So back in my younger days, I was a bit of a player. I had just gotten out of the military, I was going to college, had a little BS job to cover my bar tabs, and was plating multiple chicks. One chick (let's call her Mary), was all about me but wasn't giving it up as she is trying to get me to commit before we get physical because she had just become a born-again Christian. She's a cutie and all, but I have other outlets to get what I want from other women, so we just remain friends that fool around but don't go all the way.

My cousin introduces me to some other chick (let's call her Jane) who is smoking hot... and she knows it. I suppose she was digging me because I wasn't all up on her tits, so she gave me her number and we start talking/dating. She wants to get serious with me, and it sounds cool, but college is my priority so I don't have much time to get really serious.

I was really attracted to Jane, so I didn't just want to blow her off and wasn't sure about what to do. Mary (I suspect starts getting jealous) starts to see the writing on the wall that it's just not going to happen between us, so hears me out on what's going on with Jane, and gives me advice. It was about to be February, so she tells me to be romantic and do something lovey-dovey for her everyday until V-Day.

I figured, she's a chick, so she knows what chicks like so I did as she advised. It must have made me seem like such a Beta bitch because Jane started giving me these "WTF, dude" looks, each day leading up to V-Day. Seriously, it was a huge hassle and it did nothing to get me closer to smashing or keeping her as one of my plates.

I eventually got a high-paying job and figured "Fuck yeah. Now I got her." NOPE. She wound up getting pregnant by some fucking lowlife that she was going to school with. She became a single mother, and I figured it would make things easier to get with her. No go. She still saw me as a Beta bitch and could give a fuck how much money I was making since I had lost SMV (I suspect) due to working so much.

I eventually turned to Mary and was like "How bout us?" Mary, now saw me as a Beta bitch too and was like "You're a really nice guy, but no thanks." She eventually settled for a super Beta Bucks.

TL,DR: Fell for a hot chick, one of my plates gave me relationship advice, and it blew up in my face. I lost both chicks.