Been a lurker here for the past 7 months, this is my first post.

I ain't all everybody up here is, scoring models on the regular, but am on my path for improvement and this is a major one for me.

What our society has become, as so many have pointed out, is a bunch of pussies feeling sorry for themselves and playing the role of victim.

We all feel violated all the time and nobody does anything but complain. I have been doing this now for way too long. Analyzing what the problem is, even finding a solution (most the time not, just complaining), but then look for reasons for the solution not to work and cry about how much of a victim I am instead.

Major ones for me are: - I am small in a country of big people - I have had pretty bad acne for the past 13 years most of my life now

Solutions: -Won't get taller but with lifting can get bigger (started doing that a couple of weeks ago) -Go see a doctor for the 10th time and go back on medication because that's the only thing that has ever worked

Have some other problems as well but the biggest diffrence between myself now and a couple of months ago is that I have stopped being so patient waiting for problems to solve themselves while I whine, but instead take action and do something about it.

Stop focusing on who you want to become and start focusing on who you want to be. Put yourself before your work, your ladies, your hobbies etc. because you won't find success there if you don't have confidence and self love (or if you find success you self sabotage).

If you look good, you feel good. If you feel good, you do good. If you do good, you get good results.