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[–]TheCr00k8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You have success with emojis? I generally try to avoid them at all costs, maybe throwing one in if she does first
[–]PhaedrusHunt-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Keep it to winks and devil face
[–]Stanthebell 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
What if you find the whole process, waiting to reply etc, really really boring?
[–]Temptationn0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just know while you “pretend” to be busy while ignoring her text she’s stripping on vid for chad and meeting him that same night. she can care less if you ignore.
[–]anyracetam6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like PUA text game approach for losers. There's no TRP in your post.
[–]thenewme2_02 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I like what you're saying and would like to offer a subtle variation for thought. If you've gone quite a while (a few hours let's say) without receiving a text from her and she's texts you out of the blue, a quick response from you tells her yeah I have my phone on me and I'm looking at it, I obviously wasn't thinking of you though until I saw this pop up. Make sense?
[–]2Dmva1005 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No matter what a girl texts you, never respond or answer the question. The only exception is when setting up logistics. This should be the only time you ever acknowledge or send her texts. It will train her to avoid stupid text-game bullshit with you.
'Why haven't You talked to me today?' Ignore.
'Did I leave xXxX at your place?' Ignore.
'Why aren't you texting me back?' Ignore.
The response to any of these comes when you text back at YOUR convenience:
'Lets talk about it at 8:00pm at xxxx'
Anything beyond an enthusiastic and immediate 'Okay' warrants further ignoring and contacting another option.
[–]greatamericancities1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This. Extreme, but it's proven the best approach for me.
[–]1cappadocianhawk3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I prefer to talk to people in person, or approach them in person so my physique and social skills do the work they are supposed to. Personally I make it clear that if anyone wants to talk to me, they can invite me someplace or they can come to where I am, and then we will talk.
Here's my guide to text game:
Have a busy enough life so you don't live on your phone, when you don't answer texts it's because you're actually out there doing shit.
If she isn't willing to meet up in person, she isn't interested enough. Trying to get her to meet you by texting her is negotiating attraction.
If one of them isn't willing to go out, know other chicks who will. If you don't know any, read the sidebar and raise your SMV.
[–]Smokerbank0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This was already torn down time and time again,you got some things right yet others not so much. I will reiterate the sidebar again:
-keep texting to a minimum, preferably only for logistics
-I see this "delay answering her to keep the dread up and shit" in 99% of posts like this yet you all guys fail to see the bigger picture (or to read the sidebar)
You answer her after 3-4 hours after she texts is not to game her but that you actually are occupied improving yourself (lifting, studying, increasing profits) and that you don't let yourself be distracted by trivial things like these.
I did this and it becomes very easy because it will feel natural, sometimes you will answer almost immediately because it just happened that you were looking at your phone, other times you answer after 5 hours, some other time you don't even answer or return the call because you've been busy all the day.
What I want to extrapolate is that you text, return calls etc based on what you are doing and how much time you have because in this scenario she is in your frame, you are the center (prize), not by how you want her to view you, in this scenario she is the center and this is very bad.
tl dr : make it, not just fake it
[–]ktheguy-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Does this apply to some one in high school? At this level, it seems like texting/ Snapchat are unavoidable when pursuing tail.
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