Brene Brown has a real red pill moment in the second video in the last 5 minutes, but if you haven't seen these videos already I highly recommend watching the first video before the second. Each video is 20 minutes. What do you guys think?

First video: http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability.html

Second Video: http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_listening_to_shame.html