I'm not happy with the TRP community. You shouldn't be either. We blame the hatred and venom people have toward us on the fact that these views we hold oppose the feminine paradigm, which can be true to an extent, but how is it the entire community can build enough pride to overlook the main reason people call us toxic? I see demeaning language toward women, misogyny, and excessive aggression around every corner in this sub.

I believe and follow the TRP principles in my own life, I find it all very true. But god damn guys, despite being an RP male I rarely want to come to this sub. Many of my friends who have swallowed the pill don't even like this sub. My girlfriend, despite having accepted TRP principles as truth, has said this sub makes her sick (but she frequents RPW and a couple other related subs).

I'm not going to sit here and tell you how to live, but the lack of respect toward woman as people is sickening. They are still people, they are still capable of great things, and they deserve respect as much as any man.

If TRP doesn't condone putting people on pedestals, why do we put ourselves as a community on a pedestal?

I personally find it very hard to share TRP with friends, who may really need it, because almost all of the source materiel is overtly spiteful and disrespectful toward women.

I understand many people here have been seriously hurt by women, I have too, to the greatest extent a man can besides divorce rape, but that doesn't give you reason to be an asshole. Anger is part of the process, but if its just a phase in the process why is this anger and spite present through almost all of TRP community?

I personally think this community could use a significant change in demeanor. How many men who could truly benefit from this information but haven't because of the abrasive and spiteful nature of the community? In my life alone; quite a lot.

The attitude of this community is counterproductive, and it needs to change.

TL;DR Most people think we are assholes not because of the views we hold, but because we are kind of assholes. It keeps people who could otherwise benefit away, and it needs to change.