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This place is not the real world. It's the internet's version of a locker room. And although the locker room is the one place women are not allowed, therefore being the only place men can be men, it is not a place you would spend your life. Enjoy your time here. Remember to come back. Learn from your teammates. But know when it's time to leave.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/20 10:15 PM
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And he's luck will run out with a mysterious death
/r/MGTOW07/10/17 07:35 PM
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I read people who ignore 10 rules then hook themselves to the extremes of 1 or 2 rules they feel they fit into. What rules? I haven't been on in a while... did I miss something? I would love to see a concise set of RP Rules to Live By.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 05:20 AM
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Ah.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/09/16 03:55 AM
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It was put in place for women. So they didn't lose income while raising kids. You're coming up with something that I can't help but think is some kind of projection based on your world view. It's not nearly that complicated.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/09/16 02:52 AM
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What? How did you jump to that? It's fraud. This doesn't have anything to do with who women breed with. It has everything to do with who is claimed to be the father.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/09/16 02:33 AM
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And when that didn't work she went for emotional violence and starting crying and guilt tripping him. I have no idea what this show is about but that was hilarious.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/08/16 02:30 AM
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Ah, yeah. It's as tough to catch the lie as it is to catch the truth. That's because we presume innocence. Which is a good thing. But it also means we often let bad people go free. That's just the trade off. EDIT: Also, she was caught because video footage proved she lied. Then she confessed. She didn't just change her mind without proof she lied
/r/MensRights20/08/16 11:16 PM
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They're never going to be likely. It would completely miss the point of their goal. They only confess when they're caught and there's damning proof they lied. Otherwise, they just keep going and going.
/r/MensRights20/08/16 08:01 PM
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Plus, Vassar... nuff said. I went on a very short date once that ended the moment she said she went to Vassar.
/r/MensRights20/08/16 07:59 PM
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Well, she did only get nine months. I don't know the typical sentence length in Belfast but 9 months is very different than 9 years and a lifetime on a sex offender list.
/r/MensRights20/08/16 07:56 PM
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"Awkwafina" is this seriously a person's name? Like given by parents or their business manager? How... did this happen?
/r/MGTOW11/08/16 02:14 AM
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FYI - Tiny Houses and composting will help the building. And shared solar, water collection would go a long way toward building. This place has a deal on building 3 tiny houses: http://www.uppervalleytinyhomes.com/Tiny-House-Discount-Sales.html That makes it SUPER cheap.
/r/MGTOW21/06/16 09:05 AM
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They are idealizing their mothers' love towards them Well, I think this is part of the issue. Women CAN provide that love. Because mothers do. It just doesn't make sense once you're grown up. This is why boys rebel and separate from their mothers during their teens. They must learn to love themselves, to give themselves protective love. And their mothers must begin the process of switching from protective to respective love.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 05:14 AM
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What did I expect from a whore who needed so much male attention..? The male catch22... We are attracted to big tits, the right curves, the right look in her eyes, the way she dresses, how her hips shake and her tits bounce mid-walk... And women love the attention. They love male attention. But the type of woman who would go on a site like that, who'd fuck you so easily, who dresses in ways I imagine she did... she loves male attention. ANY male attention and as much as possible. So the women we…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 05:07 AM
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"Be Vulnerable" really means "Do things, express things and open up in ways that would make OTHER people sensitive, shy and scared, but do it anyway, with confidence, because you know deep down it won't phaze you, because you're too strong to really be vulnerable" If you are ever ACTUALLY vulnerable, you'll be met with disgust. The only women who might not be disgusted by your true vulnerability is a woman who will NEVER be sexually attracted to you.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 04:48 AM
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Holy shit, that made me burst out laughing too
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 04:40 AM
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As someone who didn't go into the military but could see the possible benefits, I would love to read it
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 06:20 PM
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So much of what's being deleted is just basic discussion content... it's not even much of an "argument" sometimes... They're deleting stuff just because it mentions the situation, not just the "offensive" stuff.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 05:53 PM
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We don't only allow anger, we embrace it. This is so key. It's not about somehow not being angry. It's about accepting it. Understanding it. And using it. Anger is a motivator. For me, it usually means I'm not doing something to protect myself or in general, I'm going down the wrong path. So there's a sort of balance here. You don't ignore it or act like you're too good to get angry. You also don't wallow in it and project it at other people. You are angry. Feel it. Let it push you in the right …
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 05:54 PM
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Men are realizing that women are not even worth a facbook like anymore. LOL... I know this is a pointless comment so feel free to remove it. But I really enjoyed that last line. Well written.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 08:48 PM
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I disagree. When I think of AWALT I add a dimension for degree. Just like all men are horny. We're all like that. But it doesn't mean we'll all cheat on our wife and ruin our family... Some will, but not all. But we all would probably think about it. The difference is some of us have self-control and stop that sort of thing. AWALT means exactly what it says. Except SOME women aren't as bad as others. And SOME women have better self-control than others. I think in today's world what we're seeing …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 06:34 PM
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in general, men remember and feel true gratitude, and will find a way to pay it back. This leads men to believe that women work the same way, but that couldn't be more wrong. Excellent point. Real men don't want handouts. We want to earn everything we get. So if we do get something handed to us, we still earn it by remembering and having gratitude; and hopefully paying that person back at some point. Women believe they deserve X just for existing. They don't inherently care about earning because…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 06:08 PM
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I've honestly thought several times of killing her myself or hiring someone to kill her. I know how you feel... but this only makes an orphan. Ben needs to get his shit together. Stop pitying himself and get on his feet. Get a job. Go to school. Bite the bullet on his pride and live with his family/friends if he has to. His dream family is gone. It's not coming back. But that doesn't mean he's lost his daughter or his future. Not yet.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 06:03 PM
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Of course they are... have you never heard the sayings "Doesn't matter, had sex" and "A holes a hole". Would either of those apply to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 09:09 PM
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the outward differences manifested by cluster B personality types are superficially marginal. That's a good point. Because Histrionic fit right along with these people, in terms of how they behave and relate to others.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 08:26 PM
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Man... so much truth in that... not just in terms of masculine role model but seeing the future considering that was '87
/r/PussyPassDenied30/09/15 06:54 PM
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Depends on how hot she is... I have a feeling if it's a fat chick his friends might do something.
/r/MensRights23/09/15 06:55 PM
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It's time we stop accepting the objeticifation narrative I completely agree. However, I disagree when you say you don't objectify women, because you do. And that's ok. That's what beauty is to you and women don't understand that. It's why they're so often so insecure, they can't see their own beauty. But we can. Because we objectify them. And there's nothing wrong with that. If you saw a beautiful sculpture would you be like, "Wow! That subject is so beautiful!" No. It's an object. And you know …
/r/MensRights19/09/15 12:49 AM
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So what? Yeah, I objectify women. Fuck off. Give me my porn!
/r/MensRights18/09/15 09:51 PM
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None
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 10:21 PM
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Good. Let this pain heal you. It will destroy the cloud in front of your judgement so that you may see someone who is truly worth your time. But remember, AWALT. Some are just worse than others in their ways.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 11:03 PM
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Good on you for being straight with him knowing full well he might take it out on you
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 08:12 PM
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I don't have a problem with gay people or anything, but if these wack-jobs wanna do shit like this, why can't some conservative not bake a gay cake?
/r/MensRights13/08/15 12:45 PM
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Roosh V and TRP parted ways...? What does that even mean? Was he one of the mods? I'm not trying to be an ass, I really have no idea to what you're referring
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 05:15 PM
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I never said the guys had to wear cardboard boxes... just that they decided to not wear skirts. They can wear, ya know, jeans? You jumped there, buddy.
/r/PussyPass13/07/15 07:29 PM
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Men's solution: Stop wearing the kilt. Women's solution: Bitch, complain, whine, create slut walks, blame others, do nothing to come to a solution
/r/PussyPass13/07/15 07:17 PM
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Should the Mods be banning these people? I got banned from pretty much all the SJW subs just for being there...
/r/MensRights10/07/15 03:50 AM
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Funny how the tattoo artist was thinking about her, his reputation and the culture of tattoos when he said No. But she was only thinking of herself. She's only a victim of her own ignorance and narrow view
/r/MensRights15/06/15 09:31 PM
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Well, the game is unfair because it doesn't handicap the more able. But I don't have a problem with that.
/r/MGTOW12/06/15 04:17 PM
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So happy I'm not in college
/r/MensRights11/06/15 09:06 PM
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Relevant debate. It's quite good. I know I should provide more commentary but I won't this time. The debate is worth watching and speaks for itself. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kBiS4qTsjCg&feature=youtu.be
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 02:47 AM
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No More Mr. Nice Guy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 04:42 PM
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Rejection is the hardest thing to go through. At first, yes. But eventually you realize it's nothing to beat yourself up over.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 03:21 PM
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We'll be here if you need us
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 02:23 PM
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I grew up with a mom who didn't want me, or my siblings... I often think it was harder for me to swallow just because I wanted the love so badly... But then again, you can't miss what you never had.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 05:42 AM
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We are indeed the makers and shapers of how we experience reality FTFY. You can't turn water into wine.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 05:33 AM
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Hahaha... this reads like a millionaire giving an inspirational speech to the poor. Dude, I'm sorry. I know it sucks. But it's the reality. You're depressed because you're not accepting reality. Yet you know it's true. You see it everywhere. But you don't want it to be truth. However, wanting reality to be a certain way won't make it that way. You can't change the outside world, only the way you feel about it. The upside is, once you accept reality you can find ways to be happy about it. Yes, yo…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 05:30 AM
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This is so important. Because the reality is not every "low SMV male" will rise from the ashes... most will remain there. It's mathematically impossible for every male to be "high status". So there must be some men at the bottom, hungry... and a hungry man is a desperate man. The only option for these men is to either swallow their pride, go beta and live a shit life. Or MGTOW it up, let the post-wall woman be a single mom. And enjoy his life alone. It sounds bad, but that's only because we're p…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 05:21 AM
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I might add that it goes beyond just an example set by a boy's mother. Even men who were raised without a mother or by a mean, bitchy mom still yearn for a certain kind of love. In fact, they may desire it even more... knowing they can give to others yet never having received it themselves.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 05:15 AM
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don't start talking about your feelings but do help her rationalize in a way that still gives you the advantage That's a good point but I don't think your experience is the norm. Women tend to test your boundaries. So often times they'll see if you really do want to hang out without sex and "just be friends". Then if you do, they'll push it further and further... until next thing you know you're friendzoned to a chick you used to bang. You also set yourself up in a bad way. Because if she does w…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 04:54 AM
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" She would never do that to me" If you even find yourself saying that to yourself, she already has.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 04:45 AM
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The same phenomenon happens in popular culture with unattractive people in general. They don't get any romantic attention, but that's different than saying people "despise" them. Yes and no. Yes it happens to all unattractive people. But since 90% of women are attractive vs 20% of men, it happens to a lot more men. And it is a kind of "despise"... maybe that's not the right word for you. But look at the way fat girls get treated. I would definitely say "despise" is pretty close. And women do the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 06:02 PM
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Our existence harasses feminists
/r/MensRights20/05/15 08:11 PM
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It's not about breaking his heart. It's about doing what's right.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 05:09 PM
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I still don't know what that means...
/r/askTRP15/05/15 03:09 PM
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I did. I kept seeing bullshit feminist crap and I was tired of it. So I intentionally pissed everyone off just so they'd unfriend me. That way I didn't have to go through a couple hundred profiles to figure out who should get the boot. Those people just took care of it for me.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 08:27 PM
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I was thinking the same but was unsure about a "black widow" and thought maybe they were the same
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 07:47 PM
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Huh... I posted in there yesterday. And I definitely fit the "ban". But haven't received any notifications
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 06:19 PM
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I wouldn't doubt if people are not telling the truth the same these days. But if anything I'd think they'd be more truthful because sex if far less taboo than it once was, at least for women. And if that's the case, we would expect the opposite of what we're seeing.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 05:01 PM
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Again, proving my point further. And no, I'm not like a woman. You're the one using this as an emotional fix. Now trying to hide behind telling me to "Relax" when I already am, and have been. There's nothing wrong with being pissed. Go for it. But posting things for no reason? How is that not a waste of time for all of us
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 04:59 PM
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I didn't type that.... I'm a different user. I'm NOT OP. Criticism is built into shaming... You don't shame someone/thing if you're not critical of them/it. And how you are using shame is to not include context. With no context, shame is just a power play. The only real benefit is your emotional well-being. You FEELZ better after shaming with no context. You don't help the person you're shaming because all they learned is you're pointless. You don't bring anything useful to the table. All you do…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 04:54 PM
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It would be interesting to know the total amount of sex. Whether that's staying the same or dropping at the same rate. Because maybe people just are having less sex. Maybe they're having the same or more with fewer people (80/20 rule). We don't get the full story not knowing whether the total amount of sex is the same or changing too. In any case, the US is full-steam ahead toward what Japan is currently facing. http://www.japantimes.co.jp/community/2011/12/17/our-lives/herbivorous-men-wheres-th…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 04:09 PM
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How do you post such a pointless response and take yourself seriously? It's one thing to be critical, it's another to be critical with no point. Why bother posting if you're not going to add something? Work out your criticism a little more so you don't sound whiney and defensive. Because that's all I got out of your post.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 03:51 PM
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But if people lie consistently, it doesn't matter. If men and women lied the same back then as they do today, then the percentage drop eliminates the "lie" factor.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 03:48 PM
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It's because that which attracts women to you is not you, not all of you at least. You're right to not emotionally trust women because as soon as they see that they're attraction drops. That's why men have always relied on men and the very few women whom could never be attracted to them (mother, sister, aunt, grandma...). Never think the woman you woe wants to hear your sob story. Never emotionally "connect". Never seek support. You take care of yourself. Or else you will be taking care of yours…
/r/seduction06/05/15 10:00 PM
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Maybe you have DID and another personality is an old, screaming cat-lady
/r/MensRights06/05/15 09:37 PM
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YEA!!! Excited about my taxes being wasted on feminism.... [insert tons of fucking sarcasm]
/r/PussyPass04/05/15 08:47 PM
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did you consider inflation? A 10k hooker today isn't the same as a 10k hooker 50 years from now
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 09:37 PM
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But why would she treat you better? She treated you exactly as you deserved (in her eyes). Had you not gone so beta, she wouldn't have treated you that way. You can blame her for the way she treated you, or take responsibility for acting that way. I suggest the latter.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 09:32 PM
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That's my new favorite one-liner
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 08:25 PM
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I had no idea what song you were talking about so I googled it and had a listen... wrong move.
/r/TRPOffTopic13/04/15 06:16 PM
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Yeah. Not all men will climb out of the gutter into which we were thrown. But those who do will accomplish and be much more than the vast majority of women. It's that very climb out that makes it possible for us to climb higher. Lead by example. Hopefully your friends will see, understand and follow. If not, leave them behind.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 03:30 PM
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Fucking cunts
/r/MensRights03/04/15 03:37 PM
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I think somebody took this Reddit TIL and mixed up the general 80/20 rule. Because it's 40%, not 20%.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 07:45 PM
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Actually, that is what it's saying. But it's only for a relatively short period of time
/r/askTRP20/03/15 07:38 PM
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And none of us found compassion, belonging, or empathy in the very system that gave us this shared experience. Very important line here. As a man, you are alone. And that seems really scary... but at least we're all alone together. Once you get over that part, things get much easier.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 03:29 PM
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I think it comes down to a power play. Women view PUAs as having more power over them than they have over the PUA. So women want to shame men out of becoming "attractive" so that women can maintain the sexual power.
/r/MensRights18/03/15 02:38 PM
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What's wrong with PUAs?
/r/MensRights17/03/15 03:38 PM
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Funny how much of what you posted aligns so well with TRP...
/r/seduction16/03/15 08:05 PM
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An outlier does not define an average. I'm happy you found an example of a somewhat attractive old lady. But for the most part, men are attracted to 22 year olds. OKC showed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 09:07 PM
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I had a similar thing happen to me but I had the misfortune of not taking it pass/fail, but was actually being graded. In the end I had to go to the dean and he made the professor change my grade. It was a mess. And I never stepped near the Gender Studies department again even though I find gender relations interesting.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 11:08 PM
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I think its sort of implied. Because what he's really saying is, "My SMV is so low I only get opportunities with women of extremely low quality, and I don't want that, plus I put my life's happiness in being in a relationship with someone of X SMV." He could have gotten someone. Just about any guy can get SOMEONE. The question is, do you really want that person?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 06:29 PM
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Back in the day I used to pull in tail with decent frequency. Enough to get better looking guys asking me for advice. Then I started seriously dating, moved to a city where "nice guys" always get the short end, and went on a multi-year drought. Then I met a girl. She seemingly liked the nice guy in me. I liked her a lot. I had all the modern day "normal" beliefs about women and gender. And this girl was a massive ex-slut (like well over 100 dudes by mid-20s). But having a blue pill framework cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 08:26 PM
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It's part of their sexual strategy that they need to lie to themselves to establish themselves mentally as the best. That's because women only select the best. It's not OUR rules. We're not the gatekeepers to sex. If the "worst" was selected for sex, you'd see guys failing at everything they do and in amazingly terrible ways. Don't blame men for the rules women make. They also need to attempt to establish themselves as superior to women to boost their self-esteem That's true of all people. That'…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 06:09 PM
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And herein lies one of the major differences between men and women. I've always had public speaking problems. I don't know why. But nothing scares me more than speaking in front of people. However, at the same time I love it. It's a challenge. It's me facing my fear. I've NEVER ONCE stepped away from a chance to deal with it because I know each time I utter a word in front of a group I'm taking one step closer to being over something I know I should be over. Women won't do that. Some might, I'm …
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 02:26 PM
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Life for men is struggle, pain and work but if you put in you will reap the glory of said work. I hate to be "that guy".... but this is not reality. It's not mathematically possible. Not EVERY-MAN can be in the top 20%, therefore not EVERY-MAN can reap the glory of said work... I think it's important to accept that maybe, just maybe, some people may not make it there. TRP puts a lot of energy into the top 20%, either what's it's like to be there or what's required to get there. But what about ev…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 02:09 PM
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What about DPS?
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/15 07:32 PM
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She has a very small sample that's bias toward a certain TYPE of man... not very representative. I highly doubt the majority of men have some kind of repressed "feminine" side. Rather, it's a few who like to let it out every now and then.... Reality and her story seem very far apart, because of her sample size and bias (along with her own personal bias). I've spent time in those communities and she's the last thing I'd want in my bedroom. I go for the latex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/15 07:57 PM
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The things you describe seem like things you have previously talked about before, if not a handful of times. This is not what the author did. She went bananas out of nowhere. It's not just about "viewing" things differently. And the author's "explanation" sounds like a pathetic excuse to make her abusive behavior OK. Seeing things differently doesn't mean I can smack a bitch around. Same goes here. Seeing things different doesn't mean she can belittle, degrade, disempower... There's a difference…
/r/MensRights19/01/15 09:51 PM
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Hide behind sarcasm all you want. But this is not "caring about different stuff". This is about how one expresses the "different stuff". A healthy adult would simply say, "Ohh...honey, this type of hamburger is really fatty and unhealthy. Here, I'll explain the difference and let you know what kind I usually get. I should have explained that beforehand." If you're GF acts like the author, she's far from healthy.
/r/MensRights19/01/15 09:36 PM
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Dr. Obvious
/r/MensRights19/01/15 09:24 PM
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I don't need to. You compared her to the woman in that article... that's enough. And you should have had enough too.
/r/MensRights19/01/15 09:21 PM
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Uhhh.... I have to disagree.
/r/MensRights19/01/15 09:08 PM
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You just said, "So there." Dead giveaway you're a child.
/r/MensRights15/01/15 10:27 PM
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Man here: Firstly, you should add a TL/DR because that's a WALL of text and this is the internet. Secondly, yes. There is a dearth of femininity in this world. And as a feminine woman, yes, you will stand out. However, men also love getting laid. So although you'll stand out you may simply get passed on because some slut is spreading her legs. This is one reason women slut-shame. Because men are weak when it comes to sex. And if your friend is giving it out easy, our dicks will lead us there. Bu…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/15 10:16 PM
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Let's start where most RP theory starts, social evolution. Throughout the history of mankind women have been the selective sex and men the selected sex. Meaning, women choose men for reproduction and not the other way around. This was beneficial for progress because women always chose the highest value man. And if one man was the highest value one year, he would be chosen. If another was highest another year, he would be chosen. So women putting conditions on their love/bonding/sex was advantage…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/15 01:47 AM
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Well of course women aren't going to "marry-down".... this is a TRP tenet. Women marry up. So yes. We men will take care of Homogamy by slumming it with the wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/15 08:33 PM
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There's no need for advice. Men have always be upfront about what they want out of a woman. Be fit, physically attractive and don't be a bitch. Not much more to than that. Anything else is just personal preference for an individual guy, in which case "advice" from someone else won't tell you about that individual unless they know him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/15 05:06 PM
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I've been MGTOW for over a year now and I love it. So I'm not looking for an LTR. Plus I'm not really sure we're all that compatible. I don't want to start something unless I really feel the same as she does, and I just don't see that in me. I'm not sure if it's because I'm not looking for something or if we're just not compatible, even if I was. But I believe in treating good girls like good girls and sluts like sluts. And who knows if she's a virgin? There's never any way to really know. All I…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 04:17 AM
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This happens because women confuse the gatekeepers rule. They think men and women are equal and by giving away sex (their resource), men will give away commitment. They think that because they're getting sex from a 9 dude, they can also get commitment from one. They don't realize that getting sex from a 9 is very different from getting commitment.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 10:51 PM
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I was talking about this with a plate a few months back. She wouldn't fuck me so we "talked". Turns out she's 29 and still a virgin. Because she's seen what's happened to her friends and decided to wait until she's married, because she doesn't want to end up like that. This was the gist of the convo: Me, "Yeah... you're right. With every new guy a girl fucks, a piece of her dies." Her, "I know. Every girl knows. What I don't understand is how so many modern girls can ignore it. I don't know if t…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 10:36 PM
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Well, yes. Because the reality is you tend to only play with one-legged people. Which gives you an obvious advantage. So if you continue to play, I'm going to lose respect for you. How hard is it to beat a one-legged person at tennis?! And you should be ashamed of yourself for using the one-legged people as a way to boost your ego as a "winner". Always "winning" has ruined you as a person. You're so unjustly full of yourself now. You're not kind, humble or compassionate. You just want to put peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 06:36 PM
12

"Fuck your trauma" Loved it.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 10:05 PM
2

Yeah. I'm with you. People on here tend to be so "capitalist" that their political views taint their ability to be objective. There's nothing inherently wrong with Marxism, in my view. They have useful tools and honestly, Marx wrote the most insightful view of capitalism ever. The only thing not spot on was his Labor Theory of Value. He could have use a less aggressive tone in Das Capital, but getting caught up in terms like "exploitation of labor" is really just letting your emotions drive your…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 04:49 PM
1

Dude... don't over think it. Just escalate. If you're in the friendzone you'll find out quickly. Quit being a pussy and fuck her!
/r/askTRP29/12/14 08:22 PM
3

I would never use it. But that's partly because I dated someone very skilled in it. And it destroyed me... took years to recover from that one. One of her favorite tactics was to appear and disappear, in different ways. Her most favorite was to walk past me and not say Hello or acknowledge me, just act as if I wasn't there. Sometimes she would go to the bar across the street, then once I saw her she'd run out and deny ever going there. It's all about fucking with a person's beliefs. And that's a…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 06:58 PM
1

the women in his life still want his commitment This is really what it comes down to. Women are the ones who want commitment, so men are the ones who guard it. Just like men are the ones who want sex more, so women are the ones who guard it. Beta men are more likely to jump into a relationship than an alpha, but beta men still want sex more than a relationship.
/r/askTRP27/12/14 06:19 PM
1

Years ago I had the same thought. It's literally the first thought I had that brought me out. "This girl is all dressed up and I'm avoiding looking at her because I feel ashamed if I do... that makes no fucking sense!" It was the beginning of TRP for me.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 09:05 PM
1

I like to think of this one coupled with "get other people to do things for you..." So don't start the drama yourself, that way you're not a target. But get others to stir the waters for you.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 06:22 PM
4

This started a while ago. Feminists have actually been trying to build a "feminist" programming language that, from what I can tell, isn't based on logic. How the fuck you would do that is beyond me (maybe it's because I'm a logic-using man...), but they've had their sights set on tech for a while.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 06:19 PM
2

Well, that is actually really annoying. I often get into the cars and see two guys gleefully taking up the space meant for three people. I however just demand they move the fuck over and close their damn legs. Do we really need a campaign for this? No. It's not THAT big of a deal. But it is annoying.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 03:39 PM
2

Just remember, Dr Glover often talks about men who want to be opposite of their Fathers... and usually, the opposite of crazy is still crazy. It's best to look at your Father objectively. Assess the positive qualities, and emulate, then assess the negative qualities, and don't emulate. You're Father can't be completely worthless. You're just emotionally tied up in being let down as a son. Get over it. See his positive qualities too.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 09:59 PM
1

This is classic codependence and a perfect example of why it came out of AA. She is as addicted to "taking care" of the bum as the bum is addicted to alcohol. She's addicted to the attention, feeling like a good person, etc... Run from codependents. You should know this from NMMNG
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 06:09 PM
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I wouldn't cheat... if she finds out you'll get fucked in the divorce (even worse than already). Cut her off as she has cut you off. Don't cuddle. Don't ask how her day went. Just do your own thing. Go as far into Monk Mode as you can given you're married. Once you get your shit together, either she'll follow suite or divorce will be obvious. Also, never sleep on the couch. If you guys get in a fight because she feels like you're getting distant, she's the one who should go to the damn couch.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 05:41 PM
8

Those are some weird fucking replies... I often say, "Men are better than women. Why? Because 99.9999% of anything worth talking about in human history has been done by a man." It's sort of joke, not joke, that's similar to what you're saying. And I would definitely expect people on here to agree. So yeah, weird responses.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 06:01 PM
2

Just to be a dick, I'm going to disagree. If homo's aren't allowed on TRP, and if they want a voice, they inevitably end up either on the fringe of TRP where nobody's listening or with feminists. Mostly likely they'll end up with feminists, which just bolsters the feminist voice. So long as they're men-homos and not fag-homos, I see no reason to bring them on board. Just don't try to blow me when I'm passed out drunk.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 05:54 PM
2

As I recall that thread turned into a circle-jerk of support for her... Me and one other guy were the only dissenting voice in that thread
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 09:38 PM
1

"least" offensive.... what world are you living in?! His video of him in Japan is what's sparked all this...
/r/seduction07/11/14 07:17 PM
2

What the fuck are you talking about? EC's from TRP have called him a d-bag for ignoring that Japanese girls are more polite and don't know how to react to someone like him. They've called him out. Get your shit straight.
/r/seduction07/11/14 06:56 PM
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I'm just saying take it in context. People tweet shit like this all the time. People are acting like it's not a tweet... but it is. People are also trying to isolate him, as if his behavior is abnormal. It may still be creepy, just as all these women are bitches, but there are mean people in the world... how is this news?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 09:52 PM
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Although his tweets are quite mean, it's nothing worse than what you read from all kinds of people. Here's a heightism one from women: https://twitter.com/heightismxposed So whatever.... I think she's just pissed off. Julien is a master-player and that makes her mad. He uses women for sex and women let him. The real question is, why do women let him?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 07:19 PM
2

But that would be insensitive!
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 09:06 PM
11

Walk around with your fly open next
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 09:00 PM
7

I get why you posted her. You were in a relationship that hurt you and this sub echos that relationship... So you don't want other woman to be hurt in the same way. I had a terrible relationship once... and if I came across a sub of women who were seemingly preaching the emotional abuse I experienced... I would definitely be on it. But the fact that you were attracted is probably all that we need. You fell for a Dark Triad type guy. You just supported everything we talk about. But just because w…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 06:03 AM
5

Because it's sooooooo long.... but after seeing your comment I'll go back and read it... ugh.... it's sooooo long.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 05:49 AM
1

Yes, yes... it's totally beta. The real question is why is this shit on TRP? But since it's here... here's my thoughts. I don't have a problem with it. I'll be the fucking black sheep of TRP, lol. I do it sometimes because if I see a woman wearing shorts that peek her ass cheeks out and she has enough cleavage to make a hungry infant swoon... yeah, she'll probably get a piece of my mind about it. Because the reality is women force a sexual experience on men. And catcalling is a way of expressing…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 04:24 AM
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There is the underlying question of why so many women jumped on this bandwagon. Why did so many women identify with this and feel like it was saying something to them? And what can we get from it? The first lesson is know how to approach. Simply yelling out, "Nice ass!" won't work unless you're a 10. Women aren't upset that they're being noticed, it's just how the man approaches. It's simple pre-selection. Women want men who other women have selected. If you don't know how to approach a woman, o…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 03:24 AM
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What part is hilarious? Which part do you disagree? I find your level of disdain for something women force men to do hilarious. The rules of sexual engagement are determined by women. Don't like the rules, change them. Don't yell and shame and berate men, just change the rules. Plus the visual, I guess. Skull-fucking is generally pretty funny. Cuz seriously, who the fuck does that? Goes back to social ineptitude. You're right and wrong. The reason PUA's exist is social ineptitude, yes. But the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 09:24 PM
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I think you missed the point. No. I got the point. I just still think it's hilarious... lolol if you approach [anywhere] he/she could totally not be into you. It's the name of the game. FTFY. Men have to approach. It's the way it is. And you never know if a girl is going to be ok with it or not. Day Game as an approach philosophy works great and is built on day approaches. You may not like catcalls. But if Hollaback-girls didn't exist, catcalls probably wouldn't. Then again, women consider a gla…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 08:50 PM
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Lololol.... we need to get skull-fucked by lesbians with dildos! lololol... A man who doesn't know you won't know what you like, where you like it or anything about you. So he won't know if a book shop is ok or a street. He won't know if a bar is off limits or coffee shops. We don't know until we find out. The only way to find out is to put yourself out there. The very thing you respect is the very thing you lose. The very thing to which you're attracted is the very thing you're trying to shame …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 08:30 PM
3

Do you see the conflict here? You respect that men put themselves out there but wish men respected that you put up with men putting themselves out there, which would mean men wouldn't put themselves out there, which would mean you'd lose respect....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 07:43 PM
1

You could look super jealous and act like it's driving you crazy, this will in turn drive her crazy.... and wait... or you could just go lift and do something with your life.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 11:30 PM
14

Seriously.... she's an ex... fuck being polite.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 11:07 PM
2

Do you know you're right? Then there you go. LOVE that you're sticking up for yourself. LOVE that you're holding frame. LOVE that you're in a conflict because it makes you stronger. If any of this shit gives you anxiety or fear or guilt.. you're fucked. But if you only love it all, love that you're pissing them off, love that you won't take their shit, LOVE THAT YOU'RE BEHAVING LIKE AN ALPHA, and you won't have anything to "deal with". Only they will.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 11:03 PM
1

Goals: Morning workouts (I'm just fucking lazy in the morning...) No bad, easy sex (no fapping, no hookers, no fat chicks....) No coffee No cigarettes (fuck me... just writing this made me want to smoke!) Eat healthy, every meal of every day
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 11:59 PM
1

I'm not sure he's a lost case. I was like him. Definitely. In fact, I had someone try to push TRP on me about 6 months before I started swallowing the pill. It was their first, "Hey... I think you should check this out." that put me on the path despite my initial reaction (which was, "Fuck that! I don't want to be like that... those guys are a bunch of bitter, neckbeards") Taking the pill is difficult. But if you put the notions out there, and they reject it, doesn't mean they won't eventually c…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 06:04 PM
3

Where did Tantric Sex come from again...? How are you guys not fucking more?
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 05:56 PM
0

And here in lies the dangers of today's irresponsible women. We need to teach women to be responsible if they're going to be "independent"... cuz those go hand in hand.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 05:38 PM
14

That I make more money stripping at 42 than I ever have teaching, writing, counseling homeless youth, waiting tables or tending bar is a problem of sexism and living in a sexist culture, not a problem of the sex industry. Bullshit. It has nothing to do with what is traditionally viewed as "sexism" (i.e., men are pigs). She makes more money as a stripper because the sex industry exploits men's sex drives. It's not sexism against women, it's sexism against men. It's not exploiting women, it's expl…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 05:28 PM
1

she brought it up more than once how her being married is baggage I tend to think of this type of test as a shit test for betaness. Meaning she's actually looking for betaness in you. She wants to know that you'll love her forever and ever and never hold anything against her because she's a perfect little snowflake that deserves to be loved and cherished for no reason other than existing as a perfect little princess who might have fucked up a little but that should all be forgiven! I would pass …
/r/askTRP30/10/14 11:01 PM
1

I spoke my mind and they unfriended me. Win, win.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 06:43 PM
5

I had a girl try this on me once. I wasn't having it and just started dancing harder with the chick. The lesbian eventually slapped me, which was not only hilarious but tipped the scale in my favor. But these women have no morals. Like I said, she just upped and slapped me out of no where. No man would punch you in the face for "getting the girl".... but women make for terrible men. Always avoid women who think they are men.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 06:28 PM
0

"Marxist Feminism" is hilarious because really, capitalism has benefited greatly from feminism and vise versa... in fact I view the two as very closely related. Corporate HR departments were like, "Wait a minute.... we can double the workforce, thereby making labor cheaper, simply by getting women in the mix!" True Marxist Feminism would required a level of critical thinking rarely found in a woman. It would also require women take a look at themselves and how access to capital/property was give…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 04:37 PM
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It's not just that... We on here often attribute our lack of manhood to poor father figures. Now imagine growing up completely without a father just because your Mom's a cunt. Imagine everything you've gone through... now magnify it by an order of cunt. That poor fucking kid...
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 04:19 PM
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It's not strange at all. Validation and attention are a drug. If you're ugly, you get no drugs... If you're not ugly, you get drugs. The more attractive, the more drugs she gets. So if you just never get heroine you'll never be a heroine addict.... but if you get it all the time, you'll be hooked.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 03:47 PM
2

Yeah. This has baffled me... you'd think gay men would be OVERLY masculine since they're attracted to men. Just as you'd think gay women would be overly feminine. But that's not what happens. Why is that?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 05:17 AM
7

He can only be "saved" if he chooses to change. If it's something he wants. But yes. He can be saved. If he wants to save himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 07:49 PM
1

People on here view feminism as one big shit-test. I disagree. I think feminism has been one massive, collective rejection of masculinity. So you have to ask yourself, how do I handle rejection? Do I hold frame? Do I still love myself? Do I cower and cry? I've lost a few friends and been in many heated arguments at parties because of TRP. I'm not a pussy about letting my views be known and couldn't care less if I lose something in sticking up for Men. But I don't care. I love their rejection. It…
/r/askTRP23/10/14 05:40 PM
2

The only power they have, is the power that you give. This isn't true just with women. This is true with everything. What's the difference between a leader and a crazy person, alone on a soapbox? The leader has be given the power to lead.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 04:16 PM
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I actually agree with you to a degree... Women emotional abuse men on a regular basis and men aren't as adept as women in dealing with their emotions. So they have had to find a way to fight back, protect themselves. So, hitting a woman has historically been man's recourse for when she hits him. But the difference is women were really smart about it. They realized that if you hit someone physically, they see the hit, others see the bruise, and there is therefore evidence of abuse. But if you emo…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 03:30 PM
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She alienates girls with her behavior and then surrounds herself with a cloud of admirers/ penis buffet. Not just a penis buffet but also an army of orbiters to do her bidding. Often these women don't like that women will see their manipulative behavior and call them out on it. But orbiters just fall in line. So these bitches choose the orbiter who falls in line over the GF who calls her out on her manipulative shit.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 03:19 PM
4

What's annoying is people don't even realize what GamerGate is really about. And it's a very serious issue surrounding journalistic ethics. And it's even important to non-Gamers because if this can happen in the gaming industry, expect it in EVERY industry where dollars are more abundant than in the gaming industry. The "gamers are X" is just a red herring. Getting you to look away from the fact that game publishers have been buying reviews and journalists. Be concerned. Very concerned. But don'…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 03:14 PM
6

Girl I'm kind of seeing now basically said this, "I want to know you're into me for more than just sex. So we'll wait until then." Say something like that and and explain that you don't take sex lightly. He'll either respect that or not.... If not, well that just means you probably should have cut him earlier!
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 10:11 PM
0

I know how you feel... and it sucks. But a man isn't a man just because he can get laid. Remember, the majority of men throughout history didn't reproduce (so probably didn't get laid...). But did they let that get to them? Did they let that bring them down? It would be awesome if we all could get laid by 10s... (but then again, those girls would be having orgies 20 hrs a day just to satisfy all the men lol) But don't let it get to you. Your life isn't over just because you're not the guy with a…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 06:52 PM
1

Did this study just connect "analytical" and "women"...?
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 04:58 PM
4

Most older guys who get college girls can pass for early to mid 20s, they don't look old enough to be their dads. Not much more I can say about this. Can confirm this. As I got older shit got easier, but that's mainly because girls just starting assuming I was their age... Now I'm mid-30s but look mid-20s so I can pull the 19 year old. So NOT looking like your more concerned about your mortgage refinance than whatever's on Twitter is important.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 06:55 PM
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Been playing my whole life, can confirm this. Now learn to write songs and it'll up you to the next level. Also, lay on your back, wrap her in your left arm and play while she cuddles you (bitch can't be fat for this...). That'll destroy any LMR or DLV or anything.... girls love that move and since you've laying down with each other's heads next to each other, making a move is super natural.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 06:52 PM
3

So bust out your tool and "help her out".....
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 02:06 AM
1

Invisible Presence So much of unplugging is breaking away from outside "care" and "nurturing". This used to happen pre-civilization when a teenage boy would be taken into the wild by his elders and they'd guide him into being a man. This book takes you on that journey via meditation.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 12:00 AM
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Well, that's the question. Can something like this be found in today's world? Years ago a friend was complaining about the city: too many people, so fast pace, never time for himself.... He wanted to just move to a cabin in the woods. But you don't need to move to a cabin to find what he was looking for. So how do we find this without moving to Alaska?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 11:47 PM
1

Here's what I do.... First, listen to how they say something. How they say it conveys all the "feelings" and intent. That's by far the most important aspect of communication for a woman. Second, pay attention to what they do. If their behavior aligns with how they say something, you can probably guess they're being honest. Lastly, what did they say? What a woman actually says with words is almost always the least important part of what she is saying. But if this aligns with her behavior and how …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 09:08 PM
8

Maybe it's time for a new American Dream. Something even more traditional than its current incarnation.... Maybe it's time we go back to before the '50s were even around. When men explored, built, created, invented, all on their terms. I dream of being a man, who blazes a trail in his direction by being accountable for all that he is and all that he earns and all that he desires out of life, and by knowing there is no step forward unless he takes it.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 08:19 PM
1

To me it depends on her age and when she had these partners. What most relevant is how many people has she slept with in the last 1 year and 5 years. If she's 25 and slept with 25 dudes... well that doesn't tell me everything. What if all 25 came in the last year? What if 23 were her first 2 years of college, then she calmed down and the last 5 years she's been with 2 BFs? It all depends on the 1 & 5 year number.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 05:48 PM
1

The problem is if pussy is a commodity, giving it out for free decreases its value. Women who put out easily have less value. But why is that? Is that just men be babies about not taking a girl's virginity? No. A woman loses value proportional to the number of men she's slept with because that which makes her a good woman dies a little bit with every new man. Sluts are not just women who have slept around a lot. I've said this before, I'd date a 28 yr old girl who's fucked 30 guys if 23 of them …
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 05:44 PM
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The friendzone is a man giving all the benefits of commitment to a woman without getting anything in return. So she's getting all the benefits of commitment from a man without having to commit nor fuck him. Women should have no expectation of friendship if they try to friendzone a man, because women who friendzone men aren't "friends", they're more like needy, openly-cheating girlfriends who don't put out. Why in the hell would you be friends with that person?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 05:08 PM
2

One thing I would add would be men take responsibility for "the cause of an emotion". When they "act in a way that addresses" the cause they take the lead. They make themselves responsible for the cause. And responsibility and accountability are two different things. If you come home and your dog shit on the carpet, you're not accountable. You didn't take that shit. But you are responsible for cleaning it up. Because you don't want to live in shit. So you take action, and don't blame the dog for…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 12:20 AM
2

It's not about whether you're "emoting" or not, but why. Women love it because they'll take any emotion over nothing... At least anger is exciting. But if you're flipping a table over because the Dolphins lost... That's a bit of an overreaction. But if someone just punched your best friend? Makes sense to me. u/wall-of-meth has a good point about why... I'd say think about his point a little further. Plus, this isn't about women. It's about you, the state of the world and developing yourself. Pu…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 11:36 PM
3

I've been MGTOW for about a year now and I've always felt a similarity between TRP and MGTOW, although most people here call MGTOW's pussys and cowards. I'm glad to see what I was thinking so well articulated.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 02:42 PM
2

I actually did think it was required... I definitely read it as a part of my unplugging.... And I must have found it here. Definitely should be a required read.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 10:36 PM
3

An outlier does not conform to the average
/r/seduction01/10/14 04:56 AM
1

Dude... there's nothing wrong with those hobbies. So long as you LOVE them. When you meet a girl, she'll probably be bored to hell with them. And if you are too, BOOM lower SMV. But you could easily make these awesome. "Archery is so cool. I love being outside in the summer with the sun on your back. And it feels like I'm a part of something, ya know... cuz this is how people went to war back in the day. Archers were the shit. And it takes so much skill to hold it for that long and not miss. And…
/r/askTRP30/09/14 04:41 AM
6

Being a gentleman went out the door when women quit being modest....
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 07:06 PM
1

I was banned from there.... doesn't take much. You have to play into their circlejerk 100% or you're gone. But remember that's it's not a real sub... they don't even take themselves seriously.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 05:41 PM
6

When they act similarly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 09:18 PM
1

Never get fishing lessons from a fish
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 03:57 PM
3

Well.... I kind of disagree. Because the moral of the story, that I got, was don't be a beta bitch because you'll end up alone and in love with someone who doesn't give a shit about you. It was full of RP truths. Men = romantics, Women = opportunistics. Briffault's law. AFBB.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:30 PM
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You have plenty of time to have a family. Remember, your value only goes up. And the longer you wait (to a point), the better. Imagine having a family straight out of high school vs straight out of grad school vs 4 years into your career. You'll be much more financially stable and mature if you wait. So no need to rush. There will be young, fertile women when you're ready. But also remember the contradiction in the male's sexual imperative. You want to spread your seed and fuck as many hot chick…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:19 PM
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I've been MGTOW for a while now and I continue to read TRP. I don't participate as much as I used to, although I have my spurts. I went MGTOW because I just couldn't take the modern-day American Bitch. And I wasn't the man I wanted to be. Pretty much similar reasons as you but throw in an emotionally abusive relationship. My recommendation is to find things you love doing that'll improve your life. Make them your passion. Do them everyday. Set specific time aside for doing them and do them no ma…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 01:00 PM
3

I once met a chick who saved babies for a living... that's right. She went to school for speech therapy and apparently those techniques can be used to help babies who can't breath on their own. What women feel for firefighters, I felt for her. Do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 07:02 PM
14

We’re a generation of men raised by women. I’m wondering if another woman is really the answer we need. Exactly why I'm MGTOW.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 02:32 PM
1

It's not a male hypocrisy. I firmly believe the vast majority of men would be perfectly content to find a suitable girl while they're young and stick with her long term. I believe that too. But I also believe the vast majority of men want to fuck as many of the hottest girls they can, as frequently as possible. Anyone seriously disagree with that? Because I can't imagine something more true about male sexuality.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 02:25 PM
1

Maybe take her back non-exclusively? Tell her you'll see her again but you want to take it slowly. Because she has to prove that she listened and that you also want to see some other girls, just in case she's not the one. Don't treat it as taking a step backwards in the relationship, treat it as the only way you two will go forward.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 06:17 PM
3

This is one of the most perplexing of male hypocrisies. We want the good girl and the bad girl. We want to date a girl who's loyal and committed but if she doesn't put out, well.... guys need sex. If what you want is an LTR, that's what you should be looking for. And if a girl is not LTR material, just bang her. Keep a string of bad girls around to bang until you find an LTR worthy one. Date her as you bang the bad girls until you're ready to commit to her. That's my recommendation.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 06:14 PM
6

It's an annoying truth. Annoying because woman define social norms. Men are either "sexually harassing me you CREEEP" or "have no balls!" At the end of the day, your best move is to go for it. Fuck it if she thinks you're a creep. Fuck it if she thinks you're annoying. Fuck it. But she is right in that men today have no balls. She just doesn't realize it's feminist women who castrated them.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 04:59 PM
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I'm not sure I follow you completely... but I think I get where you're going. Let me know if my details fill in the blanks. Nice Guys: Why are they resentful? Because they give to get, but don't get. What don't they get? Laid (and generic female attention). But did they give the same to women as they wanted in return? They were nice and expected to get laid... Did they not get what they gave? If they gave her 'gina tingles from the get go, wouldn't they get what they want? I think it's not that …
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 04:45 PM
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The amount of time doesn't matter so much. Just that you say X amount of time and that you stick to it. Obviously 5 minutes is probably pointless.... But 20 minutes a day working out wouldn't be terrible. Just pick a reasonable amount of time. And you can break it up too. Spend 1 hour a day but change what it is each day. Maybe Mon, Wed and Sat is thing #1, and Tues, Thurs and Fri is thing #2 and Sun you spend an hour learning something new. It's all about setting SOME time away every day for yo…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 04:27 AM
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Write a list of things you like/love to do. Everyday do them for a set amount of time. I play my guitar for 1 hour every day. No matter how pissed, bummed, depressed, unmotivated, etc.... I play. For you it may be reading, working out, rebuilding a car... whatever. Also, you get some kind of feel goodz from these women. Emotional drugs that fill your mind and blind your behavior. But you can trigger these same feel goodz yourself. Figure out what it is that attaches you to them. Is it the self-e…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 07:38 PM
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Hey, RP-man here. Figured I might help fill you in. 1) on the anger.... well, this is difficult. You have to realize we've been lied to. "Do X and you'll get Y out of life" is what we were told. And it was a very deceptive strategy which put feminist women in power. So we're angry because we've been duped. We're angry at ourselves for listening to them. We're trying to push ourselves out of feminist conditioning but sometimes anger is the only way to do it. It's the most powerful motivator but n…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 04:50 PM
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Dude.... get the fuck out. Take care of yourself. Don't text. Don't call. Don't write her. Just go. And every day you wake up do thing for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 02:41 PM
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I'm curious about your definition of psychopathy. Because if it is simply the inability to feel empathy, wouldn't all women be psychopaths? We here at TRP seem to think women are incapable of true empathy. Sympathy yes, but not empathy. Their solipsism keeps them from empathy.... Am I missing something about either your definition or TRP view of Woman & her ability to empathize?
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 07:08 PM
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"It's your fault for expecting that horse to be a unicorn in the first place. " Yes and no... because we were all raised to believe that Unicorns exist. We were all raised to believe that every woman is a Unicorn. And this was woman's lie. It'd be like a poor kid who was never told Santa is fake, every year watching his neighbors get presents yet never getting any of his own. Of course he would still believe in Santa, and of course every year he'd sit and wait for presents to come, and of course…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 06:24 PM
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"A piece of me dies." Let it die. That's what TRP does, it helps kill the virus inside.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 06:02 PM
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Yeah. Kids will be tough. And we definitely differ there. But you're missing my point, "Its better than being a lonely old man with no family".... being alone doesn't mean you have to feel lonely. The loneliest I've ever felt was in 2 different relationships, lying next to either of them, and once in NYC (being alone while surrounded by millions of people can be an incredibly lonely feeling...). My point is it might be healthy for you to get over needing to be with someone. You're acting like yo…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 09:38 PM
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Fellow short dude here... and life sucks for us. Just the way it is. Some dudes are born tall, but that means some aren't. Welcome to the club nobody wants to be a part of. :) But fuck it! Doesn't mean your life has to suck. I went MGTOW for a while just to get my life more centered around me. I fuck hookers when I need to. I take care of myself. I do the things in life that I love. Maybe take the MGTOW + Hookers track for a while until you love life being alone. We all want the satisfaction of …
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 05:15 PM
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I love hookers when in a slump. Go for it.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 05:12 PM
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Yeah... feminists did the same with the word "bitch". How's that working out for society? Everybody loves a bitch, right?
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 05:04 PM
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This will back fire on them
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 04:56 PM
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He talks about them as a goddess (pedestal), he's way too open about being their friend (dangerously close to the friendzone....), and moreso, the White Knight feels like a better man, better than other men, by being submissive, by giving women what they supposedly want, by being nice and good, by not being the asshole. The white knight itself could be described as the antithesis of everything a woman claims to hate in a man. Women claim to hate PUA's, so by not being a PUA, he's dangerously clo…
/r/seduction01/08/14 04:21 PM
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who wants the girl in return for his investment and he also ATTACKS other guys that are trying to get with her girl, But he's doing this, on a macro scale. He DOES want a girl for his investment, otherwise he wouldn't be talking to them in the first place. Is it a different perspective, yes. But he is doing that. And he is attacking other guys who are trying to get with girls, he's attacking other PUA yet denying he's a PUA.... But he is a PUA, just of a different type.
/r/seduction01/08/14 04:13 PM
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You are correct
/r/seduction01/08/14 04:11 PM
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Man... there is just too much to respond to here....
/r/seduction31/07/14 11:15 PM
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Isnt it funny than, if we know that this word creates these feelings in us, why are we using this word to create our reality with. It’s absurd. I disagree. If that's reality, that's reality. Maybe we need to take a step back and ask ourselves, "What is reality?" Because if we can't agree on that, we're getting nowhere fast. Here's my take. There are 2 realities. Actual and My. Actual reality is the state of things as they are. Whatever that is, I don't know for sure. But there is no doubt in my …
/r/seduction31/07/14 11:15 PM
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The white knight is a reference to a cultural "dream man". Where the guy is there to save the girl
/r/seduction31/07/14 10:46 PM
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I guess I take issue with the idea that just saying, "I'm not on a battlefield" won't stop a bullet from hitting your heart. It'll just make you stand up when you should be crowtching. It'll just deprive you of the proper tools you need to survive and get what you want. Also, I'm not saying I completely disagree with you. In fact I really like some of what you're getting at. It's just all the "giving" and "white knighty-ness". Fuck that. I've done that. Both with covert contracts and without. An…
/r/seduction31/07/14 07:27 PM
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we are actually creating the world Dude what....? Really? Have we de-evolved so far that the notion of the sun revolving around the earth isn't self-centered enough. We're now headed to THE UNIVERSE REVOLVES AROUND ME, LITERALLY! Dude... come on. Yes. There is an inner-world, and the computer at which I'm looking right now is not 3 feet infront of me, it's in my head. I get that. And my past experiences combine with my world view to create concepts that come with words, and those words carry emo…
/r/seduction31/07/14 07:23 PM
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OMG... I just watched your video. NO! The language of pickup does not define its nature, it is a byproduct of its nature. Why do you blame men? Have you ever thought the "war" nature of sexual relationships comes from women? I believe modern masculinity has been trauma-bonded by modern femininity. And you blaming men falls right into that. Modern WOMAN plays a HUGE role in why the language of pickup is militaristic. Because she doesn't have a feminine frame, she has a masculine frame, what is yo…
/r/seduction31/07/14 07:02 PM
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You sound dangerously white knighty.... One top of that, just because you deny the language of pick up doesn't mean you are not doing pick up. You go out. To meet women. To have sex with. That's pick up. A rose by any other name is just the same. I can't help but think you are also blaming modern men for the state of Male/Female pick up relations. It's both, always. And this line, "Once we reach a true place of wholeness, our view of women moves from "target" / "set", to "goddess / sister / alli…
/r/seduction31/07/14 06:48 PM
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Probably this dude's friend
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 10:29 PM
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ex has BPD.... worst experience of my life. Law #3: NEVER stick your dick in crazy
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 07:10 PM
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As a short dude (5'5"), I can very much attest to the way the world (and especially women) look at us. It sucks. But whatever. I'm not interested in fat chicks and we have every right to not be attracted to them. So do women have every right to not be attracted to short dudes. (of course... there is the main difference -> I can't just go to the gym and/or stop stuffing my face in order to become more attractive... but at least I can practice my RP'n) So whatever. Fuck 'em. They have every right …
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 07:07 PM
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Their flaws are never hidden if 1) you're willing to look and 2) you don't ignore the signs. Every "perfect" girl I've met showed their true self, I just wasn't looking or refused to see it. But after having them in my life for too long..... fuck, now I see the signs!
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 11:15 PM
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Men have a version of hypergamy. It's called your value having greater demand in the market. If you're valueable to a 9 in the market, and a 7 is what you have, you'll want to move-on-up. But remember, there are sub-markets. Some girls are a 9 for a ONS, others are a 9 for an LTR. You don't fuck a girl's personality, but you do have to wake up to it. So chose wisely depending on what you want. Finding a hot girl with a great personality is a needle in a fucking haystack. If what you care about i…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 04:11 AM
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I took it as if you were challenging my post. I interpreted the quote as a way of saying all apologies are self-deprecating. Couple that with "A good apology can be a medium-sized plus. The lack of an apology is, at worst, neutral. A bad apology is a huge fucking negative." And it sounded to me like you were saying, "A good apology is rarely a plus, and when it is it's not very beneficial (medium at best). Mostly they're self-deprecating which violates Tomassi #9." So yeah, I definitely read it …
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 04:04 AM
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I completely agree. Those who apologize for themselves are self-deprecating. They feel bad and can't feel better without the other person's approval. They're now dependent on the other person for their emotional wellbeing. However, those who apologize for others command the other person's emotions, and in a positive way. Maybe it's just me... But I think guys picking up girls at a bar, guys spinning plates, guys in an LTR, or if you're just Machiavellian, apologizing to affect other people's emo…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 09:40 PM
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Yeah, I disagree. I fully believe in apologies for the other person. If you feel bad and are using the apology to feel better, that's stupid. But apologizing so the other person feels better, that puts you in a position of power. If it works, it controls their emotions, displays leadership, humility, a willingness to care... I once saw one of the most "alpha" guys I know apologize to girls in a bar whom we had just met. And the girls loved it. Because he wasn't apologizing for himself. This quot…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 05:21 PM
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I've always said, "I love sluts. If it weren't for sluts I'd never get laid." Men on here dislike the culture of slutty women because a woman has a hard time "coming out" of it. Once a slut, pretty much always a slut (or will at some point return to being one). So it's making long term relationships difficult. But as far as getting laid goes, totally. I love a slut. Plus, it means women use up their good years on other dudes and we're supposed to marry them and have a family once they're in the …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 02:29 PM
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Also, my example displays solipsism not because he has an effect on the lottery. But because deeper below he was starting to have a hard time seeing the universe existing beyond his consciousness. As if the universe would go POOF without him. That's literally what I said to him to pull him out of it...
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 02:25 PM
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Yes! In a way.... It's the idea that a person CAN'T imagine the universe extends beyond them. Now, what your describing is a controlling version of solipsism. Not everyone who's solipsistic believes they can control the outcome of events. But it's all about an inescapable view of reality that displays the person views themselves as the only "person" in the universe.... It's not putting yourself first. It's not being self-interested. Solipsistic people will do those things, but they take it a ste…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 02:18 PM
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women offer nothing but their physicality to a man I've been MGTOW for a while now and I love it. And this is exactly the realization I had. If I meet all my needs, the only things a woman can offer me are sex and children. And since I don't want kids, sex is all they have to offer.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 05:47 AM
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"A persons value to me is only what I give them therefore I choose that no one will ever be above me" This isn't solipsism. This is just being emotionally healthy. Solipsism can be thought of by a conversation I had with a friend who went on some dumb hippy retreat. And returned believing his "consciousness" could effect the outcome of a lottery.... Why did he believe this? Solipsism. Solipsism would include what you describe, but what you describe isn't only for it. You're just becoming more em…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 05:43 AM
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This is the underlying reason for why men use straight-talk but women don't. They're seeking approval, not knowledge. Also, it could also be because you seem to speak a lot, so they might feel awkward not using an equal number of words. And you come off as "smart", so they'll feel dumb just saying "Yes" or "No". Have you tried rephrasing your questions so they're short and more laymen?
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 05:39 AM
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Awareness is the first step. You can't change something you don't even know is there. Acceptance is the second step. You'll have a seriously hard time changing shit if you're all wrapped up in emotions. The last step is deciding whether it's truly is something you want to or can change. Then doing it. But give it time. During my third reading of No More Mr. Nice Guy, I was on the approval seeking BFA. And I was only rereading the book for fun, thinking I had done all I needed to do. Well... I wa…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 05:28 AM
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And I would add "tall, dark and handsome" to the list with body fat. Are women attracted to tall, dark, handsome men with 8% body fat? Fuck yeah. Just like men are attracted to women who look like Kate Upton. But it's not all we're attracted to. We won't only fuck girls like that... Women are the same. They are attracted to that, but they're also attracted to a whole lot more. And you don't have to look like that to get laid. However, you do need balls. Men don't care much about a women's person…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 11:15 PM
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"But how long did they rule?" Exactly. Although the Queen isn't celebrated in the US, and what I'm saying doesn't match up perfectly to history.... Somehow the British monarchy is still revered throughout the world. In places it no longer rules, and despite it not having any real power anymore. People still sit under the British monarchy's statue.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 03:38 PM
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There is always SOME fear. An effective king must make people believe he will enforce his laws. But is that the main leadership device? That's the question. The benevolent king's subjects want to be reverent for the king, the tyrants' subjects want to be reverent so they're not punished. Because the benevolent kings has value, his people want to follow him. The tyrant's subjects only follow out of fear. So the moment that fear can be replaced, he will be.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 03:30 PM
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I like your distinction and you get my point. I only chose "benevolent" and "tyrant" to further illuminate my point. But you get the idea.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 03:25 PM
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This is a huge part of what got me on the RP track... so many people were up in arms about it. But it's dead on.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 02:19 AM
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Self esteem and self worth are two different things. You have confounded them. Self esteem comes from the outside world, and it's nice. It's great when you receive an award, win a game or catch a smile from a hot girl. But self esteem is different from self worth. You should learn to value yourself because this is your life. This is your unique and awesome experience. And its value to you shouldn't be dependent on outside shit. Self esteem does not mean self worth. Find the things in you that yo…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 02:17 AM
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"these women appreciate my attention more, because they know that it doesn't come unconditionally" This is one thing that has always confused me with boundaries.... because there are conditions. Healthy ones. The condition is that you [woman, boss, whomever....] won't cross my boundary. But what's "healthy" vs "unhealthy". So much writing on boundaries basically says, "Love should always be unconditional!" But boundaries ARE conditions... But maybe I'm just viewing this conditional all wrong. I …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 03:18 PM
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"Females complain about being objectified and treated as sexual objects. They complain about assholes who manipulate them and lie to them. But I've realized that women throw themselves at these guys, and they can only blame themselves." Women are the ones who put on makeup and dress themselves up like a doll, they objectify themselves. Women are sore "losers" and find ways to complain about not maintaining a higher status man's attraction to her, so they hamster. And men have always been more th…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 02:44 PM
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Depends on what I'm working through. Sometimes it's 10 hours. Sometimes it's 20 minutes.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 02:36 PM
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New York City summers are like anywhere else my friend...
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 02:35 PM
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I meditate a lot. One way it helps me is I like to build specific bridges to help maintain frame in a situation. So, I like to trigger my sense of sexuality and then sit in it. This helps me better enjoy the feeling and helps with stimulating sexual tension with a girl. To do this I'll go to a local cafe where the girls all have huge tits and low cut shirts. And I'll just get horny. Then I'll just sit in it. And I won't let it be all anxiety. I'll meditate on the feeling and let myself be more a…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 08:44 PM
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Well, there's also the reverse perspective. Because remember, this is a marketplace. For Sarah, you may have only been a 2 because she's attractive enough to attract higher quality men. For Angeline, you were likely a 3. Much easier to get laid when the girl views you as a 3.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 03:49 AM
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Yeah... that's fine. But it leaves a lot open. What happens if she does? Why don't you like it? I think it was Adam Lyons who uses an experience of his as an example of this. He was with a girl he was dating at a club. And he went to kiss her but she pulled her head away. He responded with, "We're here together, in a club. Do that again and we're done." (to paraphrase) He uses this as an explicit example, in his PUA workshops, for how to set boundaries. So I'll reiterate. It's not about what is …
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 03:19 AM
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The anger's a bitch... Just keep being angry. Find ways to get it out. Lift, run, find hobbies, whatever.... One day you'll realize being angry won't help you. Self improvement will. Also, learn to write less. That was waaaay too long.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 03:00 AM
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Yeah. He should really be putting it in his own words. But you're right. You don't want to give her an ultimatum. You just want to express your boundaries. And there shouldn't be any emotional BS in expressing and setting your boundaries. I however would say "done". I just would say it with enough ease in my tone to make it sound like I'm just expressing what I'll tolerate and what I won't. It's not really about what you say, but how. And what you're getting at is dead on. You don't want to soun…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 02:55 AM
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You sound like me. You sound like the world has quite the effect on you. And let me guess.... people often end up saying, "Don't be so sensitive!" First off, fuck them. They're too insensitive. How about that? There's nothing wrong with a certain expectation of sensitivity from the people in your life. BUT, you're the one letting them be in your life. Man up. Cut them out if they won't meet your expectation. And you have every right to choose your expectations. Now, here's the awesome thing abou…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 02:48 AM
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Of course it's important... especially to a high school girl. That's like everything to them. The real problem is you are too insecure with your feelings to express them. You won't "make it official". If you want to date her exclusively, ask her. Maybe she'll say yes. Maybe she won't. But don't be a pussy about it. If you don't want to date her exclusively, why wouldn't she be texting other guys? If you just don't want to see that, and I don't really blame you, tell her. Next time she does that …
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 02:25 AM
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If your boundaries are sooooo far gone that you will let a woman hit you, you may need more than the RedPill my friend. Read No More Mr. Nice Guy and Facing Codependence. I'm not saying you need them, maybe you don't. But you need to learn to stand up for yourself.... Welcome. Don't comment until you've read everything on the sidebar. Go lift. And enjoy being a fucking man. Also... MGTOW is generally about men ditching women altogether. If you're married, it's probably not for you. You may learn…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 02:19 AM
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I feel like I don't have enough context.... are you guys dating? Have you kissed? If you guys are dating but not exclusive, you have to deal with other guys. Just the way it is. Don't get jealous and possessive. Because if there are other guys in the mix, that means she must be worth something. ;) If you're unsure whether you're dating, you're not. Cut her out or start dating for god sake. If you're not dating, you're in the friendzone. And she's using you to get the emotional feel-goodz these o…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 02:11 AM
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I'm going to take a slightly different perspective on all this. People seem to be reacting to this article with, "WTF... Really?" But the reality is this IS how women feel. Whether it's warranted isn't all that relevant to navigating life. Remember, we're talking about women here. You're not going to reason with them. So the real question is, how should you navigate life given this IS how a woman feels? Basically, don't do any of these things. They're creepy. What's creepy, you ask? Creepy is ha…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 09:32 PM
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I'm confused.... what are you getting at with this post? If it really is just that there's no such thing as a Dark Triad.... I don't think I believe you. Plus, it's not black and white. You can be "kind of" Dark Triad. You can know the behaviors and use them as if you were. You may not be clinically Dark Triad, but it gives one guidance.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 09:11 PM
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We're not your crutch. If you can't challenge yourself you've already missed the point. It's not that I don't like the idea, but you're asking for permission to do something you're more than capable of achieving on your own. Just do it. (fuck you Nike for ruining that... btw) If it seems to work for you, start another subreddit or maybe talk to the mods to get a new section for TRP (TRP Weekly Challenge). But don't ask for permission to do something in your life. Just do it. And as you do it inv…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 09:05 PM
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And that's what I go back and forth between.... When he puts out blue pill shit is it just to appease woman and keep him from looking too RP? Cuz some of his stuff definitely has RP flavor to it. Maybe the fact that I can't tell is RP enough. lol Law #5 in action?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 08:52 PM
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Apologies are interesting.... most guys on here are totally against them. But I tend to think differently. Before I go into why, we should talk about what an "effective" apology is. And I'll do so in explaining its steps. 1) Say, "I'm sorry" 2) Explain what you were really thinking, feeling, doing so the person doesn't think you intentionally hurt them 3) Let them get out their emotions about the situation 4) Make up for it 5) Don't do it again If you're truly manipulative they're super helpful …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 07:23 AM
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Yeah.... sometimes I read Mark Manson's blog and think, "Man.... is this guy the biggest White Knight PUA ever?" Other times I think he's just really good at walking a fine line.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 07:12 AM
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As a note. A couple reasons you don't want to jump levels is 1) if she doesn't feel as intimate as you she might feel bad about it. You just paid her a really intimate compliment, yet she doesn't feel that for you. So she feels bad about not repaying yet, yet doesn't want to repay it because that's just not how she feels. Jumping a level puts her in an awkward position that's lose/lose. 2) It comes off as dishonest and manipulative. You don't know her that well. You're not that intimate with her…
/r/seduction27/06/14 03:26 PM
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Because we think some sex is better than none. Which can be true... But I'd happily pass on some girls. But also, you don't fuck a girl's personality. So if by "worthless" you mean "has a shitty personality". It's because personality doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 07:56 PM
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This is hugely important. Because your friends will influence you. And if you choose shitty friends or don't have any, what kind of influences are in your life? Choosing smart, fit dudes and hot chicks as friends gives you good influences right off the bat. Then makes sure you guys have other similar interests. Plus there's so much you can't absorb on your own. You have to actually DO approaches, emotional connecting, making people laugh, holding frame.... you can't do that shit alone. You also …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 07:07 PM
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Yeah... this is why I try to support misogynistic comments. Are they right? Who cares... What matters is the new guys need a place to vent. To say whatever they want. Where they won't be shamed and beaten down like they have been, just for being a man. I'm all about letting a guy say whatever. I'll remind him a day will come when he'll accept women for who they are. And that getting himself all huffy and puffy with hate won't change women into the angels he so desires. But I'm sure as hell not g…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 07:01 PM
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I do have one issue with this, maybe... I'm sort of working it out as I type. If you take a 10 and put her in nursing scrubs, she's still hot. But when you put her in a mini-skirt with her tits hanging out, it's WAY MORE hot. Same girl. Now more attractive. I always thought that was because her willingness to dress herself up showed a degree of confidence. And figured that's part of what I found attractive. And I still think that's true. But I think it's true for Betas. Because seeing a girl wit…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 06:52 PM
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This comes down to the fundamental difference between men and women. Men do. Women be. Women love by being present and available. By being attentive to their child's needs. Men love by doing things for their family. Going to work. Repairing that broken widget. Guiding and leading by example. Being there for a child is how a mother loves. Doing things for your child is how a man loves. Of course these aren't complete splits. There are times when being present is very important. I'm just saying th…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 04:14 AM
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Sure. If that's who you are and whom you want to be. I live in NY. Plenty of assholes. Plenty of people who love and asshole. But when I go out west, I have to tone things down. Because people don't like an asshole as much. And I don't want to deal with people's shit out west, so whatever. Just keep in mind, she may not accept you for being an asshole. But the only way that'll matter is if you're acting like an asshole. If you really are just being yourself, it won't matter whether she accepts y…
/r/askTRP16/05/14 10:20 PM
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My grandma once said, "Date 'em all!"
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 10:09 PM
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Exactly. I've been MGTOW for a while now because I just can't waste my time with women. I have too many other things. But I still like getting laid. And it's far cheaper/simpler (since I live in NYC and bars/restaurants are overpriced) to fuck hookers once/twice a month. If you're fucking hookers cuz you're too scared to approach a woman, get rejected, continue on, take her home, then knock a painting off the wall with the force of your cock as its beating into her God-hole, then you're blue-pil…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 10:07 PM
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You're right that it doesn't. But since when are we NOT misogynistic? Or at the very least boarding the line of it? I came here in the first place because people could talk as much shit about women as they wanted. Is it necessary? Useful? No... probably not (maybe a little) But you basically told him to STFU. So is that necessary? Is that useful? I haven't been around in a few months, but last I checked we didn't regulate things like this.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 10:03 PM
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LOL.... I was gonna say the same.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 09:58 PM
2

It takes one to know one. And one can always spot another. Just get out. Go to many places until you find men who reflect your personality. You'll find them if you're looking. They're out and about in most of the same places you are.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 09:57 PM
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It depends. And apology can go a long way in controlling someone's emotions. Most RP'ers abhor apologizing, but hurting someone and then apologizing is an quick and easy way to control how they feel. Do it too deeply though, and you'll have a crazy person on your hands. I think I stand by what I said; just think about you. If this is who you are, and you want to be who you are around her, why would you apologize? Does a boot apologize to an ant? It really depends on who you are and whom you want…
/r/askTRP16/05/14 09:52 PM
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Uhhhh..... I wouldn't say stop being an asshole. The question is, did she deserve it? If she deserved it, oh well... what can you do? Keep in mind a lot of women will cry as a manipulative technique. They know you'll feel bad. And when you feel bad, you're more likely to change your tune. Don't. Just think about you. Why are you being an asshole? Is it because she's being a bitch and really hurting you? Or is it because you have some emotion BS that comes out this way. Stop focusing on her. Focu…
/r/askTRP16/05/14 09:41 PM
1

FWIW... being in a band is sooo similar to having a GF. When you first meet, you talk about similar interests, inspirations and see if you get along. If there's a connection, you exchange numbers for a "try out" (or first date). From there you get together and jam. Sometimes they're serious and planned out. Other times they're impromptu and don't really have strings attached. But then eventually, somebody stops calling or showing up. Either the bassist or the drummer.... Or god forbid, the singe…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 06:18 PM
3

Its pretty clear that the overwhelming majority of modern women have no chance of even coming close to this standard That's not true. A woman will always treat you however you let her. The idea is if you offer to her more value than she can get on her own, she will bend to your ideals. So if you're a 9, date a 7. She's no unicorn but she'll act like one. If you're rich, find a poor girl. If you're great at music, find a girl who admires that. If you're at the bottom of every category, go to the …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 06:10 PM
2

Yeah, if anything the criticism should be in the other direction. The Neo-lliberal/Uber-capitalists are the propagators of inequality. If anything, Keynsians support SOME degree of "equality", at least during recessions/depressions.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 06:07 PM
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I think you're missing the point.... He's not saying being a Man is better than a Woman, or in some way "special". This post is about him accepting himself for who he is and being who he is. It's about letting go of the conditioned shame. It's about redefinition of self and what it means to be a man, for him. What's pathetic is people who stay in his old frame of mind. So many people get stuck in their conditioning and never find themselves. But he did. And I think that is special. Simply becaus…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 12:22 AM
2

You are not to blame for someone's bad advice. However, you are to blame for accepting it. TRP gives advice. If you take it without consideration and without your own trial and error, then you are committing the same fallacy. You are not to blame for a woman's poor behavior. You are not to blame for how someone influences you. But you are at fault for letting them. You are at fault for accepting their advice, giving then control or believing what they tell you. The line of personal responsibilit…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 12:14 AM
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And here in the US... "Almost four times as many males as females die by suicide." http://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/suicide-in-the-us-statistics-and-prevention/index.shtml#risk
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 07:37 PM
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Exactly. I passed some LMR years go by accident. In fact, it was my blue pill side that did it. I was making out with a girl hard and heavy after our second date. She stopped me as I went to take her shirt off and said, "Can we just take it slow?" I shrugged and said, "Sure. Wanna watch some Netflix?" Thinking I was being the good feminist man. Next thing I knew I was inside her.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 05:46 PM
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I love you enough not to let you get into situations which will destroy our relationship Nail on the fucking head... The trick is to do this without being controlling or needy. You have to set boundaries yet be wiling to let them walk away.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 06:05 PM
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As always, whenever a man sees a mountain he wants to conquer it by climbing to the top. Whereas when a woman sees a mountain she would rather bitch and moan and claim that the spot she's already sitting on is the actual mountaintop. And it's all your fault! Loved that part
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 06:02 PM
2

but a man in need is more receptive than someone you get beers with This is the only time I try to convert. And when I do, I do it softly at first. I just say a few obvious things for their situation, then once they agree, I say they should go to TRP and read the sidebar. If they go further, that's up to them. I lead them to water.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 05:57 PM
1

What's wrong with hate? I love my hate, anger, rage... these emotions are part of why I'm here today. They pushed one of my ancestors to drive a sharp metal object through another man. They protected my great, great, great, great, great, great.... grandmother. Denying hate is denying some side of yourself. The side that protects. Denying your hate is saying, "That's not worth protecting." Now, are there other ways to protect? Sometimes, yes. But once that hate is there, it's there because you fe…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 11:12 PM
0

Neuroplasticity only goes so far. I have a hard time believing you can change the color of the sky to red simply by the power of rewiring
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 10:40 PM
1

You see, you yourself gave the best argument. The best argument isn't the one always believed. Sometimes people just believe what they want to believe. And a man with a fresh wound will ALWAYS want to believe there's a woman out there somewhere who can heal it. But that's not what's best for him. Like a father who doesn't spoil their child because he knows best... we try to watch out for these guys. What's best for him is to heal, on his own. And TRP is a huge part of that. Going back out into t…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 10:17 PM
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I honestly don't need to know if you're gay or a woman. It doesn't affect my views. What "concerns" you about running into an RP man? You're gay. It shouldn't be hard to repel them. As far as work goes, most corporate environments are "patriarchal" not because men are trying to destroy women. But because it's most conducive to our current business world. A "feminine" workplace just wouldn't get things done. It's just the way it is. If you can design a corporate feminine environment that can comp…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 10:11 PM
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Why are you afraid it would turn newcomers away Not afraid. Concerned. Because I've been in their shoes, and although they have to take their own path, that path is much easier to walk knowing you're not the first. And again... ugh... how do I get this through to you? I will return. With a story. Because maybe that form of communication with turn that lightbulb on.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 10:01 PM
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I get what you are doing. And it's fine. You are attacking TRP. You just implied I think newcomers are stupid. How is that not an "attack". You are trying to come under the radar. I get it. Your "soft" tone and apologies are attempts to seem "cool" and "calm", making me (and TRP) seem outlandish. You wouldn't be stoned to death. But I wouldn't listen to it for very long. Just like I wouldn't listen to a Mormon talk about the Native Americans being Jews. There's just too much obvious evidence aga…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 09:58 PM
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You're presuming that it "beats" it without demonstrating... your argument for it "beating" is that it beats TRP. That's just not much of an argument.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 08:53 PM
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ship back to fall of the edge, just because I said so? Yes. Because they're not sure which way to go. That's why they're here.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 08:48 PM
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I think Marcus had himself a unicorn
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 08:36 PM
0

You have a lot of fear. And that's ok. Take the path that you fear most, it's going to be ok. We don't have all the answers. We don't have a crystal ball. All we can do is take it one step at a time. Observing as we go. You can join us. Wait behind. But do not waste your time trying to redirect us. Because we've had enough of that for one lifetime. Some say workplace relations improve. Personally, I avoid working with women because they generally are a pain in the ass. So I don't have any female…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 08:33 PM
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Try it, it's fun. What is it with you. No. I won't try it. And telling me to do things won't motivate me to do them.... What's wrong is that you are asking us to entertain the very theory that got us here. You're asking us to reimport the virus we've been clearing out. It would be one thing if you came to us with an argument or evidence. But you didn't. It's just you, talking. Let's say the world was actually flat. And you did fall off if you sailed too far. And let's say I sailed to that edge, …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 08:21 PM
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There are no universal truths, you know. There are universal truths. What kind of statement is that?! You're making a "universal truth" that states there are no universal truths!? This is the problem. You don't think very logically. And you have experienced life differently than most people. And many people have come here looking for help and guidance. If they come across a poorly thought out argument from someone with a narrow experience, it could guide them off a cliff. Many new people here ar…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 07:53 PM
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You are very correct. Most people here won't simply bow to powerless demands or loudspeaker arguments. So yes, they turn to anger and hate quiet often.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 07:50 PM
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I am trying to develop it conceptually by suggesting that its terms, while perhaps useful developmentally in the history of thought, are out-moded. False alternatives. One can ask a question but another can feel the premises upon which it hinges are disputable, so the idea of there being a right or wrong answer is irrelevant. The reason, for me, is that it is an example of something I no longer find relevant or useful. So... you're developing the argument by saying its irrelevant? I feel like yo…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 07:49 PM
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Short men have it tough. Because people naturally believe they can dominate us (I'm 5'5"). And so they try to more often. Which means we are more often dominated. (at least that's usually the story in childhood) But once you're an adult domination is a choice. Allowing another person to influence your beliefs, feelings, emotions, decisions... that's a choice. Choosing to not be influenced is much easier for those who are taller because they didn't grow up being dominated as frequently. So short …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 06:51 PM
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Alpha/Beta as a way to describe a person makes sense as a continuum. To describe certain behaviors, it makes sense as a binary label. And Red vs Blue pill makes sense because TBP directly contradicts what's usually believed on TRP. So it makes sense that they're be a dichotomy between the two. I think maybe what you're having issues with is the vague definition of alpha/beta? Can we really say a certain behavior is "alpha"? What made it that? And how frequently must a man behave as an "alpha" in…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 06:29 PM
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If your experiences have differed, what is there to discuss? I'd be happy to discuss the speed bumps you've encountered.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 06:23 PM
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Define equality...
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 06:21 PM
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I will not simply "move on". I will stand my ground. You have come into the RP world with little evidence supporting what you say. The problem with that is new people might believe you, because they so desperately want to. And without real evidence, you're going to confuse guys who are new. I take guiding other men seriously, partly because nobody was there for me. There's no problem having a theory. But if it's just the same ole' thing we've already heard. The same ole' thing that doesn't seem …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 06:15 PM
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And I choose when this discussion ends, not you, Amanda. True that... These non-RPers posting here are getting very aggressive with "ending" a discussion. Either as explicitly as this guy or just effectively "yelling" on the internet. I find it hilarious that they think we'll just stop because they "demand" it. OP came here. These non-RPers come here. We're not asking them in. But they then act like this... Hilarious. They are very confused about where they are.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 06:14 PM
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I agree completely.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 05:52 PM
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We want to find someone who will love us unconditionally. And we want to find someone for us to love unconditionally. Through sickness and in health. We'll be there for you if you're there for us. You "want to find someone for [you] to love unconditionally"... yet not more than 1 sentence later you put a condition on it, "We'll be there for you if you're there for us." You're love is naturally not unconditional. And that's fine. You're love is about what you get in return. Even you're last sente…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 05:02 PM
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EXACTLY! I don't know why there's been the influx of all these non-RPers posting shit. But the best argument against anyone like this is reality. Here at TRP we don't make theories then smile about how much sense they make or how nice the world would be IF our theory were correct. We realty-match. We match our theory to realty.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 04:34 PM
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I agree with you. Who cares about what TBP thinks? However, you might want to be careful when "giving kernels". You have to make sure it's only enough to keep her around (if she's really going to stop seeing you), but not so much to backfire. If she truly believes she has a shot at being your GF within the next month, she might blow up in a month and half's time when you don't. And now instead of just one annoying ex-plate, you have an enemy. If you're really good at spinning her you can probabl…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 04:29 PM
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If that were true, TRP wouldn't exist. 40k people wouldn't be here, now, reading, discussing, analyzing, venting.... destroying. I once believed everything you say. I once dreamed of being exactly that which you claim to want. And when I did just that... No woman returns anything close to "love" as you describe it. You don't know what you want. Women aren't "there for you". Women are like a battle medic who uses a gun to heal wounds; firing a bullet at a wound to get the first bullet out. Then t…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 05:17 AM
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Being so focused on it is. You should be producing results. But give the results attention after the fact. And only care so much about them that they give you direction. Most of your concern should be about the doing.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 03:20 AM
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It's not about the outcome. It's not about whether or not "it worked". It's not about if you're "there". It's about doing it. Enjoy taking the pill in the same way you enjoy lifting a barbell. Sure, looking in the mirror after a workout is awesome. But you don't workout so you can look in the mirror after. Same here. You're not taking the pill so you can be done with it. My advice is to stop focusing so much on the results and start focusing more on the things that you are doing.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 11:43 PM
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Yes. I believe that's why many in the manosphere have been referring to themselves as barbarians. Because if Rome is going down, we're gonna loot the shit outta it.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 04:14 PM
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Or if they kept us alive as a network of super computers, where "reality" is really just computer processing. That would have been simple enough
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 04:10 PM
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You are correct. Many at TRP like to say women aren't as intelligent. But the truth is it depends on how you define intelligence. Because they're often a genius at manipulating the shit of people.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 07:52 PM
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Of course guys have hamsters. The difference between men and women isn't that we don't have hamsters, it's that we can self-regulate our hamster with logic/reasoning. If a man is devoid of himself, if he's been feed a false reality, if he's adopted a feminine frame of mind, of course he'll hamster. And he won't have the power to regulate it.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 07:51 PM
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What would be the point? Exactly....
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 07:49 PM
1

Lol... I didn't make it passed #1.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/14 09:36 PM
1

OMG, men. PLEASE stop swiping right and giving all women 5's.... I was searching through OKC with a 5 star filter on and 1 in 10 girls were even 4's. No wonder so many girls are so full of themselves.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 03:55 PM
2

You miss 100% of the chances you don't take.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 03:46 PM
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You are wrong. And I know, it's tough to accept. But women have always been more valuable from a SOCIAL evolution perspective. Against point #1) It takes a man the same effort as a woman to raise a child. So we are even there. Everything after birth can be handled just as well by a man as by a woman. The MAJOR difference is that 1 man can keep a tribe's growth rate maintained whereas 1 woman cannot. If a tribe of 50 men and 50 women lose 49 men, the tribe is fine. If they lose 49 women, the trib…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 10:20 PM
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The question my plate asked me was what is a girl supposed to do, if she makes him wait too long he bolts but if she gives it up too quickly he does not think she is LTR material? She's not "supposed" to do anything. There is no specific thing she's "supposed" to do. There is just the reality of who she is. If she's LTR material, she won't put out immediately and be honest about it. If she's a slut, she'll bang you the first night. However, this points out another TRP truth. Women are manipulati…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 08:26 PM
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Another reason to treat them like a child, woman want the love of a father. So if you love her like a father, that means you're treating her like a child.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 04:01 PM
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Your post is little long but I really like the point. It made me think of the annoying quote, "If you don't love me at my worst...." And how men are EXPECTED to love and stay with a woman no matter what. Does she add value to the relationship? Is she physically attractive? Does she have a good personality? Is she smart? Is she feminine, caring, nurturing, loving and there for you? Is she loyal? Can you depend on her? Is she self-aware of her failings or does she believe she's a princess? Does sh…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 10:24 PM
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Exactly. Your "ignore game" is your frame. That's why it's tough to pull off. Because if you stop ignoring her, you break frame. The only way to do it is make her think she earned it. By slowly giving her 2/3's the attention she gives you.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 06:51 PM
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For what it's worth, I'm MGTOW. And TRP helped me realized I have been for years. But everyone takes their own path. Most people here have a disdain for MGTOW. I just don't see a point in spending time chasing women when I can be off doing the things I love. So I fuck hookers, then go back to doing the things I love doing.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 08:28 PM
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This is why I like hookers. They're the closet you'll get to an honest woman.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 08:06 PM
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Anyone who's worked in corporate America knows there is no gap. HR's across the country are highly coordinated and have very specific guidelines. If they were paying women .77 on the dollar for the same work, a compliance officer would have a shit fit.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 08:04 PM
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Apparently you're too lazy to read the vast amounts of readings, all of which is very good. So here it is. A man's love is sacrificial. A woman's is utilitarian. That means men and women do not LOVE in the same way. This is slightly debated though... because some believe women are not capable of anything close to what a man calls love. And in fact, they are just reacting to what the man gives to her. Basically, the difference between what a man calls love and what a woman calls love is so vast w…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 08:39 PM
1

Beauty "or" brains. Common saying, and to women a testament to sexism. Is it? In an ideal woman we would want both. But because most women CHOOSE to become a Barbie doll instead of a rocket scientist, we have to choose. I don't see why that makes us sexist. if women chose one way or the other. 1) you're asking them to be rational... LOL 2) they don't view it as hypocritical because of the hamster 3) they don't really care because they have a very hard time seeing things from your point of view. …
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 08:24 PM
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I have a learning disability that makes it very difficult to form perfectly coherent thoughts. Sorry for the formatting. I wasn't going to read all of that with the way it was formatted. But now I will. And don't be sorry. You have nothing to be sorry for.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 08:17 PM
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To me it illuminates the dynamic. Think about it. TRP = reality. TBP = satire. They're literally not even operating in reality. And they're doing it openly... But I love those guys/gals. They're good for a laugh.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 08:15 PM
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That quote comes up frequently here. It will not be the last time you see it.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 08:05 PM
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Wow... ummm.... I'm not sure you're going to get a lot of advice here simply because it's not really a RP subject. But I happen to have gone through abandonment of various kinds as a child. So here's what I can offer. First off, your questions are way too broad. Narrow down what it is you're looking for. I don't have time to write a book for you, so prioritize your inquiries. Ok. Now I'll just talk about abandonment and TRP. Abandonment can come in many forms. And I believe almost everyone here …
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 08:00 PM
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This. You have to go through the process. Part of that process is getting rid of all the negative emotions and coming to accept reality. The only way to get rid of emotions is to feel them. Let yourself be cynical and filled with hate. Just don't stop midway through or you might get stuck in that mindset.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 07:47 PM
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You marry a good wife, you will live a happy man, you marry a bad wife, you will become a philosopher. Socrates said that. And he was one hell of a philosopher... imagine what his wife was like!
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 07:45 PM
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Remember this, it's your fucking head. All the validation, came from you. All the comfort, came from you. All the caring and nurturing, came from you. Your mother never stuck and Ethernet cable into your ear to force you to feel "cared for". That was you. It was always you. So that means you have control over it. Find that control and you'll never need a woman for anything other than sex.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 07:41 PM
1

The first rule teaches you to break the rules
/r/AlreadyRed25/02/14 06:32 PM
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•Only allowing endorsed contributors to make submissions and comments TRP endorsed or AR endorsed? Can you set it up for only TRP endorsed, because that sounds interesting. However, AR endorsed doesn't sound plausible. Since how will someone become endorsed if they can't post? We'll forever only have current endorsed members posting.
/r/AlreadyRed25/02/14 06:29 PM
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I like how he called himself a sperm donor
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 09:58 PM
1

This is part of why I'm MGTOW. Until I get all the emotions worked out, I'm just going on my own. But, always remember this, you are giving them what they want. It seems counter-intuitive because women say they want X yet respond to ~X. But if you worked at a bakery, and a woman came in asking for a cake, would you feel bad selling it to her? Now imagine you worked at restaurant that sells salads and cake, and a woman came in saying she wanted a salad, but bought a cake. Would you feel bad? No. …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 07:17 PM
1

What's a unicorn?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 05:58 PM
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Last summer (pre-TRP) I was dumped for the first time (I'm 33). I literally had never been broken up with or rejected after I started dating a girl. Some of my friends thought that was totally alpha. It wasn't. I just always chose girls who would never break up with me. Whose SMV was so much lower they'd always view me as their "alpha that got away". I was never dumped because I never took risks. And looking back, the gain from taking risks far outweighs the "heartbreak". And I wish I would have…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 05:10 PM
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The one thing I would add to the "slutzone" is that the girl is being misled. I have friendships with girls that include emotional availability, but I know we're never going to date. And it's not that they ONLY come to me when their BF won't and that they ONLY come to me to be their fluffer. So in this situation I do not feel friendzoned. So, the slutzone isn't just using a chick only for sex, but when she thinks there's more to it.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 09:00 PM
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I'm MGTOW. This month 2 women asked me to take their numbers. I haven't called them. Why? I don't care. I know who they are, what they want and it's not something I'm interested in giving. I have only so much time and I don't intend to waste it with a woman. Find me a woman who speeds my song writing, helps me with the books I'm writing, surfs, snowboards and benefits me in all the other aspects of my life, and I'll date her. But woman demand attention, time, resources... Unless they're going to…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 07:17 PM
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TL;DR: Get a motorcycle. Check. http://nashmotorcycle.com/bikes/151-2/
/r/AlreadyRed21/02/14 05:23 PM
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r/seduction is all about analyzing and memorizing a blueprint for getting laid. We're about designing that blueprint
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 09:37 PM
1

Wow.... this is a looong process for some. Read. Read. Read. Read. And shut the fuck up. Part of your problem right now is you don't know what's real. You were told one thing, it turned out false, so now what? What's supposed to replace it? You have no idea. So read. Learn. And get out there and experience. You need to align TRP with reality so don't just sit on your ass. Next time you're at a bar, observe. Who's talking to whom? What's their body language? Who's gonna get laid tonight? Which wo…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 05:44 PM
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Love, affection, all that jazz... it's a choice. So choose yourself. Fall in love with your style, the way you laugh, the things you do. Think about how much you love working for your dream. Think about how awesome it is pushing yourself to be an astronaut. Don't focus on being there, focus on getting there. I wanted to go to law school once but I got a 150 on the LSAT. I spent the next couple years focusing on getting that up and I ended getting a 164. Definitely good enough to go to law school…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 05:18 PM
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Oh man... I hate being this big of a dick but I gotta... There is no such thing as "red pill logic" There is just logic. The red pill is fluid set of realizations, beliefs, inferences, tenets that come from observations of current social interactions incorporating gender-evolution. Logic is a tool employed by TRP. It's like how economists use math, but there is no Economic Math. There is just Math. It makes more sense to say something like: "RP Worldview" "RP understanding of life" "RP wisdom" "…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 03:55 PM
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Real men do, yes. But part of the reason I mentioned all of this is men do this too. In my Nice Guy days I would play the Poor-me card all the time. Then I learned that shit is completely ineffective. It just drives other people nuts and doesn't help yourself at all. Your problems are just that. Yours. Nobody else can get inside your head with a wrench and go, "A-ha! I found it. Just a turn of this screw and you're all better." You're the only person who CAN make a change in you. And that's a go…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 03:46 PM
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in a case where the victim suffers from PTSD. That's a hell of a mind fuck. I can personally attest to the "mind fuck".... But that's not my point. OCD, Bipolar, PTSD,.... there are all kinds of things that likely won't go away. And that's fine. Has she either taken care of it or learned to manage it? Does she know her triggers and will she tell me them so I can avoid them? There's a difference between having a serious emotional issue and using it. A "sob story" is a manipulative tool whether sh…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 03:38 PM
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It's good to know what to next, but at the same time, sometimes persistence is necessary This is a very good point. And it's why the 2/3's principle is so important. "Always give 2/3's of what she gives." If she calls 3 times a week, call twice. If she's ditching you, who cares? I'm not sure you immediately next her but the interest isn't there yet. Don't put a lot of time and effort into someone when the interest isn't there yet. But don't necessarily move on if you haven't done a good job of b…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 07:42 PM
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If a girl is interested, she will ALWAYS find time
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 04:54 PM
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It's a manipulative tactic. They get you to feel bad for them and it creates an excuse for poor behavior. When a girl says some shit like that to me, I shrug and say, "That's too bad. How is it affecting your life now?" Because although traumatic experiences are horrible, it's the victim's choice to be forever affected by the incident. And if they're bringing it up like that, they've probably realized it's a good tool for getting what they want. If they respond with, "I went to therapy and I'm a…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 04:50 PM
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Always drive to Fuckville. If they texted you, get in the damn car and drive to Fuckville. If they FB'd you, get in the damn car and drive to Fuckville. If they said, "Hi." in the street, get in the damn car and drive to Fuckville. If you want to fuck her, drive to Fuckville. Always. Doesn't matter if there's a stop light. Just stop, wait for it go green, and keep driving. Doesn't matter if the road's closed for now. Turn away and come back once the road's open. If you want to fuck her, drive to…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 04:45 PM
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Sounds like Histrionic to me... yes?
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 08:05 PM
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Do you mean... Tesla? Or the guy who started the car company. Tesla himself is the grandfather of MGTOW.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 04:26 PM
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Wow, this reminds me of the girl I fell in love with I think most men would say that. It's because it's often how men fall in love (or at least, "care"). We sacrifice. Even our own sense of self. Our lives. Our time. Our money. It's just what we do.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 07:27 PM
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WTF is going on here.... "MrHappy" runs the forum posted by "DaNiceguy"....
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 07:19 PM
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f she doesn't appreciate you just start withdrawing the things you do for her. I'm beginning to think women can't appreciate the things you do until you withdraw. If things become "normal", they don't appreciate it because they just think they deserve it. Do they appreciate the air? The sun? Clean water? No. So if you always provide to them, and never remove, they can't appreciate what you do for them because they have no basis of comparison. They need "life with what he does" and "life without …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 07:15 PM
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I've thought about this line a lot too. Because to me, Fight Club epitomizes everything going on in the manosphere. But this line seems to contradict the manosphere's love for self-improvement. How can it be? Well, I think you have to dissect what Tyler meant by self-improvement. Because really, Tyler himself was an imagined self-improvement over Edward Norton. Plus, they viewed the outcome of their training as an improvement, otherwise they wouldn't do it. So, what exactly was Tyler talking abo…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 07:07 PM
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That sub is hilarious... I honestly thought it was a joke at first. And actually, I'm still not 100% sure
/r/RedPillBooks11/02/14 07:41 PM
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FYI - "Couldn't care less" If you can care less, it means you at least care some. If you can't care less, it means you're at the bottom of your ability to care.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 12:44 AM
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If displaying your labia in front of the general public is your definition of sexy, you are probably an american woman. LOL. This is why I wear thin jeans and go commando! Just givin back to 'em!
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 06:58 PM
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Great advice. Except you're a "J" and I'm a "P".... (from Meyer's Briggs) But in knowing I'm a P I just make smaller lists in my head, and know that I'll bounce around between them. I also create lists without the intent of crossing things off. I create lists of what I want to do to change my lifestyle. So "working out" will never be crossed off. It's on the list of things I want to do, not a list of things to get done. That's the difference between a "J" and a "P". You write up a list so you ca…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 06:52 PM
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This is the way to go. Don't trust her. Always get the information you need. If she's not banging these dudes, you have an attention whore. And that's not LTR material. But it is every-now-and-then-bang material. If she is out banging other dudes, I would cut her off and move on. Plenty of other chicks out there.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 05:40 PM
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Feminists often tell men not to treat women like objects. I guess that would be easier if they didn't act like objects. Exactly. The last time a fem bitched at me for "objectifying" a woman I looked at her and said, "Who put that makeup on your face today? Me or you?" It's not my fault women turn themselves into dolls. I'm not the person who, as an early teenager, decided to forego intellectual development for looking pretty. I'm not the vapid automaton... Woman make themselves into mindless, ef…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 05:35 PM
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Men tend to grow with praise, and positive light. Men grow by facing challenges, then learning from their failures or defining themselves further through success (where "success" and "failure" is defined by them) I will never grow through the light of another. Only by my own hands and my own effort will I change.
/r/AlreadyRed10/02/14 04:58 PM
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how to deal with this woman. You can't control her. You control you. Don't respond to her shit. Walk away. Shrug it off. I'm not saying you should "take it". But stand up for yourself in a healthy way. You don't always need to fight in order to win.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 06:27 PM
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If you get stuck, and maybe it's not working, trying reading The Invisible Presence. This book is one of my favorites. It's all about how native tribes take boys at the ages of 12-14 out into the woods with an elder to learn how to be a man. But in today's society, we don't do that. This book uses meditation to do that. You go on some amazing, crazy-ass mental journeys through your subconscious. And if you're serious about meditation, you'll have great results. One of the side results is everyth…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 03:29 PM
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I read your username as, "Ire Ally am no There".... as if you were telling your reggae GF that you are not "there".... Then I reread it. LOL
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 03:09 PM
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Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 03:06 PM
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True that. I couldn't read a book at 18 (literally, one sentence in and my mind would be elsewhere). Now I can read for hours. People often lament getting older but honestly, I wouldn't go back.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 10:47 PM
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I think this is particularly interesting when we see shame being used as a tactic for controlling discourse. It certainly is used as a tactic for contouring the behavior of children. Unsurprisingly it frequently is used in the femosphere to negate an idea or vilify a speaker. Coincidence? It's interesting you mention this. Because I've been thinking about writing something up about how Masculinity was Trauma-bonded by the Feminine by using praise/punish in public discourse. And feminisim's shami…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 10:38 PM
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But it was much easier for me to "learn new information" in college... In High School, that shit was impossible. The "new" information I learned in college was the same "new" information I didn't learn before. But whatever, you're definitely right in it depends on what "smart" means. And the drive I had in college compared to my apathy in High School could easily account for the new found ability to learn that I experienced in college.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 10:10 PM
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Totally. And I think what makes it obvious is the effect the day after. The guy will be traumatized. He will need counseling. And he may not trust many women thereafter. The girl's just going to feel like a slut and hate herself. But, I hate defining it this way because then it opens the option of, "Well... what if the drunk girl DOES need counseling in the end?" And this definition completely ignores the person who "raped". In the example you provide, if the dude just walks it off but the girl …
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 09:08 PM
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I have a potentially offensive idea I want to debate First off... YES! I always like conversations that start this way. Is the rape of women objectively worse than male rape in terms of effect on the victim? Depends on how you measure the effect and how you define "worse". And I have no idea how you'd do either. A female contribution is 9 months of pregnancy followed by years of raising a child. Now, if we disregard all the legal aspects of child support payments and financial ruin, the male has…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 08:45 PM
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Well yeah, you put EVERY physical characteristic against him and his personality probably won't make up enough to land a 10. But we're not talking about ugly, balding, fat... Woman have likened me to Brad Pitt. I have better hair than you, trust me. And I'm far from fat. The point is ONE physical characteristic being imperfect can be overcome with personality because woman ARE more attracted to that. If you look like Jabba-the-hut, no amount of personality is going to help you. And on a side not…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 08:27 PM
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Actually, most rad fems would be on your side that you were indeed raped. Well, at least they'd be consistent. But I have yet to meet a woman who actually thinks that, including fems. I had a bitch of Gender Studies professor in college who literally scoffed at the idea of me being raped. So maybe times have changed and nobody's shown me.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 08:08 PM
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I can definitely attest to this. When I graduated High School I literally didn't understand the difference between a noun and a verb. I was a fucking idiot. So I decided to go to college and learn. I wanted to work my ass off to get "smarter". And it worked. And most of the time when I tell a woman about this, her shocked disbelief goes something like, "WOW.... you we're probably just always that smart, you just didn't know it." No bitch. I literally didn't understand the difference. Now I do. B…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 06:41 PM
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To say personality trumps looks 99% of the time is the epitome of bluepill logic. Actually, much of what we do here is looking at how personality affects woman's interest. 99% of the time might be high, but the reality is woman are more attracted to personality than looks. That's why men are lucky. That's what an alpha is. Personality. Plenty of tall dudes miss their opportunity to get laid because they're still blue-pill or just don't know what to do. So their height don't do shit for 'em.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 06:35 PM
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Compensate in other ways This is really all you can do. I'm 5'5" (and that's with my exaggeration) and for fun I changed my OKCupid to 5'11". In the year or so that I was 5'5" I got about 10 "likes", all from fat chicks. Within a couple hours of being 5'11" I already had solid 7's "like" me. And the messages started coming in. I've since moved it to 5'7", because I can pull that off with my motorcycle boots, and it's not too bad. I get about 1 like every few days or so. And every now and then it…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 06:21 PM
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Yup. That's every woman's response to the story of how I lost my V-card. "Whatever... You're happy about it cuz you got laid!"
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 05:40 PM
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Yeah. Isn't childhood shame thought to be one of the "causes" of narcissism? I really like his "negative" and "positive" forms of narcissism. Because I've thought about how BPD and narcissism tend to go hand in hand, but that doesn't make sense. Because people with BPD beat themselves up constantly yet the narcissist loves themselves. But if you think about narcissism as 2 types: Those obsessed with loving themselves and those obsessed with hating themselves, you see why BPD and narcissism can g…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 05:28 PM
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Yes, but when it's good... omg is it GOOD!
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 05:24 PM
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I live in NYC and have a table in front of our apartment building for tenets. Because it's the city and it's a table, we get a lot of people hanging out on it. Kicking people off my table always makes me feel like a man. But there was one day... I came outside to meet the girl I was dating, and these two teenage boys were on the table next to her, which I already didn't like, so I told them to leave. One kid was a dick about it and threw his deli trash in front of my apartment. I responded by as…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 04:55 PM
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Yeah. I love talking to rape-activists about how I was raped as a virgin. A girl I didn't really want to fuck got me drunk. Then I fucked her. POOOOOOR ME!!!! It's not the act itself that makes "rape", it's how the person views the act the next morning. The unfortunate thing is the massively broad definition of rape they're using today dilutes the meaning for those women who are truly raped. There's a HUGE difference between the experience of getting drunk and banging someone you won't fuck sobe…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 04:44 PM
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Anything is far game in TRP. And meditation can be extremely helpful for guys who've just swallowed the pill. Because you have to find a way to process all this shit. And yes, you can do this without meditation. I'm at the point now where I sometimes "batch" process shit. Where I can feel a ton of memories, beliefs, thoughts, etc... And I just force it all through my hippocampus. And I just say to myself, "Fuck all this shit. It doesn't matter. I don't care about the details. Just restamp and di…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 04:32 PM
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It's not. That person is going to be depressed about not getting what they want. They haven't fully accepted who women are because they still "want" something that doesn't exist. I wouldn't live my life based on the non-existence of Unicorns. That doesn't make sense. They don't exist, so why make decisions based on something that doesn't exist. However, there are horses. And they can be plenty fun to ride. They're not Unicorns, but at least they're real. The second guy is hung up on Unicorns and…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 03:25 PM
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Exactly
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/14 03:22 PM
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LOL... I'm serious. I looked around and couldn't find the option. I figured it might be good for people to know I'm a dude.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 11:41 PM
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Yeah... men are truly romantics when it comes down to it. I remember once, there was a girl I was kind of dating in my blue-pill days. And I really, really liked her. She came over to watch some Arrested Development and laid in my bed while I sat in a leather chair I have in my bedroom. After waaaaay to long of not making a move, I finally jumped in bed with her. And we laid together. With her head on my chest. Breathing in time with each other. Laughing in time.... it was awesome. We banged tha…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 11:39 PM
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A man seems to be able to choose loyalty without inspiration. I would go further and say, "despite inspiration to do the dishonorable." Many men will be dishonorable. But many, many, many others throughout the history of time have done the honorable thing despite wanting to not. Honor is inspired in a woman. But many men will be inspired to be dishonorable, yet still choose to be honorable. They will forego their personal desire because they know it's the right thing to do.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 11:28 PM
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If it makes a guy feel better to say "women don't have a sense of honor," more power to him. But note that it's just a feeling, not something objectively measured, which is something RP guys generally scoff at. This line of reasoning is actually well thought out. And it's the type of opposition that should be more present at TRP. And you're right. Many guys do this just to feel better. However, once the veil of emotions has lifted, the truth remains. Honor, like love, may be different between us…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 11:19 PM
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How did you get "RP Man" as a flair? I can't seem to figure that out.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 10:50 PM
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many of these men (or even still boys to me) haven't grown up You hit the nail on the head. Part of the problem in today's world is us men were raised by women, but women have no idea how to raise a boy into a man. So we never "grew up". And mentally there are still a lot of childish behaviors and beliefs. Part of why TRP feels like a place only for men is if we're going to "grow up" we're going to have to do with men, not women. Part of taking the redpill is definitely growing up. now I feel sl…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 10:45 PM
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Maybe have a RPM, RPW and TRP? Where RPM is a place just for men. Where you should expect a poster to... well, act like a man. We fight, attack, defend with force, only accept reason, etc... Yet at the same time, Woman's insight is helpful. So I can't see why we'd completely run ya'll out of town (so to speak). And this is coming from a MGTOW!
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 10:40 PM
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Yeah. I'm with him. The signal is of most importance at TRP, not the sex of the poster. Hell, I have no literal proof any one poster at TRP is even a man! So long as the signal is aligned and your opposition brings something to the discussion, there should be no reason you can't contribute.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 10:33 PM
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Well... I actually think this is why we have feminism in the first place. And maybe RoK got this a little bit wrong. Yes, in previous societies women who didn't reproduce hurt society. But there's a huge difference between our society and the society of 400 years ago. We already have shit loads of people. We don't really need to maintain our growth rate. And it might make sense to slow down until we can better utilize the earth's resources. However, this article does hint towards a point. That w…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 08:16 PM
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It's all about doing what you're describing, but using mindfulness. This way you get live in that state rather than only experience when running.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 07:53 PM
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You read The Power of Now?
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 07:32 PM
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Exactly. Part of what I'm describing here can happen through meditation. In fact, I sometimes tell people to "Imagine a monster in your head while meditating. What does it say to you? Do you really believe it? Fight the monster. Defeat it." In doing that you connect your "consciousness" to your "subconsciousness" through your imagination. And you're pulling out a belief (monster), reprocessing it (imagining it) and restamping it (fighting it). I can sometimes go through this process with mindful…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 06:54 PM
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I'm still working on this theory (partly because I'm leaning MGTOW and don't really care). But short guys actually have an advantage. Think about how easy it is to have confidence when everything is given to you. Think about how easy it is to be the "alpha" when you're born with the right physical traits. Now, think about overcoming all of that. And being an emotional superhero DESPITE the fact that you're short. (an "emotional superhero" is someone who is never emotionally damaged and is always…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 05:48 PM
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Yes. But not that extreme. You have to relive every memory, belief or emotion you still hold onto. And here's why. That shit is still being stored in your limbic system. And it's affecting everything you do. This is because there is NO direct link between your frontal lobe and your body. Everything you DO comes from signals in you limbic system. Your frontal lobe can send signals to your limbic system, but at the end of the day your limbic system controls what you do. If you have a memory stored…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 05:32 PM
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Depression is tough. There are a lot of things that get mixed up in it. But here's a short list of what you need to do. 1) See reality, then make your choices. So much of what depresses people simply boils down to the world not being what they want. You decide you want A, don't get A, and get depressed. However, if you see that the world only has B, C & D as options, then make your decision, you'll be much happier. Realize that your expectations for reality to match your desires is the main reas…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 04:54 PM
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I'll be honest though, therapy didn't help me much This is often the case. I started therapy with one of the most renowned therapists and it didn't do shit. However, in one session he mentioned that I had been Trauma-bonded. So I started to think about the effects of trauma, and I looked into PTSD. As I read up on it, C-PTSD made perfect sense. It mirrored and described exactly what I am experiencing. So I got a new therapist. One that specializes in trauma. And in just 2 sessions I feel 1000x t…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 04:37 PM
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I think there are different "types" of MGTOW. If you're like, "FUCK THEM STUPID BITCHES! I'M MGTOW!!!!" Then you're really in stage 2. If you're like, "Well, I don't really want these bitches cuz they're not the bitches that I want...." Then you're in stage 4. If you're like, "Well, that's who they are. And I value my time too much to spend it in a way that's taxing. Woman are only taxing, so I don't see the point in having one around." Then you're in stage 5.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 04:14 PM
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LOL! Oddly enough, that's not far off from what I was hoping.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 04:11 PM
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Are you asking for advice? See my comment above. Let me know if that helps. If you could still use more, I'll write a more detailed summary of each stage.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 04:10 PM
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That's totally normal. You're mind's "stuff" (memories, emotions, feelings, thoughts, sense of humor, etc...) all exists as RNA, electrical clouds, chemical reactions, etc... Going through this process has to be done for each physical piece of "shit" that needs to get processed. So if you believe that being nice gets you laid, you have to go through these steps regarding the literal strands of RNA, electrical clouds and chemical reactions that involve being a Nice Guy. However, all this physiolo…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 03:57 PM
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I am not Jackson Browne. But a link to that song would be nice. Great lyrics.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 03:37 PM
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I've thought about this before as well. So I'd like to offer a little bit more analysis that's helped me regarding each stage and how I deal with them. Stage 1: Denial - This is in some way dissociation. You WILL view your GF as "loving". You WILL view her as "loyal". You WILL project your image of a woman onto her. But somewhere in you that's not true. And you know it. The best thing you can do is read TRP material and reality match. The more you read up on TRP and SEE how reality matches what'…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 11:26 PM
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Realistically these stages aren't a process. They just occur. You can bounce between stages (I do all the time). And sometimes experience multiple stages at once. The main takeaway is you will experience all stages until the final is fully complete. There are times when I think I'm in stage 5, then suddenly I'm in some other stage. That's just because I haven't finished processing all my stored up emotions. Remember, emotions/feelings have LITERAL physical presence. It's all RNA, chemical reacti…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 10:59 PM
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Fuck yeah. Anger, rage, hate... they're a motherfucking VIRTUE! They kept us alive. Helped us win wars. Decided who was dominate, so who got to procreate. I see nothing wrong with anger.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 10:56 PM
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when it comes to mothers, i think its the one time red pill can let this slide: Funny... cuz I view it as the one time it's MOST applied. Where do you think all those fantasies came from? I had a hard time dealing with this, but as a kid I completely dissociated from the truth of who my mother was. I wanted to believe she was loving. I wanted to believe she was caring. But the truth is she probably didn't want us. She definitely didn't show much love. And really didn't seem to care much about he…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 11:05 PM
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this place is weird as hell. That's a good thing. Discussion requires opposition.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 10:35 PM
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Part of it is this, and as someone heavily leaning toward MGTOW I see his point, TRP is about sexual strategy: for the most part MGTOW is about NO sexual strategy. My MGTOW sexual strategy is simple. I fuck 2 hookers a month. It costs me $400 total, which is much cheaper than going to bars, and it only takes up about 3 hours of my time a month. Plus, there are NO strings attached. I personally value my time alone more than with a woman. They're distracting, take me off course and add little to m…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 10:22 PM
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Exactly what I was going to post. Notice the beta started by saying, "My wife and I love each other very much..." I don't think he realizes "love" means something very different for a woman. It looks like exhibit A, not B.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 09:45 PM
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They don't know how to be actual men, so they see relationships as something where they'll be getting taken advantage of by some bitchy woman, so instead they get their sexual needs met through masturbation and play video games instead. This kind of MGTOW needs "fixing". Agreed. This is not MGTOW. This is Men Hiding from the World. True MGTOW is seeing and realizing more value from yourself than can be realized with a woman in your life. Some argue a woman pushes a man to be better. And I would …
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 07:47 PM
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I've worked hard to divorce my self-worth from women's perception of me Exactly, I need little from women these days (other than sex). So what's the point? Every date I go out on is time spent NOT doing things I love. Every "game" book I read or strategy tried in the field is time NOT making music, or working on that book or even just hanging out with my friends, all things I love to do. I just don't see enough value in women to forego the value I get from myself.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 07:43 PM
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If you need women for nothing other than sex and procreation, and if hookers are readily available and children are of no interest, why waste giving your time & attention to a woman? Keep it for yourself. Live your life. Love the things you love.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 07:15 PM
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I want to hope, I want to believe, I want to see the "truth" as they have taught me, but when society tells you the world is flat, yet you can't help but think it's round, you grab a ship and go find out. RP men have sailed around the world. And seen the truth. There is no hope for "love" from a woman. Sometimes, I wish I could live in a world that was flat. But that is a fantasy. Part of being human is dealing with 2 realities: our individual reality and Actual reality. We have no idea what Act…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 05:19 PM
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You act that weak in front of a woman and she will digest you with your shoes on. +1
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 05:00 PM
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This is gold
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 09:44 PM
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That comic is amazing
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 05:47 PM
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The shitty part is I knew it was my own fault. I know better than to share my shit with anyone. Grrrr. No. You should know better than to share with a woman. Share with the right male friends. They know what you're going through and know how to give honest, real advice.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 05:44 PM
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It's not that. Woman can be amazing friends if you don't let yourself get used by them. That's the only time they'll be caring, nurturing, honest, etc... But that's when they become uninterested in you. If you need caring, nurturing, etc... then you are of lower value. Because you are not "strong". And if she's honest with you, she's opened herself up to get played. Women won't do that with a guy she's dating. They'll immediately friendzone you if you have the keys to manipulating them. That's w…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 05:41 PM
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Ok. So it's not that you're a unicorn. It's that you accept who you are yet because you want a relationship, family, etc... you choose to go in a different direction than a "slut". I guess in a way a RP man wanting a LTR does the same. Cuz deep down guys wanna fuck as many of the hottest girls as possible. But a RP man wanting a LTR is putting that "natural urge" aside for his desire to have a family and LTR. Makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 05:27 PM
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I would say to start with the behavioral stuff at a younger age (acting alpha, taking care of yourself, working out, etc...). Those are things that benefit him beyond girls. And I first kissed a girl around 10, but wasn't even thinking I could put my dick in her. So he's probably already checking girls out. I'd save the literal "sex" talk for when he's older.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 09:54 PM
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Thank you. And I'll be fine in time. The main reason I say, "It's ok." is that shaming women for shaming men... it's just a vicious cycle. Building yourself up to the point where someone's shame doesn't affect you, that stops the cycle. So yes, it's not ok for them to do what they do. But the answer isn't to go after them. The answer is to say, "It's ok." And build yourself up so they won't be able to affect you. Also, the past is the past. Ain't nothing we can do about it now. Whatever responsi…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 09:40 PM
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You're a HIGH N? Oh man... that's my FAVORITE. Couple that with a high T, you're awesome.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 09:34 PM
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That would be very, very nice. I like I's. INFP is by far my kind of woman.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 09:06 PM
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Damn you, Webster!!! Ok. I'm going to just interpret your first response as you didn't mean to do it. It was just natural. And that you wanted to say, "That is a possibility." But even to say, "Your concern...", again, I did not make this into "a concern" or something that requires good/bad; where you end up in the "good" camp for providing comfort, understanding, willingness to "be different". I was just curious. Granted, I did say, "...just to find...", but that's more of an expression of frus…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 08:47 PM
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Gotcha. That's helpful.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 08:35 PM
2

True that! Bars are a terrible place to find decent woman. But the point wasn't specifically about bars. The point could still be made had I said any location of your choosing. Wherever we go, will we still find the same woman? And remember, AWALT. So where we actually go is irrelevant. The only manipulation that we advocate is to manipulate our husbands with sweetness, looking good, filling his belly and emptying his balls :) That sounds nice.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 08:34 PM
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It's when someone else can benefit from your selfishness. That part made perfect sense to me. This is what I call positive manipulation. And maybe that's what it means for a woman to care. When her manipulation produces positive results for both her and the person she's manipulating. And it's appreciated and accepted. More than anything I want him to be happy. Because he is a high value male, and we have an emotional connection This too makes sense. You want him to be happy because as a high val…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 08:13 PM
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When I say, "It's ok." I don't mean to say it's ok for some women to do what they do. Because it's not. Abuse sucks (this is coming from someone currently suffering from C-PTSD after his last "relationship"). I just mean to say YOU shouldn't feel bad. 1) it is what it is, reality is important to RPers, 2) "feeling bad" creates an abuser/victim dynamic which is unhealthy for both men and women, 3) it could pendulum you into the other direction where men become the "abuser" and you feel like it's …
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 07:52 PM
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Actually, I'm going to rewrite one sentence. "Because I have yet to meet a woman like that while dating." The last two words are important. Because I have experienced women like you but just as friends. I've come to realize that I put myself in the friendzone, not women. Because I'm attracted to the love I feel when we're friends. But I've never met a women who would be like that when we're more than friends. And I think it's because women don't want to date a weak man. And nurturing/tenderness …
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 07:08 PM
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Totally. I'm not saying it's not real. It's just really confusing to see it from my perspective, thereby defining from my perspective, and not seeing it in return. The fix is to get the proper perspective.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 07:04 PM
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OMG... you are awesome. The "love" you describe, honestly, is the love that men want. I couldn't care less if a girl would take a bullet for me. Because really, if a gun came out I'd be the one standing in front of it, not her. But when you said, "I bring tenderness. My love is more nurturing.", I swear my heart sank. Because I have yet to meet a woman like that. Do the world a favor, have many children. So that your way of viewing love may pass down and make future generations of men as fortuna…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 07:02 PM
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I agree 100%. There is nothing I love more than a woman who makes me feel like more of myself than I ever have. Who drives me to do the things I love. Who helps keep my life in order. Who keeps me on track. I've always said there's 2 kinds of women that you'll date. There are parasites. Who come into your life, take it over and eventually destroy you. And there's rockfuel for your car. Where sure, gasoline is what you usually put in there. But once you get some rocket fuel you're off! This is wh…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 06:52 PM
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I agree 100%. Doing anything for woman is not the right reason, especially self-improvement. So I guess the same could be said about women. "Improving" for us men is for the wrong reason. Maybe I should just keep doing my thing, see what women do, and if one day I do find that girl who's genuinely caring, giving, loving, nurturing, affectionate, forgiving, understanding (you know, what "femininity" used to be), as well as trustworthy, positively manipulative, and actually gives a shit about ME (…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 06:45 PM
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Good point. However you missed a fundamental tenet of TRP. AWALT. So whether I'm at a bar, a bookstore or a church. AWALT. "Filtering" is of no use. And yes, I'm pretty sure it was Einstein.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 06:41 PM
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Interesting choice in words.... I didn't say I was "afraid", but I understand why you went that direction. You are, now, manipulating me. (or at least trying) BUT I WILL NOT FALL FOR YOUR TRICKS! Seriously though, did you intentionally use the NLP, twist of words here to manipulate the conversation into one where I was "afraid"? Thereby making it a situation where there's a good & bad, where you are the "good". Thereby putting me in your favor. ESPECIALLY since men love the comfort of a "good" w…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 06:38 PM
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Yeah, this is the inverse phenomenon. I'm 5'5". I've learned to go after girls under 5'3" and over 5'9". For whatever reason the shorty's and tally's love me. The ones around average and slightly above tend to be a harder sell.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 06:31 PM
3

It's ok.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 06:28 PM
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I'm torn... On one hand I'm happy that your are not affected by my anger. Because I really don't want to hurt anyone with my emotional BS. On the other hand.... what the hell is the point of anger if the target of your anger doesn't feel bad! I guess that second point is reason enough to get rid of the anger, eh?
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 06:27 PM
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You care about people? I have a hard time seeing how women care about others if they are solipsistic. Whatever it is you "care" about will probably come across better if you put it in terms of yourself. So, you like making your man happy because it makes YOUR relationship happier. That aligns with woman's solipsism. But saying "someone you care about...", I'm not sure what that means.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 06:25 PM
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I'm happy you asked. But I don't have an answer for you. I was more interested in your view of TRP and what it means for a woman to take the red pill. I wish I had better advice for you. But I'm seriously considering MGTOW because I can't solve this paradox: Given I now see who women really are, why would I want a woman in my life for anything other than sex and procreation? Solve that paradox, write a book about it, and you won't need nursing!
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 06:16 PM
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Personally, I'm curious whether this is all just the next step in female manipulation. Men seem to be changing in so many ways that are appealing to women. We go to PUA seminars. Become more alpha. Become more attractive. What are women doing? Or are men improving themselves just to find the same old girl at bar after bar after bar?
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 02:52 AM
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We often mention how a woman doesn't love like we expect, hope or want them to. And some go as far to say women don't love, they are loved. What's your reaction? How do you view love? What would you expect to get from someone who "loves" you and what would you expect to give?
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 02:48 AM
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Yeah. Sounds like the "getting into a relationship" is the first beta move for you. So don't. Keep working on yourself.
/r/askTRP29/01/14 11:21 PM
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My GOD! Why haven't you?! If I could be as turned on by a man as I am by a woman... I'd be out.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 11:08 PM
1

Exactly, they don't want to make them feel bad so they force-feed them a blue pill, which just makes matters worse.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 10:42 PM
1

So what are you going to do about it? Now that you agree.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 10:28 PM
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I'm sorry to hear this. What you felt is similar to me. After my Mom died, I was actually relieved. Knowing she was gone, for good. It was like I could finally feel free. And I hid from that feeling for years, hated myself for feeling that, but finally accepted it.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 05:38 PM
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I think most guys just believe they had a nurturing mother. I grew up thinking I did. Then after taking TRP I had a talked with my brother and sister about our childhood. Turns out I completely repressed my mother and dissociated. She was a bitch. To the point where my sister truly believes our mother didn't love us. I spent years putting my mother on a pedestal, thinking she was radiant and amazing. Turns out it was all selective memories and beliefs. I think what truly was happening was dissoc…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 05:35 PM
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A man is always alone when with a woman
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 04:32 PM
1

Male-Female friendships also don't work because women are far more attractive as friends. Think about this, when a woman is your friend, is she loyal? Is she caring? Is she honest? Is it emotionally easy? Is she "there for you"? Is she supportive? In theory, yes. Because that's what "friendship" means for a man. But it's also what men crave. It's the "motherly" love we all wish woman possessed. It's the love we give but so rarely receive. So men get attracted to their female friends quite easily…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 03:58 PM
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Again, I completely agree. It's a hive mind mentality. People often think of a hive mind mentality as "group think". But it's also "associative truths". That means if you have a group of people sitting around talking about Topic A, not only will they all agree on Topic A, but since they're similar in other ways they'll likely agree on Topic B. And thus, often times Topic B ends up being a topic of conversation even if it's not on the agenda. It's the hive...! Personally, I would think TRP would …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 03:52 PM
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Just keep working. Stop focusing on other people. Focus on yourself. Fuck the outcome, results and whatever. Focus on DOING, not RECEIVING. Focus on working out, not the outcome of working out (getting bigger). Focus on reading books on game, not whether it's working. Focus on practicing all that you've learned, not whether or not it's settled in. All that you can control is what you DO. View the outcomes as information, then refocus what you do based on that new information. But don't get hung …
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 08:30 PM
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There is a point to be made in that comic, however they sort of missed the point of what the "friend-zone" is. If you really aren't willing to not sleep with them, are you really friends? Are you really all that nice? Who the fuck cares. That's not the point. The problem with friend-zoning is it ALWAYS happens, not that it happens once in a while. If it wasn't so frequent, it wouldn't be a big deal. The other issue is 90% of the time the girl doesn't treat you like a friend. She turns you into h…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 08:21 PM
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I agree with you completely. TRP is about sexual strategy, men, women, inter-gender dynamics, gendered evolution.... How economics ends up in here is beyond me. But, I'd say it's just because most of the men here tend to lean toward the conservative/libertarian side of the political spectrum (most "liberals" don't dislike feminism). When you have a group of people who lean in that direction, you'll also get their views on things outside the subreddit's topic. I tend to ignore those posts since t…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 07:52 PM
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The other day I was hanging out with a girl my buddy's dating (she lives in my neighborhood so we get drinks/coffee sometimes), and I just kept fucking with her. For no reason other than it was fun. When she complained it was cold over and over, I yelled at her to shut up. When she "wondered" why the beta dude at the bar was hitting on her, I told her it's because that's the quality of men she attracts. Lefts and rights. It was a good time.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 03:39 PM
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Just find a womb and stick one of the dead babies up there
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 05:37 PM
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Well, I think you mean democracy has a flaw. A benevolent King is probably the best way to go. But that just rarely happens.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 05:37 PM
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I totally agree! When are we finally going to let women be free and in charge of everything!
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 05:35 PM
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I'm not sure there is an answer. Partly because 1) this is just who we are and 2) wouldn't the answers to your questions serve as NEW tools for Woman's manipulation? So wouldn't the answers to your questions simply perpetuate the current state of things?
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 08:52 PM
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Joseph was Mary's Beta provider and she hopped on God's alpha dick. My god, I just literally LOL
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 07:21 PM
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He was a total pushover. That's why he hated his life. He gave up on his love for football to work in a shoe store and have a family he hated. He's not a total blue-pill. But he's far from RP. He was a deflated alpha.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 07:06 PM
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Totally. And I'm not trying to "prove" anything and support some kind of bitterness. I just want to figure out what strategies I need to emphasize more to get what I want. And how those strategies relate to being short. And I did the big thing for a while. I was about 170 and fairly lean. And it looked really weird. I'd get mad respect from guys in the bars, but I think women were intimidated by me. Now I'm 125 and I get waaay more attention from more attractive woman.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 06:22 PM
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Ok.. I'm just going to ask because it's not in the glossary. What's SRS stand for?
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 12:09 AM
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Agreed about the presence. I brought this up to my 1 female friend (I think it's good to always have 1 female friend who has a BF. Just so you can get her perspective, but make sure she has a BF so you don't end up being her fluffer), she said short guys make her feel "big". I tried to get her to explain "big", but she couldn't. So my interpretation is it makes them feel less small. Or, in other words, they feel less submissive, less feminine. So I need to compensate for that by leading them phy…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 12:07 AM
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This is why I started online. I've turned it into an experiment. For instance, I'm 5'5" but I set my profile to 5'11" to see how many more replies I get. So far, there's quite the increase. So the question is, what is so attractive about short guys? Is it that they are more likely to have less confidence? Small dick stigma? Not as strong as tall guys? Not as dominate? Once I figure this out I'll make sure to compensate by purposefully displaying my confidence, or maybe I'll walk around in gym sh…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 11:32 PM
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I can speak to this is reality. I used to work on 43rd and 10th, under where Larry lived, and the "real" Kramer used to come in all the time. RP as fuck. He didn't give a shit. He did his thing, no matter what. He was still a pretty nice guy, but in a natural alpha kind of way.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 11:07 PM
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The beta version of the rationalization hamster is the believing bat. He's blind to reality so he just believes whatever he's told, despite the fact that he keeps running into shit. He does this because if he wasn't blind, he'd have to see the reality that he's not a high-value man.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 10:28 PM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pA3P0oVDB0Y
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 10:31 PM
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Don't date her. Woman with "mostly" male friends do this because they like fluffers (guys who fill the role of a BF without actually getting laid). Woman with a lot of fluffers are highly manipulative with little remorse about it. They have no problem using men to get things above and beyond other women. These kind of women love using people and it's demonstrated by the simple fact that they don't have many woman friends! Since woman aren't as gullible as men when vagina is tossed around, these …
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 08:37 PM
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That's because she's not taking about single vs. married, she's writing about her fantasy.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/14 09:16 PM
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This post makes we think about RPW and TRP, and how TRP is far more popular among men than RPW is among woman. Is it because deep down, woman don't want the responsibility that comes after taking the RP? And since TRP is still in its formative stage, do they not want to be responsible for creating it? As leaders, should we be over there more often taking the responsibility of what it means to be a RPW?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 06:20 PM
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As big as TRP has gotten, it's humbling to see that a "Cage is God" subreddit has twice our membership.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 03:34 PM
1

That makes sense
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 10:07 PM
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Yeah, we know. At this point I'm more interested in WHY. Woman do have the faculty, your evidence proves it. So either the love they experience after childbirth isn't the love we experience or they just won't experienced with their man. Do they choose not to? Is it because they view us as a servant (and why would you sacrifice for or really care about someone like a servant)? Are they just not able....? Is it because our role is to sacrifice so it keeps them from loving? Who knows...
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 08:42 PM
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I think it's fine to tell men to pursue LTRs. They just need to understand what they're getting themselves into.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 04:00 PM
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Man here. Not many woman take the time to think about seduction and Pickup strategy, but in a way you've stumbled upon one of the greatest pickup truths. Seduction is not convincing a woman to sleep with you. It's not manipulating her into bed. True seduction is vulnerability. Opening up, showing her who you are, and letting her decide if she's attracted, which if you're RP she will be. And over time, as the vulnerability increases the simple seduction turns into love. As the vulnerability goes …
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/14 03:54 PM
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I think there needs to be a point of distinction. She's not your shoulder to cry on, you're right. But it depends on what you mean by "cry". She's not going to accept your emotional outpour. HOWEVER, she will appreciate you asking for her insight about your problems. Here's the difference, "I don't know why I've been so depressed my whole life. It doesn't make sense... Why would I do something that hurts me so much?" Said with confidence, no tears, as an inquiry to better oneself. "I don't know …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 08:44 PM
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What is your definition of creepy? I ask because she doesn't mention "creepy" but you do. I'm not sure that's what was going through her head, more just hamstering because she has to make out with "Fatman".
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 08:33 PM
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No... they sent a woman to the bathroom. It may have had a dick, but make no mistake there was a woman in that bathroom.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 04:14 PM
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On the note of walking away, woman definitely like to know that you have options. But I think it's important to be willing to walk away even if you don't have options. Saying to her, "I'd rather be alone that with you. I'll find someone soon enough, but for now an empty bed is better than one with you in it." I bring this up because someone asked me, "Well, walking away is easy when you have a backup." True. It is. But you should ALWAYS be willing to walk away. Even if it means being alone for s…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 08:37 PM
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Confidence. You lack it. But, you can get it. Listen to how you talked about your GPA... Where's the confidence??!!! Woman love confidence because it means you believe you are capable. A man who is infinitely confident believes he's capable of anything. And since women use men, a man capable of anything can give her everything! So start small. Next time you're about to talk about something, say it with more confidence. Keep it going. It doesn't matter if it's a joke, opinion, fact... say it with…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 08:33 PM
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I wouldn't bring it up. There's no need. You don't know if she even wants an LTR. But bringing it up will make her feel like a slut (see what happened to #3). If she brings it up, tell her the truth (unless you're really looking to play her). If you have other plates, it shouldn't matter. One of the best skills you can learn in life is to make the difficult easy. Don't make telling her this such a big deal, because it's not.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 08:28 PM
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Last summer I was dumb enough to get into a relationship with a slut.... Fuckin bluepill days. Anyway, the 1 MAJOR mistake I made was I never has an "escape route". I even told her this. It was literally the first relationship I'd ever been in where I didn't have an literal end in sight or a means to an end. And it was one of the worst things to ever happen to me because she knew she could be more dominant. Without a way out, I was trapped. So always be the dominant one. You don't have to make t…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 08:22 PM
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The problem with woman's hypergamy is the massive double standard it creates. If I'm going to be ok with woman's hypergamy, I'm going to be ok with my own. Meaning, that hot young wife I married at 20? I'm going to be totally ok with divorcing her at 40 once she's smashed into the wall. And I'm going to pick me up a new 20 year old. And that would be all well in good if I wouldn't have to pay the first wife money just because she lost SMV and I didn't. Maybe this is more of a MRA post than TRP..…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 08:09 PM
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I think it also comes down to everyone looks for similar traits in LTR's, including woman. Trust, honesty, will to work for the relationship, loyalty, etc... Men posses these qualities naturally. So we can fuck 100 girls then commit to #101 without a transition period. Women are not that way. If they fuck 100 dudes, then decide to date #101, it'll be a disaster. Because they have to get into the mindset of being in a relationship. They have to learn how to commit, be honest, open up, think of mo…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 07:47 PM
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A high count is symptom of the problem, not the problem itself. It is possible to find a slut with a low count (maybe she was sheltered and is just getting out her parents shackles). A slut is a slut because of 2 possibilities. 1) She either doesn't want to or is not able to commit (so why would you?) or 2) she doesn't possess the qualities EVERYONE looks for in an LTR, so very few men have been willing to commit (so why would you?).
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 07:41 PM
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If things haven't gotten flirtatious in the first 6 seconds you've dropped the ball
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 06:07 PM
1

So... NAWALT tells us we're all going to be philosophers...
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 11:28 PM
1

Oh I gotcha. It's because, by definition, a subreddit has a specific topic. And only those interested in that topic join. People not interested in snowboarding don't join its subreddit.... so all the people in the subreddit have a similar view and interests. Hence, circle jerks. The only way out of it would be to randomly throw in people who aren't interested in the topic. Which might be pretty interesting!
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 10:30 PM
1

I don't think I understand what you're getting at. That might be why you were downvoted.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 04:55 PM
2

I like Mark Manson's Models too
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 10:58 PM
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The slut double standard is as silly of a debate as the "fat chick is beautiful" debate, and both come from the same place. Woman think they determine what men want. Women think THEY define what we find attractive. And for betas, this is true. But we aren't attracted to fat chicks. And we don't want to commit to someone who obviously doesn't want to commit (it's obvious because she likely could have committed to any of the many dudes she's fucked in the past). I don't have a problem with dating …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 10:47 PM
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I, however, did not.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 10:11 PM
2

This was 12 years ago
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 10:08 PM
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Yeah, a friend of mine and I both took this class. He got an A straight out by pandering to her. It also helped him that I was standing up for men but he wasn't. Later, he was like, "Dude... seriously. I totally believed you. I just wanted an A." Lesson learned, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 05:30 PM
2

Phrasing....
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 05:27 PM
1

I was explaining my RP view to a woman friend of mine and this was her response, "If that's true, what would you need a woman for?" My response, "Sex and procreation... and honestly, the world has plenty of people in it. So, just sex I guess." And that's what it boils down to. Many men on here like to think MGTOW and TRP are different. But really, they're exactly the same except MGTOW renounces the only 2 thinks we still need woman for. But in all other aspects they're are basically the same.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 04:19 PM
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I did that for about 2 or 3 classes in college. I literally was kicked out of one class because we were talking about the exploitation of women in the sex industry (specifically, strippers). And when I raised my hand and said,"Uh... the sex industry exploits men's sexual urges. Strippers don't do shit and have really high paying jobs for it. Men are the ones being exploited." We got in an argument. I got kicked out for that day. And it was too late to withdraw so I had to stay in the class. The …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 04:10 PM
1

Oh, I completely agree. I don't expect woman to take the high ground, I just don't think we should only point the finger at desperate betas.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 03:47 PM
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But his definition encompasses all of these. Power - The man who succeeds at benefitting himself gives no power to anyone else, other than that power needed to give in order to benefit himself Ambition - A man with no ambition will not have the ability or drive to always do what's in his best interest. Dominance - Since we are all competing for similar resources, in order to get what's in your own best interest you have to be dominant. Especially dominant of one's Self. Courage - Going out and g…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 09:01 PM
1

This is why I was so happy to see The Expendables. A man's movie aptly titled to reflect the state of modern masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 08:54 PM
1

Yes but, why blame men? Just because just plugging-in jackass is willing to put up with girls looking for a handout, in hope that they'll get laid, doesn't mean it's ok for her to expect a handout. And especially doesn't mean it's ok to use men for free drinks/meal. Just because you have power, doesn't mean it's ok for you to use it however you want.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 07:27 PM
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Or.... "The only girls I pay for before fucking are hookers"
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 07:18 PM
1

Just be woman CAN get away with doesn't mean it's ok. Yes, it doesn't help that there are plenty of idiots willing to support them. But that doesn't make it ok for woman to be like that.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 07:17 PM
1

What happened to the video?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 03:18 PM
1

Ah yes, I don't know anything about "modern Marxists". I just read Das Capital and thought it was pretty spot on about capitalism.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 03:16 PM
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I actually really liked Marx. I don't agree with his labor theory of value, his unnecessary tone that overly-bashes capitalism or his revolutionary mindset. But if you read his economic theory without morals and judgements, it's spot on. In fact I think it's the truest analysis of capitalism. So maybe I'm just not sure what you mean when you refer to them as "Marxists".
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 11:27 PM
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It's actually kind of important... What would happen to a RP Man's SMV if ALL men swallowed TRP... We'd no longer have a competitive advantage.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 11:24 PM
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Better. Use it against them. "This is your initial foot in the door to eventually controlling said person or at least influencing them enough to be useful through their psychological soft spot, the ego. You validate them by making them feel good for improving you, this creates a positive feedback cycle where they work for you and help improve you because it feels good for them to do so, you could call it benevolent exploitation – it becomes positively reinforced for them to help you so you can u…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 11:20 PM
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"mostly faggots." I thought TRP was about Truth, awareness and reality. What you claim cannot be correct...
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 10:43 PM
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It's not just semantics, you're missing the point of MGTOW. These men swallow TRP, see the world for what it is, then decide their purpose in life is so far beyond a woman, there is no room for one. It's not that they've "given up". It's that they see reality and choose not to abide. I totally get that. I love writing. Making music. Snowboarding. Surfing.... If my life purpose is to love me and be me, how does a woman in anyway fit into my life given the reality of who they are? If your life pur…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 10:38 PM
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Man... that article is terrible on so many levels. I know TRP doesn't often touch codependence, but it's a central tool to feminist control (in my eyes). And this quote SCREAMS, be a codependence shmuck. "There are things that the both of you can do to reconnect, come back and become one again." Two people in a healthy relationship are still 2 people. They are not "one".
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 10:31 PM
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TRP isn't just about getting laid every time the opportunity comes up. It's about making the opportunities with the girls you want. You didn't want her. No reason to go after it and hit it, then. I think "revenge" fucks are actually a result of lower-consciousness. If you're revenge fucking her, she's still affecting your emotions. She's no longer affecting your emotions. That's true dominance. Dominance of Self.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 08:06 PM
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Exactly. I think we need to distinguish between an emotional swing and an emotional rollercoaster. A woman who goes bananas once in a while, accepts responsibility and doesn't do anything too off-the-charts while in that mood, that's acceptable in my book. But I am not riding a rollercoaster.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 07:54 PM
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Exactly. Woman could be as dumb as a frog and we wouldn't care because ALL of them are dumb as a frog. If no woman are telepathic, telepathic isn't part of the attraction equation. If the vast majority of woman have unattractive personalities, personality isn't a part of the attraction equation.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 07:46 PM
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It's not shallow at all. Woman like to point the finger at us and say, "SEE! Men are SOOOO shallow." When really, I think women are mostly shallow. In that, the only attractive thing they have is their looks. THEY have no depth to them. And that's not our problem.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 06:22 PM
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So... if one's ambitions and goals involving gaining that "infinite" sword in some MMO, doesn't it make sense to invest excessive time in a video game? I think it comes down to knowing what you want. And if what you want is to watch every Mets game, then maybe that's a good thing. But you should know that it's not reality. You're not playing the game. You're not actually being competitive. To me, it all feels like a false reality. Video games = false achievements and false challenges. Sports = f…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 05:43 PM
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Great book, but definitely has its blue pill moments. He definitely takes the PC route a number of times when it would have been more effective to just come out and say exactly what he meant. But this is one of the best pick-up books out there because it puts YOU in the right frame. Rather than gives you tips and tricks.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 04:57 PM
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I love how this implicitly proves men are only interested in woman's bodies and need higher standards. It's not our fault 99% of the woman have unattractive personalities. We've just gotten used to it.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 04:19 PM
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I hate Nike for coining this but... Just do it. Fuck it. Grab her and start kissing. It's just making out, sometimes that doesn't even lead to sex. Don't get caught up in your head. Don't filter your actions. Do what you want to do and let her decide if she's up for it.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 05:32 PM
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No offense but your question walks the fine line of manipulation. It's not your choice whether or not he will be alpha. So "helping your man feel more masculine" seems to fall very close to training him into being an alpha. He does that. Not you. However, you can let his alpha-ness come out. That means sitting back, letting go of control and letting him take the lead. Recognize in yourself that in order for him to be dominant, you have to be submissive. The only dominance that exists is dominanc…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 11:37 PM
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I agree with you. "Making him feel alpha" seems to walk the fine line of manipulation. You don't make him feel alpha. He does. I would consider rethinking the question around "letting him BE alpha". Woman are raised in this culture to shame and de-alpha men. And over time, it works. If you let your man be alpha, he will be alpha. If he's just not doing it on his own then I don't know what to tell you.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 11:18 PM
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There's nothing wrong with trying to help everyone. That's quite an alpha trait in my eyes. But helping others at your expense, feeling bad for them and letting them use it against you, that's another story. I'll try to help anyone who wants nothing from me in return but my advice. And just about anything worth saying can be said in a couple sentences, so it shouldn't take up much time. Be a guide, not their bitch. And when they demand a bitch, walk away.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 10:30 PM
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Don't pity her. Depression sucks, don't get me wrong. But that's her issue = her responsibility. If you can give her some words of advice, more power to you. But don't get sucked into her leveraging your empathy against you.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 05:18 PM
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I call this stage "dissolving". You've swallowed the pill, but it hasn't fully dissolved. Let it.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 11:21 PM
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"He is my rock, and I am his pillow." That sums it up.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/13 09:16 PM
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Man here. First off, great awareness and excellent thought experiment. When I went through the thought experiment, here's what came to mind. Responsibility. A kid that age shouldn't have to be or feel responsible for his younger brother because, as adults, we know he's not 100% capable of being responsible. Yet now he has to. And we know he will likely fail despite it not being his fault. So when you talk about men being mature so women don't have to, I think about responsibility. And I think ab…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/13 09:00 PM
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I may be able to give you some advice, coming from a man who dated 8 years under his age. He could just be threatened by your youth. He's older. Insecure about his age. And knows that tons of younger, better looking guys are around for you. So why would you want to be with him? That's his problem. You can do what you can to remind him you're interested. And that would help. But you can't be his source of relief from insecurities. Maybe just tell him, "Look. There are younger guys around, but if …
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/13 08:18 PM
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Gotcha. That makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 07:06 PM
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Really? Why do we care if they come over and go bananas?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 11:35 PM
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Ha! The other day I was ranting on someone because she said, "Woman give life..." or something like that. And made it seem like that "fact" made woman something more special than men. Which is complete bullshit. Woman incubate life. Men have just as much of a role in "giving" life as woman but it's completely ignored because woman are "...double the value..."
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 11:31 PM
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I've wondered the same... I suspect if I sign up with a paid subscription I wouldn't get the fat-ones. But I just don't care about OKC enough.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 11:29 PM
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Exactly. They we're abusive. That sucks. Learn from it. (it sounds like you already have) But then move on. Bitterness after the fact only hurts you. Use it in the moment to protect yourself and fight back, but then let it go. Cuz at the end of the day, fuck 'em.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 11:28 PM
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To be fair... there are plenty of blue pills out there to fulfill their delusions. But if every man in his 20's, 30's & 40's woke up, these woman would find themselves very, very alone.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 11:20 PM
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Yeah. I don't think it'd be mind-blowing for you or anything. It's very similar to what you've mentioned, which is why I brought it up. But maybe its "packaging" will benefit you in some way. I also viewed it very similarly to Sartre. His Being and NoThingness is very similar philosophically. It's all about being in the moment and how we are no thing. But some of Sartre could also be viewed as Western Buddism.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 04:47 PM
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Thanks! I'll check those out. The Power of Now isn't really Zen or Buddist, per se. His work is very similar in that it's about peace, presence, being... But actually he's just a dude, not a monk or something. He had terrible anxiety problems, then one day woke up and realized it's a BS. Then he spent a couple years in a nearby park staring at birds and shit. If you're into that way of thinking, it's a great book. And it comes from the Western world so it's a little more... graspable? Is that a …
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 04:12 PM
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Have you read The Power of Now? Talking about "being" and "presence" just made me think of it.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 03:56 PM
1

I completely agree about non-attachment. The thing I've struggled with is, how? How do you make the mental shift? And I think I have the answer. Get attached, definitely, but to DOING. Don't get attached the result, but the action. Changing that perspective is difficult. But the thing is, if you start practicing it, the ACT of practicing is DOING. So you will already be on the right path.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 11:12 PM
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I completely agree. That would tell me enough about her to walk away. He gave, she repaid him by withholding.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 09:40 PM
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Well, I think people would only downvote your opinion because you don't really say WHY you think it sucks. There's nothing wrong with your opinion, but it's nice to know why you have it.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 05:59 PM
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You're motivates are subconscious but that doesn't mean you can't access them. As someone who read that book and viewed it as a mirror, I can help you with any questions you might have. I'm a "Nice Guy" to the extreme. Validation and approval are things men with Nice Guy Syndrome do in order to get their needs met. If you're giving a bottle of wine to your professor, are you doing it because of.....? Then there's probably some kind of covert contract involved. Either you want a higher grade, you…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 05:53 PM
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Put your desire into being yourself and always staying in your frame of mind. If you are someone she wants, she'll come to you. If she doesn't come to you, you're not someone she wants. Fuck it. Why bother with one chick when there's a ton out there. If she was really so special, she'd see you in the same way. Don't get hung up on "saving" something.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 05:36 PM
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"But the reason why the video crushed me were those random guys that didn’t commit there life to you, got more out of you sexually than me who lived his life for you." Says everything I'd need to know about her.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 05:22 PM
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Funny you mention that. This is exactly how I found the subreddit, and it's one of my favorites! But I am new here and have noticed how much discussion revolves around women. I'm not here for women. I'm not here to make myself into a better man, in their eyes. I don't give a shit if they like me more or less. I'm here to like me more. The end. EDIT: there vs their....
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 05:06 PM
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I don't see how I could be think poorly about sluts. If it weren't for sluts I'd never get laid! Lol... But you don't date a slut. Not because they're not great people. But there are very few woman out there who can be a slut AND be honest. Would you really tell a guy, "Hey, I can't go out next Wednesday cuz this guy I wanna fuck asked me out first." Probably not. You'd make up an excuse and it would sound like an excuse. Which is fine. But I wouldn't put serious time into anyone who can't be ho…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 04:52 PM
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Yeah. I'm with you on this. Younger is more attractive on average. But older women are more open and better in bed. So if you can find a hot older chick, done!
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 04:11 PM
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Oh wow... yeah, so guys that age are very different. These guys are likely very scared of crossing your boundaries. When I was that age, I was VERY careful of being "creepy". And any girl that even remotely might see me that way ended up just being my friend. They're also probably very shy. They haven't quite learned it's ok to go for it and get rejected, especially if you all are in a close social circle. You just gotta let them know they're not creepy and you're looking for some lovin.
/r/seduction25/11/13 04:00 PM
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Watching your friends is GREAT advice. This is why guys tend to go out with each other. If one of you is having a bad night, you can always sit back and observe. Sometimes that's enough to get you back on your feet.
/r/seduction25/11/13 03:56 PM
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If you're a cuddle buddy, my bet is it's because people think 1) you need to be friends before you are willing to open up to sex or 2) you want a long term thing only Change what they think of you.
/r/seduction25/11/13 03:54 PM
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A lot of this advice can translate, for sure. My simple advice is Touch, Tease and Tell. Touching is the easier way to display interest. Simply touching someone can send signals that you are interested and also jump start their interest. Teasing is all about being playful and carefree. It shows that you are interested but not necessarily tied to them. Tell is all about being honest. It not only forms trust in woman, but in men. It tells the men that it's ok to escalate, that they're not being cr…
/r/seduction25/11/13 03:49 PM
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"Your actions speak so loudly that I cannot hear what you say" -Emerson I like that phrasing of it most, it puts actions first
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 09:17 AM
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A very poignant view into the world. But I was left with a question, So what? Yeah, my Dad wasn't really there. He didn't show me how to be a man. He "let" me raise myself. He was so hands-off I registered myself for school in High School because he wasn't going to force me to go... But where he "failed", I'll succeed. I'll take over. I'll appreciate the good things he taught me and forgive the bad. I'll define myself from here. Would it have been nice to have a perfect Father who raised me "bet…
/r/becomeaman24/11/13 08:53 AM
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Guys here in NY spend a lot of time looking around because we're on subways and walking long distances. My guess is being "hit on" includes subtle glances as a guy passes her or a quick check-out on the subway. Someone new to NY would not be used to this and definitely interpret these actions as being "hit on".
/r/seduction16/08/13 09:22 PM
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"Don't chase." Some of the best advice, right there. If you're not chasing, you won't get one-itice, you don't care whether you screw up, and it's just easier to be you.
/r/seduction10/10/12 07:29 PM
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Well you just summed up my problem 100%. I'm not that interesting... well, I am. But I don't convey it at all. I can have hours worth of conversations with people that will be all about them. Because when I talk to people, I generally listen & support their interests. I don't bring up shit about me, cuz in a way I don't care... But really, we're all interesting. Seriously. I've had great conversations with people who now looking back, were quite boring people. They were just good storytellers so…
/r/seduction25/05/12 04:16 PM
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Exactly. Nice guys are often shy too. So it's not being "nice" that holds them back. Nice guys often think that they can be "nice" and the girls will be so appreciative they'll be the ones to make the first move, whether that first move is a "Hello", first date, first kiss... whatever. Shyness should not be confused with being nice.
/r/seduction25/05/12 03:50 PM
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NP. I also really like what he was saying about trying. Sometimes, it's not whether you succeed that matters, but that you tried. I've often thought that the measure of success should not be whether I come out on top or achieve what I set out to do, but rather that I tried my hardest. I think that's extremely important. So maybe it's good to frame this in both discovery of self and focus on the process. Sort of combine the two and say instead of focusing on whether or not you achieve an outcome,…
/r/seduction30/03/12 09:57 PM
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I think either works. Whether his goal is about approach or numbers, it is all about his priorities. Maybe he's approached a lot of women. A lot of times. And he's good at it by now. Maybe because he feels like it's time to challenge himself a bit further and continue his growth. So instead of setting a goal about approach, he sets it about phone numbers. In either case they're the same. Because when the day's over, it's all about sitting down and analyzing WHY you did or didn't achieve these go…
/r/seduction30/03/12 09:56 PM
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I think yudayajin is hinting at a deeper question. How do you reconcile being "outcome independent" while having goals? Most people naturally focus on the outcome of their goals. I think what your post needs is further guidance on how to take the results from your 3 daily goals as feedback. It seems a bit contradictory because you're telling people to not be outcome focused, then putting them in a scenario where they will be undoubtedly outcome focused. If I create goals, no doubt I will be focu…
/r/seduction29/03/12 08:16 PM
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