So lost. Any input?

csehszlovakze · 2014-12-21T13:24:57+00:00

You seem to suffer from oneitis, the best for you would be to end contact, then go out and meet other girls. You might have blown it but believe me, it's for the better.

sheririana · 2014-12-21T13:37:25+00:00

Sounds like she just wants sex and feels like you don't. Hit her up, but don't expect a relationship to develop.

long-lostfriend · 2014-12-21T14:47:09+00:00

20 years? Come on, dude. Look elsewhere already. You should be aiming for women that were not even old enough to ride in the front seat when you met this one.

Ahabh · 2014-12-21T14:07:44+00:00

I think it's safe to assume that most here have had their Disney Princess, 'crawl inside their heart and shit in it.' Your problem is that you won't let go of her. IMO, you still hold on to that, 'she's the one belief.' You're like a meth head, clucking for a fix, with the untested belief that she is Walter White.

You're wrong, period. No if, ands, or buts. You shouldn't be asking, "Did I blow it? can it be saved? You should be asking, " Why do I hold this obviously, manipulative, flaky, emotionally distant woman in such high regard?"

You see this is your baggage shining through and you're the only one who can deal with it. You're going to have to look at the self with a microscope. Stick around here and use what catalyzes change and discard what does not.

Nobody is going to do it for you. Besides you wouldn't want them to any damn way. Good luck.

[deleted] · 2014-12-21T14:27:58+00:00

She wanted sex. You didn't provide. Consider her gone.

Window of opportunity is tiny with women. If you miss it, you are hosed.

Source: Running game for a decade.

RedSovereign · 2014-12-21T15:33:40+00:00

Post questions in /r/asktrp.

Title	So lost. Any input?
Author	pugugly1977
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	December 21, 2014 12:45 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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