Science says: For each additional month in a relationship, a woman's interest in sex decreases by 0.02 (on a range of 6.0 to 1.2), whilst men don't.

SkorchZang · 2014-08-30T17:40:22+00:00

She added that normalizing the fact that sexual desire may decrease over time may help both sexes to understand that this decrease does not necessarily mean anything is intrinsically wrong with their relationship, and may help couples put more effort into their sexual relationship.

Thanks for hamstering the admitted fact that women have an inherent problem with this, to somehow become both sexes (i.e. men) need to understand there's nothing wrong.

The man is not getting sex (which is what attracted him to start this relationshit with a woman in the first place), and she's writing there's nothing intrinsically wrong. OK.

How about "men need to understand that they WILL get screwed by this if getting involved with a woman long term, no matter what they do"?

some of the benefits of longer-term relationships that may increase desire, such as going on romantic vacations, getting engaged, learning more about their sexual likes — and feeling comfortable sharing those likes with their partner.

Some of the benefits to a woman. Thinks a woman. Who is wrong.

HAMMURABl · 2014-08-30T17:32:22+00:00

really? the sex after a year with the same girl actually becomes noticeably less interesting for me. actually even after 2 weeks.

ScottishIslander · 2014-08-30T18:22:38+00:00

I have found this to be true. Men's interest in sex certainly declines over time as well, but the difference is even if they're not as excited about it, they will still fuck.

Women on the other hand seem to start withdrawing the V over time. Even if you've had this talk with your woman early in the relationship, and she's said "oh absolutely, the longest I could go without sex is one week", a couple years in, you'll be fucking once a month.

You have to keep her interest by using competition anxiety. Talk to other women, harmlessly flirt with other women in front of her, hang out with other women from time to time etc.

redpilldude · 2014-08-30T18:23:43+00:00

Women use sex as a currency to get a Beta's commitment in a LTR. Once they have their commitment (marriage), why should a woman continue having sex? This is why many women who marry Betas stop having sex when they get married.

KentRichard · 2014-08-30T17:58:58+00:00

THEY ONLY WANT PUMP AND DUMP> NOW PROVEN BY SCIENCE.

BluepillProfessor · 2014-08-31T01:28:41+00:00

Knowing that many women's sexual desire diminishes over the course of a relationship could encourage both partners to be more realistic about their sex lives, and could help them weather the changes in desire as they occur.

Knowing does not mean "accepting."

The word for men is DREAD and a simple choice- "Fuck Me; or Fuck You."

Desire cannot be negotiated- but it CAN be COMMANDED. Sex dies back to 1-2 times a month PRECISELY because the man accepts that 'this is how it is supposed to be.'

No..it...is...not.

Regular sex. Enthusiastic sex. Few if any denials of your sexual advances should be EVERY MAN'S precondition for staying committed to the relationship. If she cuts back the sex, time for the Dread- and if that doesn't work it is time for a new relationship.

Patriarchysaurus · 2014-08-31T06:10:01+00:00

I seriously wonder how much of this has to do with contraceptives.

Think about it--the entire purpose of sex is procreation, the pleasure is just an animalistic motivator. But if no pregnancy occurs, maybe biology communicates to each of the individuals that there is a problem (impotency). Therefore it might lead to seeking other mates who can (to the best of biology's knowledge) procreate effectively.

trpcounselor · 2014-08-31T05:33:14+00:00

That's so weird. With my last girlfriend she became more interested over time. Maybe I got better, I don't know.

sir_wankalot_here · 2014-08-31T10:33:04+00:00

TIL bluepill men cause women to lose interest in sex.

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