I’d like to open up a discussion in regards to a relationship arrangement and even though the greats of TRP have gone left to do better things with their time, I’m especially looking for people who have first hand experience. Mods don’t delete this post, it’s not a personal advice post.

The relationship arrangement would be simple: I get to fuck other women, she doesn’t.

Men like sexual diversity. No matter how good your relationship is, you’re going to want to fuck different women, this is simply an evolutionary trait and you will have these feelings in the future. No way around it. Girls are usually confused by this and when the short busty brunette girlfriend finds out her boyfriend has been jerking it to porn of tall flat-chested blondes, she feels horrible. Mostly somewhere in the lines of “Am I not enough?”

Men appreciate loyalty from their woman. The evolutionary reason behind this is that you don’t want to raise some other guy’s children. Hell, the penis is shaped the way it is so it can scoop up other men’s cum from the vagina you’re fucking. And then there’s the fact that women usually start comparing their lovers to their current boyfriend. “Is he better?” “Should I be with this guy instead?” I think most men would agree that you wouldn’t want your chick fucking other dudes.

Why not have a well communicated arrangement like this? If she doesn’t like it, she doesn’t have to be my girlfriend and just stay a plate. But if she wants my affection and other qualities that come with me as their boyfriend, let me fuck some meat on the side.

The arguments I usually get is:

• “No chick would agree to this” - I know for a fact they would. What I’m interested is how this will play out in the long term
• “She’ll use it as justification to open the relationship and fuck other dudes” - My guy, if she wants to fuck other men, she’ll bring it up either way. It’s usually the most loyal men who end up being on the receiving end of such a proposition anyway. The problem is somewhere else if your chick brings it up.

Interested to hear your thoughts.