I've been here for a couple months and have been putting info into action when I can. I wanna tell you guys about a little instance that occurred at the club.

I'm making my way to the bar when a woman in front of me starts barging her way through everyone. Not lightly pushing, but shoving people out of the way. Everyone kinda just lets her go and stares as she goes by. She gets to me and tries to push me over. I put my arm out, stop her, and firmly tell her, "Don't do that. It's fucking rude and impolite." She stares at me and tries to talk back for a second and I just stare her down. And not ten seconds later, she grabs my arm and starts dancing on me and touching me.

It's nothing drastic but it stuck out to me cause in the old days I wouldn't have said anything and let her go right through me. I value myself and in return she values me.