I'm not a big fan of long winded analysis and theory work so I will keep this brief.
I've been reading a lot question from guys with plates that are missing the point of a plate.
A plate is something that you spin for a time then you discard. You don't try to get to know it. You don't care about if it's thinking about you. You don't spend a second thinking about where it's been. It doesn't have a history or a future. You don't care if a plate is loyal, honest or good. It's not meant to be a long term investment. It's a fucking plate.
Now if you have a good plate that you have been spinning for awhile and enjoy because of how it serves it's function of making your life better then you can call that a friend.
A friend is not a focus of your life. Your friends should enhance your life and make good company. A friend is someone who you can see outside the bedroom. You can treat a friend with more respect because they EARNED that friendship.
After enough time one can call a friend a long term relationship. Time is relative but I would argue that you should spend 6-9 months making sure that you observe and test the fuck out of your friend.
I wouldn't trust some of my friends with the keys to my home, my bank, my child or my health and some of you guys are doing that with plates you met 3 months ago.
If this doesn't sink in then you are not red pilled enough to realize that you are the prize. You still have more work on yourself.
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I think what you see is the backside of the attention whore, the mommy issues boy, that is a endless pit of needy validation and nurture.
These men forget the essential, women will not make you happy. Whatever your state is now, women will enhance that. If you are insecure, women will make you more insecure. You need to be ok at your default state with yourself and then you can ask of a woman to be ok with you. Women enhance a man's life.
What your life is now, it will be more of it with a woman, be it a player life or the life of the good ol working man. Sometimes the same woman at the same time can be a top bitch for a player, picking up women for him and training them, at the same time as they play supported housewife for a 9 to 5 guy that needs the validation that comes with taking care of a woman.
Women are not made to love you, they love being with you. Their brain is wired to search for a life that can support raising a child. So your emotional issues and insecurities aren't cracks in the man they love, but potential red flags and barriers in the life they are biologically made to want. It's like having a crack on your exhaust in a car vs on a boat. You damn better fix that crack in the boat if you plan on not sinking mid cruise.
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Madonna/whore complex is strong with this one.
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And there's nothing wrong with that.
It still sounds like the complex tbh.
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