Real confidence vs. Fake confidence.

NeoreactionSafe · 2016-04-26T13:59:13+00:00

I'm going to bet you haven't read any of the sidebar material.

In my case I'm 55 years old. Back in the 1970's I can recall one case where I had sex with a girl within 15 minutes of meeting her and never really remembered who she was afterwards. (we aren't all androgynous beta boys)

Some of us here are into the great truth... the "big picture".

The sex strategy part is really the tip of the iceburg.

The Blue Pill is an emotional indoctrination process which suppresses human consciousness... why would you embrace being brainwashed?

My advice is to look more closely... you missed some comprehension of what Red Pill is about.

Red Pill represents internal Freedom.

Entropy-7 · 2016-04-26T14:32:40+00:00

This seems like a troll piece with no real insight to offer. I was thinking of spinning this comment to discuss my opposition to the idea of "irrational confidence" that has been floating about lately, but I will save it for later.

I hope this post gets removed.

The OP seems to have no comment history.

RedBigMan · 2016-04-26T15:29:52+00:00

"Fake it till you Make it" actually works and here is the mathematical formula for why it does.

Fake Confidence + Success = Real Confidence.

Blink_King · 2016-04-26T16:25:56+00:00

"Fuck game. If you must act and behave in a certain manner in order to get your dick wet then you've got a million miles to walk. "

"conquer yourself before you even consider conquering others."

So you suggest that rather than being the "dancing monkey" to get laid (like a Pick Up Artist), a man would be better served conquering himself (which the red pill calls developing FRAME).

Solid Advice.

SubbaHubba · 2016-04-26T16:31:53+00:00

I think OP needs more cats.

FrgElder · Tue Apr 26 16:42:29 2016 UTC

Trying my best to not take a holier than thou approach, but the air here wreaks of fake confidence so I feel compelled to chime in with some knowledge.

Please enlighten us superior being with real confidence.

First of all, you claim to want the truth - here it is. You're all a bunch of fucking losers. Too soft to handle it? Tough luck, practice what you preach.

What do you propose these losers do? Just accept their lot in life and move on? While objectively I'm sure a lot of users here are losers (or at least started off that way), all users here started off disatisfied with their relative situation in life (whether they were objectively losers or not). I've never seen TRP to shy away from telling it like it is, people who follow TRP have to turn their judgemental gaze back on themselves in order to focus on self-improvement and increasing their SMV.

Fuck game. If you must act and behave in a certain manner in order to get your dick wet then you've got a million miles to walk. You've successfully taken the nice guy rule book and turned into a 50 ways to not get cucked rulebook, different rules, same insecurities - rather than preach and hide behind your thick sweaters, open up and take that rusty dagger to the heart and embrace it for all that it is.

Learning game is essential for any man that was not lucky enough to be blessed with ideal social conditioning and positive social feedback loops form a young age. Which in today's culturally brainwashed society, that's the majority of men (almost all men).

Game isn't about putting on a fake persona and manipulating others through "gaming" the system. It's about uncovering and learning the truths about how humans interact in a social hierarchy, and then using that knowledge to create the type of person that can succeed depending on where you'd like to position yourself in that heirarchy.

Once you have a vast understanding of game and human social interactions, you can just "be yourself". But until then, for men that are so obliviously unaware of what's going on around them, they need rules to follow. Rules that go against logical thought and social norms from a brainwashed culture. A very simple example is "never buy a girl a drink". Stuff like this is important to beginners because it goes against rational thought ("people will like me if I do things for them") and against social norms ("be nice and treat others how you want to be treated"), but it yields results (establishes that you have value to you other than being an ATM). I can buy girls drinks all I want and it wouldn't hurt my "game", because I understand human social interaction. But beginners need to learn the rules before they can bend/break them.

Fuck Chad, and fuck you too. Mad at society? Tough luck - and congrats on being the alphas of the fucking underworld. You are alpha of jack fucking shit, conquer yourself before you even consider conquering others.

There's really no point here other than some incoherent angry rambling. TRP at it's core is about conquering yourself so that you can bend others and alter the landscape around you to implement an ideal lifestyle for yourself. Yes there are a lot of angry users here, but their anger stems from being lied to and being socially isolated their entire lives. You aren't going to get many content people posting here unless they're feeling particularly benevolent, they're out enjoying and creating their lives.

Who is the redpill for? Inexperienced men who are still dazzled by human mechanics mostly due to a lack of empathy.

Usually just due to a lack of experience and proper social upbringing, which they use TRP to substitute via the knowledge it provides. Empathy has nothing to do with it, in fact those that empathize the most with others are usually the ones who get taken advantage of the worst. After a lifetime of getting taken advantage of and becoming cold and jaded, they might find a place like this.

Want to defend the redpill? You beta loser - tell me again how alpha you are while living by the hard rules of your cult.

All emotion and insults, no logic here.

I applaud the effort and motivation for self improvement. Still a long way to go, don't follow the rules, its your brain, your world, you make the rules as you go.

This is just regurgitated liberal-feminist garbage advice of "just be yourself". In regards to providing actual advice that one could use to benefit from, it's meaningless.

One has to wonder what kind of individual seeks out a community that keeps to itself, which is intended for enlightenment and self-improvement, and then attempts to shit on them as angrily as possible. I'm guessing only cool kids with real confidence do stuff like that.

You sound like a tool, go put your meaningless and vague quotes on a picture of a tree or something and hock it to the rest of the retards on reddit/tumblr.

crazyyn00b · 2016-04-26T14:51:40+00:00

I understand what you are getting at by making this post. I only encoporate basic TRP beliefs into my every day life and avoid spending countless hours investing into a cult which this subreddit is slowly and surely becoming. Knowing and not doing is only half the battle. Having swallowed the red pill enables a birds eye view and gives you that advantage no blue man will ever realize nor want to experience. The red pill is knowing what your up against, and doing something about it. Opting out of the game. Live a great life, lift and be the best you can be physically and mentally. Make a lot of money doing what you love, pump and dump/never marry, and be the man that nature intended you to be.

/rant

AlphaEndoGorillaKing · 2016-04-26T14:34:46+00:00

You have to have fake confidence before you can have real confidence, even Ali admitted that. Kudos to the guys with the courage to practice "fake" confidence, you're throwing yourself into a situation you may not yet feel you're ready for, which means you are GROWING.

TheStumblingWolf · 2016-04-26T15:51:42+00:00

You assume a lot of things and you've already made up your mind. It's like going to church asking to be converted.

DoctorBees69 · 2016-04-26T17:02:51+00:00

Is this an example of fake confidence? Pretending to know what you're talking about?

PEALYO · 2016-04-26T14:50:45+00:00

Dude fucking preach. I have these same thoughts about TRP all the goddamn time. These people are just as bad as feminism. They look to justify their shitty weird beliefs with things like "biotruths" and "logic." The truth is TRP is just another cult for people, and while I appreciate the messages behind the cult (self-improvement, confidence, responsibility, positive masculinity) a bunch of corrupt people just use TRP as a platform to try and brainwash other people and feel powerful. That post about making a girl squirt, making your penis bigger, the posts about how many women they've slept with, it's a fucking joke. You can't trust anyone on this forum, it's the internet and everyone is a liar. This place is just as bad as Buzzfeed, except for some reasons these people somehow pretend they're better than the people they make fun of.

The truth is TRP is supposed to make you into the kind of person who laughs at TRP and doesn't need it. Someone who thinks "Haha, that's so funny people need to be taught how to be themselves." The fact people stick around and keep reading and posting shows that they have just traded one cult for another. TRP should just be a stepping stone to awaken you and get you started down your own path. And while this cult might make them feel more empowered, they're still scared and failing to lead their own lives.

You are all being led. You pretend to be alpha but you still follow others. I reject this suckling version of TRP. Many are still on the teat of a few men who pretend to have it all figured out, and you give them your undeserved time, energy, and praise. Go meditate, you will realize you can never be the leader of your own life if you let yourself be led by this shit. The reason you still read and crave TRP is because you AREN'T your own man, you still want to be led, thus TRP has failed you. And thus it will continue to fail you. It has made you dependent rather than independent, and the sooner your realize this the sooner you can grow beyond it.

/rant

Title	Real confidence vs. Fake confidence.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	0
Comments	40
Date	April 26, 2016 1:46 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4gival/real_confidence_vs_fake_confidence/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/real-confidence-vs-fake-confidence.57995 https://theredarchive.com/post/57995

Comments