What's going on Red pill, hope your Killing life out there today. A bit about my self, I am 19 years old and from NZ (just to give you guys a heads up as sexual strategy and social dynamics are a little different around this age group as opposed to 20-25 to 30 +) So I've been lurking TRP for a few months and have realized just how much the knowledge taken from here can affect your life if applied in the right manner. I've noticed difference Shit Tests that are thrown towards my way when approaching girls online or in real life and yes, Some times it just so happens that the girl is simply not into you, but that doesn't mean you should stop trying simply because a girl here and there are the odd few to reject, as I've found that the majority of girls that throw this specific shit test your way are wanting to see if your just another buzzing fly around her head to annoy her, Or if there is something different about you to not be phased by her "confidence shit test". (The test to try to break your Alpha frame.)
Here is an example of a Confidence shit test that was taken on Tinder towards a girl that was about 8.5 /10 (lol that line tho):
- 6 PM Guy: You're gonna need Pet insurance.
- 6:02 PM Girl: Oh god why
- 6:05 PM Guy: Because your pussy is about to get WREKT ;P
- 6:07 PM Girl: Out of 10 I give that a 2
- 6:07 PM Girl: Can Cats even get 'WREKT'? Terrible seriously
- 6:08 PM Girl: But nice try bro
(lets take a second look at the above, yes the line is ridiculous but I like the cheeky ring to it. Have a look at her response, She obviously is not impressed and is trying to bring your frame down, break the alpha frame to that of a Beta by busting his balls. Why? My theory is that she is constantly being hit on by guys on tinder and is used to guys approaching in person while she is out at clubs or bars etc, So she would have her "Bitch Guard" up to swat away the majority of guys without giving second though, below is the continued conversation)
- 6:10 PM Guy: A 2 out of ten is pretty Good, That's only 8 away from 10 - Lighten up and have a Laugh :)
- 6:12 PM Girl: Hahahaha like yeah for a pick up, like 2 is pretty good
- 6:20 PM Girl: Hahaha I'm not serious
- 6:27 PM Guy: Well this one time I got a 1, I learnt the hard way that using a pick up line about incest.. Is not a good way to go.
- 6:27 PM Girl: Wow hahaha
- 6:27 PM Guy: But some seemed to respond really well to that one, So I guess I know what ones are crazies that will need to be black listed :/
- 6:28 PM Girl: Hahaha nah that's not a good one to start a conversation from
- 6:35 PM Girl: Like are you saying im the crazy one or the people that responded well?
- 6:38 PM Guy: The girls that responded well to the Incest line, silly
- 6:40 PM Girl: Oh right haha, duh, what are you doing today? :)
- 6:45 PM Girl: hey? Want to grab something to eat?
Okay, So if your quite familiar with the ways to respond to Shit tests, You will see that I simply Agreed and Amplified, but the "Lighten up and have a laugh :)" Was to give a positive spin to it, to show being un-phased and unaffected by the shit test - You can see from then on out she (seems) to get nervous with all the "hahaha"s and the quick change of negativity to "hahahaha I'm not serious" - But what I want you to notice here is the Times that the messages were sent. I sent the Agree and Amplify statement at 6:10 PM with her sorta condescending reply at 6:12, I purposely didn't reply and she double messages 8 minutes later to let me know she wasn't "serious". You see, Women, Girls, they like to throw shit tests at you for many reasons, but don't ever let your confidence or frame be moved by a test of confidence she may throw your way, as most of the time it's just how women have learnt to shrug off all these men constantly bombarding them.
What I want you to take away from this post is a few simple things:
Be prepared to come across the "confidence shit test" and shrug it off, Remember opinions of the person you are hitting on are supposed to be taken as if they were said by a Child.
Be fun, dominant and in control, Always in control of where the conversation goes and reply when ever the fuck you want to, Don't sit there replying to every message within the minute, you may come across desperate!
Always put a positive spin on the Confidence shit test whether it be online or in person, Girls will notice if your ego gets bruised when they ask you "what do you want" or "why are you talking to me" - Respond in a friendly but cocky, confident manner.
Do not confuse Playing hard to get with actual rejection, Don't be that guy that thinks TRP strategy is going to get you into a girl that has shown strongly she doesn't have interest in you, Being forceful is not maintaining frame. (unless she clearly wants it ;D )
This is my first post, And I hope it may help some of you out, I am not an expert, I am not the master of Putang, But I am how ever a brother of TRP and am willing to try to contribute to the game of Life. To a better, Improved future of you.
Swagyololift
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