Hey all,

I have a friend making some dumb decisions at the moment. He is a year into a relationship with a young single mum (baby not his). He is a handsome guy at university with a lot going for him, which is all completely undermined by his beta attitudes.

He recently broke up with her for about a week. I had held my tongue regarding their relationship beforehand as he had already signed for parental rights for the kid (signing up to pay child support basically) and me pointing out how fucking dumb his decision was wouldn't reverse it. I figured trying to slowly redpill the guy would be way too painful given how deep in shit he was.

He has gotten back with her and as of yet I've been unable to phone him when he isn't in the house with her - I don't want her to know that I think she is a waste of my friend's time given that if he stays with her I'll have to see her occasionally.

During their breakup I spoke to him briefly and asked if he was going to have to pay child support given that he isn't legally obliged to do so unless she wants it. Allegedly she said she wouldn't make him do that (very skeptical of this).

I'm aware from a RP perspective this whole situation is a clusterfuck. I'm looking for advice on whether or not I should explain fully how dumb staying with this chick is or just leave him in bluepill fantasy land where he is the good guy paying for her bad decisions.

Thanks guys