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Red Pill has been swallowed

coops1367

October 29, 2014
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Title Red Pill has been swallowed
Author

coops1367

Upvotes 9
Comments 13
Date October 29, 2014 9:55 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2kntsy/red_pill_has_been_swallowed/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/red-pill-has-been-swallowed.23831
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(askrp) What to do about her beta ex

5 upvotes
November 3, 2014
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[–]HV1235 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Don't relent. Total no contact. If you go back it will be the short term easy thing, but a mistake in the long run.

the cat - cringe!

[–]MagicGainbow1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

At least he got to keep it, it can be his bp reminder, be like the cat.

[–]HV1232 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

True, and at least he is not round feeding it while she is away getting boned by someone else.

[–]Tarn_Delus3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You handled this correctly, however hard it may have seemed at the time.

Please travel back in time and tell your story to BP me about ten years ago. I would owe you big time!

[–]Endorsed Contributorredpillbanana4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

At least you got a cat out of the deal, which is more than most beta orbiters get.

[–]zuk1 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Getting rid of your first oneitis is the best thing you will ever do. Mark my words.

[–]DalekJay2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well Done! I'm getting rid of my oneitis too, you go down for a moment, then you feel much better, and better be alone than blue pill orbiter

[–]Greekzack2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Word bro, you had to get this at of your system, she is no good. Mgtow

[–]byronshadow1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you have mutual friends she's probably off telling them "he told me never to talk to him again because I wouldn't fuck him".

I understand the urge to get in the last word and reproach her, but girls never feel any guilt about the mental gymnastics they put beta males through. I'd have pulled a fade away, personally.

[–]1DRMMR761 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That's usually one of the two ways a woman will respond to an orbiter swallow TRP and becoming a true man, no longer to be controlled like a lapdog. She will either be furious at you, or extremely turned on. The second is less common, though it can actually come after the anger phase for her. Be prepared for the possibility, however slight, that she may end up seeing you as more of the AF type later on and want to re-initiate contact. But don't count on it. Be content with having zero contact, and no matter what you do, don't ever contact her first again. If you do it will seal you forever as a BP type in her eyes. She'll know that even after this transformation, she still has the power over you. That's a powerful weapon in her hands. Deny her it.

I've been there myself, and all ended up becoming extremely angry, spouting the most vile insults and filth I've ever heard from a woman's mouth, despite me being totally calm and reasonable when I explain to them I am no longer interested in being just friends with her. This happened more than once, as I was quite the paragon of BP White-Knightery and was in the orbit of a sizable amount of women. I only had one tell me "that's cool, sorry you feel that way, good luck". The rest would spew paragraphs of hate speech at me for simply choosing not to keep them on the pedestal. Good riddance to horrible people.

Glad you made the right step down the right path. Now keep on it and don't relent.

[–]coops1367[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks bro, your reply means a lot. I plan on keeping down this path it's hard but I know it's what I gotta do. Relenting is the last thing I plan on doing as she has been texting me and I'm not replying.

[–]Chezza96 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Well done, that must have been difficult for you to do

[–]coops1367[S] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, it was one of the hardest things I've had to do in a while, but the support on this sub is amazing, which is making it easier to swallow.

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