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Reflecting back on 2014 : How this subreddit saved me and the reason why I must leave

THE_RED_PILL_NOOB

January 3, 2015
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Title Reflecting back on 2014 : How this subreddit saved me and the reason why I must leave
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THE_RED_PILL_NOOB

Upvotes 15
Comments 7
Date January 3, 2015 5:32 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
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Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2r7ty2/reflecting_back_on_2014_how_this_subreddit_saved/
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[–]CouldntFindGudName3 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Congrats on your progress.

I do think that you should come here periodically, or at least reflect on the redpill nature because sometimes when we taste success we think that we don't need TRP, this happened to me. I left TRP because I was becoming successful and in that I turned beta again. Of course it was because I hadn't internalized it myself but I do think that coming here or at least reading Red pilled knowledge helps you keep in the right direction.

I wish you the best.

[–]apskidb1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good to hear. One thing I'd suggest is that you give back to the community either by posting/commenting or helping out guys in /r/AskTRP. It does a lot of good to help the next batch of RP noobs build themselves up.

[–]abdada1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"People around me told me that I was self conceited" -- just reply "thanks for noticing".

Good luck, report back.

[–]fastball210 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Who else is going to put my best interests first?"

[–]Senior Contributorcocaine_face0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I tested a similar experiment about a year and a half ago - somewhat unintentionally.

I got hurt by a girl and I felt that it was because I wouldn't commit to her, and that I had drank the koolaid too much.

I decided to try to be the sweet, nice guy for a few months...

And I did not have sex once.

After a couple months I decided to go back, and within 3 weeks I had slept with three new girls, one of whom turned into a long-term plate. The girl who had hurt me also came back at me, though I turned her down.

[–]Incognitro777 -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You said you got more success approaching chicks the red pill way. Elablrate on that.

[–]Senior Contributorcocaine_face0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I assume he means confident and like a boss instead of meekly and trying to be sweet to them.

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