Hello men. I am going straight to the point. \rI understand the concept of oneitis and have always struggled with that before I knew red pill. I tried everything to get something out of all my oneitis and to work something out, it came to a point that I believed that the more I invested on her (hanging out alone with her, talking to her without even making body contact) the more I would have chances to KISS her. Yeah, this is fucking stupid. \rAfter I met the RP I identified myself so much with the oneitis concept and started trying to stop giving a fuck about particular girls, but it has come to a point that I feel a real doubt growing in me: \rWhen I feel I still have chance with a girl if I insist more on it I don't know what to do. I feel like this is probably an oneitis and if I just let her go its like I am just mad at a game i can't win and just ragequit it, that i should keep trying and pushing and not lose this opportunity. \rPlease. Change my way of thinking.