the last door before its attempted. If the idea of sex isn't a certainty in their mind before that last door, you've failed on multiple levels. I understand yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/13 06:27 AM
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(The entire orbiters paragraph is so loaded I dont even know where to begin, and would detract from this thread's subject.) Does anyone actually say those things though? notsureifserious.jpg. ...Yes. You are saying them right now. Those things have nothing to do with the friendzone though, or the problems associated with "nice guys" complaining about the friendzone. hand rubbing excitement. Wrong. Let me show you something neat. Here's a part I aught to make clear: You're right. Someone doing di…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/13 06:03 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/13 01:06 AM
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I am sincerely interested in whether or not we are seeing eye to eye in the 'Sweet' post. Would you be kind enough to consider and reply to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/13 10:19 PM
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This is what's killing me about a recent realization; I understand why they're making that mistake. They're accusing the friendzoned guy of manipulation, because they feel like their being manipulated. From their point of view and the cliche things said during that event, I would totally feel like someone was trying to manipulate me. It is reasonable for them to feel like they're being manipulated. It is incorrect to state that the man is trying to manipulate them, or label him as manipulative. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/13 09:45 PM
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As far as I can tell, I agree with almost everything he said and his ideas behind it. Sex isn't owed, being a good friend is part of being a good friend, entitlement to sex because you were friendly is dumb and manipulative, etc. I'm a bit taken back at this poet completely falling into the 'nice guys are bad' frame that's so prevalent, when just a few moments explaining the situation with him and remembering his own behavior at the time would straighten it all out. He made an error, but to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/13 08:48 PM
3

If people in China are intentionally aborting girls over boys; then it’s not discrimination: because boys and girls are equal. And cue the 'but gender is a social construct' argument. It allows the believe that males and females are all interchangable, but the differences being descriminated against are formed by the nebulous powerfull overlords able to control everyone's thoughts via social programming. So those parents are descriminating based on differences that haven't been programmed into t…
/r/askTRP03/09/13 05:42 PM
1

Since taking the red pill, I've wondered whether I am a rational actor. You're not, not completely. Your instincts and your history shape the direction of your thoughts, unfortunately. You can do your best to resist them, try to step back and objectively check your thoughts to see if the instinct is rational on it's own, but it's an unhealthy trait, and will separate you from the herd, usually with poor results. Go with your gut. Your instincts are there because they helped your ancestors. Use y…
/r/askTRP03/09/13 03:53 PM
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Sadly, there are many guys out there who seem to think taking a girl out on even a single date entitles them to sex, and I thought that's what redpillers were talking about. I'm trying to show that it isn't an 'entitlement' issue, more like an expectation issue. What I realized in the edits last night is that it's a mistake that they're following; that if they believe that that emotional connection and tension was also building the sexual tension and interest, then the sudden shut down when he t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/13 04:49 PM
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Sweet. Let me see if we're on the same page on two aspects of this. If the guy sincerely thought the sexual tension/connection had been building up to that point, that he thought the emotional connection was also building the sexual connection, can you agree that there was no intention of manipulation on his part? He would be wrong, pretty clearly, but if that was his mistake, can you understand how he would be confused about at that stopping point especially when told he was being manipulative …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/13 04:31 PM
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I do think sexual strategy is amoral, but I don't see the relevance here. Could you explain why you feel it's morally suspect? I'm not understanding why you seem to feel that way. You may want to check out my reply to AdmiralRedShirt just now first; it may help describe my reasoning better the first reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/13 08:20 AM
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There's no moral reason the guy can't, it's just a bad idea for him. She gets almost everything she wants, he gets barely any of what he wants. She has every reason to continue the relationship at that level and no incentive to invest more in the relationship. Welcome to the friend zone. Women aren't vending machines that you put nice coins in until sex pops out; if he's not getting what he wants, he should look elsewhere. I personally view an emotional connection as being about more than sex Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/13 08:13 AM
2

If it's her sexuality that draws her back, what's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/13 07:44 AM
1

Nope. Gives experience, stops one-itis, increases your attractiveness while lessening your desperation, and helps you consider your situation with a clearer head.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/13 02:54 AM
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So you're entitled to emotional connection? I'd be doing exactly what was asked by stop pressing the issue and remaining polite yet distant in the face of rejection. Both players have wants, needs, and desires, and neither has entitlement to the other supplying it. If you don't like that he disconnects after being rejected, leave and find someone else. Calling him names like manipulative for not meeting your emotional desires is the same as if he called you frigid or a cocktease for rejecting hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/13 11:57 PM
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/r/asktrp Neat thing about learning seduction: Any question can be answered with 'Go out and sleep with three new women'.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/13 09:41 PM
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I think you may be confusing token resistance with last minute resistance ('LMR'). Token resistance is when she's worried about her perceived choosiness. "I don't want anyone to think I'm easy or a slut." It happens when sex isn't an immediate option, like say at the restaurant/coffeeshop on a first date if one on one when the other guys opinion is what she's worried about (and, well, convincing herself), or in a social setting when other people's opinion such as the friends they came to bar wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/13 09:25 PM
1

Seems to involve the 80/20 'rule' more than hypergamy. (But then again I still havent resolved my problems with the definition of hypergamy) 2) "The males show direct proportionality between number of mates and fertility. Uh, am I reading this right? Correlation between number of mates and fertility in males? Anyone know any studies showing an attraction vs. notch count in humans? If the ones with higher partner count are more fertile, then it would make sense for the behavior to prefer males wi…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/13 06:50 AM
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I know that I shouldn't think less of him, but I still do. Respect. Good to see the honesty. If my boyfriend wanted me to understand, he would have told me. He is trying to act all macho by hiding his emotions, it is his fault. and then the hamster spins. sigh
/r/TheRedPill31/08/13 07:28 AM
2

So use birth control. Your options are pretty much condoms and vasectomy. Get the vasectomy and stash a bunch of baby batter in medical storage and get a pretty good piece of mind for a few hundred per year. Keep with the condoms, keep the vasectomy a secret, and in case of your worst fears coming true, you actually get some serious piece of mind and stability that she is in fact playing you and you know exactly what she's up to while leaving the baby option open in the future. Hell, keep the fr…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/13 02:07 AM
1

I wonder if the accordion player's monkey finds the people who throw money in the hat entertaining?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 11:47 PM
3

You're feeding trolls wanting an impossible thing and adding to mod work. Might as well ask for an equation to calculate optimal hair length, and that has the benefit of being objectively measurable. Hell, I even gave them exactly that in the RPD sub and it got downvoted to hell and back without any rebuttal. You're exerting effort for the entertainment of others at your own expense. There's no upside. Think.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 11:13 PM
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I have no stake in the Health Care aside, and do agree that it isn't something red pill would have any connection to decide what the 'successful' outcome is. Do we agree that red pill doesn't have anything to do with political idealogies?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 12:07 AM
2

I saw the $300-600 and $500/yr ballpark figures per annual storage. Any information about cost per 'deposit', or any guidelines for deposit/per child potential?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/13 11:59 PM
8

Perfect answer given less than a day ago in /r/asktrp , where this should have gone. TehGinjaNinja in superb form
/r/TheRedPill29/08/13 08:40 PM
2

Maybe I'm inferring a subtle flavor that wasn't meant to be there, but your initial post appears to have a hint of any of the X acceptance movements, towards 'It's not how you look, it's how he feels.' It feels like it's trying to lessen the importance of looks for the sake of the self security of those that feel they don't have looks, and that way leads to deception. Both are important, I think we agree there. We could spend forever trying to figure out exactly how much, try and guesstimate how…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 06:16 AM
2

If he's a man worth having, you're not the only one trying to have him. Are you going to give yourself such a big hole in your defense as lessening the very thing he will evaluate first about every other woman he ever comes into contact with? Looks do matter. You already agree with that. But if he's worth the effort, put in the effort.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 04:53 AM
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"always maintain eye contact and don't look away too much" That's for building rapport and a sense of connection. You have no need of those things with a salesman. If you have no need of that connection, Id recommend doing the opposite; it shows uncertainty in your purchasing decision, and lessons the perceived affect of his effort, both of which could make him work harder on the sale, potentially to your advantage.
/r/askTRP26/08/13 05:52 PM
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(There was a wonderful article I read about 'sperm is plentiful while eggs are scarce' but I can't seem to find it.) You know that we believe in evopsych. It doesn't matter if you believe in it, just that you know we do. A tribe that protects female over male lives will outbreed the egalitarian tribe, so the instinct to protect females over males has to exist. I don't see how we can logically not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/13 04:16 AM
-1

Irrelevant strawman. Do you agree that this is a red pill concept? Do you disagree that this is a red pill concept? Do you not understand the concept as described? Because I have no smaller words to use for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/13 09:20 PM
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Then find an outlet for it. Do what you want to do. The only thing TRP would play in is realizing that it will likely cause a change in feelings and affections from the other participating person. It's one hell of a catch-22, not only from sub men but for dom women as well. It is exceptionally difficult for women in those positions to still be attracted to the submissive male, especially when pegging is involved. If there is still affection, it is often lessened, and definitely different from wh…
/r/askTRP23/08/13 06:52 PM
0

You're being intentionally obtuse. Some people can see the pro's and con's, and decide a prostitute is better for their bottom line than investment in a LTR or FWB or other sexual outlet. I gave an example of why, and you refuse for this hypothetical because you think there is no way a successful person should place any value on his time if he's not on the clock, or that successful people might actually work outside of a 40 hour work week? What about a badly disfigured veteran who yearns for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/13 06:00 PM
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That is up to the individual to decide. Lets say I make $1k an hour and just want to get off, it's in my personal best interest to have a pro here and get the job done in a half hour and use the other half hour making the $500 I paid her, rather than lose three hours of 'free' time taking a chance. So until you decide that you're going to never buy a fish in a market because fishing from a pier is free, you're being hypocritical of the folks who I've never actually seen in TRP and as far as I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/13 05:00 PM
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The same way all adults can say haggling leads to better deals for purchasing a car, but refuse to own a car and are happy with just their bicycle. Just because it's a better deal than it would be without haggling doesn't mean it's in a person's best interest to buy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/13 04:44 PM
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What are you talking about? SJ is single-handedly painting us as the only adults in the room. Let 'er rip.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/13 04:34 PM
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I dont. We've got discussions all over the place, but the wild discussion format of reddit is completely contradictory to the idea of a debate format. If we're going to know where we disagree, we have to start with what we do agree with. Imagine it's an argument between Christians and atheists. We have threads all over the place where people spout their rage either for or against certain tenets, like homosexuality, tattoos, and shellfish. They go back and forth yelling how the other side is idio…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/13 04:31 PM
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TRP gets consistently painted as hating women, or considering them less than a man on the whole. This is directly contrary to TRP. All else being equal, a woman is more valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/13 04:12 PM
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So you're saying that the TRP ideas, when applied for the purpose of being a polyamourous PUA are dead on? Like, you know, work properly? Absolutely. Thanks for agreeing with us. What you're missing is the large number of us who are not and have no interest in being polyamourous, and how the same tenets can be used to strengthen monogamous LTRs. It's the same thing that is for reason just not sinking in from your last post. You're acting out thinking that we bash women for their promisuity, whic…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/13 06:10 AM
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The discussion really shouldn't be for weighing in, so much as clarity, and any other discussion would be for influencing the voting by the participating blue pill mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/13 05:56 AM
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I agree, that was the intention behind the six days open discussion with OP editing before voting day. Any terms or ideas not fleshed out can be brought up during that time and clarified. If we wait until there is a definition for 'feminism', we aren't going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/13 05:51 AM
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How the fuck did you read and agree in 15 seconds?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/13 03:08 AM
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It's guaranteed to fail. They won't and can't take any position that is falsifiable, and they no interest in changing the minds of or actually discussing the tenets. They behave this way for the jollies because the implications are dangerous to their ego and worldview, which they aren't willing to question. Hell, when we talk about the important of marriage length, they jump that we're advocating a woman should stay in an abusive relationships. It's a fool's errand, and the reddit format is the …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/13 11:52 PM
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It's a good answer; the answer was nebulous, but wordy, and the thanks and 'nice of you' kinda has a ring of finality about it that would discourage but not prevent future contact. Perfect answer would be 'It's complicated'
/r/TheRedPill21/08/13 04:43 AM
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All an attractive woman has to do to "pick up" men is exist. I seriously support the idea of more women PUA's, and am against this sort of complacent idea continuing. Self improvement should be universal. All women can and should benefit from it, and it can and will make all of the world of difference in physical attractiveness (diet, exercise, fashion, makeup), which many women already know, even if they grumble about it. But the idea of social self improvement has a pervasive stigma to it. The…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/13 03:02 PM
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Call your dad. Call him now. Email him now. Do whatever it takes to get the message to him that you and he are not and should not be estranged. I lost 7 years of contact with my father from about 15-22. Never meant to, no reason to, it just happened, and before I knew it, it would just be too awkward to reconnect because the 'why havent you spoke in past X years?' question would have been too hard to answer because I didnt have an answer. Just freaking do it, even if its nothing more than to say…
/r/askTRP20/08/13 03:48 AM
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That's an epic post I wish I could upvote more.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/13 06:45 AM
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I can't say I'm sold but I do promise to look into it and consider.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/13 04:42 AM
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Then why do you care what others would do in a difficult situation that you will never find yourself in?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/13 10:35 PM
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Agreed on all points. I still cant conclude that women voting played an overly significant part in its creation though. There seem to be far too many factors involved for me to believe that it wouldn't have happened without women voting, much less that it is was the inevitable result of it.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/13 10:18 PM
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Baiting, don't bother. Wants an answer that would apply to someone refusing sex for 10 years to paint as a red pill response to refusing sex for 10 minutes.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/13 10:06 PM
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Please keep in mind, I'm speaking specifically of the right to vote. The current situation that allows for pretty big wins for birthing and leaving do exist, but I dont see a connection between that and women voting. The big women's rights issues since women voting haven't come from elected officials; even with them currently holding MORE voting power than men, maybe I'm cynical, but I don't see the changes in elected officials. The big ones have entirely come from appointed judges like supreme …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/13 09:17 PM
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How would you guys do things differently? The pushback after sexing shouldn't have been taken so hard or so seriously, and his lengthy email about philosophy was a bad idea. He hasn't really swallowed the pill. He's not understanding things from her point of view. He's not trying to identify her feels at any point or properly influence them. At best, he's just trying to keep his guard up against being used, and that defensiveness is making her rethink things, and his reaction to it is signaling …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/13 05:54 PM
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It seems to ironically fly in the face of all western idealistic notions of true love and the like. Hell naw, it makes perfect sense. People treating marriages as duty and responsibility rather than impossible to meet expectations that are both mercurial and impractical, with no sense of responsibility or culpability if at any time they aren't met.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/13 10:17 AM
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WTF kind of non sequitor crap is that? Ok, so your enlightened society reduces marriage and birthrates for the sake of the earth. Congratulations, your society crumbles in less than a generation because it's populace has retired and has no resources to support its populace. Any resources your society had easily fall into the hands of your neighbors who had no such problem and increased their populace and need your resources and land to thrive. Your genes disappear, either through simple passage …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/13 10:02 AM
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I highly doubt you'll find a high divorce rate pre-women's suffrage. That could be, but I don't care enough to try. Women voting or not hasn't ever been a concern for me, but a direct causal link between women voting and divorce rates just doesn't pass a sniff test. Link between divorce rates and, say, life expectancy, infant mortality, or advancements in fertility science would make more sense.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/13 09:54 AM
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Lower birthrate, increase in children raised in single parent homes, greater drain on government and community resources for same homes, less overall productivity, general civil unrest and increase in crime and violence. These are my beliefs on the matter, and welcome proof otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/13 09:49 AM
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Is there away to show how this wouldn't be an 'ergo propter hoc' fallacy? You paint a consistent timeline, but I can't see anything more than a correlation, and a serious problem if some random country's divorce rates showed a similar curve without women voting being in the mix.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/13 09:25 AM
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Considering the likelihood of the divorce being initiated by the wife, she's expecting to find a top tier mate out of a pool that have been identified by other women as not top tier, while at the same time admitting her life decisions have clearly removed her from top tier status among her fellow women. It also heavily relied on the idea that there will be a large spike of these divorces at the same time that is higher than the current divorce rate that will return to normal or less than normal …
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/13 04:03 PM
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It's a 'thing' the same way Spinal Tap is a band.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 10:34 PM
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Yeah FUCKING RIGHT. Translated: he tried to get laid multiple times and failed, but lies about it so it doesn't make him seem pathetic. Agreed, completely. Her whole language just screams how they both "found each other". Hamster narrative, sure. As so, she is going to treat the relationship as equal, Probably. when in fact, she should be putting aside her interests to give the guy what he has been waiting for so long, which is probably sex until he can't keep his dick hard, cooking for him, tak…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 07:07 PM
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So she didn't even have any clue where to shop for attractive clothing until at least 24. Kinda points away from a history of carousel riding, wouldn't you think?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 06:06 PM
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Jesus Christ, if you're gonna dump a load of shit on us, at least wrap it up nice instead of a damn slideshow. For those of you with jobs and lives and shit, I'll take the hit: Walking you to your car/home Carrying your bags Locking the passenger side door Offering you a ride home Leaving a note on your doorstep or car Calling to say goodnight the night he got your number Turning over his phone during dinner Being pushy about paying Feeding you Ordering for you Offering you his seat at the bar D…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 05:54 PM
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I'm disappointed in this being here. There's not any kind of super major red flag about extreme carousel-ing in the post. Definitely some pump and dumps in her past, but no idea if there were 2 or 200, and I personally have a hard time believe a long time /r/foreveralone poster would be an extreme carousel rider. http://np.reddit.com/r/ForeverAlone/comments/1k7dok/just_started_dating_a_wonderful_25yearold_former/cboakha Really? It got upvoted to 5 as of this writing. Ya know what? I'd normally b…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 05:32 PM
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Even the most staunch feminists (I dub them anti-masculines) have a difficult time arguing the point. Really? They always head straight for the 'gender is a societal construct' after that for me, at least the hard core feminists do. [caveat: three times that's happened, in case anyone is curious.]
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 07:01 AM
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Your writing and thought processes show connections to disassociative behavior, lack of empthy, and inability to generate or maintain relationships. I'm not a psychiatrist but I wouldn't be surprised at a sociopathic, psychopathic, disassociative personality, or autistic/asperger's issues. This isn't intended to hurt, and comes from a sincere interest in your well being, and to be honest, the potential well being of those around you. You're taking a viewpoint that is in denial of the concept tha…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/13 10:14 PM
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I would recommend psychiatric help. We aren't qualified to be able to assist you.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/13 09:06 PM
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I'm not saying you aren't justified in your opinions of injustice. Fuck, I'm here on TRP, I'm sure we agree on almost all of it down the line. What I'm trying to point out is that people's reactions to you are entirely in your own control, and you are personally inviting this reaction that you are complaining about. Swallowing should have made this clear to you, along with the fact that most people do not care; they're not against you, but they are for themselves without regard to your well bein…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/13 04:54 PM
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"You're just bitter" isn't entirely a shaming tactic. Online trolls, sure, but not in person. If you carry yourself well, this is not anything you should hear from a new woman, and not anything you should tolerate from a friend of either sex. Instead, realize its a reflection of the vibe you are giving off. You're being depressing and unpleasant to be around. Justifiable? Sure. But it doesn't matter. You're bringing the room down.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/13 04:10 PM
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[This is all strictly TDCRedPill, not RedPill viewpoint. If anyone finds this offensive, it's proof I'm offensive, not TRP.] I was answering from a context of a social setting. I have my theories about why, but they could be hamster rationalizations of my emotional reactions. I just have a gut reaction about being in a social setting with someone with a low SMV. I can't nail down a succinct world for the feeling, but embarassment seem to fit closest. You can love your mother with all of your hea…
/r/askTRP13/08/13 10:30 PM
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I have two friends, very recently made, that are very gay and find me attractive. I adore those two guys. While I'm certain of their attraction, they do not make me feel uncomfortable with it. I'm sure a part of it is the fact that their attraction is very flattering and validating. Jesus, I guess I friendzoned, them, huh? haha. There is a third that I've met that doesn't make me feel uncomfortable in his attraction, but, I hate to say this for being shallow, his low SMV. He's been nice and flat…
/r/askTRP13/08/13 07:35 PM
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Because I am an INTJ with an impressive memory who was raised with a very logical, objective, and analytical upbringing. After a recent breakup, brushing up on PUA lit landed me at TRP. It meshed with a bunch of conclusions I had already made from personal experience (such as the existence of a dominance/power struggle in relationships and how it affected the life of the LTR and the affection from the partner). I kinda pieced together what I consider the red pill model from the material, and spe…
/r/askTRP13/08/13 07:13 PM
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What caused it to be precise? Right now, you're the sweet 250 lb girl with acne. Sure, can be nice to talk to, and her attention to you is very gratifying, but you don't want to fuck her, and nothing she says will change that. To her, you're that 250 lb girl. What did you say or do, if anything, that put you there? No way for us to know, and no reason for you to care. She isn't sexually attracted to you. Any fire or spark that may have been there is gone, and cannot be relit. You failed. Examine…
/r/askTRP13/08/13 06:25 PM
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'I like sprinkles on ice cream, but make no mistake, I'm there for the ice cream.' That'd be my style of response. Light hearted, playful, doesn't dismiss or directly answer her passive attempt to get you to compliment her personality, and makes it clear your sexual interest is the focus. Many alphas would be more direct and aggressive; it's up to you to dial in with what fits for you.
/r/askTRP13/08/13 06:13 PM
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"I am so turned on right now. Let's go." followed by dirty pig sex. Crafting sex as a reward for good behavior reframes it from the idea of it being a chore to being something she gets rewarded with makes it much more valuable to her, more desired by her, and mixes the emotional validation with the physical pleasure. She will want to do the things that earn her the sex more for a total win-win for everyone.
/r/askTRP13/08/13 06:03 PM
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Stay the course. But to be honest, there is a very big possibility you are overdoing it. You may be treating her like an adversary, very common to do when first introduced this sort of thing, like its a mental battle that must be won and she must lose for that to happen. You can, and should be, nice and caring, when she behaves in the ways you want. You may think you're passing shit tests by making it clear you wont take any shit, when you could be instead showing aggression at things she consid…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/13 05:20 PM
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The main (and far too damned common, IMHO) example is in #1, so I wanted to make sure it was clear, but frankly the can boiled down to basing the decision on what is best for the other person, not you. Taking into account their feelings and well-being, without regard for your own. If you're in the relationship and want the relationship to continue, follow the Whisper post and be entirely, 100% completely honest and willing to accept any punishment or decision from the other person without argume…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/13 04:41 PM
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Believing you're quote farming was giving your intelligence the benefit of the doubt since your weeks of experience here seemed to overlook the 'Women in Love' and 'Men in Love' links in the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/13 09:30 AM
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Yay, more quote farming. Don't bite folks.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/13 09:00 AM
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Dunno who the haters are, just brigading trolls I'd imagine. Keep up the good work.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/13 02:00 AM
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Been there, done that. It is fun, but futile if you're expecting any kind of actual acknowledgement. Both times I've done it the hamsters settled on other things. "No, it wasn't what you said, it was your dress/career/physical attractiveness/stories/travel/etc." It's like giving them a cracker jack toy in a Tiffany's box; they'll swear up and down they love the toy and the box didn't matter, even if they hated the toy by itself you tried to give them a year before. :)
/r/TheRedPill12/08/13 07:44 PM
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That definitely sounds like a decision you're considering for yourself, so I hope you don't mind another male opinion on the matter to do with as you please. First off, this is entirely in the context that you are NOT wanting to rebuild the relationship. If you are, and he hasn't landed another, then Whisper's post here contains everything you should consider: HERE No admission of things he didn't know about, unless you're trying to rebuild the relationship you had. Telling a man you haven't bee…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/13 10:28 AM
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Keep the texts any way possible (SMS Backup+ for android is GREAT for this) so you have evidence in case of future problems. Send a text that is short and sweet like "I'm sorry, but I am not interested in you romantically, and you're behavior has made me too uncomfortable to be interested in a friendship. We are coworkers, and will never be anything else. Please stop contacting me for anything not directly work related." Then, take it to your boss or HR department about it. The frame you work of…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/13 10:43 PM
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And then after all is said and done, they literally have this look of glowing love that they give you. Words cannot describe how epic that look is.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/13 05:25 PM
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I'm not sure where this is stemming from. We are all flawed creatures, certainly. Guys can frequently expect their women to cheat, because the desire and social push to do so are crazy strong. You're worried about being rejected or heartbroken, both are bad. We're worried about supporting and raising a child because of deceitful and common woman, ensuring not only that we dropped the ball and broke a chain millions of years long because of we couldn't hack it, with the same affect on the world a…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 11:06 PM
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So the girl makes it clear she's going to be staying in while he's gone; that's PJ food and admission she gets horny when he's gone and how she'll take care of it. I can't think of a BETTER picture for a women to send a man to help waylay any fears. This is the complete opposite of 'check out my hot outfit before I go out for a girl's night' in every possible way.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 05:33 AM
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You seem a bit confused why people are repulsed by your 'Stole shit from self admitted gold digger in order to break up their relationship so I can jump in without having to show any actual spine or integrity, heavy with plausable deniability so both parties still think I actually care about them.'
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 09:54 PM
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I'm no astrophysicist, but I do believe in heliocentricity and will happily discuss it with anyone. Whether I come from a STEM background or a liberal arts background or am a rambling bum on a street corner shouldn't mean shit. Stop looking for an appeal to authority. Attack the theory with testing, not the people. Worry about your bias in testing the theory, not in getting to know the folks who understand the theory.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 07:19 PM
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Behold the power of frame control. You fell into a stronger frame, that's it.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 11:05 PM
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No questions, but a big, heartfelt 'Thank You'. Women like you are legion and they make the world a better place.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 11:01 PM
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How is it in ANY way delusional to improve what you have? If we agree that looks are a significant factor both ways, then improving those looks through exercise, wardrobe, makeup, hair/facial hair fashion, skincare, and posture will improve looks, yes? But hey, maybe you're picturing someone who is trying routines or whatever to improve social skills without putting any different effort into looks. His improved social skills will be an asset and improve his overall value. Maybe not as significan…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 05:05 PM
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make you seem douchey. Then your frame is wrong. You're being adversarial (sp?), when you should be playful. Very easy and common problem everyone goes through, especially when they're first introduced to the idea. They aren't your enemies, they aren't you're opponents, they are people.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 03:34 AM
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Well played troll, ya got me. I didn't realize your trolling until now; I blame the lack of coffee.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 03:09 AM
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Responsibility is the distinction. Should the world change to fit you, or should you change to fit the world? The PUA changes is appearance and personability to attract a mate, because it's his responsibility to be the best he can. The cow wants to change the world to attract a mate, because she feels it isn't her fault they don't find her attractive.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 11:43 PM
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If the converse were true, we wouldn't be here.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 11:54 PM
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A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects. --Robert A. Heinlein (via Lazarus Long IIRC)
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 11:30 PM
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Yup. Your brain is swallowing the pill causing a lot of your long term, preconceived notions to be examined, and often discarded. There's probably some actual pain to go along with it, but that will happen with any traumatic event, and this is no different. Yup. Ditto here. You have a reason for thinking of this; examine the reasoning ('it will help my drive to be more social and successfull in life') not the implication ('Man, I'll miss my 3TB of meticulously categorized porn'). Red Pill should…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 07:43 PM
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Tell you what, I get a complete, no-doubt, 100% accurate portrayal of her sexual history, a PussyFax if you will, and I'll be 100% completely upfront about my financial situation. If her sexual history isn't supposed to mean squat, I dont see why my financial situation should interest her either.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/13 10:32 PM
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Did you just declare that you can't tell the difference between a dick and a vag when one's right in front of your face?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/13 09:06 PM
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It also removes the potential authority of the new step parent as a equal partner to the parent. It's a crappy situation with very little 'win' for anyone involved. The child will rarely get two equal parents. The step parent takes on responsibility for caring of the child/children, with little to no agency in how the child is raised and the lack of respect from the child in their more basic nature. They'll see the lack of authority and treat the step-parent worse. The biological parent will hav…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 07:17 PM
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But don't redpillers as a general rule dislike the idea of boys being raised by single mothers? Incorrect. We dislike the idea of children being raised by single parents. How does this fit into the discussion? Marrying someone else doesn't magically make the new person a parent. It can, in what I feel is a very small percentage of the time, but it's rare compared to 'My kids are #1 and always come first.' mantra that completely obliterates any chance of it.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 06:33 PM
1

This just in, Michael Jackson confirmed red pill objectifier of women in his classic song, 'PYT'. What a shitlord.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 06:16 PM
1

Hypergamy is not about relative SMV, but how to determine SMV: for example liking soft forms is not hypergamy, liking muscle is, because muscle can be used to fight for status. (I have to admit, I'd always been curious about whether or not hypergamy would apply to overall SMV, SMV relative to the female's, or SMV relative to other males. But that's a question for later.) What you describe, liking muscles for the protector, is entirely analagous to guys evaluations of women: breasts for baby care…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 04:25 PM
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I'd rather not go into too much detail for the sake of my anonymity. Video games are a major part of my life that I spend probably an equivalent amount of time playing. I'm not trying to pass judgement, especially since it'd be hypocritical for me to do so. People come here because they want a better grip on their lives and their relationships. Self improvement brings those. They are also chances to get more face to face social exposure and practice, which bowling would have an advantage over Wo…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 09:07 PM
1

That's completely dismissive of what red pill is trying to do. 'Some don't, some do, and those that do, do it because they can' doesn't help the model. We see these behaviors, we have to either fit them into the model, or adjust the model to match.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 08:58 PM
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i play around 12 hours a week. That time could be spent for classes towards a degree. That time could cover multiple language, dance, martial arts classes, and lifting 3x per week. That time could be spent working on productive hobbies or building widgets to sell. That time could be spent volunteering at the humane society. That time could be spent moonlighting as a bouncer. That time could be spent learning guitar. That time could be spent in a way that improves you. That's over 500 hours a yea…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 05:12 PM
1

There is looks hypergamy, height hypergamy, and overall genetic hypergamy as well. Ok, if we agree with that, then how is that different from a male's choice of mate? How would hypergamy be a female-centric trait?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 04:04 PM
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I don't see it meshing with hypergamy because hypergamy is supposed to be more of a female trait, which focuses more on marrying up and dealing with social status. If we expand hypergamy to make it the overall SMV of the person so that hypergamy applies also to her choice for the alpha cuckolding, then hypergamy is equally present in men; it's the exact same scenario as a man with a solid long term wife and the occasional hot little young mistress. Or, if we say hypergamy is more of a female tra…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 04:03 PM
2

Because I find it demeaning, emasculating, submissive, suplicative, self-centered, and rude. If you disagree, feel free to continue doing it.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 12:46 AM
1

While I don't disagree, I don't see the relevance. It's not a matter of bad or worse or immoral, or even to me if hypergamy and the dichotomy exist. I'm confident they exist and have been on both sides repeatedly. I'm just stuck at what seems to be a contradiction of the two at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 08:43 PM
1

I see what you're describing, and can see how both of types would be attractive for different reasons. I could see how choosing between the two would be a dilemma when I picture myself in the role of choosing between the two. Lots of tingles from the construction worker, and lots of stability and security with the Ferrari guy. What bugs me though is that it doesn't mesh with hypergamy. In this, probably the most pointed recent example of hypergamy, she resented her choice of the construction wor…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 07:56 PM
1

If we agree that that is case, then wouldn't hypergamy apply only when judging the betas, since social caste would be part of the beta criteria and not the alpha criteria?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 07:38 PM
1

I've seen plenty example of both hypergamy and dual sexual strategy in play. What I'm having a hard time is reconciling both at the same time, in a way that doesn't have hypergamy apply equally to both sexes.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 07:14 PM
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Others have spent more effort trying to explain it: Each one of those shows an example of either hypergamy, or the alpha fucks beta bucks dichotomy. I'm trying to get a handle on how they work together, with a definition of hypergamy that doesn't apply equally to both sexes. They're not in relationships with women. No problem, we'll say they didnt make the cut and any benefit they provide is kept around just for that utility. Betas can often end up in relationships with women who are willing to …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 07:11 PM
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You make it sound a bit like as if it was a friendly and playful thing, sometimes it is, but often much more serious than that. Really? It's always felt that when women try to pass off a shit test as a serious thing, it's just a doubling down on their shit test to try harder for dominance, usually because they're used to having the dominance we're denying them. Regardless, I was trying to give an example that a guy can hopefully relate to. I figured it would be easier to identify them 'in the fi…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 06:28 PM
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I agree completely, and god knows I've seen plenty examples. What I'm stumped on is what feels like a logical inconsistency, which is doubly infuriating since I know about and fully believe in both hypergamy and how men are treated different based on their alpha/beta. What I'm to figure out is an example of both at the same time. Most stories involve one or the other. The explanation for why hypergamy is considered a more female trait is because men will often select a mate of a lower social cas…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 06:02 PM
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What part of it doesn't make sense to you? It seems that the idea of hypergamy would have to conflict either with the idea that men aren't hypergamous (if hypergamy is about overall value including looks/genetics, then men do it too), or the alpha/beta dichotomy in all its forms (if hypergamy is only about caste/social value). edit:to -> too
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 06:58 AM
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So how would it apply to the betas, specifically the orbiters or other resource providers in the alpha bucks/beta bucks, cad/dad dichotomy, and cuckoldry? Are the betas to marry or otherwise keep around judged on different criteria than the alphas? Are the betas to keep around only alphas unfortunate enough to have higher value alphas available to the woman, as backup plans? I guess another way of asking is this: Does hypergamy apply only to the alphas in her life, only the betas in her life, or…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 06:50 AM
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I think it's funny that the purse one is the one focused on by the two responses so far. It was pretty obvious to me even before swallowing the red pill how emasculating it is to be sitting there at a table, drink empty, with a set of purses, not talking to anyone, unable to get up and meet people, because you got left there for 15 minutes because they ran into an old friend they had to talk to. It finally got driven home when I realized the almost guaranteed 'Thanks, you're so nice.' shoulder p…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 04:23 AM
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A just stern 'No' isn't a good idea if it isn't something you've talked about before. First date, new girl, in a social environment like a bar/club, I wouldn't let it happen, but my answer would depend on how things were progressing so far. "Can't, I was going to grab another drink.", "Can't, I see a guy I need to go say Hi to." if there hasn't been much levity created. If we're hitting it off well, it gets progressively more teasing, like "You brought it here." Many of them understand it's a bi…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 04:16 AM
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You can focus on the fact that she has an incredible amount of loyalty to those she dates. She's not the non-committal, hypergamy-addicted cheater type. How confident are you about the correlation between the quick to fall and and less hypergamous behavior? The model I've been working with puts the quick to fall type with the more hypergamous; quicker to want to secure a branch and quicker to hop to a better one. It has always seemed to me that the 'all or nothing' type will be hooked in the beg…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/13 11:19 PM
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Defining what a shit test is and what isn't? They are literally tests sent out to gauge the reaction from the other person. In my experience, there are at least two different kinds: ones that are testing compliance/dominance, and ones that test reactivity/emotional stability. There's some overlap in what the tests are checking; the man is showing the same positive strength of frame when he refuses to watch a purse while she tinkles (a compliance/dominance type of test) as well as when he is unsh…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 10:01 PM
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That was a brilliantly worded point. I wish I had an answer for you, but I'm stumped right now. Well said.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 09:49 PM
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This kind of thing is the red flag of red flags. To be fair, nah, it's not even close in my opinion. It's a red flag for sure, but not a death knell. Has she instead not expressed anything, been in a smiley mood with a super clean house and wearing her good perfume for no reason, maybe spending more time solo out of the house, yeah, that's the big red flag. This a crisis that needs handled, with a red pill backbone, but I don't see it as a sign of 'it's over'. I do think that its a crisis that m…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 05:22 AM
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Sex without consent is rape, and is very bad. Women have the agency to decide if they want to consent to sex, same as men. If either do not consent, sex should not happen else it is rape, see #1. In today's world, marriage is not a perpetual consent to sex. A husband who forces him on a wife who does not consent is committing rape, see #1. In the past, pre-1975 I believe the date was, many groups in the US and around the world considered marriage a perpetual consent to sex. It was viewed legally…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/13 10:09 PM
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My viewpoint has recently been that guys start out trying to be fully open and 'in touch with our feelings' and show both vulnerability and (negative) emotions. Show of weakness plus vulnerability and sexual interest drops to 0. When they learn to curb that, they then get closed off near what I picture you are doing. Facts are free flowing, but without showing or generating any emotion so they aren't showing vulnerability. No vulnerability to expose, but they don't generate the good feelings of …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 09:11 PM
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Don't worry about dominance just tell her that she hurt your feelings and ask her not to do it again. WHAT THE FUCK? OP DO NOT DO THIS, EVER! This is some pointless, incorrect, fortune cookie nonsense that holds no value outside of a platitude. This isn't seddit, or askwomen. People dont come to the dark and damp sections like TRP for feel good bullshit, or to feel good about their suffering. People come here for the hard truths. For handling the world how it is, not how it 'should' be. If she h…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 08:02 PM
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Resign yourself that it isn't going to happen. Even if she ends up ditching the guy, she moved back to her old home because that's where her friends are, her support group that is there for her and her desires. She wants to live her own life. The time when the parenting influence was needed is over. But in case that idea is refused, here's what I'd do... All support outside of a return ticket back to hawaii should be cut immediately. Anything else makes the relationship easier for her to continu…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 07:33 PM
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Got better looking? Yup. 'Just' got better looking? Not even close. I did however get more attractive. Here's a pretty easy counterexample. If looks matter and social skills don't, then there would almost never be any stories about a girl meeting a hot guy and then losing interest when she talks to him. I see it all of the time, and have experienced it first hand many times in my past. There would also never be any stories about a woman falling for a guy whom she didn't fall for at first sight. …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 06:55 PM
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Physical changes: diet and weight training to drop 45 pounds so far. Shaved head because of male pattern baldness. Lasik to avoid glasses. Wardrobe changes: If casual, shirts are either plain and tight or military branded V necks (muscles+shaved head often enough makes people suspect Im military. Marine shirts and occasional camo backpack help encourage that mistake.) "Casual" in public is rarely less formal than a polo shirt. Boots (yes, New Rocks, but they've helped a ton) for additional heigh…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 06:20 PM
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As someone who has made the jump from the lower 50% to the upper 90%, you're wrong. Everything helps, and confidence has been the biggest. Do looks matter? Fuck yes. Dress? Yup. Money? Yup. Muscles? Yup. But the idea that game, confidence and mindset are bullshit with no real value, is laughably incorrect, provably wrong, and serves no purpose but to prey on insecurities of anyone who might read it as if you know what you're talking about.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 05:22 PM
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Call me bitter, but that doesn't sound like behavior from someone who WANTS to get pregnant. That's behavior from someone who IS pregnant and wants to convince the guy he's the father. At least the 'get a paternity test' posts aren't getting downvoted to zero, but they sure can't compete with the NAWALT posts.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 03:35 PM
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I think that may explain their revulsion quite well. If men accept sex as a commodity, with a value to it rather then being some grand mystique, they lose specialness and the market properly devalues what they have to offer when it goes from a one in a million golden ticket to a common candy bar.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 10:10 PM
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Now I ask you: how do you deal with a woman like this? The obvious answer is "leave her", but what if that's NOT the answer? How would you deal with her if you had to make it work? If leaving her isn't an option, you're screwed. You have no cards to play because the big one is a dud and she knows it. If you wont leave, and she controls the sex, she controls you. That's not red pill stuff, that should be common sense. You need sex, won't go elsewhere for it, and allow her to dole it out based on …
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 09:52 PM
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This is the force trying to convinceeveryone that No always means No and that there exists a systematic force in the world to encourage a rape culture. It's almost as head shaking disturbingly disconnected as the 'Nice Guy' hatred movement. How the hell can they sleep at night?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 09:10 PM
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insecure, financially insecure women? Wow, so you're hunting for a woman with no resources, no personality, because you can't be bothered to find a human damn being you can connect with? Get a fucking blow up doll. Covers all of your bases, cheaper to feed, is always as clean as you want her to be, and lowers the risk of a mouth breathing fucktard who consider women nothing but meat holes from reproducing.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 05:40 PM
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One bisexual guy once explained to me that he likes feminine women and masculine men. In your opinion, do you think that meshes with the majority of bi guys you've met? I'll admit, the often vocalized preference for feminine men by gays and masculine women by lesbians has always confused me; this description of a bisexual just makes a bunch more sense and seems more relatible to me. I was curious if you'd say that it might represent the majority of male or female bisexuals.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 05:26 PM
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I think you should let him worry about his own life. If it's the situation he wants, there's nothing to 'fix', and no reason for it to be any concern of yours.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/13 06:34 PM
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And par for the course, I didn't spellcheck before corrected. Correct spelling is 'eunuchs'
/r/TheRedPill07/06/13 08:25 PM
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'eunuchs'
/r/TheRedPill07/06/13 08:23 PM
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But what do I do? What YOU want to do. Yeah, it's weird understanding that you have that choice, but it's all on you to decide and execute. Do I shun relationships? That's up to you. If you want a relationship, you can go the extra step to say you want a relationship that improves your life. Then you can judge the relationships you're in to see if they meet that criteria, and discard relationships that don't meet that criteria. Do I stay celibate forever? If you want, but I doubt that's the case…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/13 07:51 PM
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Accepting these rules as true (and boy do they explain a lot), doesn't this vastly decrease the perceived value of every woman period? Most blue pill thinking has the preconceived value of women hyper-inflated. It's a market correction, so the perceived value is lower than it was, but more in line with what it should be by evaluating them without rose tinted glasses. ...is it still worth it to pursue women as mates for anything remotely serious? That's for you to decide. For me, it still is wort…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 05:16 PM
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She doesn't fucks other men, I am very sure about it, because she is staying all day at home. She doesn't have lots of friends here. She's cleaning the house, preparing the food, raising the child, and continuing to do so in a house she (to your knowledge) doesn't ever leave. Yet for many many months, she's wanted to be broken up with you, even after repeated attempts by you to get back together. So the only difference between broken up and together is the lack of physical intimacy. You're sayin…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 11:25 PM
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take hard way and become single dad, if I will be able to get it to work that way. Uh, that choice was already decided for you. If she doesn't want to be a part of your life, get her out of your life. You're putting a roof over her head and food on her plate for a few hours of work a week while she fucks other men. You are being used, and are allowing it to continue. You aren't truly willing to walk away, so you're giving her all of cards. I dont care if you're passing shit tests, you've failed …
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 10:57 PM
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Don't worry about the folks who've been doing it longer, and martial art ranks shouldn't mean shit to you. If the topic ever comes up in social conversation, downplay the crap out of it. A consistent and counterintuitive aspect of attraction you'll see in many posts here is the details of the work you've done actually lessens attraction, and intrigue majorly increases it. "oh you fight?" should be answered with something like "If you've ever been stalked by cougars, you'd want to train a little …
/r/TheRedPill01/06/13 09:45 PM
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"Not interested. Stop contacting me." That'll do it for most. Whatever happens, DO NOT respond to ANYTHING sent to you. Ever. Even if you're trying to take to high road, or be kind, or defend yourself, or keep her from hurting yourself, do NOT respond to ANYTHING. Those are the last words she will EVER get from you in any format. She may say some very cold things to you. She is a machine built for the sole purpose of getting a reaction out of you, and the moment you say ANYTHING after that, you'…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/13 07:46 AM
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If the goal is continued survival and propagation of the species, then wouldn't traditional family roles with a large focus on continued breeding be the most winningest strategy? Long term, multi-millienial view. I disagree that the desired across the board 100% sexual equality society would be more children-producing-ist. Men are disposable, at every level. Any grouping that puts their women in equal risk at all times will suffer less male fatalities than a 'traditional' one, and more female fa…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/13 09:39 PM
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I sometimes get the feeling that many of the people that browse this subreddit gets a little happy when they see a post about a woman hitting the wall and becoming desperate for companionship, but can't since for the last 15 years, they were riding the magic school bus and being a goey warm hole that alphas cum in. The schadenfreude is palpable, certainly. I know I'm guilty of giggling at those stories. It is my personal opinion that if women want to fuck everything that has a pulse, then they s…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/13 07:03 PM
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c)Now tell me, in this scenario wouldn't it be more efficient for both females and males to contribute to this quality output to help our species survive? I get the distinct impression you may mean something that is unclear to me, mostly in regard to 'quality output'. I have no idea if you're referring to technological advancements, efforts of labor, or future generations of humans. I'm hoping future paragraphs will help clear that up in context. If you say No, I would like to know why, but as a…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/13 06:11 PM
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The idea of men marrying men for the benefits or security feels like taking up smoking for the health benefits and great breath. What benefits or security would they be getting? At best, maybe a $2k-$3k tax perk for filing jointly if the combined wages fit in a specific range. Other than that, all of the normal risks with divorce are still present; trusting it better because the big red panic button is under the finger of a guy instead of a girl, well, that's a judgement call but I still see it …
/r/TheRedPill22/05/13 03:21 PM
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You're 16, and seem close to your father. You're obligated for the triathalon, so lay out your interests to your dad, and explain why. As long as you make it clear that you're taking your triathalon training seriously, he should be more than willing to help with weight training stuff as well. Spell out what you think you need help with (gym membership, protein shakes, spell it out in detail how he can help), and I'd bet he'd be willing to help, probably contingent on continued or completing the …
/r/TheRedPill21/05/13 06:17 PM
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Upper 30's here. Wish I knew when I was 14 or earlier.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/13 06:19 PM
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The only people who dont like me are the feminists and the manginas. Why dont they love me too? Why dont they love TheRedPill? Would you mind adding to that to see if your experiences match mine? Those that hate the subreddit or manosphere writers, I can understand. The ideas present a very different worldview that has implications that their current worldview wants to reject: everyone is special, just be yourself and be nice and that's all you'll ever need, love is all you need, whatever. So ha…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 01:33 AM
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She called an audible. She had the date, and the end result, you're not good enough for the sexing but could be handy as a 'In case of emergency: break glass' cock-in-a-jar or wallet-in-a-jar. She's explored her feelings, and is rejecting you. The way you handled the rejection, not what I would have done. You've effectively given her an ultimatuum she has to answer immediately; sexing or pay for your company. She's already answered the sexing part, and will probably be offended at the idea of pa…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/13 11:12 PM
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Women aren't prostitutes to be bought, rented, or otherwise paid for. Get your shit together; you aren't going to get anywhere until you realize this. The idea is to get to know them and see if you connect. Nowhere does that require the idea paying for the privilege of doing so. Childish bitterness like this is what ends up giving the people here a bad name, and randoms like you spouting that 'All women are whores' could mislead others into thinking the exact opposite of what this sub is for.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/13 09:54 PM
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There is a perception that many people have that I first heard about from Tyler Durden of RSD. He wrote an article describing a secret society here: Secret Society Now, the idea and the numbers and the rules are kind of crazy, completely brown fingered by Tyler, and laughable as any kind of crazy secret society, but the idea of what he's describing meshes really well with red pill theory and what I've observed. The reason I'm bringing this up is that the behavior you're seeing may be the result …
/r/TheRedPill08/05/13 02:38 AM
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What I'm trying to get at is the underlying motivations. I think it may be a mistake to expect there to be underlying motivations. It sounds like your trying to ascribe a rational, logical thought process to a force of nature. It feels like trying to understand the underlying motivations in F=ma. The ancestors who developed selective mating we able to breed that drive in to thrive and survive longer and better, until those without the drive were reduced or eliminated. The instinct became more fo…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/13 05:35 PM
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Seems like applied hypergamy. If distinction is such a valuable commodity, then they'd have a higher value and hypergamy takes care of the rest.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/13 05:08 AM
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You're wanting the actual reasons or the rationalizations? For the reasons, it's simply hypergamy. Someone is available that has a higher value than the current partner. Sex with them is good because worst case scenario, you get pregnant with his kid and the current partner helps raise none the wiser. Better scenario, you move over and start a long term relationship with the newer, better man. Maybe it will, maybe it wont, but as far as the quantity and quality of kids you produce, it's a win ei…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/13 05:40 PM
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I am ashamed that I never came to the same conclusion before now. If they did settle, they wouldn't be called bad boys now. Hmm.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 11:25 PM
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Games have been a big influence for me. They're actually one of the reasons I was able to swallow the red pill easier. A number of years ago, I got serious and competitive about a game/style of games. After years of playing with friends there'd always be discussion about what was 'cheap' what was breaking the game; there'd be grumbles about playing unsportingly. When I got serious about them and studied, I learned counterpoints to those tactics, and to deal with what was in the game, rather than…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/13 05:21 PM
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Or, you know, guys are susceptible to game as well.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/13 07:06 AM
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First rule, above all else, is protect ya neck. I may be cynical, and I definitely don't know your situation, but being married means you are in a precarious situation with very little in the way of protection except for the little bit you manage to scrounge for yourself. The MMSL primer and other docs will help in trying to get the relationship back in the right path, and you should totally do it. However, at the same time you should be taking steps to protect yourself against damage from a pos…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/13 07:09 PM
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Time to throw it all out, boys. Looks like it was just a case of the 99% ruining it for the rest.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/13 03:23 PM
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Go where the women you want are, and work there. In a bars vs. club comparison, I think you'll find that the clientele are younger and hotter in the club. Yes, the music is loud, talking is almost entirely out of the question, and the experience is damn near painful each and every time. I know others have suggested that the hotter women are attracted to those places more for that exact reason; it prevents rapport and makes it easier for the girl to bail. Bar game is easier than club game, especi…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/13 03:19 PM
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I guess i'll have to ignore him now. Instead of jumping everytime I get a one word text from him Dude, man after my own heart, second post in. Time to comb the thread for tips.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/13 09:11 PM
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Yup, always a favorite. Along with 'You're an XXXX' where XXXX can be anything that be negative; jerk/asshole/dick/whatever. 100% of the time, said with a smile and a twinkle in her eye. The one that's been getting to me lately is 'Who ARE you?' That one is difficult to describe but I bet a number of other guys here hear that one, too.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/13 12:22 AM
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It sounds more than 'a bit crazy'. It sounds mean, angry, weak, and lazy. You have women who want to be with the best man they can get. You have men trying to be the best they can be. Someone who'd rather sit on the sidelines saying "I'll burn it all and then they'll be sorry.", well, yeah. That attitude lowers you and would make anyone, male or female, want to steer clear of you. Work on improving yourself. Dress nice, work out, focus on the good in people and in life. You don't have to take sh…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/13 07:50 PM
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Haha that's funny, I better see what he was actually replying to, one sec... HOLY FUCK he wasn't kidding.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/13 04:11 AM
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In reality you're treating them how they feel they should be treated because of insecurities and low self esteem. You're ascribing too much higher level thought into the process. It's not an ego or self esteem issue; it's simply that she enjoys and is drawn to the way she feels around him. It's one of her own natural drugs (oxytocin? dopamine? beats me) that kick in around him, and she wants to enjoy that good feeling again. People don't continue to use heroin because of self esteem issues or fe…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/13 05:44 PM
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It's a strategy for you to keep in mind when you make your own decisions, not dogma that says 'try here'. Here's a random hypothetical. Friend calls you to say that he's at strip club X at lunch time. All of the dancers are there, but Tommy Lee and his entourage just arrived, word got out on facebook, and there's now like 100 women and MAYBE 20 men all told in the place. You should come down, it's crazy with hot and cold running floozies everywhere. Your other option is a huge Magic:The Gatherin…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/13 05:41 PM
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Ah, now this is discussable, thank you for the rewrite. sex with large number of attractive women as opposed to marry a plain looking one, have kids and focus on gaining social status for the family, kids, which is historically normal? Now that's a great question. First off, I think you'll see a consistent message of 'Do what YOU want.' Others may think the nuclear family option isn't in their best interests, but you should also hear a message of 'Fuck what others think.' If that's what YOU want…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/13 05:29 PM
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I have to admit, I'm not too sure what you're trying to get across. In America the average male will experience some interesting cultural aberrations the moment he exits the womb through C-section and has his foreskin removed. None of these are a sign of behavior that child exhibits. To say that going through these experiences would affect his behavior later in life in absence of culture is difficult for me to accept; same male on a deserted without being taught about them would not have any inc…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/13 04:38 PM
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There's no dichotomy, here: it's not one-or-the-other. I think there's a point missed here somewhere. The idea of your two bullet points, 'Reduce competition' and 'Increase prospects' are aspects of the 'where girls are plentiful' strategy. Article points out a different tactic of 'where the men are weak', and highlights the scenario in a way that contradicts both of your bullet points. The competition (number of men) was increased as a matter of quantity instead of a matter of quality, and the …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/13 04:22 PM
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You're making it difficult to take your input seriously. If there's a legitimate question or concern here, please spell it out better.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/13 04:12 PM
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Culture is stronger than biology. Children, without any concept or experience in culture, still react to dominance, attraction, and leadership. Over half of all women admit to rape fantasies even after a lifetime of culture that is quite specific that rape is bad. Now, maybe there are some other other areas that culture influence so strongly that you can still believe that culture is stronger than evolution overall in a person's life. I don't agree with it, but I have no idea how it could be set…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/13 03:07 PM
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So far, it appears to be a polite and well meaning attempt to help someone voicing a frustration. Worst thing said so far was that your profile is clearly shit, and anyone here should have a thick enough skin to say 'yeah, it was shit.' because it didn't do it's job of turning messages into replies well enough. If you have no interest in taking the advice, that's fine, but no reason to attack them for giving it.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/13 06:07 AM
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I'm not sure how much I agree with that. 'Critical mass it needs to actually accomplish something' sounds like this is a movement of sorts, like there is an objective that needs to be accomplished. IMO, red pill hasn't ever been about things like that. The only goal of red pill has been and should continue to be attempting to show and explain a model for social and sexual relationships, and opinions on their application ('this is why marriage is a bad idea for men'/'this is how I acted to get th…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/13 11:00 PM
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Same here. The strange thing that I wish I could impart to the red pill haters is how it helps me UNDERSTAND women far better than I could before. Before with just PUA training, there were things I could do and say that helped, but I didnt really understand why and it didn't help me understand them. Now that I understand the underlying parts of social behavior and women better, the relationships have been stronger, more passionate, and I can connect with women and men far better than before. Sur…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/13 08:26 PM
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pleasebereal, pleasebereal, pleasebereal..GODDAMNIT!
/r/TheRedPill14/04/13 08:17 PM
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Link for mp3 Assuming the special in question is the Oh My God one. I'm downloading it now to listen to.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/13 07:59 PM
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old friend I don't think that means what you think that means. That kind of behavior is not any different from any other pecking order type shit-test from a woman and should be handled the same way. If it gets too intense, him trying to dominate you, you'll have to confront him on it.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/13 07:55 PM
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Co-sign. Strategies/tactics from a red pill frame would always be welcomed, and it sounds right up your alley, OP.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/13 05:08 PM
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I don't disagree with you; it totally wreaks of rationalization, but there's nothing morally wrong with what she's doing. I'm pro-prostitution even if I've never partaken. What got me thinking was if it was a way to rationalize the 'guilt' of what she's doing, as I think you're proposing, versus another possibility: rationalizing or mislabeling her internal feelings about sex with betas. If it were Richard Gere or whomever else high status and attractive, I think she'd Pretty Woman it up and be …
/r/TheRedPill14/04/13 02:12 AM
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Single with 3 women, and very upfront about it that I'm seeing others.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/13 01:57 AM
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Some feminists try to absolve women of all responsibility for their sexual conduct, placing all responsibility for negative consequences on the men. Do you not see how that is objectification? People, including women, can't have responsibility without agency. it's that feminists use this excuse way too often to defend what are simply bad decisions. So you agree that this objectification of women (by denying any responsibility on the woman's part) is being presented by feminists. Sounds like we'r…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 06:45 PM
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Just wanted to say say I dig your poignancy there. That's one short, concise nugget of information/opinion that I agree with. Even if I didn't, well put.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 06:25 PM
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If there was a concise way to lay down most of our models in an easy to digest way that doesn't trigger "They hate women/oppressors/assholes" reflex people have been programmed with, we haven't found it yet. The Married Man Sex Life Primer is one of the most praised books for that sort of situation. There are also all of the side bar links that could help; the Confessions of a reformed incel does a great job of resonating with many men, what it's more for getting them to acknowledge that what th…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/13 07:17 PM
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I about pissed myself, thanks!
/r/TheRedPill10/04/13 05:31 PM
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You are correct; that was my misunderstanding. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/13 04:10 PM
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Agreed. What I'm missing is how this relates to hypergamy. The person, real or fictional, isn't asking a question that relates to hypergamy. There's no indication of the guy displaying hypergamous behavior ("I have a girlfriend, but there's this hot 18 y/o..."), nor taking advantage of hypergamous behavior("There's this hot 18 y/o that's been hitting on me, even though she has a boyfriend..."). He may have many things that make him attractive, and the 18 year olds probably have many things that …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/13 09:15 PM
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I don't think I understand. I'm not seeing a link between hypergamy (behavior to trade up better from what they have, and hold onto what they have while nothing better is immediately available) and age differences between partners.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/13 05:06 PM
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Just for devil's advocate sake, is there a frequent voicing of the opinion that an 18 year old girl landing a successful 26 y/o is something to be applauded in that sub? I only see one comment that says anything like that. And, to be fair, that isn't a great comparison, and doesn't contrast hypergamy. It may try to represent how we view hypergamy, but doesn't address how THEY view hypergamy. The question posed sounds like more hook up culture, and more sex focused than relationship focused. Sinc…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/13 04:25 PM
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We aren't homophobes, all are welcome, but I'm not sure how much we can help you or vice versa. The focus here seems to be strictly heterosexual relationships, and the psychology involved is focused, on purpose, on the bulk in the middle of the bell curve. We acknowledge that there are outliers, and frankly homosexuals would fall into that category. Add into that the vast differing array of male homosexual dynamics (feminine twinks, masculine bears, submissive bottoms, power bottoms, and a hojil…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/13 03:27 PM
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WTF is wrong with Toronto? I had previously taken all of the Toronto hate with a grain of salt, but now I'm shaking my head and wanting to avoid the place.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/13 03:53 PM
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Point out one trait, any trait, present in any one person on the planet, that isn't represent by at least one person of the opposite sex on the planet. Long hair? More frequent in women, but present in some men. Broad shoulders? More frequent in men, but present in some women. Low waist/hip ratio? More frequent in women, but present in some men. By your thinking, there's no point in labeling either of these as masculine or feminine traits because they aren't strictly relegated to one single sex …
/r/TheRedPill06/04/13 11:02 PM
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From my experience, even relatively attractive, young women will stay with a man even if he's inarguably abusive. Of course. And many women will frequently cheat on their stable long term provider with only the barest hint of guilt, if any. The point is they don't reciprocate the loyalty for loyalty's sake. Their behavior could be viewed as loyalty, but that's a rationalization. They continue to stay with the abusive man because her nibbly bits are tingled by his alpha behavior. Other women will…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/13 09:16 PM
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If you can't be arsed to read what's been written, we can't be arsed to re-write it.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/13 12:03 AM
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First off, I sincerely worry about how you'll approach the subject. I'd be very very worried about him finding out you brought this up with others; he could easily see it as a betrayal of trust. I appreciate that you have his best interests and the best interests of your relationship at heart, but if it was told to you in privacy, him finding out about you telling others, even without a way to trace it to him specifically, could easily be a painful betrayal of trust. With that said, it could be …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/13 08:06 PM
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How then can I set my boundaries and expectations of her? more importantly, how should I go about enforcing these? how do I "take her under my wing and lead." this is a vague, and somewhat meaningless statement. can you clarify this? I agree and can see what you mean. It's easy to be a critic say things that were said were bad, and damn near impossible to be constructive without a ton more information. That makes it easy for us to look down on what you did and hard to suggest ways of doing it be…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/13 06:40 PM
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Obviously there are a lot of details that get lost with a text synopsis like this, but just regarding what was written, it makes me rather uncomfortable. What sticks out most in my head is that the description of your day starts with this relationship talk, which no one likes and no one thinks is fun. Then comes the wine with friends, where she's free to have a good time and relax while you put the kid the bed, punctuated by a hell of a scolding before bed where she's made to stay put and suck u…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/13 06:55 PM
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That's pretty obscenely cool. You're boy's going to have one hell of a life with an honest to god father raising him.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/13 03:43 PM
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Just playing devil's advocate, but isn't it his fault? The guy beta'd himself in the relationship, and hypergamy took over. Sure, he's had to endure years of shit/fitness tests, but he started giving less and less strong answers, and she did what was natural for her to do. Under a red pill view, how is this NOT his fault?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/13 03:40 PM
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You have a good point. I'm just hoping they'll be striving for better and better game skills to the point where 'Work the fuck out and eat right' is as universal a message for them as it is for us.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/13 10:04 PM
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As far as the dehumanization, having a large organization tell another human being to sacrafice their dignity (who in their right mind would stay with a cheater? blame themselves for someone elses infidelity etc) in order to stay in a relationship. THAT is what you find dehumanizing? Someone with a choice being encouraged to make a choice YOU wouldn't make in the same situation, is dehumanizing? You keep using that word, I don't think it means what you think it means. Of course the state is goin…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/13 09:32 PM
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She does a great job, and while we don't see eye to eye on everything, she does succeed both in trying to understand both sides, and throws in some other viewpoints that I hadn't considered before for either side. I hope she continues. Whether I agree or not, a well thought out viewpoint that I hadn't considered is always welcome, whether its for or against my current worldview.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/13 08:46 PM
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I'm curious what part of that video you found 'dehumanizing'. 1. Women's attractiveness peaks around 26ish? 2. Pretty people don't have to bring as much to the table to land a high value partner? 3. People can find it difficult to maintain a very long term relationship that is stagnant and doesn't change? It may sound mean to harsh, but no where does it sound in any way dehumanizing, and with the exception of #1, applies equally to all genders in all relationships. Anyone who cheers this is clea…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/13 08:41 PM
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Is there a slutty version of a 'beard' term? If a woman with a gay man is a 'beard' in order to throw people off the scent of his homosexuality, then I think there should be a term for a long term boyfriend who is kept around in order to throw off the scent of her rampantly sluttish behavior. NTTIAWWT, I love that kind of behavior, but I feel for the dude. Sure, 'husband' would be a clever word for that poor guy, but Im thinking 'ringer'. The 3 year boyfriend was just a ringer for the girl. Whil…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/13 08:31 PM
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I am in support of /r/fPUA and I encourage you to stay at the very least for trying to understand things on the other side of the table. I hope this means you read this: http://www.returnofkings.com/7543/american-girls-have-no-game
/r/TheRedPill28/03/13 08:21 PM
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Can I become an alpha? Not just yes, but HELL YES. More importantly, you will, because you know you MUST, and you realize that you have to, and you're march towards that goal with your head held high and a smile on your face because that's what a MAN would do. No choice. Suck it up and get to work and the changes start soon, and just keep coming. As for the atheism, that was the only other time my brain literally hurt from rewiring itself like 11 years ago. The second time was discovering rep pi…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/13 05:18 PM
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Good for them. I hope this grows and gets BIG. The field report I read had a girl talking some great, playful banter. It was awesome, and I'd love to see more of that in the world. She was approaching, and I'd love to see more of that in the world. If they grow, male PUA loses it stigma. If they grow, maybe the 'that hot guy should love my fat ass for me' movement will wake up. Maybe with repeated testing, they'll see the 'diva' mentality not being effective for keeping hot guys. And if we get R…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/13 04:54 PM
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Afterburner89 says effectively the same thing, but I'm missing it. Would you mind pointing out some the blue pill parts of the OP to help he and I understand better?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/13 07:18 PM
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Wow, I don't even know where to begin with that. Dude's been through some shit, at the hands of women. That sucks, bad, and can fuck with a brain super hard. He's going to be dealing with that for most of his life, especially with the mindset and support group he has now. I seriously have to wonder, with the confusing and contradictory crap he's feeling and being exposed to, just how healthy his treatment is. "They taught me to welcome a touch instead of fearing it." - After that kind of shit, I…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/13 05:31 PM
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Now comes the really fun part, the positive messages from a girl confused about how awesome you make her feel and how no one has ever made her feel that way and she knows it may not last but you're amazing in ways she doesn't understand but can't keep from feeling. Those are amazingly validating texts. Congrats on your success!
/r/TheRedPill27/03/13 05:09 PM
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Saying women 'apply logic differently' is rather like calling homeopathy an 'alternative science'. We can use logic to understand how they behave once we have the proper red pill framework to understand them. Same for the Westboro Baptist Church crazies and puppies; we can use logic and our knowledge of how and what they're working for to understand and predict what they'll do. That doesn't mean they're logical behaviors.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/13 05:03 PM
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Could be worse. Imagine if the entirety of people's attraction to you was physical/visual based. I dont think the analogy is fair though. I'd say makeup is their equivalent to pickup lines and okay clothes, while their exercise and eating healthy is equivalent to our full personality transformations. Part that sucks is that we have to do both for best results. Complaining won't help unfortunately. No choice if you want to be successful.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/13 04:21 PM
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I think the term 'playa hater' has been around alot longer than the disciples of Brodin.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/13 04:15 PM
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My god that's perfect. You can see the subtext of conversations and react accordingly. Well done!
/r/TheRedPill26/03/13 04:10 PM
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WOOT! Congratulations, I hope this gets some visibility because of how frequently the cynicism during swallowing the pill is seen. Hopefully you'll see situations that frequently left you confused and angry for what they really are and just shake your head and chuckle.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/13 01:23 AM
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+1 for 'Hampsterbation'. I don't think I could avoid saying that if I tried.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/13 12:10 AM
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I think 'projecting masculine values onto women' may not be accurate. ThomasWalkmann is saying that men and women's value can differ, including that men value the work and sacrifice in achieving a goal more than a woman usually would. Take two men in their 30s, both well off. One spent most of his 20's with nothing to his name, living off of top ramen, busting ass to start his company and get it off the ground and is now valued at about 2 millions dollars, and he continues to work 50 hours a wee…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/13 09:44 PM
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No one is saying it's a deal breaker scenario, but knowing how the sausage is made makes it less appealing. Two girls look completely identical with nice racks. Once you know, would you say the one in the push up bra with floppy tits was still as attractive as the one with the naturally perky tits? Two girls look identical in a great dress. Once you know, would the one rocking the Spanx still be as attractive a mate as the one who didn't need Spanx? Two women with long hair. Once you know, would…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/13 09:31 PM
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I would love to hear any and all of your opinions on the matter if you're inclined. Specifically, 1. How to you feel it's affected the length of your relationship? 2. Would you agree that the 'love' from the women feels stronger than non-dominating relationships? 3. Do you have any kind of guidelines or rule of thumb for how dominating you're being in the relationship during normal day to day operations? I've got no problem going straight into dominating behavior during sex and to smack down any…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/13 08:12 PM
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Just playing devil's advocate here, but their belief is that if these invisible restrictions that keep women down (sigh) are eliminated, that'll mean twice as many equally capable and productive members of society; it HAS to be a societal boon, including for production. It's a nice idea, and frankly one I don't disagree with, but there's something going wrong in the present implementation that's causing the detrimental situation we're in now. Im not sure if has to do with the apparent social fem…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/13 07:48 PM
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Behavioral difference between men and women? This story promotes inequality between the sexes! BURN IT! Oh, it paints men as slovenly and lazy. Nevermind, carry on, that's acceptable.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/13 07:25 PM
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Ok. But she was hurt and there's a certain responsibility that you have when you hurt others. Someone else convinces her that she should drop him, and its his responsibility to make it as painless as possible for her to do so? Sheesh. I'm new around here, but one thing that bugs the hell out of me is women not accepting responsibility for their actions. I think you're implying that he should be better than women and take responsibility. But it's not a responsibility thing. She went there to make…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/13 08:10 AM
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Make no mistake, their T level is way too low; the reactions are plenty enough to show that. They refused to believe the idea that attraction is influenced by genetics because if it were, then they wouldn't be a super special butterfly able to rise above such base impulses, and since they have enough presence of mind to get diet coke instead of coke, they are obviously stronger than these urges and your suggestion is akin to calling them a stupid dog when they clearly are not. You should be asha…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/13 05:06 AM
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The question you're asking makes no sense. The context seems to be confusion that there is more than one trait women find attractive; money isn't the only one. There's a world of difference between James Bond drinking expensive scotch versus a plumber just off of work drinking the same. If you're in the corner all quiet with your scotch while a happy confident guy is making friends and buying cheap ass PBRs for everyone, yes, he's going to be more attractive. Leadership, social skills, confidenc…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/13 07:59 PM
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Whether you ultimately agree or not, I appreciate you considering my input.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/13 11:25 PM
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You present a viewpoint I hadnt considered, and I think you're right. For what it's worth, it has definitely changed how I enjoy relationships, but I do enjoy them nonetheless. For the worshippers, I hate to say it, but it's rather a hedonistic and cold view point. Pretty much seeing what I can do and get them to do. I derive enjoyment from it though, as a reinforcement of my abilities. The love plate I let some of the oxytocin flow somewhat. Im babbling or rationalizing though, just know I appr…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/13 09:54 PM
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While it's very well constructed point you probably meant as rhetoric, I was actually hoping for an answer to that very question.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/13 09:47 PM
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I was hoping to get input on the pros and cons of each way to so I could use it to determine which set I wanted to follow. I have no information or idea on, for example, relationship length. The standard vanilla relationship usually follows the 6 year plan, but I dontknow how long a super dominant relationship would last. Which one would involve more maintenence. Which one would be preferred for child rearing. Which one would be better for seducing a married women to raise my child with her husb…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/13 09:45 PM
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Not that I could point to it, but I knew and blogged about it Sept 12th, knowing specifically that 911 would directly lead to invasion of Iraq. It wasn't a big leap. It was a simple combination of GWB's very consistent record in office of trying to piss the world off, the low economy, and the massive amount of oil available for someone thinking it could be had for a song a few thousand American souls by an ignorant jackass with a god complex. I know Im not the only one who saw it coming. Since t…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/13 09:39 PM
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Are you happy to accept the fact that women being blasted by the media being purely a statement, and that you have nothing to say with why this is happening, who is doing it, or if they/it have an agenda? I accept facts. Happiness is irrelevant. Women are blasted by media, sure. A good chunk has a feminist slant, sure. But to say that this media influence is a sole cause is ignorance, an oversimplification of a very larger situation. Why things are happening is interesting, for sure. That doesn'…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/13 09:33 PM
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It's a question of whether or not you believe it is a zero sum game. For: Do you get saddened when your bud gets a girlfriend because there's one less target in your available pool? Probably not, so why not chat with him about it so he can have his head on straight and end up with a better girl for a stronger relationship. Against: Every girl knocked up is one less that could/should be knocked up with my kid. I can understand both sides, but the idea of spreading and testing theories and knowled…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/13 08:23 PM
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The ideas presented in are standard conspiracy theory clap trap that lacks any ability to be proven false. The logic therein ('let's upset the order that brought in the renaissance and industrial revolution so that we can upset things and reduce the production of those under us and create a massive section of the male population sexually frustrated and on the urge of violence instead of complacent, compliant, and productive') is flawed, at best. It does little the identify the symptoms, nothing …
/r/TheRedPill23/03/13 10:35 AM
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Was it this one? http://www.rooshv.com/women-who-own-iphones-lose-the-ability-to-love
/r/TheRedPill22/03/13 06:58 PM
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| I don't understand how these guys can be happy with not having a choice. Because they consider the stoic self-sacrifice as a trait to aspire to, the last remaining masculine trait they can still get a societal pat on the head for. That's why women love the idea of 'Man Up', and they continue to do so. It's them being a man, an ideal they can achieve that doesn't have a feminine counterpoint. The last gasp of masculinity left to them is to agree to be used and discarded, and until they realize …
/r/TheRedPill22/03/13 05:02 AM
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Awesome, good stuff.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/13 05:20 PM
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No, I am asserting that the effects of hormones are NOT different. (Weakly asserting. This isn't something I actively care about either way or pretend to be knowledgable about.) If the effects are NOT different, then how can those same changes be considered a 'fix' in trans versus just a 'change' in non-trans? EDIT: Ah, I think I see the confusion stemming from " If that were the case, then the effects of hormones on how people think and react, their behavior, shouldn't change for a transgender.…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/13 05:05 PM
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Two things I guess Im trying to point out: He did NOT pass the shit test, and not passing it made his evening more difficult. but I quickly learned that this girl was going around the room and complaining to anyone who would listen about what I’d “done to [her].” No, he did not pass the shit test, and he did not have respect from her. She actively campaigned against him that night. He called her on her rude bullshit, and then left abruptly. In princessa's mind, he came up, made her feel bad and …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/13 04:52 PM
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I don't have any reason to believe they do. I may not be representing my stand on this very well, but it's hard when frankly any time the word 'gender' pops up, my GAF meter drops like a rock. All I was trying to say was 1. if an increase in testosterone leads to more masculine behavior in men, women and trans. 2. If an increase in estrogen leads to more feminine behavior in men, women, and trans. Then what is the difference between between a transgender F2M and a non-transgender woman on heavy …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/13 04:13 PM
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More content and material is always encouraged.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/13 04:58 AM
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I like the idea in principle, but that means nexting every girl who throws a shit test at you. She was rude, undoubtedly. His response was justifiable, certainly. But I can't say it was optimal. By pointing out her rudeness and bailing, he left himself open at the beginning of an evening to have a lady attractive enough to have him running the moment she's alone telling everyone in the area how he was rude/creeper/jackass/whatever. He was inviting negative social proof. Sure, it ends with a 'but…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/13 04:52 AM
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Not sure if troll or meaning this video: Actual Cruz and Feinstein video?
/r/TheRedPill14/03/13 11:22 PM
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I've heard the same, but I don't believe I buy it any longer. If that were the case, then the effects of hormones on how people think and react, their behavior, shouldn't change for a transgender.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/13 05:29 PM
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Your thinking is very wrong, your models of how things work is wrong, and you're crapping over a number of people who are trying to show you how and why. The first half of your post is your description of your model of how things work in a relationship, dealing with their expectations, supplication, risk of rejection at every turn. What most here would call blue pill thinking. Stop it. Imagine if you're going to go play poker, and before hand you went over the rules with your friends and how the…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/13 06:57 AM
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MrWillRedPill, thanks for putting this up. I agree, we need all of the devil's advocacy we can get. PLEASE, anyone, everyone, poke every last mother-loving hole you can into the model we're seeing. If it's wrong, the model MUST change. I hope I'm not alone in thinking that this sort of thing. Logical detractors using facts instead of 'But I don't like that' should be considered a freaking blessing. Now, the author brings up some good points. There is most definitely some serious schadenfreude to…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/13 10:00 PM
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If Im understanding this argument correctly, Steve says that avoidance of our socialist tribal behavior towards capitalism is an example of a good result of denying our innate behavior, while feminism is also denial of our innate behavior, and he sees it as a contradiction to allow people to deny feminism because of evo psych while there exists a great example of positive things from denying other behavior. I think I may see where he and I have differing opinions. I don't consider feminism to be…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/13 08:56 PM
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I like the idea of examining the numbers you took, but Im unsure of the methodology. Using units, your math looks like this: (((percentage non-paternity)(all births))+(low confidence births))/(all births) So you're counting all of the questioned births and the high confidence, non-paternity births together, double counting some of them. Could I suggest: [( (DNA non-paternity)(number of live births-low confidence births))+(number of low confidence non paternity births)] / (number of live births) …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/13 07:21 PM
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Brilliant find. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/13 05:55 PM
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There's nothing new in this type of list. It's a common thing and everyone has similar lists. I think it's more important to realize that these traits are ones she'd like to see in a man she's attracted to, but it is predicated on her being attracted to him. None of those are traits she is attracted to. That distinction is important. There's nothing different between that list and the standard 'Nice Guy' attributes that blue pill guys try to follow. Anyone who takes that for a list of attractive…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/13 06:21 PM
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Right, but they're sluts. I can find it if you'd like, but someone just said to me that women who have sex as much as they like are sluts and that's disgusting to you folks. WHAT?!? There's zero moral reason condemning other??? Tell that to your buddies. I wouldn't go near a guy who's slept with 400 women. Yuck. Do you not see a direct contradiction and cognitive dissonance in that? You would condemn someone for thinking less of a woman with many partners, while in the same breath thinking less …
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 11:23 PM
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They're having the hard time swallowing it I certainly had, and I think most had; it's a bitter pill. It paints the world much colder and very different but what they've been led to believe and aspire towards their whole life. The fact that it means that there are significant, non-trivial differences between male and female behavior means equivalence is right out the window, and that's such a core tenant that it is practically sacrosanct. ( I keep saying equivalence because the idea of equality …
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 06:19 PM
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Sticking your dick in 400 women is kinda shitty. How so? Given that they were all consenting, that sounds like 401 happy people getting what they want. Roles are reversed and a girl takes 400 seperate dicks, consecutive or concurrent, that's still 401 happy people. There is zero moral reason to condemn either. However, both have had 400 sexual partners, and HAVE to take responsibility for it. The unfortunate part that I think is giving you a hard time swallowing (pill analogy, not innuendo) is t…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 06:05 PM
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I disagree with the principle, but I understand. FWIW, I respect the attempt that was made, and admire that you took more from the InCel article that any other that I've seen directed to it. We'll be here when you're ready.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 05:44 PM
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You're not approaching this rationally, but rather rationalizing why the data doesn't fit your world view. Bring up evidence to support in a way that encompasses large groups of people (non-anecdotal evidence). Because of this, Im going to have to reduce the amount of time you put into it until it becomes an argument and not a venting platform. And the couples that never divorce? About half of them? The female's loyalty in that relationship counts for nothing, then. Moving goal posts: This tange…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 07:47 AM
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If dolphinhunter is a woman, I don't expect it would help. It's a great smack upside the head for men because it reflects was many of us felt, but I expect almost every woman and every feminist to disregard it as inflamatory tripe. They dont understand the feels in it, and would rather label the author a violent woman hater rather than empathize with the pain so thoroughly laid out. "Here, read this and then come talk to me' works awesome for guys, but not at all for women in my experience.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 05:36 AM
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How does one measure loyalty? Excellent question; pick one. Specifically in the area of pair bonding please; I make no claim on the loyalty of a woman towards her children compared to others including men. Easiest one to find is the rate of divorce filings initiated by women vs men, which was around 70:30. I hear people want to treat it more as 90:10 because of women who have abandoned the relationship but couldn't be arsed to actually 'man up' enough to file, but that's a tenuous assumption and…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 05:15 AM
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No problem, ill be happy to answer any of those as best I can, but I'd like to ask one thing first for you to think about. A cousin of mine watched the Penn and Teller episode about the Bible. I didn't make my viewpoint known, but I asked him what he thought of it. His response that he wouldn't be a very good Christian if he allowed such things to sway his faith. I was taken back, because such a view is damn near alien to me. Belief in the face of directly contradictory facts was something for h…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 03:07 AM
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I actually understand that. Understand, but not agree. If you'll look, you'll see the more common and even keeled voices repeatedly telling guys to lose the bitterness. The bitterness and anger is completely understandable; they (I guess 'we' now) are trying to tell guys that they are playing by the wrong rules and that continuing to follow those rules will lead to unsuccessful outcomes just like they've already experienced. The 'Confessions of a Reformed Incel' sidebar is great at this; it has …
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 01:59 AM
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"Is the search for truth really so important that you'd rather have truth than happiness?" yes. Yes. YES. A billion times "HELL YES". Until I die, every last breath will question for truth. My last drop of blood will fall in tribute to fact. My last tears will drop in search of clarity. I will sweat chasing the truth. I will suffer knowing the truth. I will fight against any man, woman, child, politician, salesman, bear, or god almighty who dares keep me from it, and when I am done you will pity…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/13 06:19 PM
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I wish I could locate the post of the person whom I'm butchering in this mis-remembered quote, but it was something along these lines. PUAs, MRAs, and MGTOW are all red pill folks who can see the situation we're all living through. Effectively, subgroups within the red pill group. PUAs see the game and play to win within that framework, doing what is best for them as individuals. In a prisoner's dilemma frame, they are the ones who would choose 'betray'. They see the deck is stacked and figure o…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/13 05:46 PM
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Except that I don't think the posts from anyone here criticize the woman for wanting to hold off on sex, rather for using the idea as a shit test on the guy. The OP respected her choice, and made it clear they could continue to see each other in this sex-less fashion, but held his ground that he would continue to see others sexually, and that could be addressed in the future if they start a sexual relationship. What would (a red pill guy) do if he were a woman? Depends on what we wanted. Frankly…
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