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Plate spinning

auspicious7
May 9, 2014
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Title Plate spinning
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auspicious7
Upvotes 0
Comments 9
Date May 9, 2014 5:50 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2558cd/plate_spinning/
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[–]TVTestPattern 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Did you tell her you were exclusive?

[–]auspicious7[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

not exclusive with anyone

[–]wttr 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you feel like taking her out again tell her to meet you for drinks or whatever. If she declines next her. The joy of plate spinning is that when one falls, there are others.

[–]TVTestPattern 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

All good then. It's up to her I'm sure... no skin off your nose.

You can afford to even be a bit magnanimous in this circumstance. If she still plays ball do something nice... a favorite restaurant, band, whatever...

Absent malice, you're good. You are doing exactly what you told her you were doing. And that is very RP.

[–]16 TRP VanguardTRPsubmitter 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I never try to burn bridges with plates. Simply lower them on your priority ladder.

If we're not exclusive and she starts being flakey or even admits to doing other guys, I won't tell her off. I will just treat her like a low value/ low priority fuck buddy. Only contact when the sun goes down type of thing.

With you, she hasn't done anything and it's obviously she likes you more than you like her. I'd hit her up again for sure. Can't hurt.

[–]auspicious7[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Thanks, I'm going to hit her up again. I don't know how receptive she'll be after seeing me with someone else but I'm still going to contact her again.

[–]allcapsisyelling 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Possibly MORE receptive. Just maintain frame. If she has a problem, it's HER problem.

[–]TytalusWarden 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

For something like this I'd probably go dark. Don't say a word until she brings something up. She will--give it a few days (or a few drinks) and she'll want to talk to you again.

[–]ModMachiavellianRed 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This question is better suited to /r/asktrp

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