I was at the dear lease and a similar aged cousin and I had some whiskey and talked long into the night. Sex came up and I have been with my wife for almost 15 years and I have been tracking it for the past 2 out of curiosity. I showed him the frequency of our love life after being together for so long as we average 22.8 sessions a month. After I told him my thoughts and philosophy he told me about Red Pill.

She is my second wife and my first wife treated me to a dead bedroom and took advantage of a young feminist raised man. Once I got divorced it shook me to my core and changed the way I am with everyone but particularly with women.

  1. I am me and I honestly don't care of you don't like it. I am loud and what comes up in my head comes out of my mouth. I am very much a take me for who I am or leave me type of person.

  2. I have hobbies outside of my relationship. I enjoy hiking, golfing, hanging out with other male friends and I do that without her and without her permission. I will let her know what I am doing as a courtesy.

  3. I lift heavy shit twice a week. I overhead press 185, bench 315, squat 340 so I am stronger than most. My wife likes my strength and likes how I am stronger than most. This is known by how she touches me and feels me up. I lift for me and not for any other reason than to not be a weak ass pussy.

  4. I let my lust be known to my wife. I am an alpha and I let it be known to her that she turns me on and I have needs. I don't give two shit's is she is initiating or not......I do 90% of it and am quite fine with that. If I was to wait for her to do it we would go down to 2-3 times a month. I hit on her, slap her ass, fondle her, as she is mine.

  5. She knows my expectations in the bedroom over frequency etc. So if she isn't up to the task there are alternatives to PiV and she uses them on me.....not in a get it over way......in a "see how much I can blow the socks of my husband" way. So nights where she isn't in the mood are quit ok with me.

  6. If there is an honest rejection I don't wine about it or beg or anything. She respects me and I respect her and I know she is not blowing smoke up my ass. If she says tomorrow......it will happen tomorrow.

  7. I clean the kitchen......that is all I do. I don't even know how the vacuum works. I am the primary earner so I don't do much around the house at all.

These are not rules I live by but observations on what makes me different from other "men". All I know is I have more sex than any one else in my social circle and I honestly think this is why.