This is a post I’ve wanted to make for awhile, especially for the newer guys who are starting out at approaching women/taking action and are going through rough times at the beginning.

 

Back when I first started to really go for it, I would often get discouraged while reading field reports of guys who would stack crazy nights on top of crazy nights, with make outs galore and blowjobs in club toilets while I was going through awful nights of blowout after blowout before finding a set that would stick (which would often lead to nowhere in the end). So doubt started to creep in; am I good looking enough? Will I ever make it?

 

This, of course, is the price to pay to improve at this shit. I had to go through these tough times to understand the lay of the land so to speak.

 

Here’s the thing; if a chick is going to have sex with you, she has to be down to fuck. For a chick to be down to fuck, she must be sexually available to you.

 

This is absolutely crucial. You might be the best dressed, most muscular guy in the fucking place, literally putting everybody to shame, but if no women in the place are sexually available to you, then you will go home empty handed at the end of the night. Some nights, there are literally none.

 

Trying to figure out the reason why is pointless; it could literally be a million things. She might find you truly attractive but you remind her too much of her ex who cheated on her with her sister, she just started her period, she has to move the next day so she doesn’t want to go to bed at 4am after being filled with cock for two hours; it’s quite frankly pointless to try to figure it out.

 

The key takeaway is this; some night it’s just not meant to happen for you. Nobody in this "game" bats a 1.000 (Unless you’re Leo Dicaprio or Justin Bieber). It’s not because you’re not buff/tall/hot/ enough, it’s the just the way the ball rolls sometimes.

 

Also keep in mind that this can swing the other way as well. Some night, you might fuck a chick who was just crazy horny and while you might not be her ideal man, you met her threshold so she was willing to spread them for you. If it wasn’t you, it would have been the next guy. Some girls might want to fuck you and you only while some others just want to get fucked period.

 

TL;DR: At the end of the day, picking up women is a numbers game. You will have days where you’ll have to endure many rejections before something sticks, and some nights, nothing will stick.