Sorry: Ted Talk.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d6wG_sAdP0U

I think this is an interesting and showing example of how older intellectual women approach finding a husband dating.

Some key points:

  • Out of a city of 1.4 Million she only estimates that there are even 35 people she would even bother dating before even meeting them.

  • She didn't recognize initially that men didn't find the same things attractive that women do. (I still don't think she does, her top selling points include speaking Japanese and writing computer programs).

  • She had to do research to find out that being very modestly clothed wasn't attracting many men.