Projecting Alpha Traits

BigTexas07 · 2017-02-19T21:03:08+00:00

Getting a girl you don't even know an annoymous valentine's day card (then admitting it was you) is pretty beta if you ask me.

Read the sidebar.

AnjaJutta · 2017-02-19T20:23:13+00:00

TLDR: A 5 page report of detailed analyzing of differences in body language between Chads, alphas and betas that OP noted down whilst being on a people watching monk mode for 5 years. The post ends with a small commentary on the state of the redpill today, and a diatribe against feminism, George Soros and xenestrogens.

bruh_my_jays · 2017-02-19T23:07:42+00:00

My end goal is to take this girl out.

Your end goal should be to leave a load on her face. There's no point in associating with her if your end goal is to waste time/money on supplicating

Looking for suggestions on what I should have done differently and what to do going forward.

In my opinion you already fucked yourself with the anonymous card thing, but who knows...

Ghost to see if she is attracted to you, she will seek you out if she is, but don't spend a dime on her and don't hang out with her unless you're both committed to the idea of banging.

Also find other bitches because abundance is a major key.

Goateeki · 2017-02-20T00:50:16+00:00

I don't think this is necessarily a bad thing. Now ask her to have dinner with you.

TheRedCherd · 2017-02-19T21:27:55+00:00

If u want to take her out u go right up and ask. U dont spend money on anonymous gifts tip toeing around hoping shes going to make a move on you. She wont.

Stay the fuck away from her on valentines day instead u want her to wonder if ur out with other girls.

Shiva-Lingam · 2017-02-19T22:34:32+00:00

Maybe, just maybe, you should also focus on meeting other women instead of focusing on just this one. You're still learning and she works in the same company so it might be awkward for you to interact with her as you know if she rejects you, you will bump into her quite often.

Also, your game is taking a long time to bear fruits, if she's interested something should have happened already - so that means either she's not interested or you are not escalating.

do_it_rawdog · 2017-02-20T00:57:54+00:00

If you want to ask a girl out, you need to show intent from the get-go. There's a chance she's attracted to you and will overlook the beta clinic you've put on display here but there's a good chance that she sees you as a friend not a mate.

Let me break it down for you:

You gave her an anonymous gift
You have made small talk and established 'friendly comfort'

The gift screams neediness and supplicant frame. Neither of which are remotely attractive to women. The 'friendly comfort' small talk has very likely put you in the friendzone.

There's a chance you're still OK, that she took the gift as a romantic gesture and she respects your SMV so much that she's willing to overlook your mistakes.

If you're dead set on making the attempt with this girl, ask her out and make it clear it's a date. No "ahaha, I wanted to know if you wanna try <different coffee store> with me tomorrow." Make it man-to-woman. Drinks, something where you guys touch each other, an explicit date.

EDIT:

You should post this on AskTRP instead of here

Boy2Mann · 2017-02-20T02:10:37+00:00

Good thing you deleted this.

poynta · 2017-02-19T22:01:38+00:00

Sounds like youre pretty good at reading people and she didnt feel like the gift was creepy or inappropriate. If youre not overly invested in her then just ask her out before she puts you in the friendzone in her mind.

Theres no right or wrong way to go about it and if you have good frame and you take that into the date or into a relationship then you dont have anything to worry about. Theres no need to go full chad like some people are suggesting as long as youre aware of hypergamy and AWALT going in I cant see why you cant just do what you want.

Title	Projecting Alpha Traits
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	14
Date	February 19, 2017 7:24 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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