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[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 10 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
The thing about this "lie" is that I don't think the women even know they're lying. They honestly don't understand why they aren't attracted to their husbands anymore.
[–]NecroticFury2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
yet instead of blaming themselves they blame their unknowing husbands. These are despicable people who don't deserve an afterthought.
[–]malditoduende 4 points4 points4 points 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Well it is the man's fault. If you're not making your woman wet that is your fault and no one else's. What would the alternative be? That the man has game but the woman intentionally keeps her pussy dry? Please.
[–]NecroticFury2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
some women grow bitter before they grow bored.
They all like the dick. Old or young. She's not wet for you but for someone else, who's fault is that?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
life's. forced monogamy. you get burnt out.
[–]malditoduende 2 points2 points2 points 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Not really man. People don't just stop wanting sex. They stop wanting sex with their spouses. And that's because they're doing something wrong. If you don't want to bone your wife anymore its because she most likely is not as hot as she used to be. That's on her for not working out and eating healthy. If your woman is not getting wet for you at the very least once a week you are doing something wrong. I understand libido decreasing with age but dissapearing?? There's a reason Viagra exists lol
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago [recovered] (0 children) | Copy Link
its not stopping wanting sex, it's just not always exciting in every context. you can get tired of a hot girl. a mysterious alpha will hit setbacks in life and be exposed as mortal.
that said, i misinterpreted your point because i was assuming you were talking about a different amount of sex, my bad. you're right. i think a lot of guys have an idealized and unrealistic expectation of how alpha they can stay and how much they'll keep having or wanting sex in a long term relationship, like you'll always stay in rotate plates mode or in new relationship glow mode fucking 7 days a week.
[–]7rocketz 1 points1 points1 points 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Not sure I agree. The problem with LTRs in western culture is that it eliminates most of a womens competition anxiety. The guy maybe alpha as fuck at work or at life, but when you spend every weekend with other LTR couples she no longer feels she has to compete. Add children to the mix and it becomes more and more difficult to get in a situation with your LTR with a group of say 5 single women and her
[–]1sardinemanR10 points11 points12 points 10 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
It is true that women have much lower sex drives.
I've known some of the biggest sluts around, and they're happy with sex every 3 days. Many women go every other week and think that is a high sex drive.
A man's sex drive is on a order of magnitude multiple times higher. We all know testosterone is responsible for the sex drive, and women have a fraction of it.
Now while I agree with your take on the betas, I don't think that is all there is to it as I wrote above. I actually am in agreement with the Ancient Greeks, who insisted men and women are sexually incompatible.
This is also why I fully endorse spinning plates and thing the very idea of monogamy is utterly absurd. Polygyny makes the most sense for a healthy society. There is definitely an interest in society to keep sex in marriage and have family units. So polygyny takes care of that while keeping both the male and female sexual natures intact. Women's hypergamy is satisfied as well as man's higher sex drives. One woman alone can not possibly keep a truly sexually active, high testosterone man satisfied.
I'm not really one for action, but if men wanted to actually make change the only change I'd support is to legalize polygyny again. Frankly I don't think the government has any business in domestic affairs in the first place, so them at least stepping back on this issue would help.
I don't even know where their moral authority comes from. They try to claim it is Christian, but in the Bible pretty much everyone had multiple wives, so it can't be from there.
[–]slay_it_forward17 points18 points19 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Most guys in the West, including the guys on this sub, are having a hard enough time finding one girl to bang, let alone half a dozen on rotation. This sub wouldn't be here otherwise. I realize plate spinning is advocated here, but lets be realistic. There's a prevailing myth that once you start lifting and approaching that eventually you're going to build a harem of beautiful women. I have no doubt some pull it off but the vast majority I think not.
In other parts of the world, yes. I had a nice harem in EE over the summer but now that I'm back in the West, the market is just to skewed in women's favor for anyone not in the top percentage of SMV to build steady harems.
[–]7rocketz0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
i dont know dude, my little brother is the most alpha mother fucker ive ever met. hes ugly too. and he goes on vacation every couple months cause he needs a break from banging for 4 hrs per day.
[–]RedPillProphet8 points9 points10 points 10 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Agree with you about the difference in sex drive but your conclusion is way off and self serving.
So polygyny takes care of that while keeping both the male and female sexual natures intact. Women's hypergamy is satisfied as well as man's higher sex drives.
No it doesn't. Polygyny keeps few men satisfied at the cost of many. There is roughly an equal number of men and women. For every man getting multiple women, many men are going without any. You are completely disregarding the experience and happiness of the vast majority of men.
The net happiness of everyone is much higher when they are getting some action rather than 1 guy getting lots and many getting none. That is a miserable system. And this is coming from a guy with many plates right now.
[–]NecroticFury-1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
nobody cares about a man's happiness. feminism has made it clear their's is more important.
[–]thehonestdouchebag1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Men care about their own happiness. So when you create a system that excludes and a large majority of men for the benefit of the few you get social tension.
If this were to happen you'd have the male majority being bitter, angry and really with not much to lose. You don't want an angry population with nothing to lose.
[–]NecroticFury1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
sounds a lot like the millennial generation if you ask me.
[–]thehonestdouchebag1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No the average guy is still promised the fairytale marriage. Hope keeps them going, and hope is the first step on the road to disappointment.
[–]Raiden22 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can picture the husband/wife team sitting down in my office. Sweaty, pathetic beta holding her hand as she flirts with me, bats her eyes and says "My libido is low, and I need you to fix it!"
Then she gets Beta Bob to put up the few hundred bucks a month for the medication while she cheeks it and rides the washing machine while her husband is at work.
The funny thing is that at its best in studies it has added basically 1 more sexual encounter a month and the side effect profile hasn't been established. That one extra encounter a month is probably just to shut Bob up about why the medicine isn't working, then she can say "No it's not, I fucked you this month!"
[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Spot on.
Women have a very high alpha libido and a very low, conditional, transactional, "yes if you've done enough for me lately" beta libido.
As witnessed by women divorcing and suddenly finding they want as much cock as they can get - therefore it must have been the husband's fault for repressing her.
[–]afropuffs0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Side note (kinda, I'm staying with the female pill rather than the reasons behind it), Teal Deer did a video about this pill and the big push to get it through trials; and as always, he does fine work.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I've never seen a woman digusted by a guy that's lean. Low libido is just a women grossed out by a slob
[–]moneyandsexislife -1 points-1 points-1 points 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Fuck yes I can buy attraction.
I routinely rent multiple chicks to put out pornstar acting, actions, and initiative.
Found that set of special snowflakes who'll do it for all of your alpha and monkey dancing? For every few lucky cases, I have 25 of my own thanks to their true love.
[–]Hashtagsareuseless5 points6 points7 points 10 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
So, what does that mean in English?
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