Back story:
I've been seeing this girl for about a month (only like once or so every other weekend) and the most we've done is kiss at the end of each date. Now this is strange to me because, well this isn't the fuckin 1950's, and I'm used to there being either more or nothing at all.
Well we have a date this evening and she drops the bomb on me that she feels like since the first couple of dates there hasn't been enough chemistry to make her romantically enclined. I guess that's lady code for I don't want to fuck you.
Anyway, I felt like towards the begining of our relationship I was less of a bitch and by this I mean I wasn't afraid to go for what I wanted, ie) holding hands or kissing or copping a feel. Somehow I got intimidated by what may just be her shyness and some other things going on in my head so I wasn't persuing her in the same way. So this leads me to why I came here with my throw away account.
How can I change/hold frame this evening back to how I acted in the beginning and she actually seemed to be into me?
We're seeing a comedy show in the city so I know it's going to be a good time. But I'm caught up between trying to have a good time, and trying to not act like a beta so she see's me in my normal light.
Any help or Cliffs Notes would be greatly appreciated.