TheRedPill has a lot about becoming a higher value man. And this is something everyone here should strive for. When someone asks for advice it’s read, diet, and go to the gym.

However, when it comes to sex, alpha studs aren’t the only ones getting laid. There are beta/ugly looking men getting laid too. In fact you could be top 1% in good looking dudes, and if you spent your entire time at the gym, reading, and on /r/theredpill you’d still get no girls.

The big thing is social interaction. And this does not mean doing PUA cold approaches type shit. If you do it near where you live, you’ll develop a reputation for being a creep/weirdo. It means going out and actually having friends that are men AND WOMEN. You hang out with them, girl x tells, girl y she has crush on you, you start talking to her more, bam you guys start hooking up. You get into parties because you have girls with you. Social proof that travels with you.

The dudes that get laid the most are good looking dudes that have a lot of friends. Many of these dudes aren’t dominant or display “alpha behaviors.” Most of these dudes don’t read for enrichment, let alone read at all. Most of these dudes need to drink before they can approach/ask a girl out.

Now when it comes to looks, there are some basic things you do. Start lifting, eat healthy, etc. visit over to /r/malefashionadvice, now this does not mean wearing a fucking oxford shirt everywhere you go, it means dressing for the occasion nicely. Also learn what hair style fits you best.

Finding friends isn’t hard, finding a social circle, is not an easy thing to do. Your best bet really is to really put yourself out there during the times when people don’t know each other. For example, if you are going to college, first semester, GO HAM in making friends, keep your dorm room open, visit other people, say hi, study at the LOUNGE or library not in your room.

However, let’s say you have to start from scratch, then my suggestion to you would be become social, make friends. Then ask them to hang out with you, have a coworker, ask him if he wants to join you for lunch x,y, and z. Career fair coming up in college? Ask a friend in your ___ class if he wants to join.

Also one last thing, have interesting shit to talk about. If all you can talk about is how some feminist is evil to men, you aren’t going to make many friends, or talking to people about the latest book you read. People would much rather hear about the last time you got so drunk you did xyz.

I wrote this at 544 AM EXPECT GRAMMAR ERRORS