Oneitis is strong with this one, yet he still makes a good point.

rebuildingMyself · 2013-06-10T03:32:16+00:00

TL;DR a woman at her peak SMV will probably fuck around.

Sounds more like red pill to me.

RedSunBlue · 2013-06-10T04:52:26+00:00

Oh Jesus, this guy...

While I don't doubt your honesty, it's not her beauty that took her away. It was a lack of commitment to your relationship which isn't necessary caused by beauty. It could be because she loves variety, it could be because she wanted something specific you didn't have, or any number of things. Normal and ugly looking people can be just as flighty and non-committal, although their options may seem lesser. Source: Also dated a beautiful woman, I lost her on my own without another guy being in the picture by being flighty and non-committal.

IllimitableMan · 2013-06-10T04:18:42+00:00

This is red pill not blue pill because he's basically saying that chicks branch out. Sure he has oneitis, but his advice is that hot chicks have more options due to high smv and that this allows them many many branches and thus you cannot allow yourself to love beautiful women as they can and will replace you on a whim or when shit hits the fan.

He is right.

Staple_Stable · 2013-06-10T05:01:09+00:00

His wife isn't even that hot. Reddit just has an obsession with Asian women, and this is coming from someone that prefers Asian women (in the looks department only though). Take off her makeup and she's very plain/average looking.

I know this isn't really relevant, but this whole website obsesses over average looking women with expensive makeup/hairstyles/clothing. It really annoys me because it furthers the 'I could never get a girl like that' attitude.

slippery_people · 2013-06-10T07:22:43+00:00

He speaks the truth. Beautiful women are continually reminded of how beautiful they are. When I was in college this extraordinarily attractive older girl took a liking to me for some reason. The first time I went out with her, we had a couple drinks at a bar. There's another couple at a table near us, and I can pretty much hear everything they're saying. The woman is just going on an on to her boyfriend about how "gorgeous" my date is. Then someone comes to our table and says, "I just wanted to tell you how beautiful you are." People just won't shut the fuck up about it. (Stop hitting on my date you mother fuckers!) Then when we leave, instead of getting a cab, she just flags down a random car and some middle-aged dude (after putting his child's carseat and diapers in the trunk) dropped us off at a house party.

Ragnar09 · 2013-06-10T07:52:03+00:00

ALL women regardless how "hot" they are the same...Why do all these pussies all of sudden think its a different game?

deksamkcab · 2013-06-10T09:42:27+00:00

His experience supports mine. I also had a GF with very high SMV. Due to her own insecurities however, she was looking for validation just about anywhere she could find it. Be it her job (she had workaholic tendencies) or by flirting with customers, who would constantly tell her she was the woman of their dreams, they would divorce their families to be with her etc. She had orbiters en masse, some of them since 15 years. Our relationship was happy until she started to critizise me for every little thing and soon after broke up with me to be with one of her customer orbiters, who was 'more fun' than me...

3rt41 · 2013-06-10T07:32:30+00:00

I will reply here too:

Not always true. My ex gf and her sister are simply two beautiful girls. Beautiful, with a B. The kind of woman that could make the king crazy just to become the queen. Both are equally orbited by men EVERY SINGLE DAY. Both open up facebook and have a bunch of notification and multiple chat with men opened every day. The difference is in the person. My ex gf's sister is a loving, caring person and doesn't even think about other men because she is in love with her boyfriend (not good looking and wealthy, i know it's weird but they simply click together). My ex on the other end is one that feeds on orbiters and attention. She was always giving hints just to "keep them around" and eventually jumped on someone else's cock when she felt to. I lived the example of the fact that it totally depends on the person right in front of my eyes. And, to be honest, even if both are equally super hot girls, probably the sister is even hotter than my ex herself. Just hope you get lucky to find someone that really cares about you.

_Molon_Labe_ · 2013-06-10T11:13:24+00:00

I love how right under that is a few dorks arguing about the statistical representation of reddit compared to the general population.

Ragnar09 · 2013-06-10T04:59:41+00:00

that guy is not as attractive as the other comments are making him out to be. here's the truth about attractive guys.

i have this "look" that most girls are into. i'm pretty damn attractive, and let me tell you that no matter how exotic or beautiful a woman may be, she's not nearly as rare as a guy of similar attractiveness. more sought-after and chased yes for sure, but when these girls see a guy that really make them wet they want to lock that shit down.

pretty girls are everywhere with make-up and a more rigid standard of attractiveness for females in society. but guys don't have the luxury of make-up or high fashion to improve their looks. so the good-looking, really attractive guys are naturally that way. how many girls do you think would be 8s and 9s without any make-up on? not many. not many at all.

so, this problem that this handsome guy is having in that comment? it doesn't really exist. if you're an attractive guy, you don't have to worry (as much as the comment says) about your girl fucking around on you or constantly looking at other guys. imagine if every woman in the world stopped wearing make-up, and you found one of the few that are just naturally gorgeous. are you going to be looking at every other frumpy-looking girl trying to see if any of them are better for you than the natural knockout, or are you going to try and keep her as committed as possible to you because she's the best-looking one there is?

don't listen to what everyone says in these forums. woman like looks just as much as men. just because you can get the pretty girl in bed doesn't mean you're hot enough to keep her around. girls would stay with johnny depp forever if they could.

Title	Oneitis is strong with this one, yet he still makes a good point.
Author	daykid
Upvotes	15
Comments	50
Date	June 10, 2013 3:16 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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