Struggling with the pill

prinzklaus · 2017-03-05T21:20:31+00:00

Are you saying that the women in bars are unfulfilling to you or unfulfilling to interact with? 2 different things. Just be sure that you're not making women the prize if it's the first scenario, make yourself the prize....improve yourself and you will find more fulfillment (not 100% most likely but it's a start). If it's the second scenario, well...that comes with the territory of talking to women in bars a lot of times.

It sounds like you're not struggling with the pill. You're just having typical worries on dealing with life. I think most guys on here have gone through this or are going through this in some form. I've only been on here a few months, but what I've learned on here has really helped me regain focus on what's important. Myself. Working on improving me has definitely helped my outlook on life. I feel more fulfilled. I still have that craving for a higher purpose at times, but I feel like I'm going in the right direction at least. And that helps a lot.

GregorioThomassoni · 2017-03-05T21:00:50+00:00

What you're describing sounds very similar to my situation, and I only recently got over the obstacle of being turned off by how superficial/dumb/whatever women seem.

Here's the kicker, and it still sounds terrible even to my ears, but it's true: You need to treat them like children.

You wouldn't get scornful and bitter about 'unfulfilling' children. You'd just accept that this is the typical behaviour of children, and adapt naturally.

To word it more diplomatically: You are required to shoulder the responsibility of leading her. Probably not unlike the traditional ways your father may have taught you. In fact, a lot of this TRP stuff is like a modernised, distilled version of those old ways. The old ways were about the man being the leader of the house and family. TRP is exactly the same. Just delete all the sugary Hollywood stuff.

If you're anything like I was, your self-esteem is shit and you feel pressured to act a certain way when you're in a relationship, like you need to put on your 'relationship face' or something. Does that sound familiar at all?

NeoreactionSafe · 2017-03-05T19:17:35+00:00

Just wait until you are 55 like me and have thought like that for decades.

It's grim.

The quality of today's female is seriously worse than my youthful years.

I've witnesses the Blue Pill mythology (as applied by our globalist corporate masters) only get worse and worse each year.

Now I've heard that Disney will push homosexuality.

Imagine that...

First they took Monarchy and turned it into a joke. (the whole idea of the King bowing down to a woman was unthinkable in the 1800's)

Later they "evolve" men into full blown beta males.

And now they are hitting men with homosexuality and probably soon transgenderism.

The final step is to normalize the Pedophile as all these corrupt globalist types have a big hard on for fucking very young children before puberty. It's all part of their satanic ritual abuse, MKUltra, blah, blah, blah... we hear a lot about it these days.

So what to do?

I don't know... we are trying to wake people up and there is some evidence of success, but we are dealing with some seriously dark evil shit behind the scenes with these globalist types.

Basically the globalist criminal enterprise wants to kill off most of humanity.

They do it with the Blue Pill.

Figure out how you want to go... "Enjoy the Decline" and just party your way towards spiritual death... or "Enjoy the Destruction" of the Blue Pill mythology where we get a thrill every time we "Kill the Beta" and wake another guy up.

It's your choice.

TheRedStoic · 2017-03-05T22:47:59+00:00

You're not struggling with the pill. The pill is a toolbox, a praxeology. You don't struggle with a hammer and whether it drives a nail.

You're struggling with the philosophy you used to have about life no longer being effective. You're awake, dreams are no longer your narrative.

The cycles you're going through are normal, that's plate spinning, it's fine, it's healthy. If that's not what you want simply change tactics, but use the same tools. You'll be fine.

The truth is, most people are vapid, boring, and biased, not valuable, women moreso in the Western world. That realization is something you can't really go back from.

You're only learning where to spend your time, you'll get used to it. It hurts because what was believed as likely isn't what is, and that raw knowledge sticks. It hurts. But then you scar and get stronger. Keep at it bro.

BlackJ1 · 2017-03-06T01:21:15+00:00

I know this phrase is beaten down to the ground but it's still something to consider:

"Enjoy the decline"

The world is fucked, and everyone knows it. I sometimes even wonder whether or not I would be better off never learning TRP, but I then again realize that I would of been another average frustrated chump who gets married, cucked, then spend the next 18 years of my life paying child support to my child I can't even see.

Life is what you make of it, if I were you I would make the most out of it. Do things that make you feel happy and free. Never sit around and think about what you could do. Just do it.

kez88 · 2017-03-06T02:50:31+00:00

Your problem is 2 things:

It seems like a big part of you is placing fulfillment you get from life on your fulfillment you get from women, which is just flat out the wrong way to go about things. Make your life awesome and interesting because you love doing things, and women will be a part of it, and usually they'll add more to it.
You're probably the problem. As I briefly mentioned above, you are probably pretty boring, average, not that fun to be around, not cracking jokes, not the life of the party. Think women aren't fulfilling? You're probably not fulfilling to them either.

You say girls are fucking stupid, how smart are you? How fun are you, how many friends do you have etc.

grewapair · 2017-03-06T05:01:53+00:00

You have been chasing a Hollywood dream that never was.

Now that you know the truth, you have a decision to make. Continue to chase a false version of reality that the truth moves further away from every day, or accept reality and live accordingly.

I lift because I feel better than if I don't do it. I cold approach if I feel like it. But I'm not going to invest a whole lot of effort in women because there's no payoff in doing so. So basically don't rethink your initiation strategy, rethink your relationship maintenance strategy. Put the effort into you and cold approach. Then put little effort into ongoing maintenance. If she expects wining and dining, you're being used because she doesn't get that from Chad and yet has no problems sleeping with him when he asks.

Roaring40sUK · 2017-03-06T10:00:26+00:00

You are going through what I think everyone who comes to TRP go through, and I dont think its a straight line.

And as others have said, you are placing too much on the part women can/should play in your life. See them for what they are - a bit of fun.

Setting goals is an interesting one. If you are struggling setting goals, it could mean you are ont he wrong path or maybe havent found the right path yet. meditation and introspection helps with this, I find.

Title	Struggling with the pill
Author	lindsaylohansclit
Upvotes	34
Comments	21
Date	March 5, 2017 6:51 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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