There is a lot of good, very good, advice in this sub. Let's tackle the biggest problem a lot of guys face. Often when you are in your late 20s and 30s you end up living in a place that you canNOT take the girl to for some private time. This could be because you went back to school, share a nasty place with roomates, moved back in with the folks, have safety concerns, or want to prevent stalkers. Soon my place will be off limits because I will be hosting family for long periods of time, have too much valuables lying around, and want to prevent stalker. In the past, I solved this problem by hitting up 3 hotels that I knew I could get a good price at. If one was booked up I would walk to the next. The key is to know how to get a discounted rate at them and make sure they are close to each other and entertainment district of the city. Although this works out pretty fantastic with some girls, I found out about half the girls hate the idea of going to a hotel on the first three dates. Some girls would show up once or twice but then would feel uncomfortable because they are not used to it. A second problem with this method is that it adds up very quickly. I think one year I spent about 3K on hotels. A third problem is that booking and planning interferes with your day/date. I wonder how you guys tackle this issue? It's good to have more than one trick up your sleeve.