Nice guy test

Rumble_in_the_Jungle · 2014-03-17T20:41:01+00:00

This sentiment applies when starting out in RP theory, but quickly falls apart once you've "made it."

My plates actually treat me very well, and I certainly want to bang them.
Once sex with attractive women is both consistent and relatively easy to get, factors that determine whether you want to bang someone begin to depend on personality rather than looks (because good looks are consistent).
There will always be an element of reciprocal attraction. It's not enough for me (really, my ego) for a girl to have sex with me - she has to lust after me. Given the choice, many would prefer a less pretty girl who is enthusiastic about sex with you versus a hard 10 who'll lay there like a dead starfish.

But yeah, self improvement is great and should certainly be top priority.

HarderThanAlgebra · 2014-03-17T18:21:52+00:00

What if it is the same girl?

SirNemesis · 2014-03-17T21:43:47+00:00

Given equal physical attractiveness, the girl I'd want to have sex with IS the girl who treats me the nicest of all the girls.

The same can't be said for who a girl would want to have sex with. Bad analogy.

mordanus · 2014-03-17T20:58:02+00:00

This doesn't really follow though. Men and women like different things in mates and being a nice girl is something that we look for. That is why we do it as men. We project our desires onto ourselves and try to be them. The same thing goes for women. They want a man who is powerful and manly and so now they are projecting that and trying to become that. Most of feminism deals with that projection concept of women becoming the man they want to marry. Men project in the same way and try to be the person that we want.

Chgr · 2014-03-18T00:12:38+00:00

Omg, this stuff again. Please understand, men and women are totally different, and you can't make analogies that cover just ultimate, visible consequences of our (completely dissimilar) natures. It's like saying - "if you kill a human that's a bad thing but if you kill a mosquito it's ok, THAT'S NOT FAIR". Well that's because you are operating on superficial level, without entering the core of the problem, like you are doing with this meaningless analogy.

BaltoSquadGuy · 2014-03-17T18:40:51+00:00

These are like the fortune cookies of the RP feed... I like them. A corollary to this lesson is that a woman will hang out with you if she wants to. That means if she wants to see you, she won't tell you about how she can't and how she'll see ya later, she'll give you the other times when she can or drop her less important plans. A corollary to that is that you can't force love or someone to want you, in fact, my experience in life is that you get the opposite effect of what you try to force - i.e. you try to force your girlfriend not to look at other guys (like some kind of ridiculous Saudi shit) and that's what will burn inside her until it happens. They do what they want. Make it so they want to do you.

Title	Nice guy test
Author	PourSmore
Upvotes	17
Comments	11
Date	March 17, 2014 6:13 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/20nb1b/nice_guy_test/
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