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[–]epictetus_irl3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This woman is ruining your life. You need to take back control for yourself, ignore her, leave her, whatever it takes you need to set your own path and stay on it.
Do your own food shopping, your own meal prep. Join a gym and go.
Two things will happen, she’ll suddenly become attracted to you again or someone else. Either way you’ll be the man you used to be.
Life’s too short to let anyone dictate how you live.
[–]Endorsed ContributorAuvergnat2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You don't have to "ask her to help you with your diet". She does not put that food in your mouth with her own hand, you do. So you just stop eating as much. Who cares if she throws a fit? What she gonna do? She can't threaten you with less sex.
Hit the gym. Make it regular. Accept right now that things won't change all of a sudden. Take it as you did marathons. Patient and steady.
Read the sidebar and recommended readings. If you've been a long time lurker, then you should know the rule that say "no personal question". Your posting anyway means you have NOT read the sidebar. The longer you spend without knowing real redpill wisdom, the longer it'll take you to get out of the hole you dug yourself in. Learn NOW.
I thought about divorce but I am very concerned about doing something that harms the kids. I am also not going to cheat on her out of respect to the family as a whole.
This is the cause of everything wrong in your life. You have painted yourself in a corner with no leverage. You have assumed a situation in which no matter what she does, you will keep providing. This utter lack of power is exactly what made her resent you over time. She's married to a slave and she hates you for having tricked her into marrying a slave. If you had always been considering the option to walk away, despite the kids, despite the family, then she would have feared your power and stay attracted to you. How paradoxical isn't it?
So starting right now, divorce is a real option in your mind. No matter how much you love your kids. Anyway, the piss-poor example of masculinity you're showing to your son is just as harmful to his future, if not more, than any divorce could.
[–]babalu320 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Anyway, the piss-poor example of masculinity you're showing to your son is just as harmful to his future
That's really eye opening.
"no personal question"
I will delete the post.
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