23, Male, College. Need some insight on closing things with a girl. I've been talking to her every now and then online. Got her to come to a bar show this one time without any effort. Most of the time I talk to her online, I'm drunk so it always sounds raunchy and she picks up on that, going like "I'm not like that" or "I don't know what kind of girl you think I am."

Anyway, she's flaked on me a bunch of times. I called her out on it and she apologized saying she'd make it up some time, and finished with "you know I won't have sex with you, right?" Riiight...

So, latest interaction, I call her out on the flaking once again and tell her that 95% of the stuff she writes me is just some airhead bullshit and that she can't say what's on her mind.

So she replies with: You scare me. A lot. More than a lot of boys, because most like me and are intimidated by me. You aren't. Or at least don't show it. So you have the control. I flake because if we were to hang out, you would hold the control in the situation not me, and that's the complete opposite of my usual situations.

Clearly I have got this girl convinced that I am pretty RP-Alpha. I'm not, though, not really. I'm just okay.

Anyway, we have been talking about hanging out, but as before, she will probably flake. Completely ignore and wait for her to come looking for some pseudo-Alpha dick and just do my own thing, or apply a little pressure?

Thanks Guys.