Preface: this applies only to a certain subset of men.

So, the interpretation of many on this subreddit is be the "silent alpha". I will say to you: keep an open mind.

Now, the approach I'm talking about takes full advantage of the emotional depth women have.

First Off: attraction = face + body + feelings

Think of the artists that cause married women to fall in love and leave it all for them. These are poets, artists, musicians, etc... Men that can connect with the woman on a deep emotional level and who aren't your prototypical built deadbeat.

I'm a skinny guy yet I have a cute face which let's me get my foot in the door, but what attracts them more than the other perhaps more stereotypical alpha guys is that I bring them into this whole new world of ideas and emotions. I study physics, but I usually read philosophy and write spoken word guitar songs.

What am I doing? Displaying high value for one. The typical guy she meets at a club doesn't do these things. Second, I create a connection. I've been told I can't talk with guys like I can with you. When a girl tells me this, the sex turns into love making almost.

Cook book recipe:

  1. Perform DHVs that specifically set you apart
  2. Connect on an emotional level

Step 2 is best performed always after getting physical. Usually girls get the douchier side of me with hints of the more emotional side at first. Always alternating.

I will also say, being a drama queen, without taking it too far, works wonders. Incredibly. Something about the rollercoaster of emotions being associated with you. Maybe since you're on her head that much.

Discuss!