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[–]RobertCarraway8 points9 points10 points 9 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Read and lurk more. Post less. There is a subreddit for this kind of post - ASKTRP.
[+]AssassinMoses-17 points-16 points-15 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I find ur comment very unhelpful. Almost aggressive.
[–]RobertCarraway8 points9 points10 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Consider it your official welcome. The degree to which you can tolerate (or even appreciate) comments like mine will predict your success here.
[–]AGallopingMonkey3 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
If he can't deal with basic help like that and sees it as too aggressive he's got a long way to go.
[–]1nonthaki3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
The f*** . That comment was aggressive ? . Nice . Very funny troll. Didn't see you complaining so much when your ex-wife bashed You .
This subreddit is only for posting TRP ideas . Questions are meant for ASKTRP Subreddit.
[–]50pluspiller0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Some body got their feelz hurt.
[–]JJMcgray -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's par for the course here. Remember, you're dealing with A types. Aggression is the standard. Especially if you are seen as somehow "less".
He does have a point though. Lurk more. You'll get a feel of the type of folks who common here and be ready to deal with it.
I don't suggest you share much about your personal life unless you are ready to deal with "aggressive" responses , or just flat out don't care.
Good luck
[–]JesusTheThird35 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You are behaving like a 10 year old child who just ran away from home to show his parents how mad he is.
Step 1: If she knows your username, delete this shit immediately! Fuck proving anything to her you are hurting yourself and giving up any plausible deniability.
Step 2: gym membership, now
Step 3: get off the internet, hobbies, learning, fuck the pity party
Step 4: forget her, forget your friends, you are the priority for now, don't partake in any self destructive behaviour (like this post) and I promise you you will survive.
[–]AssassinMoses-1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ok thanks for the advice. I will take it to heart.
[–]Battle-Scars5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
See that place right over there >>>>> that says: You are REQUIRED to read these before posting. Ignorance of the rules is not an excuse.
Start there.
[–]MikeAlphaGolf3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If only there was some kind of collection of information for the easy perusal of newcomers. Someone should make a sidebar!
[–]ClimbingTehLadder 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You need to read No More Mr Nice Guy. The amount of times you used the letter 'I' in this post shows you're a 'nice guy' narcissist and don't even know it. Read the book or you're a lost case and should kill yourself.
[–]anddennn 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It sounds like you are still in contact with your ex. Why? Knock that shit off.
[–]stickterror 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dear god do not ever be a sugardaddy, I never understood how someone can do that to themselves..
How can a man in his mid thirties turn things around?
Well, start by going to the gym and getting a good body, it's the easiest and most drastic thing you can do. Also stop talking to the ex.
Read rule zero amd read the sidebar and internalize it. You need to use the search function of this site.
[–]Orbiter420 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
you've been a beta your hole life, not 10 years. same with me.
"Everybody was shocked and kept saying how they couldnt see it coming, and they all wished I would go back to being my old self. "
every one in my life, parents, coaches, teachers, every mentor, told me to get in line, its how society works. working hard does not earn respect, you must fight for it.
and now its time for your exodus from the social slavery, just hope you don't spend 40 years in the desert.
[–]AssassinMoses0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks. Appreciate the comment you made. I understand my post has for some reason caused some kind of negative reaction, but I was expecting a lot more comments like yours. I may not be an alpha, but I don't see what's wrong with engaging with each other even with people like me who are new. I will do more reading and work on myself. And no I don't plan on spending that long in the desert. Great metaphor btw.
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You should kill yourself honestly
[–]MeinBimmer 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You should take your own advice.
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