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5

Just dropping in to wonder how you got that "80%" figure.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 09:55 PM
3

I am going to disagree with the others here telling you not to worry about it. If it is a personal "pet peeve" of yours, there is no reason for you to keep her around. It's not about being butthurt about it; rather, it's a "zero-tolerance" policy for bullshit from people you aren't overly invested in. Since you have others in the rotation (you do, right?), let it fall and break.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 05:18 PM
34

In many cases, it's not the parents who raise the kid to be blue pill, but the single/divorced mother. Even in two-parent homes, though, a blue-pill dad is going to teach his son the way of BP, as that is all he knows.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 05:13 PM
17

Fuck that noise. I am exiting the public school system after 20-plus years, and you can shove that "certified, credentialed" bullshit. The homeschoolers you are describing are the ones whose parents pulled them out because they got tired of truancy officers coming to their houses because they couldn't be bothered to get their asses out of bed and take the kids to school. Homeschooling done right does not require government endorsement, nor does it require specialized degrees. It requires parents…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 12:03 PM
2

I haven't had much bad sex, but bad sex is absolutely worse than no sex at all.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 02:55 AM
2

Yep, right move. Next.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 02:30 PM
7

Dude, you couldn't be more mistaken. I am over 45. I'd never date a post-Wall woman. That doesn't mean I am going for 19 all day long (although they are fun to fuck and it's easy to ignore the childish behavior; sometimes they even try to hide it from you so they appear more mature). But there is a good decade or so between the teenage years and the Wall.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 02:01 PM
20

Oh, you were married to her, too? We divorced after 15 years, and the dumb bitch thought she had a branch to swing on before her obesity caused it to break. Me? I ended up with a kind, smart, pretty one seventeen years younger than me.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 01:53 PM
2

I got you. Here in the United States, it has traditionally been a chick affair. In recent years, though, it has become a "couples" thing, but no less gynocentric.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 04:44 AM
1

Just stopped in to LOL at a guy insisting that he accompany his girl to a baby shower!
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 09:03 PM
5

It's not just about fitness. It's about frame. A guy can be in the best shape he could possibly be in and still strike out because there is more to TRP than "lift, bro." Without question, there are women who would not give me a second thought because of my height. That includes some who are shorter than I am and who say vapid things like they want a taller man so that they can wear heels and still experience the height difference. Who gives a fuck? There are plenty out there whom I can attract a…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 04:04 AM
1

Mom is not a victim, but Dad is a shit father if his sole reason for telling his kids that was to turn them against her. Leave the kids out of the middle of your shit with your ex as much as you possibly can.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 04:58 PM
5

This is bullshit. Source: I am 5'5".
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 04:55 PM
1

Came here thinking you were talking about someone whose alpha husband had died. Apparently I was mistaken.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 11:36 AM
1

On the high end, you are talking about a ten-year difference. That's nothing. Still, it's very simple: if you prefer dating women who are older, then date women who are older. If you are doing RP right, you will regularly be getting IOI's from chicks you have no interest in dating/fucking. There's no law saying you have to respond to that interest if you don't want to.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 11:24 AM
3

This is not good advice. My ex-wife fired her therapist the very second she discovered that he suspected she was BPD. This, as it turns out, is extremely common. To this day, she is textbook BPD in all of her behavior, but completely undiagnosed. I don't need a formal declaration to recognize it and act accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 11:00 AM
7

Dude, this used to be me. I was married to one for 13 years, and when I got separated, the first woman I fell for was just as fucking batshit. It's actually at that point when I stumbled across No More Mr. Nice Guy, and subsequently the Red Pill, and I made the changes in ME to break that self-destructive cycle.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 10:43 AM
2

Fun fact: during a custody dispute, I found a GoFundMe started by my ex-wife that falsely painted me as a sexual predator and even included pictures of my own children. My lawyer and I held on to that little piece of information and sprung it on her (and the judge) at the hearing. Didn't get the end result I wanted, but the judge was so pissed about it that she (yes, she) suspended my child support payments for three months to send her a message to knock it the fuck off.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 11:10 AM
1

Vertical Horizon put out some of the bluest of BP tracks in the last 20 years: "Everything You Want" (beta orbiter anthem) and "Best I Ever Had" (a tribute to one-itis).
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 04:38 AM
1

Dude. DO NOT stick your dick in "crazy."
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 05:19 AM
2

But they are often very eager learners. Realize that you are going to have to take on the role of a teacher, get them devoted to your cock, and they will rise to the task.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 06:48 AM
1

She'd be an idiot to sign this, and you men who are thinking she should do so are just as stupid. If the situation were reversed and she had been the one to suddenly be bringing in the big bucks, you would be howling in rage at the nerve of her if she were to suggest a post-nup.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 02:55 AM
9

So, what you are saying is that the grass IS greener, just on the "single" side of the fence.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 05:20 AM
10

I was driving with my 11-year-old son when that Mendes song came on the radio. It was a good teaching moment to tell him never to say anything like that to a girl and explain it to him in the reddest of red-pill terms.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 05:11 AM
1

Yeah, I got this shit from my ex, too. File it under, "I fucked myself and our kids over, and I need you to help me feel better about it." Once she even sent me something from a therapist -- a suggested "ritual of parting" with a script and candles and all of that shit, in order to ceremonially bring closure to our marriage. Yeah, I never seemed to get around to that.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 11:29 AM
2

Sometimes, and I think it is best done by example rather than lecture. Show him how successful you are by not doing things his way.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 04:43 PM
12

Stop following her. Stop dead in your tracks. If she is far enough ahead of you, find something in your vicinity to occupy yourself (ducking into a café you are passing for coffee or engaging someone on the street -- something not too dramatic and completely reasonable to do if you had been all alone all along). Make her come back to you and stop being a child and engage you. Everything about that shit test is her assuming a posture of an unhappy princess that you are chasing down to appease. Ea…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 04:40 PM
1

True. My own marriage won't solve that equation for another two years, and that is not a problem at all for me.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 08:37 AM
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Yep. This is accurate. My wife has an acceptable past: previous n=0, met her when she was 19. Is that a 100% guarantee? Of course not, and even though I can't even imagine her even considering cheating on me, I know that continues to depend on me living according to RP reality.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 05:16 PM
4

I was almost 40 when I woke the hell up. Trust me: you have your prime years still in front of you. If I can remake myself and my entire outlook at this stage of my life and start my own "second act," a guy your age has nothing but the future to look forward to.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 05:09 PM
5

If you have been good friends with the guy for 13 years, you should be able to straight-out tell him that he is acting stalker-ish with his oneitis. At the same time, remember yourself that there are billions of women in the world. You don't have to respond to this chick's interest. For the sake of your friendship with the guy, shut that girl down before anything escalates between you two.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 01:03 PM
2

Simply put, your hand is putting far more pressure on your dick than a mouth or a pussy does. You have acclimated it to something you are not going to get from any sex act other than perhaps her jacking you off herself. You need to stop and restore a normal baseline of sensitivity.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 04:12 PM
3

I don't know about that. My son is 11 and I am always looking for teaching moments. For example, we were on the road and one of those "Why are you with him? I would treat you so much better like you deserve!" songs came on the radio. I told him never to say that to a girl, that she is with that guy because that is what she wants and that there is always another girl. I didn't know how much he was going to take to heart, but he brought it up with me just this past weekend when we were out on our …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/17 03:55 AM
2

You gotta lay off the porn and/or the jacking off. You are desensitizing your mind and your dick to what real sex and a real pussy feel like. Source: been there, done that.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 03:40 AM
1

What would I need to learn from a woman during sex, other than those things that get her especially tingly (and, therefore, more devoted to my cock)? And I figure those things out through exploration, not from her sitting me down and giving me a list.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 02:00 PM
10

a girl who's too submissive and inexperienced would be boring No. If she is submissive and inexperienced and is eager to experience and to learn from you, that is going to be a great opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 10:20 PM
1

I hope one of the lessons learned is against cohabitation or any other form of mingling of finances (like the phone thing).
/r/askTRP16/01/17 01:21 PM
2

Why waste time with this chick? BILLIONS of others out there.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 03:12 AM
2

If she is banging you after nothing more than a Tinder swipe, any claims to sexual virtue are automatically put into the "bullshit" pile.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 12:00 AM
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Cohabitation is dumb. Especially if a guy is as financially well-off as she claims he is.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 02:19 PM
3

Dick move, man. Ever stop to think that, having never swallowed the Red Pill himself, he didn't know any better? It's not like he had the answers himself and withheld them from you I'd apologize and make peace.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 04:48 AM
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Usually it is based on the complete inability to engage in any form of self-reflection. The problem isn't THEM, idiot. They are just as valuable as they were when they were 21! They are just getting tired of the game and ready to say "yes" to one of those high-tier men who have been waiting in the wings for the time when she was ready. Now, where did those men go? She could have sworn she left them right here a few years ago...
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 03:10 AM
2

There is a special kind of attention whore that enjoys this type of interaction with men. She gets your time, attention, and conversation with none of the risk of getting out from behind her screen. Others are just overly paranoid. Neither are worth your time and effort. If I were still using the Internet to date, I would suggest a specific date. Make it public at a particular place and time. If she rejects because she hasn't talked to you long enough, remind her that's what dates are for. If sh…
/r/askTRP30/05/16 03:49 PM
3

There are women in some professions that I'd avoid, not because they are not prestigious enough, but because of the personality types they attract. Lawyers and social workers/mental health professionals come to mind immediately. Women married to their work (some teachers fall into this category, so it's not just the upwardly-mobile business chick you have to worry about here) would also be non-starters for anything but the occasional bang. I'd plate the cute-but-sane secretary or Waffle House wa…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 10:11 AM
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Yes, it's something you can learn from, but it's something that we should work towards avoiding at all costs. There are things worse than failure. Like being too much of a pussy to make an attempt at something because you are avoiding failure at all costs. Hell, why even approach another woman ever again? After all, you may fail. Unfortunately, modern culture doesn't stress one simple fact of life: you don't always get a second chance at things. And that means that you do something else. Often t…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 09:44 AM
0

"I only buy drinks for women I am fucking."
/r/askTRP24/05/16 07:43 PM
2

Funny enough, the brain chemistry for a "first drink alcoholic" was in place long before they took that first drink. This is just pure bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 10:58 AM
-4

(Smirking) "I'm strict in a lot of ways. Wait and see..."
/r/askTRP13/04/16 12:53 AM
3

Your GF sounds just like my wife, in terms of her sexual history prior to me and her SMV. The difference is that, in my case, she loves taking my cock, because I am far more assertive than you seem to be in the sex department. You see, I understood and embraced the fact that I had a "sexual blank slate" to work with. That is a double-edged sword. She does not have any other lovers to compare me to, and she therefore does not have any longing for Chad's from her past. However, her sexual inexperi…
/r/askTRP28/03/16 10:15 AM
3

Yeah, it's time to move on and explore someone new.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 07:57 AM
3

Seems the simplest solution is to make her your "BJ plate" and have sex with others.
/r/askTRP13/03/16 06:55 AM
2

This advice is given to married couples. I am still trying to figure out how giving up non-marital sex (which is a sin according to Catholicism) for 40 days is "honoring Christ" anyway. It's like he is picking and choosing what he is going to be Catholic about and what he is not.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 07:18 PM
0

You say that like it's a bad thing. You wouldn't have government. It does not logically follow that police and fire services would cease to exist.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 05:17 PM
0

It's the best thing the state could offer me. Go read Bastiat's The Law.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 05:09 PM
-1

If my nation wanted to give me the best life possible, it would stop taxing me altogether.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 01:29 PM
20

You shouldn't agree and amplify at all. Just laugh at her. If it's at all worth continuing, I just tell her it's "concentrated sexiness." And I mean it. It's all about frame. If that kind of shit rattles you, you need to work on your outcome independence.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 08:26 PM
3

That time on Reddit that a dude asked a bunch of strangers if he should have another kid or not...
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/16 01:35 PM
2

You didn't have a choice?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/16 01:35 PM
3

"No" to the marriage counselor. The advice to pick up No More Mr. Nice Guy is an excellent one. It is what made everything click for me. Your mother is a very controlling woman, and that pattern is something that both of them have become used to. It's likely your father has resigned himself to this because he believes that it is too late for anything to change. The best thing you can do is help him understand that he does not have to live that way, that he does not have to play into that dynamic…
/r/askTRP15/02/16 11:52 AM
2

My guess is it was psychological. This was going to be your first time? You likely started overthinking everything and junior responded accordingly.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 11:40 AM
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I LOL'ed at your response. Turn that SJW shit back at them and watch them back pedal.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 03:42 PM
30

Where were her friends when this went down?
/r/askTRP03/02/16 11:51 PM
5

So you would die over some worthless slag? Come on, dude.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 04:17 AM
2

You are not a parent, are you?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/16 02:52 AM
14

If your wife is on board with this, it will make it much easier. Together you go full nuclear on your daughter. Change all the passwords on everything. Give her no breathing room. Let her know that her lying has cost her any freedom until the end of the school year, and that she will go live with her least favorite relative if she does anything like that again. I have a daughter whom my ex-wife prompted to do things like this, even to go so far as to call the police and say that she is scared of…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 05:55 PM
1

Correct. If that is what I had to work with and the pickings were that slim, I'd relocate.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 11:49 PM
2

Yep. "Ladder theory" should be promoted more on TRP subs. I do not know why it isn't.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 11:20 AM
3

we men have been hardwired to respond positively to a beautiful woman regardless of her flaws I don't agree with the "regardless of her flaws" part. The rest is biological, but we humans are not merely creatures of instinct. It's not a matter of overcoming hardwiring as much as resisting social conditioning. One simple rule, once internalized, takes away the lure of the beautiful bitch: "there's always another woman." A true 9-10 woman may be somewhat of a rarity, but I have never been at a plac…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 11:17 AM
7

She hasn't fucked anyone yet LOL.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 11:14 PM
1

And look at the top married guys in here, go ask them how many were their girls first... I'll bet it's maybe 1 The second time around, I was. I doubt I am alone. There's skills for LTRs, (my relationship) Ahem, this is marriedredpill, not LTRredpill. /pedantic bitchery the N count is a very crude way of assessing any of it An N count alone would be, but anyone who has married a woman who has fucked in the double digits is far more likely to deal with issues that you don't have to worry about wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/16 09:37 PM
1

Another good look at why low N count matters so much for marriage stability. Truth. Don't wife up someone whose "Chad" you have to supplant. Even if you are capable of doing so, she will still be used goods.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/16 01:39 PM
3

Sure about that?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 04:35 AM
2

The trick, in my experience, is to find a younger woman who is submissive and willing to follow instructions and to have you push the envelope with her. I don't need ready-made, porn star-level fucking, as long as she is open and eager for me to lead her where I want her to go. My 40+ mistress loved my cock and would do absolutely anything I wanted. She was in shape for her age and hadn't let herself go at all. Still, there is no comparison with someone who has the youthful energy and tighter bo…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 07:44 PM
6

Your call, dude. I don't fault you for your choices, and I spent the better part of the last year banging an old college girlfriend on the side who couldn't get enough of my cock. Still, they are the low-hanging fruit. No matter how freaky she may be, a 44-year-old riding you like there is no tomorrow will never match the same experience from an attractive girl half her age.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 04:36 PM
2

Your error is in assuming that banging someone else will make your ex want you less. Your ex and you are not even in a relationship anymore, so you should stop living your life in response to how she may act.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 12:00 PM
2

My ex-plate told me she used to go out on dates because she was hungry. I had one tell me exactly the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 07:09 AM
1

There are some serious red flags here regarding her behavior. If this is how she characteristically behaves (i.e. if the REAL reason he didn't tell her was to avoid yet another confrontation), he should seriously consider meeting her. His encounter resembles hundreds I had with my ex-wife, and trust me when I say he is better off without it.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 10:44 AM
6

Do the job. Take the money. Game her on the job. Then ask her out. DO NOT let her see that leading you on will get her out of paying you for your work, unless you like the idea of orbiter status. And chill the fuck out. You are already pedestalizing this chick.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 04:38 AM
1

I suppose just about everything is fair game to criticize. And I agree that there is a lot of "the blind leading the blind" in there. Still, it serves a useful purpose, especially when all the /r/TheRedPill mods get all bent when people use their sub to ask even legitimate questions.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 05:48 PM
3

Me? A leftie? I'm not even a statist. And I don't get your comment about askTRP. Lots of clueless dudes looking for help, so I occasionally weigh in to offer advice. It's pretty ironic that an /r/marriedredpill dude is throwing stones at another sun when the main TRP thread finds "married red Pill" to be an oxymoron.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 04:36 PM
1

When my ex-wife and I separated, I basically had to rebuild my social life completely from scratch. One thing that helped me "get out there" and make new friends and acquaintances was meetup.com. I am a live music fan as well, so I started to become more visible in the local music scene in my city. I used Twitter to get myself on the radar of people I would go see and support. I'd get to know them and their friends, and I would follow that up with inviting them to do things in other settings. Th…
/r/askTRP13/12/15 02:11 PM
0

Why are you having oneitis for this chick, especially since you have been dating less than two months?
/r/askTRP13/12/15 01:52 PM
2

What high school girl would find a cold approach "creepy" solely based on the guy being 18?
/r/askTRP13/12/15 01:38 PM
2

Someone who wouldn't ever get sex if it weren't for women like this, as the OP self-identified.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 12:01 PM
3

I don't hate sluts. I definitely don't respect them, though. And I sure as hell would never try to turn one into an LTR.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 11:58 AM
1

I'm not sure I understand your question. I wasn't competing with her husband; he had made himself inconsequential before I came back on the scene. I had plated her because we had history and she was down to fuck all the time. She even arranged "business trips" to come to town and take my cock on the company dime. Even though she was denying it, she was getting the same feels for me you are describing. I actually think it would be great if her husband would swallow the Red Pill and get his shit t…
/r/askTRP07/12/15 01:20 PM
2

LOL at "perfect girl."
/r/askTRP06/12/15 04:03 PM
1

Incidentally she also complained today that when she doesn't give me sex I don't even want to watch stuff on TV with her. I'd calmly, yet matter-of-factly reply, "You are my wife. It's part of the job description." Then move on.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/15 04:01 PM
1

I am in my 40s married to someone in her 20s who respects me, praises me, misses me when I am not around, and loves my cock. I have it pretty good. There are opportunity costs to everything. Not having ties (legal and financial, especially) definitely has its advantages, but so does being a Red Pill husband married to a submissive wife you chose well and who will be a good mother to your children. I don't fault men who want to keep their liberty (and had I not found appropriate wife material, I'…
/r/askTRP05/12/15 08:04 PM
1

So you're saying that you can maintain things exciting throughout the whole relationship? Even after 5 years? I've done pretty well so far, which has been longer than five years. But it seems you are missing my point: with the right person, you don't have to make every single day a roller coaster ride or risk losing them. Yeah, you can do things (or neglect to do things) over time that cause your SMV to degrade in your wife's eyes, but those types of things are both avoidable and generally gradu…
/r/askTRP05/12/15 05:23 PM
1

I am not contradicting myself at all. Men have a tendency to want to fuck hot chicks. That doesn't mean that all husbands cheat on their wives. There is a difference between a tendency and an irresistible impulse to act upon it. I have little doubt that I am not the only man on the planet my wife finds attractive. I also know I have to run tight married game to maintain attraction when things get predictably mundane, as you correctly state. That doesn't mean, though, that I have to be constantly…
/r/askTRP05/12/15 02:10 PM
1

There wasn't enough background to show why this marriage should be exemplary of all marriages. Nothing to show that she should have been considered a unicorn in the first place, nothing to show that he just didn't have shitty mate selection criteria. All women have hypergamous tendencies. That doesn't mean that all women are cheating whores like this one is.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 01:33 AM
1

I didn't marry her until she was 25. I was 42 at the time. She's no HB 9 (I think an impartial observer would give her a 7), but it's more than a fair trade for someone kind and considerate, who had no desire to ride the carousel, and still loves to be fucked by the only cock she's ever taken.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 01:02 PM
1

If you HAVE to get a Master's, get it from a university where it is not obvious you did it online. Inside half a decade, online degrees at all levels will be very commonplace. We just aren't there yet.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 04:47 AM
0

Exactly what I was thinking. The mythical "reformed slut" DOES exist!!
/r/askTRP26/11/15 02:46 PM
2

I married someone with a previous N of zero. Got to get them young, though. My wife was 20.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 02:42 PM
6

Game player. Next.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 01:30 AM
1

Do as you wish, man. I don't want you to do anything. My advice is solid, though. I do wonder what field you are studying, however, that is 80% female...
/r/askTRP25/11/15 11:17 PM
1

If you stoop to having platonic chick friends, they exist for one reason only: to help you have access to her bangable friends. I have female acquaintances. I do not have female friends.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 07:33 PM
2

I don't recall asking for any cheerleaders, dude. You've weighed in, and I have given the requisite number of fucks. Moving on, now...
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 06:19 PM
4

I understand the rationale of the anti-marriage camp here. I just don't share that absolutist POV. I know the risks of Marriage 2.0, and, post-Red Pill, I went into the whole thing with eyes wide open. Not only did I vet and choose better, but I have done my part to insulate myself against a repeat of what happened the first time around. My ex isn't a chump. She just over-estimated the prospects she had if she were to cut me loose (she had the usual "cheerleaders" encouraging her, of course). My…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 01:28 PM
8

DO NOT MOVE OUT. Abandoning your home is as good as giving it to her.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 01:09 PM
10

I am a 40+ guy married to a 26-year-old. My ex-wife is my age and divorce raped me as best she could. She is alone now. While there is no sympathy from me toward her lot in life, I don't live my life to get revenge on her or any other woman who rejected me. I am happy with my successes on their own merits. I don't need to feel anything toward my ex other than indifference
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 04:17 AM
1

Let's see: two people with polar opposite marriage/family goals get into LTR, each thinking in the back of his/her mind that the other person will eventually come around. What's the worst that could happen?
/r/askTRP19/11/15 05:47 PM
1

In addition to the comments rightly telling you to protect your job, what would be your motivation to press it further? Days like IWD or IMD seem to be more about the feels than anything else. Why give a fuck if your company recognizes you for your Y-chromosome or not?
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 10:32 AM
3

I am 5'5", and I do not share your experience at all. Once I swallowed the RP, I may not have been swimming in supermodel pussy, but I didn't experience anything resembling the kind of drought going on in your life. Your height is a minus for many women. It will be a deal-breaker for some. Don't give a fuck and bring your abundance mentality to your game.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 01:44 PM
-2

My insight is that you should not have a girlfriend who is in the legal profession. She is, by your own admission, a career-driven workaholic. She is in a male-dominated, type-A profession. What is so appealing about an LTR with that?
/r/askTRP15/11/15 01:23 PM
5

And this is where Western culture drops the ball in contemporary times.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 05:31 AM
2

What everyone else said about the writing style. It comes off as a (badly written) romance novel.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 12:23 PM
14

So there you have it. A woman is a woman is a woman, regardless if she's been on the cock carousel since she's 12 going on 40 or if it's her first time out. Not really a fair comparison there. Let's look at the facts: The ex was an 18-year-old virgin himself. Obviously, he isn't a closer. The two had been in a relationship for two years. That means that they were 16 when they first got together. How often do those things really last? Those were two years where the relationship dynamic was a non-…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 12:15 PM
4

Two words: emotional tampon.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 02:54 AM
1

This is understandable, coming from someone who was still the bluest of Blue Pills when my wife and I separated. I was looking for a new relationship as validation and ended up chasing a worthless slut (no bitterness talking here: she was under 30 with a confessed N > 30). She'd fuck everyone but little ol' Beta me. Now I know why. Go read No More Mister Nice Guy by Glover. It will be the best investment of your time at this point in your life.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 02:52 AM
1

Well, that is a different story. That wasn't the impression I was getting from the post, though. Also, if the bedroom is a shared one, it would be better to communicate that he needs to be alone and relax the back. Again, sometimes being rude ends up in you just making more work for yourself later.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 10:31 PM
82

Not disregarding what you write here at all, but one way to defuse that shit test would have been a simple, "You are welcome to join me." That way, you spell out her agency clearly enough that she looks like an idiot had she chosen to sleep on the couch after refusing the invitation. In other words, it's not always about being confrontational.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 12:24 PM
1

Yeah, even if her number count was an accurate one, this is a really bad bet for the LTR.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 12:20 PM
5

I get the motivation. Why not get together with them in person, though? And I meant what I said about preparing yourself to be a hard-ass if you see anyone trying to make trouble for you.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 11:54 AM
7

Learn from that mistake. And don't hesitate to threaten to "out" the secret atheist FB group if someone decides to start some shit about what you said. And what the hell are you doing involving yourself with FB "atheist support groups" in the first place?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 10:29 AM
2

If your assessment of her response is accurate, the most important thing you have to do is convince her beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are going to keep whatever happens between the two of you 100% confidential. It is more than overcoming last-minute resistance; if anyone finds out, she is far more fucked than you will ever be in this situation. If you are going to escalate, do so with the utmost discretion and secrecy.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 03:06 AM
1

I went to my 25th high school reunion last year with someone who was born during my senior year. I highly recommend it.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 06:35 PM
6

I was recently let go from my job (more or less; I managed to negotiate a resignation deal to protect my reputation), and there is no way in hell I would have shown weakness to my wife. Due to the contractual and seasonal nature of my profession, it basically meant that I was not going to see income for several months, even when I was almost immediately picked up by a new employer. That means that we had to cut back on a lot, and I also picked up a couple of side hustles and acquired some funds …
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 04:28 PM
3

My knee-jerk reaction is "Who wants to hear all of that drama?" Also, if you were dating my ex-wife, she might be dating you because she is extremely post-Wall and the branch she thought she was swinging to broke under her massive weight. In other words, she miscalculated and needs that security blanket to reassure herself that she didn't just blow up everyone's life for nothing.
/r/askTRP26/07/15 04:22 PM
2

Paternity test, dude.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 10:24 PM
3

Depends. My experience was an old college girlfriend who has been married for twenty years to a beta dude who has let his porn/online sex addiction take the place of fucking her for the last half-decade. I never was really worried I would get caught, because she is clever and he really wasn't paying the slightest bit of attention. The only problem was her getting emotionally attached to me, as I had been her first sexual experience and then the first cock she had been getting in a long time. She…
/r/askTRP13/07/15 05:24 AM
3

Lose the so-called friend. Agree and amplify the "man whore" thing. Tell them it's $2500 a night for you.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 06:19 AM
2

If you are black, you are a part of "Thug Culture." Just as logical, right?
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 03:15 PM
1

Yeah, the "crab bucket" thing is for chicks and manginas. They are either consumed with jealousy or they think that success is some kind of "zero-sum" game in which your own success takes away their chances.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 03:01 PM
1

Only if I ended up a single dad would I consider a single mom Trust me, no need to stoop to that level even if you were a single dad.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 02:58 PM
0

I like your comment, but you cancelled out your upvote by starting your post with that pussy phrase "I know I will get downvoted for this." I am only taking the time to tell you this because it seems to matter so much to you.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 02:09 PM
11

Yep. It's a female judge who sentenced my ex to 180 days in jail for keeping my kids from me.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 01:59 PM
3

I will never "feel bad" for a family court judge.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 01:57 PM
3

Biology being what it is, only a relatively small percentage of same-sex divorce cases are going to involve child-custody issues. What will be fun is seeing women bitch about their ex-wives getting alimony using the same arguments that men have made in those situations.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 01:55 PM
5

Yeah, you got the beef curtains. There are always exceptions. Don't get me wrong: I am a fan of the organ. Maybe it's too many chicks who will send a vag shot only if their face is left out of the pic. Disembodied genitalia just don't do it for me. To each his own, though.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 05:17 AM
21

In most cases, a vagina is a vagina. Never got the appeal of the extreme close-up, either.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 01:13 AM
1

We didn't meet up in the past week despite multiple requests from me to see her because she apparently had tons of schoolwork and practices. Also, don't make someone like this a priority in your life. You should always be the one least invested in any relationship -- even more so if it is not actually a relationship at all.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 02:14 PM
1

Glad to see that the OP is using this as a learning experience on what NOT to do in the future. That is the difference between the spirit of this sub and deadbedrooms.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 01:58 PM
2

Let's see: Fall, 2008: The divorce rape begins for me. Goodbye, savings. Spring, 2009: I lost my job and am unemployed or underemployed for most of the year. See ya, income. Mid-2009: Car totalled. Hello, mass transit. Late fall, 2009: I finally get full-time work, working commission retail sales (I have a master's degree in my chosen field), just as I am evicted. I spend the next five months in a cheap flophouse of a hotel as I try to save up enough to get back into an apartment. Mid-2010: Desp…
/r/askTRP15/06/15 03:40 AM
1

Take a community college class
/r/askTRP05/05/15 11:23 AM
1

Whether or not you are planning on divorcing her, have your financial life in order, just in case. That means if she pulls that trigger, you are not caught off-guard. Start siphoning off cash and making it untraceable. It is a financial safety net for you because shit will get ugly if papers are filed. As far as getting her to wake up to your SMV, dread is useful. Do other women flirt with you? Use that.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 11:24 AM
7

Stephen Hawking is a player. No excuses!
/r/askTRP29/03/15 09:31 PM
1

The bottom line: you two have different agendas. You don't want to be in the boyfriend zone; she apparently does not want to be in the fuck buddy zone. My advice would be to stop trying to make it happen.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 05:20 PM
1

I agree that any talk of "challenging" should be shut down. However, so should the bitching at those of us who are pulling off some semblance of a Red Pill marriage.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 04:11 PM
3

She'll be back.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 05:16 AM
2

If you are buying in smaller increments at a time, you can buy from almost any online retailerwithout making huge waves. Pay with a money order (that you can sometimes get for free at a local check-cashing outfit), and voilá, no paper trail. Just have it sent somewhere besides your residence and have a reliable place to hide it off the grid.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 04:42 AM
2

Precious metals are a good option, if you can successfully keep them off the radar.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 04:39 AM
1

Cryptocurrency guy here. If he is wanting to invest in something he can hide away and hold, I would recommend looking into Bitshares platform. There are "bitassets" that are market-pegged to currencies. Buying BitUSD carries all the advantages of bitcoins (anonymous and untraceable) without bitcoin's current volatility. And, if and when he chooses to tap into that, it is pretty easy to convert back into something more familiar to the general population. Having been divorced raped myself about 7 …
/r/askTRP24/02/15 04:36 AM
16

She let it go quickly when I told her it wasn't sexual Right. Not sexual. I matched with a couple girls and exchanged a few cheesy pickup lines, got them to agree to go out to coffee sometime, then I deleted the app. If this were a plate, then things would be different. Or if you had an "open" thing going on. This just looks like you flirting around with cheating, and you are really sucking at it.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 01:58 AM
2

Student loan debt hanging over your head is comparable to divorce rape. Most university degrees these days are worthless. Unless your chosen career path absolutely requires it, learn the skills somewhere cheaper and get to work sooner.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 05:49 AM
0

I would ask yourself if you really need that university degree.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 05:37 AM
1

My post-marriage dating advice got astronomically better when I realized that I was dating women with the same shitty traits that my ex has. I guess I was going for what was familiar to me. Along with swallowing the RP, consciously deciding to date women who were the polar opposite of my ex (personality-wise) turned things around for me.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 05:34 AM
1

No woman can remarry and become a mother to a child not biologically hers. Perhaps this is generally true, but I would not say it applies to all women.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 05:31 AM
3

I am common-law married. In my state, cohabitation alone doesn't mean marriage; you have to "hold yourselves out" to be husband and wife. There is no time factor involved. We had a ceremony that took care of any question of that, but before that time when we were cohabitating, I made it clear to all that we were not married.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 05:20 AM
9

Could it be that there's a rising level of consciousness? Might these post-wall women teach their younger sisters some red pill truths? Doubtful. This is the same woman.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 09:45 AM
3

Number of times =/= number of partners.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 08:26 AM
9

The vast majority of women will minimize their partner count if n>3, but most will not lie about being a virgin these days (except for family and church settings, perhaps). There is no cachet surrounding virginity in the contemporary West.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 03:17 PM
1

So we all know that one can be just emotional tampon for girls, where he just listens to her about her shitty job, shitty friends, shitty exboyfriends and shitty emotions. Just say no to this. Always. We also know there are times when you really have to listen to her speech. When it's not just her dumping her emotions/opinions on you. Is she your girlfriend? If so, then you may do this sparingly. Sparingly.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 07:09 AM
1

Here's my real-world situation: my wife has only had sex with one man in her entire life. If someone were to be joking about double-teaming her while in college, I would definitely address the situation, because (a) it would be untrue, and (b) my wife is indeed honorable. The guy in the OP had neither of these conditions on his side. What was he supposed to say? "That's my wife you are talking about! Take back what you just said!" He married a slut. Apparently these guys were telling the truth. …
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 05:20 AM
1

My point was that a father denying his child a mother is, in most circumstances, stupid.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 05:16 AM
3

That is a completely different scenario. You are talking about slandering a woman who is actually honorable. Not similar in the slightest.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 10:13 PM
3

The problem is when she goes, bangs him, and then comes back as if nothing had happened. Mate guarding is beta because it is a weak-ass attempt to control. The course of action recommended here is to let her be free to make her decisions, and then to make the one that is best for him in response.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 07:48 PM
11

Women do not bond with men over time, like we do with them. Their attraction hits its peak in the first few months and only ever dwindles from there. Bullshit. You just have to realize that you can't be complacent about things. Attraction has to be maintained, and that ball is largely in your court.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 02:07 PM
2

If you think you are going to be in this position soon, why don't you be pre-emptive about it and end it yourself? It will be a good experience for you.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 02:04 PM
1

Please tell me you nuked the fuck out of her hamster.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 01:57 PM
2

Yes, because they have set their entire lives to be a competition to "prove themselves" in a man's arena. Who the fuck needs constant one-upsmanship from a significant other? Seriously, these are the chicks that no one sane wants to put up with, and then go off saying, "Men just can't handle a real woman!"
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 01:46 PM
6

I cannot date my intellectual equal; I am straight. :) My wife happens to be a pretty smart lady, but I have told her on numerous occasions that it her pleasantness and respect for me that turns me on far more than her IQ and intellect. The problem with the woman in the OP is not that she is dumb; the problem is that she is petty, immature, disrespectful, materialistic, and a gossip. None of those qualities are limited to the less-intelligent among women. The guy needs to next her because she is…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 01:42 PM
1

...or failure to get hard inside a real pussy.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 01:27 PM
2

I don't care if I am downvoted. Dudes who cry about that are as bad as chicks who live for the Facebook "like."
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 01:19 PM
0

It is dumb to think, under most circumstances, that a child is better off without either parent.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 11:02 PM
2

Yeah. Just a couple of months ago I ran into my first college gf (25 years had passed). I was her first for almost everything. She has been married for almost 20 years herself, but a few weeks later, she drove over 200 miles on her company's dime to get fucked by me. And I was far from the TRP in those days. I just made a strong first impression, I suppose.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 11:19 PM
3

There has to be a better way. Yes, waiting and then going after their younger, fresher sisters.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 11:23 PM
5

My reply: "I know. I am not a woman." Leave it at that.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 01:07 PM
7

While I don't discount OP's advice, the student loan trap has caught both men and women in its clutches. I am a teacher and continuously warn my students to steer clear of student loans (and even the university altogether, unless their chosen career is both lucrative and requires an advance degree).
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 12:38 PM
11

This isn't just a "chick thing."
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 12:35 PM
3

Oh, nothing to be sad about. My new wife is 25 and had previous partner count of zero. I have alpha widowed her for anyone else. So, it is all good.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 02:30 AM
13

Nice tale, but "alpha widowing" doesn't require that a woman wait until the Wall (or after) to settle for a man with the same SMV. My ex-wife married me when she was 25, and she hadn't had more than a couple of partners. Her first, however, was when she was 14 years old and he had fucked her off and on pretty consistently, even when she was dating another man. I even found an old picture of the guy in her desk several years into our marriage. She was smart enough to realize he would make a poor …
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 05:22 PM
1

You should not tell her you are not interested. The bottom line is that you should not be invested more in her than she is in you. If her interest level is at a "maybe," you need to be investing yourself elsewhere. Just take her "maybe" as a "no" for now and only contact her again if she comes at you with a "yes" (assuming that you yourself don't already have something else going on).
/r/askTRP06/01/15 11:29 PM
1

What everyone else has already said. Accepting a "maybe" put all of the control in her hands.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 08:03 AM
2

Repeat to yourself: There are BILLIONS of women out there.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 07:34 AM
3

I have straight-up told girls, "Sorry, but I only buy drinks for women I am fucking."
/r/askTRP05/01/15 04:55 AM
1

On the other hand: Do you really think there are young girls around today who haven't had at least a couple of cocks in them? Seems impossible in my eyes. And if it's impossible to find such a girl, what is the point in complaining about it? She is a truly average girl in that regard. Depends what age you are talking about. My wife had zero in her before me. She also was 20 years old when we met.
/r/askTRP04/01/15 06:03 AM
2

Who is the family member?
/r/askTRP04/01/15 04:57 AM
5

Got a good relationship with a decent girl. That doesn't match up with a lot of what you wrote about her. You are moving. Use that as the opportunity to move on.
/r/askTRP04/01/15 04:56 AM
1

Full-on dread game is not the way to go if she is still frequently giving out the sex the way you like it. I keep the level of dread relatively light in my own marriage, because she is completely devoted to me and enjoys the sex immensely. What you need to do, OP, in order to get some control, is to distance yourself and create some independence from her in your activities and hobbies and friendships. That will reduce some of the head-on conflict and also show that you are perfectly comfortable …
/r/askTRP04/01/15 04:50 AM
1

My 30s would have been a whole lot better had I been RP back then. My 40s are going great, however! Shame about your family. Seems like you are outgrowing them and your current friends. And never take advice from a woman on what women will like.
/r/askTRP04/01/15 04:32 AM
6

Texas law has changed in recent years for the better.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 08:24 AM
6

Yeah, I would have skipped typing everything in that last image. The exact opposite of detached indifference.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 07:30 AM
1

If it is in your family, that is excellent. That is certainly not the case in the larger society, however.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 03:46 AM
2

I have two daughters myself, and I would add to your list that we need to do more. We have to teach them to reject feminist lies that will be calling out to them their whole lives. We have to teach them to be wary of other girls and women who will try and make them feel inferior for doing so. Most importantly, we need to consciously teach them to respect and submit to their husbands.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 03:33 AM
3

I remember watching this fight scene in high school when the movie came out and thinking, "Fuck, these two are just going to kill each other with their bare hands!" And 5-6 minutes is pretty damn long for a realistic hand-to-hand fight in the movies.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 09:28 AM
1

In my opinion, it can actually be a good thing if those young guys are LISTENING as they sit quietly.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 09:21 AM
1

On a day trip with my family last year, I discovered a small little cigar shop in a moderately small town. The entire upstairs was man space. Men were smoking up there. They had brought their own liquor, were playing cards of dominos or just shooting the shit. I immediately told my wife-to-be that we would one day move there just so that I could be a regular there.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 09:18 AM
3

tl;dr version: "Just marry me without doing your due diligence."
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 09:10 AM
1

And everyone here seems to miss out on the possibility of there being more than just the husband involved. The thought that I could be an agent in having a boy growing up with a cheating whore for a single mother is a sobering one. And, lest anyone conclude that it would be better that the boy know the truth, keep in mind that the chances of him being living with her instead of his father is pretty fucking high here in the West. More fatherlessness we do not need.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 08:38 AM
2

There are two books that I read that made me think someone had installed hidden cameras in my home and videotaped my entire marriage. One of them is Stop Walking on Eggshells (revealing to me that I had been living my life with a woman with BPD, before which time I didn't even know was a "thing"). The other one is No More Mr. Nice Guy, which accurately diagnosed my own Nice Guy defectiveness and how to escape it. I am glad you found the book. I recommend it to everyone who was in my situation an…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 08:13 AM
3

You may not be able to secure a harem, but getting laid by an above-average woman is really not that hard. There are plenty of women who don't use Tinder or think that online dating is for "losers who can't get dates any other way." Focus on them, because online dating is the realm of fatties fucking above their MMV and of attention whores.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 04:11 PM
2

20 years? Come on, dude. Look elsewhere already. You should be aiming for women that were not even old enough to ride in the front seat when you met this one.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 02:47 PM
20

You sound like me back in the day. And, trust me, you will live with that outcome over and over and over again until you realize that you will be a BETTER you when you change, and not simply for the sake of being more attractive to women. Give yourself an early Christmas present. Go buy Robert Glover's "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and learn how you really are not so nice after all. It will be the biggest favor your could do for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 07:32 AM
4

Proper response to that: "Maybe not from YOU..."
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 05:33 AM
3

Was she a virgin when she married you?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 01:00 AM
10

Absolutely this. Same goes for cuckolding another man, too.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 05:46 AM
3

I am divorced with three kids and would NEVER consider a divorcée (with or without kids) to be in my dating pool.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 11:36 PM
3

I am 43. My SO is 26. We have been together for six years, and her partner count prior to me was zero. She is a Red Pill dame who loves being gamed by me. Don't worry about a seven year age gap.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 07:00 AM
4

Where is the shaming, dude? You are the one who seems so bent that I am not considering it myself.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 10:31 AM
4

That's just dumb, man. TRP is not merely about going around fucking every woman you can. The way I see it, there are plenty enough willing women who are not married. I am not so thirsty that I need to get myself tangled in a possible shitstorm if she gets discovered, or have her mistakenly think I am a branch to swing on to get her out of a dull marriage (which I don't even know is dull, in fact). I already have a good thing going with someone who is 25 years old, and a I operate from an abundan…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 02:21 AM
1

it has already been confirmed on TRP that you can't get good looking college girls in a college town if you are an older guy What? That's nonsense. Besides, there are universities in San Francisco. You are just doing it wrong, dude.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 09:01 PM
4

For the record, I disagree with this. Not because that she is a child needed to be protected from her own bad decisions, but because it is a shitty thing to do to another guy, whether I know him or not or whether he is cuckolding material or not.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 08:15 PM
0

This is the problem I have with all these suggestions. I too have a core of two or three friends that have been around for years, and we have the rapport and experiences behind each other to back it up. So no matter what happens the other person is there. Yeah, but those friendships started somewhere. The OP is asking about how to establish new friendships like that after the incubator that is the college/university.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 03:51 PM
2

This could actually be fun. Imagine turning a girl in to the cops every time she lied about her past partner count?
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 11:29 AM
3

In my Nice Guy days, I would be drawn to broken, self-centered women who demonstrated BPD traits. And they were often drawn to me as well. When I came out of all that life, I became aware of those triggers and consciously rejected that type of girl, even though the instinct was still there for a while.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 01:29 AM
18

Actual biblical marriages (not the "man up and marry that slut" message we hear from the pulpit far too often these days) are Red Pill marriages. There are actually a lot of verses in Proverbs warning young men to stay away from the kinds of women that are reviled here as well.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 01:17 AM
11

Like I said, she's held up pretty well. You know the types that take general care of themselves and don't let their bodies go to shit? She is one of those. She won't be the constantly hit-on types, but she is still somewhat above average in looks. She's definitely not someone I'd be ashamed to be seen with had we eventually gotten married or anything like that.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 01:14 AM
3

Arranged marriages. Marrying them off young to men you vet and approve. (No sarcasm here at all)
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 10:14 PM
5

Very few women of any age approach my mental capacity.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 10:00 PM
12

This. I am in my 40s, and my older ex-wife has referred to the new wife as "a 25 year old little girl" who "looks like she's 12" and "a prime example of my pedophilia."
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 09:51 PM
1

Relief doesn't mean tingles, no. However, it does raise my SMV when she is reassured that I am not some 40-year-old virgin or a guy who has some yet-undiscovered, deal-breaking personality defect.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 05:05 AM
1

This is truth. When I was getting to know a new woman, she would inevitably ask me, "So why are you not married?" or wonder out loud if I was married. Hearing that I was divorced often elicited a visible expression of relief.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 08:23 PM
1

I'm also fat and have an annoying personality, but other guys like that do get laid sometimes. You are trying to tell us that absolutely zero women will have sex with you? That there is no hideous slut anywhere who would ever spread her legs for you in your current condition? I have a hard time believing that you wouldn't get any action if you lowered your standards enough. So, it's either that, or get to raising your SMV. In either case, it's not involuntary.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 07:33 AM
1

Elliot Rogers was a lot of things but he was not a VolCel. It was not through lack of trying he did not get laid. Did you read his manifesto? He never even approached women. The only "trying" he did was going out in public.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 07:29 AM
1

I recently re-watched The Pursuit of Happyness and saw so much Red Pill wisdom there: -- jettisoning the shrew in your life that is bringing you down -- owning your shit, no matter what it takes -- being a good father to your son
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 02:47 PM
1

The usefulness of this advice depends on whether one lives in a one-party state or not.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 11:53 AM
5

Careful with this one. Even though OP is 21, the courts frown on airing dirty laundry to the kids, even if it is accurate.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 11:50 AM
6

It's not my job to "fix" people.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 07:21 PM
1

You know that the OP is two months old now. And you're an enabler.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 02:30 PM
4

And how does a "pregnancy scare" make her the fertile one? Unless she is making reference to an abortion/miscarriage, that is.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 04:14 PM
6

Yeah, Robert Plant pretty much has testosterone for blood.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 01:28 PM
14

WHAT? Biggest mistake ever. Because he didn't show up for the last few court hearings, the judge awarded her EVERYTHING. He went from 8 figures to penniless. She got it all. Yeah, that's not Blue Pill. That's just stupidity.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 06:22 AM
32

A: Well I'm over you and looking for an upgrade. (Yeah, I fucked up there by saying that...) How is that a fuck-up? This arguing went on for about a good ten minutes Here's where you dropped the ball.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 02:40 AM
1

Never have watched it.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 02:17 PM
10

And sometimes it's a good idea to actually show a child the consequences of his/her actions.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 01:42 PM
1

Concisely she's self-reliant enough that she isn't bound by hypergamy to marry up in terms of professional success. She isn't economically dependent on "marrying up," but the vast majority of women (even successful ones) are still hardwired to not be satisfied with "marrying down." In other words, she could be turned on by the "bad boy" construction worker, but she is highly unlikely to want to marry the guy and start a family with him. I don't even really know what to say about her being un-fem…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 04:20 PM
1

Then perhaps you should write more clearly instead of blaming the 84938 people who have pointed this out to you.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 01:31 PM
1

If that makes you feel better, bro.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 12:41 PM
0

I don't care whether you trust me or not. He has raised an un-feminine daughter. Hypergamy is a word, it's not making any demands. Hypergamy is a word with a definition.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 12:39 PM
3

The problem is that the chastity standard has been divorced from the practice of marrying younger. Staying chaste until 16-19 is much more realistic than staying chaste until 30.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 11:59 AM
1

He wouldn't be at all. Even if you are completely faithful, he knows what the other guy is up to.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 11:45 AM
1

If I were a friend to a woman, we would be spending time together doing friend stuff. My biology makes me be attracted to any woman, that I spend prolonged time with, unless that 'LTR mate' slot in my brain is already occupied by the image of another woman. Biology doesn't care about any "LTR mate" slot. You may be able to resist a woman you are not repulsed by, but that doesn't mean that there isn't a lingering attraction you are not acting on.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 11:44 AM
0

You mentioned a wife who goes on CL to get gangbanged. I am pretty sure that infidelity is a violation of the marriage vows. Plus, I'd argue that the regular sex is part of the package as well.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 11:41 AM
1

You are excited that your daughter is on the "spinster track"?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 07:34 AM
4

Women of high value like /r/guisar's daughter don't have to "marry up". She's free to marry for love or looks or whatever criteria she deems fit. Hypergamy demands that she "marries up."
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 07:24 AM
1

Absolute truth. It isn't merely a case of being a chump with a virgin who doesn't know any better. Done right, you will have her thinking that taking any other cock will be a let-down.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 07:22 AM
1

I disagree. There are a few women who choose their friends more wisely than that (often they have maintained close friendships from their childhood), leave Cosmo in its rack at the checkout counter, and have absolutely no desire to ride the carousel regardless of whether you were in the picture or not. You do have to get them early, though, before they succumb to serial monogamy. Female virgins have sex drives, too.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 07:19 AM
15

I hope that guy is just being sarcastic, but I have to face the likely truth...
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 07:09 AM
32

As a high school teacher, I get an opportunity to dispense TRP in small doses on an almost daily basis. For example, just today a kid asked me if he was "whipped" like his friends were joking with him. From what he told me, he was totally pedestalizing this chick, and I got the opportunity to advise him not to "give it away for free." ("It" being his attention, emotional support, and favors.) While I don't launch into a full-on, anti-feminist rant (i.e. putting labels on things), it's pretty eas…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 07:07 AM
2

Exactly! Crazy bitches aside, hasn't anyone else here heard about identity theft? The NSA? It's just sensible practice.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 12:06 PM
2

Yes, because Monica wants nothing more than to help Hilary out...
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 03:20 PM
-1

So, "cuckold game" really is a thing...
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 11:14 AM
1

Welcome to the world as it really is.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 10:43 AM
22

You couldn't be more wrong.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 02:25 AM
1

It is about realizing reality and using that to your advantage. 110% this.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 11:20 AM
23

Just another example of men being shamed for being blunt and to the point on an app made for finding women to bang in less time it takes to deliver a pizza People have also overlooked the fact that it is an app for women to find men to bang as well. Methinks there are a goodly number of female Tinder users rolling their eyes at this chick as well.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 04:02 PM
1

How would one rebuttal to the non-original argument of " oh your children will be so socially inept" For thousands of years, people managed to become socially adept without any school at all. Public education is not a necessary component to making people who can interact meaningfully with others. I don't want my kids to be socialized to be like your typical public school student. Most importantly... The problem with the "social ineptness" argument is its assumption that taking kids and placing t…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 05:08 PM
1

If you adhere to this philosophy, you need to be consistent enough to choose women who know and embrace that role rather than cherry-pick what parts of being a Red-Pill woman benefit her the most.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 12:23 PM
1

Your sister may not have the sexual tendencies of the contemporary feminist, or the insistence on a career and "having it all," but otherwise she's pretty feminist. Most importantly, she is not submissive. From your post, she is looking for a meal ticket and a sperm donor, not someone to lead her and her future family. She has all the entitlement mentality of thinking herself "a prize to be won" that will suddenly trigger alarm bells when she starts hitting the wall. Your sister should ask herse…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 12:21 PM
3

TRP public school teacher here. Allow me to weigh in. Every one of your suggestions are excellent ones. Here are honest responses to your statements: Why does homework count for a grade in nearly every class? Schools encourage counting homework (or other smaller in-class activities) as grades so that poor test scores can be offset by them in order that the student may pass. Depending on the type of student population, teachers may not give homework at all because the students there will not do i…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 05:47 AM
1

I am a TRP father and a teacher, and I heartily recommend it to you.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 05:24 AM
1

Lead by example. They may argue with your words, but they won't be able to argue with your results.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 03:08 PM
5

Our sperm (and their eggs for that matter) start going bad at age 35. Not true about our sperm. I'm in my late 20s now. How old is she? Can anyone recommend marriage? Or is everyone on this board totally opposed to family life and marriage? There are quite a few married guys that contribute here. I am engaged myself. However, you didn't really give enough info to demonstrate whether she is a good candidate for a wife or not. Plus, if you are marriage minded, why are you intending on marrying her…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 01:37 PM
1

A spokesperson for Clooney declined to comment to the AP. Wouldn't it be delightful if it turned out to be "wishful thinking" on her part?
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 01:08 PM
0

Rule #1 about relationships with TRP: THE MAN SETS THE FRAME 100% this.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 08:10 PM
1

A religious nihilist. That's quite a way to live life. I can't quite let her go if she hasn't really seen someone else, but that's me. Oneitis. That's quite a way to live life. Dude, the bottom line is, if you still want to keep seeing her, you have to let her know in no uncertain terms that she has moved far down the ladder of priorities for you. If you don't decide to next her, you absolutely need to lock down a date for yourself immediately. Beat her to it. Then enjoy her reaction at you reco…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 08:08 PM
2

And I have been blocked by Amanda. I was being so nice, too! Women are bitches, man. You try and prove yourself, and this is what happens! :) (So, I get some karma for this, right?)
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 08:35 PM
1

Stick around here and learn. You are only at the start of your journey. Don't think you have "arrived" yet.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 01:14 PM
5

Absolutely blue. Doesn't rock the boat, and my mom ruled the roost.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 01:09 PM
1

I still have emails I exchanged with my ex-wife in the waning months before we got separated six years ago. It's some of the most supplicating, Blue Pill shit you could imagine. Why do I keep them? because it reminds me how far I have come. It's like reading the words of a different person at this point. I don't want to forget the way I used to be. I want to rejoice in the fact that I am not that guy anymore and never will be again. Lastly, it keeps me humble, so that I don't start acting like I…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 03:28 AM
1

I had a knock on my classroom door a few weeks ago, and opened it to find a kid and his entourage poised to "prompose" to one of my students. Flowers in hand, posters, the works. Of course, at that point it was too late to warn this guy of his folly; and the girl, who apparently knew it was coming, went out into the hall with a deer-in-the-headlights look on her face. It turns out that this young man was not only not the girl's boyfriend, but that the girl already had a boyfriend who attends our…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 03:16 AM
3

Avoid getting into debt. That most especially includes student loan debt. Avoid oneitis. There are millions of women out there. If you are of a mind to lock yourself in to only one someday, vet the women thoroughly and think with the head between your ears rather than the one between your legs. Use your twenties to make something of your life. Always be finding ways to improve yourself -- mentally, physically, and socially. Surround yourself with people who are an asset to you and add value to y…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 02:37 AM
9

So, I have this female friend for a long time I spotted the error! Is she fucking you? If not, charge her the full $7K.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 05:17 PM
7

Yeah, that's why I used the word resembling. Guys need to cut that shit out altogether, because no woman is going to be attracted to that level of thirst. The problem is the supplication itself, not the target of that supplication.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 02:19 PM
-3

And intellectual women are often combative, like they always have something to prove, even in the context of a relationship. I once had a self-proclaimed "intelligent" girl I was dating tell me, straight-up and out of the blue, "I bet you think you are smarter than me, don't you?" The answer was a no-brainer, but definitely something she didn't want to hear.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 01:47 PM
8

This may be the very first post of Amanda Marcotte ever that contains something at least resembling truth.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 01:44 PM
0

You have the right to your preferences, man. But like you said, don't complain when most women, by their nature, are not intellectually inclined. Complaining that women are not more like men misses the point entirely. And there is a difference between being smart (i.e. having a good head on one's shoulders; having common sense) and being an intellectual.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 01:36 PM
3

It is important for TRP fathers to instill truth in both their sons and their daughters. Like anything else, it boils down to taking time to directly have conversations with them, as well as to make use of those "teachable moments" that pop up. My kids are pre-pubescent, so it often shows itself in non-sexual situations. For example, last weekend my son was being ostracized by his older sisters who didn't want them in their room playing with them. He came in upset about it, and the solution was …
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 11:38 AM
-1

Why are you equating "high intelligence" with "high value"?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 11:26 AM
3

My favorite part is where the writer assumes no personal responsibility. It's not that he was a pedestalizing ass-kisser; it's that she didn't respond favorably to it and fall in love with him.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 11:26 AM
1

A lot of truth here. People get hung up on the false dichotomy of "living my life for me" vs. "being in constant pursuit of the poon." While a monomaniacal fixation on getting laid is a pretty juvenile approach to life, being desired by desirable women (as well as having the respect of respectable men) is a very worthy goal. It is a mark of distinction and serves to validate the general self-improvement that one is making in life.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 07:52 AM
2

So, you just use it incorrectly. Got it.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 07:00 AM
2

Would bang blonde at 8:24. Others are undesirable. Completely.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 06:52 AM
1

I got through about 1:10 before having to click off. Zzzzz. How is this guy an incel? Is he not banging her?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 05:40 AM
3

For the love of Christ, don't ask me why I took this class. Sorry, dude. That's all I can think about at this point. Welcome to Western "higher education."
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 04:58 AM
1

Where is the putlocker link?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 02:15 AM
27

Shorter guy here. It's life. And there are plenty of hot, shorter women who will not have an issue with it if you are good at eliciting interest from them. Stop crying about it and work on your game. Insecurity only makes you appear smaller.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 03:33 PM
6

As far as the "looking like a slut" problem, the trick is assuring her that you can keep your fucking mouth shut. When you are older, you will have chicks telling you, "I've never done this before," as you are closing them after knowing them an hour or two. They will be lying, but your job is to reassure their hamsters that everything is perfectly acceptable and safe. The same is true with the high school girl living in the Mean Girls matrix day after day. Isolate, escalate, and reassure her tha…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 09:40 PM
2

It is a risky proposition with an American woman, but I wouldn't rule them out completely. In a lot of situations, the woman is already predisposed against the party, "Sex and the City" lifestyle. Often she has spent significantly more time socializing with happily married women and considers their approval more important than that of her same-age peers. These types are not impressed by tales of flings and hookups and demonstrations of sluttiness, whether she has a man in her life or not. If you…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 03:06 PM
2

Oh, perhaps I wasn't clear. The ruling this week was not the divorce itself, but rather a motion to modify the custody of the kids. I was caught completely financially unprepared for the divorce itself, and I was taken to the cleaners on that one, and the kids ended up primarily under her control, with a completely unsatisfactory arrangement that severely limited my role in their life as a father. In the intervening two years between the divorce and the motion to modify, I swallowed the Red Pill…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 02:02 PM
5

With out revealing too much identifying info, there was a lot of sabotage on both sides. I have owned up to mine. She likely never will own up to hers. In many respects I wasn't a great husband, but I never have been a slouch as a father.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 02:37 AM
6

Standard BPD. Pushed the relationship hard. I went along out of thirstiness. Learn from my mistake.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 02:35 AM
3

Men lose because the system is biased, but also because they tend to play to tie. I agree completely, and I lost the first time around because of that. You have to set aside the notion that your ex is working for anyone's interests other than her own (not even those of her own children, most of the time).
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 02:33 AM
5

Absolutely not.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 09:44 PM
6

The mother already resents me. There is nothing that's going to change that. The thing is, unlike her, I am not trying to cut the kids out of the other parent's life. I may find her to be pretty worthless, but she is still their mother. I'm not doing it out of revenge toward her; I am doing it for them.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 08:16 PM
4

That is why I am being as vague as I am, along with using an anonymous account. I want to help out my fellow men who are in a similar situation without screwing myself over.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 08:13 PM
2

Crazy isn't always genetic. And, trust me when I say that my daughter is being given doses of Red Pill reality every time there's a teachable moment.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 06:43 PM
7

It's a fucking racket, but she had to fork over just as much, if not more before all was said and done. I would have rather worked out a compromise with her and saved all of this time and money, but she wouldn't have any of that at any stage of the process. She honestly believed that the court system was her unquestioning ally and that she would get her way no matter what. The reality is that when she filed for divorce, she brought in this third party (the state) that both of us have to answer t…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 06:41 PM
4

I have won what is called expanded possession. Since my divorce was finalized, I hadn't even had standard possession, and my ex had the sole right to determine where they live, where they go to school, etc. All of that has changed now. Even if I do not end up with primary custody, that is a victory for me.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 06:33 PM
7

Yeah, if you are marriage minded, vet the woman thoroughly. I would recommend marrying someone younger, someone whose sexual partner count is extremely low or nonexistent, who has a pleasant and submissive demeanor, and who realizes that she is fortunate to have you. Good luck finding that in the West, bro. If you do find her, she's not likely to be older than 21.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 06:03 PM
3

I would definitely bring up the cheating, even if there is no hard (heh) evidence. I would say that the thing he needs to protect himself from is allegations of violence toward her or the kids. Since he has been in a military/law enforcement role, some are predisposed to believing them to be bullies off the battlefield. What I would do is get something written from her that acknowledges that he never hit her or the kids. It doesn't need to be the main subject of an email or anything, but simply …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 05:58 PM
7

Yeah, in the initial divorce I did things the wrong way, and she came off like the helpless victim. As a result, I have been divorced for four years and only now is the injustice being rectified. One other mistake I made early on was to try and pull punches with her, refraining from using all of the evidence I could have used for the sake of being amicable. That only works when both parties are willing to do that. The checkmate move in this case something she had put up online with her name and …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 04:20 PM
6

Google "fathers rights organizations." See if there is one in your area that can point you in the right direction. One other suggestion: find a lawyer who will be straight with you and tell you what you need to do outside the courtroom to improve your case. Knowing my ex like I do, she likely chose lawyers who were telling her that she was doing everything right and who were more than happy to rack up the hours at her expense. A good attorney will be realistic with you and tell you to stop doing…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 04:06 PM
81

I'd also recommend father's rights organizations. They can refer you to lawyers who may offer you a discount or charge you on a sliding scale.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 04:04 PM
12

Yes, and the trick on your end is to keep everything businesslike and maintain that frame, thereby keeping yourself from giving her ammo for court.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 03:50 PM
27

If I end up getting primary custody. It's pretty standard in my state and would be garnished from her wages as it currently is from mine.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 03:40 PM
43

Well, I did win far more than I initially set out for. I didn't move for primary custody until after all of the false police reports and alienation bullshit started. Basically, the judge ordered us both to counseling on how to co-parent (the first time she has actually been ordered to do anything like that, and something I have been asking for from the very beginning). She is reserving final judgment regarding residency of the kids for a couple of months to see how well the ex and I can work thi…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 02:48 PM
57

Blue pill "Nice Guy"-ness. I am over it.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 02:41 PM
3

I have updated it now. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 05:07 PM
3

I like the part where everyone here takes at face value that the adultery was merely a "one-time" discretion.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 01:28 PM
1

What is his account?
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 05:52 AM
2

Game them.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 05:43 AM
1

You should have found a female acquaintance who was interested in going alone and at least purchased the tickets as a couple for the discount. Beat the system!
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 10:38 PM
2

Why would he need to tell anyone he is dating that he had a vasectomy?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 03:31 AM
2

Nothing new to report yet. The girl was suspended for the rest of the week, so the next steps are tomorrow.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 02:40 AM
2

Obviously, you may want to put off the "pump and dump" kind of advice, but you do want to inoculate him against Oneitis and Gamma traits. For example, discourage him from centering his life around pleasing and pursuing girls. Train him to set and maintain the frame, and remind him that there are thousands of pretty girls out there. Especially if he is shorter right now, I'd encourage you to give him specific ways to raise his prepubescent SMV and to have something specific to focus on instead of…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 06:19 PM
4

I have a voice recording app on my phone for moments just like that. I know the moment has passed on this, but I would be ready to record those types of conversations (video would be good as well if possible) to use as evidence against them or as a deterrent against them actually going through with it. Yeah, it will completely ruin your chances to get it in there, but I assume you are wise enough to understand that these kinds of chicks disqualify themselves.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 02:27 PM
3

No, no news. Trusting anything like this to be reported accurately by the mainstream media is more than foolish. Plus, from the school district's perspective, any bad publicity of a student is a reflection on the district as well. I'd rather not bite the hand that feeds me, especially when they handled the matter professionally. In addition, my goal is not a smear campaign. It's to send a message to the student, her mother, and others at the school that actions have consequences. Lastly, as othe…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 02:41 AM
1

Co-sign.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 12:11 AM
2

Professors spend their lives getting a job at a university and they sure as hell wouldn't come to reddit asking if they should risk their life's work for a woman. Didn't see him asking anything.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 12:10 AM
3

But I seem to fair out pretty well so I must not be grossly ugly. Damn, I was so completely into her until she wrote "fair" instead of "fare." Misuse of homophones is one of my few deal-breakers. Otherwise we would have been PERFECT together. Oh, well. Her loss!
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 12:01 AM
3

I will keep you posted. FYI, my principal WANTS me to follow through with this.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 11:51 PM
7

That's no man. She's actually a lesbian.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 09:50 PM
8

I think destroying someone's life isn't cool Her life is not going to be ruined by this. Her life will be inconvenienced a little. If the judge does anything at all, she MAY get some community service. She won't be doing any time, so any talking of "destroying" someone is just melodrama. Think what if your son was in her place If my son were in her place I would have him take some personal responsibility and apologize and try to make amends with the teacher. Same if it were my daughter. I certai…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 04:40 PM
15

Kids in high school have not even finished forming their gender identity This one line tells me everything I need to know about you. You're not married I'm not? You're taking your red pill bullshit which is meant to help men in their dating life So, you don't understand TRP, either. Go figure.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 04:32 PM
20

I am not filing charges because of a "light push." Learn to read. I am filing charges because she made a false claim that I assaulted her, which would have been career-ending were there even a reasonable doubt that I had done nothing wrong. What if I am married with children? Did you even stop your white-knighting bullshit tirade long enough to think about that? What would losing my source of income do to them? You didn't even consider that, just like this lying teenage girl and her mother didn'…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 02:19 PM
-1

If you are looking for someone to "settle down with," you will likely want a woman in the 18-21 range, since her number count is much more likely to be minimal. While that is quite attainable when you are older, I say your chances of that age group decrease significantly once you are in your 40's. Even among the most TRP-minded and TRP-compatible women, there's something about post-40 that almost invariably seems "old" to that age group. Stay in shape, work on yourself, stay out of debt, and get…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 06:01 AM
6

The only unmarried mom I would ever consider is a widow.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 05:12 AM
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You know, that's not as much the case as one might think. The main reason why more male (and female) teachers don't follow through on this kind of thing is a time and effort issue. I will likely have to go to court for this, and on top of all the other day-to-day shit that goes along with having more than 175 students to manage, it's one more thing that I will have to deal with. In my view, it's worth it, but I understand why others would pass just to have the issue behind them and get on with t…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 05:10 AM
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Most schools have cameras in the hallways, but not in individual classrooms. Here, at least, it's not illegal to film students for school related purposes, but having a hidden camera running continuously would definitely open me up to accusations of being some kind of perverted predator. You know how things can get spun.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 04:56 AM
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That's exactly what I concluded. I was in no danger of getting hurt (although for a second there I sincerely thought that it was going to be the first time in my 10+ year career that I would have had to physically take down an out-of-control student). You have no idea how the public school system fosters our societal problems. It's not just that Johnny somehow made it to tenth grade without being able to read. Public school insulates kids from the consequences of their actions in all but the mos…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 04:53 AM
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Despite my frequent Red-Pill advice to the young men whom I have as a captive audience, I think it's pretty safe to assume that none of them frequent this subreddit. I know for certain that none of them know of my presence here nor my username, which I only use for RP/manosphere activities. Thanks for the advice, though.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 04:42 AM
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I co-sign on everything but giving her the option to change her mind.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 03:50 AM
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This is because shorter MEN shouldn't need to be validated like this.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 05:16 AM
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That's not the same situation if the kid is actually his.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 07:58 PM
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It's still not fair. The vast majority of divorced mothers in Texas still have primary custody of their kids.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 08:22 PM
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"The MOST fair divorce policy" still isn't.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 02:22 PM
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And HE had custody of the girl instead of his ex-wife? In our mommy-friendly world of family courts, she must have been pretty fucked-up herself to lose custody of her daughter.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 09:12 PM
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I included it here because it's another example of a woman making a false rape accusation to cover her bad behavior. Not merely "someone broke in and killed my fiancée's kid," but "I was raped and a victim, too. Rush to my aid, sisters!" As an aside, though, it falls under the "stay away from crazy" category. Do you think that a chick does something like this without showing any signs of her mental state beforehand?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 08:43 PM
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What flair would you recommend for this story? I didn't see one that really fit.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 08:38 PM
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I really don't fucking get it Most accurate part of your post. One minute you're saying it doesn't matter, the next minute you're condemning someone for the same exact activities you all claim to partake in. We "all" don't claim to partake in competing for the highest notch count. I have yet to see someone say her "number" doesn't matter. A man who gains access to many women is an achiever. A woman who grants access to many men is indiscriminate. The only Red Pill men who don't care about a chic…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 06:22 AM
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Unlike most Red-Pill guys, you seem much more comfortable dating women closer to your age. Is there something about younger women that does not appeal to you personally?
/r/TheRedPill12/03/13 11:18 PM
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