I recently entered a new relationship and I feel as though she has the helm. I am kind of a douche bag in real life and that is how I met this girl. We have been friends for over a year and decided to sleep with each other(I decided). Since we have been boyfriend/girlfriend I have done everything for her and she has done nothing for me. She keeps saying she has issues from her past blah blah blah I went down on HER on my OWN fucking birthday. How do I fix this.