Question for experienced minorities in game

smvking · 2015-03-01T00:56:19+00:00

Game is game. SMV is universal. I have great times with girls of all races. Im not white. Focus on looking good.

Cut body fat for a shredded face
Dress with style
Good haircut

Be ridiculously cocky and confident. Be playful and tease girls extra hard. Race is irrelevant, even if was what the fuck can you do about it? Just get better.

Also, when meeting girls, pretend they are your race. Good luck.

TekkomanKingz · 2015-03-01T16:24:50+00:00

As a Black man born and bred in NYC there are a couple of tweaks needed but nothing major. Now if I was in Oklahoma or Tennessee my game would need major calibrations. This is because the race dynamics in these places are vastly different.

In the Midwest a Woman has the tendency and perspective to deliberately try something "ethnic" whereas in NYC perceived money, power and swagger rule above all other factors. You still have girls here who will never date a Black guy but often these are the same girls who have major issues in other departments of their life.

Many RPers say race doesn't matter to Women but most RPers who say this are White (particularly either anglo or mixed European). Race definitely matters but it's just another factor you have to take into account, similar to the million and one red flags you have to look out for in a Woman period.

I'd say if anything nationality matters the most. For the life of me I've never been able to attract an Asian American woman (in the serious sense beyond a ONS) but I clean up easily with an Asian woman born elsewhere. This is because Asian American women often have psychological issues due to conflicting issues in their upbringing. The struggle to be seen as more than "Asian" which usually leads them to seeking out some White guy to "legitimize" her and get other White people to take her seriously, or the holy grail for her - to have mixed White and Asian babies.

The fact remains is that Eurasian blends are very common in Europe but less intentional (just usually "happens") whereas any Eurasian you see here in the states you can be guaranteed it was deliberate. As a general rule of thumb I have found the Chinese to be most anti-Black and pro-European (although that is changing very quick due to various socio and geopolitical shifts) whereas Koreans and Japanese along with certain S.E. Asian groups try to identify or seek approval from Whites much less.

My best advice is to avoid Women of European origin who have been American for generations entirely if you are a guy of color. They are statistically most likely to subscribe into feminism at deeper levels (along with African-American Women) and be a waste of time.

In late Junior High there was a phase where White girls simply couldn't get enough of me. This wasn't just in NYC as my mother sent me to a language school in Minnesota where the participants were from all over the U.S. I was the muscular tall black dude and they were in the rebellion phase and wanted to piss off daddy. You will find no such Asian woman with this complex and Latinas don't really have that whole dynamic because there were African slaves brought to South America as well. Purely a Caucasian thing.

I feel Race is mainly a thing when the Woman is White. The legacy of colonialism has engraved in the mind that for a White woman to date a non-White man she is taking a step down on the totem pole. Except in some cases for a Black man because we are viewed as barbarians and "primitively stronger" than their daddy. Not sure if that will ever go away. I don't really care because I don't plan to retire in this country or be here after 2050. I am with a Japanese woman now and if we break up I'll probably exclusively seek either Korean or another Japanese. They know how to cook, don't care as much about White approval and understand how to submit to the Man of the house. Also if they take care of themselves their shelf life is much longer than a European woman.

49ered · 2015-03-01T00:58:27+00:00

TRP, can we please quit downvoting any post that has to do with race? I understand that race whining is awful but this is not race whining at all.

As an Indian guy who was born and raised in the USA, I have never really felt my ethnic background to be much of an issue but that is because of what I did growing up. In high school I played football and in college I was in a fraternity that was known for throwing some of the wildest parties. At times I have felt that being a bit exotic looking has helped me out immensely when it has come to women because I have been the only Indian guy in those kinds of crowds (athletics, greek life, etc.). The thing I have learned over the years is that Indian men (and Asian men as well) have this nerd image in the USA. Now the hard working nerdy minority image makes cops and society fear them less but it also makes American women less attracted to them. By lifting and having a more macho/alpha persona, Asian guys (this includes Indian) can do quite a lot to better their chances with women of other races.

Here is one other hidden benefit of being an Asian or Indian guy who has his act together, you have a much larger range of women to work with. I have found that a lot of girls, especially white girls, who won't normally go interracial with other minority groups will go for an Asian or Indian guy who has it together. If you are one of the very few Asian or Indian guys with a high SMV in the USA, it is like shooting fish in a barrel as far as interracial dating is concerned. The game for guys like those is pretty easy, they can get girls of almost any race, even attractive white girls.

My experiences have only been with white women though, I refuse to go for any other race out there. Even then, I have had girls of every single race make aggressive moves on me and throw themselves at me. I am talking white washed Asian girls who only go for white guys trying to get a piece of me. That said, I am only interested in white women and haven't had much problems getting them.

illimaybeois · 2015-03-01T01:28:10+00:00

First of all, there is the obvious solution of lifting, learning game, and improving your SMV but for minorities there is one other advice to take.

The one suggestion I would give to minorities in the western world that want to go interracial is: stay away from places where people from your background make up a large chunk of the population. Problem is that you will be associated with others of your own race which immediately lowers your SMV (this is especially true for Asian and Indian guys). If you are an Indian guy trying to get hot white girls in Toronto, New Jersey, or Vancouver, then you are SOL unless you happen to be a millionaire with good looks. My suggestion would be to go to places where people of your background are not a huge chunk of the population. Being a brown guy in Florida is much better than being one in San Francisco because you can actually be exotic and are less likely to be associated with a stereotype of your group.

For me, a brown guy growing up in more rural Illinois, getting girls of other races (mainly white girls since that is what I was around) was pretty easy. I would be the only kid at the party that was not white and by just being brown I was able to get attention from women. Lost my virginity at 16 to this brunette 9 that saw me at a party. The whole negative stereotypes of Asian and Indian men never really came up to me until I visited a cousin in San Francisco where I found it was mainly Asian and Indian women pushing those stereotypes onto women of other races.

Just stay away from areas that have a large concentration of people of your own ethnic background, especially if you are an Asian or Indian guy. Women of your own background will do everything in their power to limit your success with girls of other races while they themselves aggressively chase after men of other races.

DossSayss · 2015-03-01T23:19:55+00:00

black guy.

simply internalize game principles then use my innate aggressiveness to my advantage. i get a kick out of making other dudes look weak. for example if it's a group of 3 and I spot a girl sitting by herself i'll just dip and go through some trial and error. by that i mean I either get whatever I wanted out of that interaction or I learned what doesn't work...win/win. also I class up my speech but throw in slang here and there and phrases.vocal inflections that honestly only black guys can do. it's a subtle way to show my calm/relaxed perspective on life

williamwilliam2 · 2015-03-01T00:44:40+00:00

Check out justkiddingnews channel on youtube. Not sure how many alpha men, but worth watching for a different perspective on young, confident minorities.

asianmasaccount · 2015-03-01T21:18:45+00:00

Asian American checking in.

We have an active discussion on game in the asianmasculinity subreddit.

All of my race specific game tips go there.

Transmigratory · 2015-03-01T22:09:04+00:00

The problem with minorities is that because you have it in your head that you're different than a white man, you're probably going to attribute any perceived disadvantage to your race and nothing else.

That's what I've noticed is the most common when minorities talk about what is different for them.

Plus bear in mind we only have the info said minority gives us. We don't know you, we haven't seen you in action... we can't give an accurate opinion based on just what we read.

Title	Question for experienced minorities in game
Author	GabeTheImpaler
Upvotes	37
Comments	30
Date	March 1, 2015 12:22 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2xih5h/question_for_experienced_minorities_in_game/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/question-for-experienced-minorities-in-game.29687 https://theredarchive.com/post/29687

Comments