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[–]_whistler 16 points17 points18 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hey OP, don't let these guys get you down. Everyone moves at different speeds; as long as you're always moving forward, how fast you're going is up to you. Focus on the good things you can take away from this experience, listen to the legitimate criticisms offered by a couple of the other commenters, and most importantly, apply everything you learn to the next time around.
Good FR. Keep 'em coming.
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks.
[–]SE17 35 points36 points37 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
End of the evening came I knew I wasn't going to have sex since she had made it clear over the phone.
Lol. If only you knew.
You could have smashed that in your car if you went for it.
[–]BIG_Daddy_Government 9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
One of the few things i learnt and accepted as a pillar at trp is:
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Telling herself that you aren't going to have sex just allows her to rationalise that she only did it because it was 'special' or there was a 'connection' or some other bollocks. It also means that she has definitely considered the possibility if it happening.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
one of her questions she asked was why I liked her age.
Two responses to this.
[–]Endorsed ContributorLastRevision 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The response I like to use here is, "Girls my age are usually so boring. Younger girls are always a lot more fun. The only thing is sometimes they can be kinda immature." You know it worked if she starts qualifying her maturity and worthiness to you.
[–]TRPinitiate 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is essentially my go-to response. I love how it makes them qualify their maturity etc. to you. Spot on.
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[–]drrtyfrrnr -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Think of it as an offering for the hamster to work harder so you can have the sex while she's rationalizing everything.
[–]HappyJerk 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I say to this: "I don't really care about age. I mean tons of young girls that are awesome and mature and intelligent, and I meet older girls that are immature and bitchy."
[–]TRPinitiate 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
But I got her to climb on my lap in my car and practiced a few tricks on her
You could've/should've fucked her there BUT.
Today I message her and ask her if she enjoyed the other night. She replies emphatically yes. I tell her that the next time I see her I want to have sex, and in fact its the only reason why I want to see her again. Her only reply: If you are going to use me for sex then just make sure I enjoy it. She has realised she is going to get pumped and dumped and she is happy with it.
Good man, good recovery. Spin dat plate.
[+]3rt41 -6 points-5 points-4 points 12 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
Is fucking a fattie 18 y/o a big league? Just go for some real pussy dude
[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 19 points20 points21 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
How I read this is this chick is a practice chick until something better comes along.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Bingo. I had been chatting to her online and the photos made her look like a 7... sadly it was false advertising.
[–]_whistler 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Always subtract a couple points from whatever the photos make her look like. Girls are pros at manipulating that shit.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That is a fact. Its just a pity because I did enjoy having a woman only speak when I asked her something or she had something decent to contribute and she didn't argue when I ordered for her... which is always a big plus. On top of that she was perfectly waxed.
Fucking pity about that damn tummy and the taste of cigarettes.
[–]_whistler 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'll tell you what though brother, if she offers a lot and the main downside is extra blubber...you could always keep her on board as an occasional plate and reinforce that she needs to heighten her fitness level. My girl right now I'd put at a solid 7, but I'm slowly raising her up to an 8 through guidance in proper nutrition and exercise. Depends on whether you want to spend the time doing that though. I enjoy mentoring, but it's not for everyone.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
I never said she was the big leagues, fuck no. I was just practising on her. You obviously missed the fact that I plan to pump and dump.
[–]3rt41 -4 points-3 points-2 points 12 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Dude you are 28 and "need practice" over a 18 fattie? I appreciate you are applying trp in that situation, i do, but going out to dinner is way out of target.
If she is a pump and dump, why the dinner shit?
Don't waste too much time over her and practice on your confidence.
I wouldn't feel good fucking a 18 fat kiddie girl, it's just overkill, it's like using a sledgehammer instead of putting your finger on a doorbell.
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[–]3rt41 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I want to make it clear that i approve of op, he is a bro, i just hope he gets the best out of this but the dinner scenario is already a basic no-no in my opinion, but hey whatever
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have been in a bad place for the last three years, slowly coming right. So this was just a refresher course and it allowed me to toy with her.
[–]Drvibe 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So on Monday night I went out with a 18 year old. I am 28. She was short (as expected) and had a cute face. But sadly she turned out to be a HB6 due to her tummy (it made her look 4 months preg) and her smoking. But I had arranged to take her out so I did. Now previously she had mentioned that she liked a guy to be assertive, dominating almost. When we arrived at the restuarant I ordered her wine, without asking what she wanted, and when it was time to order the meal I straight up ordered her a salad, and not even an expensive one. I ordered myself an expensive meal and reordered my drinks when ever they emptied. The evening progressed well, and every physical advance I made was accepted without hesitation. Her eyes were constantly glancing down at my lips (which even during my beta days was a sure fire sign that I was in the money). End of the evening came I knew I wasn't going to have sex since she had made it clear over the phone. But I got her to climb on my lap in my car and practiced a few tricks on her like whispering the dirtiest things I could think of into her ear. The shivers running down her body were electric. My hands were allowed to go anywhere they wanted after that.
agree 100%
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I wasn't planning a P&D until I actually saw her in person. I was expecting a 7 but instead I got a 6. Was hoping for LTR material but I won't stoop to that level. So the dinner had been on the cards and since it was after payday it was nice to enjoy a great pizza.
Ignore these niggas telling you that you did wrong. You did good. You went out, had fun, saw a skank for what she is and have decided to move on. Nothing wrong with that my friend.
[–]_whistler 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'd still advise against dinner as a first-date standard. I have a buddy who tends to fall back on it as a go-to, but like I keep telling him: dinner is for relationships. A bar is for meeting someone. Since this girl is 18 - depending on the drinking age in your area - maybe a bar wouldn't work logistically. That's my problem with the under 21 crowd, though. I don't really have a solution to offer, because 21 is as young as I'll go. The logistics are just easier when you can tell her to meet you at a bar.
EDIT: Oh hey, just saw from another of your comments that the drinking age is 18. Bar, all the way. You can talk to other people, flirt with other girls, lots of opportunity to display high SMV. Restaurant you've got to rely on initial attraction and just build it through conversation.
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[–]Evers89 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh come on the x/10 was around long before the PUA culture turned it around. It's a good meter for details.
I'm in agreement about nexting her, but the way it's being presented tells me he's in, so I would wait until the job is done.
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I live in a country were the drinking age is 18 and the age of sexual consent is 12.
[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
My man is Mexican. No statutory rape if you're fucking a 13 year old, but if the 13 year old was drunk.... lmfao.
Oh man, my sense of humour is fucked up.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
South Africa actually...
[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
All good man :)
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Some of your Afrikaner bitches are fine.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Absolutely! We have this beautiful mix from the European bloodlines (English, Dutch, French) and on top of that the traditional ones do enjoy a spot of anal once they have cooked you dinner and cleaned your house.
I love this country.
[–]nerdyfitnessguy 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Can't get more low mileage than a 12 year old. crickets
You're assuming US
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