Need help answering a text conversation and holding frame

flplatespin · 2014-08-18T02:56:48+00:00

I think you said too much already. I would have just said let's talk in person and met with her. You can establish her as a plate face to face.

She already flaked on you before. You already overcommitted before.
A wise man once said don't pick through your own trash after taking it out. It gets messy and looks weird to the neighbors.

Outcome independence is key. Don't expect much. Good luck.

zlex · 2014-08-18T03:50:33+00:00

You are being way too passive. You're asking her too many questions and forcing her to take control of the situation. She asked you if you wanted to meet in person or not and rather than say what you wanted to do you just deferred the decision to her. Be clear. Be decisive. Don't dance around what you are trying to say. If you want to fuck this girl or whatever then take her out and show her a good time. Obviously she wants to re-connect, but you have to take control from here. She reached out, be a man and finish what she started.

EmanuelGold · 2014-08-18T04:30:29+00:00

You're making it too complicated. You've got 2 options:

Decide you're still interested > Tell her a place/time to meet (fuck).
Decide you're not interested > Delete her number and don't respond.

CrazyForYouToo · 2014-08-18T06:14:58+00:00

Yeah, I think you need to improve on your cummunication skills.

Don't be lenghty. If you are being lengthy, give it substance.

You: "Yeah, I want to talk to you about how quickly you can get out of them panties. Meet me tonight at [time, location, if not your place]. Just bring your pretty smile."

If she refuses at first. Wait. Wait. Wait. If she's interested about how quickly she can get out of her panties and envelope your penis with her vagina, but can't make that date, she will offer an alternative. If she can make that appointment, then all the better (don't you be late - always, always do what you say that you are going to do).

This way, you have not given her a reason to misinterpret your intentions and you haven't put her on the spot to answer with some petty lies to give her a chance to see you. You have taken control. You know what she ultimately wants ("The D"). Deliver. Put it in her box, or somebody ese will.

In summary: Do not be ambiguous. Be concise. Do not give her the opportunity to hamster by asking her questions that she might answer with bullshit anyway. Also, there is no law that says you have to answer her questions or stay on her topic at all. She could text you that she's concerned about global warming and ask you what are you doing on your part to save the globe. Change the subject to her fucking you by blaming her for having a hot ass and that you can cool it down for her (tongue-in-cheek, but you get my drift). Take control. You direct the show.

Title	Need help answering a text conversation and holding frame
Author	RGIIIsus
Upvotes	5
Comments	7
Date	August 18, 2014 2:30 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2dumnl/need_help_answering_a_text_conversation_and/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/need-help-answering-a-text-conversation-and.19595 https://theredarchive.com/post/19595

Comments