Now by 'bone I don't mean REAL skeletons or corpses per se. And yeah, I'm using the term 'dysphemistically'. Here the 'bone' refers to a past 'dead' episode, a comment or details. And you use these bones in a mind game to trip up a woman, to contradict her--usually to defend yourself, but often to 'win' and control the current real-time space. Often you don't have to do any hard collecting because women often provide the 'bones' themselves with what they've said or done before, BUT forgotten about. But here's my classic example: My 'wife' does a lot of housework and lets me know, so one day I watched over what she actually did. Then I looked for the areas she'd missed, nothing came to mind but I stored it in my mind to find something; to 'look for bones'--then one day as I was preparing a meal I realised that the knives were blunt. In fact they were ALWAYS blunt and I could never remember her (or me) sharpening them. OK, that was one bone. Then I remembered that the light in our dining room didn't work properly either. We'd never noticed because we never used it. The room was an offshoot of the kitchen which provided a strong bright light. OK, that was the second bone. Now I didn't bring either of these matters up with my wife. I stored them, kept them secret, and waited. Then eventually it happened--out of the blue--I was relaxing after a heavy week away at work. I'd returned, first day off and was relaxing on the couch. Strange during these times the wife seemed to be at a frenzy cleaning. Why couldn't it occur BEFORE I got home? Then my wife 'reminded' me how lucky I was. That I could just relax because SHE did all the work around the house, and kept everything shipshape. SHIPSHAPE. That was my cue..."How come everything is shipshape when we haven't got a sharp knife in the house and the Dining light hasn't worked for years," I said. It worked a treat. She mumbled something and walked over to the knife set. Within 10 minutes I heard her furiously sharpening one of the blunt carving knives. I had dominated the space--with pure good common reason, evidence and a valid argument. Like a lawyer I picked my moment to present my 'exhibits'--the bones that I'd collected. And I was 'King' for a day.