I have been reading and implementing all the content on here, and I must say it has made a difference. Now this story I am telling is going to be a failure, but what matters is how I handled it. So I have been casually talking to this girl for a couple weeks... there was a party coming up and I knew she was going- I was going to make my move. We had been flirting for about a week, and it seemed like the time to make a move. So I get there, she gives me the cold shoulder and chooses to ignore me. No problem, I mingle around and talk to some of her friends that were there (small party, only her friend group was there). Start striking up conversation with a few ladies, nothing came of it. I saw her looking over a lot when I was talking to her friend, she approaches me and I am brief and dodgy with her. We all start smoking some weed (my weed) and everyone starts getting pretty high. I strike some conversation with her for a little, and I get the cold shoulder again. I go back to mingling around and talking to other people, she starts watching me again. She comes up to me and I ignore her. My old friend comes, and ends up hooking up with her. Now I am not going to lie, I did catch a little feelings for this girl- but the way I handled it was great. Old me would have done some passive-aggressive bullshit and tried to make her feel bad- but we all know thats the last thing that will attract a girl. I just go on with the party, mingle with everyone and have a great time. I did not let it effect me at all, which is a big step for me. The next morning I had some thoughts of it, and dismissed them as they came. I hit the gym really hard, read for an hour, and did some studying for school. I didn't mope and whine and jerk off all day, I sucked it up and got back on my grind. Now, when I see her Monday she is going to get a hell of a cold shoulder... not in a passive aggressive way- I will not go out of my way to make her feel bad or some petty BS like that... I will just make it clear not to talk to me and that's it... the reality of the situation is she chose and its her decision of who she wants to fuck, and that's perfectly okay with me.