Did I Play This Right?

FinancialThanks1 · 2019-12-05T01:41:14+00:00

Probably didn’t need to bring up the shit you were talking about but not awful. You’re just hamstering because she hasn’t replied yet. If she doesn’t reply, it’s not because of the text you sent

TDCRedPill · 2019-12-05T01:40:48+00:00

Smooth sailing, there's nothing to comment or critique. She likes you, keep doing what you're doing.

kclanton80 · 2019-12-05T16:14:52+00:00

Don't be so concerned about her life. Who gives a shit about her house hunting. Should have just asked when she was free and left it at that.

Stop trying to build attraction through text! You "showing how much you care" does not get her pussy wet. Your focus should be on your own life goals and plans, or should at least "appear to be" to her.

There's nothing catastrophic here at all....but just consider those things and how your messages sound to her. Stop seeking to give her comfort, and reassurance of your interest. These are things that could have been briefly discussed when she sees you, and with her bringing them up. Not you.

It "appears" that you are really interested in her house hunt, and have been waiting to find out about it. Not something a high value male would do... I know you don't give a shit about her hunt, you are merely trying give her comfort and reassurance that you "care" and are a " really nice guy!!"

Again sometime that is not attractive, and not representative of a high value male. Certainly nothing that will drive her away in the short-term..…. but short-term acceptance of this behavior can lead to long-term habits which can end up the derailing things.

You will think "she loves when I check in on her, and show I care about her shit" " she is different from the others" then you start to relax little by little.... Then you stop gaming her all together. Then " she needs space" suddenly..........The game never ever ends you must always stay on guard. Rant concluded! Good luck!

ghosts_of_me · 2019-12-05T04:57:23+00:00

Nothing wrong except trying to corner her into meeting on a specific day. From my experience its best to wait until you are going somewhere fun anyway and tell her to meet you there if she wants.

anicebigrodforyou · 2019-12-05T16:21:14+00:00

Brah I just wanted a way to hit her up after our first date that went really well. It was just to follow up on a good convo we had in person before I was squeezing her ass cheeks.

Take it easy.

Jabbermouth · 2019-12-05T16:41:33+00:00

You’re free on Thursday AND Friday night? Kinda makes it looks like you have no social life.

Snowboard18 · 2019-12-05T03:12:48+00:00

That’s good just remember the 2/3 rule

Title	Did I Play This Right?
Author	anicebigrodforyou
Upvotes	0
Comments	8
Date	December 5, 2019 1:31 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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