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Go to the main TRP sub and search for Vaisily Zaitzev's "CorporateLand" series. He has a solid post about job interviews: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3xpegq/corporateland_how_to_kill_it_in_your_job_interview/ In addition it would be worth your time to investigate the "powertalk" rabbit-hole, starting with this: https://www.reddit.com/r/AlreadyRed/comments/1zmm02/four_major_languages_spoken_in_organizations/
/r/askTRP14/03/17 01:56 AM
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Her asking you to be her boyfriend was power-talk masquerading as a candid plea. You took the bait by opening negotiations and she took advantage by re-framing the situation into an exercise in power-grabbing. Because you allowed this to happen, unconsciously no less, you conceded the willingness to walk away and received nothing in exchange. She doesn't want to have sex with a boyfriend, she wants to have sex with someone who is strong enough to maintain frame without resorting to negotiation. …
/r/askTRP13/03/17 08:29 PM
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Harmony comes from reconciling truth with anti-truth. Understanding the meaning of "amoral" and achieving "amused mastery" is being at peace. The serpent, Lucifer, who persuaded mankind to enter the realm of ethics did so according to God's will. The metaphor implicitly details the process of tempering one's sense of enlightenment by walking the path of uncertainty. Knowledge of morality, in other words, was the inaugural the shit-test -- and uncertainty is the medium that leads the blissfully i…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 07:25 PM
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Good to see you're starting your journey. This post is a good example of the feelings of someone who is new to TRP. What you're going through is completely normal. A common thing pattern I see among first phase/coping red-pillers is a distrust or even outright hatred towards women. This is indicated in your own post by three points made in one of your statements, ...there is no point in having feelings towards women... The mistake here is associating the frustration you have towards one specific…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 05:34 PM
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Keep hitting it until it runs dry then soft next
/r/askTRP11/03/17 05:45 AM
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You started negotiating logically. Hoes don't do that shit, they just want to feel good.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 05:20 AM
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Solipsism is a philosophy that came into form as a response to the question: what exists? It is the subjective response, relying on knowledge strictly regarding "the self." That is, solipsism is predicated on the self existing certainly and everything else existing uncertainly. The objective response is skepticism, which is symbolized by the Red Pill. As it relates to sexual strategy through the Red Pill lens, a "solipsist" is a self-obsessed female. She behaves with zero accountability to other…
/r/askTRP11/03/17 03:57 AM
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The paradox of being a romantic, wanting to love a woman who is too beautiful for the world but foregoing that desire for personal power and mindfulness. God only knows what I would do for my perfect unicorn to exist. The things we would all do. Another poem comes to mind to complement your post, Shakespeare's My Mistress' Eyes Are Nothing Like The Sun...
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 03:14 AM
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Dude it's your confidence, not your skin color. White bitches love brown dudes lol. If you're doing something wrong then figure out what the problem is and fix it. Don't blame the shit you can't control. If you write a field report with nuances people can help out better but otherwise idk wtf you're doing wrong specifically.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 02:56 AM
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Patrice O'Neal and Bill Burr
/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:32 PM
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Some from bars, parties, social circles, cold approaches, tinder...women come and go. They are everywhere and they are interchangeable. It's not hard to recruit a plate once you realize you're swimming in potentials. With new women/cold approaches/first dates the "secret" is to have a steady stream of amusement flowing from you to her. The context is arbitrary, attraction transpires from the mutual feeling of being present and having fun. Inviting her to the "next phase" of the date should happe…
/r/askTRP08/03/17 03:33 PM
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Sure it's Anal Wednesday if that counts
/r/askTRP08/03/17 03:15 PM
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Don't be delusional. A real man is a leader who inspires others to rise above, or at the very least doesn't need others to fail to fuel his own purpose. If you are really thriving as you say you are, then why must you post this? Anger and negativity is understandable, and venting is healthy behavior, but this is just lame. Move away from her and do self-improvement either on your own or with positive male friends, no women. See what real thriving feels like instead of clinging to the parasitic r…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 05:25 AM
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All you have to do is escalate and make them feel good. Once they are in your frame (i.e. you're certain they are attracted -- they are presenting IOI's kino happy) you iron-out the logistics and finish the close. Fuck your mental block it's not like you're going to get cancer from being rejected, so be outcome independent and do this for your own enjoyment. You already know what to do, now grow some balls and execute. Repeat after me: Always Be Closing tactic: Next time you have a chick and she…
/r/askTRP07/03/17 09:15 PM
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All that matters is that you're closing, having fun, and building attraction. Your intentions will be made clear by doing those things. escalating/ABC results in either success or rejection Not escalating results in rejection every time Don't get caught up with words (either yours or hers), instead focus on bringing a masculine presence and advancing the interaction into a sexual frame as smoothly as possible. Say "tea party" even, it doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 04:39 PM
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My point is that if the sex is available then she can be plated. Regardless of one's feelings. The title of your post is "stop caring who your plate also sees" -- other Chads and orbiters. Emphasize the things that solve outcome dependence and oneitis/scarcity. It's important to address the real problem and offer real solutions, especially for the guys who are new to game, instead of just telling them to stop calling their snowflakes "plates."
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 04:15 PM
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As long as she is dtf then take advantage, if she leaves she leaves. Don't worry about the orbiters they won't fuck her
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 03:57 PM
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If you give a fuck about what a plate does with other guys it's a sign you have a mentality of scarcity. The remedy is to find more bitches.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 03:44 PM
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The best way to learn how to "hold frame" is by dealing with people in the real world. Books are great for cognitive reasons but the social aspect will always be tethered to human interplay. This subreddit is a documentary of experiences, its value is in the opportunity it presents to learn from others: a crowd-sourced mentoring program, so to speak. Books and studies are often endorsed here.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 02:15 AM
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No, frame != rhetorical tools, game, etc. Those are all independent concepts. "holding frame" is demonstrating self-mastery, roughly speaking: the capacity to exude leadership, certainty, and confidence against all odds. Whoever imposes the strongest frame controls how the context or circumstance is perceived. Some words similar to frame are "presence," "aura," and "ontology." Frame is in accordance with hierarchical social dynamics. Subordinates (betas, women, and children) are all within the f…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 01:53 AM
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The best way to see is by escalating in person, it's not innately a bad idea to say "date" but it might carry an unintended implication. It's difficult to interpret things over text message. Considering your history with her, it's better to leave the extra stuff out. The payoff is uncertain. It should not be a big deal either way as long as you start escalating/closing immediately. That's the most important part.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 08:40 PM
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Hold frame = control interaction If you're in argument with woman at all it's because you lost frame or didn't set one to begin with. You walking out and going to gym is not holding frame. That is just walking out and going to gym.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 08:28 PM
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You use your actions to communicate your intentions, not your words. "See you Friday" is enough, then start closing the second you see her
/r/askTRP06/03/17 08:15 PM
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No, but it's nice being the Chad-behind-the-scenes banging women who have several thousand beta orbiters. Fuck instagram only use it to promote your business or your vagina
/r/askTRP06/03/17 08:06 PM
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Read HumanSockPuppet's "Guide To Managing Your Bitches" it explains the difference really well url: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3pltm2/humansockpuppets_guide_to_managing_your_bitches/ tl;dr = a plate is strictly sex, an fwb does outside activities with you by offering to pay for your time your plate is trying to advance into a better position in the hierarchy.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 06:31 PM
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She is literally offering to pay for your time. As long as the sex keeps coming in then you should have no problem making that exchange. Just make it clear the extra time spent with her comes at a cost and it always will because she is a plate, not an fwb. If you have some sort of opposition to doing that then choose one: 1: sex 2: spend time with her for money ...but there is absolutely no reason why you can't have your cake and eat it too...
/r/askTRP06/03/17 05:25 PM
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First and foremost, read the sidebar. It isn't a huge time commitment and it will explain all of the basic theories behind TRP. Secondly, the 'search' function in this subreddit usually has multiple iterations of these questions. A prudent move is to examine past questions and answers before contributing. To answer your question: Keeping men around is called having "beta orbiters." A beta orbiter is a man who provides attention to a woman purely for that purpose alone. He is a means to an end. M…
/r/askTRP06/03/17 05:04 PM
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AF/BB Build enough attraction and you can fuck anywhere, anytime. This knowledge does not justify being a bum however. Get your affairs in order and have a successful sex life simultaneously, it's called thriving. If you can't do that then focus on the necessities first... see: maslows hierarchy Figure out where you are on that chart. If you don't have the base/2nd tier of the pyramid covered then get your ass in gear. Monk mode only if you have no other options.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 03:41 AM
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Don't overthink, and despite whatever anybody says it's your decision. You will hear both arguments, saying keep your cool shit and go full "spartan lifestyle"... The bottom line is do you. If you want to keep something then keep it, if you don't want to then get rid of it. The decision is completely yours. Maybe the best approach is to find a happy medium like Aristotle suggests. At the end of the day, you can get laid on a mattress on the floor of an empty room or on a mountain of vintage junk…
/r/askTRP06/03/17 02:55 AM
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while studying in isolation for a couple of days, I just began thinking about the dynamic of the world Look man the best way to understand the dynamic of people is by going out and being around people. The only thing isolation will do is fuck your social skills. Don't be a melancholic fedora. As for feeling vulnerable, that's just a part of life you need to accept. The earlier you can separate your feelings and thoughts from your behaviors the better. You will start building new experiences base…
/r/askTRP06/03/17 02:42 AM
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Don't be her accessory. The only reason she started to touch you at the basketball game is bc she dreaded the idea of you banging her friends. Start hitting on her friends more and see what happens. Think of it like this: 1: you do shit for her --> she says no to dates/sex 2: you hit on her friends --> she touches you Choose the one that will more likely result in pound town, aka demonstrate abundance and don't give a shit. You haven't gone full blown orbiter so don't ruin the opportunity
/r/askTRP06/03/17 02:24 AM
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Me, I like yoga pants. If you won't bang the yoga pant chicks then I will, idgaf. Taking the red pill doesn't change other people, it changes you. Basic people will always exist. 50% of people are below the median level IQ anyways. And even then, most smart people are stupid too. So don't worry about them, they won't change. Change yourself if you want to attract better bitches.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 07:19 PM
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Stop being a sperg and take better care of yourself. It's obviously important to think about shit but that big brain of yours isn't going to get you laid by itself. In addition to reading and doing intellectually satisfying tasks, you should also be developing yourself in other areas. Work on improving your physical health/athleticism, making money, and building better relationships. It's much more difficult to complain about how dreadful life is when you have a lot going for you.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 04:35 PM
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It's by one of our favourite artists, and it's fantastic. You'll love it." You're justifying/qualifying your music selection to her. Don't give her the sales pitch just play the song and let it vibe. By using your words, you're allowing her to offer some form of counter-argument, and that gives her hamster leverage to say things like: "Are you seriously getting mad over this? It was just a song! You're overreacting." Now imagine your same scenario but with no speaking -- if you had just started …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 05:27 PM
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Depends what it is, but when in doubt, withdraw commitment and inspire dread. Even if it's a small, almost negligible, gesture of disrespect it can indicate a larger pattern looming beyond the horizon. I was once at a plate's house and I asked her to hand me the television remote so I could choose a Netflix movie. While I'm fine with letting her choose the movie every now and then, she was disrespectful in the way she denied me. So I gave her one final opportunity to hand me the remote, And she …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 05:01 PM
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Dumbass, you had to know she was going to get jealous. 1: Why the fuck did you go to Old Plate's party if you had no plan of hooking up with her?? Did you really have nothing better to do? 2: Punch yourself in the dick for not at least trying to pull a threesome. 3: Punch yourself in the dick again for losing frame and bitching at Old Plate. Remember, you're not supposed to give a fuck. 4: Punch yourself in the dick a third time for not fucking the 9 yet. 5: Good job having the balls for bringin…
/r/askTRP28/02/17 12:28 AM
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Lately I've been experimenting with "Caveman Game." The goal is to act as simple and barbaric as possible and explore how far you can take it. Almost exaggerated self-amusement but not excessive. If you take it too far it will come off as phony. It involves the usual things like lots of physicality and speaking deep from your chest, heavy on DGAF, hard eye contact etc. But also it involves amped-up assertiveness and use of a rudimentary vocabulary and doing retarded shit like beating your chest …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 02:51 PM
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Let me share a story with you about an awkward sex fail...and how it was actually not a fail at all [skip to end for lessons learned and sex tips] Last year I met a really cute blonde girl through a part-time job I was working. We flirted during work but I never initiated anything extra because of the "don't shit where you eat" principle. Eventually I left that job and she added me as a friend on FaceBook. One morning I woke up horny and decided to message her to get her number. After all, she w…
/r/askTRP26/02/17 02:58 PM
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This weekly thread is exactly what the sub needs. Good: Got a sweet new job at a local gym (it's a sales job so +1 for the opportunity to gain sales and marketing experience) and everybody there is swole and alpha as fuck so I'll definitely gain a lot from the immersion. Banged three chicks during the week and I recruited two new prospective plates. Diet was good also (Intermittent fasting, feeding window 11 - 7, and 24 hour fast every Sunday) and I'm about to slay my second girl of the day in a…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 03:13 AM
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"Flirting" is code for building attraction/rapport. There is no harm in having good relationships with as many people as possible. Charisma is a biologically and socially advantageous trait. TRP comes into play when discerning the difference between building attraction with men (friendship and solidarity) and women (sexuality and romance). Charismatic people understand this difference and it reflects through their interactions. This is a large part of congruence -- being your same authentic self…
/r/askTRP25/02/17 03:55 AM
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Abundance is based on the value that you are able to give to others. Once you become a valuable man by virtue of your skills, knowledge, and character - people (both men and women) will naturally be attracted to you. They will want a slice of that valuable man-cake that is you. So learn how to channel your energy into activities that will make you a better person first and foremost. If you already are valuable enough to attract your desired women, but are getting rejected too often (or not closi…
/r/askTRP24/02/17 03:13 PM
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A good go-to is Donald Trump/Hillary Clinton opinion questions, because you can neg her response either way. Once she takes the bait (usually by providing some generic statement) you segue into the zinger, "Nevermind, I don't discuss politics with women" The trick is to be serious about avoiding political discussions with women. It's a useless endeavor and it will kill attraction. So +10 points for holding frame and changing the topic immediately after. Keep it light-hearted and of course always…
/r/askTRP24/02/17 02:43 PM
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It is equally important to deal with negative emotions as with positive emotions. The value of a stock does not change because you are making money from it, it changes because it is bound to the principles of supply and demand and events in the real world. If you hold a stock for too long and the price drops below your buy-in point, you could be caught holding the bag. Likewise, reality does not change because you are experiencing good or bad emotions. Allowing either to influence your decisions…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 02:34 PM
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A.B.C. Always Be Closing When texting/tindering, every message you send should serve at least one of the following purposes: a) Logistical (get phone number, schedule date) b) Firing up her hamster (inspire curiosity, establish dread/dominance) c) Sexting/Flirting (build attraction, Alpha Fucks) Avoid having "interesting conversation" over text, she has plenty of beta orbiters who do that already. Be direct.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 03:50 AM
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Abundance for a woman is having the attention of multiple (high-value) men.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 03:42 PM
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Social media followers are not necessary for having a high-SMV. It's mostly validation that is sought from followers, which does not provide any real value. Having social proof and legitimate value (skills, abundance etc.) in person is far more important. Don't be a sheep. Network like a professional and build your inner-circle wisely. You have to embrace your feelings and let them run their course, but don't over-indulge them as a way of coping with your perceived inadequacies (which is what yo…
/r/askTRP23/02/17 03:27 PM
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This is my specialty. Health/Fitness: You need to keep a strong fitness routine. Now is more important than ever, fucker. Your name is "DadOnDabs" so I assume you do a lot of dabs. Get off drugs and alcohol and make sure your diet is so clean that you could eat your own shit and survive on it for a year. Whatever you do, don't fucking stop taking care of your body. Routine is key, even if you don't want to do it, force yourself. Everyday. Wealth/Finances: If your goal is to go back to school nex…
/r/askTRP23/02/17 12:05 AM
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thats what im saying its probably your posture or something that intimidates them. Based on the fact that u came in here reckless bitching about how ur not being approach suggests that you are not submissive enough for most guys. Men dont like being challenged like that... also consider your friend group if ur the alpha bitch and the only black girl then thats another intimidation Like I said most guys are pussies so if u want to be apprached more then you have to be okay with being approached b…
/r/askTRP21/02/17 07:47 PM
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Most guys are pussies if you are sexy then u should be getting approached. A lot of the time I see really sexy women (white asian black latina etc) who dont get approached because they intimidate weak men but also if you are not submissive/respectful or are too prudent or crazy then it's a huge turn off. If were being honest nobody here is going to give a fuck that youre not being approached. dont be racist Im a white dude and I love black chicks arguably more than white hoes
/r/askTRP21/02/17 07:42 PM
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Some of the points you made were significant enough to have me edit the post. Thank you for your thoughts/critiques, it helps to further work through the ideas and improve the quality of this content.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 03:42 PM
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In addition, advertising good logistics as a tactic for getting laid is beta bux. It's saying "hey look at my home you can stay here and be safe and eat my food because I'm a good (self-eliminating) provider" Meanwhile Chad reupholsters her vagina on the futon from the other room.. A good rule-of-thumb is to not allow a woman anywhere near your property unless she is a) dtf (attracted to you), b) submissive/respectful, and c) emotionally mature - because you never know what kind of twisted shit …
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 08:05 PM
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Be masculine, dominant and high testosterone because that's what turns women on. Or don't, it's your choice. Just don't expect to get laid by virtue of your logistics/externalities alone. You need to nurture some form of attractiveness to slay, no exceptions
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 06:28 PM
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Another significant trend is the lack of balanced masculine-feminine polarity received from parenting. One of the reasons this upcoming generation is confused about how men and women are supposed to interact is because they simply did not have the opportunity to witness Red Pill relationships during their upbringings. They lack the experience of being underneath strong alpha role models who a) feel complete unto themselves and b) honor the patriarchy -- thus they resort to behaviors such as exce…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 02:45 PM
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they're gonna think I'm some sort of idiot asshole. Would you rather be an idiot asshole who fucks bitches or a beta faggot who gives a fuck what others think of him? Assume success and the law of abundance will unfold. Game works, it's been proven to work many times in the past and it will continue to work in the future. Masculine confidence and high testosterone attract women, and having many women boosts confidence and keeps testosterone nice and high. It's a positive feedback loop, you just …
/r/askTRP20/02/17 12:46 AM
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My end goal is to take this girl out. Your end goal should be to leave a load on her face. There's no point in associating with her if your end goal is to waste time/money on supplicating Looking for suggestions on what I should have done differently and what to do going forward. In my opinion you already fucked yourself with the anonymous card thing, but who knows... Ghost to see if she is attracted to you, she will seek you out if she is, but don't spend a dime on her and don't hang out with h…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 11:07 PM
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Women do shit like that with their bodies all the time. It's super fun to hang with horny sluts just don't get complacent and make sure the pussy is always available. My advice, ghost her and discover what else she is willing to do to gain your approval
/r/askTRP19/02/17 07:38 PM
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That's nice but did you fuck her? If she is just using her tits to gain your attention then ghost.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 07:22 PM
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Again you're probably right. I should have already fucked her by now but I might have had a little BP oils spillage
/r/askTRP17/02/17 01:22 AM
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The point of convergence between smart and dumb women, and the reason why AWALT is true, is hypergamy. Dominant, high-value men will always be attractive to women, and weak, low-value men are to be held in contempt as orbiters. Strong attraction supersedes cognition -- no matter how smart or independent or headstrong a woman is, she will always be fond of having an assertive, competent male at the helm.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 04:55 PM
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The first two paragraphs of your post constitute one big spin on the hamster wheel. You have EVERYTHING you need to get laid, but it's not going to just fall into your lap. Get comfortable with talking about sex around women. They like men that can discuss sex confidently. Don't be a pussy. Ashley doesn't give a fuck that your mom taught you "sex is bad." She wants to be humped by an alpha. I wish I knew what to talk about when I don't really have anything to say. Should I have just asked Ashley…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 02:28 AM
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Counter-culture (abstractly, notwithstanding a specific time frame) is a subversion tactic to undermine the presiding zeitgeist: to confuse r-selected people ("sheeple") about what their values should be. As value judgments in a society lose their footing in justified mutual agreement, the r-selected members grow increasingly attached both to their own subjective experiences, as well as the thoughts and behaviors of stronger members in society and the state. Some learn to become alphas themselve…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 04:04 PM
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You can always be friendly, sure. But don't be a nice guy. Your looks matter less if your frame, game, and social standing are solid enough. A neg is something you both should be able to laugh about. If she responds with undue hostility, it's a sign of poor self-esteem/confidence or emotional instability and you shouldn't associate with her anyways.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 11:36 PM
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There definitely is a calibration aspect, so you will have to use your best judgment for how tolerant she will be of the things you say. If she is not invested into you enough, an excessively strong or outrageous push could backfire and she could recoil. Don't use too much too early if the vibe isn't right, but don't be pussyfooted either. If you're not comfortable commenting on her appearance, or if you sense it would make her too uncomfortable, then obviously you should take a lighter approach…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 11:27 PM
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That doesn't matter, a hamster is on its wheel 24/7. push/pull can be seen broadly as an approach to dealing with the sex/commitment balance. Provoke her hamster into thinking you have reasons to not commit to her, and reward good behavior with equal validation. The best pushes/negs are tragic in nature because they illuminate an actual part of life, but they should not come across as purely malevolent. Pulling/rewarding preferred behavior should always be used conservatively but frequently enou…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 10:56 PM
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"you need to do some squats babe" "nice A cups" I'm in love with another woman"
/r/askTRP09/02/17 10:47 PM
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Do not ever allow something a woman says to phase you, even if it's a compliment/IOI. You should only ever give a fuck about things under your control.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 01:30 AM
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Cool balls, and perhaps more importantly preventing overheating is key for ensuring optimal testicular function. FWIW, my semen volume sky-rocketed after I started applying some coldness daily. Going commando and sleeping naked gives them more breathing room, too. Here is a link with some studies: https://www.anabolicmen.com/cold-showers-testosterone/ IMPORTANT too much cold will have the opposite effect! Don't apply extreme cold directly to your balls because that is excessive. The goal is to l…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 11:21 PM
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Ice your balls 20 mins a few times daily, don't beat your dick more than once a week, start spending more time around horny women and competitive men. Bang a slump buster if you haven't had sex in a while. Herbal adaptogens like ashwagandha and maca root help level out hormones over time. Make sure you're hydrated and getting enough vitamin d too. Be wary of SSRI's, they can harm you. Big pharma is a racket.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 10:39 PM
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Learn the pillars of The Sex God Method. D-E-V-I Long story short, she wants four things: Domination physically. Easy enough, just take charge and be confident when banging. Rough her up some, but don't go overboard. See how far you can push the limits without killing the vibe. Emotional stimulation (both good and bad feelings) she wants to feel something. Give her a sense of danger and security at the same time. Make her feel sexy. That shit will earn you a first class ticket to Tingle City. Va…
/r/askTRP07/02/17 05:34 PM
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Ignore stupid questions. Give her a command. "Come at 10 and bring a wheelchair."
/r/askTRP07/02/17 05:13 PM
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Don't think about that shit. Take advantage of these opportunities or someone else will.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 07:30 PM
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It's different for everyone depending on their interests, skills, and "fixed personal assets." Skills are what you have control over, and fixed assets are the natural tools you have to work. The example I like to use is with LeBron James. Some of his value is based on his basketball skills, which he cultivated by practicing for many hours. Whereas an example of his fixed assets is his height genetics, which he can't control. Bear in mind that your circumstances play a role as well. LeBron's heig…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 10:17 PM
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Say hi dont be a bitch
/r/askTRP02/02/17 07:16 PM
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It's also worth mentioning the evolutionary advantages of neuro-lingustic adaptability in a changing system. You're more likely to plant your seed if you can pass life's shit-tests consistently and go with the flow.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 05:56 PM
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Lol I love the "frat bro supreme" part
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 05:42 PM
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Cool story. Too bad you didn't get to bang the Asian chick, man, but it sounds like you had a good time with her while it lasted which is sweet. Hopefully you gained something from the experience. Overall, you're definitely right about how much an active social life can change the opportunities you have. There are no negatives to making as many connections as possible, and it's really amazing the kinds of people you can meet simply by going out and making yourself open and available.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 02:02 PM
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Great! Well organized, substantive, and clearly a great deal of effort went into this. You've earned my up-vote!
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 09:38 PM
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Interesting. Do you mind sharing your sources? I've never heard this before.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 11:46 PM
3

Do something about it, man.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 03:35 PM
1

Don't back out now. I want you to think about yourself seriously. Would you agree that it's a matter of personal choice when determining what kinds of women are viable mates?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 04:08 AM
1

So feminism is a problem for you, because you refuse to become intimate with a girl who self-identifies as a feminist?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 04:01 AM
1

How did feminism engineer this mentality, and how would you define feminism? Do you mean to say feminists? Also, why does this have an effect on the abundance of women in your life? Isn't the quantity of viable mates objectively independent of an idea?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 03:52 AM
1

How has feminism personally harmed you, then?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 03:37 AM
1

the source of division between sexes started with feminism It's far too easy to put the blame on ideas instead of people. Feminism did nothing to harm gender relations--feminism can't do anything, it's purely conceptual. It was the behavior of individuals over time that did. Feminism and TRP are not innately harmful, they are just ideas. We need to be working together to build a positive identity for men in today's world, and it begins with how we behave as individuals. We need to be comfortable…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 02:55 AM
3

I don't know which have the greatest depth: your squats, your thoughts, or your thots.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 01:37 AM
1

TRP is creating a lot animosity between men and women, where women are fearful that men are red pill, just like men think women who are feminists are disgusting creatures. TRP cannot actually harm people, it only exists notionally. The real source of this division between the sexes is the behavior of individuals. This goes both for both sides of the coin. The reason why TRP is often labeled as offensive or misogynistic is because there are particular individuals who behave as such, and by princi…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 01:12 AM
4

I wouldn't say men and women are "equal in different ways" because that negates the concept of equality. Things are either equal or they are not. However, you do bring good attention to another concept, "different." I would instead say that men and women are fundamentally "different" and are not equal out of some ethereal necessity. I would furthermore say that a person's value is determined by their productivity and the overall impact that they leave on humanity, regardless of gender. So, while…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 02:57 AM
2

Definitely interested in finding myself a mentor. Nothing too committed, just someone to check in with every now and then. I've been following TRP for just over a year now, and it's starting to come together for me pretty well. I'm not usually the type to reach out to internet strangers randomly but...hey, nothing ventured nothing gained. PM inbound, XzistenZ
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 02:16 AM
21

Women behave based on how they feel at the time. When you're in the moment--approaching, flirting, etc--you're making them feel good, so naturally they are more engaged in the interaction. It's a visceral experience grounded in face-to-face presence. It feels good. The 'disconnect' or 'ghosting' occurs when the quality of the interaction changes. There is a big difference between how a woman feels when in the presence of a man and how she feels when she's not in his presence. This is a critical …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 06:03 PM
1

Yes, I'm going to leave this comment here as a reminder. I will give you a full-length response on Monday.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 01:54 PM
5

Yes, think about the line of experiences stemming from the thought process and whether or not those thoughts are separating you from your feelings. The goal is to isolate the thought process and remove it from your "hard drive," which ultimately leaves space for emotional awareness. As long as you're aware of the thought process itself, then you're equipped enough to grow beyond it and replace it with something positive. Your strategy is perfectly sufficient, as long as it works for you.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 12:06 PM
1

Yeah almost everybody I know plays. It's a lot of fun to spend the day in the sun, walking around with friends and catching pokemon.
/r/askTRP10/07/16 10:42 PM
0

Umm, I don't quite share your specific problem, but I do have a lot of hair. For the hair on your head, take the time of day to find a good male stylist and ask him what would look good on you. He will show you and you'll get the best haircut of your life. Whenever a guy cuts my hair it's awesome, whenever a woman does it, it looks like shit. Get some shampoo and conditioner and you're set. For your facial hair, it depends. If you like a clean face, then shave every day. If you like stubble, the…
/r/askTRP10/07/16 05:01 PM
7

Apps won't make you a better man, you have to do that part by yourself. That said, there are apps that can make your journey towards self-improvement easier. I recommend a daily organizer or calendar, that way, you can have a checklist of objectives for the future (day, week, month, etc.) and greater control over your time management.
/r/askTRP10/07/16 04:43 PM
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Dude just do you. If you want a redhead then find a redhead, don't try to force someone else into doing something they don't want. It doesn't matter how red pill you are, everybody--a woman included--has their boundaries. The reason why she ghosted you was probably because you failed to recognize that. Don't get me wrong, women have been known to say the exact opposite of what they want, but if they genuinely don't want to do something, then they will let you know. There is a difference between …
/r/askTRP10/07/16 03:56 PM
3

I believe he also invented fireproof matches.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 11:31 PM
4

I think part of being a virtuous adult is being able to enjoy luxury items such as tobacco and alcohol responsibly. I would not however categorize heroin as a luxury good, so I find the comparison to be unfair. If an individual would rather abstain completely from these things then that's fine. There is a reason why I outlined the risks and placed several disclaimers throughout the post: it's not for everyone.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 02:54 PM
4

"Alpha" is an extremely useful title and point of reference for discussion about social theoretics. In the context of biology, Greek letters are used to stratify individual members of an hierarchy based on their behavioral characteristics. To this end, the terms "alpha," "beta," and "omega" provide great utility. The argument presented in your post contradicts the title. If you genuinely believe there is no such thing as "alpha," then you still have yet to make a case for why you think so. Inste…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 01:40 AM
1

Then stop accepting his apologies. He is only apologizing so that he can continue to act like an idiot. If he was truly sorry then he would be taking steps to change, but he's not, so he isn't.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 05:55 PM
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Show him TRP
/r/askTRP03/07/16 03:10 PM
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If you want to focus better, make sure that you're breathing properly. Practice breathing in a steady, consistent, rhythmic manner every day. The reason why this is important is because your breathing affects your heart rate, or more specifically, the variability of your heart rate--which in turn affects the blood flow to your frontal lobe, which determines your levels of coherence and focus.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 02:38 PM
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it's 70.000 years of evolution vs. 50 years of anti-authoritarian... what? progress?! Not quite, my friend. The world is more pro-authoritarian than ever before, the only difference is that the father is no longer the presiding figure of authority. It's the state. The state is the authority on how to raise children, and as such, society follows its dictum. For example, the state says it's okay for mothers to raise children alone, hence the high divorce rates, child support payments, welfare, etc…
/r/askTRP01/07/16 12:43 PM
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It sounds like you have a fear of success, but an internal longing to achieve greatness. You've got a long road ahead of you, but it's a good first step coming to us. If you would like advice about any specific thing, then please feel free to ask.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 02:53 AM
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The reason why you feel like you broke frame is because, believe it or not, by saying, "don't touch her," you momentarily put her on a pedestal, where you otherwise wouldn't have. You allowed yourself to be bothered by some guy--who was rejected by every other woman in the bar, mind you--because he was touching your girl. The next time you see some guy hitting on her, don't take it so seriously. Just smile and wave to her from across the bar, amused mastery. Either that, or go find some other wo…
/r/askTRP29/06/16 01:09 AM
2

Lol why was this downvoted? /u/joltzipper, this is a great response.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 10:24 PM
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It's her anti-slut defense. It comes from the same hamster that says things like "We're not having sex tonight," and "Does this make my butt look big?" It's an invitation to escalate in the form of a shit-test. She is bringing your attention to her body in a sexual manner. Whenever she says something like that, you should respond with something that reinforces the imperative of you having sex with her. An example of a response would be to agree and amplify, "Hell yeah, you're showing a lot. I mi…
/r/askTRP27/06/16 12:58 AM
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Three primary factors, to my knowledge, influence vascularity. Genetics (how deep blood vessels are within the body and the pattern that they assume around the body), muscle mass level, and body fat level. There are things you can do to minimally aggravate your varicocele, but whenever you properly diet and train with weightlifting--and thereby increase muscle mass and decrease fat mass--your vascularity will increase overall. Secondary factors include cardiovascular health, hydration level, hea…
/r/askTRP26/06/16 11:58 PM
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He is lifting. His routine is wallet grabs 5x10, and credit card hand-overs 3x8.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 11:55 PM
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If you go to a gym at a regular time as a routine then you will definitely get to know others who come at the same time, and in my experience, rock climbers are almost always open to making new friends. Really chill niche of people. As for lessons, what usually happens is that climbers give advice to each other as they climb (it's referred to as "giving beta") or belaying for each other. I haven't personally taken lessons, but I'm sure a group lesson would be a great way to meet people, especial…
/r/askTRP26/06/16 11:50 PM
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Stop paying for her shit and read the sidebar, dammit.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 08:19 PM
1

Big city-coastal areas (NYC, LA, New Orleans, etc.), festivals and concerts, public events, baseball games, shit like that. I'll add more as they come to mind. difficult politics of pulling college girls as an older guy It's the other way around. Younger guys tend to have a harder time competing with older men because of differences in earning potential (among other things). Since you're older, you should have a greater earning potential, more maturity, and better game. Also, if you've been on t…
/r/askTRP26/06/16 08:09 PM
1

Look out for indoor rock climbing gyms in your area. I got into it about three years ago and would definitely say it's worth it. I'm more partial to bouldering personally, but traditional climbing is fun too. In terms of stress relief there's not many things that are better, and in terms of cost, it may be expensive depending on where you climb and your gear, but all you really need are climbing shoes, a harness, and a bag of chalk.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 07:55 PM
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Learn how to memorize people's names. What works for me is I will usually take note of a characteristic somebody has and attach it to their name. For example, I just met a women named Aubrey earlier this week, and she has red hair. So, to remember her name, I call her Auburn Aubrey. Beyond just knowing their names however you must also be interested in what's going on in their lives. That's what good friends do. When a friend tells me X is going on in their life, I will ask them how it is develo…
/r/askTRP24/06/16 02:34 AM
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Point at their shoes and go, "What are those"
/r/askTRP24/06/16 02:08 AM
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This is a complex situation. On the one hand, you're basically rendered into a commitment-based relationship because she can no longer have sex. On the other hand, you might still love her, and be unprepared to leave. The way I see it, you have several viable options. The first option would be to continue committing to her, but pick up a side-chick to continue having sex. The key here is to keep the side girl in the dark so that there is no chance of your relationship with your LTR being jeopard…
/r/askTRP22/06/16 11:54 AM
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This boils down to sex versus commitment. A woman has the "upper hand" in a relationship when she is able to acquire the perks of commitment from men around her, without dishing out any sex in exchange. A man has the "upper hand" in a relationship when he is able to acquire lots of sex, without providing any commitment in return. You, my confused friend, are stuck in commitment hell. You are an orbiter or a beta provider. She is using you with the knowledge of two things i) she will not have sex…
/r/askTRP22/06/16 11:33 AM
3

Because your dick doesn't give a shit about women's rights activism.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 12:02 AM
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That's because 500k a year isn't enough to live with 3 women. Hell, it's not even enough for 1 woman. /u/nastynickdr is right, he's better off just living alone, keeping his money, and rotating women throughout the week, like a revolving door. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 12:29 PM
8

If you go into the gym happy, then it's a great workout. If you go into the gym sad, then it's a great workout.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 12:11 PM
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Great post, /u/GayLubeOil, the one thing I would add is that while motivation is great for inspiring somebody to start something, discipline is what drives somebody to finish it. I have plenty of friends who are motivated to become big and strong, but I have very few friends with the discipline to do.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 11:45 AM
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I definitely agree that he should learn how to fight. Real men should always know how to protect themselves. After all, we're still made of flesh and meat. I just wanted to make the point that sometimes it's in your best interests to run instead, especially if you're out numbered or out matched.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 01:58 AM
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Even a mouse will fight a lion if it is backed into a corner, but that doesn't mean that the mouse should not try to escape if it can. Violence should be avoided at all costs, but if it is inevitable, then there is no sense in backing down from the fight.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 11:34 PM
1

BJJ is fine. Any discipline that builds your ground game is good. Just remember to pick your fights wisely.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 03:12 PM
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Divert her attention. "Do you think I'm a slut?" "Hey, doesn't that cloud kind of look like Gary Coleman?"
/r/askTRP11/06/16 03:03 AM
1

Your advice on How To Understand The Female Mind is pretty consistent with what many TRP contributors frequently write about. There is very little contradiction. If you have a reason for why you think your post does contradict TRP, then I would be more than happy to discuss that, but I'm not really interested in wasting time with some petty quarrel about who ought to be "apologizing." We're both adults, so we should be able to communicate without going off-topic. I'm not criticizing you, I'm jus…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 02:36 AM
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There are plenty of examples of ideas that aren't about women in TRP. Further, I have nothing to apologize for. I was trying to have a reasonable conversation and explain what TRP actually is, but apparently it's not going so well. Maybe it was something I said that came off as offensive, or maybe it was something else. Whatever. To each their own.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 12:25 AM
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What matters here is periodization, time efficiency, and diet. Yes, it is entirely possible to get a kick-ass workout from 30 minutes a day, but there is a maximum "utility" that you can gain from that. On the bright side, you're spending far less time on fitness than otherwise, but on the dark side, you'll be confronted with shorter workouts and the possibility of inhibited gains. This is where periodization comes into play. If you plan your workouts to balance between strength and hypertrophy,…
/r/askTRP10/06/16 11:05 PM
1

That's technically correct, but there is another idea that accounts for the other half of the concept of TRP--which is the notion that it's become hard for men to find positive masculine identity in today's world. "Game" and "manipulation" are only minor parts of the red/blue pill sexual dynamic. A massive part of TRP, beyond learning game, is striving to better one's self (working out, reading, socializing, nofap etc...) in such a way to become a greater masculine force. In other words, while t…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 10:24 PM
1

OK. This is completely backwards, bub. When doing business, feelings should be disregarded. But with daily interactions, genuine kindness will take you a very long way. The best way to make friends is by being kind to people, and one of the best ways to be happy is to make friends. Being kind to people will help you become a happier person. Trust me. Been in a fraternity. How does this give you any authority whatsoever? Look. There is a difference between being nice and being a pussy. If you're …
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 12:16 PM
1

This doesn't contradict TRP at all. Obviously women behave differently than men, but it's completely possible to still appreciate them and be red pill. I personally would like to see more posts like this around here because they are too few and far between. It would do the membership a lot of justice, to know that women aren't these evil creatures set on destroying humanity, they're just...emotional. The purpose of TRP is to elevate the masculine spirit. The purpose of your post, albeit you clai…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 12:02 PM
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First, good job on telling her to leave. Second, like /u/VasiliyZaitzev said, you have a choice. Either keep frame and smash that puss like a beast, or dread her up. I would personally opt for the dread route here, but that's because I believe that dread should be used whenever the opportunity presents itself, as it tends to lead to greater smash-time in the future. Third, there are some things to consider with both choices. If you decide to go over to her place, your frame better be fucking air…
/r/askTRP10/06/16 01:31 AM
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"I'm not sleeping with you" = "I'm thinking about sleeping with you, just don't fuck it up" The sidebar is right there -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------->
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 12:15 AM
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The first thing would be to train yourself to think in terms of power. What constitutes power, though? Influence, wealth, control, information, strength, etc...With every decision you make, ask yourself: what do I have to gain from this? Will this increase my power? After doing this for awhile you'll be able to sniff out other like-minded individuals. People who also think in terms of power. Those are the people with whom you initiate power talk, because those are the people that will understand…
/r/askTRP10/06/16 12:01 AM
3

"Why do I have to choose only one?"
/r/askTRP09/06/16 12:22 PM
2

HB -- Hot Babe, generally followed by a numerical value up to 10. E.g. I fucked the dog-shit out of that HB10 last night bro.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 02:27 AM
1

I think a great way to improve this sub would be to build an atmosphere of appreciation and acceptance towards women, and call-out/correct members who too frequently criticize, condemn, or complain about them. Free speech is definitely a wonderful thing, and I'm grateful that this sub encourages members to vent/rant and be generally obscene. I love obscenity and bro-ing out--but nobody likes a guy with a bitchy attitude...because he still can't get laid...because his frame sucks...because he did…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 02:15 AM
1

I wouldn't call this an "alternate hypothesis" to TRP. It's a scenario based on very specific assumptions, i.e.: a group of 50-100 people Everyone is in relatively excellent shape, and therefore relatively attractive. These assumptions are only applicable to very particular situations. Because this scenario does away with SMV, it does away with hypergamy, which is the crux of mating ritualism. In the real world, we have differing SMV's, and therefore hypergamy comes into play, and therefore we h…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 12:17 PM
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Good post. The one thing I would add is mentioning the difference between love and respect, and how those two things interplay with frame and relationships. While many women "fall in love" with men with a very high SMV's, wanting to exact some form of commitment--the onus is placed on men to have the woman "fall in respect," so to speak, in order to consummate the hierarchy, or balance, of the relationship. It should be clear to TRP readers that this is the endgame for dealing with shit tests.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 03:36 AM
2

It is short-sighted to describe someone who doesn't desire to live an extravagant lifestyle as "coping." Neither is it fair to say that someone whose ideal lifestyle does not match your own is settling for mediocrity. The truth is, greatness can be achieved in many different ways. The ascetic man who lives free of desire in the woods somewhere can be just as great and happy as the bombastic millionaire who lives in a penthouse. You do raise a good point about the necessity in actually recognizin…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 03:06 AM
3

This is great and all, but not very relevant to dark triad behavior. This is just basic marketing tactics with a pep-talk infused. You've completely neglected to even mention the words "narcissism" and "psychopathy", which are equally as important to the formula.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 04:14 PM
3

Nope, I was a cynic before TRP. The only difference now is that I'm a self-righteous cynic.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 07:20 PM
3

Read Briffault's law. There is no fathomable reason for why you should do this. It's a horrible idea, and I'm in physical pain simply from reading about it. It's not even a matter of right or wrong, sexual strategy is amoral. It's just plain stupid to do that to yourself. Think this through all the way to its conclusion, and tell me how you see that little 'sugar daddy' scenario ending. It can't possibly end well. In fact, she is probably hoping you will pump her full of baby juice so that she c…
/r/askTRP23/04/16 12:51 AM
1

Read Briffault's Law.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 03:13 PM
1

Sexual strategy is amoral, I tell it like it is because it works.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 02:49 PM
1

Football and lifting are done at the same time, usually the team does lifting before practice. For music, I didn't do theatre club or anything, but I did play piano through high school and played sports year round, I found that the best time to practice that would be right after I got home and showered. There were a few guys on the wrestling team that did theatre too, and wrestling took up more time than football, and they all seemed to do just fine with managing their time. Sometimes they would…
/r/askTRP22/04/16 02:04 PM
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See: Greek Ideal, which is based on the golden ratio. If you want to get deep into rabbit hole of aesthetics, then start here. My personal goal: https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/3c/5b/aa/3c5baa89a31638ad69689967ea1abc73.jpg
/r/askTRP22/04/16 01:48 PM
1

I really recommend it. It's a good way to start high school, because you'll have a huge network of people from freshman to seniors that you can talk to, you get into great shape, and bitches love athletes. There's really no reason not to give it a try if the only thing you would be sacrificing is some videogame time
/r/askTRP22/04/16 01:41 PM
0

Join the football team nerd. Football is so much fucking fun.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 02:45 AM
8

Why are women never unmasked? We all wear masks. It's just a matter of whose mask is most convincing. TRP is just as amoral as the women we swoon, so I see no point in demonizing them. It's called the game for a reason, you either win or you die a sore loser. It never should be personal.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 02:39 AM
2

This is precisely why I've distinguished between the SvI and the AvD methods. SvI is used for decisions, but if used for comparing yourself with others can lead to, as you say, disappointment. AvD on the other hand is what you would call, "strengths and weaknesses."
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 05:37 PM
514

and anti slut Whoa there, let's slow down for a second. We love our little sluts very much. We have the best sluts.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 02:07 PM
3

First, never get emotional in front of women. You flushed your own frame down the toilet on that one buddy. Don't even bother trying to salvage that mess, just abort mission and start over. Second, deny deny deny. If you didn't commit any crimes against her then you're fine. Third, get the fuck away from those people. All of them. They sound like shit-heads anyways. Fourth, no more alcohol. If you can't drink without getting emotional then you should be staying the fuck away from booze. Especial…
/r/askTRP21/04/16 02:23 AM
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He knows how good it was, too, the smug bastard. I'd be tempted to try and knock his ego down a peg, but... Take notes, guys. The best way to prevent a shit test: fuck her brains out.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 05:05 PM
2

If it helps your game then it's productive. It sounds like you have good reasons to believe visualization works, and I personally find it useful too for certain things. One of the habits in The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People is to begin with the end goal in mind, which sounds just like what you're describing. As long as you're not the guy pacing back-and-forth, murmuring to himself with sudden outbursts of maniacal laughter, planning some devious thing... then I'd say you're not crazy. …
/r/askTRP20/04/16 04:42 PM
1

Sure, I'm not disagreeing with you at all. Existentialism as a whole is linguistically convoluted. I've just personally found Kierkegaard's work to be more of the masturbatory variety than Sartre's is all.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 04:36 PM
1

mental masturbation Lol, if Sartre's presentation is mental masturbation, then how would you describe Kierkegaard's?
/r/askTRP20/04/16 04:30 PM
6

Perhaps the term you're looking for is cognitive dissonance? I don't know how exactly you define "dismissal," but they sound alike given your usage, but perhaps CD is a bit more specific than what you're getting at. I agree that people have a bad habit of not being comfortable with being uncomfortable however, so I do advocate what you're doing for that reason.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 02:58 PM
2

This is a matter of authenticity. There is a philosopher named Jean-Paul Sartre who dealt with this idea fairly well, and is relevant to the question you're asking. The principle of this concept is that people generally fail to be authentic both with others and their own selves. You might benefit from reading some of his works, I certainly did. He wrote in one of his plays, "Hell is other people." In regards to how you should apply TRP to allay you trust concerns, just understand that most peopl…
/r/askTRP20/04/16 02:12 PM
2

This is where disciplining comes into play. The onus of responsibility is on you to set boundaries, and to make it known that you are setting them from a position of power, not from weakness. I would tell her something like, "That's not your business. My past is mine, and mine alone. Maybe if you're a good girl I'll tell you someday, but certainly not now," and just leave it at that. Just be firm enough with her and she should back off.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 12:17 AM
5

What can I do to ensure that I dole out details when I want and how I want? Keep your trap shut. Only say something when you're escalating, disciplining, or making jokes. Should I give them short, ambiguous answers and then refuse to give them any more? This can be a good move but exercise caution. The goal in this case would be to reveal just enough information to provoke interest, and keep concealed just enough information to remain mysterious. My advice would be to prepare specific stories or…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:54 PM
3

Abort mission. There are swathes of 21 year olds without children.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 08:30 PM
1

Trim the fat, and leave it at that. You: "Drinks tomorrow at 8, (location). See you there." Her: Squirt squirt yeah! blah blah squirt can't wait! That should really be your first and last text to her. If she says that won't work, shit happens. Just next her or reschedule with equally few words. Something like: Her: "I really want to get drinks with you blah blah tomorrow won't work though because blahh..." You: "Wednesday, then. Same time and place." Also, just a tip: show up late for those drin…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 08:08 PM
4

You shouldn't feel a need to talk to other people if you don't want to. Obviously small talk is an important skill to have, but a man of few words can have a powerful image in his quietness. Instead, just focus on being able to express yourself clearly, effectively, and authoritatively when you do feel like speaking. Look people straight in the eyes and always speak your mind. Strengthen your frame. Don't worry about transforming yourself into an extrovert, or "curing" yourself of your mild auti…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 07:37 PM
3

Option 3, masturbate in cold shower while singing.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 07:12 PM
4

The difference is in how your friends view their identities. You have a high enough level of self-awareness to understand that your identity is not defined by your activities. Most meat-heads, Chads, and betas lack the propensity to engage in introspection, which is precisely why they behave as if their activities are ingrained into their very DNA. "Leader of the pack" "swole gym bro" "pussy slayer" "loyal husband and father" "fraternity brother" "millionaire"... these are all things that people…
/r/askTRP18/04/16 10:22 PM
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Facebook for Tinder and Snapchat for nudes. Instagram can fuck itself.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 09:39 PM
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Double down and dread harder. Introduce her to one of your other plates or demote her to plate status. Get it in her head that she will lose your interest if she doesn't put out soon. And for the love of God: do not give her any more of your time until she is begging you to fuck her. Why the hell are you sleeping over at her house without having sex? Just say it. "I want to have sex."
/r/askTRP18/04/16 05:01 PM
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I remember that passage, it's pretty good. Ayn Rand keeps it real. Lessons Learned: AWALT and AMALT. If you have a shit-tier bitch, then you're a shit-tier man and you know it.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 01:36 AM
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It's really situational, but in theory, you should be able to win every time if you can push the right buttons. I've personally never met anyone who has a 100% win rate with cold approaches, but it's more than possible to be landing wins a solid 70-90% of the time. To answer your questions, yeah, my rejections are usually something like that. They play the "I'm in a rush or unavailable" role because it is easy for them and saves time. However in this video, I think it is more just a combination …
/r/askTRP18/04/16 01:26 AM
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Every girl I meet wants a relationship with me And you want sex from them. What else is new? Just keep in mind sex versus commitment. It is the single most important, in my opinion, concept of TRP. Think of it like a game of tug-of-war, the less you commit, the more the ball is in your court. The more you commit, the less the ball is in your court. When the ball is in your court, you're getting laid. When it's not, you're getting cucked. If she she says, "come over for dinner," just decline and …
/r/askTRP18/04/16 01:16 AM
1

I would add that it is equally important to practice diction, tone, eye contact, body language, and voice projection as well. The content of a message is rendered powerless if its delivery is not up to snuff. Also, in my experience, it is sometimes better to have two modes of communication. One for intelligent discourse, the other for interacting with regular human beings. Use each mode accordingly, and become master of your audience. I've never seen somebody score a bimbo at a bar by explaining…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 12:45 AM
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The sex versus commitment concept is really at the fulcrum of TRP, and it's a shame that so many people are quick to ignore its importance. If you're getting sex with low or no commitment, you're in the green--but if you're highly committed to a sexless LTR, you're holding the bag. I've seen many men lock themselves into some seriously fucked up positions because they've chosen to 'hamster away' with this very basic truth.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 08:35 PM
1

Not a mental pissing contest, just trying to go more in-depth into the concepts behind your post. Don't get sour with me, we're on the same team.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 08:22 PM
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This is all assuming that the alpha male has polygamous or polyamorous tendencies, which largely depends on his temperament. My point would still stand for the top eight males defaulting to violence against women. History has proven that men of any stripe with regards to social standing are willing to use both physical force and deception to attain sex, regardless of whether or not they legitimately "need" to. Women are such a valuable source that they would be genuinely protected and cared abou…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 02:26 PM
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I think it would be just as likely for a man to force himself upon one of the women in this scenario as it would be for him to act violently against his male competitors. Especially if all he wants is sex. What sounds easier, for him to physically overcome one of the females or to physically overcome one of the other sexually frustrated males?
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 03:12 AM
2

Demote her and plate-up.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 01:01 AM
2

Hmmm, for evolution I would definitely start with Dawkins, he's the gold standard for evolutionary theory. I haven't personally read any of the others that you've listed, but Sperm Wars sounds fairly promising! As for actually getting laid (and other TRP/Manosphere and self-improvement related subjects that you might be interested in reading about), here is a goodreads list. Good luck man
/r/askTRP14/04/16 12:54 AM
2

It depends on what your goals are. Are you trying to read about evolution or fuck bitches? They're two entirely different imperatives, and I don't know of any books that cover both at once.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 12:30 AM
2

Experience, my friend. Think of it like a sport. I remember I was nervous as fuck for my first ever wrestling match. I lost and felt like shit. But after a few years of experience it felt like second nature being on the mat, and I started winning a lot. As they say, nothing ventured nothing gained. Just plug away at it until you find a formula that works for you.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 12:23 AM
1

What the hell is a fuckboy? It sounds gay.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 12:04 AM
3

but I haven't bench pressed yet.. The bench press is one of the main core lifts, among the shoulder press, the deadlift, and the squat. If you want to build a massive chest, then bench press is the go-to exercise. Core lifts in general are much more efficient for building overall mass and strength. The reason why is because they recruit the greatest array of muscles and require the highest levels of energy exertion. The main learning curve associated with core lifts is getting used to proper tec…
/r/askTRP13/04/16 04:21 PM
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A vagina is a good place to start.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 04:12 PM
3

Treat it like a shit test. Why? Well let's break this down and think about the decision matrix here for a second: You're on a date at a movie or some shit with an HB 8. You have the tickets in hand, about to go to your theatre--when all of a sudden--boom. Some HB 10 comes from around the corner in fucking slow motion. She has huge tits, a perfect face, great ass, the works. 10/10. Everybody is staring at her: you're staring, your bitch is staring, the kid next to you, that old guy over there... …
/r/askTRP13/04/16 02:56 PM
1

What is the dynamic between a guy and his ex? It always boils down to sex v.s. commitment. You want sex and she wants commitment. Giving her commitment before sex is like handing a cashier your money without collecting any groceries. You need to make sure she knows what you expect from her, and that your commitment is more sacred than her pussy. As for the reason why she was begging for you to come back, there probably was no reason. These two thoughts contradict each other and as stupid as this…
/r/askTRP13/04/16 02:14 PM
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Learn how to cook and follow recipes, learn how to speed-read, trade stocks, and for the love of God make your bed every morning.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 02:59 AM
4

Unintentionally caused too much dread by telling her about another plate, thought that she knew the deal. That's not real dread, that's just going to piss her off. Never put yourself in a position where you're the target of a woman's anger or hate. "There is not room in a woman's heart for both hate and respect. If she feels one towards you, then she most certainly does not feel the other." - Me, 2016. You have not given her any reason to feel insecure, uncertain, doubtful, or fearful. You need …
/r/askTRP13/04/16 02:10 AM
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Start simple. Rome was not built in a day, my friend. I challenge you to do two things this week. The first is to ignore a woman, and the second is to tell her "no." Also, you should really start going to the gym and reading books. Socrates once said, "It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable." And last but not least, see: Monk Mode
/r/askTRP13/04/16 12:06 AM
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I get to know girls There's your first mistake. I do only have sex with them if I like them as a person There's your second mistake. Textbook blue pill self-deception. You shouldn't have to like her to have sex with her. Don't trick yourself into believing that you do. How should I react when they pop this question? Say, "Yes. Yes, I would like to have sex with you." The goal here is to minimize the level commitment and maximize the amount of sex.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 11:59 PM
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Total shit test, don't even respond. Ooooorrrr, you could test that hoe's loyalty like a real pimp: "Bitch I got shit to do. Time is money and this pimp ain't fuckin around with his cash flow." You know, something to that effect.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 09:30 PM
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Making TRP great again, sounds good to me.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 08:48 PM
1

It sounds like she already knows you fucked the other girl. Classic example of when plates collide. Your frame needs to be air-fucking-tight from this point on if you want to thread this needle... On the bright side, this is an excellent opportunity to put your skills to the test. As they say, honesty is the best policy. You don't want her pissed at you for fucking some other chick and lying. You'd might as well just come clean and trivialize it into oblivion. The trick is to not let her shame y…
/r/askTRP12/04/16 08:41 PM
6

I would personally utilize a three-move strategy in this case. It is part of dread game, so if you're not comfortable with using dread then don't even bother reading this. The objective here is to use fear, uncertainty, and doubt to your advantage. If you want to re-establish or fortify your frame in an LTR, then this is the gold standard for doing so. This is the type of thing you should only have to use once. You should always be willing to terminate the relationship if things aren't going you…
/r/askTRP12/04/16 08:08 PM
1

Lately I've been doing: bench/chest and biceps deadlift/back and triceps squat/legs (optional OHP/shoulders on this day, too) repeat x2 weekly, and take one rest day It's pretty good so far, making gains all over my body. This routine is great for overall strength and muscle development. It's a nice balance between powerlifting and bodybuilding. You'll notice a lot emphasis on the core, arms, and posterior chain. If you want to know about more specific exercises and rep schemes then just hit me …
/r/askTRP11/04/16 01:03 AM
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The most powerful items in your repertoire are "because I want to" and "no." Why are you staring at me? Because I want to. Can you change your music? No. Women will respect you more for sticking to your guns. Right now they probably don't know what to think about you, and that's because you don't know what to think you either. If you're going to eye-fuck a woman, then do it because you want to. Act with conviction. By averting your eyes first, you are playing the fickle, submissive role. Women c…
/r/askTRP10/04/16 03:49 PM
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The reason why your old acquaintances are no longer wanting to associate with you is because you no longer reflect anything about their own selves. They cannot relate to you, because you have grown closer to your ideal form while they have remained stagnant. To them, you represent a threat to their blue pill existences--and to you, they merely represent a part your former, inferior self. Let them talk behind your back, it brings attention to you. Attention is power. My advice would be to place y…
/r/askTRP10/04/16 03:56 AM
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Be rude to the bitch, it's not that hard.
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