Over Dread on Potential LTR

bruh_my_jays · 2016-04-13T02:10:58+00:00

Unintentionally caused too much dread by telling her about another plate, thought that she knew the deal.

That's not real dread, that's just going to piss her off. Never put yourself in a position where you're the target of a woman's anger or hate.

"There is not room in a woman's heart for both hate and respect. If she feels one towards you, then she most certainly does not feel the other." - Me, 2016.

You have not given her any reason to feel insecure, uncertain, doubtful, or fearful. You need to make it clear to her that you're willing to leave in favor of another plate--that you found a better bitch. Right now she thinks that you're just trying to have the best of both worlds, and the ball is in her court because you didn't apply dread correctly. If you're going to use dread then you need to make sure it is fierce enough to get the job done, otherwise it just backfires. Now you're the one who is doubtful instead of her... I don't mean to bust you balls man, I'm just telling you the truth.

Look, if she is going to cause problems for you then find someone who won't. Sometimes the juice is not worth the squeeze. You don't have to blow it up into some huge dramatic fight or anything like that. Just stop communicating with her. If she comes back, then she comes back. If not, there are plenty of plates to spin elsewhere. When in doubt, next her out.

Read my post about dread. It might help if you're trying to reverse this situation. You must let her know, through your actions, that you have no problem withdrawing your commitment, and that she has failed to satisfy you. That's real dread.

Lofibasking · 2016-04-13T04:00:51+00:00

That's not dread. To be frank, I don't know what that is aside from inexperience. You don't bring up other girls you're hooking up with and mention you're hooking up with them ever. Even if you're plating a girl or in an open relationship, do you want her to bring up how Chaderino, Chadbert and Chadson fucked her brains out the last few days and how great it was? Not to mention girl's not in LTR's appreciate discretion.

Change her mood. Tell her you hate her too, and you want a divorce and you're keeping the fish, but she can keep the toaster since she can't cook anyways. Basically game her.

Tauger3 · 2016-04-13T01:16:39+00:00

moving to my current season.

Wot?

Title	Over Dread on Potential LTR
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Date	April 13, 2016 12:58 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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