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"I guarantee she won't even remember or mention her cunty behavior" Lol, well she doesn't remember her behavior, but she sure does mis-remember mine. My frame has been pretty decent given the severity of the period. But she just gave me a full recount of how I've been treating her badly (refusing to engage her when she is vomiting pure hate) and I lost it. Obviously, it's my fault. My frame is not strong enough. My achilles heel is that the ONE POSITIVE I have from these experiences is when I ha…
/r/askMRP17/11/18 04:27 PM
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You clearly have not gained any proper weight. Diet is 80% of your results. Research what/how much you should be eating, track your diet with an app, and focus on lifts that improve your posture.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 12:07 PM
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Lifting is just one thing, and the most ostensible at that. ​ I do not think that word means what you think it means
/r/askTRP17/11/18 11:40 AM
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nah its all good man. A girl back in college once asked me what my parents did for work. I told her my dad was a trash collector, that my mother was a trash collector, and that my sisters were trash collectors too. My advice is to just have fun with it.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 06:33 PM
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Remind her that you are a time-traveling alien, and that you can only stay on one particular temporal-spacial reality for two months or you risk becoming locked in that space permanently. Tell you you like her, but frankly her species is doomed and that she's just barely not a monkey.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 11:57 AM
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When I first started gaining real mass, I would strut around the house in my underwear dancing like Tom Cruise in risky business. Some other user rightfully challenged the potential bro-science about relating it to testosterone, but there are definitely some very real chemical profile changes that happen.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/18 01:22 PM
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You discovered this problem... and your first thought was... let me post about this??? W.T.F.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 09:13 PM
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When you're 18 you are supposed to feel the way you do, but cut the YOLO crap, it makes you sound like a Gucci Gang degenerate who sucks rainbow pixie dicks. It's just as probable that YODOLO.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 07:37 PM
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From what I can find in the literature, there is a 1-2 hour period of elevated T after exercise then a return to full baseline. So from exercise alone, I think you may have called me out on a little bit of bro-science. There is ONE STUDY that shows that caloric excess in normal sized females increases testosterone. No studies that I can find that include men. Amazing to me how little literature there is out there on this subject. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/2648795 My personal experience…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/18 10:02 PM
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It depends. If your real question is, "How do I stop being a loser who wastes his life jerking off into a tube sock," then yes, no porn. But this will increase your libido, not decrease it.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 07:50 PM
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The stoic philosophers of ancient greece and rome had much to say about this topic. Figure out which stoic strikes your fancy - (Epictetus, Cicero, Marcus Aurelius etc) and start your day with them. ​ Unsurprisingly, those who are most obsessed with sex are (frequently) the ones not getting enough sex. So if you don't have one, maybe its time for you get a steady girlfriend who keeps your needs satisfied so that you can focus on other things. This is the largest and most under appreciated benefi…
/r/askTRP21/10/18 09:32 AM
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Equally likely that she has a family since her house is "not available" and she was not able to sneak away for a bit.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 05:32 PM
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I find that women generally prefer BRUNETTE men with MULLETS, who bleach their PUBIC area blonde and shave it into a runway strip. Just my personal experience.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 08:28 PM
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This is not a real problem. Go find hotter females. Come back with a real problem.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 08:22 PM
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Or, you can decide that it is your duty as a male to take calculated risks and therefore it is also your duty to fail forwards sometimes. OP's Nihilism is a phase, an abyss to cross.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 03:58 PM
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This OP. I'm 6'2", lifted from 17YO to 27YO, never went much above 165. Thought it was just a skinny phenotype. Now I'm an athletic 195 and wish I had started counting my calories and protein years ago. I can't over-emphasize how crucial diet is if you wish to gain healthy weight.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:56 AM
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Bad for girls - these strategies do not create attraction, but it is fantastic advice when applied to other men. Buy it today. https://www.amazon.com/Summary-Influence-up-date-real-world-ebook/dp/B076TCJ73J/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?ie=UTF8&qid=1539445321&sr=8-1-spons&keywords=how+to+win+friends+and+influence+people+by+dale+carnegie&psc=1
/r/askTRP13/10/18 03:43 PM
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This is why the core advice of TRP is to lift. High testosterone is the answer to whining and indecisiveness. Our own hormones are more powerful and more volatile than we males generally acknowledge. ​
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 09:38 AM
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Well, you're on point then, I didn't realize you are so fastidious with your diet. I'm just accustomed to people underestimating the importance of getting the diet right. I don't track my routine, I simply go for intensity and high weight. It has worked for me so far (went from 170 to 195 in healthy weight, now have a very athletic build). Keep it up!
/r/askTRP22/03/18 12:58 AM
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When you say you aim for 140G, do you track this on a fitness app? I would bump that up to 160G. Do you track your calories? You are overcomplicating it. Why would you wait to change to a hypertrophy based routine? Do it now. I am picking up from you that you might be making the mistake of focusing too much on the routine. Forget that. Lift heavy weights and make 100% sure that diet your primary focus.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 01:52 PM
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Then from a social rewards perspective your lifting doesn't matter. Focus on that. Get your diet right, its 80% of your results. You should be eating one gram of protein for every lb of weight each day. And keep your diet caloric excess until you pack on at least 10 lbs of healthy weight.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 11:46 PM
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I think the best thing you can do is continue to focus on improving your physique. How often do you lift? It's good that you are getting stronger, but have you actually gained considerable weight?
/r/askTRP17/03/18 05:25 PM
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This. If you improve, then she feels like she needs to also. You are making her uncomfortable with your changes. Keep up the good work.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:38 AM
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DO NOT BOTHER LIFTING WITHOUT ALSO TRACKING YOUR DIET. I lifted from 17-26 YO without much muscle gain. Once I got my protein and calories on-point I finally gained 20lbs of healthy weight. You'll probably ignore this advice because it is difficult to do, and that is why you will fail. You can track calories and protein intake with My Fitness Pal app. I want you to make a personal promise to yourself. Ready? Repeat after me: I will stand up for myself even if I look stupid while doing it. I will…
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:23 AM
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If you speak with assertiveness and confidence, most women will feel attraction no matter what you say. If you speak meekly and hesitatingly, most women will not feel attraction no matter what you say. It pays to be honest, but it seldom pays to be completely honest. Have fun with it. Stop overthinking it. How do you say to a chick "I don't want to ever get married because men get fucked by the court system." Do you just outright lie to them? I tell that to plenty of chicks. Most just ignore it …
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:05 AM
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Wear a bandana. Homosexuals are repulsed by bandanas. You can also pass gas directly next to them to assert your dominance.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 03:31 AM
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Pretty much all of us can relate to this. Find a girl that you are at least moderately attracted to, and go steady with her. Don't try to get the hottest girl you can, you are purposefully looking for a girl that is still going to stick around once she learns you are sexually inexperienced. Have sex with this girl until you get more experienced. Bar sluts and prostitues are ABSOLUTELY the inferior route, IMO, for many reasons. Relationships are where you become good at sex. Get in one.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 03:27 AM
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You don't kill yourself- you improve yourself. Clean your room. Wash your face. Hold your shoulders back and hold your head high. If this kills you - to own your own corner of the world socially, materially, spiritually - then fuck women, good luck finding meaning anywhere at all.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 02:03 AM
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Good summation. In a 6 month LTR now. I've been chipped at. I'm back on RP to strengthen my shell. I'm here to remind myself that for both of our sakes, I'd better keep the wild man inside well-fed. The girls get hotter. The sex gets better. Each relationship I'm in - I stay redder for longer. And yet that vicious RP cycle keeps repeating. Chip away woman - the wild man will be stronger for it.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 06:12 AM
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If you can't debate these topics without resorting to terms like "misogynistic", then you're in no position to defend TRP anyways.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 03:03 AM
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Since Monday? So you've applied dread for three days? That hardly counts as a serious attempt. I've had these "direct" conversations before, and they are the inferior way to handle these situations. Just slowly and deliberately (over weeks) withdraw, withdraw, withdraw, and eventually ghost if the situation does not improve. No need to have a overt conversation about it. Most overt conversations stem from one party's emotional inability to handle the ambiguity in a relationship. AKA weakness.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 08:11 PM
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He's not delusional. Strong posture is as important as dressing well and hitting the gym. Put the three together and you get dramatic results. Even when I dress well and my physique is on point, if I don't have unusually good posture I won't attract female eyes. Carrying yourself like you own the place is key. Good reminder OP.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 08:01 PM
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This situation is akin to a tailspin in an aircraft. You bailed out and pulled the parachute. Next time you still won't have a clue how to pull a relationship out of a fatal tailspin because you didn't use the opportunity to practice here. Its not about her, its about learning how to be an expert pilot. What you should have done is kept your mouth shut and withdrawn in other ways. There is a bit too much of a "jump ship" philosophy here at TRP. If she is getting distant, just start prepping for …
/r/askTRP25/05/17 07:35 PM
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Women are all capable of cuckoldry, of course. There are incentives on all levels, but the women at the top have more to lose, and the women at the bottom have more to gain. It's the difference between being small stack and big stack at the poker table, there is incentive to play your cards more aggressively when your back is against the wall. Think of it this way: A woman among the prole masses really desperately needs to secure the best genes she can, and if an opportunity with a true chad com…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 12:14 AM
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There is a huge factor that is not mentioned on this sub very often: class. Men cheat down, women cheat up. Among the prole class, especially the destitute class, the women are much closer to losing the genetic race, and are MUCH more likely to cuckold. Among the upper-middles, who marry doctors etc, the likelihood drop dramatically because it isn't so strongly in the female's interest. a minority of women, perhaps those in the low mate value range and who can manage successfully to escape the m…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 03:11 PM
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Yes, exactly. Next time it storms don't forget to stand on your roof and scream at the gods.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 05:46 AM
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Don't forget that sharp clothes, good hygiene, a clean haircut, and stellar posture will add 2-3 points to a man. I've known very good looking men who are the most miserable of all because they have zero game. They get a taste of high-quality female attraction, but it evaporates once the women realize they are pushovers. These are all factors, and here at Redpill we focus on what we control. You can not yet control your genetics. Thats why the focus is where it is.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 01:44 AM
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Dale Carnegie is not outdated. These are fundamental truths. The fact that the book is well known changes almost nothing.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 01:04 AM
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Bingo. Men, train your sons well to hold realistic views of women. Keep them away from Disney. We can save our sons the deep disappointment many of us experienced.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 03:52 AM
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It sounds like you're finally in a position to make this decision for yourself. Don't forget that maturing as a man is a process. It gets better, and it ends when we die. Joseph Campbell would say follow your bliss Scott Adams would say do those things that energize you I'm the leanest I've ever been Are you also the largest you've ever been?
/r/askTRP11/04/17 03:58 AM
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God, but somehow he still has a point
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 04:32 AM
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He's much taller when he stands on his wallet
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 03:18 AM
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Hey Vengefully_Yours. You have some good content, no need for us to be at odds. op attempted to assert that I and others like me are, insinuating we do not respect girls and that's a bad thing. I don't care if you respect girls, what is there to respect? Take another look at the post. When our society respects male dominance in custom and law, then we have incentive to keep our house in order. Our dominion naturally extends to management of our collective women. As it stands now, we have no ince…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 12:16 AM
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5 REASONS WHY YOUR INVESTMENT DOG IS NOT PAYING OFF
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 05:35 AM
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I agree with you that it is complex, and ultimately there are only hierarchies of competing interest. BUT. We can see clearly that when interests align amongst the powerful, they are quick to act in concert to push society in certain directions. This happens in the same way that you and I might disagree on a host of issues, but when our interests align we could easily put differences behind us.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 05:16 AM
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It didn't matter who was around, if the husband wasn't in the room and the conversation turned to sex, she would spout out the details of her married sex life without a care for who heard. My god I hate it when women do this. Makes me want to slap them upside their face. Only difference between classy women and unclassy women is that classy women know that they would look like degenerate filth if they did that. Not like any of them have a truly moral objection to it. From here on out, I don't ca…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 05:04 AM
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Look, in today's society it's every man for himself. I'm not saying he should have stayed, but it is a moral grey area at best. I understand where the family is coming from. The more pure she was when they started the more right they have to complain. Did she put him through medical school? You don't know one way or the other, but I'm more inclined to believe that she didn't. A woman's pre-wall years are the equivalent of a man's commitment and financial support during his peak years. Again, if …
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 02:21 AM
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But this is information I would have liked to read sooner. No shit. We need to know these details OP. EDIT Judging from the way he's phrasing, he's exaggerating the degree of her sluttiness.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 01:51 AM
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Find me the part of the story where he found something about her past.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 01:28 AM
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just like there's not good cats and bad cats. There are most definitely awesome cats and shitty cats. No need for a AWALT NAWALT lecture, I'm just saying that not all cats are created equal.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 01:26 AM
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Just because something is true doesn't mean you need to say it.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 01:21 AM
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OP or me? MGTOW is not for me. I could list reasons for him to get in the game, but I won't do it. His ability to take personal authority for his own attitude is far more important than any stupid reasons for or against the game.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 01:11 AM
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Will somebody ban this man-child?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 05:52 AM
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Why? I cannot understand why. For women? For others? For self improvement? I don't know. I don't care. Just decide its worth it, or decide its not. In either case you are the one who makes the decision so man the fuck up and stop asking stupid questions.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 05:41 AM
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I understand where you're coming from. It sucks. Only you can unfuck yourself. You need to take radical responsibility of your own thought processes. Meditate. There are alway many equally valid ways to look at any given situation. Stop choosing the ways that are toxic to you and others. I never used to think it was possible to choose my thoughts. Then I began meditating. Now stop feeling sorry for yourself like a bitch and get to work. And just forget approaching women till you fix your major m…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 05:19 AM
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I'm not requiring you to do anything. I have used three books on foundations and one book on Kinsey. Do whatever you want. It's perfectly ok to call you on it And here is the problem. You're not calling me out on anything. Rockefellers supported Kinsey. Thats an incontestable fact. Why they supported him is not something that is even contained in the Kinsey Bio. The motives behind their funding is contained in the other three books that I cite. The crux of my agreement does not actually hinge on…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 03:37 AM
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She looked emo, ripped jeans. Op might have been wearing nicer clothes. She probably took it as a hint that she might be homeless.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 06:25 PM
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You don't like the hypothesis. Its that simple. You rationalize that my evidence is poor or my argument unconvincing. You've just arrived at your conclusion, and you sit there intellectually pouting like a toddler of the mind, demanding that i spoon feed you more processed information while you turn your head to avoid it. Do you want me to make airplane sounds? Will that help?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 05:58 PM
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Marriage is too modern to have an impact on intelligence With strong selection pressures, considerable change can take place in as little as 8 generations or so. That Russian lab domesticated foxes in like 50 years. Marriage has had plenty of time to mold us.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 12:49 AM
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It is very difficult to understand you. Your train of thought jumps around like mad.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 12:22 AM
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He lost me as soon as he put "game" in quotes. As if game means reading tarot cards for some bitch in a bar.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 05:40 AM
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This post should get more attention. This is where I am. This is how I deal with it. No time for regret. The amount of regret in a man's life is directly related to how beta he is. Victims dwell in regret. Conquerers take their lumps and move on.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 05:15 AM
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Yes, thats my point. Like I said, the whole line of reasoning is nonsense, I was just throwing that out there to show how easy it is to justify the reverse. People are going to do what they want regardless of whatever bullshit metaphysical justification you invent.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 06:41 AM
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There is NO excuse for complacency. There is no room for concession OR, we're just in one giant never ending chain of striving, and we are trapped like sisyphus to eternally run from pain and towards pleasure, and none of it really matters because the average experience of life must be, by definition, average. Maybe the solution is meditate your life away on a mountain top and deny all appetites. Or most likely, this whole line of reasoning is nonsense.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 06:53 AM
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I agree with the Carpe Diem shit, but do we really have to take it in a YOLO direction?
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 06:17 AM
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Well I can't argue with a healthy dose of skepticism. All I suggest on this end is that you keep an open mind to the possibility that with the elite, what seems like stupidity is actually sophistication. I understand your position though, I've often said with central bank policy among other things that "they" are either stupid or brilliant, but there is little room in-between.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 05:43 AM
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Right. Either this, or they are a bunch of deluded idiots acting emotionally and mis-placing blame for the their shitty lives. In fairness.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 12:07 AM
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The expressions on the mens hopeful faggot faces said the exact same thing. One guy posted "I spent three hours on this sign and put a lot of thought into it." Seemed like a desperate plea for pity sex to me. Whatever man, these guys are hilarious. Less competition.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 11:59 PM
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Another issue which baffles me is the fact that Gates and Buffet are not leaving any significant money to their children which rules out some sort of dynasty or rationale for any long term social engineering Well you ruled out dynasty and social engineering pretty quickly. Are you sure your notions of how foundations work is accurate? Overpopulation is not really an issue for first world countries Well, yeah, not an issue after 3 generations of women liberation. Google feminism in India and Afri…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 11:09 PM
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YES. I agree with your tone, and your attitude. What I left out of the post is the ambivalence I feel towards the power structure. There actually is a lot of good done by this - depopulation is necessary. As Huxley knew, we are destined to have some tyranny at this point in our development, its just a question of whether or not the masses love their servitude.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 04:08 PM
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Toothbrushes or not, he did some solid science. Agreed. Perhaps I should have been more academic with my criticism. I know he did some good science. Do you believe that all propaganda is false? The best propaganda is true, or half-true. and no, I won't read a book on your say so OK. whatever. But the fact that they did it on purpose for power and control - this is a pretty big assertion, and should be backed up with equally big arguments This post was a 3 page word doc. I'm surprised that it got…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 04:01 PM
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I don't think it is the root of all evil. Even corrupted like it is, academia is still absolutely essential. Power influence in academia is bound to happen, men here should just be aware of it.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 03:44 PM
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Here is something that I left out for brevity, but it directly addresses your concern. Posted below. My diatribe is NOT against science. It's the incestuous relationship between political power and scientific organizations that is the problem. “Hegemony does not require active commitment by an academic constituency to legitimate elite rule. Rather, the two reinforce each other in a circular manner to form a “hegemonic bloc” sustained by formal and informal power sharing, particularly through hal…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 03:31 PM
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Earlier drafts contained a more detailed layout of what i believe are the specific goals behind this brave-new-world morality. But then I remembered what Emerson said, "never let what you don't know embarrass what you do know." I wanted to stay on firm ground, since i knew this would already be out-there for a lot of guys. It seems extremely likely that concerns with overpopulation are one of the reasons for the strategy. There is a very clear correlation between feminism and the decline in birt…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 03:26 PM
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Your fixation with naming the Jew is unhelpful to yourself and others.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 01:43 AM
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I think he's joking Willie
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 01:37 AM
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I honestly want to believe that there is someone responsible for these developments, but this boils down to tribalism I mean, if you honestly wanted to believe that, then you would simply check my sources and you'd see the astounding amount of evidence that I didn't mention to keep it brief. Assuming you are intellectually honest and not trying to reach a pre-determined conclusion. What makes you think that your theory and mine are mutually exclusive? Religion is a manifestation of tribalism.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 01:36 AM
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Great info, thank you for sharing. If you are up to it, we would benefit from a full post on this... because you are right, there is a biological war as well.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 11:29 PM
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This describes mine pretty well too
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 04:20 AM
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If you're crazy enough to attempt marriage - you damn well better have a partner whose hypergamy is tempered by religion. She'll take your money and raise your kids like shit. If it was as easy as finding another girl then we wouldn't have such a massive crisis. Finding a legitimately religious woman is the equivalent of making it socially as difficult for her to leave your marriage as it is financially difficult for you. Even Alphas stand to benefit from a level playing field.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 02:09 AM
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This. I have done cold showers in the past and can't say I notice an enormous difference. Can anyone speak to the benefit?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 01:24 AM
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God that is a great quote
/r/askTRP03/01/17 02:16 AM
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To a degree it does seem that White Nationalists have built up a boogeyman in the same way that all people villianize their perceived enemies. You don't give an even handed evaluation to someone who you don't think will do the same with you. MANY of these white nationalists are sexually and morally bluepill, so I think much or their "Jewish" character is just their condemnation of the combined elite traits of Intelligence, Power, and Redpill philosophy. That doesn't mean that there isn't a "Jewi…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 09:15 PM
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Exactly. Both women and Chad care more about attention than they do about sex, relationships, etc. Your average faggot can't afford to take attention for granted though. For them any little iota of attention gives them hope that someone will love them.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 10:11 PM
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Highly unlikely that he will surprise us. You know the game well enough that you should be able to see that you are probably deceiving yourself.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 06:02 AM
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Giving up: REDDIT/Social Media Refined Sugar All Smoking Adding: 1 step forward per day in my new project
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 03:53 AM
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Boosting testosterone? You disagree that lifting boosts testosterone??
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 03:40 AM
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Women's in-group preference will see them unite in condemnation, paying no attention to your arguments If you are charismatic enough then their in-group preference will see them unite in agreement, paying no attention to the virtue signaler. It all depends on your status in the group.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 03:36 AM
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Sounds like having some hair to be pulled will become more useful for you.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 09:22 PM
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Do I sense surpessed homosexuality and gender fluidity?
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 09:09 PM
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Feminism: 1) undermines all male hierarchies that compete with the state for power 2) slows population growth through delayed and limited maternity Tell me, do you really think Gates foundation supports feminism in the third world through pure altruism? If so I've got ocean front property in Arizona I'd like to sell you. They are stabilizing the system. Not only do they care about these issues, they actively fund feminism. Look at one of the following objectives from their website: EMPOWER THE P…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 06:21 PM
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We'll get there. TRP has only been around for a few years and already the men here are having this discussion. This is a group of men who don't shy away from responsibility and difficult questions.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 05:22 PM
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So just lie? Omit, play, divert. Don't lie.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 01:01 AM
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Nope, but excellent quote thanks for sharing
/r/askTRP26/10/16 03:18 AM
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Don't use faggot social justice words like ageism.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 12:19 AM
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This is why women can not be the creators of culture. They are vessels. They fill the empty spaces in the structure of male society, and are filled by male society. Unknown to most - women are not even the vital force behind their own liberation. The big foundations created womens lib. The elites are separating society into it's component parts and they encourage strife between all parts. Divide and conquer. We are a conquered people. Father and son. Man and Wife.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 04:38 AM
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An old master sergeant of mine described panama as exactly the same back in the 70's. Guess I missed the golden age to be a man in the US military.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:09 AM
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Yeah sounds like you have quite a few new stressors in your life. Your drive will return once you get settled in and stress levels return to normal.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 03:54 AM
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Interesting story, I'm surprised your husband was so open with you about that.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 03:25 AM
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Simply make sure you've put something on the end of it as Jeremy Kyle says. Condom use is only partially effective. But yes, I agree that you should always come up with a plan of action and then not worry.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 03:23 AM
1

Wish you'd been around to give me this sort of advice when I was chewing on frats and weighing the douche factor. Listen to RedSkeller OP.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 06:49 PM
1

Cut back on porn and masturbation OP. Also, how much stress are you under? High stress with change your sex drive.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 06:43 PM
5

Something comforting in this. The reddest pill is a pill of impermanence and suffering. Blue Pillers who lay claim to these deep truths associated with Eastern Philosophies - they're like little boys trying to wear their father's shirt. Adorable.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 06:25 AM
22

I mean, the only real alpha trait is the supermodel fucking, but you get the idea What about iron-clad frame?!? Thats alpha as FUCK. The entire national media is slandering him, and he he's rattling back bullet after bullet under intense pressure. The man eats shit-tests for breakfast. Then puree's them for lunch. I don't think I'll vote for him, but I don't know how this is even an issue of contention.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 05:31 AM
3

The decision isn't really made by the citizens. With a population this dumb that's a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 05:19 AM
5

Clinton was no architect - more of a project manager. She has a part to play in a much larger scheme. For those familiar with the historical escapades of the intelligence world the Arab Spring was clearly artificial revolts engineered by western powers. Cant speak to Scalia's death. Wouldn't surprise me though.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 05:15 AM
1

Women are attracted to dangerous men, but they are also very risk averse. You need to qualify yourself to them - even if they find you physically attractive. So find a way to speak to them for at least a couple minutes before you ask them to commit to anything. Be playful, give them a hard time, turn on the charm. Your short interaction with them is telling them what a date with you would be like. Spend a few minutes making them realize it will be fun and no-pressure, because right now they are …
/r/askTRP15/10/16 02:47 AM
1

Not the worst thing in the world
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 02:01 PM
1

This is hilarious - I have an ancient book on sex - "DR Halls sexual knowledge", and in it they say symptoms of masterbation include shifty eyes and acne. And some asshole up the thread says his acne improved.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 02:00 PM
4

You remind me of Kevin Spacey in American Beauty
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 01:34 PM
1

Everything in moderation gents. True. My TRP addiction has made me fit, high energy, dressing well, waking up at 5AM, financially advancing, and killing it with the ladies. BETTER CUT BACK.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 04:59 AM
2

Or observing and positively changing your own thought patterns.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 03:15 AM
3

Your framing is terrible. Obviously this is something you see the need for in your life. So lets re-frame. The desire to string together words to form a sentence to get the approval of women just seems dreadful. YOWZA that frame sucks. You definitely should just be a hermit if that's the best you can do. Try one below. See what fits: "How much cheeky behavior can I get away with in one interaction." This one is great: "I'm going to push the limits of what I'm allowed to say" Sometimes I like to …
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 02:17 AM
1

Making sure every miserable beta had his own miserable slice of ass to call his own was the bedrock our society was built on. The contract (2.0) is void now, but if he wants to get married knowing full well the risks and how hard it is, then more power to him. It's none of your damn business. Obviously most men who rationalize this really don't understand women that well, but some do, and some men are gonna make that choice. Unless I move to a country with marriage 1.0, I wont do it - so I'm not…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 01:25 AM
3

If you aren't master of yourself then someone else is master of you.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 01:59 PM
1

Just keep it simple and do 1 gram per day OP. 50 grams of protein a day is very inadequate.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 01:04 AM
1

Yes. I'm actually 6'3 too. 230-240Lbs, single digit body fat, no AAS usage. Jesus, you're a beast. No AAS? What kept you on track after the noob gains? do you do a bulk/cut alternation with your diet? I'm 6'1 and 195Lbs... struggling to make long-term gains now that noob gains are over.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 12:52 AM
1

Yeah, in some ways probably. It seems to be complicated though. There is a spectrum along these lines Black>Caucasian>Asian "Literature is reviewed on differences between the three groups in rate of ovulation, intercourse frequencies, sexual attitudes, developmental precocity, size of genitalia, secondary sexual characteristics, and biologic control of behavior that accord with this formulation"
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 12:36 AM
1

This is not /u/sensitiveduck's original idea. This is scientific terminology applied to trends that many have observed. As you can imagine, politically incorrect ideas like this are totally rejected by establishment academics; similar to how they reject differences in sex. We all know whether or not it's PC has nothing to do with it's truth content. HBD chick doesn't talk about K-selection much, but she is a good guide to start taking you down this rabbit hole.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 12:10 AM
13

The pimp is battle hardened and can accurately value women at their true worth...almost zero. It's fair to say they are overvalued. No need to jump the shark.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 11:55 PM
1

If you don't know then an explanation won't help. It doesn't hurt me, lets put it like that.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 11:29 PM
1

Amazing. I agree with this, but I don't know why. It just feels right.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 04:24 AM
4

I'm not telling you to stay loyal, but don't be blatant about it. Keep it in control, let your girl suspect it's happening, but don't shove it in her face Did even read his fucking comment? Relax broseph.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 04:16 AM
1

You should ELI5 for me... I don't understand the moral of the story
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 04:07 AM
3

Jesus the level of discourse on this sub is fantastic. I love you guys. no homo.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 04:05 AM
10

One thing OP didn't mention: everyone needs to remember names for god's sake. Make a point of it. Repeat it mentally. Everybody's name is like a keycard to initiate conversation with them at any point in the future. 1000% more natural to return to someone and say "Whats up ____" than it is to try and do it without remembering that persons name.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 03:55 AM
1

Me being what
/r/askTRP05/10/16 03:37 AM
1

Absolutely. Keep in mind that I'm, tall, white, better than average looking, and muscular, and I would only do this sort of stuff with a woman who I sensed seems open to my advances anyways. So in this context I can do just about anything and it will work If I do it confidently and with a basic level of social awareness.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 02:52 PM
1

This is exactly the opposite of what the other guys are saying.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 04:41 AM
1

Consciously or subconciously it comes off as unconfident. Speaking like a doofus definitely will. Not speaking at all? You'll come off as a badass if you do it right. Girls will be curious. I would use my phone to text for communication as suggested - and I wouldn't say a damn thing. Think of bad-boy archetypes who say nothing at all.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 04:32 AM
2

Just memorize a couple quotes on the subject. Either of the following ought to shut them up: "Men marry because they are tired, women, because they are curious: both are disappointed" – Oscar Wilde "To marry means to do everything possible to become an object of disgust to each other." - Arthur Schopenhauer
/r/askTRP04/10/16 03:20 AM
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I've been facing the same delimma. I've brainstormed briefly for the both of us: Icebreakers: Give a high-five when passing to the water fountain or whatever. Seems stupid, but just this basic contact will establish a connection. Easy and reusable for first contact. Practical, since one or both probably have headphones. Ask her to spot you then choose the smallest weights on the rack. Struggle. (funny if you're big, not funny if you're a toothpick) Give her shit for not spotting you properly. we…
/r/askTRP04/10/16 03:02 AM
5

I think a lot has to do with being in your head man. I have been all over the place. From being so into my head. I'm the same. Isn't it amazing that one day you can be moderately uncomfortable with one-on-one convo, and the next you can dominate a large social space with your charisma. So much depends on context. The silence part is interesting, I like your thoughts there. The biggest change for me happened when I started working rooms like you did at the wedding. I think that introverts see guy…
/r/askTRP04/10/16 02:28 AM
3

I think the real objective is to find meaning. Ive recently realized the degree to which I'm using TRP to carry on with hedonism, which I despise. If you use plates for a purpose, that's one thing, but most of us just end up finding women to masturbate with. If we're not forming relationships or children, then its masturbation. This is not pro-marriage, just a fact. I'm hesitant to end up like Jack Nicholson in "The Departed." An old, washed up player without a legacy. COLIN: All that murdering …
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 01:58 AM
1

Apparently they didn't think your product was as good as you thought it was.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 01:35 AM
3

BAM. Agree and Amplify. I'd tell her I'm going to preach to the unwashed heathens and tell them how great feminism is. Then I'd refer to myself as "Gym Jesus".
/r/askTRP02/10/16 12:20 AM
1

Classic consumerist mindset Classic hippy crap. You know all those drugs that you claim haven't derailed your priorities? Yeah.. they've derailed your priorities. Now here comes the part where you hamster away about how enlightened you are compared to me.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 11:52 PM
1

Its not either-or. Using the either-or fallacy is one way in which poor people misconstrue it to feel better about themselves. Thinking about it this way is probably hurting you in ways you don't realize. The point is to have a mission, work hard, AND enjoy life. Think wall-street boys. You think they are on their yachts in their 40's thinking "I wish I hadn't wasted my 20's"?
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 07:40 PM
1

I'd like to see a post on story telling, if you or someone else feel up to it. It's always been - and still - is a weak point for me.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 07:36 PM
2

Ironically even when rejecting men women are still dependant on them. Something exactly like this happens in our psychology as well. This dynamic is part of the game. It's not specific to women. To be free of it is the realm of gods, not men.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 04:52 PM
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Seems more like top 10% to me. The success curve is exponential, but the point where it becomes clear that its exponential seems to be at that 10% mark.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 04:49 PM
2

Does the fact that some have larger tits than others prove that no standard template exists? This was a metaphor. Here's my point: we have psychological predispositions that are just as pronounced and standard as our physical predispositions. E.G. Hypergamy. Some are better, some are worse, but they all have these same things. That's what I was getting at with the tits. On a level beyond physicality, there's no standard template for a woman. This sub is entirely founded on the observation that t…
/r/askTRP30/09/16 07:30 PM
1

AWALT is overly simplistic, but your views aren't much better. implies that women are bred from some standard template They all have tits and lady bits. That's not a standard template? Does the fact that some have larger tits than others prove that no standard template exists?
/r/askTRP29/09/16 06:50 PM
1

It won't .... ... make you more charming. Uh I don't know what sort of coke you've done, but I'm definitely significantly more charming and confident. (when I've done it. I don't very often, for reasons stated by others)
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 06:17 AM
2

Go over to married red pill. They do this sort of stuff. Trust but verify... and you are verifying.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 06:08 AM
2

I agree with you, we RP men need RP therapists. There is deep wisdom and psychological insight here. Each endorsed contributor probably has more practical psychological knowledge than your average masters psych student. The first place I would look is on this sub. Find some guys who seem knowledgeable and helpful and get them to help you sort it out. You don't seem off-balance or attention seeking, I'm sure you can find answers here. Outside of that - I would seek out prior military, old, male t…
/r/askTRP29/09/16 06:04 AM
1

Lets look at your final sentence: Is there a way to internalize TRP to the point that my actions will be RP, and still be as fluid and natural as my BP actions from today? This will last until you fully internalize TRP. You are developing skills now that (over years) will become who you are, not how you act. Focus on the process. Looking towards the goal too much is counter productive.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 05:49 AM
1

Is it going to be learned helplessness, or will americans be the sleeping giant, woke? Americans will be the sleeping midget, woke. If this country had the same demographics/beliefs that it did 80 years ago it would be a different story.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 05:05 AM
1

Ignorance is fine for those who have no ability to act on knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 04:57 AM
1

It felt like he was pulling punches
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 04:54 AM
2

I don't do coke very often for the same reasons why I wouldn't want an LTR doing coke. Has absolutely nothing to do with Christianity.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 04:40 AM
1

The only thing you need to prepare for is the success you'll have as all the 20 somethings choose you over the boys their own age. You see all the posts by older men loving life right? What on earth makes you think that NYC is going to be any different?
/r/askTRP29/09/16 04:33 AM
1

Is it possible to achieve this amount of clarity and mental peace while at the same time being RP? Yes. There is no conflict between RP and Meditation. I've been doing both for years. What the fuck is going on with this? Meditation will stir up issues that you are dealing with. You are watching yourself more closely now. Thought patterns are changing. Meditation used to cause anxiety for me - but that's because I began processing fears that were suppressed. Your old ways are resurfacing because …
/r/askTRP29/09/16 04:15 AM
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This needed to be said. I see a lot of men on here doing what we all do on occasion- justifying the easy decision. For example one guy was pissed off that women dare shit-test him. Thought he was too good to deal with that. The reality is that shooting down shit-tests from attractive women is conversationally some of the most fun you will ever have. Fatties and losers gonna hamster though. Cuz it takes work and sacrifice, and they don't have it in them.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 03:19 AM
1

I understand your point, and I agree with it. Keep in mind that this thread is primarily speaking to failure as it relates to fear. Your model works once you can process failure as pure information and don't load it with an insane number of personal value judgements.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 05:21 AM
5

what is the point of MGTOW and Red Pill? Personally, I enjoy the feeling that I get when women want to fuck me and men want to be me (or be friends with me). TRP - induced changes have made it so that I feel like I'm walking through life with the wind at my back instead of the wind at my face. Are we pandering to women? Very fine line there.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 02:36 AM
1

Also, FIND A MALE BARBER. I can't tell you how much better my haircuts have been since i started going to this guy. I hardly even had to tell him what I wanted.. he just.. figured it out and then improved it. These cost cutter females would listen to me explain EXACTLY what I wanted and then do something totally different. You're self esteem is worth way more than the extra $20.00 a month you'll spend on a solid male barber.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 02:28 AM
1

Exactly. I am very fond of my semen receivers.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 02:04 AM
3

THIS. THIS is the takeaway. Once you remove all that shit, what can they accuse you of? Preferring traditional relationships? Well they can fuck right off. I talk about men and women all the time, I just never tie it back to the sub. No-one is going to shame me away from having respectable opinions.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 01:57 AM
1

The paradox of this "game" is that nobody wins: everyone dies at the end This is a non-sequitur. Just because everyone dies does not mean that no one wins. There are clear winners and losers. It is no coincidence that people tend to feel good about themselves if they expand their power, mate well, and produce healthy children. So what does this mean to us? NOTHING. Life cannot be weighed by the living. The same goes for THE GAME, since this is intricately bound to life itself. One could say that…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 11:00 PM
1

Everyone knows that for centuries the Jews and Asians have had secret underground dungeons where they tie white men up and milk them for their sweet sweet idea nectar.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 05:00 AM
2

She's a fucking criminal with the worst of them, but the one thing she isn't is a clueless woman wanting a handout. Oh god man, for some reason this just nailed it. You're on-point.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 04:57 AM
2

Stuff you buy cannot fulfill you Well when one has a void as unique as yours . . .
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 04:48 AM
2

Another way to put it is that the less power you have, the more awkward a silence seems. If you ever notice two powerful people having a showdown notice how it's the less powerful people who are made to feel uncomfortable.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 05:39 AM
1

I see value in your words, but I have one major objection Life is not a game, it's a circle..It's only become a game because humans can see the circle for what it is Life can be both a game and a circle. When creatures compete through evolution, this is the game. This is hardly an opinion - I assume that you are onboard with evolution and can appreciate this. We obviously did not create evolution. You give us too much credit. Nature is red in tooth and claw.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 02:50 AM
1

Ok, you're losing me MacNulty. But perhaps you can enlighten me. If only humanity had a point of reference to a relationship like this, the matrix would literally reboot, instead it's full of Smiths who just want more and more power. Now -you're in TRP, where we specialize in acknowledging often unpleasant truth. You realize, of course, that every single living thing is a Smith, right? This game is a power game. Even if you opt out, or make some shining example of defiance, you're still just rea…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 05:14 AM
1

Lester: McNulty has a theory... Bunk: Does he now? Lester: You deductive motherfucker, you. I've heard all this shit before, MacNulty. But for some reason this hit home hard. In all the areas I have tried to take from the world - it's been like pulling water from a rock. But as soon as you try to give to the world you do feel like something unique happens. I appreciate this thought way more than all the bullshit navel gazing that has been going on as the men on this sub wade through nihilism in …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 12:59 AM
5

Hey OP: Colombia has yet to be over-run by gringos. We should STFU so that the other shitlords remain ignorant. K?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 12:34 AM
1

This is a defense mechanism. We can all clearly see that. Whether or not you move past it is up to you.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 11:05 PM
22

This faggot likes tranny porn and he says this... the nerve.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 12:06 AM
4

OP is laying out some wisdom here, and you can't see it because you are projecting your own misunderstandings into his argument. Read his post again, then look at your response. Notice how many words you put in his mouth, and ideas in his head. The reality is that women really do treat virile men exceedingly well. Many will give you free things. Earning their eager submission is a fantastic feeling.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 04:19 AM
7

Habits are built just as effectively when speaking to a 40 year old. And it's the habit you're after.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 03:47 AM
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Hamstering. There are ways to indicate you are being playful that don't scream "capitulating loser." I love pushing boundaries. NEVER EVER use "jk". Wink. Easy, playful, confident. Give a playful nudge, punch (playful) or poke ignore mis-step, and follow up with something that genuinely expresses interest and respect, so that they quickly move on. I can forgive you for being borderline offensive. I cannot forgive you for being a borderline offensive wimp. Women feel the same.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 03:20 AM
1

I didn't want to bog my comment down with caveats. If you don't have the respect and status in a certain environment then you clearly shouldn't say things like this. We all wear multiple hats. I you are in a corporate environments where there are always bigger fish, HR departments, ETC. Then yeah, obviously you don't have the clout to say whatever the fuck you want.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 05:49 AM
5

Everything is about respect and status. If you have the frame and confidence that Gavin has, then you can say all this and more. Your average Redpiller is nowhere near expert-level Gavin McInnes.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 12:26 AM
1

The approach I'm suggesting is a more feminine way of communicating - so in a way it is BP. I've actually been thinking about this topic all afternoon. Even though it originally rubbed me the wrong way I definitely appreciate the post. I might not have spent as much time thinking about the topic if it weren't for the delivery style. We live in the Kali-Yuga. It's difficult to find a moral anchor.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 11:36 PM
4

Tip for future writing: don't use the word "You" in an accusatory way. There is a lot of truth here, but you're coming off as a self-righteous ass-crammer. When I moralize (and I definitely do) I make sure to use terms like "we" and "our" so that people understand that I am trying to lift "us" up, not shit down "their" throat. Do you have any answers, or did you just want to take a dump on my face?
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 09:37 PM
72

I'm stopping him. /u/Baylien2 - stop it.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 08:54 PM
2

Women were never on our side. It just so happened that our self-interests coincided. Is there a difference? If I were to form a combat-bond with another man would you say the same thing? He was never on your side, but laying in the mud getting shot at - your self interests coincided? At my job - I forgive mistakes from my superiors and work hard for them, and they do the same for me. The reason why we have have this positive sentiment over-ride is that we are in the same boat. We MUST depend on …
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 03:47 PM
1

Yup, that's what I'm saying.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 01:38 AM
1

Obviously not everyone is going to maximize their potential. It's the movie theatre effect - if you and I are the only ones standing, then we see better. If everyone stands, then we see just as well as if no-one was standing. As TRP becomes more mainstream, more and more men will stand. So we can probably agree that you better stand the hell up before everyone else stands too, because then it really will be impossible to compete against superior genetics.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 09:41 PM
1

Useless links. trash. you sounded stupid - full stop.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 05:32 PM
2

This is a phase. It will go away, come back, go away again. George Clooney fell in love with a lawyer a couple years back. They're probably divorced now, but he's a good example of a guy who has it all, and who got hooked by the interesting bombshell. There aren't many out there, but interesting bombshells do exist. You are still in a place where you expect woman to be something she isn't. She is an empty vessel. Our society is so vapid and stupid that these empty vessels are usually full of the…
/r/askTRP04/09/16 05:24 PM
2

I know what you mean but that's such a blanket statement that it doesn't mean much. There are TONS of guys in the 70-80% portion of the curve who could be top 10% if they dressed better, learned game, learned to dance, groomed better, etc etc. There are also tons of guys in the 50-60% that could be 70-80%.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 04:19 PM
1

Is this trait maladaptive for men? How? Yes, men who were impregnated tended not to have any children who lived, in this sort of situation. I don't have any studies to back that up.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/16 04:04 PM
9

Consider it your official welcome. The degree to which you can tolerate (or even appreciate) comments like mine will predict your success here.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 10:23 PM
9

Read and lurk more. Post less. There is a subreddit for this kind of post - ASKTRP.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 09:57 PM
2

That is a link to "Vidya Tree Modern World College." One of the mission statements is "Caring without conditions". The term cognitive intelligence is only used when juxtaposed with the term emotional intelligence - and even then you won't find any credible sources using this stupid redundant term.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 09:51 PM
4

These atheist rants are so irritating. So you figured out that religion isn't literally true. Here, have a nobel prize, idiot.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 09:29 PM
0

You have the cognitive intelligence of a five year old. As opposed to digestive intelligence? People in glass houses...
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 09:20 PM
1

This. OP is being a bit optimistic by calling it "cognitive dissonance". In reality it is "SMV dissonance" - and the women are actually calling your bluff. As opposed to a more honest reaction caused by confusion.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 09:02 PM
1

I have no idea what you are talking about all of a sudden. You must have created a straw-man of me.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 08:40 PM
1

One opinion is based in natural history. The other opinion is based in wishful thinking. Who hamsters hardest? Who is the most tightly bound: the slave who knows he is a slave, or the slave who believes himself free?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 08:20 PM
1

Checkbooks have replaced spears. Same old game, new rules. When you run from her shit tests or society's power games you turn your back on the tiger. You don't want to believe that life is struggle - and this why you hamster. It's an eternal struggle. There is no escape. Accept it.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 08:00 PM
1

Texting rules are for newbies, and we all know plenty of guys who need it. Just another set of training wheels for men who have not yet learned to ride the bicycle of masculinity intuitively.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 07:11 PM
1

Lot of David D in there too.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 05:42 AM
25

A few parroting monkeys made you want to stop? Son, you never started.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 03:13 AM
1

You gotta do a better job of identity concealment. Photoshop out all features except baldness.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 12:57 AM
1

BRB, gonna go masturbate in public
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 12:55 AM
2

This OP. Unless you were asking permission, in which case: Granted.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 12:47 AM
2

This guy has posted the same question in three locations. I think its a throwaway for a dude who has already posted this question before. This guy wants someone to wipe his ass for him. Please refrain.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 12:40 AM
3

Enjoyit!
/r/askTRP30/08/16 12:28 AM
1

Did your bulking up coincide with you finding TRP and game, by any chance? No. I started learning game back in college when Style and Mystery were first becoming known, about 8 years ago or so. I have many years of constant but modest game improvement to act as a control. I gained 20 pounds after a girlfriend and I broke up a year ago - in hopes of making her sorry, of course. My bulking up did coincide with considerable wardrobe improvements and a posture transformation though, so your point is…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 01:23 PM
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How do you know? Because I have personally experienced the change where women started looking at me like a sexual object. Increased confidence is part of it, but the confidence also comes from a feedback loop because women want to sex you more. Most game is based around having none and using psych principles so it doesn't matter. Yeah, but that is short-term nightclub game. Why have hollow, fake smv when you can have the real thing? It's just like selling any product. You can sell crap and make …
/r/askTRP29/08/16 01:01 PM
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Well shit now that makes sense. What's funny is they are right in a way.. something has broken in me. But it's not from having too many vaginas. It's from seeing females in an accurate light.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:27 AM
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yuck!
/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:10 AM
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Game and lifting are two sides of the same coin. If I had to choose one - i'd choose game. But you're way off the mark with you're idea that it only helps as far as confidence goes. Game is just an understanding of how to communicate SMV. It works a lot better if you actually have SMV to communicate. This is where lifting comes in.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:07 AM
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How is the USA being dismantled? Start here. After you've read that, then go here. And this classic, of course, don't forget Tragedy and Hope. So sorry but no, I've studied this period a lot and I'm afraid to say you're wrong.. You'll get a sense for the behindthe-scenes realpolitik when you read the books I linked you to. Then we can circle back around and discuss WWI-WWII. Your studies are incomplete. There are a lot of Redpills; sexual theory is just one Redpill among many.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 09:16 PM
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Or C): A and B are not mutually exclusive. Western Elites (call them Jews if you want) use the natural development A to serve their purpose. Got a problem? Blame it on the White Patriarchy - a convenient scapegoat. Each day we can create a new minor victim group instead of uniting against our common corporate antagonists. Ending the family happens to serve the dual purposes of lowering birthrates and weakening other naturally occurring patriarchies, I.E. competition
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 08:13 PM
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Zionism, Communism, and Globalism are tightly interconnected movements. They are really all just expressions of the preferences of the Western ruling elite (who tend to have a specific race). So when you say they hated the west for the treaty of Versailles - you are correct - except that the forces that they saw as "pushing" the treaty of Versailles and other Anti-German initiatives were exactly those forces that we would now call Globalism. A lot of people don't like that the USA is being disma…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 07:55 PM
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No, he did what was natural. Getting fucked is very natural for a man like that. He's such a bitch I almost want to fuck him myself.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 05:23 AM
1

Old school Paganism was Red. Not this Mother Earth shit. Confucianism was Red.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 04:48 AM
1

"In woman is a riddle, and everything about woman has one solution - it is called pregnancy." - Nietzsche
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 05:27 AM
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Don't show weakness to a woman, reserve that to mother for your friends. FTFY. Your mother is a woman. You do not show weakness to women.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 05:15 AM
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Aim that neckbeard cannon of yours. I don't think it's as big as you think it is. Nihilism is no stranger to TRP.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 04:52 AM
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GLO is wrong on this point. I agree with everything else. Lesbians don't have lesbo bars because in the homo lottery Gay men received 9/10 of the promiscuity genes of both sexes. Lesbians just don't go out to bars as often, and when they do, gay bars work just fine for them. There is no mystery. That simple.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 04:25 AM
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As I mature as a man (as we all mature) I've finally gotten to a place where I sometimes exhibit this type of quiet, refined authority. I haven't been prepared for the response from women. They are in awe. They drown you in compliments. Its like you're the only fully grown man in a sea of children, where everyone is looking for a daddy. It's a spiritual process, what we're doing. You somehow tap into a universal truth, dig a stake into the cosmos, and everything begins to revolve around you and …
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 06:49 PM
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For all the young'uns out there - this is also the best way to get an STD. Not saying you can't do it in a relatively clean college town and get away with it for years (I have) - but you are basically selecting hard for high partner count sluts.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 04:53 PM
1

Makes sense. Now that I think about it, one of the few black girls I have had sex with did this to me. So I was wrong about never having had experienced it.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 04:45 PM
1

This is semi-sensitive information, but what is your race, age, and location? As a late 20 something white man in the west, I have NEVER experienced anything like that.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 02:56 PM
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Should come easy if you just stop trying so hard. Once you understand the principles. 90% of men do not know how to dress well. They don't know how to groom. They don't lift. If you get to the point where you have personally seen the power of these things - and you still don't do them, then that's a legitimate choice. The problem is that most men don't know that there is even a choice involved. They dress shitty, act shitty, look shitty, and justify it all under the umbrella of "I do what I want…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 03:08 PM
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In my experience the types of women I attracted when I was RP If you can just stop being RP, then you're not RP. One does not simply doff it like a hat. You're talking about spitting game. My current plate I got without RP theory You didn't get shit without RP theory. RP principals work regardless of whether the actors involved are aware of them. Its like the laws of physics. Just because you stop thinking bout them doesn't mean they stop applying.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 01:51 PM
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had onitis. I know. I screwed up. But how, if I survive, can I bounce back? You didn't screw up brutha, you're screwing up. Present tense. I've got something that you are going to say to yourself 50 times a day until you believe it. Listen to this shit carefully: I am a man. I will fail. I will struggle. I will suffer. And no matter how much shit this world throws at me, I will spit in it's face and continue. (whatever variation of that you choose) Do you see how that is your redemption? You are…
/r/askTRP13/08/16 05:27 AM
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I got a good chuckle from your response Ashes. OP - this problem of yours is a non-problem. You know how I'd handle this? I'd laugh. It's funny. I'd make her feel dumb as fuck for asking me that, and I wouldn't even need to say a damn thing. That's offensive that she even asked you that bullshit. Now lets talk about your testosterone levels, because that's where the actual issue is here. DO YOU LIFT?
/r/askTRP13/08/16 05:04 AM
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You are either: A) extremely narcissistic or B) Not really that into her It's probably a combination of both. Yes, it's weird. If you "taper her off' of one sleep over a week, you downgrade her to plate. You're breaking up with her. So either break up with her or stop being such a whiner. Try these words, "You irritate me when you sleep over, so we're not going to do that any more." - That oughta to keep the bitch out of your house.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 04:46 AM
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We should tie our sense of self-worth with how we spend our time. To distill this even further: your solution is to turn from a results oriented outlook (being better) to a process oriented outlook (becoming better). For those interested in this extremely valuable frame change, "The Practicing Mind" is the best book out there. Even though this line of thought is useful there is an element of futility in it. What's left out is just how damn good it feels. We've been chasing power our entire lives…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 03:22 AM
1

I've been nofap for two months or so now. There is increased drive all around. More drive at the gym and I make more effort to flirt with the ladies since that's my only release. I think there are marginal positive benefits. A lot of the guys take it to a cultish level tho.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 08:24 PM
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It reminds me of that spy movie with Tom Hanks that just came out - "Bridge of Spies". The Russian spy gets caught and is totally cool and collected. Someone says "aren't you worried?" and he just says "would it help?". I thought to myself... that guy gets it. Be like him. Movie sucked imo, but that Russian dude's stoicism stuck with me.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/16 05:11 AM
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It actually felt good that I understood what happened and was kind of amused by it all. Amazing how much serenity is gained through understanding. Back when we were clueless there were a million question marks to torture us. When you understand situations you understand what is within your control and what is outside it; that is the recipe for Stoicism.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 10:08 PM
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I think this current girl knows me better than I know myself. She says things sometimes that make me realize she fucking remembers EVERY LITTLE THING I HAVE EVER SAID IN PASSING. Like, who the hell pays that much attention? It's flattering. Makes my life easy, but it's almost fucking creepy. Makes me want to be careful what I say.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 09:33 PM
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When he tries turning that ship around it will give him a sense for how important it is not to fuck it up the next time.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 09:23 PM
3

Exactly. You're slightly bored. Indifferent. Make it clear you are thinking, "I'll just finish my fried pickles over here while this ass-clown does his thing."
/r/askTRP04/07/16 08:21 PM
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I've been at this shit for 10 years and I'm barely to the point where I feel like I can offer men serious advice regarding women. Becoming a man is a lifetime affair. 2 months is bare bones minimum. Bleached white bare bones.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 05:13 AM
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Those who gain from the EU also own the Central Banks. They can dump the economy of any country that attempts sovereignty and blame it on the attempt. The people are too dumb to know otherwise. I bought my first newspaper in years last Saturday to celebrate your vote. The New York Times reads "Global Shocks After Upheaval In Britain" and "Investors Gripped by a Panic Last Seen in 08." That's not an objective newspaper article. It's a threat. Much respect from the U.S.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 04:51 AM
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Started reading Quigley in Afghanistan years back. It is incredibly encouraging to see him discussed and up-voted on TRP. Besides "Tragedy and Hope", the #2 book that forms the cornerstone of my political world view is The Molecular Vision of Life. Like Quigley, the scholarly credentials of this book are so solid that it is beyond reproach. The Rockefeller foundation funded the "life sciences" for reasons other than pure charity. Surprise surprise. Henry Pratt Judson, first choice for Rockefelle…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 04:41 AM
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Somebody give this guy one of those red number ones by his name, for god's sake.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 04:01 AM
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I just developed a plan for when (if) something similar to this happens to me in the future. I'll share it for collective use: "If you're going to hit on (or buy a drink for) RobertCarraway's girl, you need to buy him a drink too. That's the rule." THEN, after the drink is bought, start a running commentary of how he is doing, and give him tips: "She likes cats, talk about cats" "That was a harsh comment, but I think you can rebound from it." Use it as a genuine opportunity to have fun. You'll c…
/r/askTRP04/07/16 02:29 AM
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Just because white on black rape is nearly nonexistent these days doesn't mean that if you had a house slave with a banging body... just being real here... something about the dynamic.... it definitely happened. The majority of what would be interpreted as rape was probably consensual sex though. Makes a lot of sense from the female perspective to go along with that. This whole topic is fucked up. I understand it better than most, and its all fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 04:26 AM
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Listen to RP-doctor. I lifted on and off for a decade without serious gains. Then started eating properly. Take whatever you think is the proper diet and then triple it, like you are force feeding a chicken before slaughter. You will see changes.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 04:10 AM
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Women, specially, don't really hold strong views about anything. Except womenz rights, and every other libtard topic. Women tend to take the opinion of the dominant man in their life. And for these poor women the state and the telly are daddy.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 02:45 AM
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Out of curiosity, do you look neotenous? Do you have a "baby face" but act dominant? edit: I see you responded to this question already. NM.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 08:57 PM
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This gives me a better idea where you come from. I am a former libertarian and am prior military myself. I proactively campaigned for Ron Paul back in '08. A friend and I now coordinate a small right-wing group in our city. We are almost all prior-libertarians. One of the points of confusion is in the term "The Right". Most of the things that you associate with that term, I do not. What you describe are "conservatives". They are part of the right, but only a part. Right and left are terms that b…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 05:09 PM
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right wingers are very belligerently wrong in the face of rational, well-documented evidence. I'll bite, what areas? I would argue the the exact opposite. I'm interested in engaging in this conversation if we can both agree to be as sincere as possible, seeing as 99% of these conversations are just dick-wagging. That falls on me too.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 01:20 AM
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let's not become condescending When I goofed up last year and posted about it, the men over at Married RedPill tore me a new asshole. Complete with condescension. I hated it, but I deserved it, and I'm glad they set me straight. My life is better than ever thanks to my new asshole. If some guys leave because their feelies get hurt, then that just separates the wheat from the chaff. I'm not overly concerned. Could also do without a lot of the right-wing politics invading a forum about sexual stra…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 12:39 AM
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Hail Brodin (PBUH) - I did the repetition thing for shits and giggles only. The reality is that for her to be his equal is exactly what dries her up. I don't really care how he meant it. You can call it doctrine if you want, but from my real-world experience it is just simply true. Doctrine or not.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 09:31 PM
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Your equal does not want you.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 07:48 PM
2

Nietzsche saw a host of catastrophes steadily approaching This is what is so brilliant about Nietzsche. We sit here in the Kali Yuga and act wise - when the degeneracy is obvious and right in our faces. In the modern world you need to try NOT to see it. Nietzsche saw the changing tides in the 19th century - a time that any of us would consider "the good old days". He was a figure as powerful as Jesus of Nazareth. The Anti-Christ.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 05:59 AM
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Wrong. Immanuel Kant is verbose and academic. David Hume is verbose and academic. Nietzsche is perfect. He's 100% accessible to any Red pill man who reads fairly regularly, has a decent attention span, and has an above average IQ. For anyone reading this who might be on the fence about reading Nietzsche: Nietzsche wrote wrote only for those who could understand him. He wrote for you, smart Redpill men. Yes, it is hard work compared to the latest buzzfeed article. And worth it. So damn worth it. …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 03:24 AM
1

You're going to need to elaborate on the responsibility transfer part.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 02:23 AM
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it's definitely bothering you on some level Have you ever been bothered by a Neckbeard? Even if they are amusing they are so fucking delusional that it can be irritating. so who's really the loser here? uh... the neckbeard? in reality, you have no idea to what degree she is getting physical with him. Yeah, actually, he does. If he really has six women on rotation then I guarantee he knows women well enough tell you the exact likelihood of physicality. Unless the girl is way beyond average levels…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 02:20 AM
2

"Let me dab his foul stench off your lip, m'lady."
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 02:03 AM
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It's not another man's job to enforce the contract. Yeah, actually, it is. In this low-trust society it'll never happen of course, but monogamy is created through the judgment of other females and the real-life consequences of the patriarchy. In a high-trust society the man is also responsible for keeping his dick in his pants. as if the woman had no agency. They don't This is the ultimate display of admitting women are children and are inferior. They are.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 01:19 AM
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I'm 6'2". The gains were absolutely noob gains (as another poster said) and I am now to the point where I'm working increasingly hard for each additional pound. I gained 25 lbs, and my body fat is about where it was when I started. So it wasn't exactly pure muscle, but it was good healthy weight.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 04:48 AM
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I agree with the general spirit of what you are saying here, but keep in mind that appearances do matter. More than you make it seem. You have probably been strong but not ripped for a long time. You have simply gotten into the habit of saying to yourself "Better to be strong than ripped." The reality is that both are good, and there is no reason to draw such a line in the sand.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 04:42 AM
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Yup, wise words. I can tell the noob gains are over. New weight wants to go directly to my stomach. I've changed my diet so that My protein stays high, but I'm not shoving as many calories down my throat. So how much muscle can I expect to gain from here on out? I definitely feel spoiled by the original noob gains. I'm gains greedy.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 04:31 AM
1

I used my fitness pal. It works.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 04:24 AM
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There are a lot of manginas. The narcissism is real. There is a lot of insecurity. All good points. Would you rather look normal / lean but be strong as fuck and skilled in combat, or be another insecure mangina who looks strong but is functionally weak and worst of all weak minded I'd rather be strong as fuck, look strong as fuck, and be strong minded. You have created what is called a false dichotomy here.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 04:23 AM
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Exactly my current situation with my gf of 3 years. Time to walk. Thanks for the advice. Word to the wise: don't walk till you've done everything you can to increase her attraction and applied dread with her. Not because she is so special, but because it's helpful for you to practice turning the ship around. If possible, its best to leave because of her, not because of you. And a lack of attraction on her part means you are leaving because of you.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 03:38 AM
1

So everything sucks. You can act like a man!
/r/askTRP12/06/16 12:12 AM
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What would you suggest? Should I maybe search for professional therapist? Redpillnobody says talk to guys on here about it, and I second that. I have a single RP man IRL that I take advice from. Besides that I look to the men on this forum. The woman will have nothing constructive to say about your struggle as a man. Forget her. Forget the guy. Therapists can be useful when dealing with depression, etc, but when it comes to being a man they are worthless. The men on this forum have all the answe…
/r/askTRP11/06/16 11:03 PM
2

We should start a preserve. In all seriousness - they are so rare that we should be introducing each OTHER to them. I'd say every RP man probably knows ONE available quality woman on average (out of a normal, healthy sized social circle consisting of hundreds of peers). We should be aggressively pairing these women with RP friends. I assume you guys have RP friends. If you don't? Get some.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 02:37 AM
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Dude should have cut 3/4 of his content. We really don't need to see every sad-sack thought that passes through an incel's head.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 02:28 AM
1

I don't see how stating something that is true is either meaningless or a matter of semantics. Entropy-7 as a person is a collection of traits, some learned, some in-born. RobertCarraway is the same. To understand how we are different, it's important to understand which traits are learned, an which are in-born. Are the in-born traits ultimately consequence of environment? Yes. But that has nothing to do with the practical concern of separating culture from genetics. It's as if we are artists pai…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 02:44 PM
1

Ok, so everything is ultimately environmental. Thats fine and true, but ultimately you are just playing semantics. If this metaphysical truth is your basis, then you aren't actually in disagreement with AnotherMansOpinion. The comment I originally responded to is basically meaningless.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 07:15 AM
1

more likely that both race and culture arise from environmental factors huh? I mean, if you consider two people of the same race with similar genes having sex and producing a baby... if you consider that environmental... then what the hell isn't? Culture is obviously a profoundly deep interplay between genetics (race) and environment.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 02:31 AM
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So self determination means not paying taxes, rebelling against hierarchy at work, and excessive lawn watering? You're giving me a lady-boner you bad-boy Alpha.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 01:33 AM
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What makes you think you'd be a fit father? You are on this pathetic forum, after all. Glad you could join us. Speaking of unfit mothers... Your post history suggests that you are a woman who has an ambiguous sexual polarity and a rather masculinized mind. The women at Red pill women would welcome you, should you ever decide to embrace your femininity (good luck with that).
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 02:06 AM
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Be careful not to idealize hunter-gatherers. It's easy to idealize people and things that seem far away. I'm talking about the game of life.. I don't know what game you are talking about)
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 11:11 PM
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I know a guy who is 34 and severely depressed. He's a neurotic (full disclosure) but a large reason he's depressed is because he spent his 20's chasing nebulous ideals instead of building helpful skills. He comes up on my Facebook feed all the time, half-joking about suicide, and preaching his holier-than-thou prepubescent idealism. Don't be him man. He's the most pathetic guy I know. If you have the intention of learning skills that will pay off later in life, then your attitude is a good one. …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 07:59 PM
2

I've puzzled over the exact same question. Maybe part of the answer lies in survival. In times of war, Alphas die in droves. Hell even in peace time they engage in more risky motorcycle-riding type behavior. A comparatively higher mortality rate is probably one balancing factor. Beyond that, I think that economics used to hold hypergamy in check. A woman had extreme thirst for Alpha because the economics of childrearing are (were) so stacked towards beta in every other way. Think of those old fa…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 10:06 PM
2

By the time they're 25, they've experienced things that only literal prostitutes would have in the past and acting accordingly This really puts it in perspective. I've never seen it said so succinctly before.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 09:40 PM
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My thoughts exactly. I would have called her out on it pretty quickly, I have no time for women who are not pleasant. A woman can find out if a man is serious without being a bitch, it just takes a little more time. Too bad she wasted all her time getting pumped by Chads. Not my problem.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 09:23 PM
8

Women notice your bubble. Lots of people notice subconsciously. Just because you don't notice bubbles doesn't mean that bubbles aren't noticed yo.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 09:07 PM
7

Rockefeller's right hand man Flagler had a quote that he kept on his desk, "Do unto others as they would do unto you—and do it first.” That's the Golden Rule, RP style. The Platinum Rule.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 05:33 AM
1

Your fear has snowballed. At the heart of all crippling fear is the belief that you can not possibly accept x or y outcomes. The moment you say "I can live with that" to your greatest fear you will start to improve. You won't improve at all until then. Just be OK with giving oral, lots of girls like that. Take the pressure off yourself in whatever way necessary. Give yourself permission to begin to have sex and stopping because of the ED. Allow all this to happen.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 12:47 AM
1

I swear there is one dude with 10 accounts. I'm so tired of reading this same whiny bullshit. I think the true test of how Red Pill you are has nothing to do with your success with women. It's how much this snot-nosed navel gazing pisses you off. If you tolerate the bitch in others, then you tolerate the bitch in yourself.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 12:41 AM
2

There is such a thing as "monk mode". Figure out what that is and how to do it. You need to hit reset and start taking care of yourself. I feel like I wasted a year talking to this woman. What should I do ? Start by not wasting any more time thinking about her or contacting her. Is there any other answer that makes sense? Most guys in your position turn away from these words, so I hope you listen: Self pity is poison to your soul. Whatever your problems are, they are nothing compared to problems…
/r/askTRP16/05/16 12:16 AM
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I think you're right on the money with all this. question of how the fuck do men continue to allow this miserable "independence" to happen to their women often gives me pause. I've been asking myself the same question. I'm quite sure the answer lies in Game Theory. If you are not familiar with Ben Hunt then I highly recommend you check him out. His schtick is the understanding of how markets are manipulated using the "common knowledge" game. E.G. When it comes to taking action, what you believe …
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 04:36 PM
1

But his ability to color the walls any color he wishes is over-rated, and that is his point. He is free to go where he pleases, it's true. But the cost is high. There is such a thing as too much freedom. Look no further than your average "liberated" woman. She's obsessed with coloring everything just the way she wants it, and she colors her way to becoming just another used up, lonely, childless whore. To become a respected matriarch she needs lines, even if she doesn't always stay inside them. …
/r/TheRedPill14/05/16 03:36 AM
2

confide in your woman, because she sees it on your face anyway and hiding makes you look weak. She does see it in your face, but hiding it makes you look strong not weak. A woman only respects your weakness when she sees you struggle and knows that you will never speak to her about it. That is the only time. It's manly to suffer and keep it to yourself.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 03:37 AM
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they have 0 practice In today's society they have plenty of practice. They still suck at it and hate it.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 03:32 AM
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spoken like someone who has never found solace Spoken like someone who needs to lurk here more and contribute less. There is truth to what you say, but when seeking help women are always the last resort. Best not to go to them at all. This is basic RP, it's not really up for discussion.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 03:15 AM
1

She's absolutely confident she's got you locked down. SO much so that she's got no need to remain attractive to you. Read these two sentences again OP. This problem is your responsibility to fix, not hers. OP, I'm guessing that you take TRP seriously except for the "Lift Bro" part. If you work at it you can easily gain 20lbs of muscle over the next five months. Diet is key. Don't talk to her about this, just get fit, apply light dread, and shell either fix her problem or get dumped.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 04:36 AM
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This is why marriage was the foundation of advanced society. We may shit all over marriage - for good reason - but making sure every miserable beta had his own little slice of miserable ass was the bedrock on which we stood. He'll slave away happily so long as he thinks that he has something to call his own. A nation of frustrated betas is a powder keg.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 06:43 AM
1

No idea why you were down voted. It depresses me to think that our culture is so nihilistic that even men on the redpill deny that you can die like a man as much as you can live like a man.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 04:21 AM
6

Go to Tahiti. In the remote village of oliwali there is an old man with one leg. Whisper your name in his ear and he will tell you the secret. Or better yet stop posting the same stupid question in different forms all over reddit. I know your kind. You never wanted to put your ass on the line and you still don't. You still think that life is like some video game where you can hit the cheat code and make it easy. You were hiding while the rest of us were learning that there is no cheat code. Just…
/r/askTRP03/05/16 07:22 AM
-1

You betcha. Those Ashkenazi are a subset of the white race. Lets not pretend otherwise.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 05:48 AM
2

I think you should agree and amplify and continue to pass the tests for a while with zero jealousy to show her you can. Then here's what I'd do: I'd look at her dead serious and say, "Have you ever seen me suck a dick?" Wait for her reply... "Then why do you treat me like one of your girlfriends?" Wait for her reaction.. delivery is important with this of course, you're not jealous, you are annoyed. I'd then proceed to make it very clear that you think it's really healthy and normal for her to n…
/r/askTRP27/04/16 01:19 AM
3

Put yourself in that zone more often and for longer periods. It doesn't matter if you have training wheels or just won the Tour de France, being in the zone (which is different for everyone) will push that zone farther out so that you can endure more. Your revelation that you would rather accept death than continue as you are is exactly the revelation that you needed to have. Congratulations, you just turned the corner. Nurture that hard-core attitude. Blow on it, like a tiny flame that needs to…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 06:58 AM
12

My take is that you are passing the tests, and the difference is making her test more frequently to see if the change is legitimate. On some level you know if this is the correct answer or not, so you tell me. If your girlfriend suddenly got hotter, you would probably want to know if the change was permanent. It's pretty important to the decisions that she is going to make going forward.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 06:31 AM
3

There's a thing that I like to call the Friction Zone. You want to be challenging yourself at all times in life to the point where you are slightly stressed, but not hard-core stressed. Your job, for the rest of your life, is to keep yourself slightly stressed. Keep yourself there socially. Occupationally. Romantically. This is the zone where you grow the most. Find out the ways in which you want to grow, then take consistent action to put yourself in the friction zone and keep yourself there. F…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 06:14 AM
2

Thanks for that. I was about to trust 30 years of experience but now I think I'll listen to you, internet stranger.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 03:00 PM
3

We're all playing a game here. God playing hide-and-seek with himself. So what do you do with that knowledge? Mindfulness is about watching the game. Disengaging when you want. Engaging when you want. Taking a step back. TRP is about winning the game. You can win while you watch. Knowing how to win can help you disengage. Knowing how to disengage can help you win. These are just lenses and methods, there is no fundamental conflict.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 04:29 AM
1

I've found that exercise helps (seems that you have found that too) and I also take a sizeable dose of fish oil to help keep my neuroses at bay. I'd be interested to hear if you have good results if you try the Omega 3's. And like Hunts_alone says, quality time with male friends is huge.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 04:18 AM
1

I was in a pretty bad place physically six months ago. I was working out but gaining no muscle, and I was depressed. I stopped smoking, and to fill that dopamine void I started eating. A lot. I was finally hitting my protein goals and calorie goals that I was not able to hit earlier because I just wasn't able to get the correct amount of food down. I'm now 20lbs of muscle heavier, and feeling/looking great. If you aren't lifting, you need to be. There is no excuse. If you are lifting, play aroun…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 01:26 AM
2

I ask her if she's seeing someone else. This also is a mistake. 5) Hold back when she kisses me close-mouth. 2) Let her pull my hands off her ass when we were making out Instead of getting more aggressive, make fun of her when she does this. I personally would never force tongue. If she close mouth kissed when I was going for more, I would give her a wet willie or something. Any response that shows that you don't take it too seriously is a fine response.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 06:27 AM
1

Then don't go, if it bothers you that much. If you can't go out and pick up an HB9 at the bar, then getting set up with one means nothing. She's not obligated to like you any more than you are obligated to like the HB5. If you can go out and pick up another HB9, then who the hell cares if this one drops you. I understand you are pissed, but try to keep it in perspective - you didn't actually lose anything. Use it as an opportunity to go and have a fun time. Work on your abundance mentality and o…
/r/askTRP15/04/16 06:15 AM
2

Hah, because she cries so much. I get it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/16 05:49 AM
1

So far as I know there are no rules that say you have to cut after a while. If you want to get leaner, you cut. Otherwise keep bulking. I have more fat than I would like, but not too much really. Nowhere near 2/3rds of my weight gain has been fat. Probably 3/4 has been muscle. How many grams of protein are you eating compared to your daily calorie intake?
/r/askTRP15/04/16 04:25 AM
2

Yes, I've read the book. Correct, there is nothing Alpha about it, and there are some sections that encourage Beta, but it's way more than just be nice be nice. The way I frame it is to apply TRP with women and apply Carnegie with men. In reality it's way more complicated than that.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 04:17 AM
1

Men don't reach their peak until their early thirties, which means you are WAYYYYY too young to start identifying as "Forever Alone". You've stopped before the race even started. Snap the hell out of it and get to work son! I was a virgin at 20. I'm 30 now. So long as you stay around here and learn from the vets, ten years from now your current idea of embracing a life of celibacy will seem ridiculous. Don't get me wrong -you are going to need to work five times as hard as the rest of us because…
/r/askTRP15/04/16 04:12 AM
1

http://www.amazon.com/How-Win-Friends-Influence-People/dp/0671027034/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1460690611&sr=8-1&keywords=how+to+win+friends+and+influence+people Besides these techniques? Time.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 03:24 AM
1

Also 6'2" here. Been bulking for six months, I'm now 190lbs. My goal is a lean 200lbs, which means I have to get to 210 or so before I cut. So my vote is bulk.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 03:20 AM
2

I've been working out only 1 hour 3-4 times a week. Nothing crazy. Didn't have any gains for two months, then I started eating right and within a week I exploded and gained four pounds. I have gained a pound a week for the last four months. I've been eating 3,000 calories a day or so. Weighed 170 to start with. I'm 6'1". Each day you should be eating a gram of protein for every pound you weigh. For me (at 193 lbs now) this means I eat the equivalent of 30 eggs worth of protein every day. It's no…
/r/askTRP15/04/16 02:50 AM
1

This. Eating right is 80% of your results. You're going to need to eat more than you are comfortable eating OP. I've always considered myself a skinny guy and thought it was just genetics. I gained 20lbs of muscle once I started eating the right amount of calories/protein. Don't bother lifting if you are not going to bother eating right
/r/askTRP14/04/16 03:57 AM
3

I remember a survey from the 1990’s where the number one male sexual fantasy was the fantasy to be sexually dominated by a woman. I'm sure the number one female fantasy was likewise sexual domination by man. So that makes it simply the number one sexual fantasy period. I used to have fantasies of being sexually dominated by a woman when I was younger. I haven't had those fantasies in years, and frankly I can't remember what i found so exciting about the idea.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 09:41 PM
1

Isn't it worth the shot to try? No. I don't really seem to be in danger of losing anything doing it. More of your self respect, and it won't be successful so forget it. You need this pain. Right now you are trying to change, but really you're still the same old Bluepill you always were. This pain will make you less of a bitch the next time.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 05:47 PM
1

Could go either way IMO. If you let it define you, then you will get very polarized reactions to it. If you don't let it define who you are, and it's just another layer to you that makes you interesting, then it can only be good. Example1: You date a girl, you tell her all about your pro wrestling stuff, you're obviously very invested in it, she gets a little wierded out. Example2: You date a girl, she thinks you are just a student. You say nothing about your wrestling. She eventually finds out …
/r/askTRP09/04/16 04:47 PM
4

Your parents let him live at home still? At 28? You need to talk to them about this. They need to give him an ultimatum. I'd tell him he has X number of months to find a job and x number of months to move out. Your parents are enabling him. He needs to be forced to confront life, since he obviously isn't going to do it by himself.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 04:23 PM
1

Cocky Comedy by David Deangelo is brilliant. For literature, I recommend Heart of Darkness by Joseph Conrad.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 05:25 AM
0

if you'd like to objectively see me I'll PM you pics For Gods sake, none of us want to see you. Your question boils down to: can I change my situation? The answer is yes. You can be more attractive to women. You can demand more respect. Stop obsessing over your average looks. You have a lot of reading to do. Go to the Red Pill sidebar. Read.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 01:05 AM
1

That's golden. Thanks for laying it out. Makes perfect sense.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/16 10:32 PM
3

His answer was fine. Stop acting childish. Little boy.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 06:23 AM
1

you mean you no longer say you love her? how does one make that transition?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/16 06:09 AM
2

My schtick is line dancing and country swing. Here's how I do it. 1) Always go out early. This is counter intuitive. When you are the first wave out, you have a chance to dominate a space a while there is little to no competition. It is subconsciously easier to defend an existing Alpha claim than to forge a new territory. 2) If you're not having fun, forget it. Don't focus on the women. Ever. Focus on owning your space, being comfortable in your own skin, and having a good time. Your question sh…
/r/askTRP26/03/16 02:25 AM
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This is just wrong. I'm seeing a lot of confused opinions on this right now. Alpha is not defined by the number of sexual partners. Tim Tebow is Alpha. Alpha is perceived status. That's it. Sexual access to females comes with Alpha territory. There is a high correlation. But this whole "Super Alpha - 100+ partners" thing is completely wrong. I knew a southern guy in the military who had fucked 100+ fatties, uglies, all types. He was no alpha, he just had low standards.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 01:52 AM
4

Your fear and regret is made unbearable by the fact that you find past and future results fundamentally unacceptable. This invites despair. Your primary challenge is to approach the issue with manly resolve. All results are acceptable. Accept that you fucked up. Accept that you will make mistakes in the future. Accept that your life may turn out to be the biggest steaming pile of shit that ever existed, and that you can deal with that outcome. Why? Because you are a man. Now put your head down, …
/r/askTRP12/03/16 05:09 PM
1

The more you run the more afraid you will become. You are doing the very thing that creates your anxiety. This right here OP. Fear snowballs. You need to realize on a very profound level that living a life full of fear is far worse than the specific situations you are afraid of. There is a subtle jujitsu in the way you need to think about it: Always frame the struggle as you against fear, not you against that which you are afraid of. Foster a pride in you own resilience. "I may be afraid of x, y…
/r/askTRP12/02/16 02:49 AM
1

Grew up Mormon Something to think about: for all it's faults, the Mormon church is one of the few societies today that raises halfway decent women. They're still women, of course, but they have a semblance of moral conditioning and a degree of external pressure to behave well. It may not be possible for you to return to the church, but I would thing twice before abandoning the church. The last thing i'll say is that all RP men should read classic literature. Nietzsche, Goethe, Schopenhauer, Conr…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 02:44 AM
2

But when it was over, I was faced with the cold truth that pretty much everything I knew about women and relationships was a lie and the type of family life I covet doesn't exist. For years I thought that if I just didn't overtly show weakness I could make it work. My last relationship ended, and I realized I've been in denial for the last 5 years. It's not just not showing weakness, you have to actively control her emotions. That horse pill goes down so slow and painful - it's so painful that i…
/r/askTRP31/01/16 08:14 PM
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Don't mind ProudRed OP. He's just apparently never dealt with the existential disillusionment that often comes with the Pill. So he's quick to call you a faggot. The shattering of this illusion was the hardest truth I've come to terms with. I prioritize my male friendships and family ties above all else. Women just need to take a lower priority. Find RP male friends. Not pseudo-internet RP friends. Real ones. Only men can be true allies confidants; so our male friends should be that much more im…
/r/askTRP31/01/16 08:56 AM
1

Well, for a few months in late 2015, the same thing happened: company tanked and I was out looking again, but I found something much quicker in this better economy The second time this happened, company tanked, and he goes out and looks for work and finds a new job in a few months. He's contributing. These are normal life challenges. Cool your jets Simon, it's entirely believable that she would weaponize the situation.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/16 08:40 PM
1

Forget about whether or not they want to discuss it. You shouldn't be asking them. If you cant tell based on her attitude and the way she presents herself, then you won't know if she's lying anyways. If you can tell based on her attitude etc, then there's no point in asking. Any way you look at it, it makes no sense to ask.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 02:04 AM
1

It's really strange how women are programmed to decide how handsome you are based on your Alpha level. You could be a mediocre looking guy and only have a John Travolta chin as the single sexy feature, but if you turn a woman on with your personality, all she'll see is your god-damn chin. I've gotten to the point where - by watching women - I actually see men more as women see them. I see other men as more handsome when I see streaks of confidence. I'm not sure how I trained myself to do this, b…
/r/askTRP29/01/16 02:00 AM
2

Kids should be left to their own devices, and should solve their own problems with bullies. If my son ever gets picked on, I won't be mad at the kid who picks on him; I will consider it an important part of my kid's development. He must learn to stand up for himself, even when he's afraid, or risk being a footstool his entire life. Bullying is just an exaggerated version of the status struggle that we all engage in every day. Very natural.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 01:45 AM
0

As a drunk asshole of a French Canadian once said to me "It doesn't matter how attractive you are, not EVERY woman will like you." This is not Sudoku. This is poker. Sometimes you play the hand exactly right and you still lose. I have never had a flat no answer like this. Never!?!? So apparently you exclusively make an effort with sure-things. Cuz you've gotten lots of flat no's without even knowing it. You're just really good at protecting your ego. As we all are. Maybe she was recently alpha w…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 04:04 AM
1

As I said not to cry for sympathy, but to share the struggle. This will ultimately kill attraction all the same. Not as quickly as crying for sympathy, but it's a watered-down version of it. The only reason you would share the struggle is to enjoy the catharsis of letting her carry part of your burden. And sharing psychological burdens with a man as equals is precisely what the feminine soul despises. I used to think like you. With all due respect, you haven't yet measured the depths of hypergam…
/r/askTRP26/01/16 04:00 AM
1

It was a low blow, I'll admit it. But really - If you're not Leonardo Dicaprio, Chuck Norris, or Genghis fucking Khan, "showing your vulnerability" on purpose is terrible advice, and the it's exact opposite of the stoic stone-god persona that she craves. When she sees vulnerability - and she will - it had better be mixed with a manly resolve to overcome all hurdles or die in the process. This means that in whatever way you let the real you out, its definitely not by "talking about your struggle"…
/r/askTRP26/01/16 03:39 AM
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Show your vulnerability - your struggle with it - it can boost your attraction. You can't attract while being depressed, but you can talk about your struggle. Exactly. The more vulnerability the better, in fact. Tell her you want her to be your mommy. They also like it when you cry and show your sensitive side.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 02:18 AM
2

Can Confirm. Colombia is RP white man paradise.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 05:24 AM
0

I agree completely with this sentiment. Social circumstance is very important. If you are the biggest, toughest guy in the room and you're dressed well, then other men will much more readily defer to you. It makes it easier to be alpha because both men and women will shit-test you less. Commanding other men precipitates the attraction of women, along with many other benefits. Getting big is better than getting ripped from this approach.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 02:19 AM
-1

You're giving the relationship away for free You mean I'm not making her work for it? Probably right.
/r/askMRP29/09/15 04:26 AM
1

Side bar material? I've read all the sidebar material. I've read so much god-damn material I'm sick of sexual theory, and have been for years. This isn't a case of not knowing my shit. it's a case of getting lax. It's a case of (once again, I've been through this before) underestimating the power of hypergamy. Like so many men I'm an idealist. And regardless of the knowledge in my head, my follow-through can only be cemented in pain. Consider this yet another red-hot cauterization of a festering…
/r/askMRP29/09/15 04:20 AM
-4

Fair enough. Thanks for your thoughts, brother
/r/askMRP29/09/15 04:12 AM
0

Got it, thank you.
/r/askMRP29/09/15 04:11 AM
-13

Fine. It's my fault. I fucked it up. You're right. You can kiss my ass all the same.
/r/askMRP29/09/15 04:07 AM
-6

Thank you for your thoughts. Why wouldn't you wait until you are in a place to upgrade before you dump somebody? Might be cold logic but the fact is this: You never quit a job until the next one is lined up. I'm still a romantic I suppose. I don't like playing the game this way. I never will. Nonetheless I've gotten there with jobs, and I suppose it's time for me to make the cold cynical leap to doing it with women. and now you think that is all you can do and now is the time to end it? Too late…
/r/askMRP29/09/15 03:59 AM
-2

You're right. I appreciate that you present this in a way that is digestible. Everyone has an ego to protect. She does think she's prettier than I deserve. I've let the fact that she said "I love you" first make me complacent. I've let the fact that every step of the way she's made more effort than I have make me complacent. I've been lulled into BP, for the second time in my life. I thought I was done with getting lulled into complacency. In the beginning I'd tell her "take off your panties" wh…
/r/askMRP29/09/15 03:52 AM
-17

Good. First off, drop the fucking patronizing tone. Read the MRP sidebar, lift, stop being such a pussy. I'm leaving her. My dread is not false. Save your beginner advice for beginners. Why would she change, she's perfectly happy She's miserable. I'm walking. the Captain doesn't blame the crew for his mistakes, the Captain doesn't take shit from anyone. I don't take shit from her. I won't put up with this, but I'm not going to force her to do anything. She has made her choice and she can live wi…
/r/askMRP29/09/15 01:44 AM
0

Are you married, blowmelongblowmehard?
/r/askMRP29/09/15 01:28 AM
-1

I don't understand the question. Do you mean RedPill books, or just books in general?
/r/askMRP29/09/15 01:21 AM
-9

I don't.
/r/askMRP29/09/15 01:11 AM
1

It's absolutely the hardest part for me. I'd take a comforting lie so long as the lie is sustainable. If ignorance is bliss, and I can sustain my ignorance blissfully, give me ignorance. Sixty years ago our culture was structured in a way that allowed men to be ignorant of women's nature and still be fairly successful, sexually and otherwise. Today the vast majority of men who become RP are transitioning from sheer necessity. The hard rocks of reality will wake you up from your dream real quick.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 04:58 AM
1

Is your username a Nietzsche reference? When you gaze long enough into the abyss...
/r/askTRP07/09/15 04:10 PM
3

"Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist." -George Carlin When I was a little shit, I used to stare out of the school bus window for hours and formulate disgusting Disney tales in my head. These fantasies would make me want to puke today, but there is still a very German romanticism buried deep in my psyche. Some men are able to shrug this type of stuff off. No big deal. Fuck bitches. getchur dick wet. hooo-ah. Other types of men are afflicted with a type of existential mal…
/r/askTRP06/09/15 05:15 AM
0

Don't you find it strange the one major group implementing a solution has ends are opposite your own? Beheadings and all that? No, I'm really not too offended by beheadings. They are just not my people, and they have their own agendas. That's all I mean. Also, if something is doomed not to be mainstream, will it have the significant impact you desire on mainstream culture? Yes, it will have the desired impact: zero. I don't care if people behave like a bunch of monkeys, I just don't want to have…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 04:30 AM
0

Even back when women didn't have the right to vote, there was a reason political campaigns spent VAST amounts targeting specifically women... Because they knew women could influence their husbands. You've read too much into what I mean by "controlling women". Women have become very good at manipulating men because they did not have direct access to power. Their power was wielded through their man and men in general. Perhaps "Controlling woman" was a poor choice of words. I mean making it clear t…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 12:32 AM
1

The word you're looking for is serenity. Take it easy with the bold letters, would ya? I have no idea what you mean, I'm not looking for that word. You mean that enjoying the decline is the only way to get serenity? Even stranger what you're referring to as a solution is exactly what fundamentalist middle eastern religion is doing Not strange at all, lots of religions have done this. I have no beef with their methods, only with the fact that their ends are opposed to my own. but America already …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 11:56 PM
2

I've never heard the term "comfort tests" before. Would you explain the situations in which they are used, and how they might respond to your different responses?
/r/askTRP30/08/15 11:21 PM
6

what makes you think she isn't going to hop on the dick of some guy who doesn't even know what the internet is? She probably will. That's not the point. The point is that we collectively need constructive solutions. "Enjoying the Decline" is suggested as a solution, but really it's just blind hope and nihilism. The truth is that if we don't fight back and collectively (as a group, not as a society) force women back into submission, then there is no guarantee that we wont produce a long lived bon…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 05:33 PM
7

What the FUCK? I understand this is an evolutionary arms race, and that we are all adapting to external realities, but this is bullshit. Sure, lets just RUIN all women as fast as possible. We need to start controlling women again. All this "enjoy the decline" and "speed up the process" bullshit is just an excuse to be depraved. If you proposefully exaggerate a breakup to make an Alpha widow you are shitting in our collective bed.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 04:51 PM
2

If you want specific advice about this one situation we can't help you. There are a thousand things you could have done. You just need to keep reading and keep practicing. Eventually you'll get to the point where even if the other guy wins you'll know exactly what you did right and what you did wrong.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 05:17 AM
3

I guess people just have never seen value in me and I've never seen value in them. Sounds like you need to actually start trying with people. People who don't have very good social skills often assume that friendships and relationships are something that just "happen". They don't. You have to know what to do to encourage people to like you. I'm going to give you three steps. If you follow these three steps, I guarantee you will be 500% better off a year from now. 1: Go to Amazon and Buy Dale Car…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 05:00 AM
1

God you're cute when you're angry
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 02:47 AM
5

I wouldn't tell her you are getting the test. Makes total sense to me though. edit* Wouldn't
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 01:28 AM
6

YOU HEAR THAT BITCH, /U/LIAHIPP HAS A SIMPLE TEST.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 01:03 AM
2

You need to get on-board with evolution bro. You are using some seriously outmoded mental models. Like pre-19th century mental models. there is no woman's instant evaluation of system likelyhood of success and then a kill switch for loyalty. those things don't go together. Yes, there is. It's called feelz. Do a little reading on evolutionary biology. Realize that most decisions are actually sub-rational. You are posting some seriously confused stuff.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 06:02 PM
7

4.she has kids with the alpha, this produces alpha kids. She doesnt tell the beta. beta raises kids. kids grow up and pass on alpha genes, which include the tendencies of the mum. thus repeating the cycle An effective evolutionary strategy indeed. Unless she finds a man like me, because bitch, I WILL find out if you cowbirded me.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 05:48 PM
3

I'd be so much more understanding if they were actually getting women pregnant. Achieving actual results instead of so much assisted-masturbation. Its a bit of a sad dead-end for men to walk into. Better than being BP yes, but still sad. Diseased loserettes at a club indeed. Picking them up is like being the coolest kid on the short bus. You're only as good as the women you associate yourself with. Vice versa for them. Whatever. The world will have it's winners and it's losers. It's a good thing…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 04:09 PM
4

business partnerships end up riskier financially than marriage Exactly. Life is risky. Life as a man especially so. It's all about risk management, not risk elimination. Like when I asked for stats on the number of prenups overturned; data to make calculated decisions with, one guy comes back with: why do you need stats when the risk is so high? If you don't get married then you can't get divorced, and if you can't get divorced you can't get divorce raped. Why do you need stats on pedestrian kil…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 03:04 PM
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It's difficult to watch you get harassed like this. What the men here don't understand is that Class, money, and education change everything. I often see people on TRP who are obviously different races arguing past each other because their realities an opportunities are different. Same thing happens with class, and what we have here is a class divide. From Charles Murray's book "Coming Apart: Then Murray introduces the terms "Belmont," to refer to the top 30 percent of whites 30-49 by education …
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 06:12 AM
1

But at the rate things are going, that will probably change in the coming 10 years, as we have been seeing. I completely understand this sentiment, and generally speaking I'd agree. There is a major factor that I don't think you are considering though: Prenups are mostly used by the upper and upper-middle classes. The middle class rarely uses them, and the lower class practically never does. When understanding social trends considerations of class are always paramount, and since the upper class …
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 05:51 AM
1

why do you need stats when the risk is so high? How high is it? are 90% of prenups completely invalidated? 50%? 10%? We need stats because neither you nor I have any idea that the risk is "so high". Don't act like any of this is simple. A good poker player knows his opponent, he knows the game, and he knows the odds. I don't know anything about prenups, and I'm sure most of the men here don't either. If you want to make major life decisions based on complete ignorance, be my guest. On Breaking a…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 05:42 AM
3

Agreed. I see a lot of talk about this type of thing, but very few statistics. It is statistics that we should be acting on, not hearsay.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 11:06 PM
14

This is what the world has come to. RUSSIA now represents one of the last sane societies within the Western world. We should all let that sink in for a moment.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 11:04 PM
5

Couple years back I turned down the opportunity to be Jodie. Buddy was giving us both a ride back to my place and I said screw it - take her home - I'm not going to do it. I don't really blame men for going for it, but we talk a lot about brotherhood here, and for those of us who are legitimately disgusted by this culture a good course of action is to get her to be ready to cheat on him with you and then humiliate her by turning her down. She then suffers all the shame of being ready to cheat co…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 05:52 PM
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The Arab inside me is angry at you HAH. I hope you don't mind if I borrow that phrase Heatling. As a tall skinny white dude I think it will be useful. Tell the Arab inside you to look on the bright side - Your cousin is an emotional slut; our sisters are actual sluts. Most women are emotional sluts, by the way, so no biggie.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 03:38 AM
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The growing lack of need for men as providers is partially why the standards are skyrocketing. BINGO. The old system worked because women had less power. When they met their male equal, they were more likely to get the feelz because he had more power than they did. Combine that with social pressure and VIOLA - every man has a mate. Now, women have been empowered to shun their male equivalents. Western society will not recover until man has reclaimed his place at the head of the family. GRAB YOUR…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 03:14 AM
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That the old "battle ax" is generally treated like a man to the degree that she understands and can participate in things like banter, reciprocity in friendship, intelligent conversation, etc. She enters the world where she needs to add value to other people's lives to be valuable. Welcome to the life of a man. Since most of these women don't have a mindset that makes them interesting or useful as friends from the male perspective, we treat her like a rather uninteresting man. And any uninterest…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 02:20 AM
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I've friended you previously due to insights you've had in the past oldredder, so I'm confused as to how we disagree on this. I know first hand that good game figures strongly into the CC. I'm not saying looks don't matter, only that they are absolutely not only what matters. I have one friend in particular who is significantly better looking than me, but he is not competition for me because his game is so horrible. This alone proves that looks are not only what matters.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 04:47 AM
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Yes, beauty matters. I never said it doesn't, but game also matters in the short term. WTF is this red pill??? Isn't part of this entire philosophy that women are after status, and looks is only part of the status equation?? All I'm saying is that "looks is only what matters" is wrong. Your attitude and behavior plays an enormous role, even in short term flings. Flava Flave is the ugliest son of a bitch out there, and the CC services him. With an RP mindset and knowledge, you can go toe-to-toe w…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 04:31 AM
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But as we know, only physically attractive men can adapt and take part of the CC, because looks is only what matters on it. You had me nodding in agreement until this. Sure, looks matter, but the CC does not defer exclusively to looks. Not by a long shot.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 08:03 PM
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It seems to me that this type of behavior acts as an intensifier. If you are a schlub, this is seen as pandering. If you are a take-charge confident man, this is seen as an alpha who looks after what is his. Women never see this type of behavior outside of the context of the other indicators that a man is giving them.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 07:43 PM
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The pleasure of a woman is a side benefit to a life well lived. She needs you to give her direction. How can you give her direction if your only direction is to find/wife her? Where does that leave the two of you? For a woman, this is unattractive on multiple levels. If anyone can benefit from monk mode, it's you. You need to stop pursuing women for long enough to realize that you've been deluded this entire time. To live happily with a woman, you must know that you do not need a woman to live h…
/r/askTRP28/02/15 07:02 AM
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I've got a rule of thumb for venting: What men in your life can you trust completely, who have enough wisdom to offer you genuinely good advice? I have only two men like this. I doubt many here have more than two. These two men are the only two humans in the world who I can "vent" to. Even then, I only do it sparingly. Find ways to vent to these men that communicates the attitude, "I'm a man, I will work through my own issues, but in this instance, I could use your support brother." By venting i…
/r/askTRP28/02/15 06:51 AM
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Month sounds about right. Somebody further down this thread already did it, I think? Hopefully that doesn't give the game away. I would copy that rendition and change enough of it so that you don't immediately trigger any recognition.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 11:36 PM
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That would be fantastic. To prevent us all from doing it, or no-one from doing it (thinking that someone else will) I nominate you, Dongbei, to perform the honors. You can then expose your trick on r/relationships and link is to it.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 11:10 PM
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If you are with a girl who is openly hostile to your leadership, then your "relationship" with her is fundamentally wrong from a red pill perspective. My girl loves it when I firmly but lovingly tell her what to do. Not like a bastard, but like a leader. We both love it.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 03:16 AM
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This is generally good advice, but lets face it: we all reach a point of diminishing returns. Accepting that the best woman for an LTR is one who is a point or two below the best you could possibly snag is a fact that we all have to embrace at one point or another.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 06:12 AM
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I used to stare into space for hours as a young man, imagining nonsense. Now I spend my days firmly in reality. Anything silly or superfluous is trash to me now. Wonder is an emotion I no longer feel, but neither is confusion. The extremes of the spectrum are narrowing. It must be done. Fantasies are for women and children. We brave the bittersweet real world because as men, this is all that matters. The price, however, is enormous.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 05:57 AM
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I've said this before on the topic of neuroticism - It's important to practice accepting worst case scenarios. I personally advocate getting extraordinarily cozy with the idea of suicide. If worse comes to worse you can always just kill yourself. It's like starting at the end of the equation and working backwards. Then start accepting deep humiliation, etc etc. “The thought of suicide is a great consolation: by means of it one gets through many a dark night.” - Nietzsche
/r/askTRP06/02/15 05:26 AM
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I'd like to encourage you to start a blog/youtube channel. Anything that you could use to reach a broader audience. RP gay men are truly our greatest allies. Your established victim status means that you can say shit that we couldn't say in a million years. You won't just get away with it; people will love you for it. The vast majority of this community would consider you a hero. Are you familiar with Jack Donovan? If you are active in the Manosphere I'd assume you are aware of him. He is a gay …
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 09:39 PM
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I get rather annoyed by all manners of insufferable bullshit. Advertising... Advertising really gets under my skin. I take great pleasure in forming a negative opinion of a company based upon how stupid they assume their average patron is. TV is just as bad though; it's ideologically, intellectually, and morally toxic. I live with a moronic SJW and I've reached a breaking point where I can no longer tolerate censoring myself constantly around her in my own home. My every thought is offensive to …
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 09:12 PM
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What a way to live indeed. This is why we should all pick our wives (or SO's) very carefully. It's completely fucked that a man could kick that much ass in life and feel like he's on the rocks the moment he takes a breather. I, for one, would prefer to have a wife one HB point uglier who is grateful for everything I have given her.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 05:33 AM
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You're touching on one of the core "EUREKA" realizations of RP man. Emotions are the product of epochs of successful chance quirks of personality. Each emotion is a monument to game theory and other fantastically complicated constructs of reality we are only beginning to understand objectively. Consider it a form of deep, time-tested logic.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 05:27 AM
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It's difficult to pin down what is a direct or indirect evolutionary trait. Women are more severely programmed to over-ride logic when it conflicts with emotion. This is a far more subtle effect than simply being emotionally driven. A woman who catches a high status man will see him in all sorts of rose-tinted ways that are inconsistent with reality. This part at least seems to be adaptive, and directly evolutionary. It takes a hell of a lot of hamstering to believe that the bad-boy is actually …
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 05:28 PM
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I second this. In addition to your reasons, I actually genuinely prefer talking with women when the topic is people/social situations. Here at TRP, we talk about things that women see constantly too, only they have an intuitive understanding of it. It is fucking dull to talk to BP men about people. They're fucking idiots. It's just like trying to talk to your average women about highly rational topics. Forget it; you're better off sitting by yourself.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 05:38 AM
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Good advice, thanks man.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/15 04:13 AM
1

What about a prenup? The idea of having a ceremony, ring, and honeymoon without signing the docs sounds a bit sketchy - as if you are pulling a fast one on her and everyone else. I understand the reasoning, but how it would be perceived is another matter entirely. Plus, due to common law marriage and the intent involved, wouldn't a judge treat this as the equivalent of marriage anyways?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/15 04:12 AM
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Good thoughts, thanks. I wouldn't treat her badly because of it. Women are particularly susceptible to cultural influences; if I decide that it disqualifies her she will be sent off with sympathy and tact.
/r/askTRP14/01/15 12:18 AM
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My question is - at what point is the tradeoff worth it? First off, this is a fantastic question. It is a tradeoff. I've been asking myself the same question. A peer will always try to lead. You don't really want a peer, unless you are OK with tossing your sex life into the abyss. You need a woman who wants to follow but is smart enough to understand you. If she understands you, you will find that years down the road she will display uncanny insight. Feminine women are paradoxes. They are capabl…
/r/askTRP31/12/14 01:14 AM
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Advice? I can't provide any. You seem to have a handle on the situation. All I can say is that almost every man here can identify with the general context of the struggle you are experiencing. A year is not a long time. I've been engaging red pill ideas for about eight years now, and I'm just now to the point where it has bled into every corner of my thoughts. Persevere my friend. Persevere.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 12:45 AM
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From Joseph Conrad's "Heart of Darkness" - published in 1902. ""You forget, dear Charlie, that the laborer is worthy of his hire?" she said, brightly. It's queer how out of touch with truth women are. They live in a world of their own, and there has never been anything like it, and never can be. It is too beautiful altogether, and if they were to set it up it would go to pieces before the first sunset. Some confounded fact we men have been living contentedly with ever since the day of creation w…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 12:34 AM
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whoah bro, no. Its a bit more complicated than that.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 02:59 AM
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Hard man, like you said it's impossible to say without witnessing the dates themselves. If I had to guess, I'd say you just have too many beta cues that have become subconscious and are hammering your credibility. My advice? Just find a way to gain a competitive advantage. My advantage is in dancing. I'm not a talker, and at least 80% of the ONS and LTR success I've had in the past five years has been due to the dance floor. Maybe Tinder is a poor medium for you.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 02:04 AM
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that's why beta doesn't work. Because women are responding too much older programming when it comes to mating. While I understand your point, it is very hard to know what is programmed and what is chance, logic, or education. I believe that it is wise to assume that some of these evolutionarily programmed behavior sequences are very subtle and can be difficult to detect if you are not explicitly looking for them. Think about Stockholm syndrome (a clearly innate predisposition) -- there could be …
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 04:21 AM
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Key thing - Be firm but compassionate. I thanked her for the apology and genuinely acted positive and not butt-hurt. Positive feedback for good behavior is KEY at a moment like that. Thank you. Thank you. As a man who is interested primarily in LTR's and not Plates, I don't see enough examples of the firm but compassionate frame.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 02:16 AM
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It's not totally paradise. Sounds like its as-close as could be expected.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 01:15 AM
1

Are there jobs for normal white men there, or do you need a degree in chemical engineering or high-rise architecture etc?
/r/askTRP21/12/14 08:04 PM
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At times I think that I’ll be okay in social situations once I lose all the weight but then get depressed thinking that it’ll take at least a few months and what the fuck would I do in that period? This is your biggest problem. Not the weight. You can't wait/suffer for two months? TWO MONTHS? Man you need to get tougher with a lot of people in your life; starting with yourself. Work on your warrior mentality. That involves saying fuck you to the people who have undervalued you, and it involves s…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 07:50 PM
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Yeah I agree. Maybe he could turn the tide this quickly if he met her in person and did a full on act of submission with shifting eyes and desperation in his voice. Then he might be able to weird her the fuck out in one deft move. One apology after months of solid moves? Something seems off.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 07:17 PM
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I bet that was hard. Way to stick with your decision. Try not to second guess it. I think you've left some info out regarding your personal reasons for dumping her, but by reading between the lines I think most of us can figure it out. Your blue pill friends don't get it. You do. You saw that the relationship had an expiration date and decided to end it on your terms. I respect that.
/r/askTRP21/12/14 05:10 PM
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Andrew Hays doesn't act Omega man. These women can sense that he knows what he's doing. He purposefully confuses them. They understand that he is working on a level that "gets it." His actions would follow very different patterns if he didn't. Full blown Omega is unattractive period. Joking or not.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 08:00 PM
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They often stay in those for the next few months until they move on to the next, many people also refer to this as "phases". Some are more obvious than others, and once discovered are usually laughable, Guess what? This no-phase thing you are all stoked about? It's a phase. Try to relax a little would ya? You remind me of myself five years ago. We all go through seasons in our lives. Fostering some manic drive towards nothing in particular is not helpful. Relax. Realize that a niche is temporary…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 01:53 AM
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You can show interest, it all depends on the frame you are using. For example: I am a high value man and I am interested to see if you have worth to me. I am just engaging in polite conversation. I am interested in you as a means of passing the time and engaging socially.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 01:24 AM
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Don't take too much responsibility for you daughter's actions. If you were RP it would help significantly, but never underestimate the power of modern "education", pop culture, and peer influence.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 01:42 AM
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"Giving validation too easily is the male version of sluttiness" Someone said this last week and it blew my mind.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 08:36 PM
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Edit: When I wake, I'll try and dig up the study and add it here Please do. I want to see if the study controls for race, which is an obvious lurking variable, and the probable cause of the correlation.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 08:09 PM
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It is the single most unattractive thing you can do This. A million times over. I was experiencing a rough patch 4 years ago, and my girlfriend at the time was there. My vulnerability during this period freaked her out, and it bothered me that she seemed unwilling or unable to support me. I complained about the lack of support she was giving. She said, "Well what the hell do you want me to do?" I said, "I want you to be more like my mother." I'll never forget the look on her face as every ounce …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 07:39 PM
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I believe it's also important - and I'm looking for seasoned input on this idea - to choose a woman who you have a natural Redpill dynamic with. I've had women in the past that I've had to exert a lot of energy with constantly to maintain the role of captain. These relationships slipped to blue pill as time passed. In hindsight it seems nearly inevitable. I've started seeing a woman recently who naturally brings out the older brother in me. I feel protective (in a red-pill way, not a white knigh…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 06:41 PM
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I enjoy Nietzsche but his work tends to be esoteric and heavily debated, even today Kind of like... uh.. kind of like... The Red Pill. Friedrich Nietzsche — 'When thou goest to woman, take thy whip.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 03:16 AM
2

"Are you intimidated by me?" was one of them. She said this after I stumbled on a word. Talk about a shit test. That's about as balls-busting as they get.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 02:26 AM
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In this case, you are probably passing and not even noticing, which is an automatic win of course! kudos to you.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 02:25 AM
1

Sorry I asked.
/r/askTRP11/12/14 03:01 AM
1

I'd say you are right - most of the men here have inadequacy issues. Just like the world at large. The difference is the men who are here are resolving theirs. As a woman in a man's body, have you experienced a lot of normal heterosexual relationships? Do you romanticize them? I'd wager the transition has made it difficult for you to see the nuances of attraction... clearly. I'm actually quite interested to hear specifically what you think is bullshit about the red pill view of the world. What a…
/r/askTRP10/12/14 06:06 AM
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God is dead. Your moral decisions are your own. Manipulate her or do not.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 05:04 AM
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TRP would not exist if gender was so flexible, so malleable, that "letting" a boy play with girl toys could make him confused. Our drives run deeper than that. The "mindset" over long periods that gender roles are unimportant contributes to blue pill behavior, absolutely. Has it created more fags? No. Billy-the-queer played with barbies because he loves dick. Not vice versa.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 04:29 AM
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Old redder is right on, but as an addition to his comments: If you aren't pushing yourself to meet girls out of your league, you won't experience many shit tests. Women will very rarely shit test someone if they already know the other persons SMV is higher than their own. I went out with a girl last year who was significantly hotter than I could handle. She started shit testing me like a hurricane. I failed pretty much all of them. Pursue several girls who you consider out of your league and you…
/r/askTRP10/12/14 04:04 AM
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God damnit you are spot on son. ♂ In addition to this, it has the added benefit of getting you talking to girls (any and all) and out of your own head.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 03:34 AM
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Start at whatever level makes you only a little hesitant and work up. You don't pick up a bat for the first time ever and expect to hit a home-run for chrissake.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 05:37 AM
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Fascinating. Fucking fascinating. It makes perfect sense, thanks for sharing. I want to predict a lot of future slices in time a lot more is within reach now because those future-states all follow from past-states. This is a perfect explanation of the insight i felt i gained. I have all of these models in my head (not autocad models; models that explain human action and motivation), and it felt like for the first time, instead of looking at them one-by-one, i was seeing them all in motion at onc…
/r/askTRP07/12/14 07:04 PM
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And then, wink at all the women secretly who notice the fuss.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 06:23 AM
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Love it. Hamster away. "Do I have to have a vagina for you to consider me a woman?" "I can't believe in 2014 you have the nerve to tell me that I'm not a woman" "I don't see you bothering any of the other women here. Is it because you don't thin that I'm an attractive woman. Is that it? I am an attractive woman. I AM AN ATTRACTIVE WOMAN!!
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 06:20 AM
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I was not really able to control my visuals or thoughts. You can do that? If anything I think the benefits came from not being able to control where my mind went. I went deeper into the areas that I had been avoiding, and emerged on the other side with a clearer idea of how I was fucking up.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 05:42 AM
1

no no no. You call them because you want to make them uncomfortable. Make her feel that rush. Texting is the easy way. You don't stand out at all. Every beta bitch texts to build comfort levels.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 04:37 AM
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/r/askTRP05/12/14 04:24 AM
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I have a predisposition towards social anxieties. I have had some success in overcoming them. The only thing that has helped me is what I will now name the "All Is Lost" approach. Meditate on the fear, feel it, and completely embrace it. Whatever it is that you are afraid of - Embrace it completely and utterly. Afraid that that hot girl will shut you down? Accept it as fact before it happens. this releases you from worry. Afraid that your professor will not give you a letter of recommendation? A…
/r/askTRP05/12/14 04:19 AM
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Totally. Most of the time it has nothing to do with you. She just had a bad day or whatever and isn't feeling it.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 05:16 AM
1

They don't turn on like we do, sometimes it takes work to get them in the mood. Turn on Frank Sinatra and slow dance with her. Don't ask of course, just do it. Deliberately and slowly smell her neck (huge turn on for them). Lightly touch her face and brush away her hair. After things warm up a bit, suck on her earlobe. If you are sitting next to her, put your entire hand around the back of her neck. Rub your thumb up and down gently. Squeeze tenderly. You are not exactly massaging it (although t…
/r/askTRP02/12/14 05:02 AM
0

I tripped acid for the first time (not a heavy dose - just a little) with close buddies Saturday and had an epiphany about how misdirected my life was. I was laying on the couch - and I was trying to sleep - but I couldn't stop thinking about exactly what I was doing wrong and exactly what I needed to alter in my life. I had a clear sense of where my life was going on this current path, and I didn't like it. I felt an overwhelming urge to change my direction. I knew exactly what I needed to do. …
/r/askTRP02/12/14 04:38 AM
1

I have a buddy who makes them break up with him. He just gradually starts being more distant, more of an asshole, more ____ (fill in the blank) until eventually they say good riddance. It's a terribly dishonest course of action, but if you're looking for the easy way out that makes her feel in control of the situation and less like a victim... its a genius move.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 04:03 AM
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First of all thanks for sharing - it was a great read. I'm fine with you keeping your high opinion of service members, but /u/thrway1312's thoughts on this are well-grounded. When I was in Afghanistan I found it surprising when I found a military man who wasn't either cheating or getting cheated on. Military members are easy to admire... from a distance.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 01:28 AM
1

RP has a lot of rape paranoia on here, so when there is a suggestion of this kind of thinking on the part of the female, it almost sets up a wager - do I continue to act alpha and put this girl into "he took advantage of me" mode or do I succumb to a beta persona to dodge a bullet(thereby giving up any chance for future sex) I completely sympathize with your position. It's not a clear-cut situation. Men here tend to prioritize sex above all other things. I for one would have acted exactly the sa…
/r/askTRP01/12/14 12:50 AM
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Uh... Show him her profile. Tell him you don't want to over-react and make assumptions, but you would expect him to do the same if your positions were reversed. she simply could be on it looking for friends? Yeah. Right.
/r/askTRP01/12/14 12:18 AM
1

Well said. When survival itself was more difficult, providers used to be in higher demand. In a world of relative abundance, the individualistic Alpha is a good bet for a woman to produce competitive offspring now that survival is pretty much guaranteed. This post provides ancillary evidence of how society used to need male commitment desperately, and provided adequate compensation in the form of sex and respect. Society no longer finds that commitment as valuable, and the collapse of social nor…
/r/askTRP01/12/14 12:13 AM
1

Age. Nothin but age fixes this man. It's natural. I would just try to form a sense of dark humor around it. When you feel that way just laugh at your own dick-diddling nature and take it with a grain of salt. Honestly it's a strength. It's not objective, but it's probably advantageous for you from a competitive standpoint - otherwise the other men here (including myself) would not be able to relate.
/r/askTRP30/11/14 11:53 PM
1

A lot of women would consider these expectations controlling, and at one point my feminized brain would have agreed. I don't think so anymore, it's exactly the type of no-nonsense approach you need to take to keep her respect. The difficulty is that you seem to have given her an ultimatum, meaning you really will have to break up with her if she disobeys. Do you have a contingency plan? Unfortunately as men we don't have sex as a bargaining chip, romantic commitment and emotional/financial suppo…
/r/askTRP30/11/14 10:21 PM
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Sounds to me like you are handling it like a pro. It's almost like she is using this as a shit test more than just her having a hamster, hard to say. I think so long as she honors your wishes it's all good. I would disregard the words. We will always deal with our women testing the boundaries. Good on you for drawing a clear line in the sand, I love it. I also understand exactly where you are coming from. It's a matter of respect too, and an old-fashioned approach to the issue.
/r/askTRP29/11/14 11:11 PM
2

Good point. Columbia was very macho. The women were beautiful, but surprisingly quite chaste in many cases. Chile was where I got laid, and it was by a (surprise surprise) left-leaning feminist type chick. I found many people to be more liberal in Chile. So thanks for the correction, I should know better than to generalize to that degree.
/r/askTRP29/11/14 08:49 PM
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As someone mentioned, the language barrier. Everything is gendered, a lot of concepts are different, and concepts are just framed differently I think this is HUGE. If everything in your cultured is associated with the masculine or the feminine, then it becomes very difficult to erase. Even a house is identified with the feminine. For feminism to take root in Hispanic cultures, the first step would be to remove all sorts of gender qualifiers from the language. That would be a difficult task. Peop…
/r/askTRP29/11/14 08:42 PM
1

I was listening to a Spanish radio station that I stumbled upon the other day.. My Spanish is terrible, but he was talking about the differences between men and women, it was clearly a Red Pill rant. I want to improve my Spanish so that I can hear some sense for a change.
/r/askTRP29/11/14 08:27 PM
2

These both seem like possible hypotheses. The other possibility is that she is interested but more wants something for the spank bank. Wants to tease you both with the flirtation and experience the intrigue without following through, hence the boyfriend mentions. She's insecure, wants to know she has options to build her ego. Also, she could be mentioning him frequently to absolve herself of responsibility if anything did happen. "Its not my fault, I was talking about my boyfriend all day and th…
/r/askTRP29/11/14 08:15 PM
2

You're going to need to be more specific. What is she saying that goes against your principles? What would you expect her actions to be as a result? Is she an avowed feminist?
/r/askTRP29/11/14 08:08 PM
1

Perhaps it would help to spend time building rapport with more girls you are honestly un-attracted to. Pay attention to how you come off as just making conversation and notice how she will read this as just getting to know her for the sake of enjoying the evening. Imagine this as your default, and mix in cocky-funny and some negs depending on how attractive they are. I used to have exactly the same problem as you. Exactly. Still do depending on the conditions. I think it's an extraordinarily com…
/r/askTRP29/11/14 07:39 PM
1

When I go line-dancing I generally looking like I'm loving life. If you get the urge to smile, but are mostly holding it in, you end up with an amused, entertained, having-fun look. They love it. I pull more women when I'm doing this than using any other method. Tim is spot on with this. Moderate, controlled smiling doesn't hurt your SMV at all; context is everything. As long as you don't look like a sloppy golden retriever puppy you're fine. You are even likely doing your social life harm by lo…
/r/askTRP29/11/14 07:10 PM
1

Also - put yourself in your buddies shoes... who has the bigger issue? You don't get immediate respect, but he gets a taste of what it's like to have girls interested only to get it retracted the moment he opens his mouth. And he has no idea why. You better believe it's frustrating for him to have you out-game him in the long haul. You seem to look at your game as inherently inferior to his when that could not be further from the truth. He's not actually getting these girls. You are. They see yo…
/r/askTRP29/11/14 06:22 PM
1

Hard to let go when you get the onitis. Been there. Although I doubt your husky frame had too much to do with it. So it's like a slider rather than a plateau? Yeah, exactly. Theoretically you could line every man up side to side in order of dominance. If you are in a room with those less dominant than you, then the women flirt with you because you are the best available. Enter a man who is a more natural leader, and subconsciously everyone knows you've been replaced. It's difficult to change muc…
/r/askTRP28/11/14 11:54 PM
3

Your Dad was right - aren't they usually!? What exactly do I do to graduate to Alpha though? Man this is the million dollar question, and this entire subreddit is devoted to it. Part 1 is lurk and absorb the way the RP veterans think about the issues that confront us all. Part 2 is to do whatever you can to raise your status internally and externally. Start lifting again, move out from Dad's house, work on holding eye contact and asserting yourself, etc. Keep in mind though that no man changes f…
/r/askTRP28/11/14 10:42 PM
2

I think this is the appropriate answer. Be it friends, or potential girl friends I'm giving to the point of excess. It is the excess that kills you. People read this as trying to buy affection, because that's what you are doing. With family and extremely close friends (especially the type that understands reciprocity) you can do this, but you need to ask yourself where the impulse comes from if you do it outside of those two circles. Typically, you are overcompensating for your lack of power by …
/r/askTRP28/11/14 09:10 PM
2

They understand the basic dynamics of masculinity/femininity, but they fail to see it from a society-wide perspective. The concept of correct manly attitude and behavior changes in subtle but important ways when you ask "what is good for society and me?", instead of simply "what is good for me?". We are such social creatures that the two are necessarily tied together. I like your username.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 08:45 PM
1

And excessive consideration of consequences like this can result in a life spent taking it in the ass from every two-bit bully. The possibility of paying thousands of dollars does not outweigh the consequences of consistently rationalizing your way out of self respect.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 04:14 AM
2

or you're a man if you're secure enough with yourself that you don't need people on the internet to tell you what it means to be a real man. Well that goes without saying. We talk about manhood here. You can respond in the above fashion to almost every post. You don't really expect me to soften my statement by saying "this is my opinion" do you? But I should disclaim, I simply don't agree with your framing. I must not be communicating well, because I don't think my framing is understood. Here is…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 03:56 AM
1

Wait, I don't understand. You're saying that I'm whining?
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 02:34 AM
0

But in today's litigious society getting into street brawls risks far more than a black eye. A man should not fear a financial black eye any more than a physical one. Fear them enough to engage sparingly, but sometimes they are unavoidable. Plus, high-school fights are different from manly brawls, and that should be recognized.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 05:45 AM
8

Agreed. Very disappointed in the number of posters here who are so afraid of consequences that they can't acknowledge the value of a timely brawl.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 05:40 AM
10

And it is in fact, good advice very good advice. A man who goes through life afraid to take a beat-down for whatever cause he deems worthy (metaphorical beat-downs included) is not a man. To be a man is to fight, in every sense of the word. TRP is a god-send in many ways, but it undervalues sacrifice, suffering, and acceptance, which are all ingredients in the glory of manhood. It frankly pisses me off that your parent post was upvoted and your's was downvoted.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 05:34 AM
2

Weapons over Fairytales Weapons over Whim Mastery over Myth Collusion over Illusion Plates over Pedestals Dick'tion over Fiction
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 12:58 AM
20

Hot women are entitled cunts. I'm sure she is. But, to be fair to this particular entitled cunt, I probably would also refuse to say please if I pleasantly requested someone take my picture and then received some sort of strange insistence that I use the word "please," playfully or otherwise. BUT - He was probably reacting to her body language and tone - neither of which were probably the non-verbal equivalent of "please". I'll give him the benefit of the doubt.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 12:10 AM
-1

I found my mom doing this one day. Made fun of her for it. It might work, but it's not pavlovian conditioning; calling it that is... silly. You're not a dumb beast who receives pain every time he performs a certain action. Your experience involves a choice -the choice to snap the rubber band on your wrist. If anything, you are conditioning yourself not to make the choice of snapping the rubber band on your wrist The success of the technique would have more to do with anchoring. The pain reminds …
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 04:45 AM
1

Yeah. Sortin through this shit myself.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 05:08 AM
1

It was tough at first but at least I told her how I feel acted like a man. FTFY. Everything else was pure gold. Congrats.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 06:42 AM
-1

These are the humble thoughts of a man who has his fair share of neurosis: Don't talk about it. Fnordsnord is right, they'll find out your issues eventually, but she will respect you more if she knows that whatever issues you have - you deal with them in-house. They care far more about the way the issues manifest in our interactions with them than the problems themselves. Your problems can be pretty damn bad, but as long as you never lean on her, she can accept it. It's important to choose a wom…
/r/askTRP18/11/14 06:29 AM
1

No, I suspect she is not.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 02:17 AM
7

Last week, she initiated a conversation with me about "defining the relationship" Bro you are having a super beta reaction to this whole thing. You never committed to her. If you act like it's no big deal then it's not. The fact that you are acting guilty as shit makes it seem like you really did do something wrong in her eyes. You honestly need to shape the hell up. Maybe I'm just hungover and cranky... but why the hell are you acting like such a bitch? I mean that in the friendliest way possib…
/r/askTRP16/11/14 08:05 PM
1

Like iluminatiNYC, I also did not lose my virginity until I was 20. You are building a complex about it, cut that shit out. You are also probably self sabotaging because of insecurity about what your performance will be like. I think most men do that. Your thoughts on getting a prostitute are premature, pun intended. Lower your standards and screw some marginally attractive woman just to break your own increasingly neurotic circle of self sabatoge.
/r/askTRP16/11/14 04:20 AM
1

I second this, and I second the recommendation. I noticed a huge social windfall from the knowledge in "How to Win Friends and Influence People." In fact I think I'll go read it again right now. Human nature has not changed one iota since 1936. It is absurd to me that anyone would think otherwise.
/r/askTRP16/11/14 04:07 AM
4

In my mind it's only beta if you expect her to be thankful and don't say anything. The troublesome part is that (I'm reading between the lines here) you don't want to straight up tell her what you want. I may be projecting people I know on you, but there are a lot of guys I know who are too conflict averse to deal with 10 minutes of discomfort to straighten this problem out. Is that your position? I would just start having a one-sided conversation and then flat out tell her. You: give her someth…
/r/askTRP16/11/14 03:46 AM
6

How is he not wrong? I'd say he's dead wrong. I know an omega who has one single trait that I admire; he can and does engage anybody and everybody. It's admirable in him, and when an alpha does it, it can be downright intimidating to the other men in the room. Everyone that secretary meets likes him and respects him. As long as you don't want something from people, you can talk to anyone you like.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 02:31 AM
2

You should name your razor Occam
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 04:00 AM
25

Only if you fuck your sister.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 02:47 AM
5

The past system worked for a reason - it wasn't perfect - but it worked. Assuming you follow TRP and aren't a BB, if you won't wait for one of the few women with enough fortitude to remain virginal in today's society, then you are part of our current problem, and not part of the solution.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 04:33 AM
1

A baller move would have been to say, "You did that on purpose," with a smile and then, "I'm keeping this as a souvenir." If you hang on to the pencil, not only does it show that you are not going to supplicate, but it also gives you a chance to give it back later, creating two interactions out of one. Plus, the whole time you have it, she'll be thinking about it in the back of her mind. Easy for me to say these things, hard to do it in the moment. Fun to brainstorm regardless. As far as a shit …
/r/askTRP30/10/14 04:35 AM
1

One big trick I use is establishing a mindset of "this is my turf" whenever I feel uncomfortable. I think our willingness to make eye contact is significantly related to our perception of our environment as hostile or friendly. In a bar, for example, I'll spend a few minutes visualizing the bar as my bar, where everyone else is just a guest. This sets a frame where I feel more comfortable and in control, and eye contact and other body language signals tend to improve. You can do it anywhere. The…
/r/askTRP30/10/14 04:21 AM
1

I think that you're right - there is a difference - but what is a woman selecting for in men? Dominance. They test a man's frame in a similar way that men test each others' frames as a way to establish dominance without violence. So there are different costs/rewards, but both are challenges, and both result in lower status if lost and higher status if won. Is there another way that they are different that I'm not considering?
/r/askTRP27/10/14 01:54 AM
2

The way we do it was less touching and more verbal. We would say gay things to each other in an attempt to catch the other off guard. Anyone who was clearly uncomfortable with the gayness would get 10 times the faux homosexuality directed towards them.
/r/askTRP27/10/14 01:45 AM
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It's a good question. My opinion: We don't do it in the same way as women do, but we do it. Men primarily shit test men who they are in competition with. Back in middle school when kids would call each other names, whoever broke frame first lost. With adults it's the same way except subtler. Status is proven by who can hold frame longest. We used to out-gay each other in conversations as a sort of shit test. The person who got uncomfortable first lost and was seen as being the least comfortable …
/r/askTRP26/10/14 07:26 PM
0

You sound exactly like my red pill black friend. This is exactly the kind of argument I have with him every time we talk about red pill issues. Paynehouse = Typical red pill white man // Red_King_Rising = Typical red pill black man
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 05:43 AM
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Hey man, don't go comparing that shit to fascism. What did fascists ever do to you?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 05:01 AM
0

Whatever man. I'm here to engage. Thanks for being such a wet blanket.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 03:31 AM
1

It would have been a better post for RPW actually, agreed. I really don't know why you are so shocked to see this though.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 01:24 AM
3

/u/A_thousand is correct. We all lie. You lie more with your appearance at first, because that's what we value most. We lie more with our personality at first, because that's what you value most.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 03:12 AM
1

I had one girlfriend that I was head over heels for. She was classy, sexy, smart, fun, and the sex is still the best I ever had. She had everything I wanted, but she refused/couldn't discuss the topics I really wanted to discuss. It's not even like she was too dumb, she just didn't care one bit. She wasn't cut out for it. It was a lonely relationship for me. I've thought a hell of a lot about if ending that relationship was the right choice. For me, it was. As intellectual men, we should not be …
/r/askTRP21/10/14 02:27 AM
9

Dude is having sex with a girl who is out of his league, but she's crazy. O'Neal tells him to date a normal girl that is not out of his league nor crazy. Happiness lies more in being happy with the cards you are dealt than always striving for new cards. I had a girlfriend back in college who I felt was a notch higher than I had ever had before. Got her using a TRP mindset, held her using a TRP mindset. Eventually though, I got exhausted from holding frames that were not 100% natural. She was a b…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 05:25 AM
5

You're stretching with this. If she intimidates you and you believe she's out of your league, then she is not a likely girl to break an incel streak with. Write it off. Play with it. Have fun. Expect nothing.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 03:58 AM
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Well, you put the money on the line when you bought the ticket in the first place. She didn't owe you anything - still gotta push the right buttons. I would have told her you expect her to pay you for her flight back. Tell her if she refuses, you'll cancel and then she'll be stuck with an even bigger bill. Tell her you thought there was an implicit understanding that sex would be involved, and that the lack of sex means she can pay her own way home. There was a medium ground to take here that wa…
/r/askTRP20/10/14 03:39 AM
2

No offense taken. I know she may not truly care. I also know she doesn't really want to hear it. The problem with women is that - even more then men - they are vessels for social values. They do not create them, they absorb them. This is why we find ourselves in this situation.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 07:14 PM
2

On this note, I hope you are not saying you want your sister to end up with a beta provider, what I think you want her to find is a strong alpha male who also is in a point in his life where he wants to have a LTR and be the strong guiding rock in his womans life. This. Of course. I want her to find a man who is her alpha who she can respect and love in an LTR. As far as instilling wisdom in your sisters I would for one mention nothing of TRP. Its too big a cliff to dump them off. I also would a…
/r/askTRP19/10/14 06:59 PM
3

Actively using what power you have to protect others in your clan is not "beta as fuck". There are few things more alpha. Think about the alpha dad who uses subtle cues (or not-so-subtle) to communicate to his daughter's suitor that he better walk the right path and treat his daughter well. This alpha dad knows his daughter's reputation and emotional health is on the line. Is that a beta thing to do? No. Rolling over and letting every chump around fuck your daughter because "its her life" or wha…
/r/askTRP19/10/14 06:33 PM
1

Wait a couple days. Could be nothing, I've convinced myself I had an STD on at least three separate occasions. Probably just from the normal friction of sex. If it recurs, go see a doctor. This is if they are small, pinprick red dots. If they are medium or look like anything other that "dots", go see a doctor.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 07:15 AM
1

Do something that hides your face but allows you to be in-character and flirtatious somehow. Women will love the mystery. edit: looks like /u/zmurgy39 beat me to the punch. what he said, be zorro.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 06:56 AM
3

It's very important that you know that men are more alpha or less alpha. Nobody is truly completely alpha. We are all working to be the best men that we can be. In your case, this means trying your best to cope with your illnesses without leaning on women and by leaning on other men as little as possible. Find a good friend or two who you can tell your problems to when you need to. Also, don't be afraid to talk (or type) to therapists. You are dealing with a lot. It is much better to tell your p…
/r/askTRP19/10/14 06:07 AM
6

DO NOT SAY ANYTHING TO HER. Don't reply. Leave it. She wants attention and nothing more. Any reply you give will feed her ego, and that is the last thing you want to do. If you tell her its OK - or even if you reply at all - you are continuing your old behavior. This won't be the last time she initiates contact, but it is your first opportunity to act like a real man.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 05:51 AM
3

already forgotten
/r/askTRP19/10/14 05:41 AM
2

I know. I know. I appreciate your thoughts on this, but it's a patronizing thing to say. I fully embrace my own agency.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 05:16 AM
1

DONT YOU TALK ABOUT MY SISTER LIKE THAT. ಠ_ಠ No, I'm quite aware of what you are telling me. I hear Saudi Arabia is nice this time of year...
/r/askTRP19/10/14 04:56 AM
2

I can see your point. I'm a mixed bag, like most, my youngest sister sees me as more alpha. She will benefit most from increased attention. I've always despised men who spin plates, but I might start, which might help me regain some ground I've lost with my eldest.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 04:43 AM
12

Women are able to have sex with men who are much higher than them socially. This is what they want, and it gives them the tingles. Men cannot do this, or at least they cannot do this if everyone knows that is what they are doing. The problem with this is that women cannot convince these same men to stick around. In order to have a deep, fulfilling relationship, they need to date men on their own level. If they are accustomed to fucking men who are out of their league (more alpha than they deserv…
/r/askTRP19/10/14 04:21 AM
5

Don't cold approach in high school. Do learn enough game to have success in situations you find yourself in naturally. Learn to work a room and make friends with everyone. You should be focused on building relationships with men and women, not purely women. The women will come automatically when you show you can hold your own with the right men. Apparently you haven't experienced buddy props for approaches/dating. Approaches are hard, and you buddies will probably respond very differently than y…
/r/askTRP19/10/14 03:43 AM
10

They do need our protection. A man looks out for his own. I cannot make decisions for them, but they do fall under my umbrella of protection, and I will do right by them. I may only have 1/1,000,000th of the power, but I'll exercise the power I have.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 03:06 AM
13

I'm not trolling man, and I'm not sure what concern troll even means. People troll by acting concerned? This is a good answer. It's not that clear to me. I'm intellectual. I tend to give reasons. This makes much more sense than that does. Thanks.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 02:46 AM
-2

You. Kick. Ass. You have inspired me sir. I've never been into "spinning plates" but my recent fascination with TRP has warmed me up to the idea. I had this whole plan about how I was going to make an excuse to visit a city 2 hours away just to call up a girl who had previously offered herself to me back in college (I denied) and suggest we get a drink. All so I can get that plate spinning. Fuck that shit. I know what she wants. I think I'll just call her and tell her that she's coming to my cit…
/r/askTRP19/10/14 02:37 AM
1

Are you confident you aren't giving off needy vibes? The only men who I openly disrespect are those who constantly and actively need my approval. The fact that you just leased a new Mercedes makes this more likely in my mind, because you could choose to flat out buy a more modest car, but if you need lots of approval it increases the attractiveness of leasing a flashy car instead. I can't stand the one super needy guy I know. He owns his own business, drives a BMW, wears the nicest clothes, and …
/r/askTRP19/10/14 01:21 AM
2

Your Fordship! thrway1312! You're looking wonderfully pneumatic today.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 09:49 PM
9

An Excerpt from Daniel Deida's "The Way of the Superior Man" "Actually, the gay and lesbian community is acutely aware that sexual polarity is independent of gender. But you still need two poles for a passionate play of sexuality to persist in a relationship: masculine and feminine, top and bottom, butch and femme—whatever you want to call these reciprocal poles of sexual play. It is up to you: you can have a loving friendship between two similars, but you need a more masculine and a more femini…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 07:30 PM
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Couldn't agree more. I happen to think that the feminization of society has a plethora of positive effects for our dear leaders. Lack of Bastille storming is one. It seems to me that the drift of men and women towards androgyny has similar effects to what happens when the charges of atoms change. Molecular bonds break, and what once were complex social dances and arrangements becomes a chaotic mess of individual atoms. It's as if society is in a large pressure cooker that breaks us down into ind…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 07:16 PM
2

Oh I believe you. It's just a stupid premise, is all. You got downvoted for pointing out that the show is too blue pill and needs a bullshit cover story for why the relationship is actually going to work. When clearly, it wouldn't.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 04:59 AM
2

I'm not an-cap. The philosophy has never made a lick of sense to me.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 04:54 AM
5

You are equating liberalism to progressivism, which is the ugly wart on the end of liberalism's nose. Liberalism is the benefactor of humanity, and Progressives are the malignant, head-in-the-sand outgrowth. I know it seems like I'm parsing words, but there is a very real difference. Lots of things have been started with the best intentions that spiraled out of control. Feminism is perfect example of that. Exactly. Liberalism and enlightenment values do not deny reality. Progressivism does; it i…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 04:52 AM
2

How long have you been on here? I felt the same way as you do when I rediscovered this sub. You're wrong though, this is healthy. For us to have any real strength and motivation, men need to be men. This sub allows men to reclaim their rightful place as fathers, lovers, and leaders. It's not about war with women; its about learning how to be at peace through strength. You are right - it's a divide and conquer strategy - but if this is where the battlefront is I will gladly fight here. Our very s…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 04:23 AM
5

IT does not begin or end with anything. Tug on anything and you find it connected to everything else. Shutting down open debate like you just did betrays emotional investment in the topic. *EDIT: Struggling to be civil here.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 03:57 AM
1

Oh wretched violation of everything good and holy! What demented filth was that? I can still feel her sickness creeping through my brain. Grab your pitchforks boys. Its time to find this solipsic demon bitch and send her back to hell.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 03:26 AM
14

HAHAHA. You're such a joker Burner1701. Classic Burner1701 right there. Classic.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 03:08 AM
2

Your faggot threshold is too low sir. With a faggot sensitivity as high as yours you are at high risk of developing PFPD (Pervasive Faggot Personality Disorder) in fact, it's clear you are already suffering some symptoms. I recommend a strict diet of Oprah and Golden Girls until your faggot revulsion levels normalize. You'll thank me in the morning.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 04:37 AM
1

"Paradise lies beneath the shadow of swords" Muhammad
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 02:47 AM
4

Hell yes monogamy is worth it, do your thing man, and stay positive about your prospects. Especially since you are religious, you have a better chance than most at finding an untainted woman. It seems TRP is split between those who want to rebuild society and those who want to tear it down further. The men who are fatalistic and defeatists in this area are not helping themselves, their women, or our society. You are a builder like me. Build.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 03:12 AM
1

Wow. Bravo. I love this, and I'm not just blowing you. This is it, the core of society, and I'm happy to see it stated well. I'll be following.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 03:32 AM
10

Exactly. It is also no coincidence that western countries are on the leading edge of this decline. They are getting crippled and corralled into political non-entities unable to practice self determination. Welcome to the era of national castration.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 04:21 PM
1

I actually don't think its a terrible idea. Women choose. Mating is not an equal field, and I would expect a dating site that works really well to reflect actual sexual dynamics and not equality for equalities sake. I also assume that mostly low quality men and women will be on this, but that may not be true, and the dynamics might be fun for men. When I was on a dating site I'd wait for the woman to contact me. Its much easier to just write a killer profile and then let them convince themselves…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 01:49 AM
1

There are tons of studies that support me. If you want to find these studies in the journals themselves be my guest. Here is one on the heritability of self confidence. One about inherited predispositions towards political views is here. All you need to do is search for them, like I said, this is a well researched topic. The nature vs nurture debate is crucial to political orientation, and you don't need a study to see it. Egalitarians (leftists) believe that everyone is equal and should be trea…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 04:07 AM
1

twin studies have shown that your genetic inheritance is incredibly important How the hell you got "it's all nature" from that, I'll never know. You are in no position to be calling people stupid buddy. Your reading comprehension is apparently quite poor.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 04:24 AM
0

All of which value virginity, however.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 06:09 AM
2

No, it's a perfectly good question, and it would have been easy to answer in specifics. How much boy felatio happened in traditional Japanese culture? in Germanic culture? Jewish? In Chinese? See a correlation in the success of these societies? Were these cultures that also valued virginity? (hint - yes) How about this: Aboriginal peoples in Australia do not consider virginity important. They also have gotten absolutely nowhere. We idiotic lay-men are ready for a little fucking science, sir, let…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 05:51 AM
1

It's not just that women screw things up, there are class lines which are hard for them to cross. That super sexy white trash girl drives you mad, but she's just not the type you bring home to mama so her status doesn't rise. Same goes for guys too though, just ask Mr. Gatsby.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 05:09 AM
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It's a pretty accurate/awesome word really. Say you have a solipsic slip when you are on some heavy drugs (I have) - you believe that you are the only thing that is actually real, and that everything else exists for your benefit (or torture) in one way or another. Narcissists only care about themselves, but it doesn't mean that they don't acknowledge the independent existence of others. When you are two years old your world view is solipsism, not narcissism. Its kind of hard to describe a world …
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 09:00 PM
1

This is a long held liberal belief that is demonstrably false. Estranged twins are a perfect controlled experiment, and twin studies have shown that your genetic inheritance is incredibly important. I won't follow your lead by pulling a bogus percentage out of my arse.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 05:32 AM
1

Great explanation. The only stipulation that I would add (though I agree with everything you said) is that genetics does play a role in this, and that some men are born naturally more dominant and capable of leading. With that said, there is no doubt that men have been feminized and taught to be more beta. Bringing the idea of free riders into this is absolutely spot on.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 05:17 AM
1

Despite what you redpillers might think not everyone actually does value or want an alpha and some do want/need a beta. A woman wants a leader. The concept of ultimate alpha is a myth, an ideal. There is only more alpha or less alpha. More beta or less beta. Every woman does want an alpha, but that really means an alpha to her. Beyond that, it becomes harder to say. Very few women, however, find satisfaction in relationships with men who are weaker than the woman. We could qualify all day long t…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 05:05 AM
1

Ah, now that I understand your view I think you make some good points. Women are tethered to men, men tethered to women. The bell curve of effective male predispositions is simply higher on the dominance spectrum than the curve of effective female predispositions. Question: could this be part of the reason why the extremes in the spectrum seek each other out? EG, hyper dominant men select hyper submissive women and vice versa? Could this be, in part, an attempt to return to the mean? Perhaps ano…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 08:52 PM
2

men are naturally born to be alpha or beta to an extent, and culture then moves your alpha/beta tendency in a certain direction I agree. that's why any society got big by rewarding betas, and punishing most alphas (prison, execution) Perhaps this is why Asians have lower T, whites have mid-levels, and blacks have high levels, comparatively. Asians have lived in large civilizations for much longer. Perhaps civilization changes the equilibrium of the success of Hawk (alpha) strategies when compare…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 06:20 PM
1

Sexual dimorphism suggests to me that you are underestimating how differently evolutionary pressures can work on the sexes.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 05:07 PM
0

I never specified that we are talking about only post modern civilization. When I say society is not getting progressively more alpha, I am talking about a 5,000 year span of time.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 04:44 PM
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