In highschool I was 5’7 125 and had long curly hair and looked 12. Im not exaggerating. I hit puberty at 15. Despite these things, I had the captain of my large D1 highschool volleyball team begging to fuck me every night and sexting for about a year. Same situation with a very prominent softball player who was one of the hottest chicks at my school (plus a few other baddies) I didn’t fuck either because I was a pussy back then but the softball player gave me a handy on the first date and the volleyball player like i said just begged me for it. I also was sexually flirtatious with probably 30 chicks who all reciprocated…

Since then, getting women has become monumentally harder for me. Only thing i can think of is im not as lean as i was back then, and also I don’t have the perceived social status that I did in highschool. I’m 5’9 162lbs now and am somewhat skinny fat, which might be affecting my face a lot. And also in highschool, while I wasn’t an athlete, I hung out and was friends/associated with a lot of the popular kids. I feel like being seen with my “crew” At school everyday actually did a lot of the pull for why I was able to secure attractive women so easily and that could also be a reason to blame why it got so much more difficult. I’m living w/a roomie in a 2bd apt in a big city now, was in the military, graduated college, and am making 60k (not bad for Midwest). But I have NEVER been able to pull the type of women that I was able to pull when I was a 5’7 120 pound fuckboy. Can anyone tell me what the fucks goin on?